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I absolutely prefer promiscuous women since I really enjoy women that love sex. With that being said, I do not have any expectations of when a woman will sleep with me although I do expect her to have a discussion with me about her kinks, boundaries, and preferences very early on so we can determine if we are compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:11 PM
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What are those metrics? There are people that engage in consensual erotic asphyxiation that are in vanilla relationships. What is the delta between vanilla participants that engage in erotic asphyxiation verses BDSM participants that engage in erotic asphyxiation? What about autoerotic asphyxiation? It may turn out that masturbation and vanilla relationships are statistically more dangerous. I am asking since you have the metrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:41 AM
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BDSM is kind of interesting catch all term that includes many things. There is a public community where people get together since they share a lot of the same interests. There is also a much larger private community that enjoys keeping their kinks and fetishes private. You are just as likely to run into a bad partner in the "vanilla" dating world as you are in the BDSM world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:17 AM
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I am part of the BDSM community. Being a Dom does not magically prevent you from doing something wrong and there is no governing body or accreditation entity that grants the title of Dom or holds anyone accountable for their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:01 AM
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As a Dom, I only have sex with submissive women, and I absolutely love promiscuous women. I have had women that range from ultra conservative to extremely promiscuous and I absolutely prefer promiscuous women since they truly like sex and have high sex drives. They are the only ones that can keep up with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:51 AM
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As a Dom I could really care less about her attitude relative to hookups. I am more interested in her kinks, attitude towards sexual exploration, and her sex drive. If she said she does not do cattle prods, whips, or chains anymore then I would definitely have a different perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:38 AM
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I only deal with women that are submissive from a kink perspective and I can surely tell you that no woman is going to commit to a Dominant/submissive relationship or dynamic unless she is extremely attracted to her partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:31 AM
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Considering the elasticity of the vagina, we could even be asking if fist size matters in modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:54 PM
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Soft restraints do not leave marks on the wrists like handcuffs do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:49 PM
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There is a significant percentage of women that do enjoy that type of sexual play to a varying extent and it is very important to discuss it with your partner and make sure they are onboard with it before you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:23 PM
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That is great analysis, and you definitely have it figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:17 PM
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I have a high n count as well and I am very picky due to my kinks and proclivities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:16 PM
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What about a very successful woman who is only sexually submissive? It is her body, and her choice so why would it be unhealthy and not empowering?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:14 PM
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Tell me you know nothing about dominance or submission without telling me 😂 the BDSM community is rolling in laughter at comments like this... Actually no they are not, they're pretty upset that BSDM terms are being used to promote gender roles and sexism. I absolutely concur with your analysis. In addition, the majority of my subs have been extremely well educated, high achieving, well off, and practicing feminists. They were only submissive sexually and you would have never guessed it by seein…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:08 PM
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I definitely do not. With my kinks and proclivities, it takes a lot of familiarity, time spent together, and trust to enjoy a true D/s dynamic with a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:23 PM
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If you are engaging in BDSM activities with someone everything is discussed up front and there are not supposed to be any surprises. Your partner is expected to be honest and if they do anything it is because they wanted to do it since there is no expectation outside of what was discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:49 PM
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I have been doing BDSM for quite a while and I have always intentionally screened out those women who experienced childhood trauma that they thought caused them to become interested in BDSM. Those unfortunate human beings need professional help and that is always the recommendation. On the other hand, I have had no shortage of partners that were totally rational, sane, and not suffering from any type of trauma. There are a lot more people that practice BDSM and its related kinks privately than m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:44 PM
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I could never do it since no woman would take a Beta bucks guy seriously as a Dom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:37 PM
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In my opinion, if you are marrying a peer then they should have no issue at all with a prenuptial agreement. Technically, you already have a prenuptial agreement when you get married, and it is the divorce laws of the state you live in. If you do not like the default prenuptial the state gives you for free, then go get one better suited to your needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:34 PM
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As long as the person you are dating knows that you are doing it then it is okay. It is people that intentionally omit the fact that they are having sex with other people while dating multiple people that is an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:31 PM
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I would also like to add the perspective of social networking. If for some reason a woman and I decided to not pursue things romantically and I can remain friends with her then I still have access to her social networks. This could include a lot of possible romantic interest besides her to include her friends and their friends. Social networking is especially important when looking for partners that share the same proclivities as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:54 PM
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I am the exact opposite. Once upon a time a long time ago in a kingdom far away I used to go after "good girls" exclusively. Then I discovered they were not for me and now I want the promiscuous and most absolute kinky partners I can find. On the surface, I have traded what appears to be stability for fun. Personally, I have found that the stability is about the same between the "good girls" and the promiscuous ones with the major difference being how much fun I have with the promiscuous ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:37 PM
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I have always found the coffee shop to be a flexible option for a first date. You can leave in 10 minutes if there is an issue, or you can sit there for hours as well if you are enjoying yourself. In addition, if the chemistry is there you can always leave the coffee shop and go somewhere much more private. Finally, it is a public place and I have found that when women feel safe with their surroundings, they are much more open to pursuing sex than if they were not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:10 PM
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That is a very interesting question and thanks for asking it. I honestly have never given it much thought since I do not. I did a quick bit of research, and it appears that a maximum of 33 percent of women tend to believe in astrology with men about 5 points behind them coming in at 28 percent. This was the highest percentage study I found with the lowest being 22 percent of women believing in astrology and 17 percent of men believing in it. I found this during my research and found it very inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:59 PM
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I have unique sexual kinks, so I learned a long time ago that it really pays off to be very direct about your sexual expectations when dealing with a prospective partner. Doing so minimizes any miscommunications, misunderstandings, and compatibility issues with them. So, by engaging them directly it is very easy to communicate your desire as well as gauge their own desire for you. Life is too short to waste time moving forward on assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:57 PM
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I see women as peers with all the virtues and vices that come from being a typical human being and I tend to see every woman as an individual and measure them based on their own merits while avoiding groupthink and the application of generalizations. Some women are wonderful, and some women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:49 PM
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I tend to have unique sexual kinks compared to the average person, so I actually seek out promiscuous women since I have found they make the best partners for a person with my proclivities. I would definitely be classified as a promiscuous male relative to my peers. Every single partner I engage with is treated and respected as a human being. Every woman is someone's daughter, possibly someone's sister, or possibly someone's mother and I always treat them accordingly with dignity and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:37 PM
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Personally, I think it is very important to ensure that your partner's libido matches your own. I have always had a very high sex drive and always looked for the same in any woman that I was willing to get involved with. My matches tend to be women with very high sex drives that really enjoy sex and therefore I always end up with promiscuous women for partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:31 PM
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I think attraction is an absolute prerequisite to become romantically or sexually involved with another person. Personally, I see attraction as being physical, emotional, and intellectual in nature and I tend to have a minimum standard for each of the aforementioned areas although my standard to be involved with someone is caused by a synergy of those areas where my overall attraction is greater than the individual areas combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:07 PM
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As a man, I think it is very important to find a woman that you share ethics, values, and morals with. It is idealistic and naive to think that you are going to control or change the behavior of another human being. If you are with a woman and her behavior is not personally agreeable with you then you should end things and go find a woman whose behavior does agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:19 PM
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I have found multiple women in their 40's, 30's, and late 20's that I was the first one to ask them to choose from a list of kinks they would like to try or discuss BDSM with them. I think we have to pay attention to the depth and breadth of things that can be classified as sex or sexual in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:22 PM
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I think one possible way to navigate rejection better is to put it in perspective. So, if a woman rejects you, she is only one out of 3.8 billion women to do so. That is not very significant from a percentage standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:47 PM
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I approach all relationships from the paradigm that each person should be putting in effort to make the relationship work. I have told partners before that if they do not want to put in the effort to be in a relationship that there are ten other women that do. It either serves as constructive criticism or a timely farewell.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:41 PM
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I believe the notion is accurate for a very vocal minority of men. No one should ever settle for sex with someone that does not meet their standards. Those standards should always encompass a lot more than just physical attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:32 PM
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If you want to rock their world you need to introduce them to things they have never experienced before. There is so much more to experience sexually than the typical vanilla experiences that most people are subjected to their entire life. Be the guy that gives her an intense sexual awakening instead of the guy that worries about her exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:27 PM
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With my partners I tend to end up doing very adventurous things with them sexually that they had never experienced before. In my opinion, this is due to good communication in regard to what my partner and I want out of the relationship and our needs and expectations from one another. These discussions occur at the onset of us getting to know one another and ensure compatibility in many different areas between us. Would it not make more sense to know exactly what you are wanting out of a sexual r…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:17 PM
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I absolutely concur with you. Everything you said perfectly mirrors my experiences. In fact, the majority of my partners have been very successful career wise and mostly identified as left leaning feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:46 PM
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I have been a lurker on this subreddit for a long time and I have never understood how it can really be all that difficult for a man to find some woman that they find attractive to get involved with. I am saying this from the perspective of a man who only gets involved romantically and sexually with submissive woman that are into BDSM that I find alluring. I am dealing with a very small subset of women to begin with, and I do not find it difficult in finding partners that share my proclivities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:12 PM
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What if you are a man and you have never even looked at Only Fans?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:04 PM
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I knew two of them from high school that ended up very promiscuous and submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:59 PM
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As a man that enjoys sex positive, and kinky women with high sex drives, I do not find a woman's N count to be defining of her or something uncomfortable even if others would consider it high. I find a higher N count to be an attribute often associated with women that really enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:34 PM
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Since the latest report by the CDC categorizes 69 percent of Americans as overweight or obese then "thicc" as a beauty standard may unfortunately be here to stay for a very long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:28 PM
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Would anyone really want to date a 45-year-old virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:21 PM
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Kinky, adventurous, and sex positive women are going to inherently have more of a sexual history and a higher N count. The aforementioned traits are what I personally look for in a woman since they sexually tend to be a lot of fun. There obviously are some inherent drawbacks that could possibly occur as N count increases although if that happens just go meet another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:18 PM
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I think most men and women take the easy way out and tend to blame their failures on something bedsides themselves. Why would relationships be any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:08 PM
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In my opinion, working out and being dominant is not exclusive to a red pill mindset although both attributes can be very attractive to some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:58 PM
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Life definitely attracts like in a lot of respects. I totally enjoy BDSM, and kink and I have never attracted a woman that was sexually conservative or not sex positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:56 PM
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Every time I start dating a new woman, I ask her what she brings to the table from a relationship perspective. Most of the time she has no answer and then in turn asks me the same question and I am able to perfectly articulate what I do bring to the relationship. A good first step would be being able to articulate what you as a man bring to the relationship and even better if you can articulate what makes you a superior choice to all the other men that are vying for her attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:54 PM
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Women like dominant men and they love to be dominated sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:47 PM
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