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Ha, tbh I thought he was a gay friend or something. I didn’t carry much money on me and left her place that night a little while after doing the deed. Maybe just naive of me (I was just out of college at the time) but the thought of something more sinister never crossed my mind.
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:05 PM
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Was in Madrid one summer when the city shut down a couple blocks in celebration of some religious holiday and everyone drank and partied in the streets. I was with a group and turned around, saw a cute Spanish girl and started talking to her. 5-10 minutes later her guy friend in broken English leans over and tells me “you fuck her tonight.” Best wingman ever. She took me to her apartment maybe 30-45 min later. What an absolute legend her friend was, will always remember that one.
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:57 AM
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You did the right thing regarding your friends gf. It’s funny actually the more you explain because I’ve had really similar experiences. If I were you I’d just pursue the girls you’re interested in. As for the others, either friend zone or fuck. I’ve had awesome encounters with girls I at one point in my life would have passed up on. Remember it doesn’t all have to go down perfectly with the perfect person. Sex and flirting is not a big deal, but if you make it out to be they’ll smell it from a …
/r/seduction31/12/17 05:40 AM
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You’re spot on when you say maybe you’re too much of a perfectionist. You’re putting too much value in having it all be just right. You just need to get laid and see what it’s like to be around a girl you’ve had sex with, when there isn’t that pressure you’re putting on yourself. That’s how you create those moments with other girls. Things don’t always go smoothly but the more sexual interactions you have with girls the easier flirting gets. That’s been my experience at least.
/r/seduction28/12/17 06:40 PM
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It's called the Kino Escalation Ladder. There was a good post this week also about good little ways to use subtle kino.
/r/seduction17/06/16 08:51 PM
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Stamford
/r/seduction01/10/15 04:15 AM
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You said you'd challenge her more after saying she's too innocent for you. Care to elaborate?
/r/seduction24/11/14 03:28 AM
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Too insecure/needy. Take the compliment and tell her she's cool too.
/r/seduction16/09/14 05:14 PM
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"You're not so bad yourself."
/r/seduction16/09/14 04:23 AM
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All these posts are flat out wrong. Listen to me. You're seeing her 4 times in a week. Texting all the time. Doing shit that couples do. It's mainly your fault that she feels this way now. You told her that you just wanted to be FWB but you're acting like a bf. You shouldn't be seeing her more than once -- MAX twice -- a week. Remind her when she starts breaking the rules and acting like your gf about that conversation the two of you had and how you're in a point in your life where you're not lo…
/r/seduction14/09/14 01:19 PM
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I don't think using canned openers means that you're outcome dependent. You can flirt with girls, try to get numbers/lays using entire canned routines and at the same time be outcome independent. That just means that means that you don't think any less of yourself if you get rejected. Canned openers are fine. It's an easy way to open a set, especially if you have AA. Once you start talking, that first line ends up having little effect on the overall interaction.
/r/seduction01/08/13 01:44 PM
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Yeah it's a delicate balance, but by breaking rapport, you don't have to leave and risk losing her. It just adds another element to the interaction. Sounds like she had her mind set on doing her thing and leaving alone though.
/r/seduction18/07/13 03:39 PM
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I've been in a similar situation a few times, not necessarily where the girl initiated like that and was so aggressive, but where it got pretty heated entirely because of physical attraction. When they flaked at the end of the night, I didn't get it. Looking back I realized its a combination of not building rapport and the fact that some girls are just looking for a fun night out and the ego boost of a guy all into her. Also, she pretty much opened you and the whole interaction was you catering …
/r/seduction18/07/13 12:39 PM
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Shout out to Mr. Guan! Funny stuff
/r/seduction31/05/13 04:58 PM
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Smooth, any examples of the shit tests?
/r/seduction25/03/13 12:59 AM
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I phrased my words incorrectly. You're absolutely right. It's definitely better to have the girl put the number in your phone.
/r/seduction01/02/11 09:46 PM
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Negging is basically the same as teasing. Think of it that way instead of like a put-down. Also, more important than the actual neg is when to properly use it. I used to blow sets because I would neg before I had good comfort/rapport with my target. This is really important. There's no such thing as a perfect neg because you could use one and totally bomb the set and then use the same exact one at a different point in the conversation and have it work wonders. My advice would be to work on openi…
/r/seduction01/02/11 10:03 AM
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Are you in Toulouse?
/r/seduction01/02/11 08:13 AM
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A good way to get a girl's name that you forgot is when you're putting her number in her phone, ask her how she spells her name. Don't worry so much about the IOIs. They'll be easier to spot the more experience you get. If you're having a good conversation and you're kinoing/escalating, you're doing a good job.
/r/seduction01/02/11 07:57 AM
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Wow, great job! Your mindset is awesome for being so inexperienced. PM me if you have any questions about fucking. I was 21 when I lost my virginity, and even though it's different for anyone, I wish I'd had a little advice before my first time.
/r/seduction01/02/11 07:49 AM
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Maybe you could have tried some light kisses on the neck and with your hands on her jawline/cheek slowly turned her head as you transitioned to her lips? I like to do this sometimes instead of going straight for the lips. Then again, she might just be a tease. Don't get hung up over it.
/r/seduction01/02/11 07:13 AM
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His problems are solely due to his own problems, and his inability to view women as human beings who are capable of making their own sexual decisions. Dude, it's like you have a personal vendetta against him. He knows that they have a choice. That's why he's worried about telling them what he wants. His concern is that being honest with them about his wishes will embarrass them or make them think he's an asshole and result in driving them away. What he doesn't realize is that telling them he doe…
/r/seduction01/02/11 07:00 AM
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Just sit down with them like you already know them. You're the only guy at this table. Be the man; it's your table. This is awesome social proof btw. Use it.
/r/seduction01/02/11 05:58 AM
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I agree completely. Before I read the comment section, this was exactly what I was going to write. OP, this is your answer. Same goes for other boring questions she asks too. Watch Jon Stewart when he interviews his guests on the Daily Show. He does this a lot when HE's asking questions. He'll make a joke about what his guest just said and follow up with another question. It's a good way to make a conversation more interesting if you're asking the boring, interview-type questions.
/r/seduction01/02/11 05:50 AM
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I think you're overreacting to the situation. You guys are already having sex on a consistent basis. You don't have to say anything. Trying to be clear that you're a sexual being will ONLY come across as needy or whiny. Plus, you can still get naked and fool around a little even if sex is off the table (Whenever I've been with a girl who's on her period she keeps the panties on and we still have fun). Clothes off or not, just make sure you have a good time. If this is any kind of shit test, it's…
/r/seduction01/02/11 05:37 AM
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Wow, relax ThrowawayPUA. I don't see why you're riding the OP so hard. It's an honest question. He's in a bind an he needs some advice. He prefers to be with the women he pulls for more than just a one-nighter but doesn't want exclusivity. He doesn't want to lead them on to think that there's a possibility for a serious relationship when they're spending lots of time together and having regular sex. monstercheese, basically you need to let them know that you're not interested in a LTR and that y…
/r/seduction01/02/11 05:21 AM
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I like this advice a lot. It shows her that you're very open to being exclusive and that you're mature about relationships. You're not someone who's afraid to be committed but you don't jump into something too quickly either. Basically she hears enough to be assured you're not playing her, and you keep the ball in your court.
/r/seduction27/01/11 06:50 AM
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Oh man this reminds me of a scene in American Beauty. Next time just look in her eyes and say "you like...muscles?" You want to maintain eye contact but make sure to keep it playful and not creepy. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NlVo8sn_UGA
/r/seduction25/01/11 11:39 AM
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This describes me very well. I find the club/bar scene much more intimidating than any other situation. Any tips?
/r/seduction25/01/11 07:25 AM
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Don't ask why she's being weird or accuse her of not being friendly. Be mature about it. You had sex and it's not a big deal. Asking her why she's acting a certain way isn't going to make her feel more comfortable. Just be cool with the situation and this alone will put her at ease. The days following sex with a girl I don't bring it up unless I know she's really feeling me, and if the topic comes up I'll just mention how great it was. I usually wait a day before texting and say something like "…
/r/seduction20/01/11 04:33 AM
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