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Logisticsdonnybdonnyb/r/seduction29/09/21 01:02 AM
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Yes you say no
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:18 AM
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Bro don’t be telling girls you have anxiety even if you do. Especially to a girl like that. She’s looking for strength, leadership etc. You’re basically fitting in to one of her friends by saying that. Instead say something like “I get it must be hard, I didn’t think you had anxiety based on your personality but I’m still going to encourage you to come out” or something like that. Just listen. Also you lost frame when you wanted to get ice cream but she didn’t. She’s basically saying I don’t tru…
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:21 AM
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You can either love women or understand them. Not both. It’s not even worth trying to figure out what game she’s playing don’t try and understand it. I’m sure she herself doesn’t know what her intentions with you are half the time. Stay in your frame and follow whatever rules you have for yourself when it comes to dating and she’ll follow if she wants.
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:14 AM
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Once a girl knows she can use drama/ your insecurities to get your attention she’ll do it again and again. Stop watching her stories and using snap. Stick to texting and give a girl warnings in the future when you feel like you’re being disrespected/ ignored/ flaked. When she goes past one or two warnings it’s time to put her on ice. And then go date new girls. By giving attention after she’s flaked you’re effectively rewarding bad behaviour. It only gets worse from here. Time to ignore her till…
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:11 AM
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I know a bi guy who has a wife. The way he convinced his wife to stay and still deal with both is she is the only person he gets to fuck and she’s in control of his dick. Kinda like femdom. but men get to fuck him till he cums if he wants to. He’s not allowed to fuck guys. Most girls are turned off by the fact that your dick has been in another mans bum then in her. Also, make sure you communicate that you won’t fall in love/ develop feelings/ with a man only a woman. Women are emotional so don’…
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:38 AM
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Nothing wrong with feeling this way IMO. No one wants to have a girl that everyone else has had. A woman you take seriously is a reflection of you at the end of the day. I wouldn’t take a girl like that seriously. Men and women have different rules. If we did it, it would make us more attractive
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:01 AM
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I don’t know why people find it so hard to believe men are programmed to fuck quantity and women quality. We release millions of sperm every orgasm for a reason. Women get one egg a month. Speaks for itself
/r/seduction16/10/21 09:59 AM
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Damn. This the first time I’ve heard someone blame them not getting laid on the weather.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:10 AM
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I’d advise you to call to arrange dates in the future. Builds rapport, reduces flakes and naturally means she’ll have less to question you About over text
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:10 PM
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For sure dude. Step by step, clean up your life, make a vision, make a decision to get it, plan, execute. That’s life
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:19 AM
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It sounds like you’re in the perfect position to really change your life. Embrace the anger, jealousy, frustration. It’s good you feel like you do because you can use that energy to change. Society often tells us just “be happy with yourself”, “don’t compare yourself” etc etc. So keep getting angry at your situation because when you get angry enough you’ll find a way to change. Step by step. It’s not going to happen overnight. But every man in this sub who’s mastered seduction has been feeling h…
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:16 AM
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Should have stopped talking to her when she first told you she was busy. Plus you probably should have not hung out so much without sex. You’re moving like a girl should. Drunk texts and double texting her to hang out? Move on g
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:02 PM
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This💯
/r/seduction29/09/21 03:14 AM
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Never tried to. idm the looks I get I just wonder if anyone else has experienced something similar
/r/seduction29/09/21 02:34 AM
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True. It’s not like I want to change It or would change it if I could. I’m just wondering if anyone’s else has the same issue
/r/seduction29/09/21 02:33 AM
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I want to add to this post it’s all true. Someone once said “Make her earn everything from your government name to your last name” you don’t have to explicitly compliment good behaviour but revealing more about yourself can also be seen as a compliment. And that way you remain a mystery
/r/seduction28/09/21 11:17 PM
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The fact that you asked her if you just see me as a friend or not shows to her that you don’t know what you’re doing. I’d avoid ever asking that. Her actions will tell you all you need
/r/seduction25/09/21 02:41 AM
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Strangely enough I find whenever you’re looking for ‘something serious’ it just come across as needy like you’re trying to play it safe. Treat all girls as if you’re just there to have fun with them and get them to qualify to you. Don’t validate her unless she deserves it by following your lead. Just keep the convo light hearted. She doesn’t want your life story. And remember to escalate, break the touch barrier. Start small like holding hands “you look like you have soft hands” or something lik…
/r/seduction22/09/21 10:35 PM
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She don’t want you and I don’t think there’s much you can do about it. At that age girls are kind of trying to find the best fit for a long term partner. Unless you’ve got your shit together at 22 she’s not gonna look your way. She’s reserving sex for the guy who’s making more money than her with more socioeconomic status ready to lock her down. Why would she trust a 22 year old with that. Also, unless you’re willing to have kids in the next 3-5 years I don’t understand why you’d want her to be …
/r/seduction22/09/21 10:21 PM
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Leave it on read she’ll get the message
/r/seduction21/09/21 11:14 PM
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Explain where I humiliated OP. Tf😂
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:59 PM
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Sorry bro but I’m not being a dick. Let’s see it as what it is rather than sugar coating things and getting emotional about feedback. OP needs to learn to value his time and resources and gain some self respect. It is what it is. If you don’t like how it sounds it’s probably true
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:50 PM
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Where’s your self respect as a man. Jesus
/r/seduction21/09/21 02:04 PM
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A woman doesn’t make the man. A man is who he is regardless of a woman. When you learn to seek validation from the most high women don’t really matter. Why would validation from a woman matter when she’s beneath you and meant to be following your lead?
/r/seduction18/09/21 10:09 PM
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Give a woman car keys she wants to drive the space shuttle, give her a fork she wants the whole cutlery set, give her a chair she wants the living room. She’s just seeing how much attention she can get out of you before you draw the line for validation. She obviously saw you were weak in one instance and now she’s seeing how weak you are. You just need to stand your ground. Whatever you want from her stick to it. If that’s friends don’t touch her boobs or let her look at your dick. If that’s mor…
/r/seduction18/09/21 09:49 PM
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Momentum is 🔑 especially for first meetings
/r/seduction18/09/21 01:56 AM
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Interesting stuff. I have a different approach. I only ever get numbers off dating apps. No social Media involved. Then it’s a quick high energy 15-20minute phone call to build rapport and see if I actually can tolerate the girl on a date and if there’s any signs of rudeness etc. Trying my best to switch the power from her to me as if I’m interviewing her for a date. Then from then on it’s all 100% logistical texting to set up the final parts of the date(I’ll get an idea of when she’s free on th…
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:26 PM
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Good shit bro. Do you call your girls before you take them out or id it all text game?
/r/seduction17/09/21 09:50 PM
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What uni you at bro. Sounds like you’re maybe in the Uk
/r/seduction17/09/21 04:50 AM
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And set up a date while you’re there
/r/seduction17/09/21 04:48 AM
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Call her
/r/seduction17/09/21 04:40 AM
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At this point I’m just genuinely interested as to whether you guys smash or not. I’m just giving my take based on an amateur sex life. It’d be a learning experience for me to see what happens because this isn’t a scenario you get too often. Good luck bro but don’t call me sweaty fingers again coz I took that personally 🥺
/r/seduction17/09/21 04:38 AM
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This right here. TRP is just doing whats best for you based on the current climate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:30 AM
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Keep chipping away bro. Embrace the rejection it’s part of the game. How do you find the improv classes? Do they help with you being able to think on your feet and be witty? I’m thinking of joining
/r/seduction17/09/21 04:26 AM
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You sound like you know what the fuck you’re talking about. I wouldn’t mind being part of said group
/r/seduction17/09/21 04:24 AM
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I disagree with your post. The reason why women like funny guys is because funny guys give them a range of emotions. It’s harder to be bored around a guy who’s always making them laugh. Women are emotional creatures and the bigger the range of emotions you make her feel the better because she’ll associate those emotions with you. That being said it only gets you so far and there are ways to create emotional experiences without humour like going on interesting dates and you still have to be seduc…
/r/seduction17/09/21 04:21 AM
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Just don’t give up on it and keep Chipping away. Great change happens over years. Don’t focus on the day to day woman to woman interactions. Think macro not micro. If that means getting your mindset and energy right in the process then do it. But make a promise to yourself to approach every woman you like from now on and focus on your looks money game and social status
/r/seduction17/09/21 04:15 AM
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Just go for the number and call her straight away. It weeds out the people like that
/r/seduction17/09/21 04:10 AM
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If you aren’t prepared to walk away from The table you shouldn’t be negotiating. If you aren’t prepared to leave her if she doesn’t fuck then you shouldn’t be going for drinks.
/r/seduction17/09/21 04:07 AM
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I’d also go a step further and to say don’t validate her unless she’s earned it. Her beauty shouldn’t phase you. Don’t be awestruck
/r/seduction17/09/21 04:05 AM
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Aw. I seem to have struck a nerve. Someone else will lie to you and make you feel better. Not me
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:26 AM
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All I’m saying is it’s pretty clear to me that you liked her or at least fantasised about her beforehand while she was in a relationship with your mate and now she’s available again all these emotions and fantasies about how you could work out just like your mate worked out with her and how you could have a family together are coming forward when the whole time she’s knows you liked her a bit sexually because girls are smart like that but now she doesn’t respect you because no one who respects t…
/r/seduction16/09/21 11:34 PM
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she’s so special and important to you, you’ve got such a special bond and you’ve been through so much together and it’s such a good shot at a lay that you’re on Reddit trying to figure out how to smash her instead of just talking to her about it. Ok buddy. Ok
/r/seduction16/09/21 11:10 PM
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Bro by trying to fuck her you’re basically admitting to wanting your good friends girl the whole time and you’re basically admitting to wanting this girl the whole time she gave you her emotional problems. I wouldn’t do it out of respect for myself personally. Too many girls in the world. Plus based on what you’ve told me I’m pretty sure she has 0 respect for you and wouldn’t smash. Up to you though. Just sounds like a scarce desperate attempt at a lay
/r/seduction16/09/21 10:44 PM
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Bro just hit the gym and you’ll be surprised what it does to your mindset. I used to think like that. I’m too skinny here etc. I’ve gained muscle yes but it’s barely noticeable through clothes. The main difference is the confidence change from working on yourself daily. Muscles are a byproduct at this point
/r/seduction16/09/21 10:29 PM
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First of all, RIP to your bro and congrats on your weight loss but It's likely because you're a woman why you experienced that. Of course the only way to get women isn't to lose weight but im trying to give advice specific to the OP. There's no debate that losing weight will get you more girls. And of course being social AND in shape helps. HOWEVER the dating marketplace and the world in general doesn't punish you for being fat as a woman. Plus sized models, love your curves, you do whats best f…
/r/seduction16/09/21 07:14 AM
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Agree with you to an extent but you don’t just magically start developing confidence and a crazy sense of humour overnight. Plus you lose being self conscious and it’s easier to put yourself to work on being social when you put the work in on yourself every day to get in shape/ healthier and do overall self improvement in terms of finances etc. OP is clearly a bit shy which is why I think he does NEED to lose weight. It’ll be a catalyst to everything else falling in place. Not to mention just be…
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:41 AM
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I think that’s where social circle game comes in. Id assume that guy could be well known to have good game/ dick/ charm among girls in his social circle and now they saw their chance to make an entrance
/r/seduction16/09/21 03:22 AM
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Bro 6”3 and black?? If you lose weight and build muscle you basically can’t have a more desired look among women. Black women in particular
/r/seduction15/09/21 11:46 PM
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Don’t be scared of rejection. Whatever you’ve been through in life has yet to kill you. 2. Get her on the phone, ask about her, ask the basics and gauge whether she’s a girl you even like and would be able to tolerate sharing time with. Treat it as if she’s qualifying for you. Then ask her on the same phone call to come to you or nearby you instead. When you make her have a bit more skin in the game she’s more likely to get on your terms and you can also gauge how interested she is in you. Also …
/r/seduction15/09/21 04:27 PM
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Yeah you’re far too old at 23 you definitely should have started earlier. No girl will ever see you as attractive ever again and you should live the rest of the 2/3rds of your life a lonely bored virgin uncle… men hit the sexual prime at 35 /36 calm down buddy you got this. My biggest tip would be date in numbers. You’ll naturally develop and abundance mindset.
/r/seduction15/09/21 04:03 PM
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Just be honest with yourself. You’re scared to kiss her cause you’re scared to ruin it because you keep imagining a future with her. If she kissed you you wouldn’t have said no would you so you’re not “waiting to see if you really want to”. Be present and just focus on you being the guy that gives her a good experience and good sex. And date other women too. If she likes you then she’ll eventually bring up your relationship and ask you to stop seeing said other women. Asking a girl about a relat…
/r/seduction15/09/21 03:52 PM
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And when I say vagina I mean mutual sexual interest and proactive sexual intimacy not literally
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:39 AM
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I never said that. I will say vagina is the foundation to which everything else comes though. Or you may as well be good friends
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:37 AM
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Doesn’t matter the point is she’s not available to have sex with. Girls are masters at deception. From makeup to how they speak. Girls also need attention like plants need sunshine and water. Even if that means calling you daddy to get it. Watch her actions not her words. If she isn’t fucking you she’s using you. Bro I was looking at your Reddit history and you’re clearly a bit lost. I’d recommend cutting off all these online girls you have and setting up dates
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:35 AM
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Giving that much attention to a girl without a lay or the potential for a lay is so bad. Women are attracted to men who have other options. Men who have other options = getting laid by other women = invest time in sexual relationships only = doesn’t have time to text a woman half way across the world about their feelings. You’re her little attention toy she turns on when she feels like it for validation while getting railed on the side. Move on bro
/r/seduction14/09/21 02:54 AM
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It has everything to do with your feelings when you start talking about “selfish little fantasies” and you “hoping I don’t raise children in the future”. You’re clearly a bit angry. I’m not offended idc but that’s a pretty stupid contradiction. And I proved my point
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 01:00 AM
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“Common sense doesn’t prove anything” Thanks for proving my point. Your argument is based on how it makes you feel rather than logic
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 12:55 AM
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You don’t need a site to even prove it. Think about it logically. You have three pieces of meat. You have a young fertile man, a young fertile woman a middle aged infertile woman and a middle aged man still fertile. All in a tribe. No ones coming to help you and the goal is to survive (hunting, gathering, building shelters, carrying water, etc.) and bear children. I know who I’m feeding. Now extrapolate that to a large population. Grandmas dead 😂
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 12:47 AM
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Incorrect. Men’s sperm is fertile from the day you hit puberty to the day you die. You’re wrong. Younger women don’t prefer older men based on looks yes but men don’t care lol. Whoever was the leader of society and the leader of the pack would rape pillage and create harems to make sure his seed spread. Women never used to have a choice. It is what it is. Society’s not like that any more but there are still examples where power and status outweigh looks. Donald trump for example. Also, please no…
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 12:21 AM
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You’re getting in your feelings about it. Our ancestral past is fucked up. It is what it is. God bless the men and women who have built the society we live in today so we don’t have to feed our grandmas to wolves. But it happened. Stick your head in the sand if you don’t want to live in reality. Up to you. Men are way more useful than women for survival. You can’t dispute it.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 12:11 AM
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You’re not understanding. If all men young and old weren’t attracted to younger women (16-28) then we wouldn’t be impregnating fertile women and hence we wouldn’t be having children in great enough numbers to sustain and grow a population. We’ve evolved to be attracted to fertility because that’s what keeps life going. Men can bust nuts till they die. Women only have a few eggs. Sorry is cheap. Eggs are rare. Love and attraction are different things. Your grandad probably loves your grandma but …
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 03:10 PM
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I love hearing stories like this. Level up king. Focus on you and the women will too g
/r/seduction02/01/21 03:53 AM
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