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| 1 | Blues Commit the Moralistic Fallacy. Reds Commit the Naturalistic Fallacy.I'm not mocking. I'm pointing out that the answer to the old "nature vs. nurture" question is "both". Which I found to be funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Blues Commit the Moralistic Fallacy. Reds Commit the Naturalistic Fallacy.I was more-or-less joking, but you make a salient point. Red Pill, theoretically, simply observes and comments on human female behavior. Then, it goes on to try and understsand why. That's a very male thing, actually. To observe real things in our environment, and feelings aside, try to figure out why those things happen the way they do. Kind of what science in all of it's forms is about. Blue Pill tends to have a knee jerk reaction when reality and feelings misalign. Modern woke Blue Pill think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Q4everyone: Is your type into you?I'm attracted to gold diggers and I'm poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Blues Commit the Moralistic Fallacy. Reds Commit the Naturalistic Fallacy.Nature AND Nurture. Damn. It was right in front of us this whole time. We spelled "AND" incorrectly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Blues Commit the Moralistic Fallacy. Reds Commit the Naturalistic Fallacy.Guy with masters in sociology with a focus on social inequality comes in here and tells us we are all wrong. But... Er... What about... Wait... But... I got nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Should sex toys be permitted in a relationshipAre you writing relationship legislation? Because permitted kind of sounds... very metooey. How about people just do what turns them on. I think guys see an arse-anal (grin) of toys used in porn and think "Hey that made me pretty hard. I should amass a suitcase full of jiggly jelly toys!" Most women probably don't like competition sized dildos, or anything too large being pushed in down below. But I've never gotten a bad review from proper implementation of a clit stimulator. Here's an idea. Tal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 06:30 AM |
| – | There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense?Ah, yes. The one they giggle about. The situationship. The whole imaginary drama built around the simple fact that accepting the reality of being a fuck toy for a hot guy is too much to bear... Sorry, you were saying? And then he said... he didn't like mustard on his hot dog. HE DIDN'T LIKE MUSTARD ON HIS HOTDOG!?! Oh. My. God. And you just put mustard on BOTH hotdogs. Ok, this is getting good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 06:26 AM |
| 1 | If women have "Female Intuition", what do guys have? Instinct? Gut Feelings?Erect penis. Brain currently off. Please call back in 20 minutes. Thank you. - My brain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 06:23 AM |
| 1 | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.Male here: Tell us more of this mysterious fuckzone of which you speak. Does a portal open up? Yes.... yes... a portal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 06:21 AM |
| 0 | “its how we evolved” is a horrible excuse and it needs to stop being an argumentI disagree but not because of your rationale. We do need to be more evolved as higher order organisms. We can think rationally. And we have empathy. Evolution (and biology) is not an alibi or excuse - it's just what is. I think by trying to deny our biological roots we're going to do more harm than good. For example, the "new" belief that differences are bad ignores the historical belief (and proof) that gender differences can be complementary. Now, men must be more like women and women more lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Just pay attention to herMeh. Women have more negative emotion, are higher in trait neuroticism and far more likely to report relationship dissatisfaction and end the relationship (3:1 to men). "Happy wife happy life" is a bad joke for suckers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 10:43 PM |
| 7 | Just pay attention to herThe first woman a man knows and experiences love from is his mother and it's easy to fall back into old habits. Yes. Mothers love us unconditionally, or at least, they should. Partners do not. This is a hard Red Pill for many to swallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 04:58 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”But I absolutely think men often are willing to sell themselves short as hell for a whiff of muff. Well, how very redpillian of you! Yes, this is the problem. Male thirst, men with no standards, creating monsters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 04:56 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”Yes, we get. Average women now expect superman "because degree". But, we ask, "How's that working out for you?" And if not, we'll, better to die in pursuit of a worthy goal than die having obtained an unworthy one. To men: Better stay in your lane, bat in your league and temper your expectations boys! To women: You're a queen! Die single, but don't EVER settle! LOLOL. Good luck with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 02:09 AM |
| 6 | Just pay attention to herConstant whinging, ongoing dissatisfaction, and covert communication methods. MASSIVE TURN OFF. Women like to say their partners are akin to babies. To me, sounds like more of a projection than anything else. A woman would never tolerate a man as whiney as they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Which of these scenaris is the "friend zone"?It's B. Friend zone is when a guy like a gal romantically but is covert about it and does all these non-threatening non-sexual "friend type" engagements with her. Even if she detects he wants something more, she can easily deny it, and often, women do. He's being covert about his intentions, and she may or may not be exploiting this. Using 'friendship' as a vehicle to become romantic with someone is a cowards approach and comes with all kinds of negative side effects. This is why when guys get f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 12:03 AM |
| 9 | CMV : RP's standards mainly filter out high libido/mutual attraction and lead to transactional relationships/ dead bedroom and is a terrible dating tacticYou have it backwards. Blue Pill teaches the "value" of the beta-male transactional relationship. Red Pill teaches the folly of this approach, and ways men can avoid it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Do dating age men have any interest in having a friendship with a woman who is solidly nailed down?Actual friendships with women are possible. Someone who has similar interests, perhaps a similar sport. Some women are car geeks, or game nerds. Some like anime or obscure card or strategy games. Some seem to be wired more like men that women. If there is reciprocity and it's not one sided, opposite sex friendships are certainly possible. BUT, if he's got "more than friends feelings" for her, and she's EXPLOITING those feelings, that's not friendship it's friendzoneship and it's toxic. And he's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 11:56 PM |
| 8 | Just pay attention to herShe's more like a cat. She wants you to show enough interest in her to read her cues, get to know her. More like a child, really. Some men are just too neuro-divergent to be interested in these kinds of games. I'm a great communicator - because I use my words. The "women want us to read their minds" thing is a trope for a reason. We're not mind readers, and her wanting us to try is a shit test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 11:53 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”The people who dismiss my concerned are concerned I am now dismissing theirs. This is what we call an impasse. A stalemate. Myself, I am okay simply walking away from an unreasonable game. Reddit HAS taught me a few things of value. The #1 thing being: Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. - United Brotherhood of Confirmed Bachelors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 11:50 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”This is largely because women are not interested in casual sex. Most women want a good relationship with a good man. Really? Just a "good" man? The definition of "good man" is going from top 5% to top 1%. And the more women compete for fewer men, the worse they are treated by these same men, as their options can only lead to entitlement and narcissism. The problem is that "good women" (ordinary ones) have been told they deserve the best of everything, because they have a degree and a job. The on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 11:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don't have a reason to complain about men not putting in effort.Yeah, so they just stay independent, focus on their careers, sport fuck hot guys and maybe be single mom to his kid, or even go so far as getting artificially inseminated or just going lesbian. Yes, high value men are in increasingly short supply. But the competition for them is very fierce and she's only going to spend so many years being sport-fucked and chucked by these guys before she goes on to Plan B. Women have realized that not landing that hot rich guy to marry is NO BIG DEAL. Feminism … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 01:59 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill will become mainstream because the gender divide has become impossible to ignoreI stole that "don't tell kids stuff ask them thought provoking questions and guide them to finding their own answers" from (wait for it) my lady friend who owns a daycare. She taught me that when my kids were small. If you're trying to raise critical thinkers, this is the way. Watching my kids mental gears heat up and smoke come out of their ears and their eyes dart around like some malfunctioning robot while they process all of the information... it's priceless. And when they get an ah-ha momen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 01:39 AM |
| 4 | Do you believe that male sexuality is shamed in modern society?3rd wave feminism was a two-edged blade. Vilify all elements of male sexuality relentlessly, and give even the absolutely worst female sexual behavior a big thumbs up and call it "empowered". Absolutely make sexuality is vilified. The purple haired angry girls are here because daddy wanted to fuck mommy. SO TOXIC! lololol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Are people who criticize passport bros. hypocritical in this sense?Here is another take on it. Anti-prostitution laws in North America drive the street price of pussy up. Of course, no woman will object to this considering her anatomy. Not all men who want to use prostitutes are losers. Many are really successful and have no time or desire to be wound up in some relationship they don't just to get sexual release. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 05:05 AM |
| 1 | TRP is not based on science, it's based on what intuitively sounds true"Social class" is a result of a strata of social dominance hierarchies. Read more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 05:01 AM |
| – | Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks Discussion Thread"Situationship" is cope for women being sport fucked by guys out of their league. Promiscuity is easy for women to do, but it doesn't give them the results they ultimately want in the SMP. The woman wants to lock the man down. Women don't value casual sex like men do, and those who believe they can or do are often unhappy. For the man, the sex is the prize. For the woman, she uses the sex to try and get the prize. And the prize just toys with her, like a cat playing with a little mouse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 04:58 AM |
| – | Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks Discussion ThreadInstead of shaming men, read up on the paradox that is ultimately known as women's dual mating strategy. It's not made up by dudes on the internet, who really stumbled upon it by accident. It's a real phenomenon, just like hypergamy is. The shitty attitude is one where there is no desire to learn and just rehash the tired old "men are bad, m'kay" meme. I mean, you can say that here as well, but you're kind of just screaming into the void. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 04:55 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Women don't have a reason to complain about men not putting in effort.So long as women desire high status men and men desire good looking women, this game will not change and this sub isn't going anywhere! There is no magic pill for EITHER SIDE. This is what Red Pill gets wrong. Blue Pill = women good men bad. Red Pill = men good women bad. (the counterweight) Truth = human beings generally suck and lie to themselves all the time. "Everybody wants a box of chocolates, and a long stemmed rose... Everybody knows." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Men are better divided into three groups, not twoEven Red Pill gets this wrong because of that Stupid Cupid poll. It's not a 80/20 rule per se. 80% of men are invisible. 18% are beta-class. 2% are considered high value. All women are clamoring for a 2% man and settling for a top 20% man eventually. I know a guy who is in the top 5% or so. Chadlite for sure. Sleeps with 3 or different women every month. And they're all pretty much gym-type smoke-shows, albeit most of them look like they occasionally forget to breathe. He's miserable. He wants a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 08:09 PM |
| 16 | The Red Pill will become mainstream because the gender divide has become impossible to ignoreI get to post up here. Red Pill is not going to BECOME mainstream. It already is. I make a point not to Red Pill my sons. I just ask them questions that are thought provoking. - Why do you think she behaves like that? - Why do you think HE behaves like that? - How does that treatment you got yesterday make you feel? - What is a good way to handle that situation? My sons: - "She's a pickme girl." - "She's a thot." - She just wants attention. - Those guys are simps. They'll say or do anything to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 07:54 PM |
| -1 | Most guys don't like fake nails or heavy makeup. Guys, what do you do "for yourself" even though you know women find it unattractive?I dislike all of these things. Even though I am not interested in relationships these days, I know what does and does not catch my eye. I like natural women. She's attractive, with perhaps a few minor flaws. She might wear a bit of makeup, but she's not putting on a latex mask. Extra points for a touch of nerd-girl. Intelligence is a huge turn on. Social media posts such as "OMG. Check out the lineup at Starbucks! Like REALLY?" yeah. Big turn off. You just sound... dumb. Any piercings on the lip… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 07:39 PM |
| 8 | Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks Discussion ThreadA woman here in PPD just admitted this the other day. She is what I like to call "the rare honest unicorn". "If the man's SMV is too much higher than ours, we know he has options and the window of opportunity with him will be too short for this strategy. Not putting out will cause him to leave 100%." This woman is CONSCIOUSLY AWARE that the high-value man has options and will simply go away if made to work. She knows the lower-value guys will "work for it". But, she doesn't want the low value gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 07:21 PM |
| 0 | TRP is not based on science, it's based on what intuitively sounds trueThen explain why women with "soft degrees" or even blue collar jobs can marry men who own companies and are obviously at least one social class higher. Both bosses at work (owners) did not marry other business-class people. They married women with "regular jobs" who make about $100K a year. The men who make in and around $100K a year are not qualified to date them despite what Reddit says about "women marry men who make the same or less than they do on the regular". No, that part is wrong. They … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | TRP is not based on science, it's based on what intuitively sounds trueNow you're saying education and money and social class are common factors. I am saying social class is a combination of education and money and some looks for men and mostly looks and youth and agreeableness (and some success) for women. Some men want to try and sidestep hypergamy as much as possible to get a more financially equal partner. Divorce outcomes are better for men when he does not out-earn her by a substantial margin. So, he's got to up his "mate value" game in other areas, like egal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 07:03 PM |
| -1 | TRP is not based on science, it's based on what intuitively sounds trueThat's how they become equal. He gets her because he is higher status socially. I am not sure what you're arguing here anymore. I am not saying they are unequal. I am saying he's from an equal or better social status. Real estate agents don't marry factory workers and laborers. Even handsome ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | TRP is not based on science, it's based on what intuitively sounds trueEducation. Income. Looks. Social connections. Status. Popularity. All of these things ultimately add up to a person's level of overall social dominance. And, of course, all the nuance and variations due to people's individual preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 05:04 AM |
| 1 | TRP is not based on science, it's based on what intuitively sounds truePlease read up on social dominance hierarchies and get back to me. This is not "looks and resources" it's social strata and what groups the individuals belong to. Looks value vs resources value aside, she's looking for a higher status male - one who can elevate her own status up one or more notches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 03:04 AM |
| 0 | As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you haveWomen compare their partners, their lives, their status, their jobs, their cars - basically anything in their lives that evokes emotion - to that of other people, way more than men do this very thing. That's why the second anything happens that she thinks is noteworthy is slathered all over social media, followed by her waiting for the Actual dopamine hits - social validation and status. I'm in a weight-loss, diet and exercise program right now. Muscle definition is going up dramatically, down t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Many men who have nothing going for them and are low value try to get high value or attractive women, and then complain and moan that they’re “alone forever” but don’t ever lower their standards.Sexual success for men and for women is different. Women have been duped by feminism into thinking if they get want men have/want they will be happy. Do you know what women are getting from smoking cigars and slamming whiskey? Lung cancer and heart disease. These diseases are skyrocketing in women, because feminism tells women to be more like men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 02:12 AM |
| 0 | TRP is not based on science, it's based on what intuitively sounds trueDual mating strategy is a subset of parental investment theory, a well documented and studied phenomenon in social sciences. Not everything referenced here is just "made up by some Red Pill dude on Youtube". Women face a conundrum when seeking partners because the men who (based on appearance) offer the best genetic outcomes are in high demand and thus have less reason for commitment to her and investment in the resulting offspring. (read: babies!) The men who are resourceful and willing to comm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 02:00 AM |
| 1 | TRP is not based on science, it's based on what intuitively sounds trueSocial status is determined by many factors, not just looks for women. Never said it was. Social status is more-so associated with "mate value" of which looks is only a portion (albeit a greater portion for women than men, but that's changing fast). The concept of "dating down" only works if both genders' social status comes from the exact same thing. Patently false. Women and men value different things about opposite sex partners in different amounts. You can't create "equity" here out of thin … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 01:18 AM |
| 0 | As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you haveAre you being funny here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 01:12 AM |
| 2 | As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you haveIt's moreso: "Oh, I would never have impulses like that. I'm a good person." They don't realize that people in general have all kinds of instincts, drives and impulses. What makes people good is not denying these urges exist, but by not acting on them and treating others with respect. I am really suspicious of people who claim to live without any temptations whatsoever. For example, w all know how well keeping a tray of cinnamon buns in the house works when one is on a diet. "Well, maybe just on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 01:07 AM |
| 1 | As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you haveWomen rarely compare singular actions of current lovers to prior ones indiscriminately. It's not former partners that are the biggest threat. It's potential partners. She is already biased against former partners. They only begin to compare stop the sex and get moody when the overall level of content drops. There fixed that for you. They compare ALL THE TIME. If they are HAPPY it's not because she is not comparing. She's happy because the comparisons and shit tests have yielded positive results.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 12:36 AM |
| 1 | As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you haveAre you a woman? Men are always compared to the performance of other men. What other bar does she have to appraise her partner to? An objective score card? Women are very very good at comparing things, especially with regard to social status and sexual market value. When you see women rank each-other openly in an experiment , the effort devolves into an ongoing serious of lies and deceit to make the social ramifications of judging one another more palatable. If you got these same women to talk a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 12:33 AM |
| 0 | TRP is not based on science, it's based on what intuitively sounds true"across and down" = same social status or lower "across and up" = same social status or higher This is because of the classic trope that men seek out "youth and beauty" and women seek out resourceful men. This is changing because women are now far more independent and resourceful. However, women still seem to look down at their financial equals. They don't consider a man "the same" as them to be their equal at all. A woman with a gender studies degree wants to marry a man with a degree. Just not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are for losersHot people of all genders get free stuff, The OP defined those as winners. and the rest of us have to work for what we want The OP defined those as losers. Based on those definitions, OP is correct. You're changing the definition of the words, which is fine. But it's not what the OP was talking about. People flip the script and say the "relationship drones" are the winners and the "get free sex" guys are losers. This is what women want regular men to believe. But, society rewards the "get free s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are for losersYeah, she can double or even triple her household income by having sex 12 times a year. And they say female privilege doesn't exist... wow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are for losersFor regular men, regular sex is the goal and for them, the price is a relationship. They know this is the best bet for them to get regular sex. And they do get regular sex. 12 - 14 times a year, they get to fuck a starfish. Wow, hard pass on that one. I guess some guys are just more desperate than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are for losersWow, this whole thing is being taken out of context. A woman just wrote here on this sub TODAY that average guys need to jump through her hoops but hawt guys need not wait. She has to bang them really quick because otherwise there is a 100% chance they will leave if she doesn't, knowing full well he's going to leave anyways. This tells me what matters is NOT him staying (she knows he won't) but simply her FUCKING HIM before he trots off to one of his many other options. So this is all OP is sayi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 05:41 AM |
| 3 | Relationships are for losersMost married men get obligation/ovulation sex. That's 12 to 14 times per year folks. Marriage for sex is like lighting yourself on fire to get a free bandaid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 05:35 AM |
| 4 | Relationships are for losersThe week of their honeymoon, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 05:34 AM |
| – | CMV Since the Andrew Tate mindset GUARANTEES succes with women, its very hard for many off his fans to not support him and believe himTate is an example of how to successfully market Red Pill ideas and sell them back to Red Pillers. Tate is why blue pillers (and most of Reddit) thinks RP = PUA. It does not. Red Pill can be used in myriad ways to help men navigate the cold dark murky waters of the mating arena. It can even help men who have no interest in relationships, like myself. I don't need to listen to his "product" and don't even care what it is. He's just another MrBeast type phenomenon. He's the Zuckerberg of Red Pill.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 05:31 AM |
| 7 | Many men who have nothing going for them and are low value try to get high value or attractive women, and then complain and moan that they’re “alone forever” but don’t ever lower their standards.I was like this a few years ago. I was a woman who had virtually no hobbies. I was attractive by society’s standards, (blah blah blah blah) We call this female privilege. All you need to be sexually successful as a female is be average looking and (a) not be too fat and (b) not be too crazy. Hobbies had nothing to do with your sexual success. And you applying what works for a teenage female to older men is absolutely laughable. Looks aren’t the biggest factor, either, at least for men. By losing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 03:55 AM |
| 2 | The Biggest Mistake When Looking At Sexual Marketplace Data On Men Is Looking At The Average/MedianSMV =/= RMV. Don't confuse the two. Sexual market value could be seen as the 1 to 10 sex rank. RMV is more complex and nuanced, and looks play only a part, and how big that part it varies as well. A good looking person is not necessarily a good partner. But, a good partner is sufficiently good looking that the other person finds them sexually appealing. When someone isn't as good looking as their standards (tastes) would command, there is a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 03:47 AM |
| 32 | As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you haveWe've already established that pre-selection bias is a thing and influences a woman's choice in partner. How is it out of the realm of possibility that this phenomenon cannot continue after they are partnered? Do women stop comparing their partners to other men once the ring goes on the finger? I suppose they imagine they stop... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 03:43 AM |
| 1 | realising that the pool of suitable men for marriage is dwindling rapidly in your 30s it's the female equivalent of the shock that the redpill causes in men. You came at me hot acting like I personally wronged you. Meh. That's just how I write. It’s not narcissistic to relate this. I wan't calling you a narcissist covertly. I was saying I believe in a sort of "innate narcissism" in both men and women, probably better described as a primordial ego defense. If one or both genders lacked this psychological defense mechanism, the modern mating arena would not exist in it's current form. With women, it's the idea that any man who doesn't desire her (or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 03:37 AM |
| 1 | realising that the pool of suitable men for marriage is dwindling rapidly in your 30s it's the female equivalent of the shock that the redpill causes in menSome people stay married. Red Pill doesn't deny this. "X" percent marriages end in divorce. Another "Y" percent no self respecting human being would want to remain in. The remaining "Z" percent might have a modicum of happiness. But again, your 'anecdote of one' is really worth zero because for all we know you're husband is downstairs wanking to porn and you're having a secret emotional affair with someone from work. So, it's better for us to go by general statistics. As for my outlook, it works… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 01:48 AM |
| 0 | Biologically: Fighting Prime Is The Same As Mating Prime for Males In Most Species. Humans Are Similar"Men" do not choose to misbehave. If "men" chose not to behave themselves, strong cohorts of male brutes would enslave lesser men for getting work done and all women for sex and reproduction. "Men", in 99.9% of cases, absolutely DO resist biological urges and imperatives and conform to society norms and expectations. Only people trained in "man-hate" in gender studies indoctrination camps would think such a thing. The very small number of men who follow only their base instincts are generally ei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Theories on why Average and Underaverage women are harsher on men than actually Cute womenAgree about the phenomenon. Disagree about the cause. Groups of women often have a strata of "mate value" within their group. They often have a group leader and a few "close seconds". Then, they have other women who are only there to bolster the perceived value of the highest value group members. These lower-value women usually think they are on the same level as the women using them only to make themselves look better. Subconsciously, these women know on some level they are not in the same leag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Biologically: Fighting Prime Is The Same As Mating Prime for Males In Most Species. Humans Are SimilarAnd on the other hand, even animals do not act purely on instinct. At least the more developed animal species, such as elephants, lions, dolphins and ravens. Agreed. And in the animal kingdom, there are examples of social conditioning where unwanted behavior is discouraged through a variety of deterrents, often in the form of penalties that range from exclusion to being subject to physical violence. Humans do this too. If you go into a coffee shop and start tipping people's coffee onto their lap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Biologically: Fighting Prime Is The Same As Mating Prime for Males In Most Species. Humans Are SimilarEvolved men use rational thought and discipline in their decision making. Animals act on instinct Nope wrong. Men are influenced by instinct, primordial drive and sexual desire. All of these are animalistic in nature. Just because we can choose to over-ride these basic instincts doesn't mean we always do, are that were are not animals. You seem like the type that wants to believe that human beings are not a mammalian species. Then you go on to wrongly believe that "self control" is some sort of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 12:58 AM |
| 0 | realising that the pool of suitable men for marriage is dwindling rapidly in your 30s it's the female equivalent of the shock that the redpill causes in menLol do you feel better? I'm a guy. I'm not thinking about how I feel every 10 seconds. My entire social circle are all married women who like me met their husbands in college or a little after closer to 30. And these are all first marriages. Give it time. And also be aware that at brunch and your couples BBQs, eveybody sits there and tells the group how awesome their lives are. Even when their lives are a shit sandwich and falling apart at the seams, they force those smile muscles into action an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 12:50 AM |
| 18 | TRP is not based on science, it's based on what intuitively sounds trueWomen's hypergamous nature is science. Women mate across and up social dominance hierarchies, men mate across and down. Women's mating strategies, including their "dual mating conundrum" are based on parental investment theory which is grounded in much scientific research. This conundrum explains why different "classes" of men are treated entirely differently by women. It also explains why some men get a "straight path to her bed" pass and other men have to earn the "potential boyfriend" pass. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 12:30 AM |
| -2 | realising that the pool of suitable men for marriage is dwindling rapidly in your 30s it's the female equivalent of the shock that the redpill causes in menAre they all millionaire chads, no, but they were decent hard working average men. So... this "women retain their sexual power indefinitely and, yaasss qweeen, don't ever settle" is a bullshit lie with an expiration date. Women marrying "hardworking average men" with "hardworking average bodies and receding hairlines is not what they had in mind. They're settling. Some are able to settle and others would just rather die old with cats. In any case, any self-respecting man doesn't want to be "sett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 12:15 AM |
| 9 | Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys?This is a big mistake men make. Never help a woman succeed, because after she succeeds, you will no longer qualify to be her partner. They had three chumps like this on OPRAH once if you can believe it. The "fixer upper women" these guys all "saved" thanked them - and left for better men. There is a reason why we tell men not to be "captain save a ho". You don't make a woman better if you want her to stay. You make yourself better. And if she betters herself, you'd better try to keep up. Because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys?Think less wrinkly and totally bald Harvey Weinstein. Did he have a convertible? Tell me he had a convertible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys?This used to be an excellent dating strategy, but now it's a terrible idea. Women have always dated across and up social dominance hierarchies and men dated across and down. In this age of "all men are rapey exploiters", if you dare date or (gasp) marry a woman of lower status, even though she DESIRES YOU as a HIGHER status partner, you deserve everything you get when she divorce rapes you. You see, since you were EXPLOITING her by COERCING her with your resources, you deserve all manner of bad … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 05:01 AM |
| 3 | Biologically: Fighting Prime Is The Same As Mating Prime for Males In Most Species. Humans Are SimilarEither you’re animals, or you’re men. Oh wow you couldn't be more wrong.We're actually called "animal man" in many areas of study. We're high reasoning animals, but still animals no less. In my mind of minds, I can decide to not want relationships or casual sex. But then I get this strange itch in a certain spot in the middle of my body, one I can't exactly scratch completely on my own. I can almost completely manage it. Almost. It's insidious. It's non stop. It won't go away. And dealing with m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 04:36 AM |
| – | Rant: Men on here have not touched grass in their life."Some serious fucking" counts as serious. C'mon don't be so serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 04:17 AM |
| 11 | CMV: Men aren't assholes for treating you different after a rejectionWomen just get salty when a man grows a pair and doesn't simp after getting shot down, or just nopes his way out of her friend zone. KFC level salty. ...that's pretty fucking salty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 04:13 AM |
| 26 | CMV: Men aren't assholes for treating you different after a rejectionMen need to learn to ignore female shaming tactics. And once you graduate from that, you can start chipping away at social/societal shaming tactics. Once you DGAF about that, well, lemme tell ya. People can sense it. Confirmed Bachelors Incorporated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 04:10 AM |
| 8 | If expecting a woman to cook/clean *because she’s a woman* is misogyny, then wouldn’t expecting chivalry from a man *because he’s the man* be misandry?Maybe we can get the charged reduced to "reach around"... ;-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 03:32 AM |
| – | Women often lie or “trickle truth” because they genuinely feel like they did no wrong and victimize themselvesDay 1 "We only fooled around" Day 3 "We only kissed" Day 5 "It was only the tip" Day 7 "It was only a spit-roast" Day 9 "It was only half of his team and I was drunk..." Yeah, I've been down this road. Getting the truth in these small pathetic doses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 01:31 AM |
| 2 | If expecting a woman to cook/clean *because she’s a woman* is misogyny, then wouldn’t expecting chivalry from a man *because he’s the man* be misandry?Deleted hahaha. This whole thing is ban hammer bait. Fuck this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 01:28 AM |
| 0 | If expecting a woman to cook/clean *because she’s a woman* is misogyny, then wouldn’t expecting chivalry from a man *because he’s the man* be misandry?How about changing power lines in January and running into burning buildings? Or any of the other jobs that result in male workplace deaths making up 99% of workplace deaths? Opening doors my door opening ass... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 01:27 AM |
| 4 | If expecting a woman to cook/clean *because she’s a woman* is misogyny, then wouldn’t expecting chivalry from a man *because he’s the man* be misandry?Baumeister and Vohs wrote a whole ass-paper saying basically this. You've been hyphenated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 01:25 AM |
| 4 | If expecting a woman to cook/clean *because she’s a woman* is misogyny, then wouldn’t expecting chivalry from a man *because he’s the man* be misandry?This is a classic example of the "buffet syndrome" of modern feminism and pretty much every "equity" movement in existence. They want the perks, but not the responsibility or accountability. Those last two words, that's men's shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 01:24 AM |
| 36 | If expecting a woman to cook/clean *because she’s a woman* is misogyny, then wouldn’t expecting chivalry from a man *because he’s the man* be misandry?Toxic femininity doesn't exist! Neither does female privilege! And even when a woman does something shitty on her own accord, a man is to blame! How did I do? I'm practicing to be a feminist. Cause I really want to go to the next slut walk! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 01:23 AM |
| 1 | The drug problem broken down: the reason people use drugs is that life is miserable. Life is miserable because men are supposed to have meaningful work, a wife, and children to take care of. They are supposed to be surrounded by beauty.Yep. Complete word salad. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/04/23 12:10 AM |
| 1 | The drug problem broken down: the reason people use drugs is that life is miserable. Life is miserable because men are supposed to have meaningful work, a wife, and children to take care of. They are supposed to be surrounded by beauty.Women create need. Men need to be needed. But women have socialist governments for their needs now, and degrees, and "need no man". So, men turn to drugs, alcohol, violence and suicide. And, they say this is not a societal problem but men's problem because it's caused by "toxic masculinity". And this is supposed to make us men who have stopped caring to care again? Wow. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/04/23 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do women set up their sons for failure?Team women > Team mother Next question | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/04/23 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Women asked to rate themselves out of 10:And all of these 10's can't get a commitment from an 8... HmmMMmm. HMMMMMM. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/04/23 12:06 AM |
| – | What is the point in flirting? Also how do you do it?Explain? There's this really pretty well-built young man where I work and so many random women throw themselves at him he's losing faith in the concept of true love. LOSING FAITH IN THE CONCEPT OF TRUE LOVE CAROL! Wait, are you into TWD? If not that wasn't funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 12:01 AM |
| 0 | If a woman has guys friends are they all trying to get with her or are they truly friends?Nope. Not all men. Just all women in this case. Men admit openly to be willing to bang a willing female friend. Women deny male friends are interested in them sexually because women have the innate ability to deny reality when it doesn't align with their feelings. Or their agenda. It's a highly gendered phenomenon, like spending an entire paycheck on a purse or pair of shoes. This is perhaps the #1 female privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 11:55 PM |
| 0 | People should dress modestly in publicAw nuts. They nuked their account. And I had the perfect come back too... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 11:53 PM |
| 2 | What makes you say no to a second date or a first date?See if you can fuck her 10 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 06:13 AM |
| 2 | What makes you say no to a second date or a first date?You can't ask a gal if she gives good head tho. But you can ask if she can suck a golf-ball through a garden hose. That would be okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 06:12 AM |
| – | Height never helped me. It’s not the silver-bullet some people think it is.He sounds like a total tallcel though. :-D Oh shit I just made up another stupid "pill" word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 06:06 AM |
| -1 | People should dress modestly in publicOnly five downvotes? Jesus. Tough crowd... Yeah, I'm actually thinking of moving to Saudi Arabia because they have no idea that I'm a total EYE MAN. Those women are practically naked to me. I mean, COVID was like shooting fish in a barrel. All those-dog faced women with masks on and just their beautiful eyes showing. Let's be honest. Ugly women with nice eyes cleaned up during COVID. Do they even have yoga pants in Saudi? If they do, they're woven from pure gold thread. Wait, that's only in Duba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 06:02 AM |
| – | Height never helped me. It’s not the silver-bullet some people think it is.Think of a diving or gymnastics competition. Every person starts out with a 10, and then their score is reduced based on technical errors or poor artistic impression by the judges. This is how women judge men. So, you don't get height points for being tall, but you don't lose any points for being short. As a taller guy, you don't lose height points, but in your case you shit the bed on the confidence, charisma, and flirting points which also have a malignant cancer-like effect on nearby "mystery… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 05:48 AM |
| 2 | What makes you say no to a second date or a first date?No, that's GREAT! Dodged that bullet for SURE. I mean, I wasn't hoping it went on to something insane just for my own trivial amusement or anything. Yeah. Totes happy for you. :-) Kind of the death of this sub-thread, but hey. As long as you're okay. I mean, that's all that matters here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 03:40 AM |
| – | What is the point in flirting? Also how do you do it?Yeaaaah. But if he's really hot a crooked grin and a wink is all that is required. When you're hot, less is more. I've watched guys work on women all night at a club and they leave 2 hours later with a guy who might have spoken 30 words the entire evening. She knew who she was leaving with long before Average Joe rolled out his 'A' game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 03:30 AM |
| – | What is the point in flirting? Also how do you do it?Flirting is a very advanced and nuanced communication method used by people who are initiating communication for the purpose of possibly engaging in some sort of mating ritual. Dating. Dancing. Dining. Sex. The ability to flirt isn't really a benefit, but the inability to flirt is a handy tool for women to immediately vet men with. A man who can't flirt probably does not have much confidence, or much experience talking to women. He doesn't have the cohones to make eye contact, and is too nervous… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 03:25 AM |
| 3 | I cannot understand why any person looking for a serious relationship would not support the FDS 3-month for sex strategy.I cannot understand why a person with such an expectation should also expect to be wined and dined in high buck establishments because she's a QWEEEEEN and he needs to prove to her he's a "high value man". How is she showing him she's a high value woman? Demanding Royal treatment? LOL. Three date rule boys. No play, no pay. Foodie calls are for suckers. If she wants to be romanced for three straight months, she can be romanced at Starbucks and Mickee D's. Besides, why take yourself off the marke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 03:05 AM |
| 11 | The Liberal left had abandoned men. The Rise of Andrew Tate and Redpill creators is a result of thatYoung men who approach life with kindness, humility, openness and empathy for others, and gratitude for what they have are doing just fine. Many young men are the way you describe to a T, yet they are sexually invisible to women despite this glib "boiler plate" bullshit neo-masculinity recipe people spout off. And allegedly, they're becoming increasingly dangerous. There is no such thing as an Alpha male - in wolves or in humans. These words represent archetypes, and they fit when they are used … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 01:10 AM |
| – | Would someone's family make you dislike the person or reconsider them as a partner?Sure. Lots of things. - If the parents are financial trainwrecks and especially if in their culture it's on the kids to bail out financial trainwreck parents. - If the parents have wacked-out religious or political beliefs and it comes to my attention she is also infected. - If the parents truly believe their patently ordinary daughter deserves a rich soap-opera star and that I'm a piece of shit they scowl at during dinner, and she shrugs it off, that's probably not going to work out. - If there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:59 AM |
| -9 | People should dress modestly in public[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:50 AM |
| 0 | People should dress modestly in publicWhen I was still married my ex bought me these expensive designer jeans and they gave me fucking Riverdance level package and I didn't realize it and I was getting all kinds of strong reactions from women in the mall. I'm like "Why the fuck are all these women glaring at me?" Wife be like: "I dunno, maybe because I'm Asian..." Nope. It was the big bulging man-sack protuding out in front of me. Damn comfortable jeans though. Boys were so free... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:48 AM |
| -3 | People should dress modestly in publicShe's not half naked and reveling labia through her skin tight yoga pants for OTHER PEOPLE TO LOOK AT. She's wearing these clothes solely because she wants to wear them and 0% because of how she actually looks in them and has 0% for anyone to see her. In fact, if these clothes made her completely invisible she would go for that option.Men need to walk with their EYES ON THE FLOOR because it's not appropriate to look at women wearing clothes they are only wearing because they want to wear them on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:45 AM |
| 4 | What makes you say no to a second date or a first date?I'm not dating right now but if I bucked up for a nice dinner and she didn't put her goddamned phone down I'd ghost her. I think we need Google Reviews for people. "Sarah was okay, but she REALLY needed a brilliant comedic routine on my part to keep her interest up. Anything other than stellar conversation on my part resulted in her head bobbing down into her phone like she had narcolepsy. She also ordered lavish parts of the menu only to pick at them, and mentioned she was literally going to gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:34 AM |
| 1 | What makes you say no to a second date or a first date?Was there a phase after the texting phase? Please tell me there was a phase after the texting phase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:29 AM |
| 3 | What makes you say no to a second date or a first date?Yes, blowjobophobia is a serious mental health issue affecting women everywhere. I feel ya man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:29 AM |
| 2 | What makes you say no to a second date or a first date?"SoOoOOoo... hear any good baby names lately? Hey, where'd he go? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:28 AM |
| 2 | What makes you say no to a second date or a first date?Easy fix. Never date a woman who had 12 headshots on her profile. Just saying. ThOsE BiNgO wInGs ThO.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:26 AM |
| 0 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?Foodie call is the feminine equivalent of a booty call, but instead of sex you just feed a very hungry woman lots of expensive food, then go home and jerk off for the privilege. Some women actually brag online about not ever cooking or buying groceries because they have a long line of simps willing to feed them on the regular. Methinks a lot of FDS women use this strategy. They don't look like a very hungry lot, to be sure... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Are you a ‘Traditional man’ worthy of a ‘traditional woman’? (Question for men who seek a traditional relationship). Fact is, many men simply choose not to take it. Naw, I didn't have a choice in how many hours I could work when I was an aspiring project manager. I wager that fewer relationships would end in divorce if men showed an interest beyond occasionally tossing a baseball with their kids. These women married man-children and became bang-maids. Choose better ladies. Choose better. I did pretty close to half of everything, worked my ass off at work, still got left for some other dude. Please don't say … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:19 AM |
| 0 | What are the implications of infinite AI-generated porn?You can't exploit a virtual likeness of a human being. Well, they will SAY that this has spin-off consequences that harm women and children, but they always say that. I've already read here on Reddit how a man 'treating AI women improperly' is problematic. You can't even be an abusive dick in a game these days. (Read that on r/TrollXChromosomes which is an absolutely terrific cesspool of man hate. If you want the best salty tears on Reddit, this is it folks. Butt. Hurt. Central.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Are you a ‘Traditional man’ worthy of a ‘traditional woman’? (Question for men who seek a traditional relationship)deleted by user. Figures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:15 AM |
| 3 | If a woman has guys friends are they all trying to get with her or are they truly friends?Here is the kicker. Women think NONE of their male friends would want to sleep with them given the chance, meaning 100% of women are wrong about this. Then they get mad at male partners who raise an eyebrow to too many chummy male friends. And they get even MADDER when HE goes out and has some FEMALE friends and says: "Hey, just like you, I have opposite sex friends!" And she be like: IT'S NOT THE SAME THING. Then you get no sex and she takes the dog when she breaks up with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Are you a ‘Traditional man’ worthy of a ‘traditional woman’? (Question for men who seek a traditional relationship)That's the point! lolololol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 11:51 PM |
| 0 | Are you a ‘Traditional man’ worthy of a ‘traditional woman’? (Question for men who seek a traditional relationship)Yes. Because I never left all of the child care and house work responsibilities to her. She was just mad because I was at work "having adult time" on my 11th and 12th hours there, and she was "stuck with the kids" after she was home from her job. And, women typically don't work that many hours, BTW. Wage gap remember? Some of that explained by raw hours worked. If I am working 60, and her 20, well, she's got 20 hours of domestic work she can be doing before she even comes close to a right to bit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Money is SEVERELY overratedOkay. Here's the automod. And away we go. You are correct. If a guy is a tightwad or starts bragging about his iron clad pre-nup or chooses to live in a trailer on his uncles farm instead of buying a nice house in the burbs despite being wealthy... Yes, women don't just hop into bed with a guy who might have money. They hop into bed with guys who will give them money for hopping into bed with them. "Hey Look I'm rich! You can fuck me but you'll never get any of my money." Yeah, that could happen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?You mean... becoming porn sick or being a foodie call for some QWEEEEN? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 05:02 AM |
| – | Let's share some revenge fantasiesMine is that I go full Doctor Evil and invent this really bad anti-depressant that has NO EFFECT on the human brain except it has one absolutely INSANE side effect. It is the SINGLE WORST medication on the planet for lowering the male libido. A man takes just one tablet and WHAMO his sex drive is completely gone. Oh, right. So I put this concoction into the worlds drinking water supply. Okay, and THEN I want to see how much shit men a really willing to put up with and if all these "mature noble … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 04:50 AM |
| 13 | Are you a ‘Traditional man’ worthy of a ‘traditional woman’? (Question for men who seek a traditional relationship)Honestly, I don't think most men actually want a submissive woman, they just want a woman who doesn't want to fight about dumb shit and can admit when she's wrong. LOL too funny. Yeah, I'll put that in my dating profile. Here we go: Looking for reasonable woman who doesn't fight about dumb shit and can admit when she's wrong. If you're still reading, hit me up... TeN yEaRs LaTeUr... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 04:39 AM |
| 7 | Are you a ‘Traditional man’ worthy of a ‘traditional woman’? (Question for men who seek a traditional relationship)Totally. Could be cocaine though. Or thyroid. Super moms make regular moms feel like shit though. Regular moms need to just chill. Or get some cocaine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 04:37 AM |
| -3 | Are you a ‘Traditional man’ worthy of a ‘traditional woman’? (Question for men who seek a traditional relationship)Hey, you raised a great Red Pill speaking point. If your female partner works from home and does most of the children's appointments and driving to/from school a man had BEST get a similar working situation and do HALF of this work and KEEP A RECORD on social media of his involvement with his kids. He should have the doctor on speed dial and know all of the kids teachers names. A big way men lose custody is their wives have flexibility like this or are SAHM's or work part-time and then the divor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Are you a ‘Traditional man’ worthy of a ‘traditional woman’? (Question for men who seek a traditional relationship)MGTOW confirmed bachelor chiming in here. You can't have a traditional relationship anymore. Society is no longer traditional. Case in point, a Trad Con man wants to be man of the house while she is working outside the home as well. Why does he get to be boss? She's bringing home half the bacon. Another case in point. Modern women want to be equal until equality is not a very appealing option. "Honey, it's your turn to deal with the knife wielding mugger / aggressive neighbour / big cockroach / … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 04:27 AM |
| 1 | If you marry in the US, you should only marry someone who earns the same or more than you, and divorce immediately if they start earning less.Why are men even looking for a woman when they think she'll leave at the first sign of trouble??? Because men like getting laid and looking for women is part of that process? I'd love to see the world the day after all human males simultaneously lost their sex drives over-night. Feminism would be relegated to the pages of history in the first 72 hours. Male sex drive is the fuel of our economies. Like Dave Chappelle said. If women would fuck us in a cardboard box, we wouldn't even bother with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 04:14 AM |
| 3 | How did we get to this point where playing games is seen as normal?I've come to believe that everything that goes on in the SMP happens for a reason. Even Red Pill and inc3ldom and Black pill and FDS. It's all part of the great scheme of things. Social media and smartphones just made meeting people so fast and easy that you can turn meeting people into some "Bejeweled" or "Candy Crush" game and get dopamine hits fucking with other people's heads. If you get laid in the process, bonus. If you meet someone, hey. Wonderful. If not, you still get to "play" with rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 04:05 AM |
| 4 | Moderately successful men in their 30s with very limited dating experience, have to be a very harsh decision to takeBRAVO. I generally like women too and get along with them. I flirt with women all the time and make them laugh and almost never creep them out. (Some women are creeped out because men simply exist, so those will always get creeped out just for being looked at or spoken too.) People say to me "Wow, you and your ex have a really good relationship- you get along SO WELL. Have you ever thought about getting the band back together?" I say: "The reason we get along so well is because we DON'T HAVE TO … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 03:47 AM |
| 1 | If the future implies that 1/3 of people will remain unpartnered for their older age, it will be a nightmareI mean insofar as population. Silents and Gen X are smaller cohorts. Fewer numbers = less impact at the polls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 03:43 AM |
| 1 | If the future implies that 1/3 of people will remain unpartnered for their older age, it will be a nightmareNo, but I used to go into them from time to time. I got the impression the "leaner" old people lived longer. I guess everybody is just fatter now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 03:41 AM |
| 2 | If the future implies that 1/3 of people will remain unpartnered for their older age, it will be a nightmareOh, okay then I totally agree and I typed all that for nothing. Fuck, I really need to start reading these things better before commenting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?Well, men who can't perform or lose interest in their wives (or any living woman for that matter) do exist. Porn sickness is a real thing. I think male porn sickness is as damaging to human relationships as female phone addiction to be honest. :-) https://img-9gag-fun.9cache.com/photo/aW1xejK_460s.jpg Women getting a super-powerful instantanous social connection tool is as much crack cocaine to her as unlimited sexual images as masturbation material is crack cocaine for men. But, like with any a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 03:38 AM |
| 1 | The terms 'low value' and 'high value'I dunno. Depends on what she is looking for. Young Red Pill men are obsessed with Chad jaw because Chad gets to fuck cheerleaders and they don't. And young Red Pill men are broke as fuck just like young Chads and pretty boy athletes. So, "career choice" doesn't mean fuck all when you're 19. Where bank account matters is when average dudes (BETA BRAD) try to use the promise of bankrolling her lifestyle (provider) to get themselves a live-in bangmaid (wife). Then she divorces him after losing sexu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 03:30 AM |
| 3 | How do you think society treats both sexes?A few years back a new blue-pill leaning mod joined the team and ruffled a bunch of feathers. Good times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 03:23 AM |
| 2 | How do you think society treats both sexes?Well, mods are human too. If a person keeps showing up on a specific mods radar, it can make that mod somewhat ban-hammer prone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 03:22 AM |
| – | What effect do you think video games are having on male dating and mental health?Bill Burr on why women can't be happy and want men to be miserable: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FWhZ2XS08aQ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:57 PM |
| – | What effect do you think video games are having on male dating and mental health?Video games gives sexless men something to do. Men who chase women and want relationships are too busy getting stuff and making money and going to the mall to burn money on silly crap to have time to play video games. Women think video games are a waste of time. Time that could be better spent making money, or going to the mall to spend said money. Or going with her girlfriends for brunch on Sunday to spend $18 on a plate of eggs. Bill Burr on women. And brunch: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Society should normalize harems, the sharing of a man and dismantle petty jealousy for the good of men and women.I'm not going to comment on the "dripping with inc3l vibe" of that entire screed but I will disagree with this on one premise alone. There are harems right now. They're called "soft harems". A small minority of highly successful men get most of the sex. This has always been the case and always will be. As for man's base nature being "have a harem and bang lots of different women every day"... well... Most men tend to want a monogamous relationship, work hard and provide for their families. If yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Moderately successful men in their 30s with very limited dating experience, have to be a very harsh decision to takeHere is where I like to take a shot at Red Pill, being one myself. Men have historically joined women in severe slut shaming of women, while enjoying the right to be promiscuous and even being rewarded, socially, for doing so. Men being seen as having more resources could select partners based on sexual attraction alone. Now, women - being independent - can, like men, vet partners based on sexual attraction alone. If there IS one "lost privilege" this would be it. And a lot of guys are REALLY SA… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:40 PM |
| 5 | Moderately successful men in their 30s with very limited dating experience, have to be a very harsh decision to takeOh you bitter, rejected, angry misogynist you! Oh wait, you just sound happy. And free. Never mind. Carry on. There is this new less politically charged word for MGTOWs now that I recommend you try on for size. We're called bachelors. I've actually said this a few times in casual conversation: "What's a MICK-A-TAW? I'm just a bachelor." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Moderately successful men in their 30s with very limited dating experience, have to be a very harsh decision to takeAlan's wolf pack speech. Priceless. https://youtu.be/fdMxRG9Jol0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:31 PM |
| 2 | the fundamental issue with most dating advice directed at men is most of it boils down to “be someone else entirely”YES THIS. Women project the emptiness they feel from sex-only encounters onto men. I went a long long time "just getting sex" and I was quite happy. I turned a good number of sex partners into girlfriends, but for many years at various points in my life, just getting laid was all I needed and wanted, and life was good. Some of us men find relationships and living with women to be rather exhausting and "just sex" is actually pretty good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:22 PM |
| 2 | the fundamental issue with most dating advice directed at men is most of it boils down to “be someone else entirely”Grass is always greener right?! I used to put a lot of TME (time, money and energy) into getting with women. Now I spend ZERO TME getting with women. My coworkers think I am a broken man. I think they're pussy-addicted, dependent weaklings. Shrug. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:20 PM |
| 2 | the fundamental issue with most dating advice directed at men is most of it boils down to “be someone else entirely”Most men seem to be okay with being something other than their true genuine selves and be partnered than to "just be themselves" and be alone. Look at the dating advice. Change everything about yourself if you want to be given a mere chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:18 PM |
| 1 | the fundamental issue with most dating advice directed at men is most of it boils down to “be someone else entirely”There is a reason why RP says "Never stick your dick in crazy." It's because to get "just sex" men will often set the bar really low for their partners. Obnoxious, overweight, vicious, vexatious hags that have a male partner still bringing home the bacon and tolerating her "I'm a bitch and proud of it" willful ignorance. Like, why? The thirst is real. That's why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:14 PM |
| 0 | If you marry in the US, you should only marry someone who earns the same or more than you, and divorce immediately if they start earning less.Men leave women when they get sick. Women leave men when they get unemployed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:10 PM |
| 1 | If you marry in the US, you should only marry someone who earns the same or more than you, and divorce immediately if they start earning less.I think it was Chris Rock who said that when you lose your job, she doesn't leave you right away but the clock is ticking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:08 PM |
| 3 | How do you think society treats both sexes?Really? A specific mod maybe? I find that generally this little corner of Reddit is quite tolerant of even the most extreme Red Pill beliefs, (except open hate of women and encouraging violence or sexual misconduct). It would be so easy to just call Red Pill beliefs "inc3l content" and shut down all discussion. This place is not that, and it it were, it would cease to exist overnight. Now BLUE PILL says that all Red Pill is Inc3l content. But Blue Pill calls ANY bitching about women, dating or f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:02 PM |
| 4 | How do you think society treats both sexes?Naw. A penniless woman (or even in debt) can still find a partner. A penniless man can look forward to homelessness. Women have innate value. Men do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 07:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Red Pill is nothing more than a misogynistic women hating movementI am a 17 years old male. Okay, so your experience is limited to that of a 17 year old male. Many Red Pill guys have been in the mating arena for a while, or are married, or divorced. Give it time. I fail to see why Red Pill would do any good, since they are enforcing views on men where women are a blockade to men... Women are not a blockage to men per se, but women are the choosers. This means men need to meet women's standards for partners. Some men today think the "mating arena" is skewed in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 06:39 PM |
| 13 | If the future implies that 1/3 of people will remain unpartnered for their older age, it will be a nightmareDisagree. All those problems exist now. Nursing homes will be full... Nursing homes are already full of mostly single old women because women live longer than men. Younger voters will probably see your voting power as a threat, as you are single and childless it is likely you will vote for your own self interests at the cost of younger taxpayers. They will want you dead. Competing with boomers at the polls is a problem. I'm Gen X - we're the historical complement to the silent generation. Our vo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 06:25 PM |
| 3 | CMV: It is sad that it has become so normalized to not settle down until you're 30+This may or may not qualify as a different view.... It's not sad it is necessary. To get a degree and get started on the track to "married with children": Possible high school upgrading Min 4 years getting the degree Possible extra year to pick up missed/failed courses Longer period for masters or medical fields. Residency for doctors, BAR exam for lawyers, etc. Become financially stable then meet someone. Make commitments, but have some fun for a couple years Get married and go the family way. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 06:18 PM |
| 9 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyAh, here's the AutoMod way down here! And, here we go. Yes. It's as common as mud. But, women are the choosers. The market gets the final say, but women are the shoppers. Let me give an example. You give 10 women $200 each for shoes. 2 come back with shoes and a second, smaller purchase. (WOW!) 6 come back with $200 does. Nice. But 2 women come back and because they couldn't find THE RIGHT SHOES they ended up with no shoes at all. Let's be clear here. MOST women will eventually get some guy in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 06:12 PM |
| 4 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?Hey, I'm all about echo chambers for the disenfranchised. Even some inc3l groups talk about "how to get out of this" rather than being the usual cesspool of hatred for the opposite gender. FDS seems to dislike men in general. Why they just don't couple up with each-other is beyond me. Then again, two angry women with jaw-dropping standards might not be the perfect couple after all... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 06:02 PM |
| 1 | The terms 'low value' and 'high value'A high-value man is a man who is in demand by women in the sexual marketplace. It could be success or physical attributes or both. Success includes financial and social success. A guy with lots of money might still be socially unappealing due to being highly disagreeable, toxic, or venomous. Physical includes both genetic and "earned" components. Earned components include fitness, grooming and dress. Earned components might help an average genetic guy somewhat, but they really make the genetical… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:54 PM |
| 1 | American capitalism has destroyed datingMen are biologically wired to want sex with multiple partners. Women are more selective and want to have less sex with fewer partners who are vetted to a greater extent. That's why a typical man will fuck almost any woman that propositions him but a woman will fuck almost none of them men who proposition her. They did an experiment that proves this phenomenon. It's a real thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:57 AM |
| 1 | American capitalism has destroyed datingYeah dude, billionaire wealth comes with exploitation, Or maybe people today just subscribe to neo-marxist drivel and think that everyone with more than they have got it by cheating. Did you cheat to get everything you have? Because there are people with less than you... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Is Misogyny Systemic/Institutional?Throwing around the term 'peer reviewed' just might impress the uninitiated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:44 AM |
| 1 | American capitalism has destroyed datingHas nothing to do with morality or righteousness. It has to do with how our socio-sexual reproductive processes work, or should I say, what needs doing so they do work. Men are biologically wired to be "goal scorers" and women are biologically wired to be "net minders". This makes it's way into social fabrics and shows up in the form of social policing. - Women who are bad at tending goal (or just won't) are shamed. - Men who are bad at scoring goals (or just won't try) are shamed. Human reprodu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Is Misogyny Systemic/Institutional?You're bad at debating and resort to ad hominem in every thread I've seen you in so far. What grade are you in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Do TRP men even have interests outside of getting laid?If I want to dry out every vagina in a 20 yard radius I'll just start talking about my engineering geek hobbies with audio and electronics stuff, or how I like to fix appliances rather than replace them. Besides - I was referring to being isolated from WOMEN, not from other sweater-vest wearing guys with soldering irons. I'm a strong believer in: An unattractive man who becomes more interesting is not more attractive. But a man who makes himself more attractive is suddenly more interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Is Misogyny Systemic/Institutional?Naw. The only sad and confused people today are those who still think women today are oppressed and held back and not given every opportunity, choice, and even advantage imaginable. Women. Like. STEM. Less. That's why they go into STEM less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?Yep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:15 AM |
| 1 | The terms 'low value' and 'high value'hahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:14 AM |
| 1 | The terms 'low value' and 'high value'"Many men". LOL. Like, how many. Percentage wise. How many men as a percentage of men who are sexually successful are NOT a high-value man? This stuff isn't even up for debate. Very physically attractive men OR very successful men do better sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:14 AM |
| 1 | The terms 'low value' and 'high value'How is it "dehumanizing"? What is this, we're all "special snowflakes"? Success with women does not define a high value man. What defines him are the QUALITIES that make him successful with women. If this were untrue, the only quality a high value man would have is "getting women". High value men have some or all of the following attributes: intelligent, attractive, fit, socially connected, ambitious, driven, purpose-focused, confident, and capable and adept at many subjects and topics. They are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 05:01 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How do you personally define “single by choice”?If they're not looking for a relationship their SMV is irrelevant. (Unless you just want to shame them and say "Well, you couldn't get one anyways!" Aka, the "you can't quit, your're fired" routine. ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:50 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How do you personally define “single by choice”?It's simple. If you are putting effort into finding a partner, but you're getting no takers, you're not single by (your own) choice. If you are single by choice, you do not have interest in a relationship and don't do anything that would be required to get one. If you are on Reddit, and are male, you are never "single by choice" it's not allowed. Society's view on men leaving the sexual marketplace for any reason: You can't quit! You're fired! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:49 AM |
| – | Men are often richer for doing controversial non-nasty jobs that women don't want to doSave for the needles, you just described 24 hours with a sick toddler... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Is Misogyny Systemic/Institutional?There is no cabal of misogynists keeping women out of STEM. Fewer women go into STEM because there are few women who think like men, prefer things to people, want to do math in solitude all day, and get a career where you're bolted to your desk 70 hours a week. Is this same systemic sexism responsible for the majority of people in medicine who are women? How about the teaching profession? Women don't go into STEM because women, on average, like STEM fields a lot less than men do. Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:28 AM |
| 5 | Does the prize does get a prize for waiting to be given?Cognitive dissonance, or just sheer ego, or just pretending it isn't there because it's more comfortable doesn't mean the competition is not there, and she is not mentally entertaining it. If she is mulling it over, she's sure as hell not going to mention it. So it's REALLY EASY for a man to live in stark denial and just keeping believing he is DA MAN. Until of course, he's no longer DA MAN. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 01:53 AM |
| 1 | FBI documents reveal that Red Pill terminology like "Chad", "Looksmaxxing" and "Red Pill" itself is being flagged and monitored as an indicator of incel violence or racial/ethnic based extremism. How if at all do you think this will impact TRP as a source of dating/life advice?I thought getting on as many watch lists as possible was the goal. Am I using the internet wrong? Ask me what I think we should put in the water. ASK ME!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Should men be offended if they have to get get money first before you date them?The absolutely exist. Just not in the literal form, because we're not wolves or pack animals. Alpha and Beta human males are archetypes, and they exist merely because there are differences between men and male behavior. (Then again, some people say "female privilege" and "reverse racism" doesn't exist too, so....) Alpha males are community leaders. They are business owners. Successful. Ambitious, Driven. Socially connected. Well dressed. They are sexual attractive to women and are thus called "h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Do TRP men even have interests outside of getting laid?There is a difference between bettering yourself for the sake of bettering yourself and bettering yourself just to be more sexually attractive to women. It's a Venn diagram. Most things will do both. A man can make genuine improvements to himself that also make him "higher value". So, if you are ONLY doing things to meet women, it's not really a genuine improvement. If you just make yourself a better man, it MIGHT help you meet women. If you do things that fulfill you and make you feel like a be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 01:35 AM |
| 9 | Why would any high value male date an FDS woman?FDS is PUA for low value women who think they can "trick" high value men into relationships. It may not help women, but the comic relief it provides is endless. Women have "this one weird trick" they can use - it's called promiscuity and all it gets them is sex with (and possibly impregnation by) high value men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 01:26 AM |
| 1 | American capitalism has destroyed datingNo, Tinder is one of many side effects of (first) the pill and (second) encouraging women to be as promiscuous as men. The intent was to destroy the family unit and destabilize heterosexual relationships. In those ways, feminism was a screaming success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 01:20 AM |
| 1 | American capitalism has destroyed datingOh, cummon. Steve Jobs is a modern day Jesus. He was a DICTATOR? Well, I guess when you consider every time he brought out a new device you had to buy a new goddamned charger... People love the absolutely amazing technology the greats provide us with at a cost that nobody could ever compete with. They just get mad when they become billionaires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 01:19 AM |
| 1 | American capitalism has destroyed datingAgree. People have the ILLUSION of independence but are actually more dependent than ever before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 01:08 AM |
| 1 | stop blaming others for your dating failures & ask urself touch questionsThis is a trope that has been beaten to death. People who shop within their SMV have no trouble finding partners. Even obese jobless people have partners - just not very "high value" ones. If you can't find a partner who meets your expectations, you've priced yourself out of your own market. If there are classic mistakes, it's men who think they ONLY need money (and are fat, and smell) and women who think they ONLY need looks (but are insufferable bitches). Nice people who stay in their league g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 09:17 PM |
| 1 | American capitalism has destroyed dating100% wrong. Replace "capitalism" with "women" or "feminism" and you'll have your answer. The Commodification of Love: Love has become a product. Women have turned dating into their personal shopping experience where men are just things. Everything on the little phone is now basically a shopping experience. 2. The Rise of Social Media: Social media platforms have become the new battleground for social validation. Women are addicted to their phones. Men go where the women are. If you want to meet … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 06:35 PM |
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