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I have a hard time buying she went to a college party and willingly did dissociatives and just happened to get violently raped. Rough sex can leave bruises, sure, but in the shape of fingers suggesting her legs were pried open? A bruised cervix an extremely painful injury, a conscious person would stop having sex and not consented to the repeated trauma that would make the kind of damage evident to medical professionals. This all went on while she was unconscious, she wasn't in a position to lie…
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/16 08:08 AM
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Being drugged against your will is treated the same as a medical condition that results in an accident, such as those men have been responsible for due to seizures or diabetes and not charged with any crime. The evidence that she was drugged is that there is overwheming physical evidence she was raped and her story is consistent with being drugged. She didn't make any statements other then she didn't remember anything, the doctor and nurses suspected she had been raped and conducted a rape exam …
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/16 06:18 AM
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She was drugged, which is why she was so disoriented she drove into the car as she tried to flee. If you commit a crime as a result of being drugged that's a defense against manslaughter.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/16 05:59 AM
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Greek Yogurt isn't a good source of iron because it contains nonheme iron, only 5% of which is absorbed and also because high calcium foods interfere with the absorption of iron. The only source of heme iron which is more readily absorbed is meat, mollusks are the highest in iron and beef is preferable to chicken or fish.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 01:35 PM
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http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200812/marked-mayhem?page=2 From an article earlier in the thread: But studies show that it is women with passive, submissive personalities who are most likely to be raped—and that they tend to wear body-concealing clothing, such as high necklines, long pants and sleeves, and multiple layers. Predatory men can accurately identify submissive women just by their style of dress and other aspects of appearance. The hallmarks of submissive body language, such a…
/r/MensRights04/09/12 07:57 PM
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Even sperm donors? Because this is a case of a donor who was supposed to be more of an "uncle"-type role rather then a parent becoming attached to the child and demanding equal custody. He got to see the child every two weeks, his demands, such as taking the child during holidays and overnight, is excessive he's not paying child support or otherwise providing for the child, why should he have an equal say as the child's two primary parent? They weren't trying to cut him out of the child's life, …
/r/MensRights15/03/12 03:44 PM
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I apologize for profusely for confusing my homophones.
/r/MensRights04/03/12 04:33 AM
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same to you!
/r/MensRights04/03/12 04:24 AM
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I don't need to be educated that their are feminists that do and believe things that I don't agree with. I'm not going to defend things I don't agree with, but that's not all there is to feminism. There are issues that only feminism is talking about that are relevant to women.
/r/MensRights04/03/12 12:25 AM
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So what do you suggest the twenty-something gender studies idealists identify with? Who else is talking about slut-shaming and birth control and things that might be relevant to them?
/r/MensRights04/03/12 12:05 AM
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So you're saying we should just toss out feminism entirely, rather then just the problematic parts? That is has nothing at all to offer?
/r/MensRights03/03/12 11:49 PM
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VAWA isn't one of the founding principles of feminism. You don't have to be for or oppose the VAWA to be a feminist. Feminism is pretty broad, you can take a few classes, follow a dozen feminist blogs and never encounter discussion about VAWA, so saying because of the VAWA all feminists are against the MRM doesn't make sense.
/r/MensRights03/03/12 11:31 PM
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Then don't make an assertion you aren't willing to defend. It's pretty simple.
/r/MensRights03/03/12 11:13 PM
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How so?
/r/MensRights03/03/12 11:01 PM
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So you've never heard of feminist groups moving to shift the burden of proof in rape cases? You've never heard of feminist groups fighting against a presumption of equal custody in divorce? No, I haven't. The US justice system is centered around the idea that you must prove guilt beyond a reasonable doubt. That it's better for a guilty man to go free then for an innocent man to be imprisoned. This can result in cases where rapists go free obviously which no one likes, but not liking it isn't the…
/r/MensRights03/03/12 10:45 PM
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Because I don't see at as us vs. them? I can't be a feminist and think wrongful imprisonment of men is a problem and that circumcision is wrong? Feminism and the MRM aren't always compatible, but they aren't always diametrically opposed either.
/r/MensRights03/03/12 10:37 PM
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Suffragettes HATED feminists No. There was infighting, but suffrage was a feminist cause supported primarily by feminists, at least in the US. There was an antifeminist movement centered around denying women the right to vote.
/r/MensRights03/03/12 10:10 PM
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If you're set on making it about Feminism vs. Men's Rights, then I guess so.
/r/MensRights03/03/12 09:47 PM
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If this is a tenant of feminism you should be able to find plenty of blog posts advocating for it. I don't know any feminist who believes what you're saying, I've never read anything that remotely suggests they believe that due process shouldn't apply to men, but if I'm wrong it should be easy to prove.
/r/MensRights03/03/12 09:45 PM
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It's absolutely not the MRM's job, it's feminism's job. Hence, it being a feminist issue. I'm not American but apparently I know your history better than you...women had the vote for decades before feminism. Even in the US. First-wave feminism, look it up. It began to take shape in the 1800s. Most of the first generation of prominent American feminist were dead by the time women got the right to vote in the US. The famous Seneca Falls Convention was held in 1848 and the right to vote was achieve…
/r/MensRights03/03/12 09:19 PM
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If Men's Rights is just about complaining, go right on ahead. If you're attempting to educate people and open their eyes, being bitter and demonizing every single feminist everywhere, despite the fact that feminism means different things to different people, your potential MRAs are going to walk away thinking you are a crazy fringe movement that wants to deny women the vote.
/r/MensRights03/03/12 08:37 PM
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True, sorry for any unintentional ethnocentrism but women's suffrage was not only an American movement. In many countries in the Middle East women are STILL denied the vote based on their gender so claiming that "men and women got the vote on the same day and it had nothing to do with feminism" is just completely inaccurate as well as ignorant.
/r/MensRights03/03/12 08:28 PM
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But women need to lose some rights. Most of these aren't codified into law, they are what feminists would call "benevolent sexism" and MRAs would call "female privilege", feminism is not fighting to keep these "rights." "The right to have a man thrown in jail with nothing more than her word." is not a right. Law enforcement treating men differently is obviously a problem, but it's also illegal. Feminists are not promoting the idea that women should receive lighter sentences, and blaming feminist…
/r/MensRights03/03/12 08:18 PM
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Men and women got the vote on the same day, and it had NOTHING to do with feminism.. Which day was this exactly? What crazy version of history were you taught? Did it not cover the 19th amendment ?
/r/MensRights03/03/12 07:53 PM
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You assume that men don't have to worry about anything bad happening to them I don't assume anything! Just because X is hard for me as a women, why wouldn't Z be hard for men? How can I know? I've never said men have it easy! I'm not dismissing war and murder and all the horrible things that disproportionately impact men. My experience is entirely anecdotal of course, but fear of rape, sexual harassment on the street, etc. is not as common for men. If I'm wrong, please correct me. I'm offended b…
/r/MensRights03/03/12 06:05 PM
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Well, that's good to know. Before when it was just those fake men it was ok, but if it's real men that play rugby well then that's serious enough to deserve an ad campaign!
/r/MensRights29/02/12 03:32 AM
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Firstly, we do live in a society where people play hard to get. A refusal is, in fact, sometimes a temporary barrier to invite additional attempts. I know, ideally we'd live in a world where when someone said no to sex they wouldn't get sex. If they wanted sex but didn't get sex enough times they would stop playing games. If you insist on participating realize it can be hard to tell someone who is playing "hard to get" from someone who just naturally isn't very assertive. Generally speaking, in …
/r/MensRights28/02/12 01:11 PM
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Let's try not to act like assholes. Agreed. But you have to be mindful of the assholes that came before you, if you want to understand why people are suspicious. Behavior that is acceptable in one context isn't in another. Most people understand this. A large minority do not. Within the minority are the absolutely clueless who I would LOVE to sit down and explain why someone isn't going to just give them her number, and the genuinely unpleasant people who may or may not be dangerous but should b…
/r/MensRights28/02/12 11:42 AM
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The revenge points were more in response to the claim that all women use rape to get revenge on men and imprison them that was brought up. The FBI says 2-8%, I'd like to see these 60% studies. Rape is under reported, I don't know anyone who has gone to the police who was raped, either because they were drinking, or had a prior relationship, or consented to one sex act but then withdrew consent and this was ignored. It's very, very hard to get a conviction for rape. None of these situations are g…
/r/MensRights28/02/12 02:36 AM
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In other words, failing to respect the right of any woman to believe any man is out to do her harm for any reason is "being cavalier" about that woman's "personal safety." Implying of course that women's personal safety is somehow the responsibility of men. I wouldn't phrase it like that but I agree. If you're offended that I don't want to talk to you or tell you where I'm going because I don't feel like offering personal information to a stranger I've just met, it's being cavalier. There's a se…
/r/MensRights28/02/12 02:25 AM
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I am aware. But that's what women are told. Say two drunk people have consensual-- even enthusiastic-- sex. They wake up the next morning and both regret it. Who's the rapist? If you say neither, then why is one of them a rapist if only one of them regrets it? Most of us will live long enough to have sex we regret. Regret is normal and healthy, and regretted sex isn't rape. The difference between regretted sex and rape is that the sex was never wanted in the first place. I'm not saying anyone an…
/r/MensRights28/02/12 01:59 AM
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The onus isn't always in the man, women are told not to drink and have sex and men are told not to drink and have sex. Can women rape and use alcohol? Absolutely. women are told not to accepted drinks because roofies, dont dress slutty, stick together etc but this about what men are expected to do. I think the alcohol message is important, 47% of rapes involve alcohol. Some of these were deliberate predatory behavior but some would have been preventable with communication. Sex and alcohol should…
/r/MensRights28/02/12 01:08 AM
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Any rape claim can of course be false, and there are motivations beyond revenge. I wasn't denying that merely pointing out the most common reason for false accusations didn't apply in this case and shouldnt be used to discredit the majority of rape claims which are legitimate.
/r/MensRights27/02/12 08:11 PM
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They are absolutely not easy, which is why the smart thing to do is to judge conservatively because the consequences of being wrong are so horrible, rather then just saying "not my problem." Not every drunk person is going to get in an accident, either. Personally I'm not going to have sex with someone drunk unless it was indicated before hand they were interested and I know them well if you know legally and morally the potential consequences it doesn't seem worth the risk to do otherwise, if yo…
/r/MensRights27/02/12 07:57 PM
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You can't actually quote him saying that because he doesn't say that though, your logic women shouldnt trust men because they will be beaten, raped and killed. You can be as paranoid as you want. The only reason you gave called me a stupid sociopathic bitch is because I disagree with you, do you know what that word actually means? Again, penis owners are awesome, I've never said anything about men in general but feel free to extrapolate my disagreement with a few people who happen to have penise…
/r/MensRights27/02/12 07:46 PM
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try to ruin his life. Do you think this rape actually was reported? Because it wasn't. This was about people NOT going to the cops. Do you have any idea how things work? When someone says, "hey I want to sleep" and you proceed to have sex with them, that is rape. They don't have to fight you the entire time. Saying no, I want to sleep, is enough.
/r/MensRights27/02/12 07:44 AM
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People lie, do you trot that one out whenever someone brings up a statistic? Because unless you have any criticism of the methodology of the survey besides your own opinion that it's "best to not trust any woman" and we have absolutely not included "people you regret having sex with" in the list, sex you regret is not rape. From the above link: The "misogynist idea of the woman who "changes her mind" or "has regrets"" pisses me off quite a lot, mostly because I used to think like that. Then I ha…
/r/MensRights27/02/12 06:08 AM
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NO ONE CALLED YOU A LIAR OP did, and I'm not the only one who read the comment that way, coldvault did as well and we were both upvoted while you were downvoted, regarding that specific point. Oh, I got the point. The point was not to trust women, because they will get knocked up and take your money. Never mind that I went through a painful procedure to AVOID pregnancy because I have my own shit to do that doesn't involve changing diapers, my boyfriend shouldn't trust me because I have a vagina …
/r/MensRights27/02/12 05:59 AM
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200,000 reported, the number is much higher. No one assumes every single man is a rapists. You don't flash your valuables in areas with high crime rates correct? Why? is it because you assume every single person is a mugger or because on the off chance that someone present might pull a gun on you, however remote the odds on this particular day at this particular time are, you would like to avoid this happening ? I only get nervous if someone is following me, starring, invading my space, in other…
/r/MensRights27/02/12 05:25 AM
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I never said anything about men standing up for themselves, trust whoever you like, just don't call me a liar. That was literally the only thing I took issue with and you ignored this hurtful and inaccurate statement and have chosen to insult, belittle and attack me. Nothing I have said has been hateful, you are the one calling me a "goddamn bitch" for having good reading comprehension skills, I honestly hope you're a troll and not such a close-minded hateful person in real life.
/r/MensRights27/02/12 12:03 AM
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Really? Please, tell me more blindingly obvious things! I love being talked down to!
/r/MensRights26/02/12 10:37 PM
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I've been on the internet for over a decade thanks, I'm not accepting your conspiracy theories, SRS not liking MRAs isn't sufficient evidence.
/r/MensRights26/02/12 09:50 PM
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Then the entire system is broken. You're telling me that advertisers standing to make money haven't figured out how to manipulate reddit to their advantage but trolls with too much free time have single-handedly managed to heavily influence a fairly large subreddit for the sole purpose of making it look bad?
/r/MensRights26/02/12 08:45 PM
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If SRS which is 1/3rd the size of MensRights is running the show, you have a bigger problem then just trolls. The thread was upvoted and was popular (73% liked), it wasn't posted to SRS, so if you hypothesize the an SRS member made a throwaway and upvoted it, it can't really be proven or disproven but the majority of upvoting is coming from MRAs and the stuff they are upvoting is blatant mysogyny.
/r/MensRights26/02/12 06:40 PM
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Have you never taken a statistics class? you ask people. If you survey a large and diverse enough sample size and ask good questions you can obtain accurate statistics. "Reported" means going to the police and there are plenty of reasons people don't go to the police
/r/MensRights26/02/12 06:17 PM
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Someone making 40,000 doesn't need child support. Having a CS system in place is absolutely unnecessary for cases like those. That really depends on a lot of things, in NYC you can't raise a child on $40,000 That's why we have welfare, and that can be there for those fringe cases where it is necessary. welfare isn't sufficient, child support isn't a solution either but it's better then the alternative much of the time which is all you can really ask, nothing is perfect But we're not worried abou…
/r/MensRights26/02/12 06:01 PM
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Wow, you've honestly never heard of the phrase "snake tongue" before? It means "deceptive" or "lying". Again, he never said women are evil, he simply said not to trust them - there's a HUGE difference. Never trust any woman's snake tongue. He DIDN'T say never trust any woman. He said never trust any women's snake tongue which you ADMIT means deceptive. So he said never trust any women's deceptive tongue if any women has a deceptive tongue that's essentially saying all women are liars again, he d…
/r/MensRights26/02/12 04:52 PM
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I don't think anyone is saying "be careful men, or you might accidentally rape someone"! You have rapists who go about planning to rape someone and there is really nothing you can do, they plan on forcing someone to have sex with them. However what about the "grey area" rapes that we hear so much, she gave mixed signals and wasn't really into it but that's not rape right? only, now she's saying it's rape. It benefits EVERYONE to prevent this from happening. And it's not that hard, it's about edu…
/r/MensRights26/02/12 04:24 PM
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Since mom and dad aren't together anymore, there's no reason that the father has to share his wealth with the mother. It's especially bad when the mother makes more money either through her job or new spouse. If he feels like it, nothing stops him, but if he doesn't then there is absolutely no reason to require it. When I said "income differences" I meant more along the lines where one is making 40,000 and the other is making 200,000, maybe it would be fairer to send all child-related expense bi…
/r/MensRights26/02/12 04:06 PM
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What? 400 dollars a month is nowhere NEAR the cost of raising a child in this country. Unless you don't work, you need someone to watch the kid, which is usually 2 or 3 times $400 if you don't have a job, and you need a job if you only get child support. And clothing which kids need more since they are continually growing, shoes, school trips and projects, the standard isn't to make sure they don't die from malnutrition or neglect but to help them thrive. I took the average cost of raising a chi…
/r/MensRights26/02/12 03:43 PM
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Do you think supporting kids only means giving the woman money? At some point the focus of the conversation shifted from unintentional pregnancies where the father was not interested in supporting the child to be broader in scope and I failed to address this. Obviously, no, the role of a father is not limited to being an ATM. While dividing it by time when there are large income differences or do to work or other factors the children cannot live with one parent may not be the most equitable solu…
/r/MensRights26/02/12 05:51 AM
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Alright, what did you interpret his statement that all women have serpent tongues to mean? I'm really very curious as to your logic. I'm not saying you should or have to trust anyone, trust has to be earned and if you want to be paranoid that's your prerogative, hell, you might even be correct for all I know. Nope, don't think he is a bad guy. I think he's angry and bitter and probably wouldn't be very much fun to drink coffee with or play parcheesi but I don't think he kicks kittens and I don't…
/r/MensRights26/02/12 05:25 AM
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Have you looked how up how much money you can get in your state? it's really very little, food stamps and a few hundred dollars a month, f you want to be outraged compare it to the $50,000 it costs to actually imprison a criminal, and those single mom are working full time jobs to qualify for that money. Feminist ideals have nothing to do with reproducing or with children growing up in poverty.
/r/MensRights26/02/12 02:04 AM
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We aren't talking exclusively about middle and upper class people though, if you can afford nice things you might be able to travel and eat out less and save a little less and make ends meet, although of course if you both made and wanted kids both people should be making sacrifices for the benefit of the children, but the overwhelming number of young, single mothers living in poverty that are struggling to get by while going without, the most vulnerable are the ones who rely on child support to…
/r/MensRights26/02/12 01:53 AM
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Your link Persecutory delusions are a delusional condition in which the affected person believes they are being persecuted. If I inferred your meaning incorrectly I apologize I agree we shouldn't be chastising people for what they happen to be wearing when they were raped, but there's still a great deal of victim blaming going on currently that simply contributes to the problem.
/r/MensRights26/02/12 01:53 AM
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Don't trust any woman's snake tongue This is synonymous with "don't trust any women's lying tongue" and this is a direct quote. YOU said "don't trust women, it isn't worth the risk" OP said "don't trust women, they are liars" and the OP's statement is the one I took issue with. Also, serpents symbolize evil, and Satan and all that jazz so it's kinda implied. But if you refuse to interpret the OP's words using the commonly accepted English definition for them I don't know if there's much to be sa…
/r/MensRights26/02/12 01:10 AM
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Did you read what I wrote I said "defending honor" was white knighting and "defending real life crimes directed against a person" were different, in regard to the bystander effect being bullshit because of white knighting. It's chivalry if it comes from a sense of duty to protect helpless women, because they can't do it themselves, this is bullshit. But sometimes a guy will say "that was a shitty thing to do, she didn't deserve that" and get accused of white knighting. Having a penis and assisti…
/r/MensRights26/02/12 01:01 AM
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why the fuck should consent to sex be consent to fatherhood? why should we have an opt-out policy? If the father wants an abortion he should be willing to pay for i, if he isn't willing or able to give input it's assumed he's fine with having a child, unless he has explicitly said otherwise in either an oral or written contract. The default option in America is if you are pregnant both parents want to keep the child, assuming the opposite might protect men better but you have to balance that aga…
/r/MensRights26/02/12 12:13 AM
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We have the urban dictionary definition and the general reddit definition, none of which match up your definition. What do you call someone who helps someone in distress? a hero, a good samaritan, something with positive connotations. What do you call someone who defends the honor of someone because she happens to have boobs online? a white knight. If you call stopping sexual harrassment/groping/rape white knighting it is trivializing the severity of those crimes. In real life, if someone wants …
/r/MensRights25/02/12 11:43 PM
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No one stops living there lives because they are afraid they might get raped, except actual rape victims suffer PTSD of course, but when you are in a vulnerable position our culture tells people they are going to get raped, even from a young age before they understand about sex children know what a "bad touch." How can we change the conversation so it is less about fear and more empowering? I have some ideas but I don't think accusing every woman, many of whom are sexual assault survivors (one i…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 11:26 PM
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Ok, society is anti-male and it's safest not to trust any women because all they have to do is cry rape and they'll saddle you with child support. Got it. If we accept this premise it doesn't mean that all women are liars, and wouldn't be fair to call them that saying, don't trust women, it's too risky, is a different message from ALL WOMEN ARE EVIL! So I think we are actually in agreement, oddly enough. There's not worshipping women and then there's treating them like the devil. I'm saying wome…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 11:10 PM
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It's not imaginary, the danger may not be as great as women assume, this is nearly universal when it comes to violent crime (people overestimate the danger of criminals and underestimate the dangers of pools ) but it's still there. The things that women are fearful have actually happened.
/r/MensRights25/02/12 10:41 PM
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We can argue about the merits of libertarianism another day, we are talking about reality. Our current government doesn't want people starving and rioting in the streets so it provides a safety net to prevent this Her clock started at conception. His clock should start at notification. If the kid is 16 years old before notification, father still gets his time window. Trap fixed. She doesn't know at conception, have you seen the show "I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant"? If I was assigned to craft this…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 07:35 PM
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Why not? It would be lower without any child support but some single parents do not receive any child support they are owed and these "deadbeat dads" haven't acted as a sufficient deterrent.
/r/MensRights25/02/12 07:20 PM
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Obviously the law hasn't caught up with technology, but I don't think it should necessarily be required, if the man is infertile and a sperm donor was used you should be able to waive it, there was a post on AskReddit about a guy who new he was a threesome baby and might not be genetically related to his father, if the parents don't care or want to know and the husband wants to be the child's father regardless of genetics this should be an option, rather then forcing the issue. Paternity testing…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 07:11 PM
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I'm not helpless, but it when people ignore common social conventions regarding personal space, it throws me, and I'm acutely aware of my vulnerability. If you ignore my increasingly less subtle clues I'm at a loss temporarily, I told him I was not interested and gave a reason as a face saving reason in an attempt to end the conversation "Sorry, I'm not interested, I have a boyfriend" because when you say "no" you get asked "why? is it because X", some people take rejection personally and I try …
/r/MensRights25/02/12 07:01 PM
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I've see you've posted in r/depression. Please, please get some help. Crying is a natural and healthy release but if you are crying every night and feeling suicidal this is more then that. Tell SOMEONE, ANYONE that you are suicidal and would like to seek a therapist/psychiatrist. Trained medical professionals can help you develop coping mechanisms or prescribe medication that will help you enjoy life again. It might be hard to realize it now but there are people in your life who will be very, ve…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 05:33 PM
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it's not nonsense, 26% of rapes are stranger rapes. Rape is the most under-reported violent crime 191,670 victims of rape or sexual assault reported in 2005. 1 of 6 U.S. women has experienced an attempted or completed rape and 59% of rape went unreported. Let's take 200,000 for the sake of the argument, and say 50,000 were stranger rape. There were only 15,000 murders last year, so it's still a very real chance you could be raped by a stranger and although it's not where the focus should be, it'…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 04:57 PM
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Some will of course, but there would still be a net-increase, unless you are suggesting that most women are keeping children only for the child support? Most child support money is less then the cost to actually raise a child so it's still a net loss. Kids are money pits and unless you plan on turning them in to child stars and milking them for all they are worth at the cost of their emotional well-being it's best to consider them time-consuming hobbies and not investments. If you're goal is to …
/r/MensRights25/02/12 03:51 PM
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what? Don't trust any woman's snake tongue This says don't trust any woman's "lying tongue" implying all women possess lying tongues. If he wanted to say don't trust lying women he would have said "don't trust any women with a snake tongue (don't trust any women who lies) or something similar and while it would be still be unnecessarily specific (how about don't trust anyone with a lying tongue? not only women lie, it's probably best not to trust men who lie either, the offense was lying and bei…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 03:45 PM
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But that's not how relationships work, you don't have to prove you've haven't been cheating, it's assumed when you trust one another. It's the right thing to do if he even had an inkling of cheating, however having a baby after a vasectomy is incredibly rare but it can happen. If he's right she's a cheater and it's over but if he's wrong and it's his, how could she stay with someone who didn't trust her to the degree of legally compelling a DNA test? Either way, this move effectively destroys th…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 02:45 PM
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I love her and she loves me, we have already decided to devote our lives to each other and are going to get married in the near future. He can leave her if he so chooses, and if they can't communicate and rely on each other in difficult times that's something they definitely need to work on. She didn't systematically plan to murder his unborn child though, she was probably in shock, if it was several months into the pregnancy any delay could have meant her carrying to term and she didn't have ti…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 02:14 PM
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I just took a couple classes, but studied several paternity cases in those classes. Oral contracts are enforceable generally, but proving they exist is the difficult part and it is always much better to have something in writing. Not all contracts written or otherwise are enforceable however, you can't sign away your rights. A women contractually promising to have an abortion if she became pregnant would be unenforceable in America, and I based on what I've read child support is another right th…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 01:50 PM
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This article touches on this and I was curious about people's response. It talks about this "culture of terror" as you call it. It is it is constantly reinforced, by the media which can sensationalize it and create a poor missing white girl epidemic, where there isn't one, but also by personal experience, being followed or groped, I just found out someone I know was recently raped and I know I'll be thinking about rape differently for a while because of that, it's much closer to home. I don't kn…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 01:23 PM
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No one believes that most men are rapists, however statistically speaking there are a large number of rapes committed by a small percentage of men. Most rapists are serial rapists. The advice that happens to prevent assault implies there is someone out there lurking and waiting to strike when you let down your guard "walk purposely to your car with your keys out" (several women were raped on the way to their cars leaving work at my mother's office building, a story I heard numerous times through…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 01:15 PM
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Why does "snake tongue" mean those things though? It is a biblical allusion to the serpent in Genesis, it implies woman are literally the devil sent to tempt man, and ultimately cause man's fall from grace and all of humanity's suffering and it's pretty insulting to imply that ALL women are out to get men and by merely listening to them you risk your own salvation.
/r/MensRights25/02/12 01:12 PM
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You are comparing apples and oranges and can't reach any meaningful conclusion. False imprisonment destroys lives, there's no question. How long is the incarceration? how violent and traumatic is the rape? People can be killed during rapes, they can be killed during wrongful prison sentences. Two people will handle identical events differently based on their resilience and support network. Plenty of people go to prison and go on to lead successful fulfilling lives. Plenty of rape victims go on t…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 01:01 PM
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That's slightly oversimplifying it, the feminism view of privilege doesn't equal never disadvantaged. No one is going to argue that a man is at an advantage, for instance, at getting a job babysitting, but the assumption that men cannot suffer comes from the myth that they are always strong, while women suffer from the myth that they were too weak to carry the burden psychologically. Assuming men are strong hurts men when it comes to getting psychological help, while assuming women were weak pre…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 12:42 PM
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Alternatively, we could accept that both sexes can have traumatic experiences and encourage them to come to attend therapy, talk about their experiences and heal from them, PTSD is hard enough without society compounding it. Instead of saying "women get over rape, men get over war" which, with the high suicide rate among war veterans, we know ISN'T WORKING, it might be better to remove the stigma of trauma. Most women do "get back to being productive", they go on with their lives because they ha…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 12:32 PM
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This has gone to court and failed because it's about the kid, not the mother. And the state has no interest in promoting this because a) it lowers the stakes for men who might be more willing to engage in unprotected sex and lead to more children which b) the state will have to pick up the slack and provide for because their biological father is no longer doing so. Legal paternal surrender, while a great idea in theory, creates a whole new set of issues, disproportionately would benefit the well…
/r/MensRights25/02/12 12:07 PM
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Has there ever been a case of this working successfully? Everything I've ever read suggests that if there was a signed legal contract it's doubtful it would hold up in court, as it's technically the child's, and not her money to sign away although it'll differ from state to state. It might not be right but condoms are way cheaper and more effective then the legal system in the mean time and RISUG is projected to be out by 2015.
/r/MensRights25/02/12 12:06 PM
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it implies that the distress is illegitimate though, that the person is being defended from a mean person on the internet, as well as the white knight's ulterior motives of getting sex from the women he has rescued.
/r/MensRights25/02/12 11:29 AM
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Not generally true, if I am with my boyfriend or male friends this doesn't happen to me but alone or with female friends? all the time. On public transportation people absolutely avoid getting involved. It isn't always obvious, you don't want to make a scene if you can help it or look vulnerable. And if you are groped while nobodies looking and you aren't sure who did it, your fight or flight response is triggered and everyone becomes a potential assailant. The most overt thing I've seen was an …
/r/MensRights25/02/12 10:56 AM
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