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1

She could be a high functioning borderline?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/21 11:16 AM
1

Hey, can you link a basic 6 day ppl off ppl off program? Thx
/r/askTRP12/02/21 01:01 PM
3

they partied together
/r/askTRP05/02/21 11:22 PM
1

That is not girlfriend material and her behavior is not in line with what is expected of a girlfriend. Do necessary exit preparations.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 03:29 PM
1

Now you need to fall in love and break your heart!
/r/askTRP29/12/20 01:31 AM
3

Long way ahead of BPD recovery, that's for sure
/r/askTRP18/11/20 11:21 AM
3

Go to YouTube, find Sam Vaknin, and search for his BPD videos.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 11:18 AM
1

It sounds like you leaving her triggered her branch swing?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:01 PM
1

Educated, ambitious, beautiful, with evil in her eye. I'm in love already. Tell me about the sex and the emotional highs and lows.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:54 PM
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!remindme 2 weeks
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:50 PM
1

Too good to be true, too soon, too magical, too everything. They a fantasy with shitload of excitement (later it becomes bad excitement, as does everything else). Some will open from a vulnerable position, stimulate your protective daddy instincts. Or it's save a hoe fantasy, idk.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:20 PM
1

Great comment
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:17 PM
2

The last paragraph is the answer to the question many on the Internet seek.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:04 PM
1

So it's a cyclical type of thing? Sounds like some sort of depression, or simply said, low. A cyclical low. I also have cyclical lows and high, probably some bipolar variant. There are two types of lows, the crippling one where you can't get out of the bed and all others. Let's talk about other types of low, the ones where I still have interests and mental strength to pursue them. I lose interest in some of the current "dopamine supplies", but I gain supply in other areas of life, such as medita…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 11:20 AM
1

That feeling (which led to good things), is it your tool or you have no power over it? Once a tool has used it's purpose, it's put away in the shed. Perhaps the need to be overwhelmed with "not good enough" feeling has past. Outdated. No longer useful. Served it's purpose. Obsolete. Not fit with current life variables. You get the point. Digression: do you have emotions? (Asking because of "not enjoying the good things in life" cue.)
/r/askTRP13/11/20 09:08 PM
2

Youtube: sam vankin. Find the parts about cpsd and how to trust again after dealing with an npd
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:09 AM
1

This helps with many things in life. No need for official religions or such BS, faith is a powerful (emotion? Conviction? What is faith?) to have.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:06 AM
1

How much time did you carry that "not good enough" mentality and what are the drawbacks?
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:04 AM
1

Oh boy, he didn't just stick his dick in, he fell in love hard, like never before :)
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:03 AM
2

Listen to this guy. You made her the source of your supply. Now you are paying the price when the supply has been cut off. It doesn't matter if this supply is narcisist's or normal people supply. It's a stupid way to set up supply from a crazy person. For start, look into different sources of supply and LOWER YOUR STANDARDS IF YOU WANT YO ENJOY LIFE AGAIN
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:02 AM
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I spotted the imposter syndrome too. With a probable dash of narcissism ;)
/r/askTRP12/11/20 12:56 AM
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The unwanted truth for all of us BPD exes - there is a reason why we were attracted to a sick* person, why we tolerated the abuse, why we stayed, why it changed our life and why it's so difficult to go back to normal stuff. Yes, I called them sick. If you have something to object go fall in love with cluster b.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 12:54 AM
3

You're drastically oversimplifying the BPD. BPD is essentially a individually unique mix of other personality disorders. She fucked other people for the reason you implied and many, many other, pathological reasons.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 12:50 AM
3

Hi man. Been with a NPD+BPD+god knows what other comorbidies for 6 monrths this year. A newly found friend of mine has been with one for 2 years. I've spent last 3 months trying to understand what npd/bpd is. My experience+friend's experience+Internet. You are fucked. Two factors help: time+coping mechanisms. The coping mechanisms especially will be put to test. I'm still not sure which parts of us get damaged the most - emotional, rational, sexual. Cptsd as a result is logical. Go look at Sam V…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 11:13 PM
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Yes
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/20 01:20 AM
2

Read up on codependency.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 06:44 AM
2

Check npd, bipolar, bipolarsos redddits
/r/askTRP21/09/20 07:01 AM
3

Don't fall in love. Have a nice ride ;)
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 09:59 PM
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"Hi guys, I have two plates and I'm content, is that normal?" Yes. Plate system, as I understand it, is the antidote to the females in-built ability to hack our brains. If we have 1 girl, she uses her estrogen powers to make us retarded. If we have >1 girl those powers are greatly diminished.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 09:24 AM
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As long as the idea of your main leaving you doesn't scare you, you should be fine with 2 + whatever
/r/askTRP09/09/20 09:20 AM
3

Eh..you can't meet in person. Use this to practice talking and trp theories.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 09:15 AM
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I don't get it, did she put it in her mouth or not?
/r/askTRP09/09/20 09:10 AM
2

She wants your dick bro. Play a game or two, lose, start the tickle fight and you know the rest
/r/askTRP09/09/20 05:32 AM
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1) "Ok." 2) When fucking, at her horniest, bring your dick to her face. See what happens.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 05:29 AM
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Stacy comes to you because you have something she wants. NFL guy has something she wants. Now, the preposition is that Stacy wouldn't want to fuck other guys under several conditions: You are high quality guy. She wants a family and is looking for a father/provider/someone both stable and reliant so she feels safe for the future of her children AND someone for whom she has tingles for AS LONG AS POSSIBLE AND THIS IS A FUCKING MARATHON BECAUSE KIDS ARE INVOLVED AND YOU really should not want to f…
/r/askTRP04/09/20 09:19 AM
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I agree, and I feel the same about not wanting/accepting to share girls with other guys. I find the fact that he also has a dick and sperm, and he touches and fills her with both, at the same places I do, sometimes probably in time spans (between me and him) which are too scary to even think about. Or simply said - other boys touching my girl with their pipis is fucking disgusting and I don't want to participate in that.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 09:08 AM
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Dude fuck off. The first thing I thought when I read this post was: About fucking time GLO got his replacement. A worthy one. Sorry GLO, bro I respect you and I enjoyed your posts from 3 or 4 years ago. Very high quality stuff, intellectual, funny and crude at the same time. Now when I'm done sucking your dick with my engraved truthfulness, you kinda lost your magic man.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 08:57 AM
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Hey OP, I think these are really, really interesting thoughts. You are looking at the nature of this type of relationship (plate system) from a very very high perspective. Who is plating who? Fuck me, I really want to see if we can arrive about some logical conclusion and then think about the implications of the conclusion. Here's my take: It is easier (less effort) for her to access to high value males (relative to her) than it is for you (to get high value females, value relative to yours). Yo…
/r/askTRP04/09/20 08:52 AM
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Show up with hickey, own it, be cool about it and report back to us. For the science bro.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 10:18 PM
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You've seen the inner workings of a machine and you've learned to operate it. This does not make you a sociopath.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 11:00 PM
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Eh...you need to experience one to understand it. Their default behavior fucks up with some deep layers of your mind. She creates the fantasy and then burns it down before your eyes. Then she repeats the cycle.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/20 11:37 AM
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I had a girl with light BPD for a few months. ... Don't. In the end, she will suck all of your energy, mess with your head, make disastrous decisions, and proclaim you as the problem a s herself as the victim.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 06:51 PM
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Hey, can you plz say a bit more about TRT
/r/askTRP08/07/20 08:42 AM
2

Can that PDF find its way to me plz
/r/askTRP08/07/20 08:23 AM
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It is critical that you embrace the unpleasant body feeling and emotions while you come down. You will feel the urge 20+ times per day and you will have to deny it every single time. Tomorrow you will have to do it again. And then again. What helped me: When I felt the urge to smoke I would sit down and meditate on it. Like a Jedi. Acknowledge the presence of the urge and analyze it. This has helped me to break the automatic action of urge-> reach for a cig.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 08:22 AM
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He will find out eventually. Not the whole story, but enough to make him question, if he has any brains/intuition.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 04:54 PM
1

Are you cumming to a girl or your friends opinion?
/r/askTRP30/05/20 12:31 PM
1

There is no closure. The whole thing exists only in your head. He is not what you were expecting. You imagined it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 10:08 PM
1

This won't help at all.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:03 PM
1

It dilutes the experience for me personally. It somewhat works though.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:03 PM
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I confirm that this works.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:02 PM
1

Did you test it on yourself? I'm curious about the results. Can you link some book, pdf or something.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:01 PM
1

Mentally shutting yourself down is a dirty hack which will probably bring more bad than good in the long run. I don't recommend.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:00 PM
1

Also, never ask her for evaluation after sex. You will have to come to conclusion it by yourself. If you break her world you won't need to ask, you will know.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 03:37 PM
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About balls: your default testicle position is hanging, both the skin and the balls. During sex when you are very turned on and close to ejaculating your sack skin shrinks and balls come close to your body. You can pinch the skin at the bottom of your balls and pull it down. This is not healthy in the long run and shouldn't be used all the time, but if you really don't want to come and you feel you're almost there, the trick works. About being in your head less: if I close my eyes and let the fa…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 03:36 PM
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Breathe deeply and regularly. Slow down the pace, rythm. Don't focus on orgasm feeling. Focus on the "now" feeling during sex and learn to enjoy it. If you really want to delay the orgasm then stop and pull your balls so they hang (instead of being glued to your body). Important: NEVER NEVER SHOW THAT YOU'RE DISSATISFIED WITH YOUR PERFORMANCE. THERE IS NOTHING SHE CAN DO TO HELP YOU. ONLY BAD THINGS CAN COME OUT OF IT.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 02:59 PM
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What were you expecting?
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 02:54 PM
3

This story and nothing to do with Alex and everything to do with you getting your shit together. Start with that. 6 months of no kissing while still using dating apps is a paradox.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 02:54 PM
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Add respect to the list
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 01:52 PM
10

Be distant but not too distant. It's a tight rope Spud (YouTube it)
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:34 PM
6

Probably, but who gives a shit. It's a beautiful experience once you find someone like that.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:33 PM
3

Your in love. I'd enjoy it to the max.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:32 PM
10

Gardasil is banned in Japan for safety reasons. Look it up.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 03:02 PM
2

Bypass the social media bullshit and just contact her directly
/r/askTRP12/03/20 01:39 PM
4

12 years later, I still dream of her sometimes.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 05:02 PM
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I want to know too!
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:28 PM
2

Seems she outgrew you :)
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:26 PM
4

Well...she won't be telling that to the next guy that's for sure. Politically, very bad move for her, on other hand at least she told him as it is.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:24 PM
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This can be salvaged. The idea is to pull moves which show her you could walk away first. Analyze at which part of your relationship she places the most value. Do/say things which imply she could lose that value. These will be personalized high risk moves, examples: if she places value at your intimacy, make up another girl you're intimate with/want to be intimate with If she places value at sex, say you're getting bored. You're other girl/ex had tighter vag. Deepthroated better. Moaned louder. …
/r/askTRP05/11/19 11:04 PM
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Try playing her game on her first. The whole "this is getting too serious, I'm scared, idk what to do" shit. See how she reacts.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 10:55 PM
2

Yes!!! You can't choose not feel pain, but you can choose the type of pain you will endure. Day has only 24 hours.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 03:00 PM
3

The experience alone is worth it. But don't except it to have a happy ending.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 04:12 PM
7

This makes sense. You don't fear what you've conquered.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 04:10 PM
1

Must be true love
/r/askTRP26/10/19 03:38 PM
4

I think his reaction to your dream is not acceptable and he should work hard to fix it. He isn't only irational about the whole thing, but he also set up dates and will follow through with them. You are not responsible for his insecurities, he is. Yes, I'm a guy and we're not allowed to give advice qq
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 02:05 PM
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IT guys?
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/19 12:06 PM
2

You're overcomplicating. "We're not gonna have sex." Ok. She comes over, you watch a movie, cuddle, kiss, touch and then have sex. Edit: before all that, cook together. See how she reacts to directions and if she has any life skills. Are you all theorycrafters here? And OP, your confidence is shit and you overanalyze.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:10 PM
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Here are some ideas: Why are you so interested in my sex life? Do you think about me having sex often? Do you talk about my sex life amongst yourselves when I'm not here? Wow guys I thought you had more going on... Do you want to talk about my sex life with me one on one? Can I help you somehow? Do you have a question you're afraid to ask? Act as an adults who's getting teased by kids.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 06:54 PM
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Or, if don't mind the sacrifice, you ask her to be your gf, fall in love and have a taste of a relationship. There will probably be a lot of pain when it breaks.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 05:34 PM
1

Bdsmtest.org
/r/askTRP10/06/19 07:26 PM
0

Telling someone you love them while fucking other people is gross.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:34 AM
2

Peacocks can fly. They don't fly long distances but you'd be surprised how high they can lift off to get on a tree branch
/r/askTRP09/06/19 02:01 PM
1

Misery is a great teacher, great saying.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:33 PM
1

Make eye contact and approach afterwards
/r/askTRP26/05/19 03:56 PM
2

I think what happens is that whenever she completes a personal achievement her perceived value grows. From my experience, women don't really like when her own value is close to what they think their partner's is. You either bring your value up by having a nice body and stable frame or bring her value down by teasing, negging or some other method. If by nuclear you mean she broke up with you then her value went above yours. Her value gets close to your value. Lower her value or raise yours. If I …
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:49 PM
8

Your dick is being summoned.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:33 PM
1

Which god are you referring to?
/r/askTRP22/05/19 09:16 AM
1

She parties a lot.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 09:14 AM
1

I don't think fucking her is worth it.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 09:11 AM
0

Need more details on your escalate attempt.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 09:02 AM
3

Think of it as a test for your LTR.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 07:12 AM
1

You become what you are. If you got your shit together you can have female friends and get value from them. Talking from my experience.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 08:22 AM
1

Basically big dick guys widow every woman they fuck?
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/19 11:16 PM
0

Shit advise. Learn how to be friends with woman. There is value in it.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 02:47 PM
1

What if I'm also Chad and she's gonna get double widowed?
/r/askTRP17/05/19 02:45 PM
1

Reply with Why not skip the drinks then?
/r/askTRP15/05/19 04:01 PM
1

So you're looking for older women with good parenting skills who is interested in you enough to spend time with you?
/r/askTRP11/05/19 10:04 PM
1

Be better than them. It's easy to beat majority of players, the top ~20% are where the game is.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 01:15 PM
1

Interesting, how would you go about it?
/r/askTRP03/05/19 09:11 PM
1

I think her friends already know.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 09:10 PM
14

How about you grow some balls and figure out what you want. Do you want to be sexual about her or not? Check her out. If you want to suck on those nipples and clit, feel her cunt around your dick then plan a make out session. Do your usual shit for 10 minutes then shut the fuck up, look her deep in the eyes for 3 seconds and think about all the nasty stuff you want to do with her. No shame, no remorse. That should set your ego straight. Now stop looking in her eyes and focus on her lips. Juicy a…
/r/askTRP03/05/19 07:20 PM
1

I agree with you, but your second argument is false. Relationship already ended and not on his terms. Saying it first changes nothing and serves no purpose.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 07:03 PM
2

With a nice civilized talk. Go no contact for 3 days. I mean absolute no contact, keep your phone off for 3 days if that's what it takes. After that you're going to contact her, say you've been thinking about whole thing and and it should end. You are not the guy she wants to be with anymore and that's fine. You hug her like a sister, drop a tear and go your way. Bonus points if you don't fake any of this.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 07:01 PM
2

Well, next time escalate and see what happens.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 04:58 PM
1

How good are you at simply talking with people?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 04:47 PM
2

I think similar thing happened to me. Fucking around damaged my ability to bond/trust a women. I "fixed" it by learning how to give in to a woman. Maybe love doesn't exist but love making definitely does. And it comes at a price - a piece of your heart. The more you give the higher high and lower low you're gonna get. Don't do this unless you know you can deal with the pain which comes after it ends. Also be methodical about type of women who you do this with. I hope you get what I'm saying, thi…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:49 PM
1

Run.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:37 PM
8

Second this. There are a lot of people in this world who are not worth getting involved with.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:35 PM
1

Keep frame, say yes and continue whatever you started.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:30 PM
1

Don't give me technical details. Were you nervous? Did you hesitate? Was you mind filled with random thoughts?
/r/askTRP23/04/19 12:04 AM
2

Relax and ease yourself into it. Cuddle. Kiss. Touch each other. Don't go straight for the genitals. If you can hold frame you can even tell her it's your first time and you're nervous. Disregard comments telling you to take pills or whatever. Your dick is fine, you're just tense.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 09:32 PM
1

Go slow, play, explore, have fun. Sex isn't that hard.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 09:27 PM
1

She makes conscious choice to get drunk and hook up with guys. That's your problem. Btw, while blackout drunk one still has decision-making turned on. Just short term memory stops working so you don't remember anything.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 09:24 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP22/04/19 09:19 PM
2

1) stress over x 2) relax and have a good sex Pick one
/r/askTRP22/04/19 09:17 PM
3

Everyone is hiding their true self. In order to get to it you need to observe their behavior in extreme situations.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 09:14 PM
1

Look her straight in the eye and tell her what your relationship conditions are.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 09:12 PM
1

Never heard about such disease. More info.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 09:11 PM
3

Time to test your power over your girl/relationship has come. Tell her you don't want a party girl. You love her, you like her but you have a set of values which you follow even if your heart doesn't want you to. If she pulls patriarchy card act if you didn't hear it and repeat the first lines again. Btw, She uses you for stability. She uses party guys for excitement. If she's hasn't cheated already (highly unlikely), she will soon. Is this arrangement what you want in your life? Is this how you…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 09:08 PM
1

Here's the solution which helped me. Find a girl most suitable for this goal. Tell her your in pain. Tell her you need caring and nurturing female energy. You want to forget about the world. You want to mend yours souls together. Have deep and slow sex. Split an ecstasy tab with her. Clean your schedule for 3 days and spend it with her only, somewhere away. You will carefully surrender your soul to her, she will fix and then you will take it back. Do this for about 10 days and when you feel you'…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 08:56 PM
1

You expected your friends to have morals/ethics/values/brocode regarding them going after tour ex. Reality shows they don't follow such values. What is your definition of a friend? Do they still fit in?
/r/askTRP22/04/19 08:23 PM
3

How to last longer: Change, change, change: position, rythm, style, intensity, whatever. Grab the base of your balls and pull them down Breathe into your belly. Postpone orgasm by clenching your prostate muscles.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 03:04 PM
0

Galleries, museums and churches
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 12:25 AM
1

What would happen if you simply tell her to make dinner? Like "It's up to you to pick a meal, I just want a dinner".
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 02:43 PM
1

I think you're missing out
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 11:33 PM
1

To rephrase myself, I wonder how is this going to end :D
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 08:08 PM
1

I wonder what's gonna come out of this :D
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 09:05 PM
1

You seduced her and now she's in love.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 12:03 AM
1

So basically, you created a whole another ego? Or maybe activated one which was already there would be a better way if saying it?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 11:54 PM
1

Count this one as a loss. Don't expect to be able to change anything regarding other people. The one thing which you can change is yourself - your ego. By change your ego, I really mean that, you can become whoever you chose. Try new things, a sport, a skill, a book. Learn to cook a new nutritious meal. Do some research on investing options. Take care of your body, eat well and exercise. Take care of your mind, meditate, listen to yourself. By becoming the center of your own world you will be ab…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/18 01:22 AM
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