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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Looking for support and perspective		dontbeabitchyoubitch	/r/askTRP	11/08/16 02:23 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Alright boys, I need some professional advice on getting over Oneitis. Help? A lot of us are here struggling with the same thing dude, I know I am, still, still months after. You have to focus on other things. The more you think about it the more you your brain feeds on it by associating any kind of emotion with the thoughts.	/r/askTRP	21/11/16 02:17 AM
1	Looking for support and perspective Remember that your mind is going to begin editing her so that she seems perfect in retrospect. This is exactly what happened this week. Good to know this is normal part of the process. In a few months or years you will look back on this time and realize how good a thing it was that you broke up, as you lay there in a bed with a hotter chick. I'd like to think that way, as it happened with my previous ex-wife I knew the relationship was over and the intimacy over, but I guess the reason it seems …	/r/askTRP	12/08/16 02:21 AM
1	Looking for support and perspective You'd have to be willing to make concessions on things it sounds like you're not willing to. This is what I'm struggling with quite a bit. I often don't mind the idea of kids, but something really held me back from going forward with her, I wish I could definitively say why. You have plenty of time to spin plates and find a RPW woman later on. It's a nice thought, hopeful for the future, but I fear I'll keep comparing to the past like I always do and regret I made this decision	/r/askTRP	12/08/16 02:17 AM
1	Looking for support and perspective Only time will heal these wounds. And I imagine holding on is only making it worse. Just so hard for me to let go all the sudden. Initially it was so easy, it logically made sense, this isn't working, let's split up and see what happens. Part of me still thinks I can work this out somehow, and I start to forget why we even broke up to begin with. So it's not just her; it's the contrast of your life without her. Really not any better way to succinctly describe the circumstances and put's it into …	/r/askTRP	12/08/16 01:24 AM

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