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| 1 | Stop Putting Sex On A PetastalExcellent post. Thank you. I just wish somebody told me this 10 years ago. I hope some young guys get the message. Sex is not going to solve your problems my dudes. Sex is not going to make you love yourself. Sex is not even going to make someone else love you. | /r/seduction | 24/02/21 11:04 PM |
| 5 | Here is what I did to stop developing crushesActually you added the “all girls are sluts” part yourself. This doesn’t have to be a slut-shaming idea at all. Human beings like having sex and girls have an easier time picking and choosing when and with whom and how frequently to have sex. That’s not a moral judgment it’s just an observation of the current sexual dynamics of our society. Women were (still are in many parts of the world) heavily, heavily repressed for much of human history so it’s more than fair really. | /r/seduction | 02/01/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Finding the meaning in relationships if mgtow/redpill notions are trueI think what makes life worth living or fulfilling can only come from within. We are the ones who assign meaning whether we are cognizant of it or not. So long as you base worth on external things you won't become aware of the power your own consciousness has. There are few things that can give a person peace and fulfillment in the face of anything, sickness, loss, death. Only mystical states of consciousness can do that. As far as I'm aware. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Finding the meaning in relationships if mgtow/redpill notions are trueI think life is about seeking that which is "good." In the example of candy the immediate short term pleasure is deceptive because over-indulgence in candy is definitely not good. Pleasure can be an indication that something is good but not always. Sometimes self-restraint is much better although you might be denying yourself immediate pleasure. Cultivating the mental discipline necessary to defer gratification is more likely to lead you to develop a greater overall well-being than caving to you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Finding the meaning in relationships if mgtow/redpill notions are trueI think it depends a lot on the culture. There are so many spiritual traditions from so many different peoples throughout history it's really difficult to characterize them all a certain way. Think about some of the forms of spirituality the indigenous American people practiced. Where they taught the importance of gratitude, thanking the spirits for each animal they killed and ate, using each and every part of that animal so as not to let it go to waste, etc. Taught the oneness of all living cre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 01:46 PM |
| 18 | Finding the meaning in relationships if mgtow/redpill notions are trueI think you're right and you've essentially pointed out what I feel is one of the big problems of our time. When you collectively turn away from spirituality as a society, all you will see is the baser more animalistic instincts and only value the immediacy of instant gratification. "If it feels good, do it." because there can be no other true reason for doing anything since life itself (according to this new secular value system) has no deeper metaphysical meaning or purpose. This kind of becom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Why is it some big societal problem if every single man can't get sex?Likewise friend. Great discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Why is it some big societal problem if every single man can't get sex?I think those are all really fair points and will agree a balance is necessary. I feel that we are presently skewed more towards finding worth in other people, wealth, entertainment, etc. than is healthy and that is what causes such profound unhappiness for people when they get all those things and realize none of it really fills the emptiness they feel inside or when they have trouble achieving one of those things and begin to suffer from serious psychological or emotional disturbances as a res… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Why is it some big societal problem if every single man can't get sex?I would challenge that notion because the biggest factor in whether or not a woman has sex with you is physical attractiveness which has no bearing on whether you are a good person or not. Women are just as flawed and lost and confused as men. Just as prone to societal pressure. Maintaining healthy human relationships be they platonic or romantic all hinges on you first being able to love yourself. Using other people as a barometer to gauge your own worth and validation in its extreme form manif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Why is it some big societal problem if every single man can't get sex?Logically those statements bear out. Systemically our society more or less operates under those rules. On an individual basis there is no real benefit for adhering to a system of values based on what is attractive to the opposite sex. That's the very source of the problem of incel type behavior. Placing too much value on the approval of the opposite sex to the point you would rather die than go on living without it. That is also a perfectly logical and emotional conclusion of the system as it ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/20 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Why is it some big societal problem if every single man can't get sex?What makes me think that would be my personal firsthand experience sitting in a lot of 12 step recovery rooms listening to many people in recovery from addiction speak to what the program has meant for them and their families and my reading of William James' Varieties of Religious Experience. Also good are Michael Pollan's How To Change Your Mind and Viktor Frankl's Man's Search for Meaning. It's very difficult to cease addictive behaviors. The crux of a 12 step recovery program is a spiritual a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/20 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Why is it some big societal problem if every single man can't get sex?Everything you say is true but religion/spirituality/philosophy color the way in which we perceive everything including sexuality, the very purpose of life itself and how we cope with death. What this seems to indicate to me is evidence that the mind can override biological instinct. We as human beings have the capability to psychologically reprioritize even our strongest innate drives. I think you describe exactly the way in which our current sexual dynamics more or less function systemically. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/20 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Why is it some big societal problem if every single man can't get sex?I think all of this is far more mutable than we tend to give it credit which is understandable when you're presently living through it. But if we look culture to culture, era to era, generation to generation sex is always present, yes but our values are constantly changing. Our attitudes about sex will inevitably change over time as they always have. This seems to me to indicate much of it is a construct. And yes we have kept any crisis of meaning in check for millions of years because we used t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/20 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Why is it some big societal problem if every single man can't get sex?I understand and will agree that those are the rules of the game and the present sexual values modern society has chosen. I just think we each have the capacity to recognize it for what it is, and choose to not participate by placing our personal values and our pursuits on something else. I think there's something awfully distorted about the importance our civilization has chosen to place on sex when young men who cannot get it become dangerously unhinged to the point they fall into deep depress… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/20 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Why is it some big societal problem if every single man can't get sex?That's a huge part of it. We place importance on what we are conditioned to. Historically certain religious sects prized and lived by the denial of carnal desires like sex. That's proof a deeply held conviction or belief can supersede biological impulse. Same with the fear of death itself. Everyone has some form of "faith" in something. Even in the absence of theistic faith. We have raised a generation that dogmatically believes the value of their personal worth is in their ability to get laid. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 10:48 PM |
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