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| 3 | How to get over lost time?I feel that way about dating, but then I try not to succumb and submit to such thoughts. Bald looks good on people, rock it, don't be afraid of it. (a bit hypocritical of me since I have a full head of hair) I'm 28 and for some reason I'm into older women now. Could be a little easier since they are thinking the same way you are. Also maturity. Also women age like wine sometimes. My ex was 40. Girls like older men, trust that. Yes, lots of taken girls and stuff. It's never too late to get marrie… | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 09:13 PM |
| 3 | How do you get a guy to put his arm around you when you're sitting on the couch next to each other?Nudge your shoulder into him like a dog would. Get close to him. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 01:06 AM |
| 2 | I keep accidentally friendzoning girls and I don't know how to stop?Yea It’s kind of a switch (?) for myself, the way I see it. Maybe a really rusty lever. There’s a barrier you can choose to break or not- the “friend zone” or whatever you want to call it That’s when you (as mentioned in comments prior), should break the level of comfort you have. But the moment you start making intentional references and escalating the moment , which would reveal more of what you like in them- then that’s when you get out this rut. Note: This isn’t something that’s like a magic… | /r/seduction | 09/05/21 11:14 AM |
| 1 | “I totally would but i have a boyfriend”I agree That’s why I’ve always been up front with this stuff Cuts confusion and if there is confusion... then hell idk | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | “I totally would but i have a boyfriend”Or testing you | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 09:03 PM |
| 1 | If there is one thing that would attract you the most about a woman, what would it be?The way she talks 🤤🥴 | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 04:18 AM |
| 1 | I sometimes feel like totally giving up meeting a woman have you guys ever felt like thisI hear you. It's ok to feel that way. I feel that way, too. If you give her nothing but anxiety and depression, she doesn't have much to go off of. If you have bad intentions, then yes you're a pos. You must show her the good in you. The fun. The silly. If they don't like it, find one who does. | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 05:00 AM |
| 2 | How long would it take to go from no experiences to a regular dating life?I mean, if you watch Avatar, there's an episode in season 3 where King Bumi talks about energy. How there is positive and negative energy. It's all Jin(?). There's also neutral where you do nothing. :) I just want to shed the light on that- you may see it as lack of motivation, but dating won't complete you. And haha, thank you :) | /r/seduction | 16/04/21 04:29 PM |
| 3 | How long would it take to go from no experiences to a regular dating life?Dating is something that can bring you joy and pain, like children or a pet. You have to nurture and care for the person/ relationship. Technically, the moment you go out there and start talking to girls with the intention of knowing them and dating, that’s your dating life. Whether or not you are successful in what you want to achieve out of the relationship, is up to you. Maybe you really just wanna hold hands- and if you do that, congrats! Success. You’re moving on up in the dating world. Bec… | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | How to make a girl feel intensely desired, but not required?Its how you ask it If you’re just saying “how yah doin” without actually caring about how they are doing... yeah that’s pointless. Real women enjoy real conversation. Others enjoy toxicity, passive aggression, pettiness, and stuff | /r/seduction | 12/04/21 07:05 AM |
| 1 | How to make a girl feel intensely desired, but not required?Just reassure through action/intention “Hey, how are you? I had a hectic week. Yeah, I’m glad that you ...” continue where you left off. Pick up as if nothing happened.. because nothing happened. I like to not address awkward things unless it’s like really bad or I’m being savage | /r/seduction | 12/04/21 01:27 AM |
| 1 | How to stop obsessing over girls ?All girls poop. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Is it bad I don’t persist after girls say they have a boyfriend.Treat them like adults. Bf? Ok. If you want to play that game or whether you're being honest, it's for the better. I'd rather have that up front than to find out later. Then I'd feel like a jackass. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Predator?Yeah, terrifying set of words. If he continued to talk to her with intention after she mentioned her age, then yeah that's an issue. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Constantly flaked/ignoredBuyer's remorse. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 07:18 PM |
| 2 | what are the worst IRL rejections/blowouts you've experienced?I was with my brother at a college bar a few years ago and I tapped a girl on the shoulder and asked her what she thought could be my name based on the way I look. She took a breathe looked at me and said "asshole!" outloud with people around. I'm not sure if this is the worst, but it's the first one that came to mind. I laughed at it after. So did my brother, especially. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 07:18 PM |
| 1 | How to make a girl feel intensely desired, but not required?Pay attention and she will tell you what she likes and wants. Clingy is when you always need to say yes and please. The parable when it comes to racing cars on the track is the ability to stop when needed. If you go at turns full speed, you'll crash. The same idea applies with this. If you're going full speed with her, non-stop, that's overwhelming / clingy. Get it? | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Not trying to freak them out .Half face away, as well. It shows that still engaged but also open to change / dismissal. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances?High functioning autism? The best policy is honesty. But also, you don't necessarily need to tell them. You can just go as you please and enjoy the intimacy. You can do it the Christian way and just get married after slow dating. (sort of deal) You don't need sex right away. She might even get the hots for you more if you find an intellectual woman who really admires that you don't need sex right away. Not every woman is your cup of tea, either. So don't feel bad if you're just going for a poor … | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Predator?It's a scary feeling, I can only imagine. No you're not because she explicitly communicated her age and you walked away. Reading the comments, you're my age. I just look for older women. Even girls that are like 22 are young to me, mentally. It's pushing it for me. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 07:00 PM |
| 2 | How to be fun and spontaneous...without coming across as silly or immature?Depends on the people + situation. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Energies and attraction, is there science behind it?Ehhhh Heavy no for me. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 06:58 PM |
| 6 | Seduction tips for women?Def make light touches, especially on arms. Be intentional. We don't like that wishy washy flirtiness where it seems like you're interested, but you're also like that with other people so it gets a bit confusing. It gets confusing for guys because girls always claim they are being platonic, until they aren't and we are unaware of it. Be intentional. Keep it light. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 06:58 PM |
| 0 | Stop putting her before your goalsUnless you're married. :P | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Don't hesitate. Or another guy WILL take her out insteadSafe bet to assume they have somebody else. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 06:56 PM |
| 2 | I have a forgettable personality. How can I make myself seen in social settings?Stop finding value within other people. That's the first mission you need to complete. Find things that make you feel good and be good. When you do that, you will find people as well. | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Turning 26 in a month and have never been laid, is it too late for me to turn my life around? I’m feeling pessimistic about it everyday and it bothers me, so I’m here for helpObviously marriage is work but it's worth. Church has a ton of flawed people, and I'll be the first to say that it's become a place where people think it's a museum for good, which its not. And I'll fight that every day. Humans are meant to be sexual and it's in our blood, yes. But unlike any other animal, we have self control. | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Turning 26 in a month and have never been laid, is it too late for me to turn my life around? I’m feeling pessimistic about it everyday and it bothers me, so I’m here for helpObviously marriage is work but it's worth. Church has a ton of flawed people, and I'll be the first to say that it's become a place where people think it's a museum for good, which its not. And I'll fight that every day. Humans are meant to be sexual and it's in our blood, yes. But unlike any other animal, we have self control. | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 04:25 AM |
| -1 | Turning 26 in a month and have never been laid, is it too late for me to turn my life around? I’m feeling pessimistic about it everyday and it bothers me, so I’m here for helpDude Just get married. Go to church and find a girl. Trust me, being a virgin isn't that big a deal and if you feed your head with that idea that you need to get laid you'll lose yourself. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Has learning pickup actually helped you get women?Yup! | /r/seduction | 02/07/19 04:01 PM |
| 2 | My height makes me feel insecure5'5 here. First comment is right. Nobody gives a shit at the end of the day. Those who make it a problem are the problem so you can shoo those people from your life. I was insecure most of my teenage years, but my height never really was my biggest one, tbh. I sometimes didn't notice it. Trust me to all eternity when I say this - your height does not matter. If it matters to somebody else, they don't matter. As discussed in Game of Thrones by Tyrion: "wear it like armor and it can never be used … | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 01:55 PM |
| 1 | What does everyone look like?Playing security for a dance festival | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 12:27 AM |
| 0 | How to approach a group of girls?Pretty much what the first comment said - but to elaborate on it: the cat and string theory comes into play. Befreind all her friends so you're socially accepted. Makes them mor comfortable. Then, by giving her the tease, and the least attention, and playful nudges, here and there, you'll start to create a sexual tension. Like "oh wow, you all look like the good girl. But she looks like the bad one" and continue to talk to everybody, not specifically her. Not saying don't ignore her - I'm saying… | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Approaching girls after breakSort of It depends on the level of attraction and rapport with the target. If you are pretty good, you can reference things a little more sexual in the joke. If not so much, make a joke to break tension. - The best thing to break tension / sexual tension is humor. | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Good deodorant / cologne mix that you've had success and compliments from?Victoria's Secret: Very Sexy For Him. Platinum and the lighter blue colored cologne, are my personal favorites. There are 3. | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 01:54 AM |
| 1 | When a girl asks YOU out on a date, how do you still lead?You lead. You make the decisions and choose what happens on the date. Bing bang boom. Simple. | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Having hobbies that aren't attractive to womenThis is true. :] | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 01:52 AM |
| 1 | How to transist during a conversationYou don't need transitions. Nothing, nada. Talk about anything, keep rapport, sexual tension, and keep the conversation escalating. As for the kissing- you can kiss her mid sentence as long as attraction and sexual tension is enough, which doesn't require a lot, just do it right. | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 01:48 AM |
| 1 | does she like or is she just being nice?Usually, girls are nice and are ok with you being around- but at the end of the day, actions speak louder than words. But never be mysterious or unclear with your feelings and intentions. Then she'll get confused and just drop you like a rock. | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 01:46 AM |
| 1 | How to get a woman to let you kiss her.Build attraction, talk sexual but not to her. Talk about how weird curved dicks are or whatever the fuck you want. Then, once she's attracted, and you're talking sexual, you can do whatever you want. Literally kiss her mid conversation if you want. Don't over think things- it's simple and fun. Girls wanna have fun, but don't want to be the one do initiate things because they don't want to "be a slut" so to say. Take charge of the conversation and interaction. | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 01:44 AM |
| 1 | [Serious] How can I go from always getting the intellectuals to the crazy party bimbos?Be fun. Wild bimbos just wanna have fun and do shit. So be spontaneous, random, fun (NOT FUNNY), playful, and carefree but not careless. | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Approaching girls after breakYou need to be fun. Show her a new face of you and be a leader in the conversation. Don't be FUNNY, be FUN. Tease, taunt, joke with her. Be serious about silly things because it's funny. You need to basically take charge in the conversation and NOT GIVE A SINGLE FUCK about what she says about you, things, or etc. She doesn't want you to just listen to her all the time- girls are instinctually emotional, so play with her emotion, in a good way. So be mean to her when she's trying to be funny by m… | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 01:41 AM |
| 1 | I Need advice to keep my game up after my teeth were knocked out.Keep your game the same. The only difference is now you basically have to joke/flaunt your "problems" so to say. If it's the first thing they notice- make a joke or a funny ass story about your teeth. Girls, at the end of the day, just want to have fun, that's it. So make them laugh and stay funny and progress to sexual tension once you know she's hooked on you as a person and is attracted to you. Now you have reason to be even MORE confident around people - but you have to be truly confident, n… | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 01:38 AM |
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