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| 40 | Don't cry, beg or show emotion or over communicate. State what you want then leave when it's not met. Men enjoy the begging, crying and emotional outbursts because they know this means you're wrapped around their finger and will stay. It is a massive ego boost for them to have that power over youA guy I was seeing in the past told me it turned him on/actually gave him a boner when he ghosted me and I was spamming his phone to get him to pick up. He admitted to knowing what he did was shitty too. Never again. I act exactly like you do now and feel so much better now that I won’t allow a man to disrespect me in that way again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Casual Sex ConfusionI also went through a casual sex phase but realized what I really craved was physical intimacy and having sex was a quick (albeit short lasting) fix. That is why you might feel off after and why they’re no longer satisfying. Once I realized that I would need an actual caring partner to have those feelings satisfied, as well as realized how many men don’t care about sexual health (especially those casually hooking up), I decided to stop cold turkey. It really is a self-control issue as when you s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 05:36 PM |
| 76 | Reading a relationship book made me realise I don't want a relationship that muchCompletely agree on the unsafe part. Not too long ago I ended up having sex with a guy on the second date. During sex he hit my cervix too hard, causing me to experience vasovagal syncope (basically fainting). And he shamed me for it. Said it was weird. Wasn’t concerned with my health at all. Tried to unlock the bathroom door while I was recovering from it. Overall acted like he was the victim and I was a sketchy person - even though in all aspects I would have been considered the one suffering … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 03:39 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Check-inI wanted to share what’s happened to me recently in hopes of getting good perspective from others so that I can healthily move on from this hiccup in my life. I met this guy off of Bumble (shame! I know) while I was being very picky about my standards. He met all of the ones on my list and we started seeing each other. He seemed HV at the time - he bought me flowers, put in effort to keep in contact with me each day, initiated seeing each other and doing activities together, initiated exclusivit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:07 PM |
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