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You need to be a bit more playful based on this message. You write like a millennial British lord
/r/seduction26/10/22 07:30 PM
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Incoming anecdotal evidence. I met my gf of over a year on tinder. She’s a legit 11/10 in my eyes. We probably never would have crossed paths irl.
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:50 PM
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I’ve been in this exact situation. It sucks so bad. By far the worst pain I have ever felt in my life. It honestly took me years to get fully over it but if I could go back and tell myself one thing it would be this: learn from this, don’t repeat the same mistake again and remember you got a girl of this quality once so you can do it again. Oh and don’t be afraid of therapy. Years later I have a girlfriend that I think is even higher quality and our relationship is very real. You are that guy bu…
/r/seduction24/04/22 06:04 PM
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The whole point is you are trying to hard. You have to risk getting ignored to prove you don't actually give a fuck
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:38 AM
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It's a grind that no one tells you about. You have to go in confident but expect to fail. Analyze why you failed. Fix that, rinse and repeat. I remember the feeling it's really hard. Have confidence you will eventually get there and cling to that. Treat each opportunity as practice and have confidence in the work you are putting in.
/r/seduction19/11/20 06:01 PM
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Yup. I had to learn text game then completely unlearn text game to become good at it
/r/seduction17/11/20 04:15 PM
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Lmao. Women don't chase guys they don't know. This is all about getting the first and second date. Attractive and high value girls are legitimately busy. I don't validate at all in between dates and while on dates I just shut the fuck up and let them do all the talking then invite them back to my place. Works like a charm.
/r/seduction20/08/20 04:52 PM
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Exactly this
/r/seduction20/08/20 03:03 PM
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Obviously if a girl says "no" you respect that and move on. But a ghost is not that. They are literally saying nothing. I think the assumption that a girl not responding is an indicator of her being uncomfortable is usually wrong. I think it's usually an indicator of bad timing or she is going on a date with someone else. Shoot your shot again in a week and hope that her date fucked up or it's better timing for her.
/r/seduction20/08/20 02:58 PM
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Tbh I absolutely want the love of my life to be someone I had to earn through patience and persistence. I honestly lose attraction if things are too easy
/r/seduction20/08/20 02:42 PM
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It's not about pulling magic to get girls who are not interested. It's about going from low interest to higher interest by behaving in non needy, high value ways. I would argue that is literally what seduction is. Everything else is just not fucking up with a girl who likes you. I think this sub actually preaches giving up too easy and moving on too fast to avoid losing any pride
/r/seduction20/08/20 05:56 AM
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Yeah I agree. He could've had a chance if he let her do her thing without pressing her to change the time. Let her do her thing then try again in two weeks.
/r/seduction20/08/20 05:51 AM
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I had PE fear for a long time too and avoided it in similar ways. There really is no answer other than you have to face it head on and treat each hookup as practice until you get better. It's good that you are self aware enough to realize the root of the problem. You have to know your mind it expect it to give you it's classic excuses and doubt. The only thing to do is transcend your own mind. Know what fear reactions to expect from it and prepare some self talk that will counter it, then act ev…
/r/seduction02/08/20 08:38 PM
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I would argue that seducing someone that already has high interest in you isn't seduction, it's just not fucking up.
/r/seduction30/07/20 07:57 PM
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It also comes from a place of low self esteem. Lots of guys on this sub want to take back control and maintane pride by nexting any girl that isn't high interest.
/r/seduction29/07/20 10:25 PM
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People give up so easy on this sub for some reason. The culture is you should only date women extremely into you from the beginning. That's not even seduction, that's just called setting up a date then keeping your mouth shut. Obviously she won't let you know so invite her out to do something fun in a week or two without validating her in between
/r/seduction29/07/20 07:36 PM
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I wouldn't bring it up but I also wouldn't hide it either. She might be doing the same thing. Just let her bring it up then tell the truth
/r/seduction05/07/20 11:19 PM
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You just gotta transcend your identity and do it. That's it. Literally NIKE it It will feel really hard... Like you are doing something you would never do but you can behave however you want. Nothing is stopping you except your own mind. Learn your own mind, expect it to freak out then just do it anyways
/r/seduction04/07/20 12:52 AM
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Yeah who knows. Just say fuckit and stay confident cuz that's what makes a guy a 10 If she doesn't respond just invite her to do something in a couple weeks or just let her go
/r/seduction26/06/20 07:57 PM
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Did she cum? Also girls can be fuckboys too and if she had sex on a first meeting with you she is probably doing that with other guys too
/r/seduction26/06/20 07:51 PM
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The course is called The Natural
/r/seduction23/06/20 07:16 AM
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Think about how very popular men behave. Girls know how these men behave (they have all interacted with them) and it isn't how 99% of men (including you) behave
/r/seduction15/06/20 12:50 AM
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Busy doesn't necessarily mean working or hobbies. You should have other friends and girls to talk to
/r/seduction15/06/20 12:47 AM
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You need to be busy enough to be the first to not respond for 3 hours
/r/seduction15/06/20 12:44 AM
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Can someone further explain #25?
/r/seduction25/05/20 10:16 PM
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Watch some AMS videos
/r/seduction20/05/20 06:45 AM
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Lmao this is bs. If you are an attractive dude with good text game you can make good connections on these apps all the time. Just gotta wade through the trash
/r/seduction18/05/20 10:08 PM
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Especially with 9-10s. If it fades with them or they ghost you after a date just hit them up 3-7 days later and invite them to do something fun. You'd be surprised about what you can turn around with some persistence and patience.
/r/seduction12/05/20 02:35 PM
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What I'm saying is get good at sex and it will no longer be an insecurity or bad frame. Until you reach that point treat every sexual encounter as practice / you being brave and working on overcoming an insecurity
/r/seduction07/05/20 08:36 PM
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Get good with your mouth and hands and be dominating in bed and it won't matter
/r/seduction07/05/20 08:05 PM
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I came out of college with little experience and I was afraid to even ask for a date. I had an experienced with my dream girl that of course ended horribly and that made me realize just how bad I was with women. I basically just tried to learn as much as possible and baby step my improvement. I had to figure out what advice worked for me which created some cringe moments when it went wrong but you slowly get better and more confident. Everytime I improved it was because I stepped outside my comf…
/r/seduction06/05/20 06:27 PM
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I got a lot more success when stopped trying to make girls laugh. Focus on intense eye contact with some physical escalation. Being a dancing monkey for her is not sexually attractive even if it is entertaining
/r/seduction05/05/20 11:45 PM
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I think you are really underestimating the value of patience when it comes to women. A week is really not that long... It just feels long when you are desperate
/r/seduction30/04/20 05:46 PM
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I agree. He basically messed up and needs to reset the interaction. He needs to display some value though his absence
/r/seduction30/04/20 05:44 PM
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Yeah I mean it seems like you have had some good interactions. I would wait like 3-7 days, based off how well your interactions have gone in the past.
/r/seduction30/04/20 06:20 AM
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Bruh this is weak text game. Don't tell a girl to text you like that. It implies your sitting around waiting for her text... Twiddling your thumbs. Also you usually should try to be a little more interesting than "how is your day going?". If she doesn't respond I would wait a week then invite her to do something fun.
/r/seduction30/04/20 06:13 AM
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Whatch some AMS videos on YouTube, get on your purpose and stop being her maid
/r/seduction24/04/20 04:39 PM
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Be stop being the PG 13 version of yourself. Be the rated R version
/r/seduction24/04/20 06:18 AM
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I know everyone likes say move on instantly but you can turn these girls around. Just respond normally then ask her out again in a week or two.
/r/seduction15/04/20 01:34 AM
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Just get out their man and you'll realize they are dumb as hell just like us
/r/seduction07/04/20 11:07 PM
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