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She could be bipolar. You comparing what you did to breaking an old vase could also be you being very generous to yourself. Yeah, just checked your account. Your OYS and past post don't read like your wife live in a different state. You're in a dead bedroom 100% but she still hints at sex and pulls away when you initiate from a different state while living with her parents somehow. Are you a pathological liar or are you structuring your posts in a way to impress retards on the internet? Also, I …
/r/askMRP04/08/21 06:46 PM
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I don’t want to be with someone who is not intrinsically attracted to me to a degree that they act on it daily. why am I always the one planning this shit with her vaguely interested in me most of the time. I wouldn’t mind being the leader on this front if she was overly enthusiastic about me when I’m around. But that is not the case so I feel like a sucker beta bucks trying to impress this girl who is luke warm with me most days. You're a typical retard. You're using RP tools to accomplish BP g…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/21 02:53 PM
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Weight : 166 pounds ; Height : 5'7 and my lifting numbers are shameful. You left out that you were a fatty. And no, you don't carry it well and it is that bad. That gut needs to go.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/21 06:13 PM
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Finances Try approaching this with no judgement. You can't improve if you don't know what's going on. Go in as a fact-finding mission. Set everything on the table. You made decisions based on your beliefs and habits at the time, nothing more. The self flagellation is not production.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/21 04:58 PM
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I deduce I lack pro-activity, I am mostly reactive and let things happen to me. Even with this OYS. Nowhere is there a plan to address anything, just mental masturbation.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/21 12:07 PM
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Together 7 years, no kids No sex but hj's every 3 nights Thanks OP. I laughed so hard I teared up pretty good.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/21 02:01 PM
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Why'd you delete the other post and account so quickly? I confronted her regarding this and she says that it won't be an issue once we meet physically. Ah yes. The perfect way to turn her on and make doing sexual things not a chore. Should I be worried about it? This is only a question because you're a loser and don't have better things to do with your time. Is it a sign that she's taking me for granted? Was the phone sex a reward for or in exchange for something? Any suggestions on how I should…
/r/askMRP27/07/21 07:19 PM
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Deconditioning the wife who is disgusted at your touch - 10 Levels of Kino
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 12:54 PM
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I haven't felt the desire to initiate very much, Even when I did, she'd turn belly down and behave like a dead fish - and it's ovulation week. Perhaps it shouldn't, but this further pushes down my interest in her. Are you having sex because you want to fuck or because you want her to make you feel desired? When you're presented with sex, take it. The advice given here is to caveman her and take what you want if presented with dead fish.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 12:42 PM
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She was nearly non responsive so eventually I just stopped because I was losing interest and thought she wasn’t into it either. I asked what’s up, is everything okay? she said she was genuinely into it and is frustrated that I just stopped. Fuck. (For some context: She’s had some past sexual trauma and one time she had a freeze response while we were fucking and she wanted to stop. I just pushed passed it thinking it was nothing and it was re-traumatizing for her. She also generally likes it whe…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 12:36 PM
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Essentially when she gets mad at me, my little boy wakes up and goes full nuclear to protect myself from emotional pain. If you haven't read/listened to it already, I recommend "Games People Play." It'll help you realize what's going on.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/21 05:03 PM
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OYS #30 31, 5'7, 152.4 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4 5-3-1 Working Maxes: OHP: 124x1, DL: 252x1, Bench: 192x1, Squat: 235x1 Goals by April 2022: OHP: 160, DL: 380, Bench: 245, Squat 320 MISSION I want to live a life of discipline and to always strive to live up to my ideal. PHYSICAL After larping about it for months, I finally started waking up at 5 A.M. to work out. The workouts are so much better in the garage when the temperature isn’t flirting with triple digits. Just like last t…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/21 05:00 PM
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So I found myself evaluating my goals and my plans, and searching for positives as I was feeling pretty negative about everything... You strike me as someone who would benefit a lot from journaling.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/21 07:19 PM
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Good job with your sons. I hope you see the parallel between your middle son and his sister and the relationship a lot of guys have with their wives.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/21 07:14 PM
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It's not for validation but you can only be validated as a good lover if she lets you give her an orgasm. Did I read that right? You do realize that this is a goal that depends entirely on another person, right? Imagine if your biggest goal your life is to get your friend Chuck to lose weight, but Chuck doesn't want to lose weight. It'd be completely retarted to get depressed that you can't meet your goal in that scenario because it's not a goal you should've set in the first place.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 04:04 PM
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Try this: replace clean house with sex in your scenario.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 03:54 PM
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I have direct experience with this with my wife. The very first thing you need to do is stop making it a goal. Her first orgasm needs to be something she lets happen, not something you make her have. You absolutely cannot care about this more than her. If she doesn't care and has no interest, it's not going to happen. Just fuck, get yours and move on with your life. My wife (gf at the time) got horny, looked forward to sex, got wet, but when the act came got too much inside her head. She enjoyed…
/r/askMRP21/07/21 03:50 PM
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I feel like I need a shower after reading that. Where are you in your OYS? What are you plans? What are your goals? What do you want? What have you read?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/21 04:53 PM
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There is not a good answer, Are you sure? I just didn't want to go out with her this week / didn't think of getting her flowers / didn't think she deserve more of my attention but she doesn't understand it herself. Sometimes you have to stop doing routines and just be honest with her, because it's congruent with your core.
/r/askMRP20/07/21 04:02 PM
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Weird, maybe pointless story but its this a good thing? Jesus. Just shut up and enjoy your first blowjob in years (Jesus Christ). Only thing I want to point out is that you got a blowjob and your first reaction was to get on the internet to humble brag to other retards.
/r/askMRP19/07/21 03:43 PM
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You should read No More Mr. Nice Guy. You have a lot of covert contacts.
/r/askMRP18/07/21 01:06 PM
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Even though the S&P 500 is probably too high at the moment and could crash anytime? People have been saying that since 2013. Nobody knows when the next crash will happen. When it does, stocks are on sale and you should continue buying anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/21 12:46 PM
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OYS #29 31, 5'7, 150.4 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4 5-3-1 Working Maxes: OHP: 124x1, DL: 252x1, Bench: 192x1, Squat: 235x1 Goals by April 2022: OHP: 160, DL: 380, Bench: 245, Squat 320 MISSION I want to live a life of discipline and to always strive to live up to my ideal. THOUGHTS I find myself having a hard time writing OYS recently. My last one was three weeks ago and I keep putting it off because there is really nothing big to report week to week, just a slow grind. I keep readi…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/21 04:11 PM
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I probably don’t have enough value and attraction to pull this off but I’m ok with burning this shit down over this. Ive been building my value for 6 months now passively if she throws it all away over instagram I would be truly ok with this. I want her focused on me, I want her to dance for me and I don’t want her to have a plan B somewhere in her following. I need her 100% and I will not accept 99%. Calm down rambo. We all know you're too much of a little bitch to walk away. You're one day of …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/21 06:13 PM
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At some point, you need to transition from asking about what the RP-approved action is to asking what is the LARP-congruent action. The catch is you have to know who you are and what you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/21 04:20 PM
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Second this. It hurts like a motherfucker when the weights get heavy but you'll get used to it. Athletic tape also helps if the knurling on your bar is particularly aggressive. Also, if you've never switched our your grip while Deadlifting then you have a pretty significant muscle imbalance in your back if just switching your grip makes you feel like you're at risk of injury.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/21 04:10 PM
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OYS #28 31, 5'7, 153.4 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4 5-3-1 Working Maxes: OHP: 124x1, DL: 252x1, Bench: 192x1, Squat: 235x1 Goals by April 2022: OHP: 160, DL: 380, Bench: 245, Squat 320 MISSION I want to live a life of discipline and to always strive to live up to my ideal. PHYSICAL I switched to doing two cycles of 5-3-1 per deload week. Today is week six and it feels just right. I’m straining under the weight and I can tell that my recovery is taxed. I’ll run this again for another…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/21 03:06 PM
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Did this dude get banned and make a new account just to thank the Sirs for the spanking?
/r/askMRP24/06/21 02:26 AM
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I realised I probably need to start OYS to get through this. But let's do the victim puke first... I suppose this is one way to get around getting Rule 9'd on MRP. You know what must be done. None of what you typed mattered. At all.
/r/askMRP24/06/21 02:24 AM
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Are you taking the time to warm up before and to stretch afterwards? That alone cured a lot of my pain.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/21 06:03 PM
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Protein = 180g Bro, 1g of Protein per kg of body weight is the extreme high end of protein consumption. You're way overshooting your intake. I got it backwards. It's 1g per lb, not kg
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/21 05:37 PM
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You are 100% not ready for WOTSM. Read some of the beginner books. Almost everything you is about pleasing your wife in some way. wanted more emotional support and wanted to “feel closer to me” This is woman for "I still don't find you attractive" and would like to schedule sex 2 times a week (to my surprise without me prompting) I said as long as that is a minimum for the week, and that sex was with some enthusiasm I would oblige. Enjoy the pussy I guess. Eventually you'll realize that dread se…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/21 03:44 PM
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My family would go ape shit if I got divorced. Our families are very close. Well shit. You're screwed. Better sacrifice the rest of your life making them happy. That's literally your only choice. But honest question, would you fuck you? Are you fat? A supplicating pussy (it's a rhetorical question, I know you are)? Does she have any reason to respect you as a man? Do you?
/r/askMRP17/06/21 06:09 PM
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3 rounds of 15 reps of situps, pushups, inverted rows, squads (no weights) is weak as shit dude. Drop the sets to 10 and do this cycle on the hour every hour while you work. You'll look like a retard at first but unless you're working from home I guarantee you by the end of the wee, most of your office will join you (not that it should matter). You can even do it everyday until you reach enough reps where you actually need a day off to recover from it. Also, The gyms are open again for vaccinate…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/21 05:58 PM
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Yeah, I'm with Horns on this one. I'm not sure what all this talk about convincing her is even about. It's a rambo move but fuck if I'm gonna let a retard put my child at risk because she saw a YouTube video. The thing I'm learning here is that I have to hate myself a little bit to give myself a motivation push when needed. My problem is that I've tried that for most of my life, and it easily slides into pathetic self-loathing. I need a systemic way of correcting for that. Maybe that's the ultim…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/21 04:58 PM
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Damn it. You're right. I'm not going to go back up to 160, but I won't go down to sub 150 either. I'll stay 152-155. I'm rather happy with how I look at the moment. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 07:20 PM
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I was 125 lbs skeleton mode when I picked up my first barbell at ~22 years old and did believe the hardgainer meme until I started counting calories and realized I was bullshitting myself. Based on the pictures I took, I was at 25-28% body fat at 160 lbs. That's the heaviest I've ever been and it's entirely possible that my always being on the leaner side has given me a skewed idea of just what fat looks like on me. Either way, didn't like it. I would guess I'm at ~15% now (based on mirror). Eve…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 05:34 PM
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Good on you for making some solid realizations this week. I wanted to hold her with OI. She said no and I was unfazed. I then re-attempted minutes later and it was successful I wonder, did you ask her again the second time, or they did you just reach out and grab her? I do not know how to be attractive and also forge a connection The two aren't mutually exclusive. The relationship is her job (when you're attractive) Even better, stop having feelings about the fucking relationship. Period. The ad…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 05:06 PM
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OYS #27 31, 5'7, 153.4 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4 5-3-1 Working Maxes: OHP: 122x1, DL: 240x1, Bench: 185x1, Squat: 220.5x1 I don’t have my workout log with me atm, but these are numbers from before the ban Goals by April 2022: OHP: 160, DL: 380, Bench: 245, Squat 320 MISSION I want to live a life of discipline and to always strive to live up to my ideal. READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP, WOTSM, Bang, TWOTSM, Unchained Man 2.0 Can’t Hurt …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 12:19 PM
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at the end of the day I’d be able to say that I really did do everything in my power to make things work. To who? And why does that requirement need to be met?
/r/askMRP07/06/21 09:18 PM
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Why does 'a man' keep his word? Did you decide that yourself? Did you internalize that you're not allowed to call yourself a man unless you allow others to enslave you with your past words?
/r/askMRP07/06/21 09:08 PM
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A couple of things: YOU decide what kind of a man you want to be, what your morals are, and what that kind of man does. It sounds to me like you're single right now. I don't know why you're so concerned about your ex. The absolute audacity of a bitch to tell you to put your life on hold as plan B while she sets up her branch swing for the next year and you being enough of a bitch to go along with it. Yes I'm triggered.
/r/askMRP07/06/21 09:04 PM
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Did you really, at no point while typing that, stop to ask you self: Does this even matter?
/r/askMRP30/04/21 05:38 PM
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OYS #26 31, 5'7, 158 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4 OHP: 122x1, DL: 240x1, Bench: 185x1, Squat: 220.5x1 Goals by April 2022: OHP: 160, DL: 380, Bench: 245, Squat 320 MISSION I want to radiate love, positivity, intensity, and uncompromising continual growth. I want to live a life of discipline and to always strive to live up to my ideal. READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP, WOTSM, Bang, TWOTSM, Unchained Man 2.0 (on pause while studying for GRE)…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/21 10:51 PM
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As someone who has also done the "I'll work on myself and then I'll apply myself in earnest" approach, the bar isn't as high as you think (esp at your age bracket - There aren't a lot of single studs walking around). The problem is in your own limiting beliefs. By the time you feel ready, you'll realize how much time you've wasted because you could've been getting better results the whole time. Stop being a pussy and making excuses to not act. Don't take this as an excuse to not put in the work …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 01:51 PM
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Fair enough. The difference is subtle but important. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/21 03:21 PM
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Took a few days to think about this Leaders Eat Last. I watched the TED talk. Guy starts out ok with neurochemical explanation, and then drives a blue punch buggy straight into betaville. Leaders eat when they judge it their time to eat. Sometimes they judge that they eat first because their survival itself will be more beneficial to the group as a whole. While other times they eat with everyone else because there is plenty to go around. The idea that a leader is defined by sacrifice for his peo…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/21 01:50 PM
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I’ve been lacking in the discipline department - I am hitting a lull in my mental progress and have noticed that many of the habits that I immediately stopped when I was gung ho at the beginning have crept back in Doesn't sound you ever had discipline. What you're describing is motivation (which doesn't last). Discipline is doing things even if you don't feel like it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/21 02:11 PM
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OYS #25 31, 5'7, 158 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4 OHP: 115x6, DL: 227x5, Bench: 180x6, Squat: 210x4 Goals by April 2022: OHP: 160, DL: 380, Bench: 245, Squat 320 MISSION I want to be a beaming beacon of love, positivity, intensity, and uncompromising continual growth. I want to be an example of what life could look like if you live a life of discipline and always strive to live up to your ideal. READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP, WOTSM, Ban…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/21 12:51 AM
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You want to be different from the new guys here so bad. You preface all of your issues with multiple paragraphs about how it's not so bad because you got these things going for you. You're actually the worst type of new guy: the ones that think they're actually not that bad. Here is your script Finances are in a good place. Boring sex average once a week Killed covert contracts, but Butthurt if sex less than 2-3 times a week (basically always a butthurt little bitch) Butthurt from rejection Stru…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 02:32 PM
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Mint just scrapes your card/bank transactions. I wouldn't call it a budgeting app because it's pretty dumb at categorizing the transactions. You still need to do something else to track your spending. Spend a month or two just tracking your spending with no judgement. People are usually too scared of what they know they'll find. Just track where your money is going. Create categories as broad or detailed as you find useful. Once you find out what you're currently doing with your money, you can m…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 01:42 PM
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Holy shit. I just imaged an angry, fat neckbeard while reading that. It was wife's birthday. she kept going on about how she felt lonely. So I went to the gym. You're phrasing you going to the gym as a reaction to her saying she was lonely. I got home and she was still talking about how lonely she was. Weird how leaving her alone and saying/doing nothing didn't change anything. I just listened to her, and then went about cleaning up the house she rarely cleans. Then she said something about goin…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/21 03:12 PM
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My genetics suck for putting on muscle. How could you possibly know that if all you've done is fuck around at the gym? I hate how you give yourself an out before even starting. If this is your first time working our seriously, I bet you don't even know what it means to really push yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/21 02:23 PM
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OYS #24 31, 5'7, 158 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4 MISSION I want to be a beaming beacon of love, positivity, intensity, and uncompromising continual growth. I want to be an example of what life could look like if you live a life of discipline and always strive to live up to your ideal. READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP, WOTSM, Bang, TWOTSM, Unchained Man 2.0 (Just bought) Can’t Hurt Me, The Dichotomy of Leadership, Deep Work, Relentless, Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 12:07 PM
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she never initiates sex or shows desire towards me unless This shit drives me crazy I guess I don’t understand why You're still a weak, fat fuck. I don't know why this is a mystery. The longest sections of your OYS are all about getting validation from women. Having women hit on you is so out of the ordinary that you ran home and bragged to mommy. STFU and pick up heavy things. You haven't even made the newby realization that this is all your fault yet. Have you read any of the sidebar?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/21 12:23 PM
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OYS #23 30, 5'7, 156 lbs, no kids, married 3 years, together 4 MISSION I want to be a beaming beacon of love, positivity, intensity, and uncompromising continual growth. I want to be an example of what life could look like if you live a life of discipline and always strive to live up to your ideal. READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP, WOTSM, Bang, TWOTSM finally Can’t Hurt Me, The Dichotomy of Leadership, Deep Work, Relentless, The Will to Power, Games Pe…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/21 01:42 PM
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like some sad attempt at overt dread. That's exactly what it is. She just wants you to know that people find her attractive. She's qualifying herself to you. A woman never say those things to an insecure beta, only a man they're trying to keep. Pay attention to her face when she tells you things like that next time. Her expression will be one of pure glee regardless of which approach she takes. I've gotten everything from indignation "how dare he when he knows I'm married" (touting her loyalty) …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/21 03:52 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/21 08:27 PM
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we decided to try for #3 and almost immediately, we conceived. How convenient
/r/askMRP28/03/21 12:42 PM
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5'7" 188lbs Bro, you're fat as fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 04:53 PM
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I figure if I hold myself accountable, and pay the price for not staying in the correct range, Be careful of falling into the trap of thinking you can work off overeating. Exercise doesn't burn nearly as many calories as you think. Better to just not eat it in the first place.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 03:49 PM
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You're applying RP from a BP frame. You were told go to school, get a job and be a good little work mule and you'd be rewarded. You realized that was bullshit (right?) but only replaced with apply dread and all will be good. There is no cheat code.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 02:38 PM
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Retards go to /r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/21 03:59 PM
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That's why I said to pick out styles that look good to him. Your clothing is how you choose to present yourself to the world. It's up to everyone to decide what that message is. If he finds no one in GQ worth emulating, then I agree; he should look elsewhere.
/r/askMRP19/03/21 05:41 PM
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The sobriety, good sleep, and good diet are the only things going well for me and the lifts and game could use some serious improvement. Don't forget he congratulated himself on sobriety after saying I got high for breakfast, lunch, and dinner that day and was a fucking zombie. Fuck. ​ ended up bumming smokes, beer, and weed from good friends and had nothing to contribute.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/21 04:16 PM
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If you have no style of your own: Get a subscription to GQ. Cut out the outfits that look good to you and place them in a binder with clear sleeves. This will be your look book. Before you place them in the binder, try to articulate why it looks good to you. This will force you to pay attention to details. After a while of doing this, you'll start saying things like "this is good, but I'd wear it with [...] instead". You can stop with the look book at that point as you've found your personal sty…
/r/askMRP19/03/21 02:35 AM
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With your woman, just asking yourself if your actions would be different if you were single is enough. I suppose you could extend it to any relationship. Eventually though, it just becomes a feeling. A feeling gets more intrusive and disruptive the more you listen to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/21 05:42 PM
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It's weird how you can think you're confused while answering your own question.
/r/askMRP09/03/21 04:58 PM
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I guess this post is for you. 10 seconds going through your post history shows an obsessives need to have your opinion heard. Nothing but inane bullshit comes out of your mouth, but you think it has value. STFU.
/r/askMRP04/03/21 01:52 AM
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Three years playing captain save-a-hoe and you haven't realized how fucking stupid that is? Are you really going to sacrifice your life at the altar of... what exactly?
/r/askMRP10/02/21 03:04 AM
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reverse bodyweight rows to help get me to a pullup I'd switch to cable high rows. It mimics the pullup better. Fork putdowns will also make the pullup easier.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 06:32 PM
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Honestly? Anxiety. I wasn't joking when I say it was anxiety-inducing. My very being was on the line (figuratively speaking). I obviously valued that identity a lot since I build up my life around sustaining it. I was (subconsciously) willing to fail college to sustain it. I wanted to be an A-student, so I started doing whatever it took to become that guy. Sometimes that meant being up until 3 A.M. doing homework and waking up at 6 AM to finish before class. Surprising no one, my grades started …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 05:17 PM
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This is the guy who's OYS will only consist of him attempting to not touch his peepee. The rest of his life is rock solid.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 04:46 PM
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Breezed through school on natural intelligence without ever having to study, and now that I'm facing an obstacle in the form of three exams that I actually have to do some fucking work for, I am just shutting down I went through this exactly. In my case, I realized that it was pure ego protection. I always took it for granted that I was smart. If I were to actually try, and fail, then I wouldn't be able to claim I was smart anymore. So, I coasted. I put forth minimal effort because after failing…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 04:07 PM
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You're missing an opportunity. OYS and go prepared with your own swab. You can DIY your own with a wooden dowel from Home Depot (you can adjust the girth to your likeness) and a handful of cotton.
/r/askMRP28/01/21 03:09 PM
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It's possible that I understand what you're saying and still think you're a fucking retard. Good luck finding your tradcon unicorn.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 08:05 PM
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Elliott Hulse Holy Shit! I used to watch that dude as a teenager when I first started lifting. Crazy where he ended up.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 08:03 PM
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low innate promiscuity lol, I think you're on the wrong subreddit buddy. Are you even red? I know you were told women liking sex is weird and they'll only have it with you if you trick them into it, but it's a lie. They all like the dick, when it's not attached to a loser. Judging by your post history, you may do better posting in an incel-filled subreddit with others who bought into the traditional vs new-age hoe garbage.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 07:52 PM
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Women are women. Them being supposedly Christian or conservative doesn't matter. Rules don't apply to chad. It's not a mystery. You overcorrected from the first girl. Edit: "You make me feel like a slut" points to either a hole in your game (unlikely if it's your first time hearing this) or she has some sexual hang-ups (look at the demographic you're goign after).
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 07:27 PM
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38, 5’7”, 240lbs BP300, SQ405, DL415 You're move good numbers, but you're understating how fat you are. Your goal of 200lbs still has you at a BMI of 31. I'm 5'7 and am pudgy af at ~160 lbs.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/21 04:29 PM
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Want to go to sleep early? Wake up early. Getting up at 5am would still net you 8 hours of sleep. Stay up. No naps. Do that for two days in a row and you'll be dog tired by 9pm.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 02:08 PM
1

Wasn't this posted over the weekend?
/r/askMRP19/01/21 05:11 PM
5

I was in ovulation’s frame. Never change MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 03:34 PM
3

No actions, no plans, all talk.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 03:27 PM
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Admitting altruism is a delusion is to admit I’ve wasted my life and that my sacrifices have no intrinsic value. It's pretty well accepted that there is no such thing as altruism. Nietzsche has called out everything people think is altruism has had a darker, more self-serving reason behind it. You did good because ultimately, it made you feel good. Doing for others reinforced your perceived (moral or otherwise) superiority. It means you're in a position of surplus and get to dole out your resour…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 03:23 PM
5

My dude, this is the shit women bring up when they know 100%, without a shadow of a doubt, that you won't be fucking anybody because you're a fat loser. This ends with her swimming in a sea of dicks while you're rubbing your little peepee at home. Your marriage is over my dude. She just wants to keep her betabux around while she gets her hypergamous fix fucking handsome, famous and successful men (she doesn't even care if they're married). So she has to hold her nose and fuck you like she enjoys…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 03:03 PM
2

If you want to smash, smash. She could just not be comfortable initiating any other way. In which case, you have to lead her to where she can just ask for some dick straight out (if that's what you want).
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 02:47 PM
3

Here is what an old boss of mine told me about time management: There are 24 hours in the day. Sit down and divy up those hours between work, family, sleep and yourself. It won't be that exact divide everyday, but try to keep it in that ballpark.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 02:06 PM
1

Yeah, you plan on doing a lot, don't do it all at once. Also, I advise you take notes when you go through those books, they're packed with info and actionable information. It'll be a lot faster to go through 10 pages of notes than reading the whole thing again.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 01:51 PM
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You're shit and your excuse is shit. Make a new account? Give a region, not an exact city? Give industry, not company? You've been lurking so you've read plenty of OYS. You've seen it done. How many people have you been able to identify from their OYS? You're shit and your excuse is shit.
/r/askMRP13/01/21 02:18 PM
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WTF dude? You posted that two weeks ago and STILL haven't lawyered up?!? The GPS means she knows where you are. I don't know where you're shacked up but I'd move to a place she doesn't know about if you can. She's proven that she will lie to the police to get her way. It's entirely possible she'll show up to where you are now and make up another story. Security cameras are hella cheap now. Even a cheap dashcam can be repurposed for the task.
/r/askMRP30/12/20 01:28 AM
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Only read the last five paragraphs so take what I say with that in mind. My experience with women is that they'll say things that make them feel better about the person they are and hope they're never called on to prove it. Probably not. Is this salvageable? Probably not. You're not even an adult in her mind anymore. You're a hurt little boy that she needs to care for. You're a victim. How you've acted in the past have done nothing but reinforce that view of you. Should I even care? I mean, you'…
/r/askMRP27/12/20 03:18 AM
2

When I think back about my life and see it chronologically, it's all marked by significant events or milestones. So I think if I just sit down every evening and try to pick one significant thing out of my day to focus on and remember... like some kind of journal
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/20 07:40 PM
3

Whey has been making my stomach upset. What brand are you using? A lot of whey protein has a lot of random shit used as filler that'll give you upset stomach. If a scoop of your protein is 30g but you're only getting 23g of protein per serving, that means is 23% filler. I advise you to start buying Whey Protein Isolate (90% protein). Your 30g scoop should have 27g of protein per serving. They're very easy on the stomach. I recommend MyProtein for supplements. Lab Door tests supplements for purit…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/20 06:15 PM
3

OYS #22 30, 5'7, 152, no kids, married 2 years, together 3 MISSION I want to be a beaming beacon of love, positivity, intensity, and uncompromising continual growth. I want to be an example of what life could look like if you live a life of discipline and always strive to live up to your ideal. READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP, WOTSM, Bang Can’t Hurt Me, The Dichotomy of Leadership, Deep Work, Relentless, The Will to Power, Games People Play, Leaders E…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 07:17 PM
3

start eating junk again with "strength" as a justification. B- 135kg D- 120kg S- 120kg I... what?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 03:58 PM
3

You can mimic all of the major lifts with resistance bands. Go over to elitefps.com and grab yourself a pair of mini and micro resistance bands. I know you're super strong and can handle more, but just start with those two for now. Then head over to amazon and buy a door anchor. You can either get a set of resistance band handles or wear thick gloves, the result is the same. James Grage on YouTube swears he only works out with bands. Not sure if it's true, but the dude is jacked and gets winded …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 06:53 PM
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OYS #21 30, 5'7, 152lb, no kids, married 2 years, together 3 MISSION I want to be a beaming beacon of love, positivity, intensity, and uncompromising continual growth. I want to be an example of what life could look like if you live a life of discipline and always strive to live up to your ideal. READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP, WOTSM, Bang, Can’t Hurt Me, The Dichotomy of Leadership, Deep Work, Relentless, The Will to Power, Games People Play, Leader…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 04:51 PM
2

That's a lot of depressive symptoms my dude. My advise is to start your day with some basic self care. Start your day with brushing your teeth, taking a shower and getting dressed (not in your lounge clothes). That worked for me until I developed the other habits. As for the list, place it somewhere highly visible. Don't have it in a notebook in the spare bedroom. They have magnetic notepads, or small erase boards you can stick up with Command Strips. There are widgets you can put on your phone …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 02:07 PM
1

Initiate when I want, do not care for outcome. On the Tuesday I wanted to have sex but I knew I would be rejected. Should I have initiated for the sake of it? Not caring about outcome has at least been a success. What?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 01:58 PM
3

surprise pussy waterboarding new favorite phrase
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 06:53 PM
2

Your reply was probably too long and got cut off.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 06:20 PM
2

OYS #20 30, 5'7, 152, no kids, married 2 years, together 3 MISSION I want to be a beaming beacon of love, positivity, intensity, and uncompromising continual growth. I want to be an example of what life could look like if you live a life of discipline and always strive to live up to your ideal. READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP, WOTSM, Bang Can’t Hurt Me, The Dichotomy of Leadership, Deep Work, Relentless, The Will to Power, Games People Play, Leaders E…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 04:39 PM
2

You're right. I'll take the opportunity to make this a fun event.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/20 12:44 AM
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OYS #19 (back from Rule 10 ban) 30, 5'7, 153, no kids, married 2 years, together 3 MISSION I want to be a beaming beacon of love, positivity, intensity, and uncompromising continual growth. I want to serve others by being an example of what life could look like if you live a life of discipline and always strive to live up to your ideal. READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP, WOTSM, Bang Can’t Hurt Me, The Dichotomy of Leadership, Deep Work, Relentless, The …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/20 04:27 PM
1

We're in a family plan and it comes out of my account so it's very much my bill.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 11:41 PM
3

I'm picking up what you're putting down.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 06:46 PM
1

Hey, good for you man, but that's definitely what Day Bang was about. It was all done with the goal of getting laid. I prefer (and have had more success with) more of a Models approach when I'm trying to get my dick wet.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 04:02 PM
2

I said it was too try-hard. Meticulously choosing your position in a coffee shop (with included diagram), spending days learning pattern and flow of traffic, taking into account where the bathrooms are etc is more effort I'll ever be willing to put in. It's pussy worship.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 03:28 PM
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OYS #18 30, 5'7, 155, no kids, married 2 years, together 3 MISSION I want to be a beaming beacon of love, positivity, intensity, and uncompromising continual growth. I want to serve others by being an example of what life could look like if you live a life of discipline and always strive to live up to your ideal. READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP, WOTSM, Bang, Day Bang (was a little too try-hard for me and I put it down about 1/3 of the way through), Ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 11:40 AM
2

And I honestly think you became even less attractive since you fucking stayed. Women know when they're being cunts and acting in a way no self-respecting man would put up with. She's literally been cheating on you since before you were fucking married and you want this relationship to work. You think she's pissing on the relationship? Bruh, you can round up to a decade how long she's been fucking other dudes behind your back, and you still want this shit to work out.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/20 07:09 PM
2

Good point. I'll leave the modding to the mods.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/20 12:57 AM
2

I can't tell if you're trolling or if you're retarted enough to type of all that, read over it and decided to post it anyway. Here is what you posted But don't I have the right to enforce that my mom, who is coming over to help with the kids Asking randos on the internet to give you permission to enforce boundires (and to use our kitchen, which isn't a mess like hers, and for the company - she is obviously lonely, living by herself since my dad died 5 years ago and only having her co-workers and…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 07:10 PM
4

No way is this not bannable
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 04:49 PM
2

The common theme with both those situations is that you felt the need to discuss or explain yourself to her. I'd personally reply with something like "Yeah, no girls allowed" "I wanted him to myself (full homo)" As for why would we do that, we should do “blah blah blah” I tend to reply with "I want" instead of "Let's..." You're stating what you want to do and you never have to justify what you want to anybody.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 02:03 PM
2

For financial literacy, Richest Man in Babylon is a classic (pro tip: you can listen to it for free on YouTube). I also advise The Millionaire Next Door, Your Money or Your Life, and The Simple Path to Wealth when you're ready to invest. My wife and I used to spend $800 on 'groceries' for just the two of us and could not figure out how that made sense. It took me going through receipts to realize that I was just taking her word for it and classifying anything from grocery stores as groceries. Sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 01:31 PM
1

thyroid issues have caused weight gain, acne, etc. Most of the extra weight gained in hypothyroid individuals is due to excess accumulation of salt and water. Massive weight gain is rarely associated with hypothyroidism. In general, 5-10 pounds of body weight may be attributable to the thyroid, depending on the severity of the hypothyroidism. - American Thyroid Association
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/20 05:47 PM
1

OYS #17 30, 5'7, 155, no kids, married 2 years, together 3 MISSION I want to be a beaming beacon of love, positivity, intensity, and uncompromising continual growth. I want to serve others by being an example of what life could look like if you live a life of discipline and always strive to live up to your ideal. READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP, WOTSM, Bang, Day Bang (was a little too try-hard for me and I put it down about 1/3 of the way through), Ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 02:15 PM
2

Or she's getting fuel for upcoming divorce.
/r/askMRP01/11/20 08:29 PM
3

This is all shit about what other people want. I have told my wife that I will not have her denying my son a relationship with his grandmother Stop phrasing it as if you're doing this FOR your son. Your 1 yo will not remember any of this when he's older. You're not doing this for him. It's either for you or your mom, it's definitely not for him. How can I become more alpha and make my wife take the necessary measures so that my mom can see her grandson? Gigantic covert contract right there. You …
/r/askMRP01/11/20 08:20 PM
1

You can read my last OYS if you're curious about my marriage. The issue I want to tackle is my mental state and my career. Like I said this week and last week, the underlying issue (as I see it) is a lack of a current congruent mission. What I wrote may look like LARPing, but it's 100% authentic.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/20 09:43 PM
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I remember when I finally started having sex regularly. Turns out pussy wasn't the end all be all. Pussy is a byproduct of being a high value male. It doesn't need to be a goal when you're handling your shit, it just sort of happens. Keep your head down and work on yourself. One day you'll look up and realize that you're better than 90% of men who haven't put in any work. You'll know it. The men will know it. The women will know it. The downside is that you have to work for it.
/r/askMRP30/10/20 02:04 AM
1

Show her your spreadsheet when she gets home. But seriously, what's going on dude? Why does sex mean so much to you? That's a serious question. Why do you use that as the metric for success?
/r/askMRP30/10/20 01:53 AM
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Do you really want to inflict this woman on your kids? That's what it means if you stay with her.
/r/askMRP28/10/20 12:28 PM
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STFU is the training wheels against going RAMBO when you don't know what the fuck to do or even what you really want.
/r/askMRP27/10/20 04:46 PM
1

OYS #16 30, 5'7, 154, no kids, married 2 yeas, together 3 MISSION The main focus from last week was working on a mission as I think that’s what underlies my overall sense of focus and coasting at work. I tried to picture an ideal future and described what that’d look like in terms of Career, Finance, Family, Health etc. What I came up with: I want to be a beaming beacon of love, positivity, intensity, and uncompromising continual growth. I want to serve others by being an example of what life co…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 11:04 AM
3

I experienced something similar after moving across states with my wife. I sat her down and told her to get a life. Somehow I was expected to replace all the friends, hobbies, and family she moved away from. There is a big difference between leading her and letting her outsource her life to you. Fuck that noise.
/r/askMRP27/10/20 12:46 AM
1

it’s just fallen off a cliff in the last couple of months I'm fairly certain that this is related to your cut. Being in a large caloric deficit has the same effect for me too.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/20 01:54 AM
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Calls me a pussy or bitch, or worse, whenever something happens, and I don’t like it one bit. Why is this not the title of your post, but the fact that she's a miserable? JFC man, have some self respect
/r/askMRP22/10/20 12:47 PM
11

Give her the "ILYBINILY" speech, then giver her a link to /r/marriedredpill.
/r/askMRP20/10/20 05:49 PM
1

OYS Last OYS was 5 Months Ago 30, 5'7, 154, no kids, married 2 yeas, together 3 MISSION Live a life of congruency where I am never tempted to lie about my actions Work towards financial independence. Be mentally, physically, socially, emotionally, and spiritually fit. Bring value to my relationships Reading what I wrote from 5 months ago, they just sound like lip service and buzzwords. I don't really identify with any of it. Other than a nebulous long term goal of wanting to FIRE, I don't really…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 03:44 PM
11

One of my quarantine projects is learning Japanese and a lot of these concepts come up in language learning as well. I just want to point out that the Dunning-Kruger is fucking real. You can actually only notice mistakes that are just above your current level. If you don't know a lick of Japanese for example and hear me speak, I'll probably sound pretty good to you. A more advanced Japanese speaker will hear nails on a chalkboard more likely. Whenever you watch a movie and an American actor star…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/20 02:13 PM
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This reads like a noob about to go RAMBO. I think the kiddo is old enough that it’s not an excuse anymore. I also cut back my gym time a decent amount due to the kid she just has no reason to get into better shape Have you considered the possibility that maybe, just maybe, you're just not worth the effort?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 03:35 PM
1

OYS #1 Previous OYS 30, 5’7, 150lb, no kids, married 2 years, together 3 MISSION - Live a life of congruency where I am never tempted to lie about my actions - Achieve financial independence. - Be mentally, physically, socially, emotionally, and spiritually fit. - Bring value to my relationships LIFTS: Bench: 160X10, Deadlift: 225x5, Squat: 210x5, OHP:115x5 READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP, WOTSM, Bang, Day Bang (was a little too try-hard for me and I …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 05:16 PM
2

OYS #1 Previous OYS was 11 months ago so I just decided to start over. The accountability alone is worth posting here. 30, 5’7, 150lb, no kids, married 2 years, together 3 MISSION - Live a life of congruency where I am never tempted to lie about my actions - Work towards financial independence. - Be mentally, physically, socially, emotionally, and spiritually fit. - Bring value to my relationships LIFTS: Bench: 155X10, Deadlift: 215x5, Squat: 205x5, OHP:115x5 READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSL…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 07:58 PM
3

I had really bad back pain as well (to the point where I bought an inversion table). Go to YouTube and watch these two videos by Athlean-X "How to fix low back pain instantly" and "Weak Glutes | Back Pain (how to fix!)". I know the titles are click-baity as fuck, but they did wonders for my back. I haven't needed the inversion table since I started doing the exercises. It may not be your exact issue, but worth a look.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 05:53 PM
1

Very rarely do you actually have just two options. Those were certainly not your only two options for responses.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 03:59 PM
2

A weak core and glutes have contributed to my running injuries, so focusing on those two areas is important to me for getting back into running. The general rule of thumb is whatever part of your body gets disproportionately sore is not the problem, it's having to overcompensate for weakness elsewhere. Doing SAM (Strength and Mobility) before each running session has helped me immensely with mobility and soreness. You can find it on YouTube.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 03:09 PM
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It's incredible how much effort you don't realize you're putting into missing the point. I'm only going to address one small part of this but right now I'm getting more positive attention being an asshole. Notice that you're calling doing things for your own happiness and not to for the placation of others being an asshole. You should think about why you're that big of a faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/20 03:09 PM
1

I'm 5'7 and 150 so we're pretty close in height and weight. I say find your maintenance calories and just stay at 150 while you build strength. Add 1-2 days of cardio to your schedule and start a super slow weight loss. I was never a fan of cutting and bulking, slow methodical progress was always the way for me.
/r/askMRP30/04/20 12:55 PM
2

Yeah, if you have 6 years, that's 100% achievable naturally.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/20 09:04 PM
2

The wife says she doesn’t want any more kids, either, but I think she’s subconsciously scared to close that door forever. I should stay out of her head and focus on me. I plan to get one as well once we have 2-3 kids. My wife has literally told me that she sees men that get vasectomy as just wanting to cheat without fear of getting the women pregnant to which I couldn't help but frown my brow to ask "So you want me to get other women pregnant?"
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/20 12:55 PM
1

when i love, i love with ALL of me! clingy (let's not read into the use of lower case i's whens he talks about what she wants) a relationship where my counterpart loves me as much as i love him very clingy looking for the guy who gives me everything I want/need I hope you don't expect my personality/accomplishments to be more than "I'm in a relationship with you"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/19 01:25 PM
1

'You always have to be the star of the show' Something tells me that she's a narcissist and this instance is chosen because it both makes her look good and him unreasonable. Tons of stories like this in /r/raisedbynarcissists where the parents think the fallout happened because of one minor event blown out of proportion and not because of continuous infractions
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/19 01:12 PM
11

Reading that made me question the definition of the words solvent and attractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/19 01:13 PM
286

I don't want a relationship But...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/19 04:09 PM
1

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/deep-six
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/19 07:00 PM
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It never ceases to amaze how quickly a bitch will deep-six any history she's had with a dude just to jump on another cock. Stop flirting with the pill and just swallow already.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/19 08:56 PM
-1

How is this PPD?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/19 10:04 AM
1

Typical too much beta feels and not enough alpha tingles. Poor guy. He's got a backbone, but he's been too thoroughly brainwashed with blue pill bullshit. She's even overtly said what we all know to be true. Don't be too available and accommodating. Act like a man that has options and don't let me do this to you. He's everything society said she should want, but hypergamy takes no prisoners.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/19 08:54 PM
9

Resisting arrest isn't suddenly legal if they later found out you're innocent. You may be assuming the law is 100% just. It's made up by humans so of course there'll be issues.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/10/19 11:59 AM
11

Let a court of law decide that. Let the officer ask to hear your side of the story. It's like driving a car. You may be 100% right, and the other car SHOULD have stopped for you, but you'll still be just as dead.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/10/19 11:55 AM
3

Big&Tall 5'0"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/19 11:41 PM
5

I don't get the responses here. Why are you all acting surprised? We all knew "my kids are my world and come first" line was bullshit. One of my best friends is fucking a single mom and she's told him she wishes she didn't have kids so they could be together (he knows he won't be a real man and step up). There are no rules for chads.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/19 01:09 PM
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Body Type: Cuddly
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/19 01:06 AM
10

Barely. The current world record is 3:34.13 for men and 4:12.33 for women. If you think 5 min/mile is a middle school pace, you'd be an olympian. That's the pace for people that just have to run a mile, then stop. If you're a distance runner, which is implied in the OP, you're an elite runner at a 5 minute pace..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/19 05:55 PM
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she walks a 9 minute mile while he runs a middle school 5 minute mile. You're either greatly overestimating the speed of your average human or you're an olympian, in which case you'd know that 9 minutes, while not fast is perfectly respectable for an intermediate runner. Five minute is stupid fast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/19 05:29 PM
1

What's the real reason for not wanting this housewarming party? "Not wanting to impose burden of travel..." ....what a Nice Guy you are. But it smells like horseshit. The "real" reason is I don't give a shit about celebration. I bought my house for me and don't really see the point of throwing a party for people to come see it. Much less when I know the financial situation of those people. I also, just, don't get it. I don't now why I should even want to have one. And don't kid yourself. You wer…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/19 08:35 PM
1

OYS #12 29, 5’7, 150lb, no kids, married 1 year, together 2 LIFTS: Bench: 190x10 Deadlift: 225x6 Squat: 195x5 OHP: 115 MISSION Be a good leader in life to the benefit of myself, my family, colleagues, subordinates and superiors. Work towards financial independence. Be mentally, physically, socially, emotionally, and spiritually fit. Bring value to my relationships READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP, WOTSM (90% done), Extreme Ownership (20% done) WOTSM wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/19 03:46 PM
3

I just ignored her and she knows it. I don’t really have an answer for her on this, except telling her I was busy and had shit to do. I always get shit from my friends when I do it, but I am 100% okay with a woman knowing I'm ignoring her without what she considers a valid reason. This is bullshit Are you against cheating? If not, start gaming other women. They can fucking tell when you're getting attention from other women. When your advances lose the edge and you're putting in less effort than…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 08:00 PM
4

Why do you feel the need to lie to internet strangers? You haven't read shit and you certainly haven't taken the red pill. Go read No More Mr. Nice guy.
/r/askMRP28/05/19 05:05 PM
3

What are you doing during the silence by the way? I find that it's important that she knows she has my attention, but I'm being silent - not that I'm just ignoring her. I find that ~80% of the time, if I turn my head (entire body sometimes) to face her and just look at her for ~5 seconds without talking (while I think of why I have to extend mental energy thinking about this bullshit), the shit test is handled by her for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 03:20 PM
2

Buy her the book "The Four Disciplines of Execution." We're programmed to continually do what is the most urgent, even if it's not important and doesn't benefit us long term. It's a product of our evolution and completely normal. It'll help understand it (hopefully) and prioritize better. An easy takeaway takeaway from the book is to chop long term goals into short term goals. That'll immediately make them one of those urgent things that need to be done. Like write the first five pages this week…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 02:49 PM
2

take too long to respond to her Tests This isn't a bad thing and in time will be all you need to pass her shit test. She'll fill in the silence before you can respond and correct herself for even testing you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 02:32 PM
2

It sounds like you're missing the EI part of DEVI. Are you staying hydrated? Your cum shouldn't be that that salty. Public sex just needs to be semi public. You're fucking in a public place but it's not obvious to someone really far away what you're actually doing - at least not from all directions. If they were to get close enough to see what you're really doing, you'd see them and be able to stop before they see you. That's assuming all you want is public sex and are not also into exhibitionis…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 02:08 PM
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OYS #11 29, 5’7, 150lb, no kids, married 1 year, together 2 LIFTS: Bench: 190x10 Deadlift: 225x6 Squat: 195x5 OHP: 115 MISSION Be a good leader in life to the benefit of myself, my family, colleagues, subordinates and superiors. Work towards financial independence. Be mentally, physically, socially, emotionally, and spiritually fit. Bring value to my relationships READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP, WOTSM (50% done), Extreme Ownership (20% done) I had a …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 01:41 PM
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That bitter taste of failure and the shittiness of the resulting situation when you fail to maintain frame should do wonders.
/r/askMRP24/05/19 04:09 PM
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Meh, I’ll stop. There was my OYS. This was not an OYS. This was pure verbal diarrhea. I can't belive I wasted my time reading that garbage. I think that’s when I handed my balls over Really? That's when it happened? Not when she refused to leave your house? Not when she forced you into a relationship you didn't want? Not when she browbeat you into proposing? Not when she gave you a curfew? But, that, that was the point that it happened. she decided to never leave Yeah, you had no say in this. Yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/19 03:12 PM
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You have kids. The methodology isn't that different.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 12:39 AM
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OYS #10 29, 5’7, 150lb, no kids, married 1 year, together 2 LIFTS: Bench: 190x10 Deadlift: 225x6 Squat: 195x5 OHP: 115 MISSION • Be a good leader in life to the benefit of myself, my family, colleagues, subordinates and superiors. • Achieve financial independence. • Be mentally, physically, socially, emotionally, and spiritually fit. • Bring value to my relationships READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP, WOTSM (40% done), Extreme Ownership (30% done) I’m f…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 02:05 PM
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Any good resources for proper Dead Lift form? Google the 5 step deadlift setup. Allan Thrall has a good video on it. The Art of Manliness also did a video with Mark Riptote on proper deadlift form
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 08:12 PM
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Uh huh, talk shit all the time about women who are sexual and how that's not attractive, then expect a woman that always hears that from you want to be a slut for you. Let me know how that works out.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 04:20 PM
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Well, you can't really 'make' her feel any type of way. You just create the environment that invites the behavior you want. She won't magically read your mind and do the things that will make you feel lusted after. You're not responsible for her feelings and I dare say, she's not responsible for yours either. Don't use sex as a comfort test for her. Keep in mind though, you probably just have a super submissive woman on your hands in which case, the path forward is going to be counter intuitive …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 04:06 PM
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Are you making it 'safe' for her to be sexual with you? Are you judgemental to other pople's kinks? If she is, do you go along with her? Are you gaming her? My wife had issues and didn't have her first orgasm until she was 26 and even told me her ideal relationship would involve no sex. Just be a safe place for her to be sexual and don't be a judgemental cunt, even especially when she is. Be sexual without expecting sex. Be sexual where it's logistically impossible to have sex. I don't know man,…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 03:52 PM
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You need to buy whey protein isolate. It's 90% pure protein and not filled with sugar and other random shit. A 30g serving contains 27g of protein whereas a 30g serving of most protein only contains 21-25g protein. The rest of it is the filler that your body doesn't like. I use whey protein isolate from BulkSupplements. I blend it with milk, oats, banana, cottege cheese and peanut butter and don't have protein farts anymore. You can make your own shake however you like. They also come flavored (…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 05:26 PM
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Passive dread is a side effect of living life as a high-value man. You have a social life and go out more. You have people constantly calling you. You have hobbies that get you out of the house. Active dread is getting in the car, driving away and parking in a parking lot a few miles away because it'll get her hamster running.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 05:20 PM
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She said that she can't help feeling like she's cheating on the man she married. Nice
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 04:10 PM
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Quality OYS. Would read again.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 03:57 PM
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Good... job?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 01:29 PM
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This isn't the sub to ask for handouts. If you started your readings, the answer would be obvious.
/r/askMRP15/05/19 01:23 PM
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Finances are good, but they should be much better. I spend too much. My wife has no interest in the family finances, I need to fully own this area. She will follow my lead. I have begun implementing the ideas in a local family budgeting/planning book. Basic ideas but I need to get the basics right. I have begun setting up the various new accounts, transferring pension to a better fund and negotiating better rates on utilities and insurance. As well as cutting out unnecessary subscriptions/paymen…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 12:52 PM
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They're bad news for her because who the fuck wants to be friend with someone that complains all the time? You don't get to decide who she's friend with though. ​ If you meant for your relationship, you wouldn't worry if you had your shit together. Mate guarding doesn't look good on anybody.
/r/askMRP15/05/19 01:42 AM
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"is it okay that i have forgiven myself" BAHAHAHHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAH So I bite my tongue and say "of course" BAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAH
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 06:05 PM
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Repeat after me class: That sounds like more of you problem than a me problem. ​ Honestly though, this isn't the first time this has happened. She learned to expect you to be the errand boy because that's what you've been doing for who knows how long. Guys have this idea that they need to audition for a relationship and go above and beyond the call of duty. The rule is, if you can't see yourself doing it for the rest of your life, don't set the expectation that you will. Don't jump though hoops,…
/r/askMRP14/05/19 01:28 PM
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OYS #9 29, 5’7, 152lb, no kids, married 1 year, together 2 LIFTS: Bench: 190x10 Deadlift: 225x6 Squat: 195x5 OHP: 115 MISSION Be a good leader in life to the benefit of myself, my family, colleagues, subordinates and superiors. Work towards financial independence. Be mentally, physically, socially, emotionally, and spiritually fit. Bring value to my relationships READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP, WOTSM (30% done), Extreme Ownership (20% done) I haven’t…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 12:12 PM
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fighting a drinking problem for the past 15 years a fat wife that I let turn me into a mild alcoholic How did she manage that? Did she have a gun to your head? Tied you down and force fed you liquor? It sounds like you were a pussy who chose to numb himself rather than deal with the problem. 5'8" 160. scrawny toned mostly dad bod belly You are delusional. This was weak. You're not that different than your wife because this will let you say you tried before giving up and you go back to blaming he…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/19 12:27 AM
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You come across as a fat neckbeard who's playing a choose-your-own-adventure game. How is this a field report?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 03:19 PM
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What role does your wife play in your life? Do you make it a habit of coming up with reasons (excuses) not to do things before you even try? There is a lot of ego protection in your post. I recommend you do the Self Authoring Program from JBP. You're the kind of person that would benfit the most from it. I'd also throw Extreme Ownership on the reading list.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 08:22 PM
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Welcome, good to see a fellow military guy here. A few things I want to hit on Finance: The first step to getting your finances under control is to track your spending. You can use mint to see your transactions across different banks and credit cards all on one place. You can use an excel sheet, I use google docs, you can even use pen and paper. The main thing is to know where your money is going. Everyone knows how much they earn, but very few know where they're spend their money. Do that for a…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 07:24 PM
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Is she really even worth putting in the effort? She doesn’t respond to anything I do or don’t do anyway, so what’s the point right now? I realized how often I was saying “I love you” and holding her and giving her random hugs and stopped doing those things. I realized I’ve been chasing her around like a child. Maybe I should just spend some time leaving my wife the fuck alone? I was trying to find a groove and she actually responded positively for a brief moment. Of course I busted immediately Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 07:06 PM
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I don't know what you're paying in interest on your house, but the long-term return on index funds is ~10%. Even if the inrest on your house is 6%, you'd still be leaving 4% return on the table. Personal fianance is personal though. Only you can decide what the peace of mind you'd get from not having that debt is worth.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 06:38 PM
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I think part of the issue with keeping track of our budget is that we use a few different rewards cards, and it’s difficult to see at a glance how much money we have total, even with Mint Is the issue with seeing how much money you have or what you're spending? If it's about tracking your spending, there is nothing that "just works." You need to put in the time (doesn't take that much honestly) to know where your money is going. Mint does get smarter as you take the time to make sure that the ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 05:56 PM
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safe doing big lifts. Bench/squat in a cage when you don't have a spotter. You'll make a lot less gains dead/injuured.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 04:36 PM
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OYS #8 29, 5’7, 152lb, no kids, married 1 year, together 2 LIFTS: Bench: 190x10 Deadlift: 225x6 Squat: 195x5 OHP: 115 MISSION Be a good leader in life to the benefit of myself, my family, colleagues, subordinates and superiors. Work towards financial independence. Be mentally, physically, socially, emotionally, and spiritually fit. Bring value to my relationships READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP, WOTSM (20% done), Extreme Ownership (20% done) I finishe…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 04:34 PM
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it's not in her history, so it's not like she would "be that way again" for the right guy She would 1000% do it for the right guy. My wife grew up in a super conservative christian family. After we had sex the first time, she cried. I asked her if she wanted to talk about it, got a no and didn't push it. We did talk about it a little over a week later and turns out, she does not enjoy sex. She never has. She always thinks she's doing something dirty. She always does it for the guy but gets no en…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 12:49 PM
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fiancé
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 09:04 PM
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Solid info. I commend your book and podcast list.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 06:19 PM
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I have not been much of a man. You could've cut out out everything above this sentence. The rest of it was just victim puke. The second you moved out on your own is also the second you lose all right to blame your parents for the trajectory of your life. I don't idenity myself as an alcholic, but as someone who has been abusing substances for many years. What? I need to halt my use I control the frame in a way that I just tell her I'm going to do it What? I'd advise you to get a gym membership a…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 04:42 PM
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do not understand the Amplify portion - does this mean REALLY agree or reductio ad absurdum (reverse psychology)? Basically. It's not the best approach in all situations though. For that specific one, what you're doing is more of fogging. Once you read NMMNG, you'll learn all about it. ​ Her: Why are you so upcessed with the gym? Is that all you care about? You: (fake sobbing) You're right! I have a problem! I don't have to turn sideways to walk through doors.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 01:33 PM
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There is a serious lack of ownership in your post/life. You can't just be a fucking plastic bag swaying in the wind. You're a man. You're the result of millions of years of evolutionary success. Fucking act like it. Set some goals. Goals that don't rely on other people cooperating. Goals that fucking scare you. Stop blaming a guy at work for the state of your career. Stop blaming your wife. Stop pretending that if the rest of the world stopped being mean to you you'd flourish. People are out the…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 01:01 PM
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You weight 200 kbs? There's a big difference between 200lbs and 200kgs. Which one is it? she's simply not attracted to me in the least. Put me into a real Anger phase again I'm not attractive in the least. That fuels me in the gym The goal isn't to be attractive to her. The goal is to be attractive. ​ So how do I find the line here, between not rewarding bad behaviour with comfort, vs coming across as clearly butthurt and tit-for-tat by removing comfort? My philosophy is if you don't want to do …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 12:35 PM
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My wife asked me that shortly after we got married too. Without thought I did the disgusted head pull back and without missing a beat said "Fuck no. Why? Are you planning to get fat?" If backpeddling was an olympic event, she would've won gold.
/r/askMRP02/05/19 11:47 AM
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no breakfast before work Overnight Oatmeal. Look it up. For 5 minutes of work, you can knock out breakfast for three days. I even throw a scoop of protein in mine. It's also easy to change flavors if you get bored.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 04:07 PM
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a per-penny budget needs to recalculate everything plus sales tax Jesus dude, you don't need it accurate to the penny. You can afford to be a dollar off at the end of the month.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 05:18 PM
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Desire cannot be negotiated. Says the man who tried to talk is wife into wanting to suck his dick. You losing your mind from the very sight of her underwear isn't actually that attractive. While female attraction is reactive, you going that over the top (even though you think you did a good job of hiding it - you didn't) just made her realize that this is a big deal for you. Seeing women in their underwear is a non-event for an alpha. You cumming in your pants over the slightest bit of female at…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 04:40 PM
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I was thinking about a tv show of the stories that get sted on this board. I thought I'd want to make it where each episode covers a different marriage, but I think we'd get better reviews if the entire series was just about your marriage. Jesus Christ dude. The layers of disfunctionality/tragedy in your life is the kind of thing that wins academy awards.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 04:06 PM
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One thing for sure, I do suck at the “you’re being dominant” shit test as this is new for me. You: Yeah. or You: (laughing or super serious) Why do you keep stating facts as if they're insults?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 03:24 PM
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OYS #7 29, 5’7, 152lb, no kids, married 1 year, together 2 LIFTS: Bench: 190x10 Deadlift: 225x6 Squat: 195x5 OHP: 115 MISSION Be a good leader in life to the benefit of myself, my family, colleagues, subordinates and superiors. Work towards financial independence. Be mentally, physically, socially, emotionally, and spiritually fit. Bring value to my relationships READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP (50% done), Extreme Ownership (20% done) I did travel thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 02:28 PM
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I'm really excited for this journey of self improvement and am happy it isn't just a bunch of douchy mantras, but is truly about self improvement, self confidence and interactions with everyone in your life, not just your wife. Keep reading the sidebar. Once you get to The Rational Male, you'll understand why you were thaught to think that way about RP philosophy without ever looking into it yourself. How have you guys been able to retain what you read/listen too in a way that you can use it pos…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 01:30 PM
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I hope this post drives one of you veterans to make a post about frame. It's thrown around as the answer to every newbie's problem but never quite gets explaimed. I'm honestly not suprised by the number of newbies who do some outright cringeworthy things in the name of frame. ​ edit: beat me to it
/r/askMRP30/04/19 01:03 PM
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The medium is the mssage. The words you're saying don't mean anything. Your actions do.
/r/askMRP29/04/19 08:04 PM
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She thought she could marry a betabux for the sake of her children. She thought that as long as she secured the paycheck for the good of her kids, she'd just grit her teeth and endure being married to you. She's realizing that can't the rest of her life like that. She wants an out while preserving her social standing. That's why she told you to go fuck a younger woman, but got mad when you were too obvious with it. Just bring her your paycheck. That's the entirety of the relationship she wants w…
/r/askMRP29/04/19 08:01 PM
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What do I say to that? Nothing, you laugh at the fat fuck and use it as fuel in the gym. If you weren't apussy, you'd start working on your exit plan. You'll probably elect to stay as the plowhorse and fuck women on the side since she gave you 'permission'.
/r/askMRP29/04/19 07:50 PM
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I'm definitely outsourcing property management. I'm active duty and don't want to buy a second job. I've joined the local REIA and am some mailing lists. I will drive for dollars once my down deposit fund grows a bit. I have, but wife has agreed to get it. May still double up though. I've read it, but it's been a while. Will revisit. I've read like 5 other REI books this last few weeks and listening to bigger pockets.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/19 09:20 PM
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I'm in Augusta, GA. I'd like to start close to home to get my feet wet but open to long distance. I'm looking more for cash flow. I haven't made a deal yet and saving for a down payment. I'm military so have access to VA loan. Unfortunately, I've just bought a house before discovering real estate investment so have to wait a year to use the benefit again.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/19 08:12 PM
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If you're tracking every $, you should know what the averages are for each category. If you know that, it should be easy to set a budget. There is no room to DEER when you can just say "You overspet on ABC by $XYZ"
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/19 06:03 PM
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Question How do you not DEER when telling her she has to spend less, or why she should spend less? Had a conversation with her where I showed her a credit card bill and pointed out she is spending too much in one area. She rebuts “why?, or it’s because xyz” and things devolve into a discussion whereby I found myself DEERing. Anyone have any tips/tactics when you are deep in a conversation that does need some explaining? Did you actually giver her a number to stay or under? Letting her spend free…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/19 05:14 PM
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OYS #6 Not really a lot to report this week. 29, 5’7, 150lb, no kids, married 1 year, together 2 LIFTS: Bench: 190x10 Deadlift: 225x6 Squat: 195x5 OHP: 115x10 MISSION Be a good leader in life to the benefit of myself, my family, colleagues, subordinates and superiors. Work towards financial independence. Be mentally, physically, socially, emotionally, and spiritually fit. Bring value to my relationships READING: NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, SGM, MAP (50% done), Ext…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/19 02:12 PM
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Porn had the exact opposite effect on me funny enough. Death grip + over reliance on visuals.
/r/askMRP21/04/19 12:44 PM
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Recommendations Have you tried the clean towell method? It's the simplest and most low tech solution. You essentially put a fresh clean towell over your pillowcase every day. If you don't have enough towells for 7 days a week, you can flip them everyday. It has a really high success rate with clearing up acne. If you heard it already, the tried and true 'stop touching your fucking face' advice is always good to follow.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/19 01:33 PM
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Not enough responses from the OYS thread I take it?
/r/askMRP17/04/19 12:32 PM
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You're missing a lot of foundation. What are the divorce laws like in your country? You're doing what we've termed going RAMBO, doing too much too fast. Since you're in the western world, chances are you're going to get divorce-raped if you tell the mother of your children you're going to start seeing other women. Slow your role, head over to r/marridredpill, there are a lot of books on the sidebar that should fill in what you're missing. Start posting in the weekly OYS (Own Your Shit) threads t…
/r/askMRP17/04/19 12:24 PM
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Ok, that's all I have time for today. I'm hoping for some advice from those of you who's wives reacted defensively and/or retaliatory early on when she realized she was losing her control of you. Mine is desperately hanging on to that control and is expressing her distress with anger, retaliation, and complete withdrawal and distancing herself from me. Someone who hasn't been following your story might actually believe your wife is unreasonably crazy and you didn't go rambo and bring this upon y…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 06:16 PM
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overeating is not just about counting calories uh, yeah it is. That's the only thing it's about. There is no mystery about why you're fat. You're consuming more calories than you're burning. Your body is not violating the laws of thermodynamics. Go to youtube and search for Secret Eaters. It's full of fatasse that claim they're the exception and are eating in a way where they should mathematically be losing weight. The show puts cameras in their homes, cars, and workplaces. They're followed into…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 04:41 PM
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Have you done any reading at all?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 03:28 PM
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I'm glad you're seeing progress my dude. ​ Later she apologized, cried and told me she will go to therapy. She kept her word and told me she is very aware of her problem, but also told me I'm the part of the problem (I'ts my fault that I constantly "deliberately push her buttons"). She told me she did that shit in relationships before me and told me that her dad often physically disciplined her. Did you notice how 100% of the reasons are other people's fault and she was the helpless victim swept…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 02:14 PM
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If I have to be honest with myself then I have to acknowledge that, for whatever reason, I lack a proper drive here. And for the life of me I cannot figure out why. This isn't just a recent pattern; it extends a lifetime. I used to do the same when I was younger. It was due to a lack of self-direction. My mom got me first job when I was 16 by handing me a uniform and telling me to get dressed and come with her. I just never made my own deisions and just floated through life like a paper bag in t…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 01:57 PM
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OYS #6 Not really a lot to report this week. 29, 5’7, 150lb, no kids, married 1 year, together 2 LIFTS: Bench: 190x10 Deadlift: 225x6 Squat: 195x5 OHP: 115 MISSION Be a good leader in life to the benefit of me, my family, colleagues, subordinates and superiors. Work towards financial independence. Be mentally, physically, socially, emotionally, and spiritually fit. READING NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Pook, Rational Male, Sex God Method (30% done). I deviated from the sidebar material …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 01:03 PM
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You keep throwing around the phrase "raging bro alpha" when called out on your bullshit. What does that even mean? You just keep moving the goalpost to protect your ego. This is a pretty amusing version of "not like other guys." Props to your girl and your ex for gaming you so well. "You're the first guy..." lol
/r/askMRP14/04/19 12:47 PM
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You and AWorseManThanYou just blew my mind. My wife does all of that all the fucking time and it used to confuse the fuck out of me. She'd change topics with no transition and could not parse how anyone could think in a way she thought was morally reprehensible.
/r/askMRP10/04/19 12:05 PM
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Your response is more confusing than anything. I'm not really sure where in any of my OYS posts I ever blamed my wife or anyone else for anything. That's something I stopped doing before I even graduated HS.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 06:15 PM
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He will say he just wants to stay home and play instead or that he's scared or whatever. Once we force him to go he has a blast but then we just rinse and repeat the next day. Have you not read NMNG yet? I hate when parents do this. Your household is not a fucking democracy. He will do what he's told wether he likes it or not. You don't nee to explain to him why he needs to do it other than the fact that you're telling him to. Just this weekend I was getting my haircut and this mom had to hold d…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 02:54 PM
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OYS #5 29, 5’7, 150lb, no kids, married 1 year, together 2 LIFTS: Bench: 185x10 Deadlift: 225x6 Squat:190x6 I’m going to deload a bit on DLs. I’m starting to experience lower back pain which is a sign of poor form. I also need to get off my ass and go buy a good quality lifting belt. BACKGROUND Didn’t have a label for it, but I was thoroughly RP, got married, met a roadblock on the professional front and let it spread throughout the rest of my life and spent most of last year backsliding. MISSIO…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 01:05 PM
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Why is this it's own thread? Do you need validation from internet strangers?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 10:35 AM
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Low quality troll bait. God I hope I'm right. she/her: 81 I/me: 64
/r/askMRP08/04/19 07:02 PM
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lol.. wait, wait, wait She's mad to find out that you're fucking your wife? Not only that, now you're thinking she's right and that you need to leave your wife for her? Jesus dude, how much of a faggot are you? Are you that new to female attention that you think she's special? You think you're the only one she's said she wants to have kids with? You need to learn a thing or two about female game. Their game is so heavy-handed that it's almost comical when you have your eyes open.
/r/askMRP08/04/19 06:57 PM
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No idea. Never saw it.
/r/askMRP03/04/19 11:10 AM
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That's fair. One of the biggest critiques of SS is it's asking beginners to do some of the more technically demanding lifts while pushing heavier and heavier weight. The injury rate is not insignificant. So, I'm all for taking the time to learn proper form and minimizing your chances of injury. ​
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 04:54 PM
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Validation Thot Lol. I just noticed your flair. You may be right about her being delusional, but that's not your problem. You can only control you, remember? How tall are you? What are you lifts? It seems like you're purposely avoiding providing numbers. Not that you have to if you don't want, but, just an observation.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 04:09 PM
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The guy said it in an interview. TLC likes to (or used to, don't know nowaways) do interviews after shows with the cast. This was the one done after the final episode aired.
/r/askMRP02/04/19 03:39 PM
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A lot of what confuses you about her behavior aren't mysteries at all. I'm going through the book at the moment for the first time her behavior is by the book AWALT. If she's the best woman in the neighborhood, and your SMV is higher than hers, why are you worried? Is our neighborhood filled with a bunch of studs who all ended up with average/ugly wives or something? Are you being honest with yourself about your SMV? I'm 5'7. I was 125 lbs for all of high school and a good chunk of college, and …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 03:25 PM
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People's view of a character is always more interesting than the character themselves. The directors of Breaking Bad could not for the life of them figure out why most people hated Skyler and thought Walter White was the (anti)hero. She gave him a handjob on his birthday while never taking her eyes off of her laptop, fucked another guy and gave all of Walter's money away to the guy she was fucking. She was supposed to be seen as the victim and him the guy that goes crazy once he found out he had…
/r/askMRP02/04/19 03:18 PM
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Make the next book you read The Rational Male
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 02:31 PM
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Homie, I used to do exactly what you’re doing. I would never fully commit to anything so I’d always have the out of “Well, I wasn’t really trying, so it’s not like I really failed. I could’ve succeeded if I wanted to.” You’re just another jackass that gets to think highly of themselves but have nothing to show for it. You’re no different than that any other random, sweaty, fedora-tipping, fat fuck with an over-inflated ego and an undeserved sense of self-importance that swears they’re awesome de…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 01:55 PM
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OYS #4 I used to post on Thursdays, but moving it to Tuesday for uniformity. Keeping the same goals from last week. 5’7, 150lb, no kids, married 1 year, together 2 LIFTS: Bench: 185x10 Deadlift: 225x6 Squat:190x6 BACKGROUND: Didn’t have a label for it, but I was thoroughly RP, got married, met a roadblock on the professional front and let it spread throughout the rest of my life and spent most of last year backsliding. MISSION Become someone me from a year ago would want to emulate. Relentless i…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 12:12 PM
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Jesus... I'm going to ignore most of that and just address your 2% interest savings account. You can do better ​ Also, do yourself a favor and look at the nutridtional label on those beers you're drinking. If you're at a bar, you can find them online. You're just drinking sugar. ​ Edit: Also, google "5 step deadlift setup." I also avoided deadlifts for year because I always got lower back pain from doing it. My form is still not perfect but I can finally do it without hurting my lower back.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 04:54 PM
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"Are you getting enough protein?" No, I wasn't. My diet has been pretty clean for years but with my new emphasis on lifting, I was lacking protein in my diet. I increased my protein intake to 300-400 grams per day via protein shakes and eating more. Huge help. That's a massive overcorrection. You don't need that much proteign. One gram per pound of body weight is enough (1.2g is on the high side). You're almost taking 3x "Have you tried a pre-workout with creatine?" I haven't. I'm still research…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 04:42 PM
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OYS #3 28, 5’7, 151, no kids, married 1 year, together 2 Background: Didn’t have a label for it, but I was thoroughly RP, got married, met a roadblock on the professional front and let it spread throughout the rest of my life and spent most of last year backsliding. LIFTS: Bench: 185x7 Deadlift: 205x8 Squat: 185x6 Not a lot of change this week. Will be done with the move this weekend. READING: NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Pook, Rational Male (haven’t been reading it as much as I should) CAREER…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 03:43 PM
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Do you lift to 'win' lifting or do you do it to see improvement week-to-week and month-to-month? Stop being retarted.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 02:13 PM
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If all your wife does is weight train and won't miss any machines/classes at the gym, then this is a no brainer. Is the place temeprature controled? There are loads of stories of wives restarting their memberships every winter because they don't like to work out in the cold. As /u/rocknrollchuck says, the mindset is important. If you dedicate a space/room for weightlifting, ONLY use it for that. Your mind should only have one mode when you're in there, it's time to lift (don't watch tv in bed fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 02:53 PM
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Where are you located. I recently built myself a home gym. As far as protecting your floors, you want some mats. The best mats are 'horse stall' mats. They're made to support the weight of horses and can be found at any store that sells farming supplies. The 'gym' mats do a worse job of protecting your floors, but they have the word 'gym' in them so they'll cost you more. ​ How much are you paying for your gym membership that you'd save that much in two years? It cost me a little over $4000 to p…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 12:53 PM
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This is a huge breakthrough my dude. This alone can change your life. That little voice gets louder the more you listen to it. You're on the path to being your own man. Keep this up and you won't need anyone else to call you out on your bullshit. You'll do thtat on your own. Watch yourself closely and question your justifications to everything. You'll be surprised how often your reasons are just ego protection.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 12:43 PM
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You're right on that. Frame is something I need to put serious work in. I was lifting for ~5 years before I stopped ~a year ago (more info in OYS#1 if you care). I'm going to follow the same program I followed back then, a PPL split with 8-12 reps. I know people shit on high reps but that's just what my body responds to. I got to the bets shape of my life following it. I was following it the last few months while slowly buying things for the gym and was gaining the strength back quicker than I t…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 04:35 PM
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OYS #2 28, 5’7, 150 lb, no kids. Married 1 year, together (2) LIFTS: Bench: 185x10 Deadlift: 225x3 Squat: 190x10 Going to keep it short and sweet, mostly full of things I realized since last week. I started to watch and analyze my behavior a lot more since trying to get re-reded. I still haven’t really finalized what my mission is yet. The main thing that happened is that we closed on a house last Thursday and are mostly moved in at this point. READING: NMMNG, WISNIFG, Models, MMSLP, Book of Poo…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 02:25 PM
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Sisyphus was said to be punished by eternally rolling a rock up a hill. You're realizing why some people say that he should be envied rahter than pitied. ​ Men are only happy when they're pursuing a worthwhile and sufficiently difficult goal (by their own standards). When the goal you've been pursuing single-mindedly gets taken away from you - either from quitting, reassignment, or 'success'. It leaves you feeling empty. The elation from overcoming is always short lived. The real joy was in the …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 12:31 PM
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I’ve made my decision that men who choose their marriage, but also spin plates do so at various levels: Men that lack game in general and can’t apply it to their wife. They choose not to do the work and plate. Weak.Weak men that have game, become discouraged and defeated in applying it to their wives, then choose to plate women to mask their pain and suffering of not having sexual fulfilment from their wives, currently. Weak. 3.Men who possess the BEST game, and have also BESTED their pain and s…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/19 02:25 PM
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You still view your mom as some wise sage. Do you have any neices/nephews in your family? Have you ever told them something offhandedly and have them accept it 100% without questioning it in the least bit? They just assume you have it together and know what you're talking about because you're older. You need to realize that your mom isn't any wiser than any other grown up in the universe. Thought experiment: Your mom had some friends her age when you were a kid. What your mom said was gospel, bu…
/r/askMRP19/03/19 11:54 AM
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I can relate to the resentment when you suddenly realize you can do and want better than the woman you're currently wait. Your anger will subside, but your feelings for her will never return to what they were when you were trying to please her. When you factor in her pulling a fucking knife on you, you need to dump the bitch (you should've done it right after that incident imo). You stayed because you were a bitch and you're still too much of a bitch to leave her just yet. Keep improving relentl…
/r/askMRP15/03/19 01:43 PM
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It sounds like you're looking for the kind of love described in romance novels where the 'spark' is always there and the burning passion never dies. It just doesn't seem to exist in that form in the real world. Get to know what you want out of a mate. Learn what your non-negotiables are and what your nice-to-have traits are. Find somone who meets all of your non-negotiables and some of your nice-to-have traits and go long term (if you want to). If you want to make sure you snag a woman in the 99…
/r/askMRP15/03/19 12:50 PM
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FINANCES We kept separate finances because I ‘respected’ her and didn’t want to ‘impose’ my financial discipline on her. Since we’re Military, we’d be moving every 2-3 years and I kept trying to convince her into buying a house and just renting it out each time we move for passive income. She was always against it, but since starting to get re-RP’d, we’ve joined finances with me at the lead. We close on a house tomorrow. I’ve taken the lead and she’s following. We’re at the point, where we can l…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/19 05:34 PM
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OYS #1 28, 5’7”, 150 lb, no kids, Married 1 year, together 2 (yeah) Lifts: B:185x10 DL: 225x3 Sq:190x10 (not sure what my 1RMs are as I haven’t cared enough to set new PRs since finishing high school) I’ve heard of RP for years but never really looked into it. I’ve been in this sub for about a month now and started reading some of the books and I’ve realized I’ve been RP for a very long time. I’m not here to fix my marriage (I don’t think). My problem is with life in general, more on that later.…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/19 05:33 PM
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I was so angry and frustrated at myself for giving up and scrolling through Reddit earlier tonight. That's a good thing. I've even faked my anger at first and had the same effect. You're associating bad feelings to the collapse of discipline. Keep it up. Destroy your excuses, give yourself no avenue to retreat and your ego will not survive. Life gets so much easier once you don't need anyone to call you out on your bullshit and it becomes automatic.
/r/askMRP04/03/19 09:48 PM
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What the fuck would you confront him about? Scream "Why don't you like me" while your voice cracks like a prepubecent little bitch? Let me give you a line to repeat to yourself "You can be the ripest, sweetest and juiciest peach in the entre world, but there will always be some people that just don't like peach." He didn't like you yesterday and the world just kept on turning. Nothing has changed. His feelings about you don't change jack shit.
/r/askMRP04/03/19 09:37 PM
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You need to drink a nice tall glass of shut the fuck up. Too many of your sentences start with she or her. No sex for a week is rock bottom, but you have abundance. Sure bro.
/r/askMRP02/03/19 01:36 PM
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Dude, there is so much shit tangled up in this one post. She wants you take the fucking red pill! She wants some semblance of you being a confident, dominant man that she tries to get it in the one arena she can control: sex. The downside of that is that she’s training you to keep pushing to the point of harassment. If you were dominant in other areas of your life, she wouldn’t need to ‘force’ dominance out of you. Poor girl wants you to succeed so badly, but her efforts are only confusing you a…
/r/askMRP01/03/19 03:50 PM
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When we got married, neither of us wanted kids, but now I am starting to change my mind and would like it to be a possibility in the next 10 years. She is adamant about not wanting kids. Is this one of those things where she doesn’t want kids (with me)? Or do some women actually just never want kids? Would she change her mind if I become alpha? The books I read so far don’t cover this. Kids for a lot of people are a non-negotiable. You're just pretending that the elephant in the room isn't there…
/r/askMRP01/03/19 03:42 PM
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She wanted to cuddle for a while, and I started trying to initiate sex, but then the walls went up. Every time I tried to touch her bare skin she would swat me away. I maintained frame and said “it’s getting late, I’m gonna go to bed. This sequence of events is kind of confusing to me. How did you know she wanted to cuddle? Did you surmise that after getting shot down? Walls went up - where you still cuddling, but she wanted you to stick to the clothed parts? ​ Girl didn't even want you to touch…
/r/askMRP01/03/19 03:17 PM
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Everyone is different. It has happend to me while driving, watching tv, doing dishes, folding laundry, or sitting in the car after turning the engine off before walking into the house. The common thing is that it has to be something that doesn't require concentration, something you can do on autopilot or not be present for mentally. ​
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/19 02:49 PM
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They rubber can crack, warp, or just get dislodged from the center. It's not a strictly olympic thing as dropping your weights from the top of a deadlift can have the same result. If you're the only one using your home gym, it'll still take time for that to happen, just be aware that it will happen one day. Go look at any web page selling bumper plates and they'll all warn against doing that in their warranty section.
/r/askMRP01/03/19 02:20 PM
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Extra credit: a pair or two of standard diameter bumper plates can allow you to dead lift at the correct height and save on matting, while opening up options to get other plates with an Olympic inner diameter (the hole) and various outer diameters.). Just know that when you do this, you'll wear out your bumper plates faster since they're only designed to support their own weight.
/r/askMRP01/03/19 01:51 PM
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I'm in the process of doing this after doing the math of how much time i'd save if I could just walk into my garrage and have the gym there. I would say you 100% don't want to cheap out on the bench, barbell, or squat rack. ​ Getting gym equipment is kinda like buying power tools, you can go one of three routs Buy it cheap and replace it with good quality once it breaks Buy good quality from the start and be done with it Buy cheap and replace cheap Which is "best" depends on your situation. If y…
/r/askMRP01/03/19 01:44 PM
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This feels like I just listened to my wife try to tell a coherent story.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 01:28 PM
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That's the one thing I disagree with RP philosophy on. The whole remaining stoic and never losing your cool shit. If she keeps pushing an issue, after you've tried 'everything in the book' to change topics or defusing the issue, I find going from 0 to 100 shuts that shit down real fucking quick. ​ Though, come to think of it, it's kind of an extreme version of AA, since they're getting just what they want (you having the conversation they want) but they're getting more truth than they bargain fo…
/r/askMRP25/02/19 12:46 AM
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bringing the umbrella metaphor into real life shit It's just another phrasing of "be the oak" metaphor. Once she realizes you will not, cannot be swayed, she'll feel more relaxed and secure. You can actually see it happen in real time when she's freaking out and you're reamining calm.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 08:33 PM
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Your diet matters way more than anything else you're doing when it comes to weight loss. Increasing your physical activity is good, but you'll get further fixing your diet as well. People really overestimate how many calories they burn when working out. If you're gaining weight, you're overeating. Period. ​ Go to YouTube and search for Secret Eaters. It's a show in England about people that swear they're sticking to their diet but somehow they're still gaining weight. They put cameras in their h…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/19 08:05 PM
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You caught the oneitis. There is no such thing as a 'soul mate.' You thought so once and made her your wife. Your life should be 'complete' alone. The value you seek form outside yourself shouldn't be high enough that you're willing to do what you're considering.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/19 08:52 PM
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Link anal stimulation to her orgasms.
/r/askMRP16/02/19 11:54 PM
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Stats: 5' 10" 209 lbs. 22% bf 34 yo, ​ Got a gym membership, but need to find a workout buddy for accountability and spotter for free weights. Stop being a little bitch. You don't need a partner for accountability. You need discipline. has led to her being less adventurous and less open sexually than I would like. No, you did that yourself The kids are a huge energy and time suck, but I'm definitely a family guy and value the kids. My wife has breastfed all of our kids, which often gives her the…
/r/askMRP15/02/19 06:20 PM
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You'd be surprised how well STFU works. Even if it's to just give you time to process before speaking - more often than not, she'll just start going again and it turns into a monologue. Don't be afraid to tune out either.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 12:36 PM
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I would be the parent that was the Batman with the kids and she needed to be the Mary Poppins. stealing this line
/r/askMRP11/02/19 06:06 PM
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Marriage isn't just any ordinary business. It's super duper special business that will fuck unless you're doing some borderline illegal shit to hide your money. I'm not sure what you're expecting from some random jerkoffs on the internet. ​
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 08:46 PM
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Put more effort into becoming a man she feels lucky to be married to instead?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 07:44 PM
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I would hope after responding how I suggested, you're able to tell if she was serious or not - esp considering how long the two have been together.
/r/askMRP05/02/19 12:14 PM
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I'll note that if you're wrong in your assessment, congratulations, you've just planted physical evidence of sexual assault. I'm really curious to hear how much force you use when you have your hand around a woman's throat.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 07:56 PM
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Everything I was goign to say. Only thing I'll add is "you'll take what you're given." comes accross as her giving you a chance to not a bitch that jumped through hoops to get sex. She doesn't want to have sex with a bitch. She wanted you to be a man and instead you just went to bed. ​ That line to me is nothing but foreplay. You put your hand around the bitch's throat and with a smirk on your face you say "I'll take what's mine" Opportunity missed. Live and learn. STFU
/r/askMRP04/02/19 03:58 PM
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When you find yourself asking what's going on like you did with "What is about me touching you that is so wrong?", you've been in her frame for a while. ​ Are you sure you weren't reactive to the denial? She thought you were still trying to get into her pants just by touching her. Is there a lack of conruence on your part?
/r/askMRP04/02/19 02:29 PM
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Pro-tip: amazon family is a thing. She can have her own account and still get your prime benefits
/r/askMRP31/01/19 07:18 PM
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Lately however she has developed an attitude that I can't seem to pin point the cause of. To preface this my on going issue before Christmas was she would choose to put me on the back burner, or only hang out in social settings, eliminating the chances for sex to happen. Fast forward a bit she flakes two days in a row and another day and is very brief with me The amount of fucks you give about what she thinks/does is too damn high my dude. Do you not have a social life outside of her? and I soft…
/r/askMRP31/01/19 06:26 PM
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This isn't the place you come to get motivated. You come here after you're already motivated. You don't even know what you want so I'm not sure what you're expecting from this sub. Decide what you want your life to be like 20 years from now and work to make it happen. It's that easy.
/r/askMRP31/01/19 06:02 PM
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