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Yeah it was more a comment on RP guys thinking Korea is some trad heaven when women (at least in cities) are reportedly less interested in marriage and kids than women anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:39 PM
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There was a recent poll of 33 global cities on topics of family and marriage and I believe Seoul had the highest rates in the world of women who were fine with not marrying, who wanted few or no kids etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:31 PM
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I hope they choose the airlines again, I think throwing good money after bad is sound economic policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:09 PM
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I’m glad too but they tend to have an annoying habit of running to the government with a sob story and their hand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:52 PM
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That house also had super interesting bronze armor that I guess I’ll never learn more about thanks GRRM.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:42 PM
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I don't think that's true anymore, but in the past blonde hair and blue eyes were considered ideals for beauty, but there were a ton of different connotations, like some blondes had an English rose sort of beauty (Princess Di) and some were girl next door (like Betty from the Archie comics or Doris Day), some were bombshells like Marilyn Monroe and some were California Girl archetypes like Pamela Anderson (even if she's not from CA). But really I think that being more Euro-centric looking they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:34 PM
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😏
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:24 AM
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Conan is still quite conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:44 AM
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I think that if you are going to base your whole dating/marriage life on stats, which isn't really advisable but which many people on here seem to want to do, you can't suddenly discard all the stats you personally don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:46 PM
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He did it twice. Betty was younger and almost literally a trophy wife (wasn’t she a showroom window model?). He was annoyed with her immaturity and married another immature trophy wife. But he usually cheated with women closer to his own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:35 PM
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Divorce stats only count in n count threads. For this one we hand-wave them away in favor of “my uncle married a younger woman and they seem happy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:57 PM
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Usually with someone less attractive, Brad Pitt being the notable exception. The prettiest women usually want to be first chair, not second.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:54 PM
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A small bit of this can be explained by the fact there is a lot of red tape and strict income requirements in the US to adopt domestically. Most of it can be explained by the fact that there are very few healthy, normal, non-damaged babies, especially white ones, and that is what most people — at least the ones claiming they want to adopt so very badly — want. Let’s put it this way. The families want Chad babies. They won’t settle. But they still want them. Edit: I suppose that comes off harsh. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:03 AM
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Or yoga. God just fuck off to some ashram or whatever and let the rest of us wallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:02 PM
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I recall liking missionary with legs up or wrapped around the guy's waist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:52 PM
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Yeah, but right now these 2000 words are pure brilliance. Edit: i miss passepar2t, he always loved a good journalism kick
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:15 PM
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Yes. And look how that worked....oh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:15 PM
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Yeah, I'll be sitting in front of the TV at 6:45 about to get dinner out of the oven and think of the perfect intro and of course forget it by the time I get the dish out. Or when I'm about to fall asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:12 PM
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Off to the side. My child likes to douse his fries in ketchup and I'm going to start telling him he's adopted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:06 PM
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"Writing drunk is bad advice," said some failed author.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:05 PM
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Oh my god bandit. You can have your neurosis channel back, OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:14 PM
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LOL that was what I was going to write but I got stuck in traffic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:11 PM
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BONK!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:25 AM
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It’s almost as if Playboy and the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue never existed. Well, I’m sure only single men looked at those.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:24 AM
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Yeah but he hasn’t said anything … hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:07 AM
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*Ken
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:06 AM
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Don’t be, it’s funny. I want to see where my character goes next.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:26 AM
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That’s a good one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:21 AM
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A River Runs Through It was my first Brad Pitt movie and I have a special place for it because it was thoughtful
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:20 AM
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It may be the ppd stalker. He’s nuts. He has these weird fixations on people. He thinks me and cruciod are going wild with interracial sex, in my case with the college football team. Eulen and purplish possum were on his radar too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:05 AM
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Everyone knew you were coming. You can no more resist dick talk than a raccoon can resist a spoiled chicken breast I threw out three days ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:06 PM
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No, they'll just somehow argue those women are outliers and probably ugly anyway, and the vast majority of women and 100% of hot women want huge dicks. I've been down this road on here. I won't name names but there's a certain trash forager who will probably be along shortly anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:45 PM
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So he had a good woman but discarded her for “young and hot.” Ah.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:00 AM
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I agree. He should have said “with fire and blood.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:44 PM
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Lies My College Career Center Told Me: The Movie. I have no excuse. Even in the 90s newspapers were struggling. In my brilliance I thought glossy magazines would be better. Ha. Ha ha. Hahahahahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:09 PM
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Most of the men who are most vocal about this have never been married. They have no idea and regurgitate what the manosphere tells them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:42 AM
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Gen X: quietly evading blame since the 1960s. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:49 PM
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I was a journalist. The homeless shelter would've been "dating up."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:52 PM
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We had a photo thread a while back. I was in it. Just figure the least attractive woman in it: that’s me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:54 PM
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This will probably get deleted due to not being in the sun’s scope. We had a ratings thread…maybe we will have another but I’m not sure. I feel like at 46 you are a bit past the “machinations” stage, or should be. Also it probably helps if you have a target demographic of women in mind. If you want young, social women your look should be different from if you want a family-oriented woman in her 30s or a career women in her 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:25 PM
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Are you and lulll trying to summon her back or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:24 PM
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Till the test results get back. Mine and his.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:16 PM
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God I hope not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:16 PM
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He does this "woman bad" act with every female poster. Just ignore him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:15 PM
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In good news: you are 24. Wasting a summer is not terrible, especially if you learned something valuable about yourself and some male behaviors. In bad news: people tend to attribute good qualities to people they find attractive, and make excuses for shit behavior. You may find yourself tempted to do it again, but hopefully won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:14 PM
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Perhaps they should come to the Hotel California. Planned Parenthood is a very short ride from the airport and no questions are asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:04 PM
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I liked it more when you were the happy-go-lucky swinger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:22 PM
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Short. I think it suits your face more. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:19 PM
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Thanks Obama
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:29 PM
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Middle school cafeteria flashbacks. Sadly I brought lunch everyday like the poor I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:11 PM
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Strong powerful women aren't necessarily good people. Are people unaware of this? Mary Tudor, Margaret Thatcher, Marie de Guise, Livia, Cleopatra -- even Elizabeth I cut off her cousin's head. Many women leaders did extremely unsavory things. Edit: forgot Isabella the 'she-wolf' of France
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:48 PM
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I remember the pre-Angels era when the catalogues were mostly clothes/pajamas and they seemed to come every week. Then it was like a light switched on and the company realized men, maybe even more so than women, wanted to look at women in underwear and they shifted course quite quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:42 PM
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I fail to see how you are "geriatric" without growing up around many Tracies and Dianes (Diane was even the main female character on "Cheers"). I imagine Diana experienced a surge in the early 80s and late 90s. Sharon is more of an Irish name, popular with Irish immigrant/heritage families, but it was big in the 20th century. Rachael has been extremely popular for eons, literally, considering it's a big Old Testament name. What ARE the normal names of your generation? You keep posting names that…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:31 PM
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Actually it was "Mad Men," when Peggy's mother said, "If you're lonely, get a cat. When it dies, get another one. When it dies, get another one. And then you're done." Of course, this was 1966 or so and the fate worse than death her mother feared was unmarried cohabitation with a Jewish guy, not dying alone, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:22 PM
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I'm from there. It's never been a great place. Crime is up lots of places, though. Also, we have to be careful with year-to-year crime statistics because 2020 and 2021 had pandemic stuff going on, and crime was generally lower those two years in most places as a result. So 2022 crime rates should be examined vs. non-pandemic years for a bit more of an accurate reading. Penn used to be way rougher back in the 80s, it's not so bad now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:23 PM
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She would have been perfect to make people like the royal family but they let her spiral down and then launched a press attack…they were so tone deaf they didn’t realize the press and the people will nearly always support a beautiful (this part was crucial), fragile human underdog against Goliath. I remember the media frenzy, we even analyzed in it my high school journalism class while it was happening in the early 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:41 PM
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They go over there to find ragebait, then come back with one person’s post and accuse all women of behaving like the poster. Ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:16 PM
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Or “restaurants”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:08 PM
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Not irrelevant but you see them less. Your world often shrinks to the size of the house. Also your own friends have children so between the two it’s hard to meet in person. I used to do play dates with my friends as we all had kids within a year or two of each other but those are kind of frantic. Dinners out can be done but you need to get a sitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:07 PM
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And look how that turned out. But he had wanted to marry Camilla all along, his family thought she wasn’t classy enough. They thought Diana was more pliable. The fact she was so young was half the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:02 PM
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Books. I read books all the time. I had a library card. I also did crossword puzzles and word searches. Sometimes I’d ride my bike or walk to the playground. I had a Barbie, a Ken, and a Skipper doll; I’d sometimes play with those and with Legos. I was a latchkey kid so I was home alone after school, starting in second grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:53 PM
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Yes, when I worked at a clothing store long ago we (workers) had to refold the clothes because they had to be done a certain way. There were rules for jeans, rules for other pants and rules for sweaters that were different from those for sleeveless tops.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:36 PM
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You too. If you have depression, cognitive behavioral therapy can help (though it can also make you super emotional for a time). It’s like ebbs and flows. Do you ever look forward to things?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:22 AM
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Nope. After a brief hiatus I am back to crying daily. I will probably never reach the point where I am tear-free.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:20 AM
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This but unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:35 AM
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No. Cramps are painful, bloating makes me feel gross. I’m never anywhere near in the mood for the first 3 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:46 AM
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Does anyone here think they’re normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:24 AM
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BONK!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:49 AM
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🦝🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:25 AM
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You’re right. I am the only one who speaks in shorthand generalizations here without inserting a bunch of caveats for (wo)men who are not like all other (wo)men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:35 AM
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No bb you’re just smart enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:17 AM
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That’s quoted from a book but she has a point. Men don’t want the woman who orders salad on a date and was late because she was applying her makeup perfectly. They want the woman who eats burgers and drinks beer while smiling and then secretly works it off at the gym the next day, and who spent forever on “natural” makeup. They don’t want to see the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:14 AM
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/u/errrright
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:25 PM
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Q4m: if you have turned down a woman’s offer of sex/sexual advances, what was the reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:26 PM
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No alts, we die like men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:40 AM
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What is the problem though? There’s no competition for women over 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:23 AM
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Tic Tacs. My grandmother always had those in her purse. Fond memories. Edit: this was the 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:49 AM
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Not at all. Being a parent means unconditional love. Would I feel sadness for him? Yes, a lot. Disappointment? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:07 AM
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Most women aren’t into random penis either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:03 AM
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Yeah, it's the stalker weirdo. He'll have to go to sleep eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:03 PM
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Oh, that bandit!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:53 AM
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Oh, that bandit!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:53 AM
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Fine: a non-zero number of men -- to wit, you, lulll, and possum -- know that, but the rest do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:44 PM
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He is wealthy. So, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:42 PM
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If Jeff Bezos made me feel sexy and desired I still wouldn't want to fuck him. Nor would most women, I bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:34 PM
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Is that guy still going around saying the number of members on Seeking Arrangements is proof young women lust after old guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:30 PM
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Absolutely zero men aside from possum on this sub know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:30 PM
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No, you just go out of your way to tell women over 30 how unfuckable they are and how marrying any woman over 23 is settling. You’re as much a troll as the hardest core FDSer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:26 PM
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My dad ran off to West Germany to avoid paying child support. But most divorces I’ve actually seen were normal. No outrageous child support payments or yelling in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:31 PM
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not you bb your harem still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:56 AM
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Gets off plane in Thailand. "I was told there'd be 'mad bitches'."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:50 AM
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So are most of the guys who talk about "divorce rape." Never-married, childless teenage boys who somehow understand the intricacies of family law because their dad rants about their bitch of a mom after he has a few too many.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:49 AM
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No, often it’s a Mary Sue. Her “flaws” are endearing, like her eyes being “a bit too wide” or her nose being “a little crooked.” Her mouth is “set at an angle.” Stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:29 AM
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Far, far from it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:25 AM
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He’s even older than lulll
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:12 AM
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If Chad wants to kill a prostitute, he either does it or keeps quiet. He doesn’t take it to the ppd vox pop.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:54 PM
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Lift/Lurk or Chibs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:48 PM
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wtf, we women can't have our safe spaces without the man brigade showing up and muscling in. 😾
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:34 PM
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No way E-2 is sluttier than I am. This is as crooked as the 2000 election recount.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:30 PM
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smarmy is this your alt?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:20 PM
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For sex, yes, but not considered an adult in the legal sense. I also don't think teen pregnancy is good for teen dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:39 PM
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OK. I saw "our son" and figured it was his too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:28 PM
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Uh. He’s 29 and they have a 12-year-old? And she would have been 27 at that time? This is statutory if so. But I call trolling/creative writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:39 PM
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You forgot the hot chip. I hate when people forget the hot chip.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:04 PM
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Because throughout history, most women (ie, non-rich ones, the vast majority of people) had to birth a bunch of babies with no painkillers, work in the fields or on the farm, work long hours in kitchens or as maids/servants, etc. Most of us are spoiled. However, the same can be said that most men aren't toiling in a field 14 hours a day, physically protecting his women/children, hunting for food, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:01 PM
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Me too. The architecture one at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:22 PM
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At least the women are creative in their assumptions about me when they disagree. The men all have a template for personal attacks: I'm fat, old, ugly, and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:40 PM
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What are you talking about? It was a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:30 AM
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My mother, in her sixties, has barely spoken to or of my Dark Triad daddy in 40 years, but hey he managed to procreate with her and “seed spreading” is some weird goal ppd-ers have, so…goals?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:58 PM
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Is there any way you can let your feelings settle without having sex with anyone? Like, mope for a bit? I always just had to let the sadness wash through me first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:32 PM
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Men when they learn breasts and vaginas have a function other than getting them off 🙁
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:53 PM
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So you're saying my giving birth was a gangbang? Sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:35 PM
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Awwwww….sorry she’s gone. 😿 You make any tentative visit plans or are you closing the book on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:39 AM
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😺
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:15 AM
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And in the Navy they just banged each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:49 PM
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Lol. Show me your masthead and I’ll see whether it is a fit for an eager girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:39 PM
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This was back before metoo and social media but I can say one of mine slept with 2 or 3 the summer intern crop one year. And at publishing houses women found fucking was a shortcut out of the dreaded “editorial assistant” pen. But yeah, magazine people may not screw around as widely as bar and restaurant people but they fuck with a purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:38 PM
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In publishing usually an intern fucks an editor to get a job (rarely gets it though) or a lesser editor fucks a greater one to move up the masthead or corporate ladder. And writers fuck anyone they can to dull the pain of 5 cents a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:31 PM
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The minute you try to take away Fluffy you’ll get beaten to death by a crowd of women. Wait, I forgot who I was talking to. You’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:12 PM
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If you take away all the cats and wine in the world the ladies will be too busy fucking all the men for the men to start wars please yes thank you just send me my prize now
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:06 PM
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Haha. I googled it recently and saw the commercial came out 11 years ago. The fact I still remember the dialogue is sad 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:29 AM
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Yeah. … that’s part of the joke…?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:23 AM
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You sound hideous
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:17 AM
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Master_Teacher (NFL man) was more fun back in his get ass phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:17 PM
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“You see your friends all day at school, what do you need to call them for? Quit tying up the phone line!”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:30 PM
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This is what we in Gen X did for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:21 PM
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"ravaged the countryside" Like a storm or plague or invading army or something. Maybe you're thinking of "ravished"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:39 PM
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Feels like tattling, and besides I’m happy one user blocked me so I don’t have to read his stuff (even though we never interacted).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:42 PM
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Unless someone tells you, you have no real way of knowing what they get up to when you’re not around. I don’t think the guys were seeing other people but who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:38 PM
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Nah she’s gotten DMs from me but her hypergamy obviously isn’t satisfied. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:34 PM
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There are people getting up to no good in the DMs on a sex-obsessed sub full of misfits? Well, I never.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:17 AM
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I think that was the last one for quite some time. During purge they had people post photos sometimes but they’ve said purge may not happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:21 AM
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I’m 3 aging cats in a trench coat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:16 AM
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No! I thought quab and Daedra and two who don’t want their covers blown were the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:02 AM
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We did have a photo thread. People looked surprisingly normal on it, and a few women were cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:56 AM
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Why do you assume an older woman has baggage? And why are you the oh so exceptional one to be old and have no baggage?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:54 AM
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One of mine had been declawed 😾 Declaw your cat and then decide to move to a non-pet apartment and dump him in the pound. But we loved him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:11 AM
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Yup, my older cat was the sweetest ever. I remember being heavily pregnant and she’d extend her paw to touch my arm while I was lying down. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:10 AM
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And why should a woman not want to avoid your baggage?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:00 AM
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So many. I’d love to say it’s only immature college kids but it’s also families whose kids grow tired of the cat…anyone, really. I only adopt adult cats. One was 10 and they were going to put her down but i took her and she lived to the age of 20 and was incredibly sweet. Another one was a former kitten who had been with a family but they brought her back when she was a year old because she wasn’t a kitten anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:58 AM
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Many people only love the kittens while they are kittens and dump them in the alley when they aren’t young anymore. I volunteered at a shelter. This is common both for felines and humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:51 AM
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But they want this. They want to be the baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:48 AM
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I can see it!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:23 AM
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When I was in college people said I looked like Fiona Apple (I’m her age). I think it was just the long light brown hair and big green eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:20 AM
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Can it be replaced? Then just buy a new one. If it's great-grandma's heirloom explain how valuable it is and ask if you can retrieve it, but honestly if you're fishing for a reason to go to his house to try to reel him back in...this will not work. If it's sentimental and can't be replaced I think he'll understand why you need to pick it up; otherwise, write it off as gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:06 PM
3

I don't think the tier of woman stops him cheating, though. I think he's an across-the-board rake.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:51 PM
15

The college degree is when he said the quiet part out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:21 PM
6

Unfortunately, some women love to play Captain Save-a-Hoe. And very young women are more likely to believe the sob stories about terrible exes and the upstanding, perfect Main Character. "I'm so jaded, could your purity be what I need to believe again?" etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:19 PM
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Yeah, my experience was a combo of guys 2 and 5: nice person, not much of a mentor, smart, but also condescending when disagreed with, and came loaded with baggage. I realize the men have spun their own baggage into something they love to call "life experiences," but it's just baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:10 PM
2

Why do I feel there's another shoe about to drop after this question? But no. Plastic surgery is pretty dangerous, or at least I have read enough medical studies (through work) detailing cases where it ended up killing, paralyzing, or disfiguring people that I'd never do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:52 PM
1

Tough. We won't stop. Adjust accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:46 AM
6

Because men hate it when women over 30 reply to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:37 AM
2

Hi Willow! Do you have kitten updates? 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:21 AM
2

I'm not sure, but it's interesting that if you go to a yarn store for knitting, a hobby that's overwhelmingly female, you don't see any of this shit. Very little pink. No cutesy scissors or needles in pink packaging. No infantilization. Same in fabric stores. The "here's the same product as for men but we colored it pink so you know it's OK for you to use, now pay me $1.50 more" seems to be something you see only in larger stores catering to men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:05 PM
1

Or if you just keep the product and its name and stamp the words "For Her" on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:00 PM
5

It was awful. I'm pretty sure he even had to pay to bet it published in some random small college's literary journal. What's weird is that when he was a journalist or writing essays he was an excellent writer. But he can't resist the urge to Mary Sue the fuck out of himself in fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:38 PM
2

errright and I thought we had maybe dated the same guy for a while due to their specific flavor of crazy, but the timelines didn't match.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:19 PM
5

Because he changed only two letters of my rather uncommon name and gave her all of my physical features as well as background (city I'm from, my college majors, my relationship with my parents, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:18 PM
4

That’s why I said I’m not the PPD ho you are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:04 PM
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One, from 25 years ago, contacted me to let me know about the publication of a short story he wrote in which I am a hateful character he graphically fucks and then murders. The only other one who’s contacted me periodically just wants to have sex and drops in regularly to see if I’ve changed my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:46 PM
2

18, when I went to college. I still stayed there every summer except for the one where I had an internship. Totally moved out at 22 when I got my first job.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:37 PM
4

I dunno. On my period I just want the aspirin bottle and to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:29 PM
4

The opposite can be true. You could use homelessness as a baseline and conclude the average is a 200-square-foot house, a couch, and 1 meal a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:37 PM
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Your first paragraph sounds like dating in the US before online dating took off. Most people met through friends and social circle in get-togethers at bars, restaurants, parties. Average guy probably had a few long-term (6 months-2 years) relationships and maybe 1 or 2 ONS/hookups. IME it was the men who were harder to pin down between 22 and 26 because they wanted to explore; after that they tended to want to settle down. I think without the Internet people tended to socialize more because othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:25 PM
1

If that's an attempt at a neg it won't work. Any other feature and maybe you could hit an insecurity, but not that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 10:02 PM
2

Oh so that’s why you asked about bouldering 😂 Have you tried top rope?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:55 PM
1

Some women are just smaller too. Not everyone's born with the same vag dimensions. Big dick + small vagina = no fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:50 PM
1

😾
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:38 PM
2

Only 5 years? Let me tell you about real pain…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:20 PM
2

Yup! I don’t like it as much. Psychologically I get freaked out without a rope, especially on an overhang, when I think “If I fall, I’m going to land right on my spine.” Even controlled falls can hurt if I’m above 10 feet. And I’m not very good at it. Even when I was up to 5.11a top rope I couldn’t handle a V2.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:55 PM
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Woman (44) here: My best body ever came from rock climbing 4-5 days a week. Great muscle tone and definition but proportionate to the body (not bulky). Alas, it requires a partner and I’ve struggled to find one. Now it’s spin cycle classes 3x a week plus weights 2x a week because I’m as basic as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:15 PM
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sorry bb I know you're devastated
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:39 PM
2

😒
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:11 AM
1

No, I sought medical help. I am built in such a way that big isn’t great.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:42 AM
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I always assume you have to be attracted to a woman to date her. You said you wouldn’t date an airhead, but now you say looks are all that matters so it’s a bit confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:55 AM
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That’s…not how that works. You need to take 2 pills. Spaced apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:53 AM
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Some women are really into it though 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:51 AM
1

I never measured but it was probably close to that. Painful. So painful I dreaded sex and we broke up. If that guy is still dating (this was years and years ago) I bet he tells every last woman he matches/dates that a girl once dumped him because his dick was too big. Probably tells strangers ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:45 AM
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Mods, please, please do not remove this post. This is too good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:31 PM
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I mean, SES and education and intelligence don't always correlate, and you in fact named three jobs that require a bachelor's (teacher, paralegal, secretary...all the secretaries where I work, at least, have a 4-year degree; teachers even have master's degrees usually). My response was pushing back against the idea that education, being well-read/intellectually curious, etc. didn't count, and "young and hot" were the *only* criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:20 PM
2

He wouldn't. But a lot of men on this thread are asserting he would.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:05 PM
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Tips? Stop engaging. Whether he's trying to make himself sound better than he is or whether he finds you unworthy of respect, doesn't matter because both are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:36 PM
1

Yeah but in LA anything that sits on the curb for more than an hour ends up tagged.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:11 PM
2

I'm going to guess men just swipe blindly on both, as they say they swipe on literally every woman except ones with deformities large enough to be seen in the 1.5 seconds they spend looking at a woman's profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:59 PM
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We are pretending class isn’t a thing when it is. But I don’t think a woman has to be a CEO or engineer or anything. A well-read nurse or teacher can fit into a high-earning guy’s social circle. But “hot and dumb” ain’t it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:29 PM
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Yeah we have a bunch of LC guys answering the question. It’s annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:49 PM
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I’m not offended. I’m explaining female social matrices and how they work; most men never see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:40 PM
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Many RP guys are lower class or introverted STEMlords who don’t understand the social matrix or how old school educated UMC guys operate. I dated a lawyer, a surgeon, and a finance guy. I also met their colleagues’ wives and GFs. Not a single waitress, stripper or hot airhead among them. It’s absolutely hilarious how wrong the men on here (with the exception of purplish) are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:59 PM
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If you work alone, or maybe in a STEM field full of socially awkward individuals, perhaps. But what will happen when one of the partners at your law firm invites you and your 90 IQ wife over for dinner? And his wife, who maybe went to an Ivy herself, finds herself struggling to talk to a woman who is very limited in her discussion topic range? What do you think that wife will say to her husband later? How do you think that will help your position at work? The female social matrix is a thing and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:48 PM
1

There was some analysis that back in, I dunno, 1900 maybe, the top 20 most popular children's names (Thomas, Edward, George, William; Mary, Elizabeth, Anne) accounted for like 50% of all children's names. Now it's something like the top 20 names account for 1% of all names because people keep inventing crazier ones or weirder spellings for existing ones, always wanting to be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:08 PM
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That's not true. I work around highly educated men and dated highly educated and high earning men and married one. They aren't looking for a 22-year-old stripper/hot Waffle House waitress to knock up. RP men on this sub are mostly lower class (or STEM autists) and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:00 PM
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They didn't choose their names, dude. That said there does seem to be a correlation between a parent who just had to name their kid something super duper cool and unique and a kid who grows up thinking they're the best thing since sliced bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:55 PM
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You’re asking this here? Asking for painting advice in a sub for the blind comes to mind. That said the men will likely want a woman with a bachelor’s degree and a job that is at least middle tier (teacher, nurse, office worker are fine; waitress, cashier, hairdresser are not). Men on here will say your job doesn’t matter but there aren’t a ton of male doctors and lawyers on here. Trust me, no lawyer is bringing a fry cook to his boss’ house for a work function. Be attractive and agreeable. Ask …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:51 PM
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You're soaking in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:28 AM
3

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:12 AM
3

Oh, that's nothing. Yeah, go for it if you think she's receptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:35 PM
3

Coochies. You have returned to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:23 PM
2

RIP your inbox, lady
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:18 PM
2

If she's 18 or older, OK, but be prepared for it to get awkward if she's not into it and your sister to bring it up for the next 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:17 PM
2

😂 I’m too tired to not be literal right now…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:22 PM
1

Imagine having 2 kids and dealing with this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:18 PM
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Why do women not brag? Female social matrix for one. You don't want to be *that* woman whose friends shun her because she can't be trusted with their husbands/boyfriends. You have also broken "the rules" of sisterhood and stabbed another woman in the back. Also, being the mistress may sound hot but you are being put in second place automatically (or third if there are kids)...most women want to be first. Unless a guy leaves his wife for her (which would trigger the whole female social matrix any…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:48 PM
2

Maegor the Cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:38 PM
1

Dyson, as he likes to point out often, is like mid-40s, not even from "this generation".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:50 PM
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I talked to a sex worker or two on here a while back and they said that they have noticed a sharp increase in men wanting abusive, degrading sex acts in the past 10-15 years; they feel it’s due to porn. I don’t think choking and spitting were that popular outside fetish communities back in, say, 1999.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:33 PM
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Yeah. There was a rating thread, now removed, yesterday where it was basically the filtered/surgically altered/makeup/Facetuned women were put on top (or even as “a 7”) and the one woman who I would argue was the “average woman” (no makeup, no filter, I’d say a 5/6 because she wasn’t fat) was rated a 3. This post doesn’t explore the looks threshold for men, but I think men are absolutely being influenced by photo manipulation and social media into having a warped idea of “average”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:23 PM
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I do think their fears are rational and I do think this is a big issue. I think other posters are focusing on the “drunk party girl” and not on the sober woman who simply regrets it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:31 PM
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Fear of AIDS. I can’t believe the stories I hear from so many zoomers about bareback hookups with people they don’t know. I keep thinking of HIV lessons in health class in 1993.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:58 PM
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I…never actually read it. But I know roughly what the plot is. Rich guy, naive self-insert virgin, he teaches her about sex, he plays around with BDSM (though I’ve read real doms/subs say the whole thing is BS), she gets him to fall in love with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:49 PM
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They can’t sleep, because night is when I gather my postwall sisters and we ride forth to terrify them in their dreams. 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:02 AM
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Well…guys have always tried to talk their way into a woman’s pants. That’s not new. And it’s always a challenge figuring it out (the misconception on this sub that average/less attractive guys never try to just get a one-night stand is weird to me…average dudes want to score like anyone else). But I think it’s hard to sift through the sheer volume of attention women get and figure out which three-line texts are from Good Guys and which aren’t. I feel bad for guys caught in a sea of messages
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:17 AM
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A thing, yes. A fetish, and something easily put down as a baseline filter? No. The point is you can filter based on height, down to the inch, now. Six three is also an outlier. Do you think a woman out at a bar can tell the difference between five ten and six feet? No. Between five ten and six three? Yes, but you have to admit your height is rare. How many six three guys are in a bar, club, gym, wherever at any given time? You’re approaching this as a guy at an extreme end of the spectrum. Also…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:08 AM
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No, most people lost their virginity by the end of college unless they were religious or had some severe physical abnormality. People had premarital sex; it wasn’t a big deal. People did have more LTRs though. And usually average men and women had roughly equal numbers of partners, usually single or low double digits, men maybe slightly higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:56 AM
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Yeah. I mean there is some internal/natural desire for women to like taller men, but height fetishism to the extent I see it now is fucked up. I never heard any woman say anything about six feet back then. That would have been weird. Did some just think it? Maybe. Not to this extent though. Gym bodies…some guys had them, most didn’t. But you’re at a bar you can’t tell if he’s muscular because he’s wearing a sweater. By the time you’ve decided to sleep with him, you’re kind of emotionally investe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:47 AM
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Yeah this is an issue. Back in the day you were competing against the 30 guys in the bar that night, half of whom were probably old or not single, not all the hundreds of single guys in a 10-mile radius.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:20 AM
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I’m your age I think. It seems like some men think the pre-OLD era was “fair” or balanced, where hot people got hookups and average people did LTRs. Men and women. So most average people had roughly the same amount of experience/partners. I’m guessing what people are upset about is OLD made it easier for average women, but not average men, to vault themselves into the happy hookup category. They want the number of options and frequency of sex they think all average women are having.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:58 AM
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The girl who got the fat sucked out of her cheeks will regret it as she ages. It’s not going to look good after age 30-35. The tragedy is she was very pretty and feminine before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:33 AM
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The girl you rated as a 3 is what a normal, average girl (maybe a 5-6) looks like with no filter and no makeup. Some of the others (particularly the 9s) are filtered/FaceTuned and made up to high heaven. This shows how brainwashed people are by filters, social media, makeup and plastic surgery, my god.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:07 AM
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So the kids toughed it out in a divorce for years and then the ex-spouses decide to play happy family now that the children are older and even more able to understand why people split up? No. Jesus, millennials can't even divorce right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:58 AM
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He’s fucking his ex. She should fuck hers. Divorce is just that. No bullshit halfsies. Also, single women without kids: this is why you don’t date dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:42 AM
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Because hundreds of thousands of men are just SO muscular that they end up being classified as obese by error. The sadness of standardization…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:42 AM
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The men will tear you down OP, but don’t worry. They absolutely would hate to be suspected of cheating and all this is hamster.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:37 AM
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When I was in college long ago one of the most popular poster themes in women's dorm rooms was shirtless, ripped firefighters holding babies. The psyche of the teenage girl is *weird*.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:35 PM
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Outlander. Handsome enough but older husband who's a bit boring. And then you get to travel to another era and have sex with a hot younger guy. A hot, younger guy who is remarkably tolerant of your modern sensibilities but who is super masculine, with all that hunting and chopping wood and fighting. And who found a Nautilus or something in the 18th-century Highlands. And then it gets boring and you stop watching. Edit: Wasn't 50 Shades an example too? Hot rich guy who is brooding and damaged and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:24 PM
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Yeah, my ex from Russia couldn't dress at all when I met him, he was fresh off the plane, though. Weird, ugly 80s-type sweaters (this was 2003) and very baggy, old jeans. He'd always go for the ugliest shirt in the store, like a horse drawn to water. I didn't really care. None of it was hideous or stood out, it just wasn't good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:12 PM
1

LOL that's Venice. DO NOT go to Venice. It's...not great.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:46 PM
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Yeah, the traffic to Santa Monica is a draining force. I second Seal Beach. If you go to Matador Beach in Malibu early (before 11 AM) it's very nice too. Quiet. But it's not a vast sandy beach you can walk along.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:45 PM
1

Hi hi! I thought you knew this!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:39 PM
5

Discord
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:20 PM
2

Same, but I’ve been told on here that means I’m ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:48 PM
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Yeah, but degree creep is a thing. When I graduated I was able to get a job that paid enough to live on and pay off my loans, which were much smaller due to lower tuition, with a bachelor's degree. The same type of entry-level job now offers about $5K more in pay, 20 years later, and requires a journalism master's degree, with internship experience preferred (I worked in media, those things are always unpaid).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:25 PM
1

I need a hot, happy man to fix me then. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:03 PM
2

Speaking of Sad Boy: Jon Snow. Anyway, I liked it well enough. I read the book Fire and Blood, so I know there aren't as many cool side characters/plots as the main series, which will limit the show a little, but I thought with what they had, they did pretty well. I think my expectations were low too. I was expecting a catastrophe. As it is I'm looking forward to the next week. You?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:54 PM
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wtf lady. He drove you on a greatest hits sex tour? Who does that? Gross. My college BF had "nice moments" that were basically him faking humanity enough to keep me thinking he wasn't a dick and keep me as his sex doll and emotional tampon. I would say your guy's sex tour and "haha I'm saying I'm glad you came over because I got a pizza recipe, I'm not going to pay you a compliment" are the real him, and the nice parts were just him trying to keep you on the hook. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:47 PM
1

This is not the ppd ho you are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:40 PM
2

I would definitely say that's the case for women but not men. Brooding, sad, troubled man -- that's a trope for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:39 PM
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Did she at least say "Home, Jeeves" when she got in the car? If not, she has no soul, I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:36 PM
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The "I can fix him" is strong in this one (me). But usually all that happens is I can't and end up sad and depressed myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:33 PM
2

Loneliness. Results have been mixed 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:40 PM
2

But erotic fiction is usually written for women. I would bet a lot of those titles are self-insert fantasies or meant for a non-slender female reader.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:11 AM
3

So…how do these fantasies entail disclosing your height?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:09 AM
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I got blocked by some dude I never even interacted with 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:38 AM
3

Are all of you men doing that no fap business? What's gotten into you all?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:43 PM
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I got my ex-boyfriend's Playboy article killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:34 PM
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Red pillers acting like they invented grooming when both my grandfathers and the vast majority of other men, blue collar ones, of their generation were rather meticulous with their hair, nails and clothing will never not be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:46 PM
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Haha. But that is kind of the case in other spaces. I mean, it’s why Curves became a thing. And why bars/clubs had ladies’ night or would let women in for free while guys paid. Online dating did change a lot. I often wonder if I would have slept around more if it was as easy as swiping, and not a case of getting dressed up to go out to a bar where there were like 3 single guys under 60 that night. Or where I just wasn’t into the 10 guys there, as opposed to the 500 in my 5-mile radius. Back then…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:13 PM
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Yeah. I’m 44. I was there. I wasn’t into casual, though. Maybe they feel like women “knew their place” more back then? I understand social media has warped things in terms of beauty standards, but at no point in history was it especially easy for a dead average guy to get a lot of (or even a decent amount of) enthusiastic sex from women he was attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:40 PM
8

Back in their beloved 1940s-1960s many average guys had either no premarital sex, or they had it once or twice with an average-looking hooker. Or they married at 18, had some kids, and by 30 were sleeping in separate beds with some occasional duty sex. Most of the guys here are young, though, and don't realize how people lived back then because their grandparents aren't that old.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:28 PM
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It's the same as when people romanticize the past. They always view themselves as the king or lord. They probably would have been the serf whose body broke down and teeth fell out by 40. Or they view themselves as Don Draper when likely they would have been Joe Average paper-pusher whose equally average wife had unenthusiastic duty sex with them once in a while. These things aren't even insults, it's just a fact most of us are average and very, very few people, historically, have come out on top…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:52 PM
3

Hoosker’s posts are always a whole … thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:26 PM
2

Hoosker was born in salt and fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:25 PM
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The entire argument being predicated on the idea OP is attractive. OP is attractive, OP gets no attention from women he feels are beneath him, ERGO women don’t care about looks. The idea OP isn’t as attractive as he thinks he is would send this and all his other houses of cards tumbling, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:17 PM
5

Stop, stop, you’re turning them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:12 PM
1

Choosing violence and I love it. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:31 PM
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Those are HARD to come by in California. Trust me I have tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:55 PM
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It coincides with the small segment of sexually frustrated men who wank to the idea that all men will soon lay down their tools (or keyboards) and stop working because the women they want aren’t having sex with them. And then society will collapse and be reborn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:25 PM
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Wow. That redhead sounds like one lucky girl. An aspirational tale in which we can all learn an important lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:42 PM
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You woke up and chose violence today, well done! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:41 PM
5

Usually they prefer the veiled threat type suggesting that men, being stronger, could just take by force what they want, if women don’t start giving it freely to more men. Then they play dumb about the number of truly sick incels with violent fantasies on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:38 PM
3

It’s all the weirder because Feisty Saturn has posted photos of herself here and clearly works out a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:18 AM
2

I guess she didn’t see your photo. Not that it matters, people grasp at straws when they want to really hurt another.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:13 AM
3

Narrator/old guy from “Lolita.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:12 AM
2

I have a feeling it’s going to get nuked by the mods soon
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:12 AM
4

Since when do men care about personality when having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:05 AM
4

This one’s a wild ride. Why would someone even veer into sexual history in a convo on weight lifting?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:57 AM
3

Just fap plz
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:05 AM
1

I said what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:03 AM
1

What’s your damage?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:56 PM
1

Take the Boise Pill “Boise” sounds funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:50 PM
1

Oh, man, I wish cautiontomorrow were here. He'd have some things to say to you about that. Wonder where he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:38 PM
1

goddamnit raccoon
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:37 PM
3

Good ol’ Hoosker
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:04 PM
2

Yeah. Oral thrush? Have that described to you once, or see someone in the hospital or in a documentary with it, and you don't forget it. Or the other opportunistic infection where your lungs basically drown very slowly. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:27 PM
3

I used a condom with every last person until a test. I can't express how terrifying AIDS was to kids in the early 90s. It was certain death. I'll probably never outgrow that, just like how my grandparents never truly outgrew a fear of polio. But I don't want syphilis either. I mean, I can't understand not using condoms with someone who hasn't been tested, especially if you aren't monogamous. It wouldn't even be enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:09 PM
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Yeah, this seems to be the biggest generational divide. People who came of age before antiretroviral HIV drugs existed were way more careful about using condoms, I think. In my 20s (late 90s-00s) I didn't know anyone who would go without with a stranger. In relationships, people would use BC pills. I used condoms unless/until we both took an STD/HIV test and got a clean bill of health. I'd still do that today. Sorry, I wasn't about to die painfully for bareback. EDIT: Are these stats talking cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:50 PM
1

i am what i am I think it flipped and early 20s men were less mature 20 years ago and early 20s women more mature. IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:46 PM
4

No, we were immature 20 years ago and I am also your age. Although back then I remember it seemed like men wanted to "have their fun" ages 20-27 or so, then settle down, while women were more relationship-minded. But then again, before the Internet getting laid required more legwork and social skills and luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:28 PM
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Side piece. I don't want responsibilities for running the house or social life, decorating, having to do dumb dinners or gatherings with business colleagues or tribe elders or whatever situation we're in. Leave me in the shadows with my books, hopefully a cat or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:21 PM
9

He has a point. You leave the house and there’s a bit of broken sidewalk, and you end up tripping and landing on Chad’s dick. Who hasn’t had that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:40 PM
4

You’re a brick?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:39 PM
2

Haha. As a parent, flying on a plane there’s no better feeling than hearing a kid cry and thinking, “Not my problem.” 😎 I did my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:24 PM
1

No, I quite like the vicious cycle of middle-aged men trying to convince attractive women in their early 20s to procreate with them for their resources, and then flipping out over “paternity fraud.” Let them continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:14 PM
1

My first job was at a large, national, fairly well-known magazine. Then publishing houses for a bit, then newspapers and magazines in NYC. Small papers dying is a large part of why we as people are dumber, I maintain. I can read about Russia but have no clue what people in my own town are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:39 PM
2

Because they want to scorn “educated” women but can’t square the fact that women who don’t go to college are usually lower class, with all the class-based issues that entails. That slender, virginal, submissive, beautiful trad girl who spent her time with grandma learning domestic skills instead of going to university…doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:58 PM
3

She’s exactly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:41 PM
1

Lies. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:06 PM
1

I worked in medical literature (scientific texts) for a time, and “female” has been perfectly acceptable as an adjective but not as a noun. Same with “male.” You used either “women” or “men” for adults, or girls/boys for children under 18. The only time you use the noun form of females or males was when you had a mixed age range of kids and adults. This rule predates the pills/fourth-wave feminism by many decades, so it has been considered bad form to use “females” and “males” for quite some tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:02 PM
1

Goddamnit raccoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:46 PM
1

You were a journalist? Me too! I’m older as well so at the time it was a stable career.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:46 PM
1

Yeah it’s not bad. I read a positive review but still expected to dislike it, and I liked it. It didn’t draw you in like the first GoT episode but really, nothing else on TV ever has.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:40 AM
1

We don’t hate the guys here. Some are quite lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:58 AM
4

I mean, Facebook knows when my period is somehow. Probably based on when I typically buy tampons. In fact, I know it’s coming based on ads for period items that pop up a few days before. So yeah, it freaks me out how closely you can be tracked and I can absolutely see that info being used for abortion investigations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:36 AM
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Ok I see where it is. By the library. Well…you’ve heard about our homeless problem I guess. Hollywood and downtown are both pretty affected, but your mileage may vary. Traffic between those two points isn’t awful. Hollywood is a pretty good area to live in if you’re young; lots of younger people there. You’ll need a car. Hopefully you’ll have parking at work and at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:57 AM
1

Yeah I hear there are photos flying around the ppd discord. We had a photo thread too but the pics are down now. It caused too much thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:46 AM
2

Hi hi! You could DM me. TIL there’s a “financial district.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:40 AM
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I know. I’m just kidding. I read “Fire & Blood,” which it’s based on, so unless they change stuff for TV (coughSansacough) I know what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:31 AM
1

😾
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:18 AM
1

Awww…sorry to hear 😿 Any good news with other guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:18 AM
2

Good but we missed you! How’s the BF?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:05 AM
1

Pacific time!!!! Edit: lullll if you start posting spoilers in 2 hours I swear to god….
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:00 AM
1

Lulll tends to have the milf contingent locked down but he can probably spare a few. In all honesty most of the women here seem to be cute; I’ve seen photos of a bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:45 AM
2

You must be new…most of us are old.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:33 AM
2

You’re back! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:31 AM
1

That much mental illness concentrated in one place ought to be breaking some sort of city ordinance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:28 AM
1

😊
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:40 PM
2

I’ve moved on to the acceptance stage. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:54 PM
1

Joke’s on you I’ve killed 6 basil plants this month.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:41 PM
1

🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:29 PM
1

Be mean to a beloved ppd figure, one who is popular with a variety of posters, even if she has annoyed some others
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:27 PM
2

I know the feeling. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:57 PM
1

Yes, I think this is also why people seem surprised that a prenup doesn't magically get you out of child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:07 PM
1

Yup. Women in the military, for instance. May end up having to move overseas or somewhere. Or rural medicine doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:39 PM
4

They probably mean child support. People fail to make this distinction all the time on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:14 PM
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Some men may have a job where they have to move a lot, or they are sent to work in a remote area or otherwise there’s a situation where a woman leaves her job so he can continue his career, and she has a hard time securing one equal to her previous one. Usually that is where alimony comes in. That said, very, very few spouses get alimony. It is child support that most people get (and people will conflate child support and alimony on purpose to try to push their narratives).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:13 PM
1

That’s a good point. The “there’s a great guy/girl out there for you” actually does hit much worse than a simple no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:13 PM
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Well, having been rejected recently I can say it hurts massively, and while the rejector has no obligation to be nice about it, it’s kind of a dick move to say to yourself “fuck his/her feelings, I don’t owe them anything.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:02 PM
3

How does one “freshen” a drain?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:12 PM
1

😒 Or 😔 Not sure yet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:34 AM
1

That (I think) sub banned these types of questions because they were starting to be overrun with them. That’s probably why OP is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:07 AM
1

Finnish PM. I guess she got in trouble for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:27 AM
1

It’s my nature 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:20 PM
1

Climbing. It’s really, really hard to find a regular partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:55 PM
3

USA
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:16 PM
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This feels like ammunition to be used later, but whatever. D
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:05 PM
2

I just took a stab at it. I’m guessing “can parents date?”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:35 PM
2

I’m Gen X and I imagine the total lack of Internet/social media meant you had no idea how others were living. Basically you kind of assumed people were kind of living like you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:29 PM
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For SMV it doesn’t matter I guess. When I was in my 20s I didn’t want to get involved with men with kids. I didn’t want kids at that time; I didn’t want to play with them or babysit or try to be a mom. Especially to kids that weren’t mine. Now I’m in my 40s and have a kid. Most men my age and older will have kids. I think this is going to be a question of age more than anything. After a certain point most people in your dating pool have kids, and after 40-45 the kids are older to the point it ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:26 PM
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This must be a millennial/Gen Z thing. After college nobody asked or cared. The only people I’ve told/discussed it with are people I haven’t slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:38 PM
1

Eh. I have green eyes and haven’t gotten a ton of mileage out of them for attracting people. I like brown eyes in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:28 AM
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I heard he was a bald guy with a harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:50 AM
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I’m gonna guess you are a millennial, but the Gen X SOP was to shave leg and armpit hair (absolutely do not let those show) and leave a full (or trimmed/slightly shaved) bush. I think it was because the guys grew up on 70s-80s French/Euro (even US) porn where plentiful bushes were normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:40 AM
1

RIP your inbox Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:28 AM
5

Lulll
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:28 AM
4

Qui?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:27 AM
1

i'll dm you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:25 PM
1

I know, it's addictive. Your rival's gone now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:06 PM
1

welcome back :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:28 PM
1

Physical fitness, and it's going very well. 🙂 Find another full-time job. That is not going very well at all. 😐 I'm mid-40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:04 PM
1

No clue. English, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:36 PM
1

кто
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:31 PM
2

You broke form on the joke Lift
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:10 PM
2

Sounds like a Todd to me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:44 PM
2

Goddamnit raccoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:53 PM
2

A walking, talking personality crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:28 PM
1

Dammit bunny ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:22 PM
3

This is the third time this was posted and one of the Tate fellators has posted a whole thread about it somewhere. I agree it sounds fake af
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:21 PM
2

usually important Not a dealbreaker at all Baldness might be a death sentence for attraction from young women, say in their 20s. Above that, it matters less, until you get to older women (40+) who don’t care, but who wants those? No, my spouse has a full head of hair, a lot of it, at 50+. So I haven’t had to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:59 AM
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This probably will be removed because this isn’t a sub for advice. That said, in the 1% chance is this isn’t creative writing or a troll, wtf lady. Leave. Edit — I know it’s q4m but I don’t think it fits the sub
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:56 AM
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People used to say when we were with our kid "Well, I guess we know who his daddy is!" Thank you, random septuagenarians, for implying I'm a total slut. After the sixth time or so my husband just got annoyed and said "Yeah, it wasn't Shaquille O'Neal's after all!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:59 PM
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It’s that Elvis and the other devil music what makes em get abortions and vote for AOC.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:17 PM
3

Different division, one where you don't work even remotely together and your chains of command never, ever cross. Even then, if you are significantly older, man or woman, I'd be extremely careful. Even with no power issue, optics can take over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:58 PM
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She is young and I doubt her naivete was lost on gym daddy. In fact, I am sure he banked on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:52 PM
6

Coffee isn't coffee, coffee is sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:58 PM
5

something something chads and bathrooms something something
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:53 PM
9

Being very young and having a healthy relationship with one's father will blind women to male nature, particularly that of the middle-aged to senior citizen segment, sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:50 PM
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Yes, go ahead. But do not flip out when the 21-year-old woman goes out, eats and drinks on your tab, and thinks it was just a platonic outing because you are old enough to be her grandfather. Also, you are talking to a sub that can't find the courage to approach Becky at the bookstore, good luck telling them to shoot for the stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:46 PM
2

I was probably 23. I kept to myself a lot and was fairly oblivious to the world around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:18 PM
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Go easy: she is only 21 and probably still thinks there are limits to the audacity of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:01 PM
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You can go. But he’s going to think it’s romantic and you’re sexually interested. There isn’t a man on earth who thinks he is truly too old for a woman’s desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:28 PM
1

Oh, honey…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:20 PM
2

He wants to date and/or have sex is my read of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:34 PM
3

This is your last warning before you get The Question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:21 AM
3

Smurf!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:21 AM
1

It’s just one pier. There are rides (Ferris wheel is fun, there’s a galleon and a little roller coaster) and an arcade. There is a restaurant with fried fish and surprisingly decent beer. There is also a carousel. You can walk along the beach or else on the sidewalk on a promenade type deal. No boardwalk though (that’s Venice Beach).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:23 PM
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There are a few public ones. I’ve gone to them early (like 10 am) and they’re quiet. I’ve also gone to Santa Monica beach and liked it, but the traffic there is a pain. I feel like the point of Santa Monica is the pier and crowds but if you aren’t into that you should go where it’s quieter. Edit: I think Will Rogers beach is halfway between them. As I recall it was not crowded like Malibu but expansive like Santa Monica.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:12 PM
1

😾
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:07 PM
1

Depends. The pier is crowded but fun with kids. The beach is big. For just a beach experience (no rides, no food stands) go to Malibu instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:50 PM
2

Why are you like this and see? Nobody understands this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:27 PM
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You're right, but being an editor as my job I've come to realize 99% of the world operates in a grammatical DMZ where "effect" and "affect" are the same thing and "data" is singular.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:14 PM
2

He's being a grammar pedant. Nauseated is if you are feeling nausea. Nauseous is if you are causing nausea (to someone).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:59 PM
4

who now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:30 PM
12

Madonna-whore complex as a concept was invented by a 19th-century man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:09 PM
0

Yup. It was always an instant ick. Dominant is one thing, but keep the incest-y shit out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:48 PM
1

Because you’re a rare breed, Yuk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:00 AM
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I think it is used because it causes the actress' breasts to bounce up and down for the amusement and admiration of the male viewers and producers. I think it shaped expectations in real life, whether women copying what they saw in film/TV or men wanting to act out what they were seeing in movies/TV/porn of the period (the period being the 90s and beyond). Seems like in the late 90s early 00s every guy wanted the woman on top a good deal of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:18 AM
1

Yeah I’m assuming the damage (marriage) is done in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:53 PM
7

Why'd it have to get racist there at the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:17 PM
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I have enough money that she shouldn’t be desperate or stupid enough to get married at 18, to a middle-aged man no less. I also don’t see myself raising someone dumb enough to sign a prenup. If somehow I have raised a moron doing both I have only myself to blame, I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:10 PM
5

She’d split before her 40s. Take the kids, child support and go. Couldn’t blame her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:54 PM
1

GodDAMNIT bandit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:13 PM
1

*Ken
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:12 PM
2

Not anymore; he’s on the daily thread today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:11 PM
2

I was on food stamps as a kid and my mom was a grocery store cashier. So if the pay is bad you can get them (usually you have to have a dependent adult or child though).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:11 PM
1

Still stumped by Elden Ring?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:09 PM
3

A 51-year-old baby daddy. Those are some lucky girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:26 PM
3

Did she leave yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:17 PM
2

Dyson, you think men peak in their 60s jfc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:12 PM
3

I suppose I'd have to add a grandpa to make it a carousel; otherwise, it's just a see-saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:03 PM
3

I would like to get Uber Eats drivers added to the list of acceptable CC-qualifying lovers for those of us living in urban areas. It still adds a soft income requirement but if you can't afford $35 in service fees and tips then you don't have any business calling yourself a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:00 PM
1

What if it's only two guys, a dad and his son? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:56 PM
1

They should make people take an online test before they can set their flair color.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:51 PM
4

/sub
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:31 PM
1

I feel the pool requirement unfairly restricts whoredom to the upper classes and those living in suburban areas. Have you accounted for this bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:31 PM
1

I don't disagree but I think it's a case of "those grapes are sour anyway" in pretty much all these cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:09 PM
1

Men? Or women? Also, people talk a lot of shit online but if Margot Robbie or Sharon Tate (alive, obviously) appeared in front of them I'd bet anything I had that they'd sell a kidney to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:55 PM
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Dissed by other women. You think men are going to look at Margot Robbie and think "nah, she is too conventional"? I don't think any guy is going to care what popular opinion online is about her specific vibe, if she's gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:59 PM
2

Surely if you grew up in the 1980s and 1990s, as I did too, you'd know that the top of the male food chain according to pop culture was the blond haired, blue eyed jock. Only toward the late 1990s did we start getting ethnic diversity at all in terms of male beauty. Now, we have young women thirsting for KPop and alternative-looking eboys. Can you imagine high school girls going for a KPop type in the 1980s? I think male and female beauty standards have expanded and shifted but not changed. For …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:48 PM
2

With all the fanfic sites that exist I wish people would stop posting their cuck fetishes in dating_advice and AITA.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:27 PM
7

Qui?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:02 AM
3

I'm going to guess she had her young. The experience of me and most women born to single/divorced mothers who had their daughters young is that the moms end up viewing their daughters in a different way (they are more resentful of them and see them more as competition). Mine used to neg me in front of my high school boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:27 AM
1

If you want wank material, I hear the Internet offers lots of free or very reasonably priced pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:17 AM
2

My boss lived in a dorm with Jennifer Connelly at Stanford. There was like a permanent encampment of a rotating cast of guys on the lawn outside trying to get a look in the windows to see her heading down the hall to the shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:28 PM
0

Lies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:31 PM
1

My college roommate was a low-key sugar baby, and she just did it, got her cash, and moved on. Don’t know if she told anyone. I imagine it’s not hard to keep a secret if you’re in a big, anonymous city.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:43 PM
5

Funny how the presence of older men on here, of which I can count at least half a dozen regulars and several other occasional guys, is never questioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 07:15 PM
4

Yeah, she, Aquachip, and sarkington are a whole unapologetic mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 07:07 PM
3

The whininess and “women bad” have been off the charts the past few days, even for this sub. Some incel nest must’ve gotten nuked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:28 PM
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Sounds like they just found most women on a cheating site had a B cup. Isn't B cup the most common size in the general population?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:50 PM
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I mean, I can say I haven’t, but at least 3 guys will pop up and tell me I’m lying, and also you probably won’t believe me anyway. But I haven’t, no. I have a lot of faults and issues, but this is one thing I haven’t done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:34 AM
3

I’m saying you can’t know what your partner is thinking. You can only drive yourself crazy obsessing over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:57 AM
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Ok I have to admit I was being sarcastic in my reply, as this was about the fifth variation on AF/BB we have had in the past 24 hours and it was getting boring. Most of us don’t fantasize about other people during sex. And even if we did how would you (or I) ever know?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:49 AM
5

BONK!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:12 AM
1

He gets a warm hole. Isn’t that all any man wants? Read all the “boyfriend material” threads. They don’t seem to much care about what’s attached to the warm hole anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:33 AM
1

All the time. It’s my favorite hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:52 AM
6

who? L'homme fâché?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:16 PM
1

There were large parts of some states (eg the Dakotas) with no clinic within, like, a six-hour drive. Large parts of rural America essentially had no abortion services already. You would need to look at cities like Austin or St Louis — blue (well, bluer) spots in a red state — to see if state bans had an effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:35 PM
1

To be fair the screenshots seem to have the women themselves using the euphemism "big" for the men, not "fat" or "overweight" (except for one woman who calls herself overweight).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:53 PM
1

What was she supposed to write it on? Don’t use your hand, it sweats off
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:34 PM
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It’s almost like a guy made it up to fit some preconceived fanfic based loosely on AF/BB. I do like the scene-setting but prefer the more fully realized narratives and fleshed-out characters in the dating advice subs. This one has the plot twist of the husband getting sex though. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:27 PM
2

My ribcage got bigger too. Mine was sideways though, feet downward. You could actually see his head kind of poking out of my side. Like Alien.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:17 PM
2

For me it did. I did manage to lose all but 5 pounds of pregnancy weight but it stayed on the waist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:17 PM
1

Of all the BEC posts I’ve seen on here lately this takes the cake. Even with geyges back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:14 PM
5

This is the ppd equivalent of pulling on your pigtails in class.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:58 PM
3

Working on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:41 PM
2

And now you obsess over the same things on 2 platforms instead of 1 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:49 AM
3

Dick talk on the daily is like a bandit bat signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:12 AM
3

Goddamnit raccoon!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:49 AM
2

Oh, well thank you! 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:23 AM
1

I only have one but I think his ego's big enough right now without the eternal fame a best of ppd list can bring.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:57 PM
3

The average age on this sub is like 22. You’ll probably have at least 20 guys actually dialing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:52 PM
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Yeah. I was a magazine editor and used to circle stuff to photoshop. Extra fat, face wrinkles, you name it. This was in the early 2000s. Before that there was still airbrushing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:23 PM
1

Raccoon….no…don’t do it….
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:29 PM
1

$400 a wax? Do they dust you in gold leaf after or something??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:24 AM
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I’m not gonna name names but some men in this sub recently called James Dean a “high-tier normie” due to his height. It’s over for rebelcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:33 AM
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When I went back to eighth grade, age 13, it was somehow wordlessly known to all girls that we had to be shaving now. All the girls in my class started doing it when they went back to school. And continued … for the next 30 years far as I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:33 AM
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I’m older, and in our day (1990s-2000s) shaving legs and armpits was almost compulsory. To not shave them would have been considered socially unacceptable or disgusting. So it’s never been something I thought of as optional, though in the winter, if I’m not sexually active, I’m likely to let things slack off on my legs until I have to wear a skirt. If I’m with a guy I shave my legs every other day. Armpits I shave all the time because I find hair there aesthetically displeasing. I don’t feel ann…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:26 AM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:55 PM
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ama
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:10 PM
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I'm still not sure but I have my suspicions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:09 PM
3

Only if it’s done right. —Groucho Marx, maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:05 PM
1

Well, Jim and Yuk make it easy, but there are a lot of angry incels and blackpill-RP hybrids who all blend together. Edit: livs usually makes herself known eventually as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:36 PM
2

“next book” lol Well I’m hoping for it too!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:29 AM
1

k
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:22 AM
0

Your opinions often get you banned. And yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:19 PM
1

4.5-5 5 3? It's not rational, I just hate, HATE how I look in zoom meetings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:06 PM
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Exactly. I believe RP is in favor of prostitution because it 'evens out supply and demand' so I don't see how this would "turn" a guy into RP. If this is true, an American guy paid for a sex worker in the Philippines. How novel. That said, this sounds like fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:18 PM
0

oh...she's a sugar baby. Again, totally in keeping with RP. Not seeing the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:21 PM
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Oh. Now we have fanfic for girls. Regardless, if we believe that in the space of "a few weeks" some woman managed to meet an American guy (looks like she's in a poor country), talk to him, get him to buy her a condo, and move into said condo...isn't that just completely in keeping with RP advice to go to a developing country and use your wallet to land a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:54 PM
1

What in the name of Mississippi is this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:30 PM
1

AITA/True off my chest/relationship advice/dating seem like just cuck fanfic outlets now. I wish they'd go to the full-on fiction subs like slutty confessions and keep things more contained on the advice subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:05 PM
1

You haven't read from the guys who are like an inch below 6 feet and still feel they face a mountain of challenges? There are definitely some guys who are five foot ten or five foot eleven and think that inch or two is critical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:02 PM
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There are levels. On this sub: the guys under 5'6" may be more total doom and gloom "virgin for life" whereas the ones 5'7" to 5'11" are more like "well, she'll never be viscerally attracted to me but I can still be an LTR beta and get some sex sometimes," though there are some virgin doomers who are in that height range as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:15 PM
3

Many men will happily fuck a married or taken woman. Men will fuck each other over if a promotion (or a desirable woman) is on the line. I do not see a ton of male solidarity in the universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:29 PM
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That said, GoT doesn't even really have many ideas about chivalry and knighthood, it's much more about power and politics. No, the whole Sansa storyline is about knighthood and chivalry. Knights are good, noble people who protect little girls and women. But then they beat her up. The only one who doesn't is ugly, but he also will kill kids if told to do so and is vicious in other ways. Sansa is pretty much an insert of what happens when a character who believes in courtly love gets dropped into,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:22 PM
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Chivalry and courtly love were a way to channel the more savage or violent desires and tendencies of the many unmarried or "leftover" noble (or at least higher echelon) men. The idea was to fixate on an unattainable (usually married) woman and selflessly love her; her being married, you couldn't have sex with her (in theory). This removed the base desires of sex and packaged the rest in a nice, pseudo-spiritual package where you strive for purity in love by focusing it on something unattainable.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:57 PM
1

Aren't you one of those "people" in question, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:31 PM
1

This is the 1,000th post on the topic and I’d rather save my energy for the 5,000th post on n count, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:53 PM
2

It’s true. Every time I enter the bathroom the tampon box has moved an inch toward the razor blade package. This will end in blood, one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:03 PM
2

I’ve seen 95/5 on here far too many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:47 PM
2

Laying down the MILF bait right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:47 PM
1

This sub is just the BEC routine writ large.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:21 PM
2

Not today, Satan.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:54 AM
1

Yup, it is you; a leopard never changes its spots.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:54 AM
4

That too. “I want a nice, kind, feminine, agreeable women who adds value to my life.” A year later…. Bored out of his mind, he is fucking the BPD coke addict from work on the side…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:31 PM
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Her point is you like cheating for cheating’s sake. Not as a strategy, not as a response to women, but you like it. You like fucking a lot of women. Fine, but don’t say it’s because of all of us…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:29 PM
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If this is who I think it is, probably the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:45 PM
1

Yes 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:52 PM
2

lol my family was Mennonite and ate watermelon daily. It doesn't get any whiter than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:51 PM
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It was always the dessert I got nearly every single night in the summer growing up. I associate it with watching fireflies in my grandparents' backyard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:47 PM
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I mean, "marriage" for a well-off/middle-class Western woman is similar to "marriage" for a 12-year-old in Afghanistan in the same way Jeff Bezos and a Chinese sweatshop laborer both have "jobs." Huge umbrella here. Similarly, prostitution can run the gamut from high-end escort to trafficked woman who is locked in a room every minute she's not working. I'd never, EVER swap places with a prostitute, however. The only part I agree with is that about STDs. At least hookers know and can insist on pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:32 PM
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There were like 5 Tracys in my elementary school in the mid-1980s. That one's not new.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:13 PM
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No, no, you're supposed to tell them it "fits seamlessly into your lifestyle" and is "magical."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:04 PM
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I had the same bassinet. But he wouldn't feed on my side so I had to haul my exhausted body upright and do it. Every 2 hours round the clock, every day, for 6 months, with an infant who napped 2 hours a day total. I remember thinking "if I lie on my stomach for sex maybe I can get a nap in and he won't notice." God I was so, so tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:51 PM
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Doesn't virtue signaling indicate claiming you do something that society/general opinion finds laudable? Who out there thinks fucking while feeding your kid is laudable? She's backtracking, maybe. But I can't imagine writing this and thinking everyone will stand up and clap after you hit post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:21 PM
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Breastfeeding takes like 20-30 minutes. Husband can't wait that long? wtf Also, as a former breast feeder this sounds so depressingly awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:09 PM
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It was Freud who originated or at least put it into words, I believe. The idea is that the mother of your children should not be tainted by carnality. And thus men shouldn’t be aroused by the women they were marrying (marriage being for impregnation purposes). You could have sex with your wife but neither one of you was supposed to like it much. Men instead work out and project their desire onto prostitutes (literally, usually, although any lower-class girl you didn’t respect would do). Sex bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:05 AM
1

what kinda fruit dip we talking about? I'd go hard for that caramel you dip granny smith apples into.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:20 PM
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Cuck fanfic goes mainstream. Also, brother and wife aren't going to parties, they're just banging each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:51 PM
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I think her premise is valid. I think the assumption is "how to tell if a guy only wants sex from you". Which is not to say he only wants it from anyone, period. If a guy says "I'm not looking for anything serious" to me, I fill in the "with you" at the end mentally. I don't assume he isn't open to it with any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:44 PM
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I think in the cases I was talking about the guy didn't shut it down, because he liked the attention, but he kept the "oh, we're just casual" as his get out of jail free card in case he found someone better, if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:36 PM
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The "I can change him" can be strong. I never did casual stuff because I knew I'd fall into the "I'll make him love me" trap. That said, I remember reading posts from guys who basically acted like boyfriends (taking women out to dinner, concerts, spending the night, cuddling, cooking together, etc) and then got shocked when the women thought they were boyfriend/girlfriend. Like "we see each other twice a week and spend the weekends together, but I told her this was just casual!"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:51 PM
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I think, as noted above, any guy who says "I'm not looking for anything serious" (or sometimes more euphemistically, "I just got out of a relationship" which is also a signal, though a weaker one). Not meeting any of his friends. Most guys I dated lived pretty far from their family, so that wasn't as much of a sign, but friend circle is still one indication he views you as something serious. Not giving out much info about himself, his life, etc. Being vague. Guys who want to keep you at arm's le…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:03 PM
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Yeah, the latter is definitely the clearest signal a man can send.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:59 PM
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Yes, but the OP was about guys having lower standards (or maybe "flexible" standards) for hot women. It wasn't about women's standards for men. Men don't like seeing the gender-flipped version of "hot women get a pass on promiscuity", which is when hot guy gets sex easier than the less hot guy. Really attractive people get more leeway, that's just how life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:32 PM
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Yes, studies show happiness dips after having kids (when they are young, so usually 30s/40s) and then goes back up again. And around 40 you become aware of all the doors closing, things you probably won't get to do. In life, not just sex or love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:10 PM
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I've been there 3 times, and each time it was woefully understaffed. I got there 3.5 hours ahead of my flight and had to SPRINT to the gate. It took me 2 hours to get to the ticketing check-in and then nearly an hour and a half at security. It was nuts. De Gaulle, again, I was there over 3 hours ahead of time and had to in the end cut the rest of the line because my flight was about to leave. That was Terminal 1. Terminal 2 was well-staffed and had a Paul where I could buy a not-bad croissant an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:09 PM
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International, easy: Heathrow. Jesus christ. Domestic? I hated LaGuardia when I lived in NYC. But I have to say LAX is worse. Tom Bradley international terminal can eat it. EDIT: Charles De Gaulle 1 or 2? Terminal 2 was nice. Terminal 1 was an EPIC clusterfuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:00 PM
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Man the PR team has done a number on this topic. Whether it's the PR team for the babies or the daddies I'm not sure yet. This is like when they started calling cars "pre-owned" instead of "used"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:44 PM
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Whoa, CatandPagan back with a vengeance today!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:12 PM
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I don't agree with OP that *all* men care. I think quite a few don't care (aside from extreme cases). We even have some RP/PP posters on here who say they don't. I think many do care but to varying degrees, some not very much and some a lot. But the ones that say or believe they care quite a bit probably will toss aside those concerns for a really attractive woman. After age 25 or so I wasn't asked about mine either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:10 PM
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Well to be fair I'm probably focusing on the upper end of SBs, among wealthy people (old money or venture capitalists or bankers, the Roys of the world) as opposed to men who are pretty well-off but not necessarily the "jackpot" for marriage (middle-to-upper tier tech guys). I love "Succession"! Connor's GF is probably the SB archetype. Much younger, attractive, certainly not dumb or low-class but also not taken seriously by the rest of the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:55 PM
2

Daughter of the Sultan of Babylon! 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:58 PM
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I have a BP-ish outlook but I’ve always said a man will throw away pretty much all his “hard and fast rules” (n count, paying for a date) if the woman is attractive enough. 24-year-old Cindy Crawford accepts a date with you, you’re not making her pay half or saying “hmmm…10 bodies is a bit much.” I think there are limits, like some men wouldn’t dare a former prostitute even if she looked like Marilyn Monroe. And they wouldn’t date Christina Hendricks if she said she had been with 200 men. But as…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:57 PM
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If you are an SB because you need money for a place to live, medical procedure (US specific), travel, savings, whatever…you bang an old guy for a year and keep quiet about it (don’t tell friends/family) and you can probably walk off with a bunch of money and nobody knowing any better. If you see sugaring as a way to ascend into the upper class, that’s another story. Rich women aren’t known for being welcoming to poor ones who cut the line. I think generally the higher the social class, the less …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:50 PM
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OK, but you are 25. This was in the dating over 40 sub, where 40 is the bare minimum. Now, is 40 old enough to roll over and never leave the house? No. But people do slow down a little. Last year I did make a 1.5-hour climb of an ascent of 600 m (it was hot, frequent water breaks) on a rather steep grade in France. Was it impossible? No. Did it take longer and feel harder than when I was 19 and did it the first time? Yeah. Also, I feel like her complaint was not that different from men who compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:22 PM
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There is no situation -- NONE -- the bitter men on here can't twist to make themselves the victims. I actually expected something like this; been here too long, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:33 PM
3

Most people don't seem to understand that child support is totally separate from a prenup. That said, most men also confuse alimony and child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:58 PM
1

I’m so proud of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:47 AM
1

Oh. Him. Yeah…no comment…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:45 AM
8

Those women aren’t the only options, especially if he’s moved into a higher professional/educational level. He can date women his own age or younger. He can date casually or not. He can sleep around or not. He has more time before he needs to marry and have kids. There are many pathways open to an attractive 31-year-old guy and not a terrible amount of time pressure yet. If he doesn’t want kids he has even less pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:43 AM
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My favorite story for RP was the guy in his mid-40s who picked up a “perfect 10” 21-year-old waitress and got all the dirty, kinky sex she wouldn’t give to her college football player boyfriend. “I’m at my sexual prime” he said. He bragged how he was hot but his wife no longer had any SMV. Then he revealed he was paying the waitress $500 per fuck. And all the guys were jerking each other off about how older men can get girls to lose their inhibitions. As if it’s his age and not the $500 that got…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:32 AM
1

telling his reader that what they actually want isn't the fun with many partners more desirable men are having, Well, I'd think about what I wanted, and screw what other people define as fun. If you want love and a relationship, why go mad trying to pound your square peg into a round hole just because some other guys want something different?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:02 PM
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"Women been on the cock carousel since the Middle Ages -- AWALT."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:31 PM
3

I loved the Decameron.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:21 PM
6

gimpgirl. She was IP banned from reddit, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:17 PM
2

Yeah, try trotting out "men and women are not the same" when men whine about why women won't fuck them on the first date and see how much they like that argument then...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:12 PM
2

The youth tell me FWB is either a platonic friend you fuck when you're both single and lonely, or someone you have sex with repeatedly but also do other stuff with too, like watch a movie or make dinner, without the expectation it'll lead to love and marriage or the expectation of monogamy. Fuck buddy is someone who comes over, bangs, leaves. At least this is how I understood it...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:04 PM
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I mean, I never did FWB. At my age (early 40s) I'm going to guess the most likely scenario is I hook up with someone a little younger and we both just understand the limitations and temporary nature of it. That's not to say FWB wouldn't happen with someone my own age or a little older, just thinking of circumstances that mean a guy would never have been a relationship candidate, only FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:56 PM
2

I can see this. There are plenty of people who are brought up in a super-strict environment who rebel and party hard (Amish people, for example) because they snap. But you have to wonder if they return to the community just because they get burnt out on the lifestyle, or because they are lonely without any family support and feel pressure to return. Either way, I'd say raising someone in a super-strict environment makes it unlikely they'd be able to find a balance in life, probably will just go …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:38 PM
6

They get old.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:07 PM
3

/sub
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:24 PM
3

Usually in the evangelical south you are either religious from Day 1 (virgin until marriage) or you are "religious" (bang drunkenly on Saturday night after Bama wins but go to church Sunday without fail, usually they marry another "religious" party person at 24 and become trad Christian parents together). The idea of someone being a total hedonist and then scurrying off to church as a born-again at 27 or whatever to rope in a virginal Christian boy is mostly some weird RP cuck fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:11 PM
3

/sub
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:06 PM
1

Logan's Run. They get shot at 50 to make way for the new hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:58 PM
3

They pay young women to fuck each other while sitting in the corner desperately trying to get hard enough to jerk off?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:57 PM
5

Can't we keep the cuck fanfic in AITA and True Off My Chest?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:17 PM
1

“Mess with him” and “flirt with him” seem different. Like is she trying to build up his confidence or actually express interest (latter) or is she trolling (former)?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:46 AM
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One of the better ways I saw it put was that RP took an idea on female sexuality — that women are attracted to and fear uncontrolled male sexuality and get turned on by a man who shows it but chooses to tame it at times just for them — and somehow turned it into a chubby guy on his fourth beer on the sofa ordering a woman to clean the floor and make him a sandwich because he’s the “alpha”. Many of the men absorbed the “Because I say so!” part without any of the self-improvement whatsoever. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:43 AM
10

Because the words of House Red Pill are “No True Scotsman.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:31 AM
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Older women with independent kids are very likely to be dating older divorced men with independent kids. I think you’re overlaying the feelings of young childless guys over these women’s actual dating population.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:34 PM
2

A personality crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:50 AM
1

Yeah, my nose actually was broken when I was little and has a slight bump/crookedness but I just...don't care enough, I guess. Even though nose jobs are one of the "safest bets" if you go to a qualified surgeon. It's all about what you really feel strongly about. If you find something brings you down a lot, the risk might be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:55 PM
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To me, the risks seem greater than the small changes that could be made. To some, it's an acceptable level. Of course, there is also a variable in going to a Harvard-trained physician at a reputable hospital vs. some guy working at a strip mall chain, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:42 PM
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Sure. I'd be cool with it. What do you mean approach, like at a bar? Or at a meetup or activity group or gym or something? Context will probably be key (like if you already know her vs. totally cold approaching). I will say if it's someone you know but she hasn't shown interest, don't necessarily interpret as her not having interest. I'm 43 and a lot of us just kind of assume men under 25 aren't interested in us generally. If you signal interest she may look at you differently (with reciprocated…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:23 PM
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Nope. I used to work at a plastic surgery journal and a lot can go wrong. You could be paralyzed because filler got into a vein and caused a stroke. The wrong cut and your eyelid very visibly droops permanently.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:15 PM
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Fifth? This is like his 60th; he’s just cycled through different user names.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:47 PM
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Men often cheat during pregnancy or right after childbirth because suddenly life isn’t as fun anymore and they aren’t getting 100% of their wife’s attention. But hey, I’m told on here all the time men love selflessly and only women love conditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:14 PM
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If you want men’s validation and adoration, come to a place where a ton of sexually frustrated men who hate and/or blame women for their problems congregate, and toss them the red meat they crave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:05 PM
2

I imagine this was not his first extramarital rodeo, this is just the time he got caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:58 PM
4

Sit down, grandpa, they don’t want to hear from us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:22 AM
3

Where my fellow depressives at?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:20 AM
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The only contexts I have seen naked men in person: Guys I was sleeping with, in which case really arousing. Homeless guys jerking off on Glendale Ave, in which case not arousing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:04 PM
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Not really. I worked at an SEC school that "hired" the parents of players to work there. And yeah, every football player got a BMW. Sometimes their mom got one too. Not the same as now, but not quite a "pittance." There were loopholes big enough to drive a truck through if you knew how to work them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:56 PM
2

Yes. It's gotten in trouble for lots and lots of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:44 PM
1

This is about USC football. And guys can only commit to one school at a time. I don’t follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:31 PM
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Yeah I agree — all the porn the guys in college (I know that’s not all guys everywhere) watched in our common room was super vanilla. Ugly plumber bangs hot housewife. Ugly coach bangs hot cheerleader. Ugly movie producer bangs 4 hot blondes. Maybe someone got their ass slapped once or twice, that’s pretty much as far as it went. A light spank or hair pulling, light bondage, and getting fucked roughly went on in some bedrooms but I can pretty confidently say spitting was not a thing outside a fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:35 PM
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Typical LA commute
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:48 PM
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Yeah some were just big triangles! I don’t see them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:43 PM
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Halter tops were big then too. When I was in college or maybe after it was those shirts that were a square of fabric for the front, tied with one slender ribbon (and that’s it) mid-back. Hippie bibs, I think we called them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:34 PM
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Well at least now you are considering divorcing the woman you hate, rather than staying and cheating and making her unhappy, so…progress? But framing it like a supervillain origin story is kind of cringey.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:28 PM
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Chibs. You wound me. I never said I didn’t want these things, just that they were uncommon and not talked about as much (and OP says the same thing). Things were different then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:05 AM
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haha, no, I wasn't. But you raise a point, which is that back then without the internet (and we didn't have cable TV until I was almost finished high school, so I had 4 channels until age 16 or so) and without much television, there was less awareness of what was out there. Like, I knew comic books existed. But finding out what exactly there was took more effort and you needed to know where to look. Same with sex. I remember having to go to the library to read about the G spot, and even then it …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:54 PM
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damn there go all my ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:35 PM
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I thought Croatians were suave? Move it to DMs, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:23 PM
2

That sub is almost as depressing as the one where people pretend they are married to their anime dolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:32 PM
2

They are not married, to answer the first point. No alimony, no half of his shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:30 PM
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She doesn’t even have kids. She probably internalized “the wall” shit and thinks she’s too old to attract a partner now. It’s almost like that RP scare tactic is working as intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:07 PM
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I’m Gen X too and I think we just didn’t do those things much. At least, it wasn’t as prevalent or extreme as now. Internet porn probably changed everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:56 PM
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no witch hunting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:44 PM
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whoa blast from the past...where is she nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:43 PM
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Welp I’m just gonna believe Aegon is real and Ramsay sent the Pink Letter then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:52 PM
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I thought we established Game of Thrones was peak cuck culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:29 PM
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Bitch eating crackers syndrome. I’ve been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:59 PM
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You have to suspend Poe’s Law in a sub with lots of people who have minimal or no social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:57 PM
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Eh. I’ve heard enough men hating on decoy or the occasional BP guy who wanders in here to know neither gender likes it when they feel someone is trying to score points by throwing their own “side” under the bus. I liked gimpgirl anyway. She was crazy but not whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:35 PM
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I miss gimpgirl. No one: Gimpgirl: “I’m gonna get a jacuzzi and some Ukrainian hookers for my husband but do you think I could bury their bodies if they OD in the bathroom?”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:57 AM
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Won’t alienate her from the men. Which is the point of sending up the “not like other girls” bat signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:23 AM
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Surely you know dyson’s whole identity hinges on the revenge fantasy that nobody wants women over 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:07 AM
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I actually liked gimpgirl just because she wasn’t mean and just…did her own thing in her own crazy world. The “not like other girls” type of pickme is annoying though. Edit: Atlas didn’t pull that “I’m different” either. I like Atlas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:05 AM
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I was thinking more gimpgirl but even gimpgirl didn’t pull the “not like other girls” bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:52 AM
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I have a feeling we’re gonna get the Five Stages of Chibs Grief on here once she returns to the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:44 PM
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She'll be back, and soon, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:47 PM
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That's great! I'm glad. The last one was kind of a raging dumpster fire if I remember right. Now you have a hot woman who respects you. That's gotta at least feel validating. :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:43 PM
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Awww...I remember you from posting about your last heartbreak. Well, you still have 2 months. And this always sounds trite, but if you found someone in what seemed like not much time at all before, you can probably do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:34 PM
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Gen X exists, even if our numbers are few and it's mostly guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:31 PM
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I believe in the original original story (under his old user name) she was 36. Not over 40. But hey, I love a tall tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:12 PM
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IFS is a conservative, pro-marriage think tank though. I won’t write off 100% of their stuff but I am skeptical. Also, it wasn’t uncommon at all for married people to have separate beds or even bedrooms back 80 years ago. My great-grandparents had separate beds. I think people used to have sex for a little while, probably mostly for procreation, then kind of stopped. Or wives would starfish it when their husbands wanted to have sex. I guess the point is that I’m not sure the quality and quantity…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:25 PM
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As I posted there, that commenter is a wild ride. “Women have it sooo hard.” Woman responds. “You’re over 30 so nobody wants to fuck you!” Or “Bet your vag is hideous!” wtf lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:13 PM
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I have to say this whole thread is a wild ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:09 PM
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Yeah the worst case scenario guys give on here — woman marries for financial security and stops having sex — was way more common back then. People seem to think that back 60-80 years ago women were having enthusiastic, lifelong sex with guys they married for stability. At least it seems that way when they yearn for this golden age. Back then if an “average” guy wanted premarital sex he would go to a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:39 PM
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Yeah I forgot the obvious — college, if you went. Usually people would do activities and hook up or party and hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:55 AM
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Finally a Gen X thread. Friend circles mostly. I had roommates and their friends ended up providing some dates. Like extended social circles like that. Family friends. My mom or aunt might have a friend my age. One time my aunt’s (younger) coworker came to a holiday dinner because his family was far away and we hit it off. Bars. Coworkers (not recommended). Gyms. Clubs. Running club. Volunteering. Climbing gym. I joined my company softball team and that worked. I’m an introvert who would spend h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:49 AM
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My kid is acting like one right now. Lemme know your address and I’ll put some stamps on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:42 PM
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I mean, in anecdotal experience my attorney said my spouse would get 50-50 custody if he wanted it (as he has the means and ability to care for the child and no criminal or otherwise bad behavior), and this is California, the most woman-friendly state there is. I think a lot of men don't try for 50-50 but complain anyway about not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:27 PM
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Most men do not seek 50-50 custody though. That's just statistics. More than half of men award the mother custody without any contest. Men who meet criteria for 50-50 custody can get it *but they do not seek it* usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:24 PM
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Yes, but you can't bitch about your ex-wife taking your kids away and play the martyr if you actually seek 50/50 custody. Which most guys don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:16 PM
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If you have one kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:14 PM
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Don't wanna inflate his ego and make things harder on myself, so that one's going to remain under lock and key.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:10 PM
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Many, MANY non-stay-at-home parents believe infants sleep all day, toddlers entertain themselves, and mom can just lie on the couch eating chips and chocolate 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:57 PM
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Yes, also NYC has a lot of media and publishing and PR and modeling and other industries that are heavy on women. Makes sense more women live there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:54 PM
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"Chad" was always wearing a pair of Oakleys and saying stuff like "who's got the brewskis?"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:50 PM
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Yeah, I think fit guys with no hair who are short can do well. But it should be said you're facially attractive too, which helps a whole lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:41 PM
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I looked it up: he's "Chet." I grew up in the 1980s and "Chad" was always used as a name for a blond, rich frat boy who was a douche. Like every formulaic high school or college movie had a Chad character.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:32 PM
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There was a movie called “In the Company of Men” about a blond asshole alpha type and a geeky beta type (also an asshole, albeit less of one) going after the same woman, and who she liked ultimately, where the blond guy was named “Chad.” This was in 1997. It was RP 101 and I always figured the name came from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:50 PM
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Ours were co-ed, as were shop classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:14 AM
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I think 30 or 35. I remember my mom taking me to see “A River Runs Through It” at the theater when it came out. Whew. I think he was in his 20s then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:46 PM
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Well yeah because Brad Pitt is like 60 now, it's probably hard to make the connection for you kids. I'm thinking back when I saw him in the 90s. I get my hair cut/done like every 8-10 weeks. It adds up fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:51 PM
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>they're expensive like 50 bucks for men Oh you sweet summer child. Yes, women's cuts are anywhere from $100 to $400 depending on color, highlights, stuff like that. Also, don't pretend you didn't love the Brad Pitt comparison. You've shared it like 5 times now. 😂 It's OK, if someone told me I looked like an actress who was nearly universally renowned for being extremely attractive I'd break that out all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:24 PM
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I mean, you see this because you're a guy but I see it coming from men plenty as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:06 PM
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True. But people on here will try to hit others where it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:58 PM
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Child support is often awarded in order to keep the child living in the standard to which he/she was accustomed during marriage. The man or sometimes woman pays more so that the kid can live nearby if it's an expensive area, especially if the parents are seeking 50-50 custody. If he isn't seeking 50-50, he pays more because that kid is eating and using electricity and gas and other stuff funded by the mother more. Generally men who are fathers don't say "you know? I'm fine with my kid living in …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:33 PM
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No, I believe you know, I just see the terms misused constantly on here by guys. edit: case in point, the OP of this thread was about mothers and somehow it's now shifted downthread to women without kids who quit their jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:09 PM
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Child support is not alimony, no matter how much the manosphere delights in confounding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:06 PM
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No. Don’t Ask Don’t Tell is the way to go. I think that unless you’re into cuck or cuckquean stuff, the reality of seeing your partner enjoy sex with someone else (or knowing it) is enough to destabilize everything. I also would never do a threesome with anyone I cared about for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:47 PM
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Yes. If a woman stays home to raise a kid she will have an extremely hard time finding a job that pays enough to support herself later on. Employees hate resume gaps like the plague. This is also why many SAHMs typically can’t leave a marriage, though, so chances are he’s not at high risk for her just walking. At least not as high as a woman with a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:34 PM
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Yeah the quality of discourse is so much higher with such a refined crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:23 AM
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That "science" tag is doing some heavy lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:36 PM
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She's on here but different name. You have to do some guesswork but not hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:41 PM
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Ouch. But also probably accurate 95% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:37 PM
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Swingers may change their user names but not their kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:33 PM
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Back with a vengeance, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:11 PM
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The subtle camerawork typical of the Baysian oeuvre makes it impossible not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:24 PM
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Not really. There is always a big market for slender, especially among guys with more education and money. I know there someone will chime in about being an exception but this is still the general trend. It wasn't all sunshine and roses. We were all dieting and exercising like crazy and still feeling bad about ourselves. It sucked in many ways. I do think there is a happy medium between rail-thin and obese, like probably most guys appreciate slender to slightly curvy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:22 PM
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Not on the screen. On the other side of it, however...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:12 PM
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The early days of Michael Bay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:03 PM
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I dated in the 1990s and 2000s and trust me, if you weren't thin you had almost no chance at men of a certain bracket (income, social circle, education), and even guys outside that bracket were pretty adamant about weight. Nothing like being 115 pounds and having a slightly tubby guy tell you that you "could stand to lose a few." Negging? Probably. But even so. My friends who were overweight got almost no attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:46 PM
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I know who she is. I had to explain her to you guys. Were any of you even old enough to see her first few movies in the theater?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:41 PM
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Haha, I was being sarcastic. Even the flair is an echo of the previous. It’s him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:50 AM
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However could you tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:42 AM
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GODDAMNIT LULLL, Pacific time is a thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:57 AM
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They call women hags, ugly, fat, etc. but get so triggered over any tiny bit of name-calling that comes their way. men on here are huge babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:36 PM
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Yeah, that was my point. That post was about how status was important and Gen X wouldn't understand, as if we didn't have frats and jocks and "popular kids" and all that. Even the 1960s had those.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:32 PM
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Apparently "status" is this new and very important thing, I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:03 PM
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Aside from my comment history here? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:22 AM
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Patton Oswalt 🥰 That said, he’s like the only one…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:48 PM
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Regulars left or only pop up occasionally and everyone else seems exceptionally angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:33 PM
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Hi Coochies. How’s it goin’?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:59 AM
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In theory they think all women have the capacity to be evil gold-digging whores and like 80% are, but if you Learn the Secrets you can manage those behaviors, so that's how they hamster away the search for the unicorn. I think in reality most RP guys would prefer to have plates for eternity but they realize their limitations and are OK with finding a regular hole to fuck for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:36 PM
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I'm sure this comment thread will not turn into revenge fantasy story hour. Men on this sub hate old women almost as much as they hate young ugly ones. Older people are less desirable. Everyone knows this except some men, who honestly think men have no apex and just continue on an upward trajectory through their 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:29 PM
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Remember when you told me you weren’t one of the men calling all women here ugly? It was like 3 days ago. You were set on it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:17 AM
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Hey, you’re back 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:09 AM
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Hi Hoosker. Same talking points I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:07 AM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:34 PM
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Haha, growing up SPF 15 was the “hardcore” one. Most people used SPF 2 or 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:50 PM
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If there’s still room under your bed you’re fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:27 AM
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There are whole groups on this on the knitting site. I just say "no" when people ask, but like they're prepared whole sheets of sample dialogue for you to memorize in case some family member springs a request on you. Just say "no, it takes like 40 hours to make a sweater, sorry." DONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:39 PM
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There are four or five on here who do, loudly. Probably a few more quietly. But in the real world I think people drop that fetish after high school or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:10 PM
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He’s undergone some evolution I think In his first incarnation I remember he kept asking me and luliloo and maybe Aquachip how many dicks we’d suck while our SOs worked during the day. Lately he’s obsessed with the idea I only want black men. I’m wondering what is next for me on this journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:34 PM
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It was pretty clear going in it was. The bitter little incels and their increasingly ridiculous “discussion topics” on here…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:12 PM
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gotta be
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:34 AM
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sup coochies?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:34 AM
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Yeah men will give you shit about “waiting at the finish line” when we have all seen women who ran the race with a guy (working while he was in med or law school) only to watch him ditch her for a hotter and/or younger woman who was waiting at said finish line. Screw that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:08 PM
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Haha. But it’s different when you become her mom entirely rather than a custody agreement, tense relationship w/ex and stepmom role issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:43 PM
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I mean we might remind our friend of the dangers of getting involved with a single dad (you’re starting at number 2 priority at best, he will not be able to devote all of himself to your shared kids), but honestly most of us who’ve done it figured out very quickly why it sucks and left, never to repeat the mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:12 PM
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Nay. Don’t like facial hair at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:46 AM
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So I guess you’re still in SoCal at those prices
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:44 AM
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Women here get accused of being ugly all the time. Welcome to the club. Actually, you just did it yourself. The universe has a sense of humor I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:25 AM
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The statistics on the number of men who don’t even bother for custody are out there for anyone to see. But hey “those assholes wouldn’t let me see my own kids” sounds better than “I didn’t really care that much.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:56 PM
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The article did note that dads who do not receive child support from deadbeat moms are richer than those who do receive child support from moms. Whereas women who don’t receive child support from deadbeat dads are poorer than moms who do. I would argue that women who don’t get custody are more likely to have a severe issue (addiction, mental illness) as the reason. I’d like to see something on the income of women who aren’t awarded custody vs men who aren’t. It’s known that far more men than wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:55 PM
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Weird. Same article said mothers who are owed child support outnumber fathers who are owed child support by 9 to 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:32 PM
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Do women typically advocate divorcing and then not only not paying child support but not caring for/seeing the kids at all, completely abandoning them, as in OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:30 PM
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We weren’t at this point before on this sub? Dude’s just saying the quiet part out loud for most guys on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:27 PM
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A babysitter that doesn't flake last minute is a rare thing indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:09 PM
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Thank god a man of culture is on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:06 PM
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Milk leaks a lot, not just during orgasm. It’s one of the more annoying parts of breastfeeding. She’ll get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:05 PM
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Yeah, it’s kind of interesting when men who complain American divorce courts are totally biased learn that in, say, Japan, the mother gets the kids 24/7, period, and dad only gets to see them if she feels like it. You don’t even get every other weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:46 PM
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I don’t even own it but somewhere I read there was a knitting component and I was like “ooooh.” Never mind I have played like 4 computer/video games in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:47 AM
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I have to say I like this more than yet another n count thread. It’s going to get removed but I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:08 PM
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In the 2% chance this isn’t a troll… If there are few lactating escorts, there are probably very few lactating women looking to hook up. When I was breastfeeding I had to feed every 2-3 hours round the clock. Most women don’t have time time or energy to engage in random hookups (also, many are with the father of their child).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:04 PM
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Haha. I could see that. The funny thing is he later said he didn’t even really like borscht, he just wanted to impress me. He had to ask his mom how to make it. It’s like an O. Henry story I guess. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:06 PM
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I spent a day and a half in bed once and we didn’t even leave to eat. I don’t even remember how many times it was. Oh, to be 28 again… I remember for our third date (no sex yet) my Russian ex made us dinner. Huge bowls of borscht. I hate beets; they make me want to vomit. But I liked him and wanted to get laid so I smiled and ate the whole thing without stopping and said it was delicious. I guess in a “what’s the most you’ve done to get someone to sleep with you” contest it’s not gonna win any a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:55 PM
1

DOMINUS OF THE LUDUS
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:42 PM
2

The average college student doesn’t want most middle-aged guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:43 PM
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Or he makes the woman so miserable she breaks up with him, then he spends a couple of years alone because women on "his level" aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:28 PM
0

I don't think you'll be getting a ton of sympathy from the guys upset over being "boyfriend material" here...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:24 PM
5

Hollywood has never really sold much of real life. Indie filmmakers, maybe, and usually those roles for women are more nuanced. If in real life you stuck 50-year-old Julianne Moore or Demi Moore or Julia Louis-Dreyfus in front of a bunch of average Joe 35-year-old guys, I'm pretty sure they'd be thrilled (if we're using Hollywood actors as a barometer).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:12 PM
2

Yeah. Many men who are drawn to the excitement/drama of the hot party girl may like or even love the Good Girl who becomes his personal cheerleader, but they will likely miss the drama and sex and roller coaster his exes provided and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:37 PM
1

Maybe online dating distorted stuff? It’s kind of alien to me because I dated 20-something guys in my 20s (in the late 90s/2000s) and they always seemed to have had about or slightly above my level of experience. And they usually were single for months, not years (so was I).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:27 PM
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That was my worst relationship ever. Hard pass. Being treated with indifference or even disdain may work for some women, but not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:22 PM
2

Most men over 50 are looking to date younger women. Everyone knows this. Where TRP and BP may diverge is in how many men will get those women. Many men might hold out for their unicorn for a long time. Many women may just shrug and get hookups off online dating and give up on dating unless someone exceptional comes along. Also, 50-somethings are Gen X, not Greatest Generation. Some of y’all are acting like a 55-year-old grew up in the 1950s. The 1990s, with their egalitarianism, “PC culture,” wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:14 PM
3

Yeah. “But Brad Pitt.” Yes, a man who was exceptionally good looking his entire life stayed good looking. Demi Moore is a woman who was exceptionally good-looking her entire life and stayed good-looking as well. Actors are not “just like us.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:08 PM
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I guess duty sex from a 25-year-old is sweeter than mutually desired sex from a 38-year-old? Because let’s be real, outside of a few daddy fetish types, the average 50-year-old man is not really sexually arousing to a woman in her early 20s. Even a fit 50-year-old isn’t going to evoke anywhere near the same level of desire as a guy in his 20s and 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:05 PM
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A guy with brown eyes is tops. Most of the interest I got in my life was from blond/blue eyed guys though, for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:44 PM
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It is revenge fantasy. Even that verbose, stream-of-consciousness-esque 50-something RP guru who claims to only bang 20-somethings said only like 10% of younger women will really go for significantly older men. RP tells men they can catch this 10% by following These Easy Steps. It’s true that men on here act like wanting only younger women somehow means those women automatically want them back, which isn’t the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:40 PM
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How old are you? If you’re over 35, it is possible those subgroups of women have higher age limits set (and also older women are more likely to have had kids). If not…I don’t know. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:33 PM
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Yes. The guy I lived with had red hair and freckles and I’ve found others attractive. I like red hair, though I wouldn’t say i love it more than other hair colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:31 PM
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Oh, that’s true. I got for major depressive disorder. I think sometimes people say get therapy because they suspect someone has a deeper issue than the surface one they’re writing about. But OCD, for example, is one thing that I think people misuse all the time. It’s a pretty specific thing, not just “easily distracted and needing to have things a certain way,” although that is part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:26 PM
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I think most therapy in the US is cognitive behavioral therapy. At least mine have been CBT, and most of the providers when I was looking practice CBT. I haven’t seen many of the “lie down on the couch and tell me about your mother” therapists around today.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:02 PM
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I wouldn't say women are "looking for" men 10 years older than they are, but most might be at least open to it depending on the man. Generally, marriages between women and men who are 10 years older than those women tend to disintegrate at a higher rate than smaller gaps, though I think it really ramps up at 15 years' gap, and at 20 years' gap it seems all but certain to end in divorce. But as for men? Yeah, they don't want to date a woman 10 years older. Probably aren't even enough of those mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:06 AM
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The boyfriend material threads have convinced me that many men here just don’t like women. They act like every second they have to actually talk to a date or otherwise not be getting their dick wet is a sunk cost and unfair. Just gritted teeth and tapping feet through drinks or dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:12 AM
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Women love attention, so a date is “free attention” for them and therefore it’s not the same, as she is getting what she wants and he is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:06 AM
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Nope! You are still requiring him to invest “his time” in you. And his time is worthwhile (say $40/hr).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:00 AM
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5 at best. I guess 4.5-5. Don't wear makeup generally, though, only rare occasions and I don't think it makes a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:31 PM
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Careers, sure, but mostly kids. That’s when you end up with a financial clusterfuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:51 PM
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Logical. It is no easy thing to take a kid away from one parent half the time and sustain (pay for) two houses big enough for parent and kids instead of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:55 PM
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No. I’m fine with lean up through some chub. 10-20 pounds overweight is fine. I had a BF with an insanely ripped physique (obsessive exerciser) and I actually didn’t like it as much just an average weight guy’s bod. Some muscles are nice but not necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:08 PM
2

Gen X? Yeah, Kate Moss and also waifish pixie actresses like Winona Ryder were big then. Heroin chic and babydoll dresses. High school memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:55 AM
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My goal every day during pregnancy was the same: don’t vomit. This woman has ambition.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:56 PM
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Ahem, grammar man, “data” is plural. Yes, I will die on this hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:48 PM
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No. My high school was majority non-white but I never did. I was in honors classes so my black friends in those classes talked more white, even though there were fewer white people. The goal was to GTFO of that place, through a good school, which meant training ourselves to fit in with the places we wanted to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:00 PM
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Are you a parent? Also, plenty of people cheat due to opportunity, not dissatisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:10 PM
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I mean, she could have 1 partner and he could’ve covered her face in spunk, fucked her in a bathroom, given it to her every which way, etc. And virgins are rare. I think after 26, a guy may have that mental image but he probably covered some woman’s face with cum, fucked some woman in public, etc, himself, so he cares less. I’m not advocating an obsession with these mental images; I’m just saying number of partners doesn’t always correlate with sex acts performed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:51 PM
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*Traditionally OK girlfriend. I don’t make any claims of hotness. Edit: I guess “hot” applies since he actively encouraged me to get that body type and claimed to love it, so it was “hot” to him, in theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:59 PM
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I think also it’s a situation where women instinctively recoil a bit because they can see themselves as the wife one day, with a happy husband cheating. Not good. If you tell the women “my wife is such a nag” they can reassure themselves they won’t be that type of wife and thus won’t get cheated on, so it’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:41 PM
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But with “and” you are referring to both, and it’s plural. If you have a singular and plural in an “or” choice like “either the cat or the dogs are coming over here” (which is kind of bad phrasing but whatever) you put the plural noun last and use the plural verb. At least this is how I was taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:29 PM
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My fitness-obsessed BF cheated with a woman who was obese after making me into his slender, toned Galatea by having us rock climb 6 days per week and telling me how much he loved how I looked as I got down to 103 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:21 PM
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Well, uncomplicated affection is easy from an affair partner. There’s no frustration about who forgot to pack the toddler’s snack, who lost the car keys, how to handle discipline, etc. There’s only sex and camaraderie and escape. And if the (if single) affair partner wants more she gets a talk about priorities and complications and “you knew this going in” and she must accept what is given. Also, it’s not exactly unheard of for men to lie about their home life to get a sympathetic woman in bed. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:18 PM
1

Haha, except men also say that about women over 30, that they’re too picky, ruthless in what they want and unwilling to deviate from “insane” standards. It’s almost like they think … AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:56 PM
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Yes exactly. Pick a side. Admit you want a promiscuous woman to sleep with you right away so you feel like Chad or accept some women need more time to be ready for sex but for God’s sake stop trying to bully non-promiscuous women into fucking you right away with your “I don’t want to be boyfriend material” neuroses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:48 PM
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On “some” level, all. Like I can’t think of many men who will not care at all about a woman with 150 partners. Virgin wife I would put at 5% because outside of super religious people and hardcore trad guys most don’t expect that. The rest I think is a sliding scale and hard to define. Maybe 90% of men care if she has over 50 partners. Maybe 40% care if it’s over 20 partners. I also maintain that if a woman is beautiful enough men will toss that n count preference out the window, and this also is…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:43 PM
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There are very few advantages to being non-promiscuous, speaking as a non-promiscuous person. Yes, you see men go for other women who make themselves sexually available immediately. This happens rather often and you can even see it in the “boyfriend material” threads where many men say they’ll just next a girl who doesn’t fuck on the first date because they’re afraid of her using them as a beta. The woman who fucks a special man immediately but has been sexually conservative with all other men i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:35 PM
1

Yeah. If faced with the choice of being forever unmarried but banging attractive guys off Tinder, and inevitably getting a few disappointing encounters mixed in there, and getting hate-fucked by not-so-attractive husband Brad for 30 years, i wouldn’t hesitate to take the former. Luckily there are a million paths a woman can take with normal guys that avoid this weird “alone slut vs married property” binary they have set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:20 AM
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I won’t name names, but someone from that sub used to yell at me about riding a cock carousel as a young woman. I never even had casual sex. Upon being told that he immediately flipped the script to me being a literal whore because requiring dates or an investment of a man’s time for pussy is prostitution. There is literally nothing they can’t turn into “women bad.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:06 AM
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I looked at like 2 posts once and it was too vile to even hate-read and laugh at. Don’t forget women over 30. Apparently we need to be “sent to the Wall,” and I don’t think it’s the one with Jon Snow. Single moms, fat women, and old women are all repulsive just for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:55 AM
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Yeah, exactly. The men all want it, but there are plenty who won’t return it because it’s “gross” or submissive or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:41 AM
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Yeah, I don’t want to see these things and I watched all those things back when they came out. Well, not Dumb and Dumber, though I remember working at a movie theater when it came out. I was in high school when Kids in the Hall was on and I remember watching it with my one good friend who was into that sort of thing, so this would be peak nostalgia to be ruined. I get people not wanting to roll over and die when they hit 50 but maybe think of a different concept altogether and leave the original…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 09:36 AM
1

I’ll never forget the heartbreak when my application was sent back, rejected, with “no mommy milkers” scrawled in what was certainly a bodily fluid across the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:57 PM
1

My dad? I’ll take the opposite of him, yeah, cheers, thanks a lot. Well, I wasn’t about to rule out white guys but in every other respect, pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:36 PM
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Give her a month and she’ll be shitposting in the daily and joining lulll’s harem like the rest of us wretched women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:30 PM
2

USC campus.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:27 PM
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This comment thread definitely won’t be a dumpster fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:50 PM
4

“Become”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:29 PM
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Most dating sites have gotten in trouble over this. I forget which one had employees pretend to be matches and then go on lunch dates so that they met their “3 dates a month guaranteed” quota.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:38 AM
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I wouldn’t go that far. Sounds like they hit it off. I’m not saying she’s not above average just I think self-esteem issues often run deep and it feels like this was a little bit braggy so I wasn’t sure what the debate issue was.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:59 AM
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Haha. Yeah, haven’t seen him in a bit. He should stay here with us freaks instead of terrorizing the rest of Reddit with his dick vs can of shaving cream photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:33 AM
1

Eight hours ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:30 AM
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I get what you’re saying but this comes off as the Mary Sue “flaws that aren’t really flaws.” Like most people are less knowledgeable about sex than a sex therapist. That’s not a flaw. And teaching is not a profession that high-earning men shy away from in a woman. It never has been. I don’t know. This feels like a veiled brag that you have two dates with a hot, successful guy. I don’t think that was your intention, but at the same time self-esteem issues run a lot deeper than a pep talk in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:03 PM
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I think for me it means he can compartmentalize sex in a way I cannot. It indicates a different feeling about the act, a different significance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:36 PM
2

Yes. However, even one partner can “alpha widow” a woman, god knows we hear about it here enough. I pretty much agree. I think men like the idea of inexperience more than the reality. When they find out their low n “girlfriend material” can’t give a great blowjob or doesn’t know his favorite porn positions/kinks, most men get frustrated and angry. They want to be her first (or third through fifth) because they don’t want to not match up; but they want her to have the knowledge of a woman who kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:32 PM
5

Sex workers? I’ve seen all these terms used to describe women over 30 and/or single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:26 PM
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Men can’t even handle the word “creepy” being used here without throwing a temper tantrum, yet the number of times I’ve been called a hoe, a slut, a hag, ugly, etc. … Men here have feelings as fragile as spun glass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:54 PM
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Back when I was rock climbing nearly every day I had a wonderful physique, defined muscles, weighed maybe 110-115 pounds. Imagine if I talked about the chubby and overweight men who approached me in the same acid tones men on here use to describe fat women who dare to swipe right or flirt at the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:23 PM
2

My OF is going to feature size 21 straight needles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:03 AM
1

Oh no you didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:02 AM
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Oh. Him. He’s one of the more mental ones, and that’s saying something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:34 AM
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Because you presented it as an “OR” situation. As if one sex got one, and the other got the other. Women get both.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:14 AM
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What makes you think women don’t get both? We get mugged too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:10 AM
1

Yeah probably the most would be in the 30-50 group, with outliers in the 50-55 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:55 AM
1

I did it. It was fine. I dunno, I mean Americans tend to be similar culturally so it’s not a huge thing. At least it wasn’t for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:46 AM
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Dude if you want to talk surface-level insults, can I introduce you to the talking point of “the wall”?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:44 PM
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Lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:27 PM
8

I’m 43. Men between 30 and 55 are attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:27 PM
4

Didn’t you recently say women are happy when their man bangs hookers at a Motel 6, as long as it isn’t a nice hotel?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:38 PM
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Oh, yeah, when women seek stuff out it’s “ABNORMAL” interest; when men seek out the same stuff they are “intellectually curious.” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:41 PM
5

A “dig” is an insult, Sad_Top.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:28 PM
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Yes. There are older men on here who don’t get told their opinions are invalid due to age, though. If you want to get a dig in about my looks yet again, though, go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:24 PM
3

I’ve found “I’m not going to have sex without one” works every single time as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:03 PM
5

/sub
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:18 PM
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lol how delightfully original. “The women are ugly and the men are alright or perhaps even above average.” Better men than you have negged us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:53 PM
4

Herpes, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:53 AM
2

Men Are Wonderful effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:39 AM
1

Not today, Satan.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:51 AM
2

Ignore these guys. As if men don’t whine and whine women won’t fuck them immediately and they’re “forced” to sit through 3 dates until they get sex. Men can always be an adult and demand sex immediately if they want. They don’t. Women are only demanded to be strong when it’s in the man’s favor around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:49 AM
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There isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:27 AM
2

Antinatalism subs. If you can push past the hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:07 PM
7

“Boys will be boys.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:05 PM
1

Herpes, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:02 PM
1

He says he edited it and now he gets a lot of matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:34 PM
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It only works one way. Note how many male tantrums ensue over the perfectly biologically logical motivation for women to want to fuck and mate with the hottest men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:29 PM
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The gymnastics. “You must be so ugly that men are paying for you rather than making you pay half.” They are so desperate to neg they don’t care if it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:20 PM
2

Sorry. He can choose another woman who is a good earner if he doesn’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:24 PM
2

I think so. I also think fewer women had high-paying jobs (especially STEM) in the late 90s/early 00s. I meant guys didn’t whine about the price of a dinner (or some beers).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:13 PM
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I wasn’t even hot and guys paid. It’s more income. If a better-off guy sees your scuffed shoes, worn clothes etc and asks you out anyway, he knows what he’s getting into. That’s on him if he likes you enough to want to take you out. He can chase an attorney if he’s so bent over the price of dinner (and I’m not saying that’s wrong because there are a ton of hot, smart attorneys out there, just if a woman doesn’t earn much, you can next her or pay for her but don’t whine like a bitch she doesn’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:42 PM
2

Yeah, same. I think this must be a post-Gen X thing because nobody whined like this back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:32 PM
1

Lol this one didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:56 PM
2

I’ve been pregnant. I didn’t feel it until 6 weeks, when I was more hungry than usual. 3 weeks is very, very early for any changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:45 PM
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Haha. I was working in a movie theater when it came out. I saw it on my breaks. And “ER.” He was cute in “ER,” which is where I first saw him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:39 PM
9

This point is always sidestepped neatly in the cheating debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:35 PM
3

Some women can compartmentalize more. I’m not saying I could. Just some can. If you want to have a child…don’t have sex with someone else. I mean, I can’t imagine being not in love with my partner to the point I would cheat, yet being in love with him enough to have a baby with him. I don’t understand when men do it either (have mistresses while trying to have kids with their wives). It makes no sense. I don’t think most people’s feelings work this way. Most people can’t perpetuate that duality …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:28 PM
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Only if he makes more. People making the same can split. There is usually a disparity in income even at the same age. All the women here except me seem to be married to income-matched people and go 50-50. So I don’t know where you get the idea women expect to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:09 PM
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So why would your cheating matter more? Presumably you can use protection. As could a man cheating. Are you not bothered by the idea of a man coming home and declaring that he knocked up the woman he’s fucking, and sorry but you two are now on the hook for child support for 18 years, and sorry but that college money set aside for your kid isn’t so certain now? Also, do you want him giving you HIV? Both parties risk STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:06 PM
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It does. If you are dating down in age but more so income, you pay. Or don’t date that person. Stick to someone on your level if it matters so much. However, this is the sub of “we don’t care about your career; just be young and hot.” So In theory most men should have no problem paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:03 PM
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I’m sorry. I see men making them every thread and they look like so much fun to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:01 PM
9

Of course you do. This topic is the male hamster wheel spinning into the next galaxy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:53 PM
20

Oh god don’t encourage them. I’m going to get a bunch of guys talking about wine and Clooney now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:51 PM
1

Just tag me next time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:26 PM
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It’s a moot point. If a woman is attractive enough, most men will pay for her dinner. Just like Chad gets fucked right away. There’s your flip side. You’re talking to a sub full of men who believe they’ll be pulling 22-year-olds at 40. I would love to see what happens when these guys ask the hot young dates to split the bill down the middle, though. I’d pay for a first date or multiple dates for someone younger and poorer than me, though I was never in that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:19 PM
1

Hi Hoosker. Why do you keep getting banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:16 AM
2

She looks cuter in the unfiltered shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:21 AM
2

No, a good girl with an appetite. 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:20 PM
5

Giving oral is fun, swallowing is tops.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:23 PM
2

I have too. I’m only a few years younger than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:48 AM
5

Don’t. It’s miserable. It gets worse every year too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:35 AM
1

These people are fucking morons because Texas has never pretended to be liberal. It’s not like Texas aligned politically with liberals until this very last week. If this is some surprise to you, that Texas is gonna Texas, then you have been paying zero attention. That said I was stuck in the South for years, unhappily, and I can tell you location matters and I absolutely would never move back to a place full of people whose values are so opposed to mine. I’m not going to be some martyr to flip a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:34 AM
7

I’ve never seen “deadbeat dad” used for someone who paid his child support, like the woman is doing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:23 AM
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The pussy gang will remember this slight. 😾
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:17 AM
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Ross Douthat. Because David Brooks wasn’t getting right-wing dicks hard enough anymore. I love how he tried to frame repealing Roe v. Wade as the rallying cry of the great, neglected unwashed, like the guy usually sucking off big business is now Marx on the Hudson.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:15 AM
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u/bludkraze is nice enough to cats that I can look past his flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:39 AM
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Just live your best life, kiddo. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:33 PM
1

You’ll need it if you want to make $$ with your OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:05 PM
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I got no shirtless pics tho. 🤔 Jk, I’ll take your word for it. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:50 PM
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It feels like the title, first part of the post, and second part have nothing to do with each other. What view is there to challenge? That women don’t like much younger men? That men like younger women? If you want to say our opinions should be disregarded most men here do that for all women anyway, no need to bring our age into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:16 PM
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He was “Chaste-Monk” yesterday, which is admittedly better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:47 PM
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“Hymen-Lover” was one. Our boy Coochies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:42 PM
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I’d love to know what “younger” is too but the answer will surely disappoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:43 PM
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This goes for the older men too, of course, I assume. Surely we don’t believe in double standards here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:17 PM
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Why should a state with a legal activity care about the origins of people partaking in that legal activity in the confines of that state? No laws are being broken. Texans can do their little Taliban cosplay all they want in the confines of their state now, but they can’t dictate what people in California do in theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:55 AM
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Dunno. He hid the virginity fetish for a while in this one so I didn’t get it right away. I have counted at least 5 alts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:21 AM
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Yes but men act like we are supposed to know the “right” man immediately. If we don’t it is our fault. Yet if they are fooled by a woman they expect pity and sympathy. The point is people can be fooled and hindsight is 20/20.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:06 PM
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FUCK, this is Coochies and I fell for it. Goddamnit. Well played my virgin-obsessed compatriot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:58 PM
3

giving your virginity to a guy does not make him love you above all others. If only.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:53 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:43 PM
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Is the tenet no longer “we are biologically hardwiredTM to spread our seed to as many women as possible”? It’s hard to keep up with the self-justification. And yes I see the trick you’re trying to do with having your cake and eating it too (women want loads of dudes to fuck them but men want loads of women to want only him to fuck them) but it’s disingenuous. At the very least a woman wants men to desire her above all others too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:42 PM
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Only if she likes a beard. Many of us are team clean-shaven. Don’t care about jaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:35 PM
1

Lol exactly. That’s part of the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:08 PM
1

Oh, I remember him and the Moral Majority. Even as a kid I was annoyed by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:04 PM
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Most people on here were little kids (or not born) when George W. Bush got elected and didn’t see this coming for 20+ years (I mean, it’s been coming longer than that, but as far as the wide-eyed “I promise after getting this one thing I want I won’t try to take away any more, honest” BS). Not unique to Bush but it really got perfected as an art form under him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:45 PM
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Shhh…there are still some sweet summer children here who think the religious whack jobs that are our government(s) can’t/won’t go after hormonal contraception.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:21 PM
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Well I also think it’s ridiculous one state can reach out its tentacles all over the place and grab people who are following the law in another state. Nevada has legalized prostitution. And yet where are the laws saying that Arkansas can prosecute Nevadans who drive someone to a legal brothel? Where are the laws saying TN can prosecute a Californian who drives a Tennessean to buy weed that’s legal in CA? It opens up a big set of problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:57 PM
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California, Washington and Oregon just told Texas and Missouri and the others to go fuck themselves if they want to prosecute or sue Californians, Oregonians or Washingtonians for helping people in other states access perfectly legal services in the West Coast states. Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:16 AM
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Well, that goes without saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:35 AM
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It would be state legislatures passing bills to ban them, then those laws inevitably getting challenged in court. It takes a few lower court verdicts before a law works its way up to the Supreme Court (takes years, sometimes).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:37 AM
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Give it 2 weeks. There’s a holiday coming up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:33 AM
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Do you think it’ll just be states first, then the legal challenges meander up to the Supreme Court per usual?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:24 AM
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They’ve wanted to walk through for 20+ years. Seriously, all this has been forever in the making.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:22 AM
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Benefits their taxes though. Wait until they’re paying to raise Chad’s 10 kids and they’re still not getting laid. If they’re ok with this tradeoff, then fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:35 PM
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Baby trapping a Republican is an own goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:24 PM
1

Alito let the radical left bully him into not citing that 17th-century witch hunter in his final version of the opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:07 PM
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Alito’s opinion cited a 13th-century English text as part of legal precedent for fetal death. JFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:06 PM
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In some states. But if you have the money sunny California will happily accommodate you. We’re joking we should put a clinic in terminal 2 at LAX. Hey, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:59 AM
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Kavanaugh doesn’t really seem to understand how BC works either, he conflated it with abortion. The opinion in this case is narrower, but there will be another case somewhere (and legislators will look to capitalize on the conflation of BC and abortion to push to get BC banned on a state level).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:34 AM
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I mean, I’m pissed as hell too but for now birth control pills are still an option. Protect yourselves, ladies. I agree you shouldn’t just fuck guys you don’t respect or who seem to have nothing going on. Aim high.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:38 AM
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Yeah I wouldn’t get one but flapper has another medical issue she outlined. My grandmother had one at 29 (after 3 kids) to prevent ovarian cancer…they used to perform them a lot in the 1950s or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:25 AM
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We have been asking these questions for 30 years and the religious idiots don’t care that they are illogical. They simply do not care and the questions are useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:46 AM
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They offer to tie your tubes when you are in labor delivering a child, weirdly enough, so it’s not viewed as a totally radical procedure. They’re just more skittish about performing it for women with no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:40 AM
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Yeah, I’m pretty angry too. Pregnancy was my biggest fear when in my 20s so this touched a nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:24 AM
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Just get your tubes tied…way less invasive I think. It’s not something they love to do for women without children but some docs do it I heard. Edit: nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:22 AM
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Lol no but I was around when Jesus Christ had his moment of doubt and pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:56 PM
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Yeah mine was awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:48 PM
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Me. 43. I’ve heard every insult under the sun about my age on here, so don’t bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:26 PM
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Meow meow brown cow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:16 PM
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Hello. You’re back. Tell us about the starving children, George.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:55 PM
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I’m sorry. I always voted for contraception/abortion rights candidates. Fat lot of good it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:51 PM
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Clarence Thomas and Kegstand Kavanaugh both conflate BC and abortion though…I’m unsure this is a fringe thing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:12 PM
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Thank Christ I was fertile during this country’s brief window of sanity. I feel bad for the younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:33 PM
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Mostly for women who’ve had kids. I only had one and they were happy to give me one if I had wanted it. They’re afraid of getting sued by women who change their minds (why a woman with one kid wouldn’t change her mind too is anyone’s guess, but I dunno).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:32 PM
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Contraceptives. Even Kavanaugh can’t tell the difference between contraception and abortion and he’s one of the people deciding the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:25 PM
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No, I was an idealist who wanted more. But my child was so difficult as a baby/toddler that I quickly decided against that. I went back to birth control pills after breastfeeding was done.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:21 PM
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They don’t love giving it to childfree people. However, when I was in labor with my first/only kid they asked if I wanted one while they were in there. What timing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:17 PM
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According to the LA Times we’ve been planning to open a lot more near transportation hubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:54 PM
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Their argument is not grounded in science, but they argue that the pills thin the lining of the uterus and thus it’s impossible to know if a fertilized egg is being kept from implanting via this mechanism. The hardliners are mental but they have a script and they will not deviate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:51 PM
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Or condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:38 PM
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Yeah I was terrified of pregnancy so I always used the pill (plus condoms before an STD test). Never had an issue. I find it weird men and women will fuck without any form of contraception. I’d be scared the whole time I’d get pregnant and it would be unenjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:37 PM
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No, but if the argument is that life begins at fertilization, then anything that “kills” a fertilized embryo is murder. Preventing a fertilized embryo from implanting is abortion, then. While I haven’t seen anything about it now, I worked at a reproductive health journal for 2 years where I regularly talked to state and federal antiabortion legislators and this is a main belief in antiabortion communities. They were mad AF about Plan B (this was before it was available over the counter). It hing…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:34 PM
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I actually did until STD tests for both parties and I only had sex in a relationship, but most people on this board don’t use them and report most of their friends don’t either. I was always too afraid of AIDS to go raw before an HIV test but most people here seem more nonchalant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:28 PM
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Hormonal BC has been on state legislatures’ hit lists for 20 years or more. If they can work it so abortion involves an implanted embryo, there is a wide range of contraceptives that could be banned, including IUDs, birth control pills, and obviously Plan B. All those methods can prevent implantation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:26 PM
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Hope you like condoms, boys. I predict a comeback.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:22 PM
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Yeah, I did love my oral contraceptives. And I got pregnant the first month after I stopped, so it didn’t kill my fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:18 PM
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State legislatures have wanted to ban forms of contraception that prevent implantation of an embryo for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:11 PM
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Started with Reagan, accelerated under later Clinton era and W Bush, and went full speed during Obama. Yeah, people act surprised like both a politicized court and abortion restrictions haven’t been happening gradually for 30-40 years. There was a brief lull after Casey v Planned Parenthood but not for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:05 PM
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Wait…he flipped on you too, right? That was nuts. I hope he comes back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:01 PM
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I can’t imagine what my 20s (and early 30s) would have been like without the pill. Thank god the country was sane back when I was at risk of pregnancy. I still use birth control for my periods now in my 40s. And not a Chad in sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:59 PM
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Yeah, the first one was wild. Some guy called me a homophobe because I believed in COVID masks. Bring it back, mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:56 PM
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California is looking to become an “abortion tourism” (or “refuge” but the language depends on who’s using it) destination, for real. Texas can cry about it but it’s not illegal for us in CA to help anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:53 PM
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There must be a glitch because 10 minutes with no posts is unreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:10 AM
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Never claimed that. But I was told by someone here I had married a very high-tier beta who was out of my league, if that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:17 AM
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We’d have to walk all the way to the bathroom/alley and I get distracted easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:08 AM
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I’ve learned many times on here that I am fat and also that I would let Chad drive it up my ass within 5 minutes of meeting him if he was hot enough or a drug dealer. This place is great at teaching me about my life and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:59 AM
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Tenured jobs are among the few with strong job security, and the pay and health benefits are usually great. Depends where you are I guess. But you will end up spending a lot of time with other academics, which can be tedious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:20 AM
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No. Guys’ bodies matter less to the aged anyway though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:26 PM
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Man cheats: bitch got fat or is otherwise horrible. Woman cheats: how very dare she, men give and give and give but hypergamy, fuck women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:24 PM
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90% of this sub has no children and it is painfully evident in every discussion about parenthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:31 PM
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Mine was self-cleaning and was able to be placed in park when I went out drinking with the girls, I don’t know what everyone else’s problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:28 PM
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Well, I really liked the book after the first page so it wasn’t a hardship. I read one almost in one sitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:42 AM
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Mine too. He was fat and fabulous. Also an asshole. I miss him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:41 AM
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Orange tabbies are the absolute best.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:21 AM
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Awwww … they are adorable! You keeping them all?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:13 AM
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Male plausible deniability strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:32 AM
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Yes. My dad was the attractive junkie bad boy the men here love to moan about, but luckily I got his hair and large eyes. Mom was pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:45 PM
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Read the Game of Thrones book series (back in 2005) so I’d have something to talk about at our company softball games when we got to talking, since he was apparently a fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:03 PM
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Well we have subjective opinions on low n is and subjective opinions on what high value men are so as is this won’t be accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:03 PM
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I’d also love to know how the extended sex lives of those couples stacked up compared to the hot, 24/7 bang fest most RP men here expect (claim they will demand, even) their married life to be. Lots of women closed their eyes and thought of England.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:44 PM
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It was! Ok it took 10 months. For 6 of those I was breastfeeding though and he had trouble with it so I was home a LOT trying to feed all the time and boost my supply through foods (oat cookies mostly). But after that I had a stomach issue that caused me to lose the weight because it hurt when I ate…which means I avoided eating. I got back to 120, so I did not get back down to 108 or whatever I was before, but 120 is recommended for my height so no big deal. I had gained 55 pounds. I guess I los…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:22 PM
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0 points for accuracy but 100 points for a creative approach to MILF-hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:09 PM
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Corey Stoll can totally get it. I mean he’s only 2 years older than I am, but still. Would bang 100%. In any event I think weight is the bigger issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:39 PM
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I was underweight when I got pregnant and I started gaining immediately, and fast. Doctors say your body starts grabbing all the calories it can. And underweight people gain more in the first trimester.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:25 PM
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If they’ve been quiet 10 minutes…best go in there before something catches fire or lawyers need to get involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:20 PM
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She is. Even confirmed it for me once.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:28 PM
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I find her pretty unfunny (I saw 2 episodes of her TV show and that was plenty), but I like the sketch she did with Tina Fey, Julia Louis-Dreyfus and Patricia Arquette about women getting older.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:29 PM
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Hell no. Alas, some of these genes can’t be outrun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:14 PM
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You don’t seem to like your wife very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:28 PM
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Just kidding. Six feet maybe 5 11 I don’t know. Above average I think (6.5? 7?). Over $300k a year. Not like anyone’s gonna believe me but there you go. I’d like to add viewing numbers like this doesn’t give any picture of what a relationship is really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:51 AM
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Haha. It’s a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:42 AM
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This is ppd dude. Too late to worry about anything getting weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:33 AM
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Most childless women don’t want to be stepmothers. The idea they do is male fantasy that plays into the idea all women love kids and want to be moms/play mom. In reality most women would like a guy’s undivided attention and would prefer all his efforts go to raising her offspring, not someone else’s. I understand why single moms don’t appeal to childless men for the same reasons. This is why divorced parents usually date each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:15 AM
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Age: we become invisible. That and pregnancy/childbirth/child raising. When push comes to shove (like COVID) women still usually leave their careers to care for children, and that makes them financially vulnerable. Having kids is more disruptive to a woman’s life in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:48 AM
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Zip ties 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:45 AM
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And I was told only women straw man. How did you get all that from her question or even the comment she was replying to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:45 AM
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Raising a family as a unit. Otherwise…I don’t think there’s much point unless you need it for legal reasons (like insurance or immunity).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:29 AM
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Men seeing you as a sign of social acceptance (like one noted even in this thread) doesn’t equal raw attraction or desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:13 PM
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Different demographics of guys fetishize different races of women. 🤷🏼‍♀️ We are probably fetishized least though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:36 PM
2

We are not overrated, we are generic, but there is a large market for generic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:40 PM
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And he will resent the woman he dropped his standards for. I had a BF who thought he was slumming. It was not pretty from my end. It didn't seem to bring him any joy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:58 PM
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Guys regularly cite Lena Dunham and Lizzo as bywords for women they don't like or desire. Ergo, men don't like "women," just "some women."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:49 PM
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That’s not as high I think as some ex-USSR countries. My ex was a surgeon in Belarus and despite being extremely “trad male”/RP equivalent as a man he said it was totally fucked there with the sheer number of women who’d come in with broken jaws and cheekbones and noses. Especially after sports events. They tried having a “women’s appreciation day” but it was actually worse because guys would get drunk in the day and beat the shit out of their wives/GFs that night, so like all the docs always ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:01 PM
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Yeah my dad had tattoos and pierced ears (now just tattoos) so my aversion is at least partly due to my lifelong mission to avoid men like my father. I do think generally young women are more likely to find them a net positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:40 PM
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Hey, rebellious teens are appealing to lots of guys. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:37 PM
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I have 3 half-brothers ages 20-26, all either in trades (electrician, carpenter) or union jobs (trash collection), all with GFs, although one is dating his high school GF still. I can’t extrapolate from that but it’s not the 100% dealbreaker people say it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:30 PM
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Basically — You don’t like older women, right? They are probably the group (esp. older white women) least into it. Young women are more into it if I had to guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:23 PM
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No, I agree they’re kind of immature unless you want rebellious teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:20 PM
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For those who like it it’s a huge plus, like tattoos. For those who don’t it’s a minus, but I think you don’t want the women for whom it’s a minus so you’re good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:17 PM
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They believe all this and more. Men are wonderful effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:43 PM
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I think it depends on the parent. Also I do think they are slightly different. Dads often feel a pride of lineage I and other women may not necessarily feel, whereas I might feel the protectiveness/bond of having sustained him through pregnancy and breastfeeding that a dad can’t feel. They’re no less strong one than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:07 PM
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Only 2 women had filters and a lot of makeup, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:34 PM
2

I mean, I was expecting a LOT of hatred to be unloaded. This is a sub where men think women need to be taken down a bunch of pegs AND "zendaya is mid af." I only saw like a few mean comments, most of them were guys ripping on the guys, but then maybe my expectations were so low I figured everyone would be throwing insults everywhere and I was surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:33 PM
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The last thread was full of men (not the men in the photos, just in the comments) complaining the women were allowed to artificially boost themselves with makeup and it wasn't fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:22 PM
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The last feedback thread was weirdly positive. I was expecting a lot more hate for the women. It feels like the more rules there are the less people might participate? It was already hard getting 10 people for the other. The discord part was fun. I'd totally return for another one. Since everyone's seen me I hope I've earned the right to snoop 🙂 I'd start out saying 2 pics: one face (no makeup) and one body? Then if nobody agrees, allow makeup? I don't know. I don't know what filters exist (smar…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:10 PM
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I thought he was talking about Jewish guys (dating normie women of any ethnicity/race), but I'm not so sure the cultural differences are very pronounced for either gender anymore. But I was referencing my actual grandfather, who said he was glad my kid took after me and "turned out white" (husband is Jewish). This was not an uncommon sentiment for his generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:58 PM
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Yeah, I've never seen anyone claim that, ever. I've seen women say that men's misogynistic personalities don't stay hidden for long, which is generally if not always true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:44 PM
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white and Jewish Hi, grandpa, thought you were dead?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:40 PM
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Why would I know what neo-Nazis look like? And when did we claim to have personality detectors that can extract personalities from literally a dozen words and 3 photos?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:34 PM
1

Sometimes they adapt them for local markets. If you are in Canada it is the ice hockey team.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:32 PM
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No, no, we don’t fuck the team in high school. We wait until we’ve found a rich guy to marry and then call the coach to have the team show up one night when the husband’s gone on a business trip. Was this question not on your test when you graduated? It was on mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:02 PM
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Dunno. He says when he’s with friends he isn’t. But that’s all I remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:12 PM
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Sad_Top is a Stacey-chaser and thinks women in LA aren’t attractive. I wouldn’t use him as a metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:03 PM
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Hi lulll someone is trying to steal your mommy milker hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:11 PM
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He wants more kids. Which means, even though I am younger than he is, I wouldn’t make his age filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:58 PM
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Lulll? I thought you said alts were cucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:15 PM
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Same. Fat, old, and ugly are the usual and men use them a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:11 PM
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Ime, guys aren’t aren’t typically mad about not getting casual sex full stop Some are. Weird we had a few threads recently of guys getting mad because they said all sex that is NOT casual is basically prostitution, as a guy has to "pay" for it with attention or food or whatever. Therefore, it is not sex worth having. And even in the boyfriend material debates there is a prevailing sentiment that men are gritting their teeth through the movie or dinner or coffee part of a date to get what they wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:09 PM
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Over 40, only marginally employed in a badly paid, dead industry, with no lucrative skills -- bad. Large green eyes and I have been told very good smile -- well, I could at least leverage the latter into a bartending job at some tropical resort, maybe, so ... good?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:27 PM
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Yeah, in retrospect I was just being regularly hate-fucked by someone who put on a thin veneer of civility to get consistent sex. But I would agree with your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:04 PM
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yeah, same. Or guys who say they're dominant but don't actually dominate, they just kind of order you around and take, take, take.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:58 PM
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Maybe, but I think it was also because Tom Cruise's image wasn't that of a really threatening, masculine guy, it was a mostly a pretty boy, and nobody wanted to fuck with his image (with good reason, considering how much people laughed at the idea of him playing Lestat in Interview with the Vampire). Young Marlon Brando and Clark Gable and Jeremy Irons could've gotten away with being rough on screen; not Tom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:51 PM
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hahaha, I even thought of tagging you for this one! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:24 PM
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I can't say I'd challenge this per se except to add that you have to do both, because pushing boundaries is one thing but feeling actually genuinely used and discarded by someone who has shown you not one iota of care is more of a fetish. Wasn't sure if you are saying you have to be one or the other, or just that you need to mix in domination. I have discussed this a little, and I think what happens for women is that a lot of guys have sex with their girlfriends differently from their ONS/FWBs, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:15 PM
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Shades of my grandma “always wear clean underwear in case you get in a car accident.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:02 PM
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I agree but there are reports of sexlessness in Areas of Japan and South Korea with better (if more crowded) transportation networks and higher population density than just about anywhere in the world. Admittedly Japan is super expensive but men were until recently generally able to make a decent living at an office job. I think there are cultural factors and economic ones at play that are global (car culture does make socializing harder, though).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:59 PM
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I have a name, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:41 PM
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Because 🥶
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:35 PM
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PJs are also psychologically comforting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:22 PM
1

Yes. I'm pretty certain I couldn't. Edit: I guess I should specify, not with someone under 53 (10 years older) and not obese (I am not overweight). I realize now men will say I’m being unreasonable but oh well…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:15 PM
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I mean, compared to being a woman in a war-torn country getting raped by soldiers or working in a sweatshop in China...yeah. But then again, men in the first world who aren't living with the chance of being conscripted into some warlord's army or living with the ever-present threat of death in North Korea (or working in a sweatshop in China) are also living on easy mode. There is always someone worse off in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:19 PM
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Haven't you seen the many, many posts from guys on here saying rape/sexual assault is overblown and "a meme" at this point? Paternity fraud happens even less than that. And I was noting what Aquachip was, that guys can cheat and father kids with other women too, which financially affects a couple. Also, demanding a paternity test when there's no reason to suspect cheating is akin to me accusing a guy of cheating with no evidence and demanding his phone to prove he's not. Most guys wouldn't like …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:57 PM
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It's nice that this sub's downplaying/making fun of women's concerns about rape recently ("so overblown" and exaggerated) has ushered in male hysteria about something that happens even more rarely. I imagine I'd react to a guy demanding a paternity test about the way a man would react to me demanding at random, unprovoked, to search his phone to see if he has a girlfriend (even better, one who had his kid and is now draining our joint finances) on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:53 PM
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It's weird. But it was a common thing to be out with my baby and have randoms say "Oh, we know who his daddy is!" Like...why are you thinking about me banging some other guy, old lady #3 on the street? Finally my husband snapped one day and said "Well, it was either me or Shaq, but I guess that mystery's solved now."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:42 PM
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I’m kidding, don’t worry! 🦝
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:48 AM
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I have a feeling stuff happened and she is protecting him from the potential fallout of you blowing up his life and contacting his wife. I just don’t see why a married guy would hang with a loose cannon who wants to have sex with him, risking more feelings and her blowing up his life herself when he doesn’t reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:44 AM
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I think he is probably putting up a show of resistance before giving in. Edit: or something sexual happened and she’s protecting him from fallout from you being mad and blowing up his life. I’m sorry this happened to you. This must hurt immensely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:37 AM
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Of course they don’t. Unrelated: bandit, why don’t you ever answer my DMs? 😿
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:34 AM
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Is this meant to sell us on your OF? Because, umm…. Also i thought you were going raw before? I seem to remember going into mom mode and giving you a talk about STDs.😒
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:42 PM
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Yeah, I know about that risk and was really wary of the drug for that reason. I got headaches/migraines at 450 mg/day but at 300 I'm fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:20 PM
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Wellbutrin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:01 PM
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The implication that things might go wrong for her if she chooses not to sleep with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:03 PM
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Especially the parent part. I would waive the higher education part because guys who are carpenters or can work a trade well aren’t low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:00 PM
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The question was what defines a low value man to you, not all of womankind. There are plenty of high n women who get married to attractive guys and yet men here will call high n women low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:55 PM
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Thanks! Old woman who talks shit, I figured it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:29 PM
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At 20 mine was 2 so anything higher than that. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:26 PM
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Haha, yeah. A comment didn’t show up and one showed up 3 times. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:24 PM
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Perhaps, but there's some weird narrative on here that men in their 40s are this sea of fit silver foxes while the women are mostly Roseanne Barr. In reality there is probably a similar amount of dumpy 40-something men and women, but the dumpy 40-something men are still (unsuccessfully) trying for the younger women, like the inverse of men and women at younger ages. As an anecdote, even my early 40s friend who is a former professional dancer (from Colombia and still with long, black curly hair) …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:16 PM
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I don’t know, as I’ve never been in an FWB but my gut instinct is she is hoping it turns into something more in time. Or she knows it won’t but has feelings and doesn’t want to let go yet. But this is coming from the viewpoint of someone who can’t fuck without feelings happening to her. Some people compartmentalize better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:50 PM
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It is known. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:45 PM
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I only know of 2 actual FDS women, and one more who’s kind of just mental but in a similar way. Every woman on here has been called FDS at some point though. A few sporadic crossovers pop up on other threads but never stick around that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:03 PM
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Yeah his made sense (sort of, if you kind of glossed over the light speed developments to get him there). I’m just salty we are getting more “universe” stuff when the core series is unfinished.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:59 PM
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NO. NO NO NO NO NO. Bold to have a sequel when his main story wasn’t even finished by the damn author.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:53 PM
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So the whole litter was girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:01 AM
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Awwwwwwww! 🥰 So adorable!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:06 AM
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Yeah that was what I was trying to get at. Women over 45 stop dating because guys their age don’t want them, not the other way around. OP even says this in the original post (all men want young women) so it’s kind of weird he puts the blame on older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:38 AM
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I doubt it would make a difference. I think there are very few 25-year-olds (or 35-year-olds) interested in sex with a woman over 40, even if she makes herself very available.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:36 PM
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Leo, but I do love my fellow kitties.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:55 PM
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😊 not before my time, ma’am
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:46 PM
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Who whoa. 43 here. Gen X ended in 1980
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:40 PM
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We aren’t disagreeing. It’s kind of contradicting yourself in the OP to say women over 45 are affecting anything at all. Nobody wants women over 45 so whether they drop out or not, it’s irrelevant. They are not skewing dating numbers. I only take issue with the idea men in their 60s-70s are really “competing” with younger guys for women in their 20s. The number of old dudes who have enough money to make a very young woman have sex with them is pretty small.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:25 PM
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No they did try. They wanted sex and companionship. But there were few men who wanted it back from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:15 PM
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They’re definitely playing with fire. Single young subordinate employees with nothing to lose can deliver divorce papers and a pink slip at once, pretty much guaranteeing no women of any age for the guy in question for quite some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:47 PM
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I think with workplace affairs there’s a power dynamic that can be attractive to some women. “Hey, new young female employee, let me show you the ropes and make my title/seniority sound a bit more important and give you a sympathetic ear.” I don’t think it necessarily works that way for senior female employees and young male colleagues. This is nothing new. I had older male colleagues do this back in the early 2000s. Many women experienced it. What I mean is men my age now do it themselves. Now,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:47 PM
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I’m Gen X and I think in my group it’s still very much men who cheat more, probably because we (women) mostly didn’t do online dating in our youth and aren’t comfortable with soliciting sex from it as much as younger people. Guys my age still seem to do the workplace affair thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:37 PM
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Yeah, probably true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:28 PM
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If she’s having sex with a 60-something SD, I would bet the farm she’s banging one or more younger guys as well. Sixty-year-old men are taking no 20-something women out of the sexual pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:02 PM
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Bingo. And I’m a woman. I know most men don’t have interest in us once we pass 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:42 PM
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The 45+ guys don’t date down because they have to. They date down because they want to. Oh I still have a sex drive, trust me. And if guys over 40 en masse wanted to start desiring and dating women over 40 I’d be thrilled. But that’s not how it goes for the most part. I think rather than try to sift through the very shallow pool of available 40+ guys looking for a relationship (non-hookup) with a woman their age, women would rather be alone and occasionally bang someone off OLD when they wanted …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:36 PM
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I don’t know what 45+ women giving up on dating has to do with young (18-30) men not getting laid though. It’s not like those two groups traditionally dated each other. Only rarely do they fuck each other. I can only speak as a soon-to-be old woman, but I am not sure how much of a priority dating would be if I were divorced. Most women over 45 have a kid or kids. Raising kids alone or mostly alone is hard and time-consuming. Men in their 40s and early 50s want to date younger. Maybe she doesn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:17 PM
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I get them rather often but when I post about oral sex it’s like instantaneous and has been for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:46 PM
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I dunno. Someone sends me a redditcares msg every time I say I like getting oral sex. So not everyone likes pussy-eating week.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:41 PM
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Men here drastically overstate the amount of unsolicited attention the average woman gets on social media. They’re focusing on (a) really hot women who post anything, and (b) average/above-average women who post thirst traps. I think you are partly talking about two different groups, in that there is a large segment of women who are average and not sexual on TikTok/IG who feel bad because they see both photoshopped images of hot girls AND the reaction this provokes in men, who go for the hot gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:33 PM
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I think guys who’d randomly eat women out get off on giving it. But doesn’t matter; I’m an only child and we are selfish by nature…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:14 PM
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Yes and no. Yes in that I could probably get off from a wide range of guys, looks wise, doing it. But we’d need a filter maybe for technique because some guys kind of go too hard and it can hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:11 PM
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Oh good, it’s pussy-eating week. That “good” is unironic btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:56 PM
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👋 Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:23 PM
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If faced with a scenario of a potential romantic partner finding out I (a) watch porn several times a day or (b) post here several times a day I would take my chances with the porn discovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:45 PM
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Watch “Felicity”? Talk about AOL dial-up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:43 PM
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Hey!! Gen X cat owners represent. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:39 PM
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You are assuming men have the patience and willingness to teach women what they like. Many do not. IME men don’t think it’s cute or endearing when a woman doesn’t know what she’s doing. They get frustrated and annoyed. Also, there is still a remnant of a virgin-whore dichotomy where many men don’t want to dirty their girlfriend with the acts they happily perform with their fuckbuddy/ONS. I’m formerly the low n girlfriend and this was my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:36 PM
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I can't figure out the end date for Gen X. I think it's 1981 but am unsure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:05 PM
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To propose a sequel to a previous question: where is Gen X here these days? Although as far as I recall it was only ever purplish possum, orange paisley, me, and that swinger guy, who seems to have left. Edit: forgot poppy and angels-fan, both also semi-AWOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:00 PM
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If all you want is to get laid and you can't stand a woman's company beyond that, I would HIGHLY rethink the life path of having children. Because you will spend a lot of time together and, depending on the temperament/needs of your kids, your energy, and your life circumstances, you might spend a lot less time having sex, maybe for a short while, maybe for years. If you don't enjoy being around a woman outside of sex, just use prostitutes or, if you want more cuddling/affection, albeit still fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:46 PM
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He’s very attractive. I am not sure if it’s racial or women assuming he’s Muslim or both. But yeah, very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:17 PM
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😏
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:58 AM
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uncle husband Uhhh…???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:43 AM
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🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:00 AM
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Yeah men don’t know. But also I think men don’t realize they can get shared custody if they meet requirements. Shared custody = lower child support bill (if you can provide the care).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:53 AM
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Isn’t this just from living in a no-fault state? No-fault wouldn’t penalize a cheating husband either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:51 AM
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I’d tell men and women to do it. Women too should know what child support means, how custody is determined etc. Also different avenues like mediation vs. court trial. It’s very valuable info.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:48 AM
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Obesity is heavily correlated with economic class. The vast majority of poor people are overweight/obese, and even if they aren't, it takes a lot of money to have good hair, skin, teeth, nails, etc. Therefore, "the (legal adult) hot chick working at McDonald's" is so statistically unlikely as to be not useful other than a revenge fantasy projection from the "we don't care about your career" crowd. You're right the rich guy probably won't marry the Walmart cashier. At least part is fueled by fear…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:05 AM
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Yeah, I agree. It makes you feel better but it also makes you realize what you don’t have and how much less satisfying it is going it alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:58 PM
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Yes, this exists, but it goes away in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:48 PM
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You know with the first sentence i actually had hopes for your redemption arc. alas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:20 PM
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I can't witch hunt by saying who but yeah, there are 2 in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:17 PM
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Mods, new sidebar rule that anyone putting forth the image of Ted Cruz smashing gets a 30-day ban pls?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:39 PM
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I like how ordinary weight women are a 4. Then guys in one thread say they won’t approach unless she’s a 7 or higher. But also “Men have to take whatever they can get because women are so picky.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:24 PM
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Male ppd privilege. I think I made the mistake of describing myself as average once or twice and had guys jumping over each other to tell me I was ugly. You get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:59 PM
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No kidding. Especially “average” women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:56 PM
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slyfer....this way madness lies....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:26 PM
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Women? Some guys here love nothing more than talking about how ugly nearly all women are. Makes them feel powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:10 PM
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Some people think trauma can imprint on genes. For example, they found the stress response in the descendants of Holocaust survivors is slightly different. Sons of POWs (born after imprisonment) are more likely to die younger. But it's not really a fully researched area. There have only been small studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:52 PM
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You've used that line on me before for this very thing 😂 Now I know I'm a (journalistic) plate. It's not a big deal. Just if you want!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:37 PM
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I still think of an article where The NY Times described JD Salinger as “rolling over in his grave” when he was still alive at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:27 PM
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My DMs are open for the high praise 🙂 Criticism too. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:13 PM
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/career The worst is when you think you nailed an article and the editor hands it back with a million questions and dislikes the intro you spent forever agonizing over.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:03 PM
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Hmmm…I would weigh in but I don’t recall getting any feedback from some readers… 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:00 PM
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Hey Hoosker. Long time no see.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:03 AM
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I ask this question daily on here. Oh hell I ask it like reading every other post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:02 AM
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Yeah but tall guys don’t physically hurt you during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:36 AM
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I mean, I read this sentence as an absolute statement: "If your girl has had sex with someone thats more well endowed than you before your relationship you will never fully satisfy her." As in, no matter what, you can't be better than the larger guy. I don't think that's true. A big guy who thinks he can jackhammer and that's it isn't going to be remembered fondly. Yeah, if you get down to 2 inches that will be tough no matter how small the woman, but smaller women do best with average dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:32 AM
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That is different from “the biggest dick is always the one that is most pleasing, the end.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:01 AM
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What, in the name of fuck, is this? Women have different vaginal sizes too and bigger isn’t always better for some. Even if we are accepting the premise that a huge dick is automatically an orgasm-producer, which it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:55 PM
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I had a married coworker way back when flirt heavily with me and then ask me if I wanted to start seeing him. His wife had just had a baby like 3 months prior and “was never in the mood anymore.” Luckily when I said no he was angry and never spoke to me again. I’m average btw. Not “that girl” by any stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:24 AM
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him being an old senior citizen while she is still young and middle-aged Winner winner chicken dinner. This is why divorce rates are so high for large age gap marriages. Men who are “distinguished” at 40 are simply old at 55-60, at least to a woman of 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:57 AM
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Ok I can see it. I had to Google him though!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:02 AM
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Haha. Well, I told you so! You can deny all you want but…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:22 PM
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