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You don’t need to be a billionaire, just busy and successful is enough to not want to bother with regular dating when in any case you’re rich and girls will be interested in your money. Some people think it makes sense to have a clear arrangement (escorting or sugar dating) and skip the games. Same if you’re married or want discretion for any other reason. When you have money you don’t think like broke people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 04:55 AM
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A lot of men who pay don’t “have to” pay, they can afford it and see value in the convenience. When you reach a certain level of success you end up paying regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:15 PM
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Kindness and respect are the bare minimum, not some kind of rare magic quality. What are you even saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 11:43 AM
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So what if it excludes most men? Are we supposed to want to date anyone? I most definitely don’t want an average man, I’m not average either, and I still have more than enough options. The whole post is implying that these are common requirements and that it makes it nearly impossible to find a match. But most women don’t want a man who fits that description, and I can’t talk for the rest of the world, but most of my female friends who are well-balanced and social are either in a relationship or…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 02:58 AM
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You pay in order to have access to it ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:18 AM
1

Gay men don’t have dating issues? In what world?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:16 AM
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Same as the other guy I replied to, I’m pretty sure you know that’s not the case and you’re just being dishonest for the sake of arguing. I literally couldn’t care less if a man is bald or has hair, some women don’t care about a man’s income, and I have never heard a single person say they want a man who’s in the top 2% most intelligent people. People have different values, different personalities, taste and preferences in general and look for different things when it comes to who they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:25 AM
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I’m sure you also know that’s not the case, and you’re being dishonest right now. The level on this sub is very low and it’s not surprising to me that many people here don’t have a positive experience in their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 05:47 AM
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This is a perfect example of one of the many ridiculous straw man arguments on this sub. No, women do not want exclusively a giant in the 99th percentile intelligence wise, with a larger penis than half the population, a 6-figure income and lots of hair. But I’m sure you know this already. Tagged with “science”. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:12 AM
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Yes I owe it to myself, let alone my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:04 AM
1

People here discuss theories that don’t match real life, even theirs. I stopped checking the sub for this same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:34 AM
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Where are the ones who work?
/r/MGTOW207/01/21 05:37 AM
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They’re not just naive they’re often desperate for money... this is just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 08:40 AM
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What are you desperate for? I’m assuming you don’t just mean sex, because that’s easily fixed. Often desperation in dating is because of loneliness. When you don’t have enough people with whom you can really be yourself and who genuinely care about you, you tend to look for it only in dating. Cultivate relationships outside of dating, try and connect with your friends / family and to make new friends.
/r/seduction03/12/20 06:25 PM
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Yes and no. Societies with a high birth rate consume way less resources per person vs western societies which consume too much at an unsustainable rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 05:02 AM
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And other areas are consuming resources at an alarming rate. It’s a problem either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 04:34 PM
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For now the earth’s population has been growing at a rapid rate and it isn’t stopping, that’s more concerning than the opposite. There’s 1billion more people now than when I was born and we already were consuming too many resources back then. The last thing we need is to worry about the birth rate not being high enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 03:32 PM
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Isn’t it commonly accepted that the earth is overpopulated and that the way western societies live is completely unsustainable? Let the birth rate slow down...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 03:08 PM
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Is there a reason why you scheduled the dates more than 1-2 days ahead of time? You could use the momentum and try to meet in person sooner than later.
/r/seduction28/11/20 04:42 PM
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I wouldn’t count in weeks, and instead in number of invitations. Be proactive and set up a date, if she cancels and doesn’t give a good reason, reinforce that she wants to meet you and offer an alternative time, it isn’t a good sign. Don’t keep trying for 2 weeks if she can’t make it more than once. Also for the record, sometimes the issue is that the date doesn’t sound appealing rather than not being serious about meeting. Maybe she wants a proper date and you’re offering Netflix and chill. Try…
/r/seduction25/11/20 01:54 AM
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But she might not have know that, sometimes when people drink a bit too much they switch to coke to sober up a bit. Even if it was some kind of sarcastic comment I doubt your reply matters a lot, especially if they were drunk. It’s more of a random question rather than a personal shit test to see your reaction
/r/seduction20/11/20 09:05 AM
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... Why do you think it was a shit test to begin with?
/r/seduction20/11/20 09:02 AM
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He didn’t list them because it’s not a thing. He should try dating an Ukrainian, Nigerian, Kazakh, Brazilian or a Colombian and see if he can keep up. There’s this fantasy that women abroad are better and if you’re unable to date successfully it’s because women around you are trash, sorry to say that’s BS. If a man can’t satisfy American girls with what he offers as a person he won’t satisfy another nationality either. Men who specifically target women from other countries à la 90 day fiancé oft…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 06:57 AM
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Even if you’re attractive it’ll be uncomfortable for me if you approach me while I’m reading a book on my sun bed, you’re in my space, you keep asking questions and talking and I don’t know if you’re ever going to leave. There are easy ways to put the odds in your favor when you’re making an approach. I gave my number last month to a guy who spoke me at the beach, and on that day I had been approached by at least 3 other guys that I can think of, none of which got my number. That guy wasn’t the …
/r/seduction19/11/20 04:49 PM
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I’m not sure if there’s a right verbiage, I honestly don’t think it really matters, as long as it’s suitable for the situation. Let’s say you’re at the beach with friends, maybe have your friend call you over when you’re approaching and you tell your friend “I’m coming bro just give me one minute” so she knows you won’t stay long. If you’re on the bus, approach and say something like “hey I’m about to hop off at the next stop and I just couldn’t leave without coming to talk to you” then say what…
/r/seduction19/11/20 03:49 PM
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Oh interesting! Thanks for sharing
/r/seduction19/11/20 03:24 PM
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No there isn’t anything wrong with respectfully approaching someone and stating that your intention is to get to know them, as long as you give them the option to comfortably decline and you move on when you get your answer. If you’re a woman then surely you must know the difference between being harassed, people touching you, men being inappropriate, catcalling, invading your space, not taking no for an answer and someone approaching you in a respectful way and leaving when you politely decline…
/r/seduction19/11/20 11:55 AM
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Are you seriously suggesting that the act of talking to someone is wrong? Human interaction is completely ok, as long as it’s done in a respectful and considerate way. My point is to bring awareness to the concerns we have as women when a stranger comes up and to give a tip on how to make the experience more effective for everyone. Again, there is absolutely nothing wrong with starting a conversation with a stranger and if you think that it is, I’m honestly sad for you.
/r/seduction19/11/20 11:37 AM
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Do you have comprehension issues? My post literally is about the fact that if you approach a woman in a situation where she’s still somewhere you might make her uncomfortable so state from the start that you’re leaving, don’t force conversation if it’s not flowing naturally and leave soon. You’re just reaching for something to be offended about.
/r/seduction19/11/20 11:28 AM
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I don’t know what’s wrong with you. Just go troll somewhere else.
/r/seduction19/11/20 11:23 AM
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No I’m a woman who gets approached frequently and tried to give tips to men on how to avoid making women uncomfortable... ffs
/r/seduction19/11/20 11:21 AM
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Honestly when you’re a woman who’s even remotely attractive you get approached on a daily basis and your first instinct when someone comes over is defense and the urge to say “no”. This is just a way to lower that defense imo. Even if the guy is cute he can’t be a catch if he’s sleazy and stays too long trying to force a conversation after interrupting my activities. In my experience too many guys try to force a conversation in the first approach when it’s just not the right time in my opinion, …
/r/seduction19/11/20 08:48 AM
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I’m a woman, speaking from personal experience being approached frequently, essentially whenever I go out. This is what works on me and I’ve discussed it with female friends and they feel the same way. No man could come talk to me and stick around uninvited without being somewhat invading my space in an annoying way. It’s my advice, take it or leave it.
/r/seduction19/11/20 08:36 AM
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None of that answers my question as to why it’s wrong. My understanding was that you were saying it’s morally unacceptable. If you don’t believe it is then ignore my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 07:07 PM
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I mean if it’s about it being stigmatized it’s one thing, that doesn’t mean that it’s actually bad and it’s fair for people to condemn it. I was asking why it’s wrong, not why it is different
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 04:42 PM
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Why is it OK if you do it for free but not if you get money for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:34 PM
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People don't care about how much some random person has put into themselves if they don't find that person attractive. People have to be given the chance to see what they have to offer and a lot of people are excluded from that because they're not attractive enough to perform. That’s the point. In order to increase your chances and options, what you do to make yourself attractive matters a lot. The pool of people you target and a realistic idea of what their expectations for a partner might be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 07:03 AM
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I don’t know... I think common sense and some fairness in how much you put in vs how much you expect goes a long way. They think affirmation from a few people is confirmation of their value In reality you just need to have a good connection with one person and that’s it. It doesn’t matter if 90 people don’t want you, as long as you can get 10 who do and you like one of them. The opinions of random people don’t determine your value anyway imo. I think the “league” debates aren’t actually importan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 06:19 AM
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I think it’s fair to hold standards for others that are close to the ones you have for yourself. If you want an educated rich supermodel but you are unsuccessful, have no education and put 0 effort into your looks I think you aren’t entitled to those standards. But anyway my opinion doesn’t matter because it’s unlikely that that person will get what they expect if they don’t work on themselves first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 04:38 AM
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Fair enough, it entitles you to holding similar standards is what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 04:29 AM
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I agree and I think fortunately most people think the same way and would not get upset at someone for not wanting them back (whether it be for a relationship or sex). Maybe while they’re being rejected anger gets the best of them, but really most people know that it’s unfair to think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 04:23 AM
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The women knew the men would rank them differently, but they were being kind to each other. Also they each fit a different type, almost every guy had a different preference for number one. Even in the comments here guys are disagreeing. That’s why ranking and giving a grade out of 10 doesn’t really work. Too much of it is personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 04:03 AM
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They’re not a good match if the women aren’t interested...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 03:56 AM
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You should be able to get a date if you’re decent looking man, put in effort and have a good personality and situation. That does NOT mean that every woman you approach will be into you. I don’t even understand how this is a question? Even as a woman not every man will want you. People have personal preferences and rejection is a part of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 03:55 AM
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Except it does entitle you to someone who puts in similar effort and the average man doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 03:36 AM
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Gay men put a lot more effort in their appearance than straight men do. If all straight men did as much as gay men did, they’d be doing a lot better in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 03:34 AM
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This study is about rating attractiveness, not selecting a mate for a relationship. That’s why most people here fail at dating, they don’t understand what dating entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 04:11 AM
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It’s not my anecdote... Someome else commented this and you tried to be smart but completely missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 06:36 AM
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It’s one-sided in the case described a above which is why it’s unfair. Not that hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 06:23 AM
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The bottom 20% of men don’t want the bottom 20% of women. Failure and rejection is a part of life for everyone, deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 09:26 AM
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It’s really not that big of a deal. I got to the gym, get my nails, hair, lashes done and am social and have my own money too as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 02:43 PM
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Last year the percentage of young adults who were celibate reached a record high in the US and it was still 23%. Most people are sexually active. link
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 10:08 AM
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That is BS. You want advice? First things first seek therapy since you claim you have issues. You say you’re a student and I assume you’re in the US, you probably have access to something. Realize that you’re getting in your own way. Yes some people have privileges they haven’t earned (like looks) but also many people are born with a way worse hand than you yet are more successful than you are. If you don’t have good looks and have terrible social skills and no money or social status then obviou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 10:03 AM
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It doesn’t even need to be blue pill, if you want just apply TRP advice and it’ll do you better than weeping and doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 09:52 AM
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Pakistan is not middle eastern tf? Pakistanis are not Arabs. Clearly you also lack culture. It’s not your fault what you were born with but it’s your fault that you decide not to do anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 09:50 AM
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“What if it doesn’t work? No point in trying, I’d rather stay unsuccessful and complain about women”. Dude you have such a loser mentality and that is a lot more unattractive than your looks could ever be. I’m a tall conventionally attractive woman (if I do say so myself) and I dated a guy who was originally from Pakistan (so Asian), not good looking and shorter than me. He could easily get women because he had charisma, drive and brains and he was therefore very successful. I would never date a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 09:44 AM
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So continue complaining and go nowhere in life what do you want me to say? Or google short Asian successful men and learn a trick or 2. Your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 09:39 AM
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Well obviously if you have no social skills it’ll be an issue for you to get laid. If you’re a student surely you must see plenty of guys around you who aren’t great looking but are the life of the party and seem to get women easily. The idea that women only have sex with men who look a certain way is not true and it’s proven wrong every day. Of course if you’re very hot it helps, but many men who aren’t born with extreme genetics do fine in the dating department.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 09:33 AM
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If people you call 9 and 10 had the fitness regimen, social skills, fashion awareness and bank account of 2/10 people, they would not be 9-10. Sure you can decide to remain mediocre and do nothing about your situation but don’t complain when you get no results. Average men who put in effort and aren’t bitter throwing pity parties for themselves can never be incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 09:13 AM
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This is nonsense that losers tell themselves so they don’t even have to try. Unless you’re extremely ugly to begin with, going to the gym, working on your conversation skills, basic grooming and styling plus a successful career will get you very far.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 09:05 AM
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9 and 10 are 9 and 10 because they’re successful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 06:17 AM
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In reality the majority of young men are able to have sex. Maybe not that much with dating apps, but someone average or up is able to have sex and that should be the case if you look around you in real life. Even that 20/80 rule doesn’t mean that 80% of men are incels (or I hope that’s not it because otherwise it’s clear that it’s bs).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 05:00 AM
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And I guess that’s one of the reasons why a lot of men struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 04:57 AM
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Source? Sure, keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 04:48 AM
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Absolutely not. Most men have an active dating life and the average guy is able to land a date or enter a relationship. That sounds like an excuse people tell themselves so they don’t even have to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 10:43 PM
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I agree with your practical points but I think the real issue is that men here should get rid of their loser mindset and quit making excuses. They all know this rationally, but it’s easier to do nothing but complain and blame the world for their failures rather than taking responsibility and putting in effort to get better results.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 10:40 PM
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Even if it were the case, one thing is for sure they’re having a better time than 2/10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 10:32 PM
1

Are you a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 05:55 AM
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Of course it’s normal to ask about someone’s romantic past, but “how many people have you slept with” is something this forum is obsessed with and it doesn’t sound like something most people would ask in real life to their SO
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 04:52 AM
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In real life who even has been asked by a boyfriend about n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 02:08 AM
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Even if you mean money and status, well then work on being rich and successful if you’re ugly? And I never said looks don’t matter, I said the opposite earlier. Of course they do, but they’re far from being everything and it’s proven every single day. If you don’t have looks, status or a personality then yes you’re pretty much doomed, no surprise there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 05:04 AM
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Of course they have other qualities to offer, that’s my whole point! Women don’t just care about looks, in fact it’s lower on the list than it is for men in my experience. If you’re not conventionally attractive but are driven, successful and social you’re good. Those qualities are incompatible with the incel mindset which is about being passive and complaining without putting in effort to change. Being an incel and having that mindset literally prevents you from doing what you have to do to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:59 AM
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Unattractive men hookup with beautiful women all the time too, and pretty women can be incels - my friend I was talking about looks good! Looks absolutely do matter and will make things easier or harder for you, but to say that it’s all that matters is an excuse to keep doing nothing while not taking any responsibility for the lack of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:39 AM
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Because it’s simply not accurate... It’s not an opinion that’s up for debate, we’re talking about a known and studied body part and it just doesn’t work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:26 AM
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You must be trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:20 AM
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I’m saying I’ve never seen a social man who puts effort into his appearance and has a stable situation (if he’s 25+) struggle to get a date. However I have often seen men who aren’t objectively attractive date pretty women, I’ve dated a guy like that (I’m talking shorter than me, slightly chubby, bald, weak chin & broken nose). But he was very successful, self-made, driven and had a great confident and fun personality. Definitely not the type to complain and be passive if he didn’t like his situ…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:52 AM
1

So if you have low levels of iron and heavy periods you need to be aware of that and adjust accordingly. It really isn’t a big deal compared to the potential side effects of other birth control methods. The IUD has a bad reputation because in the past it did carry more risks but with the newest devices it’s no longer the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:39 PM
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They have a miniature version of the copper IUD for nulliparous women but it doesn’t look like it’s widespread. I personally love it and find it much better than mirena
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:37 PM
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He might be a man but he’s right on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:34 PM
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You can list the worst possible side effects of all birth control methods and convince yourself that they’re terrible. When placed well, copper IUD is great and risks are extremely low.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:33 PM
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I’m not saying they are, I’m saying that you can’t look at the lower extreme and generalize. Most women didn’t match that guy, they only had 11. But okay keep telling yourself whatever makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:05 PM
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No it’s not telling, you’ll always be able to find people like that. There are psychos, pedos and killers among women too. Psychopaths have always had admirers, male and female. It doesn’t say anything about a whole gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:02 PM
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Correction: they were able to find a handful of women who were still interested regardless, it’s absolutely not “women”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:47 PM
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I literally said I believe you can get laid if you look good enough regardless of how shitty you are, so I don’t know what you’re talking about. I do find the results really underwhelming though, considering how you presented it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 11:02 AM
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I thought you were an incel. Involuntarily celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:59 AM
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I don’t know where you got that idea, I’m not the one complaining about my dating situation here. How can you want women yet despise them at the same time? Honest question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:56 AM
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And you wonder why you’re struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:48 AM
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I was thinking more about incel women, or single and frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:46 AM
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I’m not taking about nitpicking, it really isn’t that hard. I’m a woman and I go to the gym, eat healthy, get my nails and hair done, look put together when I go out, have graduate education and my own income, speak multiple languages because I travel and like different cultures, I go out alone to events and try to be social if I feel like meeting new people, etc. And I’m a woman which according to the black pill means I don’t even need to do half of that to get dates, but I still do. So I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:33 AM
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Oh don’t get me wrong I have no doubt that if you look good enough you’ll manage to get laid once in a while even if you’re a terrible person. This goes for men and women, straight or otherwise. I just thought that the experiment would be something more compelling. 11 matches who do dirty talk or give their number is a bit underwhelming compared to what I was expecting. What would make me accept the black pill honestly would be to consistently see people who are well balanced, put effort into im…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:23 AM
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Thanks, I just had a look. It seems like all they achieved is to get 11 profiles to engage with them online though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:13 AM
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It was an honest question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:09 AM
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The mentality of “how shitty of a person can you be while still getting away with it” is pretty pathetic imo. What I’m saying is if you got lucky and look extremely good that might save you in some circumstances. Just like being born rich means you don’t have to work as hard. Some people have unfair privileges that they did not really have to earn and it is what it is, but usually they don’t get you that far. I doubt a shitty person will end up in a loving and fulfilling relationship unless they…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:06 AM
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Is it married women who complain about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:02 AM
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I’m saying if you’re not attractive overall and don’t put effort into dating you won’t get any results. Before you complain you have to try imho. There are incel women too, I had a friend like that and it’s not any better. Before social media and online dating, men still had to go after women. In fact women are much more open and willing to make the first move these days. I think a big part of the incel issue is way more obvious and straightforward than societal change.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:47 AM
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Really? From what I’ve seen from incels they just complain about how women these days are fat and unattractive, and they don’t actually go after anyone. I have personally never seen a man who works on himself, has a good personality and puts effort into meeting women yet doesn’t manage to get successful dates. If there’s anything you can’t take away from trp is those basic essentials because they actually work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:08 AM
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Can you link to that “experiment”? Did a bunch of guys just catfish female profiles online pretending to be hot but a nazi? Did they actually secure a date as that hot nazi and meet in person and did they still get that person’s interest? If you look very good you might be good enough for some women for a hookup is spite of your awful personality, kind of like a very hot but dumb girl can still get laid. You need to be a good package overall to look suitable to a well-rounded person. If you’re n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:04 AM
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Being able to feed yourself is a life skill everyone should have. Being expected to feed someone else is a whole different topic. Especially since so many men want to be treated like a provider yet are unable to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:48 AM
0

Are you sure they did? Also incels usually don’t want “similarly bottom tier” women, they just resent pretty social women for choosing better options.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:40 AM
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She was tense, or she was contracting. Or you didn’t remember how tight she was in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:57 AM
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If they’re shy, awkward, negative, hateful and insecure then their looks don’t matter. Looks are a factor but if your personality is trash and you’re scared of talking to women then you won’t be able to “get” anything regardless of what you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:00 AM
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99.9999999% of the time, someone who makes a claim without data is wrong Do you not see the irony? I owned you Definitely what I said about your level of intelligence and self-awareness. Let me add maturity to the mix too. I’ll be making money today, USD 500+ an hour because I know what I’m talking about and I do what I do well. Ciao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:52 AM
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Why do you ignore the part where I say that if I’m replying to someone who makes a bold and questionable claim with no backup they’re the one you need to focus your energy on, not me who’s questioning their hypothesis? If humans want to form relationships because everyone has a need to be loved and you accept that, then why aren’t you questioning the person who says that sex dolls and sexual satisfaction will prevent people from getting into relationships because men just want sex, and why are y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:38 AM
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This is why I said I wouldn’t engage with you. Bad faith because you have a problem with me in the first place. Someone is claiming “sex dolls will reduce the need for a relationship” and they don’t need to back up that statement but I do? People need to be loved and have human connections hence the need for humans to form relationships. Access to sex and having your nuts empty had little to do with it. That’s my point, didn’t think it was that hard to understand. I made a side guess “I’d also l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 06:10 AM
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I find it ridiculous how you ask me for all theses sources and proof when the person I’m replying to made bolder claims with no further explanation and you seem fine with that. But anyway here you go. Claim: every human being has a need for love and other people’s admiration. Sources: check out Maslow, all the attachment theories (John Bowlby for instance), the works of Freud and his disciples and again, basically any other reputable psychology theory because they essentially ALL rely on this. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 05:02 AM
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I’m not a therapist, for someone who asks if I don’t understand basic English it’s ironic. English isn’t my native language by the way. I said you’re not asking for anything specific because you aren’t. What do you want me to give credence to? “Your claims” isn’t an answer by the way, I’ve stated many things, for most of them I’ve explained why I’ve reached those conclusions better than the person I was replying to. Be specific and I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:08 AM
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There are lots of sources about everything I said, for human psychological there are a multitude and you know it. I’m in therapy and I’ve done several different styles. Schema therapy, CBT, psychoanalysis, and that’s just therapy styles that deal with how we fulfill our needs. You’re not asking for anything specific and you know it, you just want to discredit anything I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 03:24 AM
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Your views on prostitution are completely irrelevant to the conversation. But thanks for mentioning them, I don’t engage with people like you because I know better than to do that. No matter what I say you’ll just be against it because what I do bother you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 11:02 PM
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Yeah the condescending tone is quite something. I make money from men’s desire, I have sexual experience with men in a business sense (and I’m guessing more experience with men than you’ll ever have). By definition I have to be aware of what they seek because I need to fulfill those needs in order to make money. But sure explain to me how men don’t care about the ability to get women to fall for them (although there is a whole industry just for that), how they don’t care about being good in bed …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 12:59 PM
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plate spinning is about sex and variety Yes it is. It also take a lot of effort, time and money to achieve a good “rotation” and if the only benefit was to bust a nut in a way that even a sex doll could fulfill it wouldn’t be worth it. Just have a look on the red pill forums and it’s evident how much pride these men get from the fact that they are good with women and able to get them. It is about more than just sex. no one cares to please a ONS Maybe you don’t but most men do care about being go…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 12:15 PM
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Look up any reputable human psychology theory, they all revolve around our basic human needs. It’s interesting and provides perspective especially when you compare it to theories like TRP etc. Working as an escort definitely helps me understand what constitutes for good sex for most people. The rest is common sense. Like the effects of a sex doll on relationships -> just look at the effect of prostitution, it hasn’t replaced relationships anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:01 AM
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I feel like a broken record but even the top men want to be loved and admired. Spinning plates is definitely a way to meet that need. Some people meet those needs outside of their romantic lives too. I would also like to point out that top men probably don’t just want a sex doll for sex because they enjoy pleasing the women they have sex with (!!!). People in this sub love to act as if men and women are completely different creatures, we’re not. We’re just different genders of the same species a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 12:36 AM
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The connection is completely optional for sex I agree, but men still have that same human need to feel desired and loved that can only be fulfilled by another human. Prostitution (which is more effective than a sex doll imo) is legal or at least accessible in many places around the world and it doesn’t prevent people from getting into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 06:19 PM
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It’s a human need to feel connected to other humans, loved and appreciated. Even in sex, men crave intimacy and the feeling of being desired, otherwise it gets boring really quickly. No object can really fulfill that need.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 06:10 PM
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I doubt it. Men want to be admired and loved just as much as women do, and a toy can’t provide that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 04:47 PM
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Who even wants that? I’ve never heard such a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 04:45 PM
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I am talking about men I met in person, people I see around me. I know some incels, they don’t fit the description although they might be unaware of it. Edit: my point is basic “naive” advice works and would help most people out, but a lot of them convince themselves that the problem is external.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 11:09 AM
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I’ve never met a healthy, generally successful and happy man who had issues getting women to be attracted to them. Genuinely
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 10:53 AM
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You don’t have to be a couple to have sex with someone. Many people have sex regularly and at least one party doesn’t want to be in a relationship with the other one. Most couples absolutely stay together because they have a loving friendship, and sex is actually one of the reasons some of them might cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 06:38 AM
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I was with you until that last part about how if they did that they weren’t in love. Lifelong relationships have ups and downs and while love, respect and appreciation might still be present, passion and excitement will go down inevitably. People cheat even if they love their partners, life is a lot more complicated than that simple statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 06:35 AM
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What do you mean by “those”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:08 AM
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Yes of course unless a less attractive woman has low standards
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:07 AM
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Ehh, no. For instance the most attractive women get attention from all kinds of men, the majority of which are not at all men they’d like to date. If you have standards and know what you want, it’s natural that most people around you won’t fit the criteria. I don’t understand why you guys relate attention women are getting with their dating preferences in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 02:54 PM
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But if the attention doesn’t come from the men they are interested in, it isn’t valuable, so that’s completely fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 02:37 PM
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Having standards and enough options to apply them is entitlement now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 02:28 PM
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Who talked about men / women here? Sounds like you have backwards views.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 12:44 AM
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Such as? And what does a country being egalitarian have to do with who people choose to invite on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 10:05 PM
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No, in real life where often one party is pursuing the other at the very beginning, and is trying to seduce them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 09:57 PM
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You courting someone doesn’t mean that they aren’t getting anything out of the date. It simply means that you are expressing your interest and putting in effort. Genuine curiosity, you don’t ever pay for the date when you take a woman out?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 09:41 PM
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Yes, that’s exactly what it is. I’m surprised that you are surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 09:05 PM
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I don’t know what men you meet but I’ve never been asked to split the bill on a date, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 09:01 PM
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Umm how about the fact that 15 years of life later you no longer have the same aspirations and no longer value the same things? How about the idea that you look for different qualities for a hookup vs for the father of your children, and not only is that normal it’s healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 07:40 AM
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Yes that’s true and most people can’t grasp the nuance and get stuck on rules. Also TRP still has a lot of negative and degrading undertones. Just look at the terms: AWALT, sluts riding the cock carousel, hit the wall, attention whore... everything could be said in a neutral way but it isn’t and it conditions men to think of women in a degrading way. Also the premise is essentially “females are trash, so you have to deal with it” when in reality most of the “hard truths” aren’t specific to women…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 11:18 AM
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See, this is exactly what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 06:12 AM
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The way “advice” is presented though is often negative, degrading and simplistic. Humans are individuals and are more complex than a just few rules in reality, some people here seem to have forgotten that and just spew out the same lines over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 05:38 AM
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Because they have money and spend it generously
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 10:27 AM
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My younger brother is an engineering student, there are definitely fewer options but he’s had a few relationships over the years. You shouldn’t keep that mindset telling yourself there’s nothing you can do, because it will lower your chances. You assume that I haven’t faced rejection because I’m a heterosexual woman. For sure it hasn’t happened if it comes to just getting laid (it isn’t my thing anyway) but of course I’ve faced rejection in dating. Gradually catching feelings for someone who doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 02:23 PM
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If you don’t try to approach a pretty woman it’s unlikely she will approach you and therefore you wont date her. If you’re OK with that it’s cool! But getting rejected isn’t that bad, it’s part of life, you get immune to it, and the more you try the more likely you are to succeed. MANY students get laid or enter relationships with women their age, I’m sure if you’re a student you can think of guys at your university who are in a relationship / date casually. Idk, you could look at the ones who h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 01:43 PM
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It doesn’t make more sense for attractive women to ask men out in general, since many men go after them already, including men they like. They can if they want to, but there’s no pressing incentive. Women who don’t have enough on the other should probably go approach the men they like, among other things they can do to get better dates. I agree with you on that. Look my point is, the best way for you to get better results if you’re personally struggling with a specific issue is for you to do the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 01:18 PM
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You are asking successful men who aren’t scared to go after the women they want to stop doing what they’re doing because they’re getting results and you aren’t. So they should stop being successful so that you have a shot. I hope you realize how that sounds and I wish you good luck on your journey to self improvement. A lot of women don’t need to pursue men because they have enough options. They probably have other areas of life where they need to work and I’d suggest they do that. Women who are…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 12:51 PM
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Many problems in life have 2 solutions: Solution that requires the whole world to change the way they behave in order for life to be more convenient for you. Extremely hard and unlikely to work. Solution that requires you to work on yourself (in this case insecurities and fear of rejection, improving your charisma and other social skills). Hard but achievable, much better results.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 12:36 PM
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Women are picky because they have options, so they can choose the best of all the men who approach. If a man doesn’t approach and waits for the woman to do so, he’ll just miss out because a braver man who doesn’t fear rejection will make the first move. Best to grow up and muster up some courage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 09:50 AM
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I’m a whore, woohoo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 07:05 PM
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How will they deal with it? Probably by being open about it, while living a good life thanks to all that money they made being in the top %
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 01:13 PM
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Ultimately you’re going back to these views because they make YOU live a happier life. You said so yourself, you’re feeling better and many aspects of your life have improved. Other people aren’t living happy that way and go on to do what works best for them. They can also find a way to say that they’re helping society by exposing the power dynamics or whatever it is they believe. Unless they are being assholes and deliberately hurting other people, you can’t imply that they’re selfish as oppose…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 12:26 PM
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Just order a bottle of wine to go with dinner and you’re there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 12:13 PM
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How does having personal boundaries mean that I judge my clients? I can be fine with their kinks but not want to participate in them, I’m still a human being and I don’t have to be comfortable with people doing anything to me. Also why do you all get personal “don’t think you’re special”? I never said I’m special, I’m saying that when you’re a married man looking to cheat discreetly with someone who won’t give you shit for it, you’re better off going to an escort. Yes yes, guys might in their he…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 10:32 PM
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I’m not saying people can’t buy things for validation. I’ve been paid to sit at a table at a club and drink champagne by a guy who just wanted to be seen with hot girls and expensive bottles. He was in it for validation. People who book for a specific service, ask for discretion and leave after the booking don’t do it for validation. No one knows what they’re doing and you guys probably know many men who book escorts and you simply don’t hear them brag about it. Edit: also about “men lying in at…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 03:42 PM
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And you’d know that better than escorts because? Somehow you have a better understanding of the dynamics and clientele of sex work because you have preconceived ideas? By the way there’s no reasoning here, just a hypothesis, and you won’t listen when we tell you it’s invalid based on actual experience. Here’s something you should consider: being able to intuit the emotional needs of your clients is part of the skills required to be a successful escort, especially if you charge a lot. People come…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 04:52 AM
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That’s the whole point of the OP, seeing a sex worker isn’t really validating since they are having sex with you because you are paying them. Men who book escorts are absolutely aware of that. Sugar daddies? Meh, not always, but escort clients 100% know and they don’t care, because they want to have sex with an attractive girl and have money to pay for it. It’s late where I am and I’m going to sleep now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 04:36 AM
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I’m also an escort. What is even your “reasoning”? Just stating the same hypothesis over and over again? If you want to use logic let’s do that: The validation that comes from sex for men is caused by the achievement of convincing a girl to have sex with them. Are you with me so far? Therefore, someone who craves that validation very likely ends up picking up as many women as he can, seducing them and convincing them to have sex with them. That person is logically far less willing to pay for a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 04:27 AM
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You’re reasoning, she’s stating facts based off her experience. I can make up a silly reasoning like “everyone who works in finance is a sociopath for xyz reason”, it doesn’t make it true and the only rebuttal needed is several people who work in that industry or have dealt with it closely to tell me it’s inaccurate. But anyway here’s why what you’re saying doesn’t even make sense: Men who primarily seek validation do NOT book escorts. Or when they book, they try to haggle because they’re “good …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 04:05 AM
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The level of patience you exhibit while dealing with arrogant idiots online... You for sure are an escort!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 03:49 AM
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Yikes. A sex worker is telling you how it is, yet you still find a way to tell her she has “no clue what’s going on”. And you expect her to provide some kind of “rebuttal” to your point which is simply irrelevant since as she said, the majority of men book an escort for sexual pleasure. She’s not the one who looks stupid / dishonest here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 03:48 AM
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How does wanting an intimate and sensual experience = wanting validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 03:43 AM
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Many people hire prostitutes for sex. Many people have casual sex for sex. What’s pathetic imo is desperately seeking validation, not wanting to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 03:37 AM
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It’s a spectrum, what does this have to do with the initial point anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 06:11 PM
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It’s sex work with components of actual dating too. The point is many young women are more than happy to date older men as long as they provide for them, which is what the OP described, but few men are able to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 04:17 PM
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Sugar dating is alive and well. The only reason why it might be harder for men in their 30s today is that many of them aren’t that successful compared to younger women and can’t offer much. If he drives a Lamborghini, takes you out shopping for Chanel and pays your rent each month all of a sudden he seems less creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 02:49 PM
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Great. You said stuff that didn’t make sense, got all arrogant and rude when I asked you to explain, eventually realized it didn’t make sense and clarification was indeed required and now I’m still the dumb one who needs to act like an adult. Get off the Internet sounds like you need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 07:26 AM
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I asked you “how does sexting solve your catfish problem” and you gave me a rude literally told me I couldn’t read, implying the answer was in your original post. Which is why I asked you that question. Please...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 07:19 AM
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So you fail to mention many important details about your process and when someone asks you how it works because without that info it doesn’t really make sense, you start to insult them. Sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 07:08 AM
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First of all your software to unfilter (which I’m very skeptical you own) is something you mentioned only after I asked. Second there are many ways to edit a picture or just take the right angle and deceive someone without them realizing. Also you can export the picture as new and scrape the original on most apps. And third, you can just send nudes from the past before you gained weight, you can someone else’s body parts, I mean if you’re committed to catfishing and have succesfully done it in y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 06:56 AM
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“Dumb” question which you still haven’t been able to answer but hey. Good day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 06:47 AM
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I was done as soon as I realized you can’t even answer a genuine question with common sense and apparently have major anger issues. Seriously not even trying to be a d*ck, you should talk to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 06:44 AM
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Dude, seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 06:42 AM
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Of course you do... That’s why you’re so worried about getting catfished right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 06:38 AM
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You have a serious issue if me asking you to clarify how sexting solves your issue triggers that sort of reply. All I did was ask a question. What I’m saying is slimming yourself and making your boobs bigger on FaceTune takes literally 30 seconds. Add all the filters that change your face or the fact that you can just send someone else’s body parts and pretend they’re yours, and to me it doesn’t seem like a great method to figure out if a girl is catfishing or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 06:36 AM
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Do you think you can’t catfish when you send pictures? Facetune, angles, using someone else’s pics... before you take that tone maybe you should think a little
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 06:27 AM
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If you’re worrying about landing on a sex offenders list it might be a good idea to talk to someone...
/r/seduction16/09/20 07:27 PM
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Therapy?
/r/seduction16/09/20 05:13 PM
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No many men are just horny in the moment and want to sext. I’d know because I receive chat requests from people on the other side of the world for me. Also many men would never dare to say or do anything they text in person, so sexting is good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 02:58 PM
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Smh. There’s no point. Anytime there’s a post about anything here, people just show up not to discuss the actual post, but to blurt out the same caricatures even if it has little to no connection to the original topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 01:52 PM
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How does sexting solve the catfishing problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 01:39 PM
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Oh come on even the OP talks about how guys send explicit sexual messages to weed out the girls not into sexting. Anytime you post anything related to sex on Reddit you get chat requests from guys hoping for a sexting session. Please don’t pretend now that sexting is an activity that women prefer over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 01:38 PM
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Top men don’t care about body count!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 05:23 PM
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I asked several times too and there is no study that shows causality. Just a bunch of people that don’t understand logic and interpret results the way they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 05:22 PM
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Again this correlation study that some guys just can’t seem to interpret correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 05:19 PM
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Oh how I wish the yikes award was still a thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:44 AM
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Everyone has to put in work to find a person who will be a good co-parent. It’s not like it’s a goal for women to get impregnated by the first guy who asks. Getting laid and finding a life partner are two different things. Either way what you described is absolutely not representative of real life in most parts of the globe so your point is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:34 AM
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Do you fight for food, shelter and reproduction? Where do you live? Also where are women more depressed than men? So many questions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:13 AM
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Straight F here Compatibility BY FAR - do we get along, do we share similar goals and values, are our lifestyles compatible. Finances Personality (but then again that goes with compatibility) A character I can admire, and decent looks probably comes after that. It does seem a bit reductive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 06:05 PM
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