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| 2 | So I was wondering if Mystery was still around, and this turned up. Thoughts? | double-victory | /r/seduction | 03/05/14 05:32 PM |
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| 2 | Girl wants me to eat her pussy this weekend but I really don’t want to...Sex that is 100% about male pleasure is just bad sex | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Something you may want to tryIf there's an activity that includes the word "social" it's not happening. Is it over, then? Having sex is a social activity. You seem to have this view that sex isn’t something you share - but something that you win through wealth or wit or intelligence. You have discarded and dismissed advice to simply start talking to women over and over, saying that improving your social skills is impossible; but then asking whether you can still have sex. Of course you can have sex; provided you get off the… | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 06:47 PM |
| 1 | How to say NO to a girls demandsWhy don’t you suggest alternatives that you’d both enjoy | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 06:03 PM |
| 5 | I have the male equivalent of the bitch faceDon’t change a thing, Mr. Darcy. “Naturally broody” is better than “forced cheery” | /r/seduction | 08/05/19 04:09 PM |
| 3 | How to reply to "you probably have a small dick"Incel response | /r/seduction | 19/04/19 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Challenged men 30+, how to keep positive?it's hard to find a reason to do anything. Your reason is that you want to get laid, yes? All these replies are saying is, if that is still the goal, no amount of advice on reddit will substitute for actually going out and talking to people. There is no theory, hack, book, thread, post, video, boot camp, or guru that will substitute practice at interaction. If your desire for sex is greater than your hesitation, then talking to women is the next step. There is no way around this. It feels like i… | /r/seduction | 03/04/19 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Dating apps destroying my self-esteemPretty curious about this myself | /r/seduction | 28/01/19 03:30 AM |
| – | Why are comments like this allowed?Sure, I’m quite interested. If it helps at all, my sibling is on the spectrum and has comorbid overlap with some pretty serious mental health issues. Her boyfriend has major OCD, and they’ve been deliriously happy together for going on seven years. | /r/seduction | 13/10/18 05:05 AM |
| – | Why are comments like this allowed?I'm more pointing out that it helps to have a very good idea of exactly what you're looking for, not just in terms of attractiveness, but in terms of general compatibility. Something more specific than "some booty". Once you have a fine-tuned sense of the type of girl you're looking to attract, what your ideal girl/arrangement would look like, you can focus on improving the qualities that would appeal to those specific women and can feel more confident about what you bring to the table and focus… | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 04:44 AM |
| – | Why are comments like this allowed?You are correct - sex isn’t a privilege reserved for a special few. Clarification needed: by “some booty” do you mean “just some sex with anyone who would have me” or do you have strictures/standards for the type of girl you’d sleep with? | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Why are comments like this allowed?Can I ask what you’re looking for in your dating life? | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Why are comments like this allowed?Fuck that guy. That said, you've mentioned your perceived disadvantages in pretty much every post you've made on this sub, and as a catch-all rebuttal to comments that urge optimism and self improvement. Perhaps this outlook is what needs changing more than your socioeconomic level? | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 02:29 AM |
| 3 | If she wants to do some “2 week natural birth control” so I can do it raw. Does it seem she wants to make the relationship exclusive?Wouldn’t advise “natural birth control”, but yeah if you’re raw dogging it, that’s usually an exclusive thing. Definitely get some clarification. Bit risky to forgo protection with someone who isn’t exclusive tbh. | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 01:42 AM |
| 2 | NYC Date Ideas?See who can last the longest on the mechanical bull at Johnny Utah’s or check out an arcade. Comedy Cellar is always a good shout. | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Seducing a couchsurfer?Please just don't. CS 'frowns on this' because it's creepy and strands people without a place they feel comfortable staying. Don't use CS as a fuckhole delivery system, it's not Seamless for pussy. | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 05:42 PM |
| 0 | Hard case newbie: how do I get past the feelings of not being physically attractive enough, not being interesting enough and how do I stop caring what people around me (including the girl) will think when I approach?Getting out of r/incels would be a good place to start | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 05:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I know it's time to ask her to be my gf?Matters more on how often you've seen her in those two months. Once a week for two months? Too soon. Once or twice a week and every weekend? Go for it. | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 11:44 PM |
| 13 | I made a ballsy move, would this turn a girl off/creep her out?Telling women they 'owe you' for things isn't a great way to come off as not creepy | /r/seduction | 28/06/17 04:39 AM |
| 3 | How old are you??Because willfully deceiving someone is creepy | /r/seduction | 11/06/17 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Advice on how to decorate the bedroom?Really nice sheets (cotton or linen, never satin), cushy mattress topper. Little or no clutter/trash. Lots of books. Soft lighting. Art/framed photographs on walls or photos on desk/window sill. | /r/seduction | 03/05/17 11:52 PM |
| 1 | How long do your FWB relationships typically last?Then see u/MonkeyFist4150 's response | /r/seduction | 19/04/17 11:11 PM |
| 5 | Please give me advice, first date in years tomorrow.Don't do movies - no scope for talking/escalating etc. Much better to beach and chill and talk. You don't need to spend money to have a great date, it's all about the conversation. | /r/seduction | 19/04/17 02:04 AM |
| 7 | How long do your FWB relationships typically last?Hmm, I've been going strong with mine for four years, on and off around relationships etc. How solid is the friendship part of your FWBs? | /r/seduction | 19/04/17 01:43 AM |
| 14 | Question, if I see a girl I like walking by in the hallway that I already know pretty well, should I ignore her? Or should i talk to herTalk to her, why blank a girl you know and like? | /r/seduction | 17/04/17 02:37 AM |
| 2 | What dating sites don't have a height filter?Wouldn't a height filter be useful though? You'd already know your matches date shorter guys. | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 12:07 AM |
| 1 | When school is over, where are good places to find women that aren't expensive?Yes | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 11:06 PM |
| 2 | When school is over, where are good places to find women that aren't expensive?Why not both? Other men are going to be chasing women no matter where you go. | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 09:53 PM |
| 1 | When school is over, where are good places to find women that aren't expensive?The Meetup app is good place to start | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Would you seduce a married/ taken woman? If so how would you do it?No, you do not fuck with someone else's entire life to test yourself. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 11:48 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend or Game at 20 years old???To be in a relationship is to make a daily commitment to that person - it's a living thing that requires you to make a choice, every day, to love your SO. Absolutely split up if you're too bored to make that effort anymore - you'll be doing her and yourself a favor. | /r/seduction | 11/04/17 11:21 PM |
| 1 | How to approach on the street/campus.Huh? What do you mean? | /r/seduction | 10/04/17 09:52 PM |
| 2 | How to approach on the street/campus.No, you can skip interview questions like this altogether | /r/seduction | 10/04/17 09:31 PM |
| 5 | Birthday gift?No. | /r/seduction | 10/04/17 09:13 PM |
| 4 | I can't find much information on 2nd dates here. Need help with do's/dont's and tips for a second date.An activity. Do both of you have any interests in common? Text her saying 'hey I'm going to go do/see/check out [x thing you both like] on Saturday - want to come?' | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 05:04 PM |
| 1 | How to have EYE Contact she can't resist...Yes, especially in certain venues i.e. the subway | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 04:29 AM |
| 6 | How to have EYE Contact she can't resist...Yes. Staring at women like you want to X-ray their minds gets overly intense, fast. | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Tinder profile tipsPs. Link your pics, I'd be happy to give you feedback | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Tinder profile tipsGood quality photos where your face is clearly visible - no hats, sunglasses, fuzzy group shots, motorcycle helmets etc. However cool a photo is, don't let it get in the way of the main purpose, which is letting someone know what you look like. | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Bad first kiss a deal breaker?The main thing is to PAY ATTENTION. Use less tongue if she's backing off intensity etc. Mimic her. | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to be someone that girls just aren't attracted to at all?Not a film in field. Just if you speaking - your insecurity about your voice etc could very well be in your head. Up to you though. | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to be someone that girls just aren't attracted to at all?I second this advice, why not post a video of yourself? Much easier to give the feedback you want. | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 08:26 PM |
| 2 | What are some good eye contact tips for seduction when you already know the person?I've been seeing this thousand-yard-stare advice popping up all over this sub. I really wouldn't recommend this. Make eye contact with a woman the way you would make eye contact with any human being you were having a normal conversation with. No need to try and fry her brains with laser vision. | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 03:08 AM |
| 0 | Besides parties, clubs, and bars, what's a good way to meet girls?Women-dominated groups and classes: yoga, dance (especially salsa and ballroom), any type of language course (especially French and Italian) etc. | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Posted on askseddit, but I'll edit it for general purposes.What could you say that doesn't sound like "HEY you asked me to text you and I did and you ignored me! Y U NO respond??" She probably saw the text, made a mental note to write back, put her phone back in her bag and then forgot. Or couldn't be bothered. Or figured she'll see you in class or whatever. Either way, do not bring it up. Give it as little thought as she did. | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Posted on askseddit, but I'll edit it for general purposes.There's no way to bring it up without sounding like something so trivial genuinely rustled your jimmies. Don't mention it. | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 09:33 PM |
| 1 | What do you talk about with a woman when you approach them?He means asking girls the same questions you get from that aunt you never see at thanksgiving. You know - 'Oh so what are you studying?' 'Do you like your classes?' 'So what do you want to do with that degree when you graduate?' Etc. | /r/seduction | 03/04/17 10:48 PM |
| 1 | What advice to you have for a guy in his senior year of college who hasn't had sex?If they were numbers you got while at a club or something, then I'd agree with you - plenty of girls will give out their number to end a conversation politely. There are better places to meet girls and get to know them more naturally in my opinion - yoga and language classes are very female dominated, comedy clubs, meetup.com groups etc. | /r/seduction | 02/04/17 07:49 PM |
| 1 | What advice to you have for a guy in his senior year of college who hasn't had sex?What do you do with the numbers? Do you ask girls out on dates? | /r/seduction | 02/04/17 07:19 PM |
| 1 | What advice to you have for a guy in his senior year of college who hasn't had sex?Keep working on your ability to build attraction, there's a ton of advice for that on this sub. OP's concern was specifically about how to improve sexual technique once he's in the sack, not how to get girls there in the first place. If you're asking how you get better in bed without being able to get a girl to sleep with you, there's not a whole bunch anyone can tell you - you can study the theory of how to drive a car for years, but nothing is going to make you a better driver than getting beh… | /r/seduction | 02/04/17 06:22 PM |
| 3 | What advice to you have for a guy in his senior year of college who hasn't had sex?If you're in college, your best bet might be dating one girl more regularly at first and racking up experience and technique. Might allay some of your worry about underperforming etc. if you have a steady partner to help dull the initial halo of having sex for the first time. Who cares if you bust early on round one if there are fifty more rounds? | /r/seduction | 02/04/17 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Best way to reply to "why would I hook up with you?"Doubt any girl would write this genuinely wanting a serious response - I mean, if that worked we could all just go around submitting resumes to people we found attractive lol. Agree he should just next this chick though, sounds like a blowoff. | /r/seduction | 01/04/17 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Best way to reply to "why would I hook up with you?"Depends what prompted that reply, need context | /r/seduction | 01/04/17 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Best way to reply to "why would I hook up with you?"Entitled to what? Not have sex? She is entitled to that. This is just a rejection. | /r/seduction | 01/04/17 01:33 AM |
| 22 | [FR] The girl I was trying to game for a week was throwing herself to my 6'3 tall, robust buddy.You aren't entitled to jack shit from this girl just because you feel like you plugged in the numbers correctly and the algorithm didn't spit out a lay for you. | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Honest question:Try with a someone you've gone on a few dates with and really like, but aren't going to date/isn't going to date you for whatever reason. That's how it is with mine - we went out for a few weeks but it wasn't going anywhere serious. We had a lot of fun together and the sex was fire though, so we've just been doing that on and off for years around each other's relationships, schedule etc. | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 01:43 PM |
| 2 | What if I can't get over how much I hate myself?Therapy will help more than women | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 02:08 AM |
| 1 | How do I learn how to self-deprecate?Tell self-deprecating stories through the lens of 'oh my god I have to tell you the most hilarious story about this stupid thing I did' rather than 'oh my god I fucked up so badly today, I'm so ashamed'. Just ask yourself - is the fuckup/embarrassing story funny and relatable or sad and pitiable? | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 02:07 AM |
| 5 | Honest question:I personally think the best FWB situations are with an actual friend. So, to answer your question I'd say: 1. Acquire a friend who is attracted to you 2. Have amazing sex 3. Don't be weird about it afterwards. Continue friendship as normal. 4. Repeat | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 01:54 AM |
| 4 | if a girl is very comfortable with you touching her but doesn't touch you back, what does it mean?Someone super lazy in bed, who just lies there during sex | /r/seduction | 30/03/17 07:41 PM |
| 2 | approaching girls you're not that attracted toRight, I'm saying skip indicating interest based on appearance altogether. You're approaching a girl at a grocery store and trying to engage her in conversation, that's an IOI right off the bat. | /r/seduction | 29/03/17 10:56 PM |
| 2 | approaching girls you're not that attracted toOf course you can just say well nice to meet you then bounce. That's a perfectly nice exit line to girls who have no investment yet in you, their feelings aren't going to be hurt. I wouldn't lead with 'hey you're sort of cute' though. I mean, I wouldn't lead with any other appearance-based comment, but being labeled 'sort of cute' by a stranger would be off putting. | /r/seduction | 29/03/17 10:44 PM |
| 2 | [INFO] What would you take to become an advanced pua?What is the threshold above which one is an advanced PUA? Is it about number of successful approaches per week or some other metric? | /r/seduction | 29/03/17 12:36 AM |
| 4 | Is she playing hard to get or she doesn't like me ?So she's blocked you on all possible social media outlets, you track her down on ask, when she tells you to get lost (again) you write her a letter which she posts to document your further attempts to contact her, and you say you're only stalking her because you 'like her so much' and think she's just 'playing hard to get'. If you actually liked this girl, you would respect the fact that she wants you to leave her the hell alone. Stop. | /r/seduction | 22/03/17 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Weird, socially-phobic guys with low valueSo I've seen a bunch of your comments, and they all tend to revolve around this same question. What about just mainly dating women who are also on the spectrum? If you were already in a pool of women who understand where you are coming from, it sounds like it would take a lot of the pressure off. | /r/seduction | 20/03/17 01:05 PM |
| 2 | I’m not intimidated by looks, I’m intimidated by intelligence. Any advice?And mysterious as the dark side of the moon | /r/seduction | 18/03/17 06:34 PM |
| 4 | How to get rid of a girl who stalks youThat is a fantastic way to get this girl to fixate on him way, way more than she clearly already does | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 01:17 AM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong on tinder ?Blur faces in screenshots | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Should you ever fight with your GF?Yes, people in relationships get into fights. It's not about "surrendering" or "frame" or, as other comment suggests, fighting 'female' emotion with 'male' logic. People get into fights. The worst thing you can do in a relationship isn't "breaking frame". It's not expressing anger and being uncommunicative. | /r/seduction | 09/02/17 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Review my Tinder Profile (x-post)Chick here, agree with most of what u/MindsEvolve said. 3 is a very cool conversation starter pic, but see if you have any similar photos from a different angle - the perspective puts your friend in the foreground and makes you look a bit shorter than you are. On the fence about the car photo, it's a great shot of your face but the shirtless driving/backwards ball cap vibe could be a miss for some girls. Would skip a bio reference to your dick. | /r/seduction | 09/02/17 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone here willing to review my Tinder pictures?Sure | /r/seduction | 11/01/17 01:22 AM |
| 1 | How do I take good pictures for Tinder?No sunglasses/hats/anything else that hides your face/grainy, potato-quality pics. The point of Tinder photos is to see what you look like. | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Any tips on how to take good profile pics for Tinder?Pictures that show what your face actually looks like. No sunglasses. | /r/seduction | 19/10/16 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Texting after first date troubles / failures.I think he means that for women of quality, tinder is easy because they match with every single guy they are even mildly interested in. So, if you go out and you don't make an impression, it doesn't matter because she has a half dozen other guys to take her out. | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Peacocking. What do you do, and what is too far?Do not wear baseball caps. | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Tinder experiment. Offering sex as an opener.plus, if you have to specify that you are definitely not a creep or a pervert chances are you're saying something creepy or pervy | /r/seduction | 11/12/14 05:46 PM |
| 18 | Tinder experiment. Offering sex as an opener.i think if you tried this in the US it would go straight to r/creepyPMs | /r/seduction | 11/12/14 04:37 PM |
| 9 | [FR] What a fucking disasterit doesn't automatically mean anything, Tinder is like impulse shopping | /r/seduction | 10/08/14 05:54 PM |
| 1 | How do I structure a date properly and make a connection with a girl?I love dates that involve an activity, rather than food; that way, you have something concrete to discuss. Going to an arcade, renting rollerblades, going ice skating, etc. something like that. | /r/seduction | 21/07/14 02:02 AM |
| 3 | [FR] From OKCupid to My Place - Mixed Signals, or Did I Just Blow it?this is just a theory, but i bet guys have mentioned her bisexuality a hundred times before, hoping for girl-on-girl stories. perhaps it makes her uncomfortable when guys bring it up. | /r/seduction | 05/05/14 12:23 AM |
| -1 | The best opener I've ever heardyou are reading way, way too much into this | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 12:16 PM |
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