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| 2 | The reason most women are indirect with rejections...is that we are afraid of retaliation.Women's imagination ITT: Woman: Sorry but I'm not interested. Man: Aaahh! You #&(*@*( Bitch! I'll KILL YOU! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Do you lose interest the moment a guy starts spending more time with you and giving you more attention and if so why?Reddit girls while chime in and tell her he's "love-bombing" her and manipulating her. They'll only be happy if they are periodically put down and ignored. Logically, they don't want to be. But in practice, they will stay with the guys who sometimes put them down or is mean to them so that when he is nice it means all the more to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 04:51 AM |
| 0 | It appears that either people on this sub secretly hold incelesque opinions or a bunch of incels have flooded this sub, knowing there are no rules.Yup. I'm here on vacation for Purge Week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 09:25 PM |
| 3 | The way people on here talk about ‘chad’ is hilariousI agree it was meant as hyperbole. Also, despite not being actual rape, it still opens up legal risks in 2021. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | “Men are protecters” doesn’t mean much to women since men are the ones we need protection fromThat's true. But you're not going to get rid of guns so it doesn't hurt to get one of your own. Of course you can still hurt yourself with your own gun. But still not a bad idea in certain places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:57 PM |
| 5 | I’m not going to lie to incelsThose are some nasty ass beans. Hella expensive too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:51 PM |
| 11 | Most women don't want/need a man with a 6 packOh you thought ZAC EFFRON's "dad bod" is good enough? How generous. It almost looks like he has the slightest bit of paunch when he's sitting down crunching. Here's his "good enough" dad bod standing: https://i.guim.co.uk/img/media/33421fbc3a09174daac93618ad026ff05325356d/0_0_750_591/master/750.jpg?width=700&quality=85&auto=format&fit=max&s=c81c46c1c54d7ad2fa652c7ae1a7cc3b Guys, OP is why females are ridiculous. The kind that think liking Henry Cavill in eyeglasses makes her accepting of "nerds"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:46 PM |
| 3 | So FDS women (see over 30) are essentially expired goods used up by Chad. Get them while they’re young and fresh boys!FDS: Chad used me so now I'm going to be a selfish cunt - that way I'll get a good man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:31 PM |
| 4 | I’m not going to lie to incelsPlease enlighten us, what are these beans you speak of? Putting aside Maslow's hierarchy of needs and (I assume) decades of psychology research - what are the beans? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:16 PM |
| 2 | "You're such a nice guy" is an insult.Agree. Being wanted or admired is so rare among humans. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:09 PM |
| 3 | "You're such a nice guy" is an insult.Has that ever happened in the history of the world? The word nice has a special connotation. Maybe they'd say great, or something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:08 PM |
| 6 | The way people on here talk about ‘chad’ is hilariousDrunk-raping or paying for it is not the same as being admired by women. Relative to the admiration and respect, the sex itself is almost inconsequential. (almost) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:04 PM |
| 6 | The way people on here talk about ‘chad’ is hilariousIt's a classic female fantasy, actually. In Titanic the old lady has probably lived a full life with many platonic and romantic relationships, likely at least one husband, possibly kids. But what does she reminisce about? The fleeting moments she spent with Leonardo DiCHADrio many decades ago on a boat. Her reminisces take up 3 hours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Why won't women admit that they are ruined by hypergamy and casual sex?female 5's choosing FWB with male 4's is unheard of. Why would she do that with thousands of eager Tinder options, including plenty of male 7's? Online Dating is a buffet for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:11 AM |
| 5 | Why won't women admit that they are ruined by hypergamy and casual sex?Yeah but female 5's think male 7's are in their league. Because men have to be hotter if they aren't willing to give relationships. The 50th percentile girl is not getting in an FWB with the 50th percentile guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Why won't women admit that they are ruined by hypergamy and casual sex?Fine. Change late 30s to late 40s. At some point either you can't compete with younger women for the hot guys or your standards of what constitutes a hot guy has been lowered. Correct? I'm 32 and I don't see nearly as many hot late-30s people as hot late-20s people. By 40s its pretty rare to be hot unless you're in the entertainment, fitness, or high-end sales industries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 02:20 AM |
| 4 | Why won't women admit that they are ruined by hypergamy and casual sex?FWB is usually something only Chads can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 02:14 AM |
| 7 | Why won't women admit that they are ruined by hypergamy and casual sex?So a girl has an FWB with a hot guy. She orgasms regularly with him. But the hot guy has other girls too and ultimately doesn't choose her for a LTR. (Ultimately every guy has to settle with only 1 girl, usually). This repeats a couple of times. Then when she's in her late 30s and can't get a hot guy for an FWB anymore (not only is it hard to compete with younger women, there are also fewer hot guys that age - they have either settled down or let themselves go), she will just settle for one of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 02:12 AM |
| 3 | Why won't women admit that they are ruined by hypergamy and casual sex?Instead of 'gettong upset" just don't date a woman who isn't attracted to you in the first place. You said "bonding doesn't really get ruined with too many partners - women just become more realistic (which is a good thing)." So what if she is attracted to you when you're both in your late 30s? Do you not date any women or just date her anyway and hate her for it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Russian sluts are best slutsConvinced me. And you're not kidding about winter: https://editorial01.shutterstock.com/wm-preview-1500/1661017a/1b639196/presidential-elections-moscow-russia-shutterstock-editorial-1661017a.jpg But mail order brides will get a greencard, leave you, bring over her drunken russian bf, and have him pummel you if you complain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Can women get orgasms from sex with guys they aren't attracted to?Why? technique or something else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | These are the 9/11 hijackers. This morning I masturbated to each one of the guys in the red box until my fingers fell off. The other ones are too fucking ugly for my fantasies. Is this normal?I can see most women liking Alnami. How'd you leave my man Alghamdi out? He's hotter than most of the red-boxers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 08:54 PM |
| -1 | Does anyone actually still believe in an Asian "fetish"?I think you're describing japanese porn videos. Is a japanese guy doing the fucking? Is the penis usually pixelated? It's just a common theme in japanese porn. I don't know why but I like it. Wish American porn had more "disinterested fucking" videos like they make - girls getting fucked while reporting the news, eating dinner, teaching a class, working in an office, etc. I'm not sure what you think that proves though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Chad chasers should be shamedNo they don't. They've said many times that "ugly" guys will treat you just as bad as hot guys will - and so you might as well date a hot guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How many of you would convert for a girl?Sure. I'm Indian though and might stand out or not be accepted into that community. I'm agnostic which doesn't mean I don't believe in god - I'm open to performing a religion and being unsure if it is true or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone actually still believe in an Asian "fetish"?Porn websites have literally every possible category because men enjoy diversity. I myself have searched for every race at one point or another + some other keyword. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Your average FDS kwin!!!! (Remember ladies, career success =\= being HV partner)Said it before and will say it again: FDS girl's biggest problem is that Chads aren't going to bother to respect or treat one of the cum-napkins well. If they went for their looks-match before age 32 (in her case a short fat bald man) than they wouldn't have all their current anger and despair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 08:30 PM |
| 0 | Since it's purge week on this shithole of a subMaybe. But there's literally no evidence that women are better at science or engineering. The few female- tribes that anthropologists know of are pretty backwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Hi helloI suppose we could put the founders of Tinder's heads on a pike in the town square? But it wouldn't help long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Men's standards for women are too high.If it helps my standards dropped significantly since high school. Everyone wants Cheerleader Stacy and Quarterback Chad in high school. I'm actually very surprised that at your age you were willing to drop your standards so much. If you asked him when he's lonely at 30 he'll probably have a very different answer. I know I would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 08:16 PM |
| 2 | What do y’all think of the forum lipstick alley?Problem with FDS women is that they are usually not desireable women: overweight, single-mothers, non-preferred race (really just black unfortunately), etc. Desirable women don't need a strategy - they can easily get handsome men who kow-tow to them. FDS women in the meantime post pictures of their "engaged to myself" rings and one recent pic of a fat woman with her "gift of a car to myself". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone actually still believe in an Asian "fetish"?Yeah, that's their excuse for the high AFWM pairing levels. They also write a ton of articles about it complaining (but really humblebragging) about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone actually still believe in an Asian "fetish"?No shit. Guys who have a fetish to fuck the tailpipe of their car exist. What I obviously mean is that does anyone believe it is as prevalent as asian women make it out to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Black men are more impressive then white men at picking up womenYou missed one thing: Black men have benefited from hip hop culture/media GREATLY when it comes to women. Imagine if an Indian guy came up to a girl and said this like a black guy would: "Hey girl, I don't wanna be disrespectful or nothin', but I jus wanna say that behind is POPPIN' in them jeans! Damn girl! U sweatin' a nigga up in here. :) :)" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Be honest, what is your opinion about women?Would you fuck me? I'd fuck me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 07:48 PM |
| 0 | If men like sex so much why aren't they becoming sex slaves?Would any women ever enter? Maybe on a very rare occasion one will wander in either by accident or out of curiousity - and the men will fight each other over her and rape her as she tries to run away. That's just nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 07:44 PM |
| 0 | Be honest, what is your opinion about women?I hate them. But I also love them and want to touch their soft skin and long hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 07:41 PM |
| 0 | If men like sex so much why aren't they becoming sex slaves?How in god's green earth are you going to get women, much less "hot women", to work in a sex farm milking men? You have to pay a dominatrix $200-500 an hour for that kind of treatment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Just like The Titanic, they think this is a what a good love story is."....thanks" lmao. I can't believe they think this is a compliment and not a huge insult. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/10/20 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Post-Wall 38F confused as to why she's not able to find Chad for a LTR via OLD. They all just want sex!They'll never believe they're too old. A women at 40, assuming she even overcomes infertility and conceives, has a 1 in 3 chance of giving birth to baby with a trisomy disorder like Down's Syndrome. Insanity. Forget MGTOWers for a second, 35 really is the cuttoff, period. It's over. It's done. You can't play. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/10/20 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Where have all the Good Times gone?Those would require a lot of difficult reading, especially philosophy. Apparently hers is a PhD in dance (specifically tango). | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/10/20 04:53 AM |
| 8 | Matched with a girl on Bumble, looked through her Instagram and found this gem... bullet dodged!!She's not wrong except for the initial assumption. 90-99% of women who think they are a "cute girl" are not. It's rare to be a cute girl past 30 and almost never past mid-30s. But if they want to do the nuclear option and wait for Chad for as long as it takes that's their right. I think many people in their early 30s today will end up being alone forever due to women refusing to "settle" to someone equal to their level. It's unfortunate. But what can you do. But please don't bother men when you'… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/10/20 04:11 AM |
| 2 | So what if you've had a lot of partners?Definitely. But this is a separate issue. It's not about your desirability. It's about rationalizing why you slept with some other guy(s) quickly and not with him (or even if you did sleep with him just as quickly - why other guys too? why isn't he special?). | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/10/20 04:20 AM |
| 5 | So what if you've had a lot of partners?"Anyone can be born gorgeous - what's so great about that?" It's not a heroic test of doing something difficult to prove your worth. It's just that you were "transformed" in some significant way into a more desirable partner - that's usually about appearance but could be something else as well. For example: e.g. "It's okay if you gave it to him very easy in the past because that was your level. But he would have never gotten you at your current, much higher, level." | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/10/20 04:07 AM |
| 7 | So what if you've had a lot of partners?Really? 'Who have you been with before me?' has never come up? That's pretty hard to believe. Did you agree "it shall never be spoken"? And btw men fill in blanks just like women do. We put together a complete picture based on a million different small pieces of info just like women do. For example, a story of you going to a frat party with your girlfriends and drinking too much. If we don't know your n-count, than our "estimate" goes up after that story. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/10/20 04:03 AM |
| 8 | The reason r/WAATGM is offensive is because we make women uncomfortable about marrying the top 10% they think they deserve. If we "NiceGuys™" and "incels" don't want women with depreciating looks, kids, and a promiscuous past, then what does that say about the high-value men with better options?And then they she shack up with the guy that runs towards them - a pedophile - and leaves their poor kid unattended with him/it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/09/20 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Dear future Mr Right, please hurry up and find me. Fall in love with me and marry me. Will you please? 😂Imagine being shocked (!) and depressed because the hottest guy you know doesn't want to marry you because of your awkward/unfunny personality. Then imagine getting sympathy for it from your personal simp army. Just because she can't have her pick among mega-chad 1%ers doesn't mean she has a dating problem. There are thousands of men out there that will literally pay her rent just to touch her feet - AND SHE KNOWS IT. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/09/20 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Woman complains that she only met fuckboys in her life, absolutely no men were ever good to her in a relationship, and makes a generalization that all men are lazy.Women started the 1960s sexual revolution and the the only group it benefits long term are the top 1% of men. Everyone else is worse off. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/09/20 07:37 PM |
| 32 | Left over woman doesn't want to be called "strong" or "self-sufficient" she wants to be wifed up.Now that I’m older I know what I want and that makes me SEXY! Do you incels know how many hot young men on Tinder want to use me as a cum rag at 1am? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/09/20 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Poetic Justice: The Lament of the Post Wall WomanMen build cities, fight wars and amass resources for pretty women. Thus women should use their youthful beauty to marry in their 20s to men in their 30s. Instead, they use it to have casual sex with the hottest young men for years until their mid 30s or later - and then with their youthful beauty gone or almost gone - they expect to get the best men for marriage. Putting aside what's "fair" or not - it's just not logical. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/08/20 01:49 PM |
| 19 | Looking for my forever love to take care of another mans kidI thought it was just code for white guys only. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/08/20 10:34 AM |
| 35 | Single mom's ex takes her in and provides for her during the pandemic, she complains that he's not doing more for her.Hey. I just wanted you to know that you can't just say the word "bankruptcy" and expect anything to happen. "I didn't say it - I declared it." | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/08/20 07:59 PM |
| 1 | The interview process be likeAsians (especially Indians) are definitely not on the left side. The anti-affirmative action for medical school or engineering is worse than being white. Don't pee on me and tell me it's raining! | /r/MGTOW | 04/08/20 04:28 AM |
| 10 | This man is perfect but... [Long post]I'm a guy and the only reason I'm replying is b/c it sounds like you're being groomed for prostitution in Florida. A "relationship" where he takes a stranger across states lines and tells her who to have sex with? Add to this you you are in an unstable/vulnerable position and are practically homeless. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/07/20 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Brought to you by our very own Kevin32, this poor whore can't find a man because she's been a literal prostitute and when men find that out, they vanish for some reason. (This is the rest of the story.)The internet guys on sexworker forums are definitely not "professional clean cut men". | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/07/20 08:10 PM |
| 14 | Red flag walking, literallyMaybe in Scandinavia. In the US it's 96th percentile. Or top 4%. https://dqydj.com/height-percentile-calculator-for-men-and-women/ So 24 out of 25 people are automatically disqualified for this woman. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/07/20 09:19 PM |
| 2 | This guy dodged a bulletApplebee’s, TGI, Chili’s, Ruby Tuesday - they all taste fine to me. I’m convinced some people pretend to hate the food in an attempt to look more cultured or high class or something. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/07/20 07:22 PM |
| 5 | Rare sighting of a wahmen, her crotchspawn and the baby-daddy, all in one car! Happy Fourth!I suppose it could be her mentally slow brother who she drives to daycare lol. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/07/20 08:41 PM |
| 1 | What’s with the trend of very attractive women being single compared to average women?They get attention so often, and asked out so often, that it's hard for them to choose. I think this relevant: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Overchoice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 09:50 PM |
| 7 | Where are all the consistent men? I'm ready now!I'm going to go contrarian and say this isn't that bad. Team Lead at law firm - paralaegal lead makes around $60k which is respectable single independent mom - much better than single "stay at home" moms two teenage boys, almost have my boys raised - respectable and not trying to find a father for another man's kid Queen to find her King - harmless euphemism age - negative but what can you do fatness - negative, but perhaps she accepts it in her partner which would be fair pic in law office bath… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/06/20 05:00 PM |
| 2 | How does she expect to have a LTR if she can't manage to get a second date? 0 for 200 ...the odds are not in her favor at this point.At 48 she needs to settle for an average 58-year-old. Boyfriend applications is a litle hilarious. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/06/20 04:16 AM |
| 4 | Anyone know why this active, open-minded, smart, genuine, happy, introspective, 32F passionate volunteer firefighter keeps getting ghosted? This isn't the way it was back before the 2008 recession.They didn't ghost you. They told you they didn't want to continue. Probably because a midget volunteer firefighter sounds hella annoying. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/06/20 04:03 AM |
| 8 | Hmmm I wonder why they’re still single...One thing I've noticed is that poor people compare wealth with very different things than middle-class people who compare with different things than rich people. Nobody cares that your Hyundai is 2019 vs. 2018 vs. 2017. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/05/20 04:45 AM |
| 25 | Divorced, "curvy" single mom looking for 6ft Chad to commit. What about the last guy?"Not Hispanic, btw. Italiano" She's so cultured and European. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/05/20 12:36 PM |
| 26 | Where have all the good men gone? These sassy, sophisticated, solvent women say they are struggling to find other halves that can measure up.Men, indoctrinated over generations to pursue younger women, are instinctively reluctant to consider those of a similar age to their own, even ones who look youthful and attractive. Didn't know I was "indoctrinated" into finding youth and fertility attractive. Damn sexist society. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/05/20 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Size of status differential for “career” womenHypothetical: Why is dermatology so competitive to get? Why is doing a fellowship 'indentured servitude' when you only care about learning the field and not about money? (Coincidentally, the highest paying sub-specialty) For that matter why 500k in private practice and not academic dermatology? How does a non-medical person know how prestigious where you work is if you don't explain it? Unless you currently train at Mass Gen and like to refer to it as Harvard - most people don't even know presti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/20 01:21 PM |
| 15 | Size of status differential for “career” womenI'm a guy who found your post my accident. You won't like my answer - but everything you claim is colored by your viewpoint. For e.g., I know he didn't find out you will be "averaging $500k in a few years" because a simple google search shows that Dermatologists average $350k (Clearly you are financially motivated and so will make more working hard in private practice, cultivating rich patients, and utilizing NP's to save time - but he wouldn't know that from a google search). You clearly told h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/20 02:36 AM |
| 13 | Carol had her life all planned out, now at 45, with fetid eggs and a Vassar degree, she's wondering WAATGM?Most couples have careers while starting a family. I think her problem was more so that she didn't find a partner she considered "good enough" But rather than sounding overly picky, it reads better to claim it was for her "career". | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/04/20 02:48 PM |
| 36 | Where Are All The Good Men? Quarantine EditionAs an Indian let me tell you - arranged marriage pairs you with your fair match. That means she'd get paired up with the "neckbeard". A good looking successful man her age would be paired up with a beautiful 25 year old, not her. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/04/20 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Men who call their women bro and says that you're one of his best friends, red flag?Yeah it's weird. But it sounds like he just got excited and his brain slipped up. I think I'd probably say "Hell yeah, man!" but if there's a lady with me I didn't really mean to call her a man lol. Now if he's doing it in regular speech - than yes, it would be very weird. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/20 01:02 PM |
| 1 | I’m 40 divorced and only want a tall man that will give me a child. Oh and I want to move soon to a warmer beach state.It will take a few years so - 45 - and the prevalence of Down's Syndrome at maternal age of 45 is a whopping 1 in 32. You're really rolling the dice for a lifetime of hardship and, quite possibly, regret. She took great care of herself and looks great for her age - but it just doesn't make sense to take that kind of risk unless you literally can't get ANY younger woman. In other words - for what she wants - she's unfortunately bottom of the barrel. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/04/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | How can a working-class woman hope to marry a MC/UMC man?If you can meet them you can. Meaning if you only associate and date working class people you will probably marry a working class man. Good thing for women is that men don't care nearly as much about the woman's socioeconomic class. Also, if you were so inclined - women can easily trade their looks for financial stability (meaning - dating a guy uglier than you but who is more financially successful). | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/20 06:13 AM |
| 6 | The market value of e-thots is crashing. Supply and demand crash course.Why would you advocate these girls getting a middle man to fleece you? You have pay for him AND her then. What kind of stupidity is that? And if you're saying it for her benefit - i doubt they actually make more in the end once the pimp takes the majority and "holds it" for her. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/04/20 04:15 PM |
| 0 | If a woman only has value for a certain limited time, shouldn’t she take advantage of that as much as she can?You're writing as if any woman cares that some men don't have sex. Every man knows, at least on some level, whether he is attractive enough or whether he needs to supplement with resources to get a mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 01:06 PM |
| 0 | If a woman only has value for a certain limited time, shouldn’t she take advantage of that as much as she can?It's a lot easier to fall in love with someone and forge an emotional connection that lasts until old age if they found you attractive in the beginning. When an old man looks at his old wife he isn't noticing the wrinkles and age spots he's seeing her eyes and remembering their youth and the love they had. The same thing goes with men. Some women still love their fat bald husbands but that's because they formed an emotional connection back when they were younger and more vibrant. You simply can'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 01:01 PM |
| 2 | If a woman only has value for a certain limited time, shouldn’t she take advantage of that as much as she can?Fair point. But 21 is of course too young to marry. You'll need a few years to find the best guy. Someone who is decent looking, professionally successful (or on a good track), very responsible, and treats you nice. You can probably wait til your late 20s and still have access to most of the top men you could ever get in your life to choose from. But there is a big difference between doing this and dating only for sex and fun for 10-15 years and then just starting your search as a less-attractiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 12:54 PM |
| 1 | If a woman only has value for a certain limited time, shouldn’t she take advantage of that as much as she can?I'm a man, but if I was a hetero woman I'd probably marry a decently attractive, good-earning, nice-natured man while I'm still in my prime (after some dating and careful vetting). It's easy to fall in love with people when they're still beautiful and then form an emotional connection that allows for love to last into old age. Fact of the matter is you'll have a much harder time getting a man to fall in love with you and build an emotional connection if he doesn't find you attractive in the begi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Seriously Guys, is there REALLY a huge problem with dating????And how are you going to advertise you want an LTR and not casual sex? The path to both is the same - you first have to get a girl to go out with you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/20 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women should have sex and start families with men they don't sexually desire for the good of "society"?I had no clue the vast majority of men only work because it will help them get a wife. lol how could you not know that? [Q4MEN] Do you value the happiness of men over the freedom/happiness of women? I think the world would work better if women stop pretending they care about men. And in actuality, men do care more about women than the other way around as a result of chivalry (and possibly instinct). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/20 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Is becky buxx a thing?Definitely. One example is a corporate lawyer who my sister dogsits for. She obviously does very well but she's kind of plain looking chinese-american girl. Her boyfriend on the other hand is a tall fit blonde guy that looks like an Instragram model. As far as I know he doesn't cheat on her, but he also lives in her condo rent-free, doesn't work, and has her cook/clean for him. In some ways becky buxx has an even worse deal than beta buxx men. At least the beta buxx men aren't also cleaning afte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/20 12:08 PM |
| 1 | If women are able to sleep with attractive, valuable men, why would they choose to sleep with lesser men?It's not completely logical. If you play musical chairs with only a limited number of very attractive men, then there's a good chance you'll end up without one at the age of 35 with only unattractive men as an option (slim pickings because fewer unmarried HVM at that age and your own age lessens your chances with who's remaining). On the other hand, if you "settle" for a more average looking man early on you are safe from that reality. No women wants to think about this but the fact remains ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/20 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you know many women who refuse to date men within their "league"?Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 04:19 PM |
| 5 | Do you know many women who refuse to date men within their "league"?Hetero women think most men are ugly so that doesn’t mean much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: What's an advantage associated with your gender that you're willing to admit?My biological clock is not nearly as severe and physical femininity in appearance degrades fast - starts at 30 and definitely happens by 40. I would be worried about "maximizing" it before it's too late. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: What's an advantage associated with your gender that you're willing to admit?For myself, and my friends, it's actually kind of pleasurable to maintain your car and even her car. So that one works out well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: What's an advantage associated with your gender that you're willing to admit?This sounds like a masculine fantasy post made by an insecure man-child. 'Big strong rich man who takes charge!' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 05:03 AM |
| 5 | Q4A: What's an advantage associated with your gender that you're willing to admit?Interesting - because women online make it sound that they're constantly afraid you're going to rape them. Is it partly just another way to play the victim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 05:00 AM |
| 1 | How can a woman respect men knowing that they all want to fuck her?I don't think they respected us much anyway. Most of the noise is about blaming men for x,y and z. As if I did anything to any woman. Life sucks, you can't always be whatever you want. That was a lie. But take solace in the fact that your situation is probably still better than some people (i.e. short or ethnic men) that deal with the complete opposite (sexual invisibility). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 04:52 AM |
| 2 | The "average man" is not struggling to get laidI don’t believe you had tinder hookups with cute girls without being in the upper quartile of men, at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Men: if a woman's male friends ALWAYS end up trying to fuck or date her, does that mean she isn't interesting/funny/good enough to be friends with?Not really. Doesn’t matter how interesting or uninteresting you are, men will still want to fuck you. Also it’s not about being good enough- it’s just that women are very different to hang out with. Men are usually going to have more fun hanging out with other men. The vibe is different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 10:33 AM |
| 4 | Q4RP: Would you move in with a woman?Interesting. Question- since you own it outright so you expect them to pay rent or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever heard about a doctor/lawyer or affluent man dating a lower class woman (janitress, cashier...)? SeriouslyYes but they then become stay at home moms. So they are not counted as a waitress, cashier, etc. The ones that keep working are the ones with better careers (teacher/nurse or better). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/20 10:24 AM |
| 2 | Offbrand Pamela Anderson needs your support. Those two kids aren’t going to raise themselves!The standards are so low that the fact that they're from the same father and she was married to him seems impressive in this day and age. And she knows it - that's why it's the first line. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/02/20 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Women happy to learn she's 2 degrees seperated from Elon Musk - so imagine all the other HVM that must be within reach for her! Others post on their separations from billionaires like Zuckerburg and Bill Gates as well as Hollywood Celebrities.High Value Man - It's a hypergamists' slang for the "best" men, usually tall handsome white millionaire. | /r/MGTOW | 13/01/20 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Women happy to learn she's 2 degrees seperated from Elon Musk - so imagine all the other HVM that must be within reach for her! Others post on their separations from billionaires like Zuckerburg and Bill Gates as well as Hollywood Celebrities.This. I realize now it's not clear lol. It means they think that world-famous HVM are within reach for all of them. The delusion and hypergamy is reaching mach level. | /r/MGTOW | 12/01/20 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Okay, "Prince" Harry is officially simped out. Look at this article, Harry is fucking going around asking top Hollywood people to give Meghan Markle a job...She's crafty. Having a Royal act as your agent means a lot. Few people have the cachet to walk up to the the CEO of Disney at a party and ask him for acting work. (BTW - it worked - she quickly got a voiceover job contract from Disney) | /r/MGTOW | 12/01/20 07:21 PM |
| 29 | More of us need to do this the moment we realize that we are either being put in the friendzone or being used.In 2020 they might charge you with theft instead of forcing her to pay. | /r/MGTOW | 11/01/20 07:45 PM |
| 23 | Desperate Speed dating in my town... :)[wind blowing through a wheat field] | /r/MGTOW | 10/01/20 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Am learning to drow , what do you think ( its a fictional game of thrones character as you can see I put watermark in her hair the wolf of the Stark's kings of the North )Lol it looks like she got punched hard in the face. | /r/MGTOW | 10/01/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Meghan Markle may be the smartest woman who ever livedEJMR? | /r/MGTOW | 10/01/20 07:53 PM |
| 6 | [Advice] Mean girl at work, also how not to become the older bitter woman?I'm a guy lurker but I just wanted to say it's fascinating to see this from the other side. I do have a tip for you though - you're not quite old yet. You still have up to 10 years left in regards to being too old to be sexually competitive. And the fact that she's mean to you is sort of proof of that. When you're too old to be competitive this kind of person will probably ignore you. So that's an upside. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/20 02:50 PM |
| 2 | What do men look for when they're looking at girls?I don’t know why that’s hard to believe. Otherwise what’s the point of having a gf or eventual wife over just a prostitute? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men- are you ashamed of dominance mimicry?Women are much more into fashion labels and fashion trends. There’s no male equivalent to all those fake handbags with LV or Coach plastered on it a million times. Even when men love certain cars or sports teams it’s really a love of the thing and not to show off a brand. Personally I dislike logos on my possessions in general because I feel like a walking advertisement. And I wear the same conservative haircut for the last 20 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 01:45 PM |
| 1 | What do men look for when they're looking at girls?A lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 01:42 PM |
| 2 | What do men look for when they're looking at girls?No. I want my gf to also be my best friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you think we should be teaching young men that it’s okay not to be stereotypically masculine?Pretty much everyone in this thread said it’s good to teach boys not to cry. I would 100% condone my wife teaching my son to show less emotion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you think we should be teaching young men that it’s okay not to be stereotypically masculine?Stupidest comment in this thread. Is gender a social construct too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you think we should be teaching young men that it’s okay not to be stereotypically masculine?It actually a privilege to have those expectations placed on you. Feminists want to take away that privilege so they can compete with men more easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you think we should be teaching young men that it’s okay not to be stereotypically masculine?No more damaging than exercising and studying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you think we should be teaching young men that it’s okay not to be stereotypically masculine?Men are happier in masculine roles. Feminism talks of masculinity being toxic because masculinity causes them intense competition in the workplace. But they know masculinity helps men and young men were spiritually emotionally and economically healthier in the 1950s vs today. So yeah we should teach our sons to play sports, not cry, take charge, and compete. They’ll grow up to be a hell of a lot happier and more successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 01:10 PM |
| 7 | I like this.Just eat a steak dinner without the steak, bro! OK, but why? | /r/MGTOW | 09/01/20 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Is the wall a wall, or is it more of a hill?Only half of men are balding in their 40s. I'm lucky in that balding is entirely genetic and there are men in their 80s with a full head of hair in my family tree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 12:04 PM |
| 0 | Men don’t acknowledge that there are women who men don’t notice out there. In fact, these women are most likely the majority.Yes, if you're above 40 or fat than we don't notice you. But if you take that out of the equation something like 80% of the remaining are noticed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4 men - do your significant others actually serve as therapists? not a shit postI got dumped when I told my ex gf I was depressed too often. The emotional labor consisted of me saying I’m sad (nothing further) and her telling me to play some video games (I never play video games). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 10:20 AM |
| 8 | Referring to other MGTOW as “Kings” is cringe as hell. Stop doing it.Agreed. Just acknowledge each other has fellow men. Being a man is more than enough. Everything on earth starts and ends with a man. | /r/MGTOW | 08/01/20 02:08 AM |
| 3 | How important do you think sexual desire is for women in a relationship?If a woman desired you would unwashed dishes really stand in the way? It's just an excuse like when they say they're on their period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Is the wall a wall, or is it more of a hill? Their smv only decreased to young men. Ha! You see men grow old with the women they love and then assume these older men would find these older women more attractive than younger women if they were strangers? I assure you almost no 40 year old man prefers a 40 year old woman to a 30 year old woman. What happened is either (A) they grew old together - which is lovely - or (B) if it's a new relationship, he settled for an older woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Do short haircuts on older women bring about their wall earlier just like balding with middle aged men?Yes but at the same time long hair can look ridiculous on older women. Older women are unwanted because they’re old. There’s nothing they can fix or change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Do guys want a "Pick Me" girl?Everyone else already said it- but who is she a pick me for? I’m guessing only hot guys. Hot guys don’t really have any problem in modern dating. It’s the other 90 to 95% of men who have a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Do guys honestly think that virgins are more likely to try new stuff out?It’s a fact that women in their 30s will not get the hottest men on Tinder. When she “settles” for someone closer to her, she’s not going to be doing the same stuff in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Its perfectly reasonable for women to be selective when using OLD.Women love their hot one night stand more than the regular guy who gives her a foot massage and takes her out to dinner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Its perfectly reasonable for women to be selective when using OLD.Yes. But I think it screws it up for both men AND women (the only winner is Chad, lol). There aren’t enough hot muscly men to be monogamous partners to all the women who want them. By the time people reach their mid 30s the result is bitter sexually inexperienced men and bitter women who can’t get Chad to commit to monogamy. At this point the woman is typically ready to “settle” for a regular looking guy but tbh every hetero guy wants or at least highly prefers female youth. You can stay sexuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Sexually unsuccessful men and the anger phaseCan’t speak for other men. But it’s mostly about the lies and huge amounts of wasted time money and effort. This is pre-Tinder though. The next generation of men pretty much know the deal with women by their mid 20s at the latest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 03:26 PM |
| 27 | Go your own way, my Kings. There is no future in this, and this is what they want from you. Look at the insanity in her face and the despair in his. He has lost all that makes him who he is.When you have to induce your own children to vomit just to get a BJ... | /r/MGTOW | 07/01/20 04:59 AM |
| 5 | Is it weird that I’m only into Europeans ?Equally attracted, but until the meme was mentioned it was only Euro. And any Euro but only Japanese Asian - and thus no Asian - because Japanese are rare. Cmon it’s ok to be a meme. East Asian wanting white men is such a meme that PBS made a mini documentary on it! Google “do Asian women have white fever?” | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/19 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Why don't we encourage other men to seek status in finding a female partnerI agree (because of hypergamy). I was responding to the part where I'm delusional for thinking a doctor and steelworker could have anything in common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Why don't we encourage other men to seek status in finding a female partnerDisagree. I'm in medical school right now (look at my post history) and I worked jobs for several years between college and medical school that pay less than a steelworker. I'm still the same person. Still the same moral values, entertainment preferences, spiritual and political views. Granted, I could find two compatible doctors more easily than a doctor and steelworker, but it'd be far from impossible or even surprising. This goes double for OP's case where her specialty is EM, which tends to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Why don't we encourage other men to seek status in finding a female partnerYeah that's what "/s" means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Why don't we encourage other men to seek status in finding a female partnerThey could talk about their job or something besides their job. Unless you are a theoretical physicist or a horrible communicator, your job is not so complicated that a reasonable adult wouldn't be able to understand the *interesting* parts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Why don't we encourage other men to seek status in finding a female partnerNo, you have to be a genius to understand what a distal radial fracture or an indirect hernia is. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 04:28 AM |
| 0 | Why don't we encourage other men to seek status in finding a female partnerMen don't seek or shun it. They're just indifferent. Women on the other hand seek it. Also, just LOL at an EM doc saying she can't date a steelworker because "she doesn't' think he could understand the complexity of her job". Women can't just come out and say it but have to make up these ridiculous excuses. Does your partner need to know how to do your job? And is emergency medicine, arguably one of the least academic fields in medicine with the shortest training timelines and day-to-day work ro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 04:16 AM |
| 8 | [Q4Men] Men who are not conventionally attractive, has dating gotten easier as you entered your 30s vs your 20s? What have you noticed?Are you from 2010? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YtQXSbR0UgM Lifting is still important for other reasons though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 04:10 AM |
| 3 | The absolute state of womenWhy would someone want someone else's low-IQ, special-needs, crack-addicted baby? | /r/MGTOW | 11/12/19 11:06 PM |
| 2 | What are the lowest classes of men when it comes to dating?*Low testosterone men. Do you just mean fat or not muscular enough? Because if women can measure your T-levels so well why do doctors need a blood test just to tell if you are below normal range or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you have Chad's looks? The go out and be quiet test of your looks level.1%. You are not considering all the uglier people who know they have no chance at the bar and so don't even go out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 03:30 PM |
| 1 | I think guys are much more selective than they realizeThis is what OP doesn't get. Just b/c we only approach a small subset of the women we're attracted to doesn't mean we're being selective. That would be a complete perversion of the definition of being selective. It's like saying "Wow, out of thousands of colleges, you're only applying to Florida State, University of Central Florida, and Pensacola Community College? Not Harvard, Princeton, Northwestern, MIT, Emory, Yale, Cornell, Stanford, Vanderbilt....wow you must be very selective!" lmaooooo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/19 12:06 AM |
| 4 | [CMV] in 2019 the sexual marketplace is a "Fair Game" since there's transparency of informationMost single older women are seeking for a relationship, and not many men are looking for one. You're thinking of Chads or guys who can date a lot. But in 2019 most men take months before they can get a date that leads to sex. So it's rational for them to want to keep a relationship once they have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so triggered by sexually unsucess*cel*ful men?One Word: Chadfish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | On nice guys...If you want something and someone literally comes to your door offering to sell it to you - how is that an imposition? More like a convenience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do some men gatekeep nerdier hobbies or interests against women?There's a stereotype where women engage in whatever is "cool" on social media in a very superficial way. e.g. Cosplaying and caring more about looking sexy than about the product/story or "playing" video games and caring more about looking sexy and being a "gamer chick" /gamer culture. Take this for example: https://s3.amazonaws.com/ebaumsworld.prod/uploads1571349432100-72370354_2972864329394900_1517034667159584768_n.jpg PS - This isn't my beef though. I'm just giving an explanation. Personally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 09:33 PM |
| 2 | What would you do if your spouse suggested having an open relationship?Future Spouse: I would get very upset, accuse her of tricking me, and then divorce her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Why should women care about the sexual and dating issues of men?Well it would seem that either a majority, or at least a majority of powerful men, do. For example, if it's just per-capita or per-contribution to the product - you'd think there'd be more Chinese-American and Indian-American CEOs in US technology companies. Instead we have pro-affirmative action for women in engineering programs and people like Sheryl Sandberg are COO of Facebook and others like Mayer, Wojcicki, Rometty, Whitman, Catz, and Burns are/were CEOs of Yahoo, Youtube, IBM, HP, Oracle,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Good looking guys and feminine looking guys tend to be much nicer than bad looking guys??Even if you aren't one of the women who would call an ugly guy complimenting them "creepy", compliments by ugly men are just not well received. At best: an awkward thank you and a quick diversion of the eyes to make sure he doesn't think he has a chance. People think men are clueless and don't pick up on signs - but we're not THAT clueless. It's hurts, it's awkward, most women don't appreciate it - so why do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Why should women care about the sexual and dating issues of men?So all of that female affirmative action, believe-women, anti-rape-culture, toxic-masculinity, girls-in-coding, stop-wage-gap stuff is not supported by a significant subset of men? It's all done against the best efforts of men, who supposedly are the patriarchy and have all the power? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Good looking guys and feminine looking guys tend to be much nicer than bad looking guys??I cant remember off the top of mg head if an unattracfive guy complimented me. Maybe i dont remember. If an unattractive guy complimented you - you would think he wants you and would call him creepy. Ugly guys slowly learn this and in a attempt to not be labelled creepy - don't compliment women. At least that's my experience as a unattractive guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What determines if a certain occupation is attractive in a man?High-paying and Masculine. Enlisted soldier would be masculine but not high-paying (but might be enough for women from a small-town). Anesthetist Nurse would be high-paying but not masculine. Academic Researcher is neither. Software engineer is high-paying but only somewhat masculine (in the sense that most are males). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 04:58 PM |
| 3 | How can "toxic" masculinity be the cause of male dysfunction (suicide, violence, incels, etc.) when men are less masculine today then ever before?I don't know why people ask this. Obviously masculinity can't be quantified other than with a subjective proxy. But fine - In what way are people MORE masculine now then 1950s-70s? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/11/19 09:06 PM |
| 2 | How can "toxic" masculinity be the cause of male dysfunction (suicide, violence, incels, etc.) when men are less masculine today then ever before?I can't believe the idea that men act less masculine today than in the past is controversial. But fine - In what way are people MORE masculine now then 1950s-70s? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/11/19 09:06 PM |
| 2 | How can "toxic" masculinity be the cause of male dysfunction (suicide, violence, incels, etc.) when men are less masculine today then ever before?I can't believe the idea that men act less masculine today than in the past is controversial. But fine - In what way are people MORE masculine now then 1950s-70s? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/11/19 09:06 PM |
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