doobyscooze Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How touchy on first date/interaction? Grabbing her ass...read the signals first You don't want to get metoo'd	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:50 AM
2	This could just be a coincidence but in my experience whenever I'm toxic a girl wants to be with me but when I'm genuinely nice and not toxic to girls they usually dump me. Why? I noticed when I don't care how I'm being received people want to be around me Being non-needy is very attractive. It shows you're independent, self confident and self assured.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 03:28 PM
2	Why do girls do this? Wait a minute...you can actually fall in love🙊? I lost that ability after age 23🤣🤣🤣	/r/seduction	11/08/22 03:18 PM
1	Do girls get off on ghosting guys? That's how I feel Also why I'm very selective with my company.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 03:16 PM
1	Do girls get off on ghosting guys? When tech recruiters try to spam me....ghost E-prostitutes with only fans trying to run game on me...ghost Sketchy salesman...ghost	/r/seduction	11/08/22 03:13 PM
0	Honesty gets you a very long way It's all about communication.	/r/seduction	02/08/22 06:58 PM
-1	Honesty gets you a very long way Sexual charisma will get you a long way. It's all about how you make her feel. Ever heard of positive reinforcement? Reward her when she cooperates. If she does the opposite, remove your attention.	/r/seduction	02/08/22 04:53 AM
2	Absence makes the heart grow fonder Key word is emotional attachment. If you made her felt some type of way and you aren't available, she'll wonder about you. Without that, she'll forget about you. This works better in person.	/r/seduction	31/07/22 06:00 PM
1	Getting phone number vs Getting Instagram? Giving the girl your number works if the vibe is mutual. Social media used to work before IG turned into a validation chamber.	/r/seduction	31/07/22 01:34 AM
1	How touchy on first date/interaction? Put your hand on her back. Lead her. Hand around her waist. Real intimate hug Light touch on her shoulder when joking Hug her ass....if you're not scared Escalate early so you don't get friendzone	/r/seduction	30/07/22 08:16 AM
2	Can someone explain if I was cold approached? Start getting comfortable with the uncomfortable. Always assume attraction. Don't doubt yourself. Always assert when the situation is given	/r/seduction	30/07/22 08:10 AM
1	Is there a secret to enjoying bars and clubs? The best nightlife is overseas (Europe, Africa, Asia and Latin America). Don't loose hope. Clubs and Bars aren't the only place of social exchanges. Look for festivals, parades, cultural events, you'll have more of an advantage since it's a distinctive setting and less distractions to deal with.	/r/seduction	30/07/22 08:08 AM
2	how can you get someone to reply your ig stories and start flirting? Start facetime/calling on DM message. Make sure they follow you. Reciprocation is communication. Start posting your personality. Be expressive, go on adventures by yourself, pretty much switch it up. Engagement is key.	/r/seduction	30/07/22 08:08 AM
2	Facetime is your friend Facetime > Texting We can't waste time because our time is valuable.	/r/seduction	28/07/22 11:46 PM
4	Struggling with sexually escalating I once knew a girl like that. She had a goofy sense of humor but wasn't being afraid of being sexual. These type of girls are more easygoing and relaxed personality wise.	/r/seduction	27/07/22 08:33 PM
0	How often do girls agree to a date solely to be entertained free That's Gen Z. Have you talked to dudes older than your generation or from different locations? Gotta branch out your comfort zone to get a real taste of life.	/r/seduction	27/07/22 08:28 PM
1	Strategy: Why it's good to always start off as "friends" Unless you're trying to initiate a friends with a benefits vibe with the chick or become business partners, there's no benefit.	/r/seduction	27/07/22 08:23 PM
2	Talking to girls on the phone is super underrated If a girl can't answer phone calls, she shouldn't be fucking with me. I got to see if she's cool before I take her out. Phone calls give you a glimpse of a person's personality vs texting where it's just based on words. I get bored from texting and I lose interest.	/r/seduction	26/07/22 10:21 PM
2	How do I talk to and make progress with the gym receptionist? Yeah I just make these girls laugh while I having a poker face.	/r/seduction	26/07/22 10:06 PM
7	Tips for Better Conversations Game = gab of conversation. Everything flows when we just live in the present. This is more helpful for guys who are beginners, autistic or socially awkward. I have ADHD - too much and my brain goes into overthinking mode! What a joy!!	/r/seduction	26/07/22 09:58 PM
1	Just be yourself and talk to women like they're human beings and you will be drowning in attention! The key is being the most attractive of yourself. Men and women should ask themselves: Would I date me if I were the opposite gender? We all have strengths and weaknesses. Capitalize on our strengths. Improve on our weaknesses. As for operating with a facade. I notice that it's heavy in American culture vs when I was overseas. Being fake and superficial seems to be the norm. Here in New York, most of our communication is raw and unfiltered. Being pleasant, cool, and confident will not only help …	/r/seduction	26/07/22 09:48 PM
2	A study of 65k+ women finds that "Attractiveness" is not a top 5 feature that women look for. No wonder OLD sucks for men. Same here. How the fuck can you get a vibe from a fucking pixel LMAO Meeting people in real life is a wholesome vibe	/r/seduction	26/07/22 09:37 PM
2	Why can’t I bring myself to respond to attractive girls on dating apps? 23M Come with a playful vibe. Keep it brief. Mention a place you want to go and invite here. Date. I feel you about the dating apps scenario. Online communication in general lacks the nonverbal language (vocal tonality + eye contact) that is generally displayed in face to face communication. It's just words and images. I personally only meet girls in person	/r/seduction	26/07/22 09:27 PM
1	How do I make my texting less boring? This sounds like an afterschool special😂😂😂😂😂😂 Seriously, this texting culture is wild mango. "Text her this text her that" I loose interest pretty fast so I like to meetup instantly.	/r/seduction	26/07/22 08:02 PM
2	sad and down after she lost interest suddenly after 6 months of talking Only use the phone to schedule meetups Getting attached to one girl is scarcity. Explore your options. Have an abundant mentality. Did you really like her or did you enjoy the idea of her? Emotions can be deceiving. Real life is where the magic happens.	/r/seduction	26/07/22 07:50 PM
1	Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules? If you want to attract the best women = gravitate towards parks, upscale events, festivals, concerts, beaches, museums, art galleries. Pretty much any place that attracts fun, money or socialization. Being fearless, having social awareness, confidence and a positive outlook takes you a long way.	/r/seduction	24/07/22 11:34 PM
0	Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules? Preselection is the best selection. Whatever chases runs whatever is attractive is approached. Spot on!	/r/seduction	24/07/22 11:29 PM
19	Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules? Vibe and appearance. Image is powerful	/r/seduction	24/07/22 11:19 PM
4	Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules? Exactly it's mostly social programming. Being fearless and taking risks is what's life all about.	/r/seduction	24/07/22 11:18 PM
1	Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules? The best way to win is not playing. Lead your own way	/r/seduction	24/07/22 11:16 PM
6	Top reasons why technical and analytically intelligent people often fail at attracting women Spot on. Interpersonal skills and Emotional intelligence is very important.	/r/seduction	15/07/22 06:51 PM
3	Guys shit test you too! Having nothing to lose makes it easier to vet women. Vet her if she's fit your program. Vet her if she's cool mentally. Vet her if she's not an emotional scammer. Men do shit test based on competition. Some do it out of emotion reaction. Stay calm and collected.	/r/seduction	15/07/22 06:45 PM
1	Guys shit test you too! Same here. A take or leave it attitude made me less outcome dependent.	/r/seduction	15/07/22 06:41 PM
29	How to break out of small talk? Stop playing it safe . Start talking what's on your mind. Talk without a filter. Entertain yourself. Make humorous statements, one liners	/r/seduction	13/07/22 04:23 AM
1	How to deal with women testing you? There's 3 options 1.) Being aloof. Not caring means not being phased off from her. 2.) Reverse card. Responding with a playful sarcastic remark. 3.) Walking away	/r/seduction	12/07/22 02:50 PM
3	What are some funny lines I can use when joking about my shory height? Apparently I'm tall enough to dunk over 3 midgets	/r/seduction	12/07/22 05:34 AM
5	Tips on not freezing in the head when talking to women? Anxiety is the lack of action. Take girls off the pedestal they're just people. Talk without a filter. Humor yourself. It's all about self expression. The energy is what's important. If you can make a girl laugh you can do anything.	/r/seduction	12/07/22 02:39 AM
4	If attraction is non negotiable, what's the fastest way to find out if there is mutual attraction? It depends where you head is. For aromantic people, they experience attraction differently. They can find people sexually attractive but don't want a romantic relationship with them. They don't limerence nor crushes. I lost interest over girls when I realized their personality/lack of charisma didn't engage me. Short term attraction vs long term attraction Short term attraction works best with short term girls. More based on proximity and shallowness. This fades very quick. This is also called l…	/r/seduction	11/07/22 09:11 PM
3	If attraction is non negotiable, what's the fastest way to find out if there is mutual attraction? Plot twist: Being aromantic changes all of this. What's that? Pretty much, you find a person sexually attractive but don't want a romantic relationship with them. For aromantic people, they don't just go on feelings. They need a mental attraction or other qualities to be with that person.	/r/seduction	11/07/22 09:03 PM
1	Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoid Keep texting to a minimum. Only use text to schedule meetups. Texting too much kills attraction. Calling and facetime is far more effective. Text is just words it lacks the emotional response that enables attraction.	/r/seduction	11/07/22 02:20 PM
1	My experience dating Instagram models: DO NOT BE FOOLED Cool girls stand out. Don't worry you're fine	/r/seduction	09/07/22 08:40 PM
1	My experience dating Instagram models: DO NOT BE FOOLED It's a lot of entitlement. Not simping makes them go in rage. Literally...	/r/seduction	09/07/22 08:37 PM
3	My experience dating Instagram models: DO NOT BE FOOLED See through her looks don't get starstruck. She's just another girl. Social media is very fake. A beautiful illusion. An echo chamber for validation. DM'ing women on social media is a catch 22. You got a gang of simps knocking at her door🛖. It's not worth it because that's just becoming a fan. Curating your attention and energy makes you stand out. The narcissism and need for validation...it's an addictive cycle. Women DM'ed me before. I prefer women with no social media. The best girls I ever m…	/r/seduction	09/07/22 08:33 PM