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that final "discussion" in the update reminds me of my shitty foster parent when I was 10. "you did this didnt you" poor dude, no one is going to save him.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 04:26 AM
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"this post screams bitterness and jealously" "how? .... I'd fuck her, sure, ...." that was completely irrelevant to the response.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 04:14 AM
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TRP are against? not against pussy pass, just point out that it happens.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 05:13 AM
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Nothing can happen to any human being outside the experience which is natural to humans - an ox too experiences nothing foreign to the nature of oxen, a vine nothing foreign to the nature of vines, a stone nothing outside the property of a stone. So if each thing experiences what is usual and natural for it, why should you be saddened? Universal nature has brought you nothing you can't endure. Another does wrong. What is that to me? Let him see to it: he has his own disposition, his own action. …
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/14 08:14 AM
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I take a lot of my philosophy from stoic philosophy, I dunno why - it always just resounds with me. do what is right, everything is external to you. your duty is to keep the god that is within you happy. you cannot expect everyone to do it correctly - but you must strive to do everything you do correctly. because nothing will stop you from achieving except for your own ignorance. what does not harm the city does not harm the citizen either; if a man complains, that is his problem, but you cannot…
/r/askTRP26/10/14 10:18 AM
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write in a gratitude journal daily, keep record of my happy memories, say affirmations this is where your problems lie in my opinion. that's a really bad way to go about it. I'm talking from a schizo with family history of depression and also in uni perspective here. you don't only write the good shit. you write it all. write how you failed and why you failed. this gets it out of the system, forces you to acknowledge and reflect on it, and you will be able to look back on it. for instance I wrot…
/r/askTRP26/10/14 09:57 AM
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Get your wife to work out with you. you will both look and feel great. doing it together will be wonderful. good work on taking control but remember that A stone can build and it can also destroy - take care in what you are strong for and about. You have a restaurant - that is very good. a sign that you're a smart man.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 09:45 AM
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One thing I can never understand about TRP; whenever a marriage comes up everyone blames the wife for being crazy; then goes on to say wives in general are teenagers and the husband needs to always be in control. its like they like to shift blame as soon as it comes on them. OP you are not in control for no one's fault but your own. Your wife has not changed suddenly, you're just starting to witness where things are. You need to get back the captain mentality. and how do you do that? by EARNING …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 12:38 PM
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I thought it was basically cardio with weights and bad form. It is I can see someone losing weight from doing crossfit, given they change their diet and don't get injured in the process. they most likely will get injured. and no, the thing about cardio is that it's good for pumping heart / blood around but it doesnt use up a lot of energy. ( think of it like the heart muscle getting exhausted compared to your whole body getting exhausted ) doing something like lifting weights takes energy to exp…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 03:37 AM
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it's more the dude's fault in this. he's just beta. he needs to lose a few qt's to start to understand that what he's doing isn't working.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 09:42 AM
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thats true but at the same time he could be doing something useless like crossfit.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 09:40 AM
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where's the references brah
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 08:16 AM
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I'd be curious to know what it is actually feels like for a woman to want babies, as a male I just don't get it. I'd say its a pretty simple thing to 'get' - it's a biological function, your parents did it, you need to do it to continue on the race, etc etc etc. Kids are one of the most expensive things you can buy in the world, oh ok you're just trolling. their running costs are probably going to end up more than a garage full of exotic cars but women act like they are compulsory, not some form…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 08:14 AM
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I have no idea why TRP is so against a RP marriage. Judith, 2000s “When I decided that I wanted to get married, I set about achieving my goal with methodical single-mindedness. It’s what I do.” lol ok, girl has plans, no bigge. “I wanted a baby, so I needed a husband. thats a good way to go abuot it So, how did I get a ring on my finger? I set about being lovely. Ladies, I wasn’t just a bit lovely, I was remorselessly, inexhaustibly lovely for a full six months. If I wasn’t batting my eyelashes,…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 08:09 AM
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theres a difference between being a bit curvy, a bit chubby, and obease. obeasity has real dramatic health concerns. in terms of reproduction, a little bit o' blubber is good for the baby. tbh the lead singer isn't even fat, a bit chubby maybe; but she looks like she knows how to cook a good meal
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 07:00 AM
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I'd say two things that are pretty much entirely speculative: "being attractive gives you higher gains in life" -- I'd say its a fact but I have no sources, being attractive gets you more respect / raises / and in this case, more job offers. "innate need to better humanity" -- women like attractive men, women know this and share access to the more attractive men. the lesson to learn from this? work on your appearance.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 08:25 AM
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what you're looking for is probably this. http://illimitablemen.com/2014/04/13/monk-mode/
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 08:21 AM
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/r/TheRedPill/comments/2hjdr7/shit_test_wife_fills_the_cupboards_with_crap_food/
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 09:51 AM
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the qts.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/14 12:18 PM
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Because thats how it works biologically. women are "more important" and "more valuable" - essentially they're entitled. nothing wrong or bad with it, (other than shitting up everything with vapid, idiotic shit that women tend to post), it's just the way it is.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 10:44 AM
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Dunno what good this will do but I find it fun so: I believe that woman are not equal to men. Equal, but not the same. ( they are needed to make babies afterall, but no they do not get the same amount of pay as men) To me they are closer to animals. Humans are closer to animals. think of all the involuntary shit we as men do. There is nothing wrong with rape. It's not that there's nothing wrong with rape, its that it happens. if you go to prison and get raped you'd probably think there's somethi…
/r/askTRP21/06/14 11:08 AM
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/r/stoicism. or watch a lot of stand up comedy to have some quick-wit rubbed off on you. two things you need to affirm though, are they giving you "criticism" where you can take it or leave it as advice and, well, criticism. or are they giving you "shit" just to bicker and be petty assholes. if someone gives you shit A&A usually is the way to go. "wow what are you a fag?" "yes, I am very gay and I suck a lot of dicks" shrug thats all i do.
/r/askTRP21/06/14 10:58 AM
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you're incredibly retarded if you dont think people do that. I'm not saying I will, i'm saying I dont want my GF to have that happen. Like i said, you're new, please read.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 12:57 AM
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Well really, all this depends on the level of relationship, obviously not plates, LTR? going onwards to possible wife? then you establish your control early. No games. no funny business. no sense of doubt or incontrol. it's not about being jealous. at all. you simply don't want your gf/wife to go out and be subject to club-scenes without you. if she's going there to seek something "seek and you shall find" so whats the reason that she's going to clubs? she can think about going to clubs, thats f…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 02:17 AM
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No shame in it really. just gather what you can learn from this and move on. next time, you need to be forward with how the relationship is going to work, take charge, so there's no "chance" for "confusion". next her, learn, apply to next relationship.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 02:01 AM
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She's not allowed to go out without you and flirt? no she's not. why would you allow your girlfriend to flirt with another man? Why, because you're scared she'll find something better? Women don't need to try to have sex. A woman can go to a club and guarantee to come home with a dude if she so desires. "finding someone better" has nothing to do with it. she could feel like she's "missing out on what the world has to offer" and be all over other men if she wants. This is why women laugh at this …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 01:37 AM
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The best part is that you don't have attachments to people who are holding this axe above you. you're holding it to yourself. it happens to everyone, everyone needs to be bad in order to improve. /u/MarriedRP said it the best, you are not who you were then, you are who you are now. you've improved. things are happening. look at the good that has come about your improvement. comedy is a huge medicine for anything relating to psychology. laugh at how dweeby you were. think about how your old self …
/r/askTRP14/06/14 12:46 AM
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Anyway, restricting your SO's activities is mate-guarding and the wrong approach to get her to not fuck other guys. You cannot negotiate desire. If your girlfriend wants to go clubbing without you it just means you need to run more dread game, disengage, give her less commitment / treat her more like a plate and less like a girlfriend proportionally to how much she is seeking the validation of other men. no. putting your foot down and making her go to your terms is exactly the right approach to …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 12:11 AM
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Reality is not misogynistic, but it is sexist. I wish I was endorsed so i could Alt-11 this. it is not hypocritical, it is sensible.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 12:04 AM
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Do you really want someone to not cheat on you simply because they don't have the option to? but they don't have the option to. that's just it. if they're in a relationship with you then there's no option to cheat because you put your foot down. the /b/tard did an excellent job. another action would've been going to the club with them, but clubs are pretty shit anyway.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 12:03 AM
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Yeh but the low content posts will be buried by low votes. not when there's [593 swallowing TRP now] Getting new people is good, getting new people to handle voting about topics that are TRP when they don't understand it themselves is bad. threads that are getting upvoted are the threads that either have nothing to do with TRP or are just whining.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 11:44 PM
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/r/RedPillWomen would be better suited for you.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 01:39 PM
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Thread has already been posted. she could be lying, she could be telling the truth, regardless: dude should've got snipped. women make babies, (AWALT). he made his bed, now he's gotta sleep in it. marrying a woman but denying babies as they draw close to "The Wall" is pretty fucking mean. it's their biological function to make babies and they're working against the clock. literally like cutting testicles off a dude. Don't do this fellas. spin plates and get a vasectomy if that's what you want.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 01:36 PM
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then you downvote, hide, and forget about it.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 01:25 PM
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take this to /r/asktrp the main board is not for asking questions.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 12:36 PM
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delete this thread and post in /r/thanktrp dedicated board to these sort of things. this doesn't belong here. read the posting rules.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 10:18 AM
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This is actually awful. Women are to make babies, thats what they do. thats what their body is designed to do. Thats all they're good for i jest. she's most likely lying about birth control, and of course that's going to happen. it's called "The Wall" for a reason. to marry someone and then never impregnate them is simply torturous. for the sake of a woman so ofcourse she's going to lie to get out of it. you'd be dumb to think anything else. It takes two to make a baby. why didnt he just get sni…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 09:47 AM
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fucking this. it takes two to tango baby.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 09:32 AM
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Still plugged in [✔] You don't understand a single douse of TRP if you think it has anything to do with women, or that a RedPiller hates women.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 09:21 AM
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You are increadibly daft for posting that HERE, of all places.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 09:12 AM
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it's a doggy dog world out there.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 04:52 AM
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The advice I have heard when asking about "girls nights out" is "dude, let her go, don't be insecure, etc... and if its a continual thing, next her because she obviously is looking for validation. If she screws up, dump her and move on". That's wholeheartedly incorrect. If you're in an LTR and she goes to the club without you at any point that's a huge negative. jesus christ
/r/askTRP12/06/14 08:16 AM
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Anti feminist in the sense of against what feminists try to push for. ie: Women are not the same as men, different roles in the household, Women do X and men do Y and there's minimal cross-over. that's not to say "survival of the fittest" doesn't apply to women, It's just two seperate worlds. Also against a lot of points "feminists" bring up. ie fat acceptance. "teach men not to rape" slut-walks. etc etc etc.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 08:11 AM
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Well the western "norm" is cut keep telling yourself that. And your sons.. and your son's sons...
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 07:46 AM
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Blue or Red pill isn't only in the context of picking up. atleast, I surely hope not.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 11:19 AM
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They're women. she's acknowledging that she can't control it because she's a 3 year old. she even said that. AWALT
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 11:47 PM
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hint: look at where you are. this is how the world works kiddo. get used to it.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 11:44 PM
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All I could utter was "..yep". I felt like a bitch. yeah you kinda were. The deal with attraction, is that its up to her to respond to it, which is what she's doing. when its time to leave, and she says "aww already?" just say "well you can stay with [derp] if you want to find all your stuff on the lawn". girls want to think that they're earning attention / playing risky games with people. thats what shes doing with flirting with this dude, just because its risky. don't pander into it, just act …
/r/askTRP10/06/14 02:31 AM
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brag but only to those who matter ( ie: your wife, children, etc) you can one-up someone "in the wild" but no one likes a show-off.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 09:08 AM
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next, better time investing elsewhere. edit: actually read more than the title of the post This past month I have set up 5-6 dates, which she accepts, but then ends up coming up with an excuse last minute not to go. When asked if she truly wants to get together, she'll eagerly agree and state that she "can't wait" until we go on said date. holy fuck just let that sink in a bit. she doesn't want you, just fucking move on already.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 09:01 AM
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He does really sound like a poser who doesn't get it but I'll try and suggest. If the odds were in your favour I'd say next him, but I'd imagine it'd be hard to find someone when you're in your 50s. (unless you have another sucker lined up, then by all means, this dude isn't cutting it) As a "Good RP Woman" it mainly comes down to positive re-enforcement. Compliment him when he does something right, Ignore him when he does something wrong. don't argue because it doesn't really get anywhere if it…
/r/askTRP07/06/14 11:44 PM
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Just be more confident in what you want to say. Talking about other people's topic is swell, but make a chance to speak for yourself. even if you just raise discussion and then sit passively in it. Having the crowds attention and then fucking it up happens. don't be put off by it. Start convos just talking to your friends, 1 or 2 of them, talk about something that other people might have an opinion of. (for instance, I'm australian and last night we were talking about the C'wlth budget and new-d…
/r/askTRP07/06/14 11:27 PM
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To me it really depends on what angle you're going on. changing BP relationships, and whatnot. Eminem. a little bit of Amy Winehouse, (tiny bit) Fitness increases. Iron maiden. Dio. any sort of metal imo. suicide commando Social. That handsome devil. ( +++++++++++++) lords of the underground. / some hip hop, especially if you're disposition against hip hop, it can sorta "open up" what you think. --- random tidbits that are in my playlists. metal: Black sabbath, death, electric wizard witchcraft …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:06 AM
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I haven't heard the "Let it Go" song yet, but linking the Frozen Soundtrack in TRP is pretty funny. why would feminists hate this place if all we want to do is watch disney movies.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 12:57 AM
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Everything on this sub is meant to be written raw to gather attention and show the amount of change is going to be needed. for instance, something might say something along the lines of "lift weights and become a bear and you'll realise that all women are sluts and want your cock, don't get emotionally involved with them because they're whores riding the CC" The underlying message is 1. lift weights 2. girls want you more 3. have a filter for chicks before getting into an LTR. not that all women…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 12:53 AM
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I live 1,500 miles away from all my close friends and most of my family. Facebook is both useless and an illusion. it is not a solid form of contact, it is not a way to keep in touch with people ( in any meaningful sense ) It's to tell the people around you what useless garbage you ate for breakfast and to rally people to hit the clubs. I also live a few km's away from family. "Close Friends" come and go. the close friends I have at the moment I catch up with weekly and we bullshit on facebook t…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 08:59 AM
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Marriage is almost entirely needed for the kids imo. Marriage is not out of the realms of TRP. TRP is all about becoming the best man you can be. You can still get married, provide for your family and thus your wife provides you with a family. TRP tells you "become the captain of your ship". TRP in terms of marriage is more a case of "Don't be a bitch otherwise you'll lose control of things and your marriage will go to shit" - which is about 90% of the examples here. We say "Don't do this" in re…
/r/askTRP04/06/14 08:40 AM
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facebook is trash though. It shouldnt be "that much of your life" because there should really be nothing on it thats "personal" or of any value. I treat facebook the same way i treat 4chan. some dumb procrastibatory source of talking to people on the internet, its just this time i actually tend to see the people in real life aswel.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:33 AM
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Fuck this depresses me. he complains about MRA's, then pulls out the rawest of TRP. when they're not at all related to each other. and then everyone is going to take it as gospel because "le funni maymay xddd" one more reason to get off the internet and back into work so i can brush this shit under the carpet and not feel like shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 02:30 AM
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Seems fine. if you want to be goofy then you'll attract goofy people. nothing wrong with that, I feel a bit the same. but as long as you remain firm in things that matter (ie: don't fail your job because "lol just havin' a giggle m8", and don't purposely get in the way of other people doing shit. ) time and a place for everything. I'd say you're pretty top notch.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 02:05 AM
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ok. sober up. then read what you've posted.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 01:46 PM
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Had some BF for 5 years who basically treated her like shit and got worshiped for it in return. He cheated on her multiple times before she ended things. Claims she didn't date anybody for 2 years. it happens. Claimed she wasn't into casual sex. Later tells me she fucked some random dude to "get back" at her ex. that happens too. Claims to be financially independent and still asks me for help when her credit card bills come through. This just in: she's confused. ( it happens) although if you're …
/r/askTRP31/05/14 01:02 PM
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What sense would it make for her to delay sex knowing that she hasn't with other guys? Surely that's even worse. but thats just it, you're just like "the other guys" sex on first date is pretty much always "not LTR" material. if she's going to give it up that easily..
/r/askTRP31/05/14 12:57 PM
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This really has to be a troll. Even from the title I knew that the response for this was just "Move on" but I didn't expect this much bait. ignore her, dump her, throw her body over a bridge if you have to. focus on yourself and yourself only. a better slag will come and fill her spot.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 03:14 AM
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I tell girls that I'll pick them up at 7 and go on a suprise date. then drive around the block for a good hour or so until their imagination runs down and they'll accept going to the bar or go home.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 02:33 AM
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yeah but don't fall into the trap that just because they're "players" and trouble makers that they're good company. It's actually often rarely the case. Confidence is one thing, cocky is another, and them actually causing trouble can hark back on you. but yeah, sports clubs, etc, they gotta show discipline. also like minded interests and hobbies can bring people together but have mixed results in terms of RP. meetup.com is a good way to meet like minded people.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 07:14 AM
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I second the journal idea. I try and write in my journal every night when I'm in bed. It's helpful, even if you're feeling down and shit, you get it out so you don't have to think about it while you're sleeping, then in few days time when you open it up and see what utter faggotry you wrote, you'll realise that you were whinging or that you're "still alive today" so it wasn't that bad. this is just something I found. It's a good way to reflect and learn from your past mistakes, rather than makin…
/r/askTRP28/05/14 03:34 AM
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Grief with myself and how much of a shithead I've been. Generally positive other than that. gotta improve, gotta hustle.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 09:08 AM
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heh. I was expecting that they would get a man on the 5th floor, or such, but no way down so they'd have to jump off the building or something.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 09:03 AM
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[RPM in training] I'd say it's some sort of shit test. no idea how to really respond to it from a woman's perspective but I think thats mainly due to not knowing what your relationship is like. I'm assuming hes doing it half-jokingly like you mentioned. either way you could reply with something like "Well I will when you get home, but for now you're going to have to put up with the ladies at the parlour" pass it off as a joke. If he pushes it further and it bothers you, talk to him about it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 08:56 AM
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By using gimmicks to "win" her into a date rather than just asking her like a man. I don't think there's any concern with how he asked her out. some girls like cutesy shit and it doesn't devalue the man. (he won something afterall). might make her feel a bit in control if she's the one drawing up the game, when really OP is the one who controlled the outcome.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 07:07 AM
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I think the tic tac toe bit was kinda great. she seemed to respond well to that. well done. i text her after school "so i won..." and then no reply oh shit nigger what the hell have you done. the fact is that you could've got this girl if you really wanted her. you just haven't really tried. she clearly wants you to initiate. and I'm not even sure about this half-assed approach to initating. you got half way then just stood there like a deer stairing at headlights. EDIT: have you ever thought th…
/r/askTRP22/05/14 07:02 AM
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Don't think about what you're doing in relation to the reaction to people, or as a "outwardly appearance". the easiest way to fake confidence until you are actually confident is to crack jokes. I dunno, thats just something I do. Don't be a show off either, if you accomplish something then thats for your benefit only. fuck what anyone else thinks about it. don't ask for your friends approval, only your approval matters. That's just setting yourself up for injury. TRP is an inner mindset, focus o…
/r/askTRP22/05/14 06:42 AM
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I recently started a retail job and im surrounded by female co workers. how do i come off as alpha? You don't, don't aim to impress them, it's desperate and needy. You focus on yourself. if they notice then they'll notice. but don't expect them to. (they probably thought you were a beta before and forgot about your exsistance) nor do you attempt to "show" them. I'm honestly there to do the job and I don't want to be treated like a beta. If you're there: 1. to do the job, and 2. don't want to be …
/r/askTRP19/05/14 10:17 AM
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tumblr is my personal diary and that I've had this public tumblr for 3 years personal......... public...... diary? what. he still feels that people will look at girls who display that type of stuff as women of lower value. but thats correct, why would you feel the need to "reblog" that, its the same as yelling out the window of a cab "I WANT DICKS" then trying to say "but thats just my personal public opinion im still classy and high value" I..... I don't understand...
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 06:34 AM
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So Im all wtf why would you be suprised if shes a qt. I just want to know what you meant by it. you should know what she meant by it.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 11:42 AM
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I can dig that, but the quote could be taken either way. True to yourself could mean you're a fat neckbeard who always tips their hat to women to become a gentleman. I see where you're coming from though, might've been better to expand upon it a little.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 05:25 AM
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It might seem harsh to be downvoted if this is a quote that you like. But the concepts in this crowd is to aways improve yourself. Never be satisfied with what you are when there's always room for improvement. I'm still gonna downvote you though.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 11:59 AM
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talk a few times, "hey I'm free on tues, come have a coffee with me" etc. ( the whole "don't ask, tell" ) she says no then just be fine and drop contact with her entirely. cant be in the friendzone if you're not friends.
/r/askTRP11/05/14 10:42 AM
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Pretty much what's been said. only invest on how much she's worth to you, if you're in a relationship: hear her out and let her vent/etc. don't get too involved in her dramas though ( if they're on going) and always be on top / move forward / etc. if shes having problems I'd say you'd need to be the one keeping things in motion, tell her to look up, keep moving etc. this is just imo though, and only if you're in a relationship. if shes anything less than a girlfriend, I wouldn't really bother, "…
/r/askTRP11/05/14 10:40 AM
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to me this seems perfectly fine and reasonable. the dude needs to get off his fat ass and start doing something. It's the only way to beat depression if thats his problem. the man of the house is to take care of the house. they've got bills and shit to pay and it IS all on him because he is meant to be the caretaker. they're married so its not just like they can split easily. I'm waiting for a "herpaderp dude should just go get devorced and hit up random sluts yewwwww"
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 09:13 AM
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this. Milfs can be great cooks aswel. get her to do stuff for you. either she'll get tired and leave or you'll bang her and she'll keep doing it.
/r/askTRP11/05/14 09:08 AM
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I'd just forget about her. It seems like you've already made a huge mess. focus efforts into more worthwhile things.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 02:08 AM
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The secret in getting men to do what you want is telling him the consequences of his actions without dictating what he should do about it. Men like solving problems, so present him with a problem and he will work out the solution. I do think this is pretty spot on.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/14 10:37 AM
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glasses: whocares [✔] they don't make you look less aggressive. If you get the right pair they can compliment your face. tbh I think my face looks too bland without glasses (no facial hair) - and you can still look masculine with glasses, I've seen plenty of people who have. you do look a tad "less physical" and thats because you've got little bits of fragile glass on your head.
/r/askTRP03/05/14 10:32 AM
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which is why these things suck. just say "Well too bad." then don't message her. she'll either work on it and be that kind of girl or she'll stop talking. either way you win i guess.
/r/askTRP03/05/14 09:46 AM
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what ever. she has a friends party. invite yourself to that or (if you can't / she cannot in any way ditch that party) arrange for some other time. she wants YOU so you've already got your foot in the door. I'd just say keep doing what you're doing. remember that your time is important though. Don't let her just lead you like a puppy so that you fit her schedule. And don't overdo it. She's into you now but that can change, remain firm and red.
/r/askTRP03/05/14 09:28 AM
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I suspect your confusing lack of leadership has resulted in a lazy spouse. I'm going to point this out.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 12:16 PM
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I got married to her mother so that she wouldn't be aborted and stay with my wife now because of the incontrovertible statistics suggesting that kids from divorced homes are more likely to have a troubled childhood. I feel this is good I've called her on it numerous times, including the regular trips to McDonald's, the lack of any exercise, etc. She always gets really upset. I explain to her that for me her remaining attractive is important to the marriage and incredibly important for a guy my a…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 12:13 PM
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I don't have much social anxiety but this is still a good idea regardless. I'll look into it.
/r/askTRP26/04/14 01:03 AM
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Cheers, this is something I probably needed to hear directed to myself.
/r/askTRP26/04/14 01:02 AM
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not only that but they're expensive as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 12:50 AM
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who cares
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:52 PM
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I'm entirely new to TRP. but I'd say you have it kinda wrong. She has kids, in a relationship ( "in process" != "single"), and by the sounds of it you're treating her more than she's worth (and i know she'll seem worth it to you) the fact is that she already has kids and they're not yours. anything involving those kids are just going to remind her of her ex. forget any "meaningful relationship" that you think you'll have with her and just enjoy the sex. don't focus on her, she should be focusing…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:24 AM
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Do you give/take anything more than sex in the relationship? if not, you're a plate.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 11:45 PM
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I feel like thats a bad move. I'm a male and i don't entirely understand the RP mindset, I'm still learning. but to me, this seems like a desperate attempt to "validate" your affection publicly. almost like you're trying to tell others that you're finding him sexy rather than telling him you find him sexy. I don't think that he's going to log on and find that comment and start thinking "oh well my wife finds me sexy, this is good" he'll pretty much treat it like any other bullshit facebook comme…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 11:44 PM
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hes some guy whos banging some chick he probably has no interest in doing anything else with. he doesnt owe her anything. yeah ok that would make sense. I was just expecting that since there's this question to begin with that the relationship was something a little more than that. i obviously dont have the whole story so w/e
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/14 12:29 PM
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I simply refused to date college boys while in college! ahh thats disheartening for the likes of me. although really college boys shouldn't have time for women anyway. gotta holla to get the dolla. (finish school and get a job)
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/14 12:19 PM
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There's no reason for you to not be here, but also no reason for you to be here, just lurk and don't worry about posting unless you actually, honestly, have something worthwhile to say. It's a girls subreddit afterall. let them be.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 09:17 AM
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