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| 35 | If only FDS existed a decade ago…I feel this so deeply. Although somewhat tragic, it's nice to know I'm not alone. Maybe it's not about getting rid of the pain. Maybe it's about learning to live with it. Idk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 11:42 PM |
| 65 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Talk shit get hit! 🤷♀️ 100037$84 other jokes and he just had to talk shit about a bw? He made a fucking documentary about bw hair he knew better. I'm mad this is now a debacle, why the black elite 😭 spossed to be classy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 07:18 AM |
| 8 | After trauma, how are you forming healthy friendships and romantic relationships?Are you me?! >_> i appreciate you posting this, these replies are gold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 06:15 AM |
| 5 | “The success of single women is the success of all women.“Fuck yeah! I love this!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 07:42 AM |
| 12 | Women who dated covert narcissists, did their narcissism get "worse" over time?This is the most accurate description I've ever read :( It's making my heart hurt because I'm still licking my wounds but thank you so much for sharing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | To all the women doing the hard work of healing: give yourselves creditYou are lovely. Thanks for the good vibes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 07:17 AM |
| 19 | Is He Negging You? 10 Signs He’s Trying To Secretly Destroy Your ConfidenceBlessings upon you sis. I feel the same way. I want to try dating again but I realize I really hate men and can't afford to lose my peace 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 08:42 PM |
| 25 | Single's Inferno on Netflix - what we can learn from the hit Korean dating show (part 2)Dope perspective, I agree with your take. I really enjoyed Jia's character- it was fucking awesome to see FDS principals on screen and how successful they were! One question tho- most of the men were clearly interested in her but I wondered how many were pursuing her to "win the best prize" vs how many were really interested in her as a person. Is there any way to tell? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 12:13 AM |
| 8 | not supposed to represent feminism on a feminist subreddit... what?Holy shiiiit girl, this one comment is a life changer! I used to read her blog way back when and couldn't remember her name for years! You just helped me remember, thanks so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 08:26 PM |
| 30 | Queen of the Pickmes Ghislaine Maxwell found GUILTY on all counts of sex traffickingYasss shout out to Auntie Deb, stay spitting facts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 03:34 AM |
| 97 | Have any of you ever known a man who initiated a split with his partner WITHOUT getting into a new relationship right away?What an insightful description! Monkey motherfuckers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 10:54 PM |
| 10 | His bride looks mortified. I can't imagine what she felt at that moment.🤣 hahaha who are you? This is amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 09:22 AM |
| 6 | "If you aren't attracted to 17-18 year olds, your either abnormal or a liar". This makes me feel so afraid for young women. As this becomes even more normalized, the number will just keep dropping.Guys, men REALLY believe this shit. I have countless men alude to this during times of intimate conversation. It always rubbed me the wrong way. They say things like "that's the height of a woman's fertility/attractiveness" (um that's a child) or "it's just in our biology, can't help it" They think it's normal and innate to their sex. WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 11:29 PM |
| 6 | Ask Polly: ‘I Hate Men.’This was such an amazing read and so damn empowering! You a real one, OP. Thanks for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.Eww why did I even click on this to give him another view? 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 06:37 AM |
| 2 | FDS and Instructors?This right here! Why is this being downvoted when it's the truth? OP, it's really wonderful that you are going outside your comfort zone and learning something new. I can't imagine what it's like being triggered when you are trying to empower yourself. But self defense classes are meant to prepare you for real life situations. Yelling is often involved. It's okay if you aren't ready for it, but with an instructor you can trust, it's an ideal environment to learn to be ready for it. You got this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 06:25 AM |
| 3 | Vetting Using Pandemic RhetoricYes!!! Shit, I feel mad FOMO cause I'm in my golden years under 30 but can't believe how many ppl my age are so fucking lacidasical about this!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 06:00 AM |
| 7 | What abusers believeWhoa. What an insightful post. It's awful to think about all the ways I've been mistreated but chalked it up to him having an anger problem or being the result of his shitty childhood. This explains so much! I really thank you for posting this. I don't feel crazy anymore. I'll never again tolerate that sort of behavior. How can this message be spread around? I feel so blessed to have found FDS, it really is life changing. I only wish more sisters could discover it too and realize they aren't cra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 07:17 PM |
| 15 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.Deborah cooper! YouTube full of great vids on setting boundaries and dating advice. Enjoy :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 05:38 AM |
| 21 | Does anyone else have a low value male father?Yes and it hella bums me out. I love him for being my dad but he's really quite useless and I don't care to have a relationship with him 🤷♀️Shame my family is so close 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 12:06 AM |
| 9 | 💡Don’t have penetrative sex with a man unless he can bring you to orgasm with his hands and/or mouth first.💡You da bomb! Thanks, this is helpful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 02:10 AM |
| 13 | 💡Don’t have penetrative sex with a man unless he can bring you to orgasm with his hands and/or mouth first.💡Such an amazing post and so true! Question for the ladies of this sub: What if I'm a size queen? What tips do you have for checking for something like that? I don't wanna waste no time on scrubs or God forbid we be dating for 3+ months only to be disappointed when I do see it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 01:20 AM |
| 16 | FDS aligned Youtuber recommendations?Deborah cooper!! She got a special zest and tons of good videos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 10:50 PM |
| 6 | Heavy weed use and its link to schizophrenia. Don’t date a heavy weed user.O nooo but imma heavy weed user >_> | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 03:11 AM |
| 30 | If he has bad manners - he will be bad in bed. SimpleAyeee I love this post. You are fire | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 03:01 AM |
| 3 | How can you deal with celibacy & accept it?Now THIS is what I needed to hear. Thank you 🙋♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 06:29 AM |
| 4 | Reigning in the extreme pick me horror tales - this is not a place to just vent, get sympathy points for tolerating extreme clownery, remain clueless and go back back to being a complete pushover.Ruthless!!!! Yes, we need more posts like these. Thanks for taking the time to address and write this all out. I fucking love this sub and on the ladies here who stay keeping it real. So refreshing from the constant BS shoved down our throats | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 07:00 PM |
| 18 | Is the transitioning stage always this hard?Sis, thank you so much for this post. I feel the same way! I started putting boundaries and and telling people straight up I won't tolerate their BS any longer. Damn I've lost a lot of people. It's so conflicting because although I feel hurt/betrayed by their dismissal, it feels so empowering to stand up for myself. It feels like I'm alone but I'm loving myself more than ever. Stay strong, you're doing the right thing. Letting go so there is room for something better to come in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 08:48 PM |
| 1 | The difference between a real HVM and a fake one- how they treat you at the end.Holy fuck. Thank you so much for this. I will have to read this everyday. I was with a fucking loser for years and even after breaking up and spending time apart, I still want to crawl back. I want so desperately to be proven wrong. Seriously, blessings upon you. I feel like I'm waking up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:17 AM |
| 41 | Are you doing the Pickme Backslide?Hahaha, girl you too funny. This is so true 🤣 I gotta mark my calendar cause hot damn the desperation is real. Then I'm like, oh shit just my body playing tricks :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 02:37 AM |
| 4 | It makes me genuinely sad when I think about the crumbs I used to settle for.Omg are you me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 04:37 AM |
| 25 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 11 - FDS Gets Entangled with Sex Work TwitterLilith is such a strong beautiful person to speak so openly about her experiences as a sugar baby. I think many women at one point in their life consider some variation of using our bodies for some type of gain (nice things, money, etc) . It was hella refreshing to get her take on it. The whole "the body remembers" is killing me tho...my mind has definitely rationalized some fucking awful behavior. Gunna have to do more research | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:04 AM |
| 12 | Yes you CAN be intimidatingly beautiful and that's why scrotes don't approach you (a blessing in disguise)!Ayeee hella fucking with this energy! Lmao 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 02:45 AM |
| 13 | A Totally Innocent Not At All Sexual in Any Way Papaya Eating Contest at 5:10Oh my fucking GAWD. I love you ladies 🤣 this was too great | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 10:16 PM |
| 13 | I’m sick of pick me articles claiming their husbands infidelity made their relationship ‘stronger’This is so beautiful and spot on!!! Damn queen thank you I really needed to read this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Truly yes!🥰Giiiiiirl~ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 12:58 AM |
| 9 | Probably a repost but fuck that 'friendzone' bullshit. A good friend is worth more than a good SOPosts like these is why I really value you ladies!! I've never felt so alone in realizing that men and women want different things out of friendships. Lost a lot of good "friends" once I became single and they started acting different. An unfortunate lesson but one that needed to be learned :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 12:02 AM |
| 13 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 9 - We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to LieOmg you ladies are too good!!!! This episode convinced me to give some mula to the patreon. No one ever talks about stuff like this!! I thought I was alone in my dick preferences, past partners would always talk shit about how i was impossible to please. Fantastic episode, keep that shit up 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 12:30 AM |
| 7 | Why I don’t feel bad about having uncompromising standardsYes this is gold!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 10:58 PM |
| 7 | Strategy: 40+ FDS women - the long-game.Whoa... You're so fierce! My hero _ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 07:49 PM |
| 7 | Women who have experienced trauma, what have been some of your levelling up wins?"they're just mad they ran out of things to take from you" damn g, that one hit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Thank you, FDS!Git it girl!!!!! So wonderful to hear. Gives me hope :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Break-Up Survival Guide 🧘♀️You are so lovely, thank you for posting this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 02:24 AM |
| 6 | Roasting my past libfem pickme self 🤡Love you! This post is gold, thank you for sharing your experience | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:56 PM |
| 17 | Why do men feel entitled to participate in spaces made for women?So thoughtful!! Yes, that's exactly right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:46 PM |
| 4 | Why so many women dont have orgasms or sexual satisfaction in relationshipsHaha that's crazy, I was just thinking the same thing.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 08:01 AM |
| 1 | 👑 Listening to this on repeat! It’s valid for me to happiest single. Marriage and babies don’t have to be my life goals 👑Damn this is good. Thanks for sharing, I really needed to hear this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Have any of you ladies actually gotten an orgasm from men?Absolutely! My last guy was a giver, usually made sure I came first before he did.one of my favorite things about him. Hella clouded my judgement tho :/ was with a loser for too long | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 07:26 PM |
| 2 | A reminder to drop the LVM and focus on love and leveling up for yourself.Good for you, girl. Keep doing what you're doing. You got this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 08:33 PM |
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