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ADVICEdoublericecake/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 05:52 PM
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DISCUSSIONdoublericecake/r/RedPillWomen04/07/19 01:50 PM
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I'll be honest with you, I would live in whichever country my husband wants to live in, under whatever conditions he is still able to provide for us. Roof over our head, food on the table (that hopefully I will grow myself), clothes on our bodies. I cannot give you a rough number, since it depends so heavily on other circumstances. Regarding porn: that truly is a hard question. The marriage would change very drastically, both because of the act in and of itself and the fact that he chose to lie …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:47 PM
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-height: at least my height (I'm 5"2) -body type: not overweight, I like skinny or lean best -salary range: enough to support children in the future, minimalistic lifestyle preferred so no luxuries needed (want to be a housewife) -Dominant or submissive: dominant -older or younger: max -2 years, max 6+ years (I'm 21) -religious or atheist: Christian (not lukewarm) -conservative or modern: conservative Others: -willing to live out traditional gender roles -doesn't watch porn (outside of relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:16 PM
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As someone here already said, if you like him, share your feelings with him. Whether subtly or bluntly. Men tend to appreciate this in my experience.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/21 11:55 AM
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It seems like you have good chemistry, but you didn't say anything about whether you two have similar views on what a relationship should entail and where it is headed. If you want to get married and have kids, then you're probably going to have to wait for quite a few years until he is ready to do that. That is if he even wants that; many men (and women) that age haven't planned out their life yet. I personally think long distance relationships can work if a timeline of when to move together is…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/21 11:45 AM
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Yes, I did. Replying to this will now delve into my personal opinion only. The fact that he wanted to actively "seek out" women like this made me lose my respect; he did stop after I told him I'm uncomfortable with it, but it was already too late pretty much. There were other factors that made me respect him less and all that, but this did contribute quite a bit. From now on I personally don't want to date men who make room for porn or sexually provocative Instagram models in their relationships…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 06:37 PM
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We are always told that it's natural and normal for men to be actively lusting after other women in a relationship, but you don't have to agree with that. It's not an impossible or crazy standard to have. The standard being that your partner directs their sexual and romantic energy solely at you, not strangers. If you don't do it, then why shouldn't you ask of the same of your partner? I was in the same spot as you, but it was porn instead of Instagram girls. I tried for +1 YEAR to force myself …
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 12:23 PM
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I'm not religious, but also wanted to save myself for marriage. I personally decided that I want to wait for engagement instead. As mentioned here, sexual compatibility is important and if it doesn't work out in the bedroom, the marriage won't either; but I also only want to have sex with someone I will marry, so for me this was a good middle ground. Waiting until then is also nice because you never have to deal with pregnancy scares or getting an STI. Good luck and keep sticking to your gut and…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/20 03:27 PM
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Totally against it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 02:08 PM
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I'm in the same position. I turned 20 a few months back and will be 27 when my education etc. is done, even though I'd love to have kids earlier than that. And that is without working, just the education. I just tell myself that it's better to start a bit later and have a safety net in case things go sour, rather than being a single mother in poverty and having my kids taken away, because I can't get a job in the worst case scenario. Safety first!
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 08:28 AM
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I'd certainly love to have a discord for us!
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/20 06:03 PM
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I'm glad someone can relate. Why do you think it's impossible for a woman to know how much her partner consumes/if he consumes? I think honesty is a prerequisite for any good relationship and if they already lie about that I personally wouldn't continue the relationship. So I always assume what my partner says is true. It's a positive upward spiral so to speak, since by showing trust they will feel more secure and comfortable to share. If your husband is very secretive about it, and won't share …
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 03:04 PM
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I'm not religious, but I'm against porn. If you enter a monogamous relationship then why do you want to get your intimate needs met by women on the internet if you have a girlfriend/wife? Why are the strangers deserving of your sexual energy/lust/desire? We have limited energy, and if you decide to invest that in porn, there will always be less for your partner to enjoy. It's a bit different if the libidos of two people are wildly incompatible and let's say the wife only wants sex/intimacy once …
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 11:11 AM
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Chiming in to say what has already been said. Your facial features are so unique and gorgeous. You give off a very elegant and feminine vibe. And I'm truly not saying this to "make you feel better" or anything of that sort. If you were actually ugly, I'd come out and say that yes, you're not very pretty. But it's just not true. You've clearly been very affected by these people and that's incredibly sad.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 08:24 PM
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God I love this reply, thanks for saving me the work of trying to formulate those words in a more elegant way
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/20 07:44 AM
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Thanks for posting this, very interesting read! So happy to hear things worked out this way for you and hope that you'll enjoy everything this community has to offer. Wish you all the best.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/20 11:00 AM
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I always thought having old parents is one of the saddest things that can happen to you. In my experience it compulsively makes you worry about them and I found myself beginning to act motherly towards them from as young as age 10. My mother died when I was 16. Now I'm 20 and I worry so painfully much about my father. The fear of being left alone by your parents so early on is excruciating. I don't blame them, but it made me bitter seeing happy, young parents spending time with their children. I…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 09:14 AM
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A good time to get creative with recipes, since some of us won't have fresh produce in quarantine, but only canned foods. I like the challenge of making something delicious with just the food I have at home. There are many great apps (free) that offer different routines of different difficulties. I use one called women's fitness. Reflecting. Now there's an opportunity to truly think about what matters to you and what your goals are, if you felt like you didn't have the time before to do so. If y…
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/20 08:28 AM
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Definitely feel the same way, it's totally natural. Had the same happen to me. Now we're together for almost half a year and I couldn't be more attracted to him. Give it time and communicate. :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/20 08:20 AM
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I'm grateful to have a roof over my head and to live with my father who is responsible and makes sure I have food and everything else I need. I'm grateful to have the privilege of working on myself and my education. I'm grateful to live in a country where there is no war. I'm grateful for the internet and that we are all able to connect with like-minded individuals like in this community. I'm grateful for my health and the health of my loved ones. I am grateful to be alive.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/20 05:59 PM
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Oh my god, for a second I almost got a little scared reading all this. I'm in the exact same situation. About to turn 20 in a few days, grew up with a single father, no female figure in my life and therefore lack of femininity and knowledge on make-up, hair and everything in that field. I also got into a relationship with an amazing guy recently and definitely feel the same way. Never thought I'd see someone in the same spot as me. I'm currently in a similar phase and have started my journey tow…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 01:40 PM
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I didn't say I was a trophy, I said I'm afraid to lose my virginity because it feels like the virginity is a trophy. And I agree that it is sad, as stated in the post. I'm working on my mindset. Thanks for leaving a comment!
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 10:39 AM
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I'm currently not at home, but when I'm back I can try to find them again!
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 09:31 PM
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Can you not value, let's say, emotional compatibility before having been in a relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 08:18 PM
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I won't because I value sexual compatibility and am not religious.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 08:14 PM
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I would say I actually am a very sexual person, so yes, I do! And I certainly don't see having sex in and of itself as dirty, the opposite really. Sexual pleasure can be derived from a ton of other things apart from actual intercourse and for me it is mostly mental. It's good to hear about what someone more experienced has to say on this, thank you for your insight, I do appreciate it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 08:12 PM
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Nice to hear someone who experienced similar feelings. Thank you for the comment, I'll keep your words in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 08:00 PM
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Thank you for your reply. It's good hearing about a different opinion, that helps a lot with getting out of your head. I lost sight of the fact that virginity isn't as important to me as it is to others. The last two sentences of your reply made me smile.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 07:02 PM
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I don't think it's a good mindset to have. Even if hypothetically it would be justified to look down on others you are just smearing yourself at the end.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 06:46 PM
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Yes, I'm probably going to remain a virgin until I'm at least 20. Thanks for taking the time to reply.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 06:46 PM
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Yes, I agree with you on the casual sex thing and that knowing if you're sexually compatible is a must before committing to each other for the rest of your life. I will also work on my mindset in regards to other people; I know it's not good. Thank you for your insight!
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 06:44 PM
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Thank you for your honest reply and advice, I appreciate it and it's interesting to hear about someone's sexual experience not having affected them negatively.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 06:43 PM
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Thank you so much for this reply. It brought a huge grin to my face and a tear to my eye. Your words really give me hope and acceptance for myself.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/19 09:09 PM
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