dontsaythatplease Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	A basic question?		dontsaythatplease	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/20 05:15 PM

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4	Saw this posted in in a certain women's dating strategy sub... A high value man is never disposable. Chin up dude.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	04/05/20 10:51 AM
1	A basic question? I will agree with you about the craziness. If he felt like he was making a mistake... why would he say he’s open to a more meaningful reconciliation? was that just to ease the break up on my end because he knew he was my first? Because he said that I haven’t been interested in moving on or meeting anyone new	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/20 09:40 PM
1	A basic question? Thank you for this response. It is the truth and You are right. I am trying to look at it from a perspective of if I was played or not — instead of just accepting what has happened. He was a good guy and treated me well despite my flaws. Thank you again and take care!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/20 06:02 PM
1	A basic question? We were exclusive and had plans to move in together in spring. Then we broke up. He told his mom and friends about me. But pulled the rug from underneath because I was just too jealous and insecure of his past relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/20 05:56 PM
1	A basic question? Wow. I really am naive I guess. My boyfriend considered himself super frugal. So the fact that he would do that nearly everyday made me think he was seriously interested in me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/20 05:53 PM
1	A basic question? Because I didn’t have a car, my ex would always Uber me to his place which was costly. We worked/lived on opposite sides of town. So I guess I’m just trying to understand if a guy only wanted to hook up... would he be willing to always foot the bill of stuff... especially if he saw no long term potential	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/20 05:49 PM
1	A basic question? Consistently for 6 months? if it was just a hook up?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/20 05:47 PM
2	A basic question? I’m not trying to measure a man by his money. I don’t really care since I have my own. I was just trying to see if this is a common thing so guys can get laid. I slept with my boyfriend regardless if he spent money on me because I loved him. I guess I’m just trying to understand if a guy really sees something with you, would he do that. Or if he just wanted sex... would he always offer. My boyfriend didn’t like for me to spend my own money because he made more than me. And encouraged me to save …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/20 05:46 PM
1	To promiscuous/high-N women: what unique insights to men men do you have that non-promiscuous women and other men lack? Sounds silly but I actually just screenshot all of your responses to look back on when it’s time for me to re-enter the dating world. This time with more courage since I know a lot more now. I keep saying thank you so sorry if it’s repetitive. I genuinely appreciate your advice to me. I’m still hopeful for myself and my future - which is why I’m not jaded. Plus, my first boyfriend wasn’t a bad guy at all. He was a good man and very much husband material in my eyes. If I was able to have a man li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/20 07:46 PM
1	To promiscuous/high-N women: what unique insights to men men do you have that non-promiscuous women and other men lack? Thank you for taking some time out to type out all of this! I really appreciate it! It seems like my best bet is to just be quite upfront about how I am and what I need in a partner. I really didn’t think to just “put it out there” like that for fear of coming off as a “prude” and deterring men from me. So because of that fear I really never used to put much in my about me section on the dating site I was on. Just generic stuff like my height, weight, occupation, and enjoying oxygen. I’m gonna u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/20 05:50 PM
1	To promiscuous/high-N women: what unique insights to men men do you have that non-promiscuous women and other men lack? Thank you for this comment. You and another commenter are making me feel like it is OK to want someone without an extensive sexual past. I feel conflicted because I know people have a past... a life before me. So to have feelings like that makes me think I’m not giving the person a fair chance. Even though I can feel those uncomfortable feelings intensely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/20 03:57 PM
1	How can shorter men make women feel safe? That could be true for some. In any case... don’t lose hope. My last and first boyfriend was 5’7. He was amazing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/20 03:35 PM
2	How can shorter men make women feel safe? Where are you from? I’m in LA and I see a lot of short guys with pretty girlfriends. Even if they’re slightly the same height.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/20 03:26 PM
2	To promiscuous/high-N women: what unique insights to men men do you have that non-promiscuous women and other men lack? This was a nice comment to read. I just started looking at this thread a few days ago. From what I’ve gathered so far, it does seem irrational to want someone without a promiscuous past. Even the guy I was just mentioning - he was pure... but still had multiple sex partners outside of a relationship. As much as I’d love to have someone who is equally interested in adding value to each other’s lives while having few sexual partners- I know that it’s going to be extremely hard to come by and downr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/20 03:18 PM
2	To promiscuous/high-N women: what unique insights to men men do you have that non-promiscuous women and other men lack? I would prefer my partner to have only been sexual with as many as I have. Which is 1. Which he was my first. Our relationship ended because I was excessively jealous and insecure of his sexual past. I’ve come to realize a few things since our breakup. I was definitely the problem and shouldn’t have allowed my own deeper issues to interfere with what was one of the best things to ever happen to me. He was a great guy and I could only really focus on that. I’ve since remained single and haven’t b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/20 01:57 PM
5	Only chad will do. But only the “good” type of alpha. I’m post wall and picky... There are other types of intelligence though. But I hear what you’re trying to say.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/04/20 07:59 PM
2	How much of the sexlessness in males be attributed to technology-dependence? What are you thoughts on men who do it often? Morning? Lunch break? After work? I’m guessing my question is what’s your opinion of men who do it compulsively? Do you believe it’s linked to something in particular?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/20 07:41 PM
2	How much of the sexlessness in males be attributed to technology-dependence? May I ask your reasoning for not indulging in porn/cam girl stuff?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/20 08:33 AM