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nice strawman, re-read everything i said
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:09 AM
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knowing what works or not isn't a "piss poor mentality". saying whatever is on your mind isn't good, it's what every dumb fuck in every bar everywhere does, and why they rarely pull.
/r/seduction23/04/18 09:30 AM
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you probably open with something that's not boring like introducing yourself then, because that's a piss poor way to open any girl, yet everyone suggests it.
/r/seduction23/04/18 09:15 AM
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this is really false. i know a lot of guys here have read game theory for awhile, but out in the real world shit gets awkward as fuck non-stop. the fact you think any opener is fine tells me you're really good looking. for groups, stick with fun opinion openers. 1on1 either go direct or usually open with, "so what's your story?" or "what's the story with [something i observed about her]" (taken from asf... i've used it for years.)
/r/seduction23/04/18 08:42 AM
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Yea but then they'd risk social status so the emotional part is somewhat true then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 12:40 AM
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That's overthinking it. Most good looking women would simply never get laid if they had to talk to every guy that wanted to talk to them. The cold approach is a necessary filter. Alcohol is the great equalizer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 07:34 AM
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Nice job bruv. Google 'assumption stack' and try one out on your next approach. Popular one is making an assumption about where she's from based on her clothes or looks. When you deliver the line, never break eye contact, and keep a slightly judgmental tone that does not go up at the end (you are qualifying her with a statement). You'll never get a girl walking away like that again.
/r/seduction21/01/18 07:17 AM
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Those women have it backwards. Nah, they get it. They want the guy who's confident. They don't give a fuck about being special. That's Disney's cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 06:59 AM
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It has nothing to do with manipulation. Men can only be sexually attracted by the physical. Behavior has nothing to do with it, and dread game (rapport breaks) is completely behavioral.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 05:50 PM
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No, it doesn't. Dread comes from a very old concept in the pickup community called a rapport break. Rapport breaks are fairly self evident- you break rapport through teasing, making fun, ignoring, pushing away (physical), cutting off, turning away (body language), etc. These behaviors imply higher value and abundance/pre-selection. This creates tension and sexual attraction. One of the defining traits of "nice guys" is their complete lack of these behaviors. "Dread game" is just a rapport break …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 02:40 AM
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It's partially due to that. It's partially due to the fact that getting pumped & dumped 100x is going to make you feel worthless. Now most manosphere communities will blame this on women and hypergamy, but I blame it on feminism not allowing men to learn how to behave like men. There's simply not enough men that can get the juices flowing out there. As a result, women all end up chasing the top X% which have no reason whatsoever to settle. Could be wrong. I doubt it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 05:33 PM
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Two fold. I always tease/talk a little shit to girls on dates because it works in certain circumstances as a rapport break. I've had girls walk out on me too. But being polarizing has done way more for me than trying to make everyone happy, as far as getting laid goes. But if the girl was smarter I wouldn't have been so harsh. She was cheating on her boyfriend by being with me so I already didn't think much of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 03:06 PM
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I had a coked up bum tell me he was going to rape me on the subway one night so #metoo. I'm a big guy too and that scared the shit out of me. Anyway, I'll admit that context matters more than I lead on. I'm definitely unaware of how uncalibrated some guys are. That said, you didn't really change my mind too much-- was about forty years older than me If the guys in these scenarios weren't X, you'd call it something other than creepy--maybe you'd call them annoying or too sexual/aggressive. But be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 09:15 PM
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I told a girl on a date she was worthless as fuck just a month ago. World didn't stop spinning. In fact, I even got a second date. Probably the first time anyone ever told her the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 08:14 PM
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WHO says this? A lot of guys women want to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 07:59 PM
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There's only a few guys who I've ever been so creeped out by that I've referred to them as a "creep," or "creepy." Every time I have used those terms, it's been after the incident, in discussions with close friends or my SO (not in public) and even that only happened because I was still pretty freaked out about it afterward What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 07:47 PM
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Maybe you're a unicorn, but every girl I've ever known has used it to shame guys who aren't attractive and/or try to bat outside their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 07:15 PM
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Incapable was the wrong word. You're right.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/18 11:13 AM
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Women like being treated like sluts, and, I guess, most guys are incapable of it. It's not their fault for being turned off by pushovers. Not that they aren't insufferable children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/18 10:01 PM
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It has nothing to do with money. OP's friend is a pushover. Her attraction dwindled and she left. Excuses like financial stress and mental abuse are easy ways for them to absolve themselves of guilt to their friends and family, and a lot of time they plan it out ahead of time. The real reason is always that attraction is gone because the guy started prioritizing her too much (let her move in, stopped qualifying her, stopped looking at other choices, became taken for granted.)
/r/MGTOW10/01/18 09:37 PM
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maybe she has an on and off again boyfriend it's this plus neediness. most girls have a fallback guy that has enough game to get the job done and they run to him when they get tired of the garbage. women can get dick really easily, yea, but they can't get a guy that does it for them easily. op, for instance, possibly did a good job in the sack. but he forgot the #1 rule of txting- you only do it for logistics. any intrigue and mystery was thrown the fuck out the window with the other trash. she …
/r/seduction01/12/17 05:33 AM
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I always feel that guys are being disrespectful towards me if they show any sexual desire towards me. I like I'm reduced to a sexual object. have you ever been on dates? have the guys touched you? did it feel good or turn you on? therapy sounds like a great idea seeing as you're actively pulling away when you have feelings for another. that said, feeling like you're being used isn't abnormal. there's a well known phenomenon in dating where women will be having a great time on a date, but then st…
/r/seduction29/11/17 07:04 PM
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kill yourself.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 07:21 PM
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being barked at "hold my purse" and following that order. you didn't say she barked or said it rudely in your post
/r/askTRP19/11/17 03:41 PM
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i couldn't disagree more. what the fuck kind of stand is this? why are you both assuming it's a power play? and even if it is, who cares? it's ok to allow the girl to have a little power... you're leading her around all over the place and going to be shoving her head into a pillow while you destroy her cervix later. let her have a goddamn piss lol i draw the line at money. i've lost dates because i suggested we do half and she wasn't willing. but that's not even about power it's about investing …
/r/askTRP19/11/17 02:29 PM
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Also, I do occasionally go to both of the stores where I met these 2 women. I know that if I had more abundance mentality then I wouldn't ever bother with either one of them again but I feel like the most beta thing I could do is avoid those stores because I care what they think... I'm considering asking them wtf the deal is next time I go to those stores and saying something. I feel like that's pretty cringeworthy but at the same time I feel like its pretty bold and I can't see why the fuck I s…
/r/askTRP19/11/17 10:22 AM
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"we're gonna split a motel tonight, my place is too crowded" no stuttering or voice cracking. assume the sale. or be adventurous and fuck her in the local walmart bathroom!
/r/askTRP19/11/17 10:02 AM
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that sounds like it takes actual effort yea. i'll have to signup and fish around. thanks for the advice.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 10:34 PM
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i meant don't buy OR split the bill with her (so yea dutch)
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 10:31 PM
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don't verbalize sex. kino instead. you can't get anywhere without warming her up to touch. and i would spend a solid amount of time studying how to kino while leaving her plausible deniability about what's going on. kino is passed off as this fairly simple ladder of shit, but in reality there's a lot to it. and once you know how to do is smoothly it makes the interractions very easy.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 09:52 PM
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is the competition at these meetups really weak? if you're jacked and just approach the girls you're good?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 09:33 PM
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iois are irrelevant for most situations. you just gotta go for it. "why can't we be friends" is a shit test. i've heard it many times from many different girls. one girl would literally ask that question every fucking week. it was so bizarre. i usually respond with "we are friends babe, we'll always be friends" while i go in and start smelling her neck or some other kino escalation. this is similar to lmr where girls will say "we're not having sex" and i just agree with it "you're damn right we'…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 09:27 PM
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force betas to lift weights and force women to stay thin. would solve a lot of sexual frustration
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 08:48 PM
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are those bdsm sites just like any other dating site? you post profile pics and match?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 08:45 PM
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don't co-habitate, don't buy anything (or split), don't txt too much, don't always answer or return calls. i personally let everyone know i'm actively seeing other girls, but i give specific reasons i don't like other girls and why the current girl i'm with is way better (makes them feel good and try harder to win). obnoxious game.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 08:40 PM
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be happy that you're able to get girls excited on the initial approach. some guys can't ever get that. ever. just realize it's fleeting and isn't indicative of things to come at all. don't let it go to your head and break frame. act casual. the work is still entirely in front of you.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 07:01 PM
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She's so shy that she rebuffed me everytime I made a move (first kiss, putting my hand on her thigh in public, going to my place, undressing her) to which I answered by saying "ok" and being distant which worked everytime. don't be distant to micro rejections. don't say "ok" like a little butthurt child. just continue on like it never happened and try again later. women want to do shit, but they can't all just do it instantly. not even for chad. gotta warm up and give them time. I'd like to keep…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 11:54 AM
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she already told you she can do weekdays. suggest a new day and time. don't ask for permission. don't be unsure. just lead. "day at time" and wait. txt for logistics only. do not give away anything via txt. all that banter you had is fucking wasted because it wasn't in person, didn't get to build comfort, didn't get to kino, didn't do shit. and now she has her fill of attention so she doesn't care anymore. if you told her anything about your life you just killed a lot of mystery too. d txting is…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 11:35 AM
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do you have a mall near you? if so, go there and approach 5 groups of people (anyone, not just groups with cute girls) and ask them for directions to any store in the mall. regardless of their answer, ask if they're from the area. if they seem to engage, ask how they know each other. eject and go talk to the next group. you'll eventually get tired of talking to random ass people and get the confidence to ask the same questions to girls you like. try number closing instead of ejecting. if you can…
/r/seduction20/10/17 03:53 AM
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the gist of it is that women want to be a tag-along for a guy that's higher value than themselves. they test non-stop to ensure that they didn't pick the wrong guy to tag-along with (congruence tests, frame tests, shit tests, creating random fucking drama to see how you react, on and on). so in the context of your example, him buying this girl 1 gift is meaningless. she'll be happy he likes her and remember the event for 24 hours. no harm, no foul. if he continued to buy her a gift every single …
/r/seduction19/10/17 04:37 PM
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yea if you're fit and dress well it's doable
/r/seduction19/10/17 02:33 PM
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If a girl brings it up before you ask for her number or similar than chances are she does have one. However if you're high enough quality she won't care/will cheat/will swing. if she's attracted enough she won't mention it until later. i plow on these 100% of the time and 99% of the time it's no. but plenty who say yes definitely have boyfriends and they never mention it on the initial approach because, obviously, they want to learn more.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 05:02 PM
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I've approached many women, but they either aren't interested or are taken. by "many" you surely mean like 3. that's not many. but i don't believe any posters here anyway. took me 50 approaches to get a date when i first started out. didn't get laid. there's no way you've done 50 approaches and in all that time never once googled 'cold approach opener'. give me a break dude. you people want results for no effort. doesn't exist.
/r/seduction18/10/17 10:43 AM
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they don't call it game for nothing. dance around that shit. i wouldn't even consider a girl who would post that shit for ltr though. go to a fucking therapist. attention whoring degenerates.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 10:02 AM
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witty in long conversation being witty helps build comfort, but it's not necessary. it also has no affect on attraction. not an excuse for anything. you want to conversation thread and get her to talk about things she doesn't share with just anyone else. naturally, the girl will be doing most of the talking (usually). you continue by threading deeper, teasing her about shit she said, and dhv/commonality stories, et al. mostly to movies, dinner, etc movies and action dates are difficult because i…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:48 AM
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learn to approach, learn to do well on dates, get laid regularly, and you won't react to any specific girl anymore. reading about "frame" and having abundance "mentality" isn't going to help you though. you might be able to keep the current girl a little longer by stopping your reactionary behavior, but you'll never be happy.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:16 AM
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"dread" is simply to remind her lizard brain that you're pre-selected/high value and that she still needs to compete for you. this increases the sex. so flirting with other women, not always giving her all your attention, self-improving non-stop, etc., will keep her in the game, so to speak. it goes the other way too. it's sort of like a super push to balance out the super pull of cohabitation. i feel like everyone on trp adds this sociopathic tinge to everything that makes it seem evil. i could…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 04:12 AM
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"Really? With your personality?" stealing it I had a girl tell me yesterday right before she gave me her number: "I'm kind of talking to this guy. We're exclusive but he's not my boyfriend." for me, boyfriends come up all the time after the girl has already accepted hanging out. usually right before or after the initial date. but the girls that mention it during the initial moments of a cold approach aren't shit testing and 99% of the time plowing isn't going to change their mind. too much fanta…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 03:47 AM
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explaining yourself when i was starting to pull my life together years ago this was one of the things i focused on a lot. every time anyone asked anything of me i'd answer like a good little earnest bitch. women that i liked especially. actively monitoring myself and practicing flipping/amplifying/ignoring helped tremendously. i'd practice doing it to everyone and with every type of question. these days, most people can't get a straight answer out of me, and i feel far more confident in social s…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 05:04 AM
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go on okc/pof and meet some overweight girls and practice dating and fucking them. it's all you can get right now, and it's good practice. get your kino, conversation threading, and push/pull down on your dates. etc. obviously start lifting too. the better you look, the less game you need. i've day gamed for 2 years like it's my job and the difference between skinny me and lifting physique me isn't the same universe. also, daygame and nightgame are not easy at first. very intimidating. so just l…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 04:50 AM
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my friend does it and gets same-day hookups. he's a 22 year old model in manhattan. so it does work for some people. but i'm in the same boat as you, except i've made it work with 5s/6s.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 09:58 PM
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this isn't true if you're hot enough. anyone can test this for themselves, and i have.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 08:04 AM
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dunno what that guy said but book of pook has little to do with pickup. it's redpill before redpill was a thing. trp is a derivative of pickup. nothing in this sub didn't come from the pickup community.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:30 PM
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try to schedule something on a morning she's free and find out
/r/askTRP12/10/17 10:12 PM
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no body can know if she's validation seeking yet. so far she's complying with everything you've asked. she told you about her bf to see how you'd respond (to make sure you can handle the situation), and she asked "why?" for plausible deniability about the whole thing
/r/askTRP12/10/17 09:17 PM
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pull is interest, push is disinterest. and mark didn't invent anything.
/r/seduction12/10/17 09:10 PM
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I consider myself ugly and I have really low self-esteem, I think I might be a bit delusional as well (Often times I think that people are laughing at me, or are disgusted) typical social anxiety. find a therapist that teaches group cbt and stick with it even if you want to kill yourself. drugs won't fix that (they might help with depression though).
/r/seduction12/10/17 08:40 PM
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telling you when she's free is seeking validation? what the fuck? schedule something, jfc
/r/askTRP12/10/17 08:37 PM
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SHES FREE MONDAY AND WEDNESDAY MORNING OP
/r/askTRP12/10/17 08:32 PM
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how is it disrespectful? i love ex stories. always entertaining and a way to confirm what i already know-- men act beta and lose the girl. if you don't want to hear it just say "i don't care about your exs". this isn't some situation you need super special secret redpill advice for. /u/mrpthrowa advice about silence and changing the subject is probably the best way to deal with it though.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 08:59 PM
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"i'll get a maid then. when are you moving out"
/r/askTRP11/10/17 08:53 PM
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guys are easy. as long as you can laugh at yourself and self-deprecate, you'll be accepted. girls are tougher. google 'list of shit tests' or something and just make flash cards. i've only ever heard maybe 20 different shit tests out of all of my approaches and dates. it's always the exact same thing. i'm gay or a player or too old or i dont have any friends or some bullshit. honestly they sound like robot after awhile. for the life of me i cannot figure out how they all get the same canned stat…
/r/askTRP11/10/17 07:00 AM
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I want a relationship and not meaningless sex pretending sex is meaningless is stupid. no body here believes that bullshit. anyway, you can have intimacy with a woman without being committed. don't live together, split the bill anywhere you go, have sex, enjoy intimacy. it's not complicated.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 06:53 AM
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lifters physique + social pictures better looking you are, more matches you will get. that's all tinder is about. if you don't have a lifters phique, but have good outgoing/social pictures, pof/okc work ok. the more ltr type shit like match.com work well too. i've used them all to some success, but i live 5 minutes from a major city mall and daygame destroys all of it because being out and socializing feels incredible.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 06:44 AM
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A specific interest like that is basically broadcasting that she is broken in some way. evidence?
/r/askTRP11/10/17 06:41 AM
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supplements aren't going to help any unless you're deficient/suboptimal. gear isn't going to make you enjoy approaching. there's no magic fix. you just have to want it bad enough. cold approach is just hard. whenever i go out with other guys, i always challenge everyone to do a cold approach and i'll tell you right now it's extremely rare anyone will do it. sometimes i even offer $100 to see who will man up. still usually no. even guys who i default perceive to be very high smv (ripped, tall, co…
/r/askTRP11/10/17 12:28 AM
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men definitely don't peak at 38. what is that based on? i can't imagine most young women want a guy that age (obviously some do).
/r/askTRP11/10/17 12:04 AM
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beginner dance nights are an incredible way to get some good numbers. lots of good looking women and many are single. any major city will have multiple venues holding lessons every week for cheap. usually i run daygame for numbers, but i go to salsa and swing nights almost every week and have gotten dates out of it.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:59 PM
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I get away with treating her like shit. anecdotes?
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:29 PM
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might have autism
/r/askTRP04/10/17 03:38 PM
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women don't know anything until they know everything, and toiletries are negotiable. welcome to trp
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 11:46 PM
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that models book teaches you to respond earnestly to these scenarios, which is a big reason i don't think it should ever be suggested: https://markmanson.net/manipulative-relationships just read this bullshit
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 11:36 PM
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get copy of 'models' by mark manson and read the chapter on investment. it's basically a look at push/pull (ioi/iod) on a macro scale. very important shit and your main problem.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 04:41 PM
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women don't give a shit about earning anything. they want guys who are pre-selected. nice guys don't know how to behave in a way that implies that. edit: actually that's not entirely right. i'd agree that her feeling she earned it will help with lmr in some cases, but that's a different topic.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 08:50 AM
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if you're going to read a book, read the attraction code. models is bluepilled because mark is a sell out.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 08:39 AM
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all of this theory being suggested is literal nonsense. money is a lot like being handsome-- it'll get you in the door; any bitch will give you time to run game on her if you approach her in a huracan. that's a lot of fucking mystery (potential).
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 08:37 AM
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there's no such thing as an attainability factor. at least not how you're describing it. having a nice car/clothes/pad can only help. beta bux has nothing to do bucks. it's just a meme. beta behavior = too many iois, too much pull, too much supplication, too much commitment (buying shit for her, monogamy, cohabitation, etc). beta behavior never includes iods, push, rapport breaks, pressure flips, most of which op included in his fr.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 08:18 AM
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disallow her from hanging out with him then
/r/askTRP29/09/17 04:09 PM
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If we spent all day together and had lunches out etc we would end up in bed and no sex. i don't think there's anything wrong with this as long as they're paying half (or all, ideally). if you're bankrolling everything, that's too much in my opinion. also we may be overlooking the fact that dude is simply approaching sex wrong and not warming her up at all. if you just randomly ask, "hey can we have sex now?" ... i mean that has to fail the majority of the time.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 06:26 PM
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There are many vague, poorly formed excuses being used here. With that said what would be the best way to manage them? they pull sex, you pull attention/affection. there's no other way to handle the situation afaik.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:23 PM
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women fall into 3 categories pre-sex: no, maybe, or yes. better looks = more women start off as maybe or yes better game = more women get from maybe to yes e.g. the less good looking you are, the more approaches you'll have to do. that's really all there is to it. but remember that a lot of these end in fwbs/ltr situations. so 1 success and you may have years worth of pussy. if that wasn't the case, no one would probably do it because it's kind of exhausting. i only do a few a day anymore, i lit…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 11:49 AM
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txt for logistics only; don't give attention to women that aren't in your presence. responding to nonsense will lower your perceived value.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 11:15 AM
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i'd re-asses what a date is for. imo the only thing you'll accomplish by listening to her bullshit is a loss of respect and perceived smv. you should be threading, push/pulling, kinoing. that's it. txting is for logistics.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 11:01 AM
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sounds reasonable enough it is totally another to say, your music, that you created, sucks. i meant tease her about liking poetry, not demean her about something she wrote personally. if a girl bows out because you teased her about liking x/y/z, she wasn't feeling it anyway.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 10:19 AM
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i wouldn't tease her about her poetry you should though. why are you backing down? teasing implies you don't give a shit what she thinks and/or if she walks (preselection/abundance). a poetry hobby is perfect. you need push to balance out all the pull.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 10:05 AM
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I understand for a woman to end a relationship in red pill terms it means that her SO either had a drop in SMV/loss of attraction commitment and cohabitation kill attraction eventually-- mystery is gone, preselection/abundance is gone, the competition is over, and they aren't living on a yacht like all the instawhores they follow
/r/askTRP24/09/17 12:33 PM
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jk haha fml
/r/askTRP22/09/17 12:12 AM
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thankfully i didn't read that far lol
/r/askTRP22/09/17 12:00 AM
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To hell with 7; cucking is anti-masculine. swinging =/= cuckoldry. but there's nothing anti-masculine about having a specific fetish. one thing that's interesting to me is that the cuck subreddit seems to be a lot less about cuckoldry (women emasculating the dude) and more about an interracial fetish. so much confusion.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 11:55 PM
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you think? i'd guess the guys initiate it a lot of the time. they're tired and want strange, but they forgot they have no game. and then True Abundance destroys their life.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 11:19 PM
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you could randomly disappear for a few nights at a time, ghosting her. shut her nagging down with as few details as possible when you get back. mystery method has a lot about this stuff.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 11:18 PM
1

just going to work and gym isn't going to instill dread
/r/askTRP21/09/17 01:47 PM
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stop being her fucking txting buddy
/r/askTRP21/09/17 01:38 PM
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a little general advice: by living together you're giving up all mystery, dread, competition. how will she feelz without those? regardless of her being exhausted some of the time, her attraction for you will inevitably drop because of your living arrangement. as far as dealing with her resistance, what you're doing is working, but you need to change it up. overpowering her will turn her on if you do it right. sex god method is worth a read.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 01:32 PM
1

what manipulation? the guys are agreeing to this.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 01:01 PM
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i just go to highly populated places and walk around, if that's what you mean. day game doesn't really have much to do with game... it's just looks maxing and playing numbers.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 10:35 AM
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all my college day gaming was near nyu so don't need an excuse. i very specifically remember 2 guys in the 35+ range in suits during their lunch break (?) that were there multiple days we went to the same place. they were having success too, or getting numbers at least.
/r/seduction15/09/17 03:11 AM
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that's not optimal at all, but if you enjoy doing it that way so be it
/r/seduction12/09/17 01:51 PM
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I recommend you to talk to the girl as long as possible to build trust and rapport. said like someone who has never day gamed. you'll waste your entire day. indirect is better for one-off or when you don't have an endless string of 8s, which you will on most campuses.
/r/seduction11/09/17 05:35 PM
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not very popular here, but 'the attraction code' is a good step-by-step book that explains what you're looking for
/r/askTRP11/09/17 04:38 PM
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Change bars, make out on the walk over i'd try to pull at that point. walking around to more venues, and making out more, unnecessarily drags shit out. you're there for one thing and she's complying so why waste time? I cut it off. why? is this like physical push? i don't really understand what we're accomplishing this far in and talk politics if there's a topic that can kill attraction it has to be this one. i wouldn't do it. so boring and so much associated negativity. plus, you should be thre…
/r/askTRP08/09/17 05:21 PM
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a recent example for one business was integrating a company's backend to their slack with twilio so agents and workers could conversate with clients via txt (like doordash or grubhub). not something that required great ability, but it was incredibly value to them.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 12:01 AM
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you don't need comp sci background for web dev. i'm sure it helps, but if you have a few apps proving you can help solve business tasks, you're good to go in a lot of companies. and devs with "significant ability" in the bay area make a lot more than 100k
/r/askTRP06/09/17 10:29 PM
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what kind of sales? i would also say sales or web dev. the latter being the easier path to 100k, but you're stuck in front of a monitor all day.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 09:23 PM
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you pull way too much in my opinion. "craving you" implies she's already got you. once women know they can have you they tend to not want you. this is the reason why you balance investment levels and follow iois with iods and blahblahblah.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 05:09 PM
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"why do you think it's appropriate to keep talking to me when i've made it clear i don't want to talk to you?" i guarantee you he'll fuck off. there's nothing rude about asking that question. we're all confused why he isn't getting the point, so now we're going to try to find out lol
/r/askTRP05/09/17 11:31 AM
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if her reasons for trying to create drama are nonsensical, just mock her and max absurdity levels. depending on history and her perceptions of what you guys are, it could be a "comfort test".
/r/askTRP04/09/17 07:43 PM
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1 if you're expecting thanks for doing something, you shouldn't be doing it. #2 if you're doing stuff you don't want to be doing, you shouldn't be doing it. #3 if she's putting out and isn't a nagging, cheating whore, she's doing great. this must be what guys here mean when they say "she'll never love you like you want to be loved"
/r/askTRP04/09/17 06:23 PM
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if you get 1 fwb for every 130 girls you talk to, you'll be spinning 3-5 plates in a month. 20 approaches a day is very easy to do assuming you aren't stacked with job/school. "sexual escapades" from friends is jst like looking at peoples facebook streams. it's the absolute apex of their life as a human being. they're all 3 interractions from being virgins themselves. if you can overcome approach anxiety and actually follow through on even 5+ approaches a day, you'll be swimming in pussy.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 06:08 PM
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so if you think 15% number close / 50% f-close on dates (assuming you don't botch it) is bad? what exactly do you think is good?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 05:47 PM
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The whole argument about "but men do it too!" misses the point i personally wasn't arguing anything. a lot of posters around here act like men are more loyal than women, but we really aren't. i'd agree we're more loyal among ourselves, but not to women. it's just impossible to have that kind of abundance.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 12:55 AM
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but underneath it there’s the semiconscious understanding that it would be far more convenient to have a continuous flow of pussy as part of the utilities hahaha. great article. i'm pretty sure there are actual studies done on women's libido tanking in committed relationships. they're practically the same thing.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 02:29 PM
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if you throw her shit out on the street and she has no where else to go, i can guarantee you she'll think twice the next time. if you dread her she'll also think twice next time. but pulling attention? as in just walking around the house not talking to her? you guys confuse the hell out of me if you think that'll accomplish anything at all. what am i missing?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 02:21 PM
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first of all, boundaries have nothing to do with push/pull. second of all, push is necessary to convey value/pre-selection, but it shouldn't be the majority of the interactions. women, above all else, want to be sexually desired and dominated. if you're pushing her away 95% of the time, she will not feel that and she will leave you in quick succession, unless she's a special kind of psycho that's going to follow you off a cliff. tired of people writing articles with their girlfriend as the sampl…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 02:14 PM
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it has little to do with how they're raised. it's just opportunity. even the most "well raised" girl is going to cheat if she gets alone with alcohol and a strange 6 pack with game. ltrs require that you place all these boundaries and run extra game just to get pussy. you're even hamstering yourself about how your girl might not be the one that cheats, like blanks are given to execution squads so they can all have a little hope. even minimal abundance solves all of this. no reason to deal with i…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 01:47 PM
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she'd also have to 30 or over and not a whale. that's a unicorn. good looking women are too busy at the cock factory to learn anything useful.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 01:28 PM
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If a girl you're interacting with asks an unwanted question or makes an unwanted statement, flatly ignore it. [..] I am suggesting that you literally act exactly as if she had not said it at all. i see this written a lot when it comes to frame, be it responding to shit tests or something else, but in my experience it rarely works. when i've tried it women tend to just repeat and repeat and prod over and over until it gets awkward. i usually flip it on them as being socially retarded or having so…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 01:18 PM
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i don't know if i fully believe that. plenty of women spinning more plates than most of us imagine, imo. i can understand women having reasons to be monogamous with the highest status guy they can get before, but i don't know if that's the case these days.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 01:04 PM
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man, i've had this happen more times than i can count doing daygame over past 24 months. on one hand it's great, on the other i've become pretty cynical over it. these hoes ain't loyal.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 12:06 PM
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How many guys would cheat if they were married to a dumpy chick and a young Sofia Vergara came up to them and wanted to fuck them, and genuinely made the guy believe that she wanted to fuck him and there was no way the girl would find out? 99% of the straight married guys would do it. are you under the belief men are more sexually loyal than women? posters here seem to enjoy patting themselves on the back over male loyalty, but as far as i can tell both sides are just as hypergamous. women just …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 11:39 AM
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