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donerkebabplease/r/askMRP02/03/16 12:46 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/17 07:59 PM
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You should try working on your acceptance. Actually accepting now for what it is, without judgement. It is what it is, you are where you are. Don't deny it, feel it, feel that pain, feel that anger. Acknowledge it, accept it. Then go do something to change it. Read the fuck out of the sidebar, lift the fuck out those weights, read the sidebar again, lift some more. I read your last post and was about to reply suggesting you'd jumped ship too quick. You seem to have taken the advice very well, I …
/r/askMRP09/03/17 09:12 PM
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OK.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 10:50 PM
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Dude, check your ego at the door. You'll get called out here, if you're ready, you'll reflect on what's being said, if you've read enough, if you've internalised this shit, you won't react like that. We don't do "why are you picking on me?" we're men. In our own frame. Not whiny bitches reacting to other Internet strangers. You have a long way to go, start with the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 10:40 PM
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I'm on mobile now, is the sidebar still there?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 10:25 PM
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I agree with Mcgill. I thought co-dependent instantly, I've been there dude. I made a rod for my own back, it seems as if you have too. You've come to the right place. Start by fixing you. If you don't want to be 'that guy' then don't. Make a commitment to yourself and research co-dependent relationships.
/r/askMRP01/03/17 10:07 PM
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r/askmrp is what I think you mean. Unless I've missed the point.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 09:51 PM
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I'm in. Can you make at least one of the days pointless, maybe with a hint of ego death? Buy a pair of Crocs and wear them to work?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/17 07:55 PM
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Try this...During one of these arguments, concentrate on your breathing, you might want to look into meditation. When I started on this journey, I reacted to everything, shit I even reacted to things that didn't bother me but I knew they bothered her, like I was trying to enforce equality!!! I started meditating, during arguments. I sit, I look right at her, but I'm meditating, not focused on her words at all. I can hear them, but I'm paying more attention to my breath. When she calls you a dick…
/r/askMRP04/02/17 01:02 PM
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Enjoy the silence, get on with some shit that needs doing. With the middle finger emoji, you did turn into a little bitch, NBD, it will most likely not be the last time that happens, at least you see it. Sounds like she's doing her. Why aren't you doing you?
/r/askMRP25/07/16 12:59 PM
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First one on deck, last one off it. I used to stay in bed on days off til mid morning, (when I was a lazy fuck) now, I'm up first and handling shit. Also, like Scurve said, lack of boundaries in this example.
/r/askMRP25/07/16 12:53 PM
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I feel better. Thanks.
/r/askMRP22/07/16 01:30 PM
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On number 1 I likely should have just dropped it, STFU and left her presence when she tried to start the argument. This is what you should do from now on with everything that remotely resembles an argument. Just stop engaging on that level, let her think what she likes. I learned to stop GAF about what she thought of me, I stopped DEERing, the arguments declined quickly. Read this if you haven't already, if you have, read it again, and again. There is some great advice in this thread. Keep focus…
/r/askMRP22/07/16 12:52 PM
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It's a kick in the nuts, I get that. The trust is gone, I don't think I'd ever get that back if it were me. My wife hasn't cheated on me (that I know of) if I found out she had, I would leave her, no big talk, no sharing my feelings, just gone, forever. I'm not sure you can heal with her, the constant reminder is eating you alive. You have one shot in this life to be happy, why waste it feeling like this?
/r/askMRP22/07/16 10:27 AM
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Great post. Don't be a faggot, your sphere of control is very small This +1 There was a LPT a while ago, if you find yourself in that situation again, try laying down on the floor. Most dogs will come to lick your face. You may find people looking at you like you just took a shit on their stoop but hey, we don't care.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/16 09:09 AM
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I want my future family to be like that. I want my kids to be like that. This, you can do something about, it starts with you. Don't waste your time on things (people) you can't control, your time is your most valuable asset. I'm not sure if I can retroactively get my siblings and parents to be like that. You are the only person in this world you can control. Let that sink in for a moment....Once you truly internalise this, it's actually a big step in this process (it was for me). I now know I h…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/16 08:23 AM
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I don't have to receive value from you to be in my life, but I DO require that you do not put me or my family in danger, or steal from us, or even be likely to harm us. For me and mine, if you're family and all you bring is drama (I'm now unaffected by it, faggot me wasn't) I don't need you in my life. I don't miss the tantrums (serious adult tantrums), I don't miss the emotional manipulation, I don't miss the drama. My life is now much more stable and drama free, that which I have at home is a …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 12:00 PM
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Hahaha, golden.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 11:48 AM
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I forget who said it.... When you start to feel sad, always remember to stop being a bitch and no one cares.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 11:46 AM
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Seems like you were well on your way, then you got back together. Lots of she she she. You need to work out what it is you want out of life. You know why she kissed you in the garage. You know why she wanted you to come back later. You know why things were "awesome". You know all of this, yet you seem to have a hard time actually doing anything with that information. If it's over, I really don't care because I know I'll be just fine. I'm sorry, I don't believe you. You wouldn't have gone back if…
/r/askMRP20/07/16 01:59 PM
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It's very easy to be polite, yet distant at social functions. This. I've lost count of the amount of terms I've heard the wife tell me someone said "Donerkebabplease has changed, he's just not the same anymore", it's actually them that have changed in my eyes, they're no longer in my circle and they don't get the real me.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 12:58 PM
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I see so many people that feel so obligated to family because "Family is so important". To an extent I agree, but it works both ways, and if it's all you, what are you losing?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 12:54 PM
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As a relative noob (4-5 months in) I'd say don't stop initiating, you seem to be doing quite well right now, keep up with the OI, stand firm, this shit aint easy, if it was everyone would be doing it. You've been married 10 years, here you're still a noob, 1 month of reformed faggotry per year of marriage. Give it time, keep being awesome. The hamster is always spinning, you can see that for yourself in your post. Here for example - For three months I displayed such OI and abundance mentality th…
/r/askMRP20/07/16 12:43 PM
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For those of you who got your home-life in order but had issues with family/friends/people you don't see every single day - how did you deal with it? Haven't spoken to my brother in over 7 years. I tried to help him out many times to enhance his life, he didn't want the help. I sometimes miss him, but as I've heard so many times, you can choose your friends, you can't choose your family. Cut them out of your life, do they provide value? do they just bring drama you'd be better off without? What …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 12:31 PM
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Great post. One of the single biggest changes (there have been so many) came for me when I got this - Once you realize that if everything were to be stripped away and you’d still smile. It's all about frame. Everything I do, with confidence and purpose, just happens, no pushback, no second guessing, no arguments. When my frame is weak, I'm tested.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/16 12:18 PM
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STFU. I shut down years of bickering literally overnight by simply not engaging. Oh man, this must be the quickest change I saw. Literally, arguing every day about some inconsequential bullshit to nothing, nada. MIL came over for dinner a couple of weeks after I started STFU and quipped "Wow, you guys seem to be getting on great, the house seems so much calmer"
/r/askMRP14/07/16 10:20 AM
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Some really good advice in this thread. You are going too fast, we've all been there, check my post history. Slow down before you nuke it (unless that's what your goal is) Add value before taking anything away. Someone else said add value by doing things around the house, just start there, make a list of all the shit that needs doing that you've been neglecting and get on and do it. Start owning your shit, don't stop, just do. STFU, lift, do everything and don't whine about it. About the sex, ar…
/r/askMRP14/07/16 10:10 AM
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Dude, I think you may have come to the wrong place. The guys here will tear you a new one, you won't like it, you'll wonder why everyone is being so mean. This place helps you help yourself, check your ego at the door. You are a shell of a man and you're still rooting through the trash If you do actually want "help" it starts with you. It starts with the reading the sidebar, you haven't read enough about this place to take anything anyone will say here on board. There's no guarantees in anything…
/r/askMRP14/07/16 09:40 AM
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The way I see it is, yeah you own the castle, but you've left it neglected and now it's in ruins. MRP is about leaving her castle (not a special castle, there's billions of them) and going back to yours to rebuild & restore it to it's former glory.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/16 08:48 AM
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Forget about it mate, some you win, some you lose. Every mistake you make is an opportunity to learn something, make sure you take the lesson to the next engagement. Don't forget you're trying to undo years of bad conditioning, that stuff doesn't undo itself overnight. I still slip up here and there but the frequency is getting less and less. Just keep improving, keep internalising, it takes a while.
/r/askMRP14/07/16 08:44 AM
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I'm no vet, here's my take though. I am the one initiating everytime. Yup, that's your job now as a masculine man. Don't hide your masculine need to fuck, that's right there in NMMNG. As /u/cholomite said, you care too much, you shouldn't have brought that up. You do seem to have most of your shit in order. We dont live together yet but it is something we are discussing. Maybe she's trying to lock you down? Who started this conversation? Has she asked where the relationship is going? Maybe the l…
/r/askMRP13/07/16 09:38 AM
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I have tried this calm approach later on and was berated for being "all fucking zen" about everything. Haha, I've had "Don't start acting like you're the modicum of good behaviour". That actually made me laugh at the time, she's acting childish, I'm not and she didn't like to be the only one acting that way. Remember, they'll try to draw you into their frame, just like they have been doing for the last x years, only now, you're trying to build a new frame and she sees that. Calm, assertive is wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 09:14 AM
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Yup, she's testing you, treat the tests like foreplay. You shouldn't have engaged and followed her though you did do well to not join her in the anger. I've realised recently, anything I say that isn't A&A, AM or just STFU prolongs the discussion and keeps me away from the stuff I need to do. Don't ever forget the context. 10 years of shit is going to take a long time to fix, if you bend a metal bar, you'll need to bend that thing back the other way a lot further to make it straight again. Take …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 09:06 AM
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This is a great analogy... MRP is not like fighting a siege war. The enemy has a moat (solispism), walls(entitlement), drawbridge(withdraw), archers(shit tests), gate(panties) and the inner sanctum is that pussy. You dig tunnels, construct siege equipment, gather your army all to fight for that glorious reward. If you can cross the moat, scale the walls, bust down the gate. Maybe, just maybe she will let you have a taste of that prize. It makes me think that MRP is about building a bigger, bette…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 08:58 AM
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3 months is very early if you've been married 20 years. I agree with druganswer, schedule in some masculine activities around that time. Let her see you being all alpha and shit. My wife use to only fuck me during ovulation week, not sure what that says about me, if anything. I've now opened up shark week and make up sex, because I stopped hiding from my masculine need to fuck. She actually tells me that it's a huge turn on for her when I won't take no for an answer and if I keep at it, she get'…
/r/askMRP08/07/16 10:52 AM
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I suspect that your A&A was weak, you probably didn't display enough desire. C'mon man, she's stood there in what? a pair of panties? If my wife is stood in a pair of panties, I'm all over her, nothing she can say to me can get me out of the "I'm going to fuck you now" mindset, this is a turn on for her. If my wife comes down from the shower in a dress and make up, I admire the view "DAYUM, you're fuckin hot as hell", and kiss her like I mean it. This isn't an act though, it's natural, it's what…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/16 10:44 AM
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Why does it take so long to kill that ego fucker??
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/16 10:31 AM
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recovered faggot Love this, why isn't this trademarked? Do you mind if I refer to myself as this? "Hi, My name is Donekebabplease, I'm a recovering faggot"
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/16 10:30 AM
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Great post. I'm learning to take everything in context, seeing things in isolation doesn't work for me. My context is I've been a weaksauce fuck deferring to my wife on everything for many years. I've recently had the stupid notion that I might deserve better from her after only a few months of handling my shit. This is not the way to be, the context is relevant and will be for a very long time. Accepting it's all my fault and it's going to take a while for her to catch up was very important for…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/16 10:28 AM
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This is why I love this sub. The introspection is inspiring, before I discovered MRP, I rationalised everything, blamed everyone, had covert contracts thought I was "doing fine". How wrong was I. I used to talk to those who I knew would tell me what I wanted to hear, those that would tell me "it's her man, she's a bitch, you work hard to provide for your family and you deserve better!" Then I would go back to thinking I wasn't the problem and I didn't have to change anything I just had to get he…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/16 09:38 AM
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Amy Winehouse - Stonger than me
/r/askMRP27/06/16 08:11 AM
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I'm not a medical professional in any way. As I've seen it, I'd say you have to be careful. If there is any hint of PTSD with triggers, then you could have a BPD on your hands. You do need to be very careful, if there are abandonment issues (as can be the case with BPD), leaving without saying a word may not be the best action to take. You need to pay extra attention if this is something you're seeing in your relationship, just adjust your approach each time you see really negative reactions. Tr…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/16 09:35 AM
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Start that journal, keep it secret, keep it safe. I think we've all been there at some point, the realisation that you've actually been making your situation worse is a hard one to accept (I know I struggled). One thing that resonated for me was being a quick learner but a slow "unlearner", instead of realising what I was doing wasn't working, I just tried harder with what wasn't working.
/r/askMRP21/04/16 01:58 PM
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That's a great result to hear! Thanks for the update.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 11:57 AM
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One of my boys was going through this, he's 18 now and hasn't been bullied since I told him the following when he was 7 years old Bullies prey on the weak, you need to not show weakness, all that will take is one swift punch in the face. It doesn't matter if you get a little beat up, all you need to do is make him think twice about picking on you. If that bully knows there a chance he will get hurt when he picks on you, chances are he won't pick on you. A few days after giving him this advice al…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 12:15 PM
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Great FR. I learned from it. The translations are an eye-opener, I need to get better at this. translation: "I know you think that you are a strong alpha tiger and I'm allowing you to have a little fun, but remember who holds the leash here." Here here! Thank you for this reminder: Wife is relentless at trying to tame me, get me to doubt myself, get me to admit that I am a beta.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 11:48 AM
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Thank you. I've learned more about myself from this one event than the hundreds that came before it. Accepting it's all my fault (as the drunk captain) has really helped me shift my perspective, especially when it comes to thinking she's a unicorn. TRP/MRP has changed my life, it is still early on but I now know myself more than I ever have. Those questions that keep lurking in your mind; "why the fuck did I do that?" or "what is wrong with me?" have all been answered. Now I'm just going to be a…
/r/askMRP09/03/16 12:26 PM
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This is fucking brutal, the kid is an innocent and I hope you're able to do more than just tuck him in - he needs his dad. Man, you are so right, I don't want anyone caught in the crossfire. Perhaps telling her I want to see him for an hour before bed so I can play with him then put him to bed too? It'll all be in the house so will be a little uncomfortable but it's a small price to pay. Don't count your wife out 100% either I'm so glad you said this. I was beginning to think it was a done deal …
/r/askMRP03/03/16 01:41 PM
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I didn't want you to turn it into a tit for tat conversation. I thought this during, it's the reason I left. I said what I had to say and her reaction was somewhat expected. She was a little more of a brat than I thought she'd be. Stop talking to her about the shit your going to own. That's the last I'll say on the subject to her. Actions, actions and more actions. I'm going to do my own thing, I'm going to work out what it is I want. I've been living in her shadow all this time. Never let her s…
/r/askMRP03/03/16 01:00 PM
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Update - spent the night in a hotel last night. Full details added to the post. Would appreciate your thoughts?
/r/askMRP03/03/16 12:03 PM
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Thanks dude, I can see now that I've been crippled by fear in the past. Fear of making waves, fear of her emotional tantrums and fear of losing my family. Check out my update, it did not go well. It's ok though, I'm going to be fine, whatever happens.
/r/askMRP03/03/16 09:25 AM
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You are in fact an abused spouse. Fuck!! I've lost count of the amount of times I've been called the abusive spouse. Not trying to say I'm not one, I don't think I am. I've been guilty of a lot of extreme DEERing which has caused some issues over the years. I have lost my shit a few times and walked out of the house because I couldn't handle it any more. It's tough when your trying to explain the mistake you made wasn't intentional but you're being called a liar and screamed at. You will just ow…
/r/askMRP02/03/16 11:12 PM
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You're orbiting her, everything in your story is you reacting to her. I see this now, it is all about her, that's pretty much what my life has been. After reading NMMNG I realised that I was DEERing and making myself look like a proper cnt because I couldn't stand her thinking I was a proper cnt. I have spent most of my adult life trying to appease her and seek her approval, since discovering MRP I'm blown away. I don't think you've quite got the concept judging by your description, I'm inclined…
/r/askMRP02/03/16 11:06 PM
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Thanks dude, first post. I'll get the formatting.
/r/askMRP02/03/16 05:08 PM
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Ah, lightbulb! I get it now, thank you. Ambiguity does stifle me quite a bit in those situations, like "is this something I should put up with because of the OCD"
/r/askMRP02/03/16 05:06 PM
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Thank you, that makes sense. I think I started to do that before discovering MRP, which I guess I tried to handle in my own way which is most likely why it's been worse lately (more arguments). I haven't handled that push back very well, tone and body language are definitely things I need to work on.
/r/askMRP02/03/16 05:05 PM
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I'm going to start WISNIFG tonight. MMSL is on the list next, I've read about a 3rd of The book of Pook, I'll get there. I've found an incredible amount of information in the sidebar which I have read already.
/r/askMRP02/03/16 04:38 PM
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Why would you follow her outside while she smokes? Do you smoke? Yes, I do smoke. I don't follow her around like a 5 year old either, sometimes we smoke together, sometimes we don't, it's that simple. This would be "abuse" if done by a man but...pussy pass. I'm glad you said that, it had crossed my mind. Horrible! Whiny, bitchy, little boy language. Here is your answer: STOP TRYING SO HARD. Develop other options so when your wife is baiting the you leave. I do see that now, as hard as that is to…
/r/askMRP02/03/16 04:37 PM
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That's a great idea, haven't thought of audio books at all. Thanks!
/r/askMRP02/03/16 04:30 PM
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I have just bought the art of war, that's on my list of readings. I will get round to that one as I've always wanted to read that, even before discovering MRP.
/r/askMRP02/03/16 03:52 PM
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I'm 5' 11" and weigh 150lbs, I'm lean. I have good muscle definition, a little on the skinny side. I used to lift religously 3 times a week, I know what works for me, I still have a muscularly lean frame leftover as it was in the last 18 months I stopped (busy schedule and life getting in the way). I just need to get the gym set up asap, only time I have to do that is this weekend.
/r/askMRP02/03/16 03:49 PM
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I'll take a look man, thanks. Can you elaborate on this a little please - One advantage of things having gone this far is that when you finally push back, your moral position is unassailable.
/r/askMRP02/03/16 03:42 PM
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Thanks for the heads up dude. Threatening divorce at this point may be counter-productive and I may not be ready for this yet. I'm going to have a think about it.
/r/askMRP02/03/16 03:39 PM
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Read WISNIFG as soon as possible. Just bought it from Amazon, will stick it on the kindle tonight and begin. It was next on my reading list, it's just moved up in priority on the to-do list. OP, you're probably going to have to become a bit of a lion tamer here. I know it's going to be tough, my life is pretty shitty right now, so it can't get much worse, besides, I got me here, only I can get me out! where was the A&A or AM? Good point dude, it just wasn't there at all. I don't think I even tho…
/r/askMRP02/03/16 03:28 PM
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Ok. But do 20 push ups tonight and 25 on Friday. I've just put this on my to-do list. Thanks dude. I would suggest you give this a try Once I've set the boundaries tonight, I'm going to give this a go tomorrow night and every night thereafter. I think I need to be happier all round, I'm so affected by this situation that I've gone from being a really happy guy to miserable and feeling impending doom. This may even have something to do with it, outcome dependence!
/r/askMRP02/03/16 03:08 PM
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Thanks Man, it's good to hear my situation isn't entirely unique, even if it is someone going through the same hell! She does have phases where it's better, and not so intrusive, sometimes I think it's just hormonal. My advice on dealing with these issues in the moment: ignore. What you are seeing is a 2 year old throwing a tantrum. If you react in any way, you will be feeding the beast. Only reply with one word answers to direct questions. Otherwise try and leave the room or house if necessary.…
/r/askMRP02/03/16 03:04 PM
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STFU is hard to master when all you've been doing is DEERing your whole life. You stood there while she unloaded on you for 20 minutes? The longer you sit around taking it the more you're setting yourself up to fail, especially in the early phases. That's exactly what I did, looking back, I wasn't even aware of her blocking the door so I couldn't get out. I'm going to sit down tonight and work out the O.I plans. Thanks dude.
/r/askMRP02/03/16 02:55 PM
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The bad news is that you dug yourself really deep into this hole. I know dude, it's a real mess. I am so glad I found this place!! This is my first post and I can't thank everyone enough.
/r/askMRP02/03/16 02:53 PM
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I know I can't fix her mental disorders, I didn't always know this, I used to try to find the magic sentence to make everything ok. I need to up my game, I now know I add to this, me being a shell of a man does not help this situation. At this point, I don't have the right to tell her to do anything dude. She doesn't respect me, this is what I need to change, then when I'm there, if it's still there, then I'll push for professional assistance.
/r/askMRP02/03/16 02:49 PM
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You are suffering from her being put on the pedestal and a severe lack of boundaries. Definitely. This is it. Make no mistake, your wife is behaving poorly, but until you fix your own behavior you won't have the tools to help her. Thanks, I needed to hear that. She has you walking on eggshells because of her OCD and the fact that she's a harpy cunt. Absolutely. This is bang on, I've catered to it, I've made it worse. If my wife locked me out of my own house, she'd have divorce papers the next da…
/r/askMRP02/03/16 02:41 PM
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Your wife commands you around in your own house in a disrespectful tone and you oblige her singing a song in your head? The way I see it is this, it's early days, I'm not yet worthy of respect, I know I shouldn't tolerate disrespect but right now, I'm choosing my battles. That's not a hill I want to die on. She has complete authority over you. She has zero respect for you as a man. Agreed, that's why I found MRP. I've been a beta in my own home for a long time. Are you sure? Is it possible that …
/r/askMRP02/03/16 02:28 PM
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She's not in therapy right now. She has been on anti-depressants, she's had counselling. None of that helps, I don't believe there is a cure for OCD other than having an oak in the house that handles his shit, but we'll see.
/r/askMRP02/03/16 02:19 PM
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Are you a man worthy of following and respecting? At home I would have to say no, it's the only place I'm lacking respect. I truly do see the error of my ways, all that I've read has blown my mind how applicable it is to my life. What is your Ht/Wt? I'm 5' 11" and weigh 150lbs, I'm lean. I have good muscle definition, a little on the skinny side. Have you ever considered that you deserve better? Have you internalized that you should be the prize and that your time and attention has value? I have…
/r/askMRP02/03/16 02:16 PM
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I don't see how it's the opposite of frame? I wasn't affected by the way she spoke to me, I left the room (as to not escalate the situation) and sung a song in my head whilst looking out the window. I thought nothing of it.
/r/askMRP02/03/16 01:55 PM
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Wow, that's a revelation for me. It drives me absolutely crazy sometimes. Logic and reason worked once, not anymore. I'm definitely going to adopt your approach here dude. I'm going to try it the next time. Also, I really hope you've been lifting. Not yet, just moved house and need to set up the Gym in the garage. It's on my list for this weekend.
/r/askMRP02/03/16 01:52 PM
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STFU, especially over text. Then go home and act like you don't give a fuck, because you shouldn't. Your wife is the most responsible child in the house, why are you trying to engage her moods and temper tantrums like an adult? I honestly think it's a little early for this, I've got 14 years to make up for. This is where I want to be but I have a lot to do first before I can act this way. I've been a drunk captain for so long, this will just escalate the situation further. Next time just ignore …
/r/askMRP02/03/16 01:38 PM
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Diagnosed or 'self proclaimed'? Diagnosed. Were you though? I really wasn't, I was trying to STFU and not give her attention when she's being rude to me. Why didn't you just go do something else or get yourself ready for the day? I should have done exactly that, you're right. Thank you. What have you read post or book wise? I've read NMMNG, practically all illimitable men, rationalmale, familyalpha has to offer, the 300 top posts all time on r/MarriedRedPill. We've been like this for a good 10 y…
/r/askMRP02/03/16 01:24 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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