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| 37 | “What you fear, you will want to destroy”Thanks, I found a longer clip! The entire interview is 48 minutes but apparently it’s exclusively on DVD. I’m going to see if I can still buy it. Russell Means Talks Women/Patriarchy I read a bit on Mr. Russell and wow, he is a beautiful soul. Unfortunately, he passed in 2012. I was hoping I would be able to meet him somehow. I would have loved to listen to him talk in person. I agree. It’s absolutely heart-wrenching. If you or anyone know ways to help Native Americans or other Indigenous people… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:54 PM |
| 26 | “What you fear, you will want to destroy”Love this! Thank you for sharing!! I wonder how someone could watch his entire speech? 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:35 PM |
| 242 | If a man abuses you like this it will escalate to physical violence. Leave and don’t let him know your location.Ew. Please put a trigger warning on this. This is so scary. I hope she’s okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:11 PM |
| 81 | If most men can't help being attracted to teen girls "because of their biology", then most men should not get to be fathers.Or pediatric doctors. Or therapists that work with children/adolescents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:10 PM |
| 27 | E-excuse me??? She’s referring to herself in the first tweet, and defending herself with the second tweet. I’m speechless. Girl, see a therapist. PLEASE.Male pandering if I’ve ever seen it. If you’re on a journey to level up, beware of people who talk like this. Women who refer to themselves as someone with “huge cans” or taking about other women with dump truck assets — not to mention the distasteful and tone deaf comments about nxzis. This kind of person will suck you dry like a big parasitic leech. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 03:07 AM |
| 2 | If *men* didn't demand the service of sex workers, there would be no sex "work"I’ll dm you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 08:25 PM |
| 94 | Stop competing with porn stars. You will never win.Thank you!!! I participated in my ex’s incxstual fantasies because I wanted to be his Cool Girl Irreplaceable girlfriend (gag). It didn’t matter anyway. He still would window-shop for other women. I was never enough. It nearly ruined me but I’m working hard to not allow him to have that power over me. This post is cathartic because I’ve been trying to remind myself of something similar daily. Every woman needs to hear and live this message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 07:06 PM |
| 13 | Men saying that women who want rights must be treated like men are basically saying they think only men deserve rightsMy ex said the most pea brain thing to me — my TV wasn’t working so I got up from the bed to fix it but I couldn’t figure out what was wrong. I looked at him (still laying on the bed) and asked if he could come take a look at it. He said, “I thought you bxtches watched equal rights.” ??? Literal pea brain. Also, thanks for outing yourself as a misogynistic prick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 05:50 PM |
| 17 | If *men* didn't demand the service of sex workers, there would be no sex "work"This was months ago. She had a boyfriend at the time (I don’t know if they’re still together) and I always thought she was kind of a pick me for him but I never said it like that. I tried to tell her that she may want to reconsider moving in with him and that she shouldn’t have to partake in kinky sex/butt stuff if she’s not comfortable but she wanted to do what her bf wanted. Her and I were close though. I’m not just some internet stranger, I went to school with her. Otherwise I wouldn’t have b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 05:42 PM |
| 47 | If *men* didn't demand the service of sex workers, there would be no sex "work"Spot on. They want their SO to be a holier-than-though kinky, freaky virgin but they want other women to be slxtty and promiscuous so they can have free pxssy. Madonna/whxre complex is depressing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 05:16 PM |
| 20 | If *men* didn't demand the service of sex workers, there would be no sex "work"I used to follow her on Instagram and I commented on her post agreeing with all of what she said, and added some more talking points directly from FDS, but she dmed me and asked me to delete my comments. I was like ??? Why lmao. She said what I said was too “extreme.” I couldn’t even respond because she just blocked me. It was a really strange encounter. She’s anti-sex work but I don’t think she cares too much for FDS principles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 05:14 PM |
| 124 | Found this little pic that my daughter drew a several years ago. Note the floating head that is her father. This speaks volumes about the amount of time and energy he put into our family. Don’t think that kids don’t notice. We’ve been divorced for 6 years now and she is so much better adjusted!This is everything. There is something psychologists use when they are working with children patients called the house-tree-person test (HTP). Test takers are asked to draw a house, a tree, and a person. The interpretation of these drawings is used to create a picture of the person’s cognitive, emotional, and social functioning. I was reading a case study where a child was asked to complete the HTP test. They drew a dead tree without any leaves, a home with a tiny door and no windows, and only d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 01:18 AM |
| 2 | How to break a trauma bond?This was a beautiful reply. You’re a queen. Thank you so much. 🌷💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:10 AM |
| 112 | 50-50 is a lie.Oh sis, same...I’m sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:01 AM |
| 124 | Ladies, What is the worst date you’ve been on?This made me want to say how unfair is it that guys have hundreds and hundreds of beautiful (inside and out) women to choose from and we get....this? Of course there are unicorns out there but holy shit, the odds really are against women who date men and it sucks. Sure, I’ve heard lesbian and bisexual (myself identifying as this) horror stories but I feel it’s safe to say those are NOTHING like these. Not even remotely. I’m so sorry to all of the ladies in here, and everywhere, who have been hur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 01:31 AM |
| 7 | How to break a trauma bond?I love this reply. Thank you! Once you’ve gained your distance and see the abuse for what it really is, how do you deal with all of the grief/anger/betrayal/etc you felt? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:35 AM |
| 15 | Indeed, how dares she to think of not going nun after break-up with a man?True! But the fact they would pull something like that just for publicity is creepy in itself. It’s kind of like they’re eluding that their relationship reciprocates what appears in Lolita. It just rubs me the wrong way I guess. Attention-seeking stunt or not. 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 09:52 PM |
| 7 | Indeed, how dares she to think of not going nun after break-up with a man?Wow. And the comments on that video...disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 08:19 PM |
| 22 | Relationships may take work and effort at times, but you should not be working and sacrificing just to get the BASICS (love, respect, consideration, etc). Know your line and what it will take for you to fold and walk away, and stick to it.Ooh, I really like this analogy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 08:00 PM |
| 58 | She thought this was cute and quirky, but this made my stomach drop.This! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 07:58 PM |
| 99 | She thought this was cute and quirky, but this made my stomach drop.They supposedly have about a 7 year difference so I think you may be onto something! The math doesn’t really add up to me. And he doesn’t look like a high schooler in his 2009 picture, if that’s what she was going for. I don’t have enough context to attest to any of that, as I saw this post on my For You page, so it’s only speculation. Either way, I think my issue is that I don’t understand the “joke” here. Feels like it’s normalizing the predators that wait for young women to grow up so they ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 07:54 PM |
| 170 | Indeed, how dares she to think of not going nun after break-up with a man?Bradley Cooper is a creep. There’s pictures of then 38-year-old Bradley holding then 21-year-old Suki Waterhouse, while they read ‘Lolita.’ They apparently broke up because, at 40, Bradley was ready to have children while 23-year-old Suki was not. Red flags everywhere. I agree that if Irina had read the FDS principles she wouldn’t have married or had a child with Bradley at all. She deserves better — and whether that’s a HVM or just enjoying her singledom, it doesn’t matter. Anything seems bette… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:00 PM |
| 58 | All the comments saying how sweet this is have me PUKING...count the ways this is wrong.He wrote one little tiny blurb about “what’s between her ears” and then a little more about how she likes to grow as a person, but not without mentioning that she was a bit “psycho.” The rest was about sex and himself. Lol. Pickme version of me would have thought this was cute, and maybe would have been a bit jealous, but this...is horrifying. Feels like it’s either his elaborate wet dream or not actually how the relationship is at all (aka, he’s happy while she’s miserable). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 03:18 PM |
| 29 | LVM interactions with your pets that set off alarms?Whenever I would cuddle or kiss my dog, my ex would become insecure and jealous. Literally. Like yes, of course I love my dog so much but to be jealous? A bit ridiculous. Maybe not a red flag but definitely off-putting. I’d give it a yellow flag ranking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:00 AM |
| 17 | Ladies, in your experience, what are some examples of sneaky condescending behaviors/words that a LVM will usually throw at you as an attempt to lower your self worth?Thank you for mentioning this. While I was growing up my dad would always tell me that I was too high maintenance and I would never find a boyfriend who would put up with my nonsense. I firmly believe that the reason I actively sought LVM during my teens, and didn’t feel like I deserved HVM, most likely stemmed from my father’s comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:26 AM |
| 218 | The only worthwhile heterosexual relationships are where both people love each other, but the man loves the woman slightly more than she loves him.This is so true, and it is one of the most depressing realizations about dating in my opinion. My ex was my dream man but I wasn’t his dream woman. It felt like he was resentful and always secretly wanted his first ex back, or another woman. It felt like he was settling for me. Really took a toll on my mental health, and still continues to be like a slow poison on my heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 01:28 AM |
| 9 | If you are reading this message, It was meant for you. Stop stalking your ex on social media.Oh my gosh, this post could not have come at a better time. Thank you, queen! I wish you all of the strength, growth and healing in the world. 💗 I have a question though; how can I get past the guilt and regret I feel after blocking my ex? I mean, it feels so permanent, and I guess it is permanent, but for whatever reason this makes me feel a lot of shame. Like I’m being too harsh. It scares me to think that I’ll never be able to hear from him. I think I became too comfortable in familiarity yet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 12:38 AM |
| 8 | beware of men that aren't over their EX and the subtle ways they let you knowAlmost as soon as we broke up, my ex ran back to his high school sweetheart. I wasn’t even that upset about the end of our relationship until I found out about that. I don’t know why it bothers me so much but it does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 02:26 PM |
| 19 | Thank youThis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 03:40 PM |
| 95 | Being decent isn’t difficultWhen I was 15, this boy two years older than me would send me his nudes and told me that he fantasizes about raping women. I took it to the dean, screenshots and all, and guess what the dean told me? The dean told me that there was nothing he could do as this was the boy’s “personal matters.” He also told me I was “complicit” because I texted the boy back, threatening to turn him in. The dean did talk to the boy and his friends but none of them faced any repercussions. A few months later that sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 12:56 AM |
| 23 | Ladies, don't be a FWBI saw a text on my ex’s phone that read, “how’s miss pussy?” referring to me, of course, from an older friend of his (and by older I mean my ex was 19 at the time and his friend 38 lmao). This was in the earlier stages of us dating and I never mentioned it so I could be the “chill girlfriend” (I also didn’t want him knowing I was peeping at his phone). But I realize now that my ex and his friends never took me seriously nor respected me. Big regret. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 06:45 PM |
| 13 | A man once 'jokingly' told me to sew up my vagina since I don't 'use' itI haven’t seen anyone else mention it so I’d like to zone in on the “he’s beating his elderly parents” part??? Like, literally hitting them??? What the fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 04:40 AM |
| 11 | What Red Flags Have You Ignored That Later Became the Reason You LeftIncestual fantasies and other sick kinks/fetishes that he coaxed me into trying. Never made love and he would leave to let me clean myself up. Wanted to open up our relationship. Is still in love with his “first love.” Porn addict. Obsessed with social media but our relationship was hidden. Followed lots of scrote podcasts, women models and celebrities, and would follow random women he knew from high school that wouldn’t follow him back lol. Never introduced me to his friends. Never complimented… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 04:15 PM |
| 56 | Sex and Relationship “Expert” who writes for GQ, Refinery29, The Cut, and Allure, reveals her “qualifications”.Even so, I think the point is that so many women, Sophia included, start to internalize the message that they are not individual human beings, but objects of beauty, pleasure, and play for men or women, and they start to look at themselves and their bodies as such. Self-objectification is a degrading, addictive cycle. It’s sad for me to see women talk about themselves like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 12:15 AM |
| 12 | His GF refused to bow to him, so he tired to kill her.Jamele Hill said it best. “My prayer is that this deserved and necessary outrage for Chad Wheeler is here all of the time for black women who have been abused.” And “I am not going to repost the pictures of Chad Wheeler’s victim, but if this horrible situation isn’t seen in the context of hate crime, journalists are being irresponsible. I’m also wondering why this isn’t considered attempted murder.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:20 AM |
| 7 | His GF refused to bow to him, so he tired to kill her.Someone posted the picture of her in the hospital. I couldn’t believe it. That photo should not be public and whoever leaked it should be fired. Absolutely sickening. This monster is a racist, misogynistic murderer. Pure and simple. My heart aches for her and her family. And for all women. I wish there was more that I could say but, at the very least, I hope she has a speedy recovery. 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Why do men make idols of these emotionless, pseudo-deep characters that are almost always narcissistic and disrespectful towards women?I’m really behind on pop culture in general but I’ve heard this phrase a lot. I still don’t understand what a manic pixie dream girl is though. 😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 06:14 PM |
| 68 | mAyBe hE's dEpReSsEd, yOu sHouLd bE HeLpiNg HiMThis drives me insaneee. Would a man ask a question like this? Would a man be willing to sacrifice most things in order to teach his significant other how to be a basic functioning adult? No. He would would either cheat or breakup with his significant other. He wouldn’t even bat an eye. So why should we? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:10 PM |
| 7 | I just blocked my ex-boyfriend everywhere. Thank you, ladies.Thank you. 🍀🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:03 PM |
| 7 | I just blocked my ex-boyfriend everywhere. Thank you, ladies.Thank you, this is very sweet and it truly means a lot to me. 🌷💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:03 PM |
| 14 | I just blocked my ex-boyfriend everywhere. Thank you, ladies.I do. Thank goodness for FDS! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:02 PM |
| 32 | I just blocked my ex-boyfriend everywhere. Thank you, ladies.He did break up with me. Over text, no less. But I was still pining for him before I was introduced to FDS. It is a good riddance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:02 PM |
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