I’ve made this mistake too many times!! Listening to guy go on and on thinking it means something. You’re just something he can talk AT. He doesn’t care what you have to say.
I had a guy friends for years who I thought was an amazing friend. Turns out he was “in love” with me and when I didn’t return his feelings, he started being a verbally abusive jerk to me until I had to end the friendship.
I used to constantly get myself in trouble doing this! I’d notice something off with a guy in the beginning but push past it because I was always told I was “too picky.” Lo and behold, my instincts were always right 🙄