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1	The Oncoming Irrelevancy Gen X will face this problem. Not the Boomers. Boomers will have their retirement paid for by the federal credit card. Western governments can all rack up about 150-200% of gdp in debt before the markets will lend no more. Every western government is currently on this trajectory and can continue it for another 10-15 years. That line of credit will be shut down by the time Gen X and Millenials retire. And they will have to pay the debt one way or another.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/18 03:58 AM
1	Do Millennials (esp men) have a tougher time accepting aging because of largely being behind prior generations with life milestones, so our emotional age doesn't match how we feel inside? Keeping our looks matters dearly to us especially if we haven't been married or aren't currently in LTRs. Not just for wanting to still be attractive but simply being treated younger in daily life feels good. It's like being less experienced or making mistakes is forgiven easier, or we're perceived as more fun and enthusiastic, all that feels awesome. You hope to keep passing for a fun twenty something because you dread the day everyone sees you are a 35 year old child, and not in a good way. Yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/18 07:42 AM
1	What Defines Privilege? The "granted" part is not necessary for it to be a privelege. Sometimes it is, other times its inherent in some way. "Granted" implies there was a consensual decision to give the advantage to someone. That's the case sometimes, but other times its junt a result of historical accident/circumstances, or simple application of force. A person can walk into a shop and take something right off the shelf without paying for it if they're the local violent thug everyone is afraid of. It was accepted he h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/18 02:24 AM
1	Am I saying something that doesn’t make sense they act like I’m some asshole? Would you be willing to make a physical ordeal equivalent to an abortion be the price paid by a man for avoiding child support obligations? If it were ethically possible to do this almost every guy would agree to that being fair in a heart beat. And barely one guy in a thousand who wanted to abort would even hesitate to go through that ordeal. OTOH would you agree that any guy who has sex with you has the right to hit you up for one of your children and a $700 bill monthly bill for raising them?…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/18 02:01 AM
1	Women don't choose from all men, they choose from the men they know In the past attractive young women could go to at most one or two clubs/parties per night. And attractive men used to have the same limits. Back in the day even NBA players had to hang out in a bar until late in the evening in order to get laid. Now they just browse hundreds of girls on intagram and dm the ones they're interested in. They've found the most attractive girls in town and had them deliver themselves to their hotel room as easy as pizza. Also the culture has changed. It used to be gu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/18 09:15 AM
1	[CMV] Feminism is the result, NOT the cause of disdain for femininity Head of the house is not the same as being the most powerful. The head of state in Britain is the queen, but she has no actual power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/18 10:24 PM
2	[CMV] Feminism is the result, NOT the cause of disdain for femininity The objective value of raising a child doesn't really matter in this context. What matters is how this process is perceived, which is the point of the whole post. You're contradicting yourself. You say that feminism is not responsible for the devaluing of femininity. And then point to attitudes towards motherhood as an example. But those attitudes are a new thing. Prior to feminism motherhood, and indeed femininity were extremely highly valued. Almost all of your post seems to assume your own at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/18 05:50 AM
1	[CMV] Feminism is the result, NOT the cause of disdain for femininity continuing existence of constitutional amendments The US does not have any constitutional amendments protecting women's right to work or any women's rights at all. There was a proposal to put it into the constition, but eventually it lost support since it would have made drafting only men unconstitutional amongst many other unwanted side effects. Some hardcore feminist still support an equal rights amendment but most don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/18 05:37 AM
1	Q4RP - should a man be stoic or fun? Its easily possible to be stoic and fun. Stoicism means not lettitng your situation dictate your emotions. You win the lotto, you don't get over the top excited. Your child dies, you don't let that make you depressed and unable to futnction. It does not mean being grim and serious all the time. During the blitz of Britain of WWII Londeners famously went about their business as normally as possible despite having bombs dropped on them most nights. They maintained their humour about things and tri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/18 05:22 AM
1	If men want more feminine women, they should support feminism and egalitarianism. The dimensions they use to measure gender differences are willingness to take risks, patience, altruism, positive and negative reciprocity I'm not even sure what those mean in practice for more feminine behaviour. They don't seem to explain what those differences are anywhere in their paper. It certainly does not directly mean anything what people stereotypically imacine as feminine. They also struggle to differentiate between how "feminist" (gender equal) and how wealthy they are. They've tried…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/18 10:13 PM
1	Q4M: Do you really all aspire to look like this? ConnorMurphy gets strong attentdon from a subsection of women who have that particular fetish. The vast majority of women strongly prefer a much less muscled man. Parts of Adriana Lima are stunningly attractive to men. Her face and attitudeand long legs. Her body is very attractive and not too far from the ideal. But if she were naked in a porno with a less attractive face her body on its own would not stand out and would get less attention from the vast majority of men than a bustier, bootier t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/18 11:19 AM
1	Q4M: Do you really all aspire to look like this? Men's body image is a seperate thing to what women find sexually attractive. Men want things for their body that women think are unattractive. They still want them even when they know women find them unattractive. So men work unbelivably hard to get those grotesquely over muscled bodies you see on body builder magzine covers. And their superheroes often have bodies more like the Hulk. The same thing happens with women's ideal body image. Women genurally esteem model's bodies. Very tall and thin,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/18 06:59 AM
1	After a year of #MeToo, American opinion has shifted against victims You also have to remember there wee multiple rape stories pushed hard by the national media that turned out to be completely false, and some were even ridiculous in hind sight. The media's credibility is very low today. So even if every major media outlet is pushing a specific metoo story most people are just treating that as something people are saying rather than anything authoritive. The entire media has fallen down to just another person's opinion in the eyes of the public. The low standard …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/18 06:49 AM
10	After a year of #MeToo, American opinion has shifted against victims Half the senior democrats have pics of them smiling with Harvey Weinstein and/or spent time on the lolita express. The feeling in the country is that all the insiders knew what Weinstein was doing so no-one can credibly claim their friendship with Weinstein means nothing. Hollywood's ranmpant sexual harrassment and close ties to the democrats has probably already elmininated most of the potential democrat 2020 candidates. Anyone doing due diligence on major democrats for 2020 is finding compromi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/18 06:41 AM
1	CMV: Men do not like insecure women. They just wish their oneitis was liked them enough to be clingy. every [top 5%] man has a 'crazy' (e.g. insecure and clingy) ex girlfriend. Just insert that "[top 5%]" in front of the word man every time you see a post like this and it makes sense. The other 95% of guys don't exist in their mind so when they say "men" you have to mentally re-word what they said like that so you know what they are talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/18 05:03 AM
5	CMV: Cuckoldry would be the ideal form of relationship if was normalized Threads like these are what I like about PPD. You have logical women explaining what they want without filtering themselves. Its like accidentally opening a door into exactly what many women are subconsciously thinking and having them explain what you see for you as well. Especially when you know the basic pattern. This is what I want This is what you need to feel/believe/do for me to get it. Its nice when its stated explicitly like op has done here. Most of the time women communicate these extr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/18 12:38 AM
16	Company wants to interview me - I look at their feminist infested website and nope the hell out Except women actually like that kind of role. No responsibility yet are still "in charge" of something.	/r/MGTOW	11/10/18 01:15 AM
1	Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were Fatherless Pretty much everything a "nice guy" does is a man trying to use feminine methods of interacting with people. Expecting to be accepted by groups just for being nice to people intead of proving himself. Being covert and coy about being attracted to a woman and hoping that just being her friend and supporting her will make her fall in love with him. Being unassertive and covert about what he wants and hoping people will read his mind and just give it to him. Being afraid of being loud, assertive an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/18 07:35 PM
5	Q4All: How have your friendships with women affected your views of gender relations? Learnt more about TRP from female friends than from romantic partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/18 07:30 AM
1	Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were Fatherless Its one of the fundamental differences between boys and girls. For some reason boys are extremely sensitive to role modelling and need a lot more of it than girls just to be functional. Or perhaps they just don't get an much exposure to male role models since they're raised in mostly female environments between school and childcare and a single mother. Either way, societies that fail to program up boyn with quality role modelling are screwing themselves in the long term. When I meet loser guys i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/18 01:31 AM
1	I hope you all learned your lesson I found the lesson from the purge is a sense of community and civil standards comes at the cost of making things boring and less honest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/18 01:16 AM
2	The elephant in the room: Most men are prostitutes for gay men at some point in their lives. She fucked an older dude for money and does not want to feel bad about it. So she's projecting/pretending fucking older dudes for money is normal by saying other people do it too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/18 10:01 AM
1	Anyone else think this Purge was a great idea? I'm surprised how much better PPD is during purge week. Normally its pretty boring around here with the same opinions on repeat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/18 09:56 AM
4	Why is it that men are allowed to throw tantrums but women are not? Scary Kavanaugh on the Supreme Court. In an atmosphere as partisian as that, with parties reversed, yes. Definitely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/18 11:42 AM
6	Do women really prefer older men or it is that men prefer younger women? Or a combination of both? Women prefer men a few years older than them until the men get to about 50-55. Women do not prefer men in their sixties, even when they reach that age themselves. Men prefer 20 year olds, regardless of their own age. Probably even younger than that since the source data cuts off at that age. Source, the okcupid blog.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/18 11:37 AM
3	CMV: Women should ignore broke, financially unstable men for the good of society. That's actually a deeply feminine statement. Impressive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/18 01:33 AM
1	CMV: Women should ignore broke, financially unstable men for the good of society. If you still believe all this when you're 60 you'll have my respect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/18 01:29 AM
1	Women who commit paternity fraud should go to jail The guy might trust his partner. But there is no reason for the government to trust her. And to reason for newry born child to trust her. Mandatory paternity testing in not for the "father's" benefit. Its for the government to track paternal responsibilities correctly, *and for the child to know its biological heritage". Look at aty argument in favour of leaving paternity awareness in the hands of the mother and you run into a conflict of interest between the child and the mother. Whose rights m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/18 01:24 AM
1	CMV: Women should ignore broke, financially unstable men for the good of society. About 1% of women are worth $10k before sex. If everyone followed your rules almost no-one would get laid. You're describing a Donald Trump view of the world. Women should be beautiful and men should be tall, dominant and rich and use that money to attract women. If its about money for sex then make the most of your window and hope your guy stays too dumb to understand you. There is an army of women ready to replace you and a younger more beautiful competitor turns eighteen every minute. When sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/18 01:06 AM
1	Q4 Incels - How is that every man on My 600lb Life has a wife or girlfriend and you do not? Yeah incels, all you have to do is find a women who is so fucked up she'll feed you until you're so fat you can't walk so you'll never leave her. You just have to find a covert control freak who hides their mental illness/co-dependence by making you fat nobody notices. Just revel in the shame of being a 600lb slob and you could be this happy too. Its win/win.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/18 12:51 AM
2	When a whore supports another whore... This is what our society has become... Or she really was getting dick, but did not want to feel like a slut so she retold the story in her mind until it became the above and needed other people to believe it so she could too.	/r/MGTOW	05/10/18 11:54 PM
1	How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Allegations (X-Post) Nah, there's actually advice on RP about it. Things like doing a follow up text the next day and making sure she does not feel like a slut. And you have to remember guys are not just worried about rape allegations. They're also worried about accusations from women they know reasonably well. and even things like getting me too'd in the work place. It was interesting seeing that men have use completely different strategies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/18 08:33 PM
1	MtFtM detransitioner here. I lived as a cute passing trans girl for 2 years, then detransitioned back to male. People were undeniably nicer to me when I was a girl. Women started conversations with me in elevators. People asked me to hang out. Now as a male I feel like a ghost and I'm very lonely Hang out on r/GenderCritical if you're feeling lonely. They'll love you for detransitioning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/18 10:22 AM
1	MtFtM detransitioner here. I lived as a cute passing trans girl for 2 years, then detransitioned back to male. People were undeniably nicer to me when I was a girl. Women started conversations with me in elevators. People asked me to hang out. Now as a male I feel like a ghost and I'm very lonely Generally not strangers as much. Guys are a lot more in-group focused and if you don't have your own group of long term friends it can be very lonely. If you want to talk to stranger guys you have to earn it a little bit. Show you're worthy of talking to in some way first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/18 10:20 AM
2	MtFtM detransitioner here. I lived as a cute passing trans girl for 2 years, then detransitioned back to male. People were undeniably nicer to me when I was a girl. Women started conversations with me in elevators. People asked me to hang out. Now as a male I feel like a ghost and I'm very lonely I've read it. She's not a great writer but the experience is so unique its still a good read. I can see why women are surprisingly uninterested in it. I feel she censors herself a bit, but who knows. But she seems to end up with a pretty realistic perspective on a lot of the main parts of being a guy. Some stuff she misinterprets (I think). For any women who wants to understand men better I can't think of a better starting point. Its more informatiwe than anything you'll read here. But that does…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/18 10:17 AM
1	How To Protect Yourself From False Rape Allegations (X-Post) Its meird how thin being satirical actually highlights how this is a real problem for guys, and that the techniques women use to keep them safe are something guys are going to have to come up with their own equivalent of. I was kind of hoping that this list would be helpful for guys too but its clearly not. Last but not least, even if you follow all these tips, you could still be falsely accused. After all, no matter what steps you take to prevent it, it's simply a fact of life that every year, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/18 09:45 AM
1	Is it harassment to call someone "baby"/"babe?" It is how it works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/18 11:31 PM
1	Is it harassment to call someone "baby"/"babe?" Sexual harrassment is "unwelcome sexual attention". That's the literal legal definiton. Its always in the eye of the beholder. There are no objective standards for what is sexual harrassment behaviour and probably never will be. Because its defined by how the recipient of the attention feels. Not what anyone did. That is very unlikely to change. You could be Tom Brady walking up to a girl in your underware and "Want some boom boom?" and its not sexual harrassment. And you could be an ugly nerd w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/18 09:31 AM
7	r/TheRedPill quarantined Why the hell would the CIA silence feminism? They've been funding it since the 60's. http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/opinion/commentary/ct-gloria-steinem-cia-20151025-story.html	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/18 11:25 PM
1	Is there generally a correlation between how cocky a woman is and how high-status the guy she's dating/sleeping with is? There is a correlation between how confident/cocky the guy is and how good her tits look.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/18 11:20 PM
1	What is the most important philosophical difference between red and blue? Different genetically hardwired gender behaviour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/18 01:46 PM
1	Where do lesbians fit in to the red pill I would assume they were fantasizing except for what I've seen IRL and how closely it aligns. I'm not comparing, there's just something similar about the discussions. I don't know if there is something similar about the situations which leads to similar discussions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/18 08:03 AM
1	Where do lesbians fit in to the red pill Some RP chads have had a fairly extensive experience with lesbians. They basically say that some lebians occasionally get a cravitg for dick atd will basically seek out a discrete high quality chad for a pounding. It does not affect their identity as a lesbian or their sexuality outside of that. This even includes nome butch lesbians. Its just writing on the internet but I have heard of it from IRL chads I know. Its interesting you're GC. I spent a bit of time lurking there and similarity of GC …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/18 06:37 AM
1	Tinder Studies Part Deux Wilt Chamberlain calculated that he slept with 20,000 women. He estimated it based on a two week sample where he kept track. It works out to meeting a new woman and sleeping with her every day and a half or so, for decades.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/18 02:36 AM
1	Discussion: So the natural order of things is to get rid of low quality men. But what about low quality women? Because the women who could not reprodice were rapidly bred out of the gene pool. There is a sweet spot for hip width and if a woman falls outside of it her ability to have children and survive is greatly restricted. Until recently women were/are constantly "evolving" to stay in that sweet spot with those that fall outside of it dying off. human race has always been in a state of growth It has not always been in a state of growth. Humans are one of the least genetically diverse major species on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/18 12:37 AM
1	Discussion: So the natural order of things is to get rid of low quality men. But what about low quality women? Their children's genes are improved by mating with high quality men. Especially for humans, simply being able to get pregnant and give birth to healthy children and nurvive that process is far from a guarantee. Genetically low quality women are unable to give birth or die during childbirth. The fatality rates for childbirth are crazy high. Even with modern medicine its a more dangerous process than anything most men will face in their life. Before modern medicine it was a nightmare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/18 11:51 PM
1	Why do you think "Career Women" are mocked? They also forget that men make the sacrifice of time with their children and family. In a two person household its generally the man that focus's on his career and earning extra income which means 60-70 hour weeks. They are the ones getting home at 7pm at night too tired and stressed to enjoy any time with their kids until the weekend. Meanwhile the wife has a lot of choice about the hours she wants to work and is the one that spends much more time with the children. That's just the way it works…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/18 08:44 PM
3	Depression after going MGTOW? I just want to create beautiful things You have no idea how lucky you are. You already know what you want to do. You know how few people ever learn that about themselves? And you already know it at 21 years old. And you know that women will suck the life out of you and kill your dreams. You already won the lottery. Its go your own way. Not stand around moping your own way. So where are you going? What's your journey going to be? There are only two answers "I'm going <insert destination here>" Or…	/r/MGTOW	17/09/18 09:35 AM
1	Bisexual Beta Male Bonobos and Sexual Selection Imagine feeling the only way to cure your loneliness was to fuck people you don't really want to You've just described the woman's point of view for many relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/18 08:12 AM
1	The most attractive trait in a man is willpower The indian guy actually succeeded in producing an affordable ladies hygeine product and has a factory making them today. Is that still addiction, or success?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/18 12:56 PM
1	The most attractive trait in a man is willpower There's a guy in india who became obsessed with making a better ladies hygiene product. He saw a problem and just did everything he could to gind a way to make cheap quality ladies hygeine products so the women of india would have a better solution. Along the way he was ridiculed for his obsession. He was constantly doing discusting things like trying to get used pads and examining them carefully. I think it cost him his marriage and everyone became digusted with him in general. But I'm sure he'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/18 10:57 AM
10	Are people who get friendzoned acting entitled or are they just acting with low confidence? They're trying to gain a romantic partner by imitating what women do. They're opaque about their feelings to avoid rejection and instead befriend the person. They hope that proximity on its own will create attraction. And also hope that hints about their true feelings will cause the other person to make a move. Guys who spend a lot of time in the friend zone have simply never learnt the difference between how men chase women, and vice versa. They copy what they've seen women do and don't realise…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/18 07:29 AM
1	What Does It Mean For Good Men (GMs) If ... In my opninion only the last point actually matters. And making it sate funded dooms it to failure. Any state funded program will inevitably compete with and lose to female interests. Both in the amount of resources available, and in the fights over the curriculum. You've stated the basics of making men more attractive. But I also disagree with the focus here. Its improvement in ways that make men more attractive/useful to women. I think you need to come up with your own definiton of what a good…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/18 09:52 AM
1	What Does It Mean For Good Men (GMs) If ... if there is a general absence of non-black pilled platforms which are dedicated to the discussing the above kinds of topics rather than to general zealotry and worshipping the damnatio memoriae? There needs to be some kind of core idea about how a non black pill solution can work for such a community to exist. The only ones that currently do are tradcon. They have red pill views and a social structure that accepts that and makes it work. But they require believing in irrational things. There is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/18 06:33 AM
1	What do you do that pleases the opposite sex? Understand their personality and reflect back to them the good bits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/18 06:38 AM
1	Question about dread game If a woman has to compete for your partner's attention/affection it can make a relationship more satisfying for a woman. This sounds a little insane but seems to work. If he's got other women interested in him it makes the woman feel he is more attractive. If you're the only woman who wants him then it can make him neem undesirable. Women treat relationships a bit like a competetive game. If you have to up your game (dress better, be sexier) to get his attention it makes your relationship feel m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/18 12:02 AM
1	[CMV] Sex for Validation is the result of emasculated males The weakest person you'll meet is an someone recovering from major surgery after long illness. Their therapy is all about resistance	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/18 11:26 PM
1	[CMV] Sex for Validation is the result of emasculated males That's an interesting pernpective. Men tend to think resistance and difficulty creates growth. Hence you need challenges and even failure to grow to your potential. But I can see why women think the way you describe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/18 12:59 PM
1	[CMV] Sex for Validation is the result of emasculated males The oft repeated concept of Sex for Validation is the result of weak, emasculated and effeminate males. And largely the result of boys being raised in a feminized environment without strong masculine role models. Single mothers only being one component of this (a feminised child care and school system, an increasingly feminized political system, a general diffusion of the therapeutic society, being others). You're on the right track but you've got a typically feminine understanding of "a real ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/18 10:13 AM
1	What is the single, strongest evidence you have to discredit the other pill(s)? edited	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/18 06:07 AM
1	What is the single, strongest evidence you have to discredit the other pill(s)? But they aren't children or irresponsible teenagers. The line is "oldest teenager in the house". Not irresponsible teenagers. There are plenty of responsible teenagers. There are plenty of very responsible women. What makes women and teenagers similar is the need/desire for someone else to set and maintain their boundaries. And their need to test boundaries in order to accept them. They need and want someone else's leadership. There also plenty of "men" that do the same, especially today with so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/18 11:21 AM
3	Q4RP: How can a woman be more "rational"? You can't do that on the internet. You can get information here. But you can't know if its true just by reading it. Whether its true is something you'll have to go out into the real world and verify for yourself. I did that. Almost everyone who accepted TRP did it that way too. Its why forums like this rarely change the mind of any RPer back to BP. They've seen it with their own eyes, out in the real world. Nothing said on this forum has more weight than that. Start looking so you can decide for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/18 11:54 AM
1	Q4RP: How can a woman be more "rational"? Ahh, but you said "If". The doubt is already there. Now you'll have to remove that doubt somehow to get all the way back to stage 1. Do you think you can do that? Remove all doubt that TRP might have some truth to it? ALL doubt? Or will that "splinter in your mind" force you to keep asking questions, even when you know you're not going to like the answers? Can you stop? I didn't want to believe it either. Just like in the movie, for the longest time I couldn't believe it. It just seemed too craz…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/18 11:35 AM
1	Q4RP: How can a woman be more "rational"? Denial Anger Bargaining <-- You are here "If that's true," Depression <-- (soon to be here "it's fucking depressing") 1 Acceptance	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/18 11:20 AM
1	Q4RP: How can a woman be more "rational"? I don't think of women as less intelligent or intellectually inferior. But the way women use intelligence/logic is different to men. Men are usually trying to get an understanding of the world. Once they can get an understanding of it they will subordinate what they believe to what they have learnt. (or get really angry at the part of the world that disagrees and try and kill it). The nature of many men's approach (though certainly not all) to logic is to gain accurate information about the worl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/18 10:54 AM
3	How not to be a glib narcissistic sociopath with TRP? Find out what you really care about. If you don't know ask yourself what yeu hate? When's a time you felt real hatred for something or someone? From this you can develop a code of ethics for yourself. Once you have it, stick by it religiously. We used to depend on society/church to do this for us, but they can't be trusted any more so you have to do it yourself. What is your code? If you don't know you'll feel lost. Try a lot of things. You're still young so make the most of that. Everything you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/18 11:58 AM
1	The deep seated ego blow from a man's rejection I personally think that the reason that boys now grow up into men who can not face the most existential, threatening, and powerful question a man will ever face can be boiled down to a simple reason. A lack of male hierarchy. Its interesting that you came up with that specifically as the reason, and that you're a women. Thinking about it, it makes sense that you would interpret the problem that way. Women really struggle to understand male development. Youtend to understand men only in terms of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/18 07:35 AM
0	Q4All: What exactly is a manchild? When you vet someone, you're doing it for what is important to you and the life you want. If the person themself is important then that's what you vet for. If their ability to handle certain things is what is more important, then you vet for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/18 05:05 AM
0	Q4All: What exactly is a manchild? You don't have to be prepared for it if how they get through it is not the reason you love them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/18 04:54 AM
1	Q4All: What exactly is a manchild? You can't just magically make any technology there is an economic de and for. You can only make the technologies that current scientific knowledge knows how to do. The internet is possible because Maxwell figured out what electromagnetic radiation is. The pill was possible because of research into hormones. And that research was not driven by economics. The theoretical and experimental work that created this knowledge was done in academia or even people's spare time decades, or even hundreds of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/18 04:29 AM
1	Q4All: What exactly is a manchild? vet for a post pregnancy dead bedroom or a man's midlife crisis? How are you going to vet for how a woman will deal with the death of a child or a Late term miscarriage, How will you vet for how a man will respond to losing a career of 20 years at 40? How do you vet from whether or not a man will develop A medical opioid addiction after he becomes disabled at work? Understand their inner character. A lot of people who are surprised at their partner's change to life events like this just did not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/18 04:22 AM
1	Q4All: What exactly is a manchild? That you replied... ? I didn't make your response to my comment. You did. If you're not interested why wouldn't you just ignore it? Whose got time to get worked up about blather you don't care about. But either way I'm just as interested in other people's point of view on what I said. So if I knew you don't care I'd still have made the comment. Its a public discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/18 03:11 AM
1	Q4All: What exactly is a manchild? Or its technology (including birth control) making traditional social/sexual structures impossible, or both. Which one is a really interesting RP discussion to have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/18 03:03 AM
1	Q4All: What exactly is a manchild? Why would I know that? or care? If your opinions are valid let them stand on their own. If you want letters after your name to make people accept your statements then find an audience that believes things based on the hierachical position of the author. If you want your relationship to give you that status, find an audience of women. Who you are, or who I am doesn't make either of our opnions any more true. Whether a statement is true or false is independent of the identity making it. If its fal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/18 01:23 AM
1	Q4All: What exactly is a manchild? lack of creativity in discovering new masculine roles in our changing technological climate. That seems to be the fundamental problem. TRP offers a solution to some men in the form of turning themnelves into a guy who is sexually attractive to women. That is a masculine role that men can take on which technology will not be enabling women to encroach on any time soon. But even here technology is taking this away. Dating apps and nocial media have produced hyper-hypergamy to the point that guys w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/18 01:10 AM
1	Q4All: What exactly is a manchild? Men's preferences for reading marterial are different to women and boys. They have a much stronger preference for non-fiction. Fictional stories are important for boys as they need vividly painted role models to emulate and clearly defined beginning/middle/end stories to see value systems in action and then internalise them. But once a boy enters adulthood substantial amounts of fiction just becomes escapism. Its fine as a bit of entertainment, but any man who is serious about what he wants to b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/18 12:53 AM
1	what would happen if men had babies and women peed standing up? When the most nuccesnful men prove themself and then procerate in large numbers, their superior genes pass on to a large number of children and improve the gene pool. As their unsuccessful competitors fail to reproduce their bad genes are weeded out. A successful women can otly produce at most a dozen children successful man can produce hundreds. Do the math of what that means for evolution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/18 02:39 AM
1	what would happen if men had babies and women peed standing up? Ants have not evolved beyond being ants in 140 million years. If the only purpsoe of humans is survival and no-one minds slowly devolving into a clone incapable of change then that would be the way to go. You need males to create the variety and extremes which allow us to experiment to become better than we are today. A species of clones will become conformist and slowly sink to the lowest common denominator.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/18 02:33 AM
6	what would happen if men had babies and women peed standing up? Every time fathers met each other for the first time they'd brag about how long and painful their childbirth was. Hi, I'm Mike. 16 hours. No painkillers. And they'd never stop reminding women that they were tougher than them because they go through pregnancy. I'm always surprised when I think about it that women don't play this card every time a man tries to tell her how tough he is. Society has very little danger for men today compared to the past. Any mother today has face more physical pain a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/18 02:19 AM
1	Why the emphasis on female hypergamy and not chad's polygamy by men's groups? We don't need to speculate on why evolution programs this behaviour. We can just observe what we're seeing in the dating market today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/18 11:23 PM
1	Why the emphasis on female hypergamy and not chad's polygamy by men's groups? If women keep dating chad they won't be interested in the mongamous guys. They'll all be waiting for their turn and remaining single, or dating guys they're not attracted to until that opportunity comes along. They'll be serially monogamous, perhaps, but with one eye on the best they can do. Which will be their turn with chad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/18 09:33 PM
1	Why the emphasis on female hypergamy and not chad's polygamy by men's groups? Scare quotes are used to cast doubt on a word or phrase, or to emphasize that the word or phrase is being used as a euphemism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/18 09:13 AM
1	Why the emphasis on female hypergamy and not chad's polygamy by men's groups? Assymetric numbers. Look at the following example. One hundred men. One hundred women. 99 of the men are monogamous. One single chad is not. Its unrealistic for every person to be perfect. There will always be a couple of bad eggs. How many women need to be hypergamous for chad to have slept with, alpha widowed etc with so many that monogamy stops being an option for many of the 99 "good guys"? 20, 40, 70, all of them? Even if only a tiny percentage of chad alpha's are polygamous they can ruin m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/18 02:25 AM
2	How can a modern society incentivize monogamy? Take away anything that makes single motherhood more likely. That is how western society traditionally enforced monogamy. So remove any child support from the father. Either for out of wedlock babies or in divorce. Divorce laws that give fathers automatic equal custody, or even presumed primary custody. Remove any single mother specific welfare. Make government assistance for children/parents only available to married couples. Also make birth control and abortion socially acceptable. Most of tho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/18 08:22 PM
1	How many women are actually worth men's commitment? About 30%. You'll see a lot of comments in this thread saying it depends on the guys values, or what he is looking for etc. Which is just a convinient way of equivocatitg the point to dodge the question. So I'll make it really clear. 30% of women are capable of being a good marriage partner. You can eliminate 70% straight away. Then from that remaining 30% you can look for the things you both value and compatibility. But 70% are just never going to be what a good marriage for both partners and t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/18 07:45 AM
1	Millennials as parents; gender elimination; outcomes for children There's no reason to destroy the confidence and self esteem of 95-99% of young girls so the tiny percent of women who are masculine can have an ideal childhood. Unfortunately those masculine women shape the agenda of everyone and they're too self centered to accept other women (and boys) are different from them. Instead they try to force their preferred childhood on everyone and expect it will turn all kids into people like themselves. Its quite narcissistic, but nolpisism plus masculine women e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/18 02:32 AM
1	If Men's Rights is so critical - why are there no actual MRA groups protesting on the frontlines, causing civil disobedience, really making their voices heard? Why is MRA limited to sullen bitter internet forums? That is much more effective than protesting	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/18 06:36 AM
3	If Men's Rights is so critical - why are there no actual MRA groups protesting on the frontlines, causing civil disobedience, really making their voices heard? Why is MRA limited to sullen bitter internet forums? It hasn't been back in the day for a long time now. World works different today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/18 06:35 AM
1	Q4MEN: In what ways does a woman make you feel incredibly masculine? Simpler to just do it in a bar. Have half a dozen guys out together. Choose one guy as the "leader". Everyone calls him "sir" and like he's low-key in charge. Girls wonder what it is about him. Girl starts talking to him. He does the subtle head nod to the other guys to let them know he wants to be alone with her and all the guys move to another part of the bar. Asks the girl he she wants a drink. Another subtle head nod and one of the guys comes over and takes their drinks order and brings it b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/18 05:36 AM
6	If Men's Rights is so critical - why are there no actual MRA groups protesting on the frontlines, causing civil disobedience, really making their voices heard? Why is MRA limited to sullen bitter internet forums? What excuse? Guys can see political solutions will not work so they went and came up with something else that does. Created the manosphere and the red pill. Worked out the fundamental source of their problems and worked out tactics and strategies for dealing with that. Shared them, refined them developed the philosophy. Realised change through politics is not going to happen so instead came up with things that work without needing to change the world first. You're participating in that process r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/18 05:28 AM
1	If Men's Rights is so critical - why are there no actual MRA groups protesting on the frontlines, causing civil disobedience, really making their voices heard? Why is MRA limited to sullen bitter internet forums? Its not the 60's any more. Mass protests don't work today and large scale civil disobedience the way it was done back then will not work. The elites redesigned society after the civil rights movement to prevent a repeat of that and they were quite successful. The only reason people protest today is to feel good. No-one who takes political outcomes seriously has acheived much of significance through protest in 20 years. It does not work that way any more. Hasn't for decades and men are not intere…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/18 01:22 AM
1	Q4MEN: In what ways does a woman make you feel incredibly masculine? I feel like guys should get together to create scenes like this to help each other get laid. It would be so easy to set up one of your friends like this	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/18 12:11 AM
3	Q4All: What is the current state of men? I don't do relationships any more. I'm not interested in being what women need to feel happy in one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/18 09:33 AM
1	Q4All: What is the current state of men? Men thought this whole feminism stuff was meant for them too, and that they could escape the male gender role It wasn't even that. I know I grew expecting men and women to be the same. All that stuff about an equal partnership etc. It was a huge shock to realise my relationships were unnuccessful because I believed and acted on all that bullshit. If I had just known at a young age that all that feminist stuff is not true I would have lived my whole life differently and been a lot happier, but al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/18 08:59 PM
1	Why do married men become pussy whipped? You live your life choosing which risk/rewards are acceptable. A casino has risk. But you'll never get anywhere there because the odds are deliberately against. Only a fool risks it all in a game like that. There are plenty of risks it life worth taking. Plenty that are not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 11:24 PM
1	Why do married men become pussy whipped? Set boundaries. Stick to them. That means when they are crossed, you have to end the relationship. Divorced, don't see kids much, paying child support. Broke. Modern divorce laws mean men cannot set real boundaries withou risking it all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 09:59 PM
1	Q4Men: What would it take to put an end to male disposability? It can be done. Its just much harder than it looks. Women will constantly try to invade and/or destroy such places. So it needs a plan, constant effort to prevent its invasion and sabotage. It also requires covert or even manipulative tactics to keep it that way. Anything less than that and it will not last. Men expect that they don't have to do anything more than declare it male only. Its not that simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 02:16 AM
1	Q4Men: What would it take to put an end to male disposability? That will never work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 02:11 AM
1	Q4Men: What would it take to put an end to male disposability? MGTOW	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/18 11:25 PM
1	Raising my son made me question what female empowerment is doing to boys That would be the case in the absence of the bias about male development I mentioned. But the feeling that real men are just born and helping boys develop is therefore counterproductive is the driving reason for this particular lack of interest, even hostility. Solipsism on its own would not explain women's approach to their own sons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/18 11:26 PM
1	Does anyone here deny women have it easier finding/keeping relationships? Sex yes, relationships no. Women are not able to feel attracted and attached to the majority of of men, so its not easy for them to find a relationship. Attaching to an average partner requires the to overcome their lack of enthusiasm for it which is a lot of mental work	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/18 09:01 PM
2	Question for red pills: in your opinion, what does a positive masculinity look like? It depends on the community you belong to. There are not many behaviours that are universally masculine and positive. Without belonging to a quality community that clearly defines what it expects of men in a well thought out systematic way its very hard for a guy to have positive masculinity. The absence of communities like that today is the reason its so difficult to know what it is at the moment. There are universal emotional drivers like aggression, risk acceptance, but without values, codes …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/18 04:59 AM
2	why do approx 2/3rds of divorced men remarry? The most important thing in life for a man is to have some sort of role. Some sort of purpose. Its literally more important than life itself. When boys are 6-7 they start looking for that role. They immitate their role models and want to be them more than anything else. Over the next few years up to the age of about 12-13 that gets programmed into them and is then permanently wired for the rest of their life. Western/christian civilisation is largely built on programming boys to take on the role…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/18 11:01 PM