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| 11 | If somebody's wife hit on you, would you hook up with them?Quick story. In my early 20s I worked as a tennis coach at a country club. Our tennis shop manager entered into an affair with one of the women in our tennis program. Her husband found out somehow and ended up gunning down our tennis shop manager as he left his home, was a huge story in our town. Needless to say I was scared straight after seeing that and would never touch another man's wife | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/26 12:46 AM |
| 3 | My wife is divorcing me.Easier said than done but try to clear your mind and begin preparing for what comes next. Find a good lawyer, start getting your finances in order, limit contact with her and if you do have to speak to her, record your interactions. DO NOT agree to anything her or her lawyer tells you. They will attempt to manipulate the situation to their favor. If possible, reach out to family/friends just to have someone to speak to because it's tough going through this alone. Good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/26 10:22 PM |
| 12 | “Are we Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook GroupsRIght... So you find it perfectly fine to post someone against their will online where anyone, including a psycho ex-girlfriend who has an axe to grind can literally make up anything they want about the person and ruin their reputation. It's wrong, period. Don't care what you say, you'd never be for this if someone did it to you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Can’t take the screaming and yelling…I see. Well all I can say is you've got to decide if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who verbally abuses and disrespects you. In my opinion someone who loves their significant other would never speak to them that way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/26 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Can’t take the screaming and yelling…Was she like this before the pregnancy? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/26 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Thinking of divorceI know it's tough and can be scary especially if you're a people pleaser, but you need to end this. You are being used and taken advantage of. Give yourself a chance at a new life with someone who actually loves and appreciates you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/25 08:41 PM |
| 7 | What are some life hack style advise for men who have just been divorced?Find hobbies if you don't have them already, get in the gym, clean up your diet, and cut the alcohol if that's an issue. Also, get to the doctor and make sure everything is OK. Have your blood work done, etc | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/25 12:32 AM |
| 14 | How can they live with themselves?Women for the most part have no concept of honor or fairness. Once a woman decides she's done with you there is no empathy on her end. Over and over again I've watched women rip children away from good men and fathers simply to "win" in the divorce and maximize what they get in the settlement. I could never imagine taking children away from a good mother just because we got divorced, yet women seem to have no problem doing this. It's stunningly cruel and borderline evil in my opinion. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/25 11:45 PM |
| 7 | Trying to Co-Parent, but Somehow I’m Still the VillainThis is one of the things I hate the most. You could be the most caring, cooperative person possible and still be painted as some type of monster | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/25 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Bitch and moan about inequalities in divorceAgreed, it sucks....Unfortunately it would take major societal backlash from men to change anything and most men don't have the courage to even bring this topic up | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/25 11:32 PM |
| 11 | Saw Ex Brother in Law Today who promised he would put 'make me pay' the next time he saw me[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/25 09:03 PM |
| 12 | New partner not liking my kidwhat? Get rid of her | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/25 01:22 AM |
| 7 | When men say they don't care how much she makesCool. Either way you gave your youth to a dumb infertile guy. Great judgement there | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/25 06:50 PM |
| 8 | When men say they don't care how much she makesHe was "too stupid" to handle his career but you still had children with him. You can't be much smarter | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/25 04:41 PM |
| 6 | Hard to forgiveI'd never forgive someone who alienated my children against me and turned my life upside down. But that's just me | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 02:28 AM |
| 5 | I need a pick me up, menIf she feels the need to say things like this just to hurt you then you may need to let her know to keep communication strictly to the logistics of taking care of your kid (pick-ups, drop-offs etc) | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/25 12:19 AM |
| 23 | I’m starting to think that being single is the way to goBeen single for years now and won't be entering a relationship any time soon. Juice ain't worth the squeeze in my opinion. To each their own though | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/25 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Examples of ways you feel disrespected by your wife over the yearsWow...that is disgusting. Glad you got out of that situation | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/24 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Danger! Ex is not buckling up child seatCall the cops when she does this and see if you can have her pulled over. She is endangering your child's life and you're the only one who can protect her from her mother's insane/reckless behavior | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/24 10:11 PM |
| 4 | Letting her stay at the house (CA)Do not move out or let her set the terms of how things will go moving forward. Speak to your lawyer before doing anything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/24 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Funny how life works…You have rights as a father but it also depends on your location. I'll defer to the lawyers in your area on this one | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/24 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Funny how life works…Echoing what others are saying. Try to avoid being alone with her, and if you are, record EVERYTHING. Check on bank accounts and passwords because she may already be emptying them. Get a lawyer the moment their offices open. Also, legally she cannot just decide to move and take your daughter away from you. Best of luck dude | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Grounds for divorce? My wife left me stranded with no resources besides my cell phoneAgreed. I would feel like a complete scumbag if I did this to someone. I can't even comprehend doing it to my significant other | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/24 04:07 AM |
| 8 | Grounds for divorce? My wife left me stranded with no resources besides my cell phoneJust ask yourself, is this something you do to someone you love? If I was in your place I'd be infuriated and would currently be planning the divorce | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/24 03:10 AM |
| 15 | She want alimony included in prenupNo...I wouldn't marry her. Do NOT marry her. You'll regret it down the road if you do | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/24 03:55 AM |
| 20 | It's not going how she plannedI'd have no empathy for someone who's publicly slandered my name and who's been hostile and aggressive towards me. But hey, that's just me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/24 08:05 PM |
| 3 | When does it get easier?She ended things and is consistently referring to herself as single (which she knows hurts you). it's over. At this point you're just here to keep her entertained while she makes her transition forward and then you'll be discarded. Hurts but this is what they do. Unless kids are involved, I'd block her and start moving forward with life. Much easier said than done but it's for the best | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/24 12:17 AM |
| 6 | It never endsWhy are you entertaining this? Let her know that any communication should be strictly about the kids (if any are involved). Otherwise it's harassment | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/24 04:51 PM |
| 6 | Wife left me after 6 years of marriageDevastating but true | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/24 04:16 AM |
| 11 | After 24 years it’s over.She's the one who's deciding to leave...why should you have to move out of anything? screw that | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/24 10:31 PM |
| 4 | “Marriage saves money. You will be on a double income and get tax breaks. So many economic advantages.”Jesus...thank God I didn't marry my ex. Sorry you had to go through that, sounds like hell | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/24 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Husband and I separated for 3 monthsSo you cut a man off from his son based off of an assumption you made with the only evidence being that his phone is on DND...You don't see a problem with that? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/24 07:54 PM |
| 6 | After a messy divorce, I (44M) been with my girl (39F) for three years, my kids love her, discussing marriage, and the dreaded body count info was revealed in a conversation in a bar. Thoughts?No man wants to wife the town bicycle. Deal with it | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/24 12:21 AM |
| 6 | After a messy divorce, I (44M) been with my girl (39F) for three years, my kids love her, discussing marriage, and the dreaded body count info was revealed in a conversation in a bar. Thoughts?I'd probably end it to be honest. This will always be in the back of your mind no matter how much you want to forget it. Sad thing is, this isn't uncommon with today's women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/24 05:31 AM |
| 5 | Wife cyber stalking some out of state dude...Got it. Makes more sense then | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/24 02:33 AM |
| 8 | Wife cyber stalking some out of state dude...You're reconciling with a woman who is obsessively pursuing another man? What? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/24 01:19 AM |
| 25 | Divorce is final. Ex trying to come backSo let me get this straight. She was gargling another man's balls and brought your children around said man, but you're still considering reconciliation? Dude...have some self respect | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/24 08:15 PM |
| 7 | Wife threatened divorceLawyer up NOW | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/24 01:36 AM |
| 43 | 10 Signs You're Dating a Red Piller - (Check the author bio)Unreal. And I've heard this multiple times from feminist psychotics. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/20 12:20 AM |
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