downwithraisins Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	It was a nice ☕️ date but we had our differences. I don't think she's changing her mind. Good for you for taking it well and respecting her decision. If she does change her mind it will be because of this, rather than because you have continued to persist after she's drawn a line.	/r/seduction	30/05/21 10:06 AM
2	Approached a girl for the first time today :) The first time you meet someone, you're narrowing your chances pretty quickly by revealing that you're hitting on them right off the bat. Some girls, I'm sure would be into it, but I think most would be either a little intimidated or annoyed. It comes across less desperate and much more appealing to seem like you're just being a friendly confident person. Once you have that base, you definitely need to flirt, just give it a minute.	/r/seduction	27/05/21 06:07 AM
1	Model-looking guy, fit, highly intelligent (140iq) but antisocial and awkward. What to do? 100% this. You need to get yourself into a situation where you are comfortable and can get over your insecurity, girls are really not as into looks as guys. Get a part time job in a bar or take up yoga and don't put pressure on yourself too quickly. Just practice talking to people and be full of confidence, fake it until you make it. If you mess up, have a laugh about it.	/r/seduction	26/05/21 09:22 PM
4	If a woman tells you that you are cool is that a signal of interest? Not necessarily, I've said this to guys that I am not interested in. Girls are generally a lot more complimentary, but I would big them up to other girls so not a loss.	/r/seduction	26/05/21 09:13 PM
3	What are signs of interest from a girl during conversation? She'll be interested in you, ask you questions about your interests and hobbies, not just the basics. If she's only interested in telling you all about herself then you have your answer.	/r/seduction	26/05/21 09:05 PM
0	2 great dates and ghosted? Just text her, be honest but nice, maybe something unfortunate happened. Sending her a tiktok after a week of silence is a bit weird, she'll probably ignore you again.	/r/seduction	26/05/21 01:01 PM
2	Texting girls from tinder/apps Just don't doubt yourself, don't be intimidated, you're the catch. If you are authentic and she's a good match for you, you won't need a strategy. I learned from my dating years that you can't force a square into a round hole, so meet lots of people and don't feel down when they don't work out for you. Text right away if that is what you normally do.	/r/seduction	26/05/21 11:54 AM
7	Approached a girl for the first time today :) I wouldn't ask the girl if she has a boyfriend first meeting. It puts a lot of pressure on the interaction too quickly, it's now undeniable that there's an agenda behind the conversation and she has to quickly decide if she's into it or not. You haven't even had the chance to show your full potential yet. She probably doesn't have a boyfriend, she just had to choose too quickly and she picked the safe option.	/r/seduction	26/05/21 11:33 AM