doobsishere Archive

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5	How can I maintain frame when I’m too sentimental. You’re going to be just fine brother. Just remember that sensitivity is reactivity in disguise. Hopefully some self work like we’ve talked about here helps you detach from your coping mechanisms of anxiety and shyness, etc. Do you really have anything to fear when you get all the way down to it	/r/askTRP	26/03/21 04:22 PM
2	Not bait: Are women turned off by high bodycounts at a young age? There are no such things as hypocrites in dating. Because it’s all preference based and not a zero-sum game, you can care about a partners body count while they simultaneously don’t care about yours. That said, there is a benefit to being honest if they really want to know. They show they are willing to support you. Weather these girls are also smart is questionable, because a man could overlook this as well (and show the same positive trait) but may not be wise for doing so. However, is there a…	/r/askTRP	26/03/21 08:16 AM
1	Is there anyting wrong with having a girlfriend? Bro, trp has two lanes. Using it as reliable methodology to get girls & using it as a philosophy about life. You have achieved the first goal already. Lucky you. Enjoy it, love is beautiful and rare. That said, you can use it as a general guide philosophically. Don’t get too deep into it I’ll warn, you have something great, and trying to implement this stuff has a long and step learning curve. In a lot of ways it’ll be hard to avoid fucking what you have up if you think “what would trp do in thi…	/r/askTRP	26/03/21 08:05 AM
1	How do you make it not sting Bro, you already know the answer. And it isn’t external. When you feel like this, it’s because something is out of balance. In this case, you’re acting like your main plate is a plate, when she’s actually oneitis in disguise. You don’t feel like this about the other girls you bang right? Because they are correctly dealt with as per their status to you. This other girl feels different because you have her in the wrong slot. However, at this point it sounds like you can’t put her in the LTR slot, …	/r/askTRP	26/03/21 07:27 AM
133	How can I maintain frame when I’m too sentimental. You already know how brother. First look at your feelings (becoming shy, bothered, insecure). Now just keep asking yourself WHY you might be having these reactions. “I felt nervous” - why? “Because I felt like she was judging me” -why does that make me nervous? “Because she’ll see that I’m beneath her” - why does that make me nervous? “Because........” You should go about 4-7 levels of “why’s” per situation until you begin to understand your patterns. Do the same for when you feel confident. If …	/r/askTRP	26/03/21 07:08 AM
7	Tinder date asks what my intentions were and why I drove so far to see her This will never attract a high value, secure woman. Stretches way to far outside of playful banter unless you’ve specifically been talking like this to each other for a bit. Just AA here “(in person) I was told good things were worth the wait 😉” is just fine	/r/askTRP	26/03/21 06:59 AM
4	Reward or punish female jealousy? Break up with her and spin whatever plates you want carefree. There is something you don’t always hear from this sub, but most experienced men will tell you: Fucking with a girl by omission or lying about having plates while you’re with someone/someone thinks they are with you, is trash tier game. If what she did disgusts you, then contemplate her actions against your values (to cement your resolve, can help if you’re new), and cut her lose. Don’t demote. Don’t plate her. Embody your principles …	/r/askTRP	26/03/21 06:50 AM
3	I got caught cheating recently, it actually happened a while ago That’s an interesting post and I get where he’s coming from. I would be wary of taking such thing at face value however, cheating might be for different reasons in general but the morality of it is always questionable imo. Anyway, in this hypothetical situation your girl has the same view of meaningless sex as you- would it be ok for her? Assume all things were equal and give it some thought, you’re allowed to be fallible.	/r/askTRP	29/12/17 09:31 PM
3	I got caught cheating recently, it actually happened a while ago And had she done it you’d feel like that response would justify it to you?	/r/askTRP	29/12/17 09:11 PM
–	"Sexual Assault by Deception" Bill Introduced in New Jersey. I do not think this bill will get any traction at all, but who fucking knows what will happen given all the retarded shit happening nowadays. Women do tend to have the loudest voices when it comes to social media campaigns so it is possible something like this could get passed. However, I think the reason of why it has even been proposed much more interesting. I dont know how friendly r/mensrights is to r/trp concepts but a TRP interpretation of this makes a whole mess of sense, to me, at least.…	/r/MensRights	27/05/15 06:09 AM
12	"Sexual Assault by Deception" Bill Introduced in New Jersey. Actually it goes on to specify "an act of sexual penetration to which a person has given consent because the actor has misrepresented the purpose of the act or has represented he is someone he is not." EDIT- seems as though it is still considered gender neutral despite the gendered language.	/r/MensRights	26/05/15 07:32 PM