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| 1 | I totally messed up. Irreversibly so? You tell me, seddit, please? | dpornb | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 01:10 AM |
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| 2 | 90% of the dating coaches out there are full of shit and they can make you infertile.In all honesty I expected this sub to be as slimy as all those pick-up artists and I was pleasantly surprised that the majority of the posts are just legitimately good advice. That was like 6 years ago and here I am still lurking. | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Dear seddit I've been drinking and have done 1000's of approaches and coach in my down time... here are some harsh truths for you allI have a really tough time believing that someone who self-claims to not be able to read people is also somehow a master of mental disguise. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Dear seddit I've been drinking and have done 1000's of approaches and coach in my down time... here are some harsh truths for you allThe most likely reason people don't want to hang out with you is because you sound like a miserable person to spend time with. Everybodys got their own rat race to run they'd rather not run it next to someone whining non stop about it. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 08:28 PM |
| 3 | 12 Irresistible Bad Boy Traits Women Crave"Selfishness"? "Entitlement"? "Cocky to the point of brazen"? This list reads like a thristy buzzfeed writer's work. | /r/seduction | 21/08/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | 12 Irresistible Bad Boy Traits Women CraveFaking negative traits is not going to lead to making it. | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 08:40 AM |
| 11 | 12 Irresistible Bad Boy Traits Women CraveThe more someone tries to act hard, the more fragile they look. Don't try to act like a bad boy, just improve yourself so you can be yourself. | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 01:37 AM |
| 1 | How to make my apartment a place that people want to come and hang out?I'm pretty over beer pong and I'm in my 20s. Its not inclusive enough since it can only accommodate 4 people at a time. If I'm going to play drinking games I'd much rather play something that much more people can play, like rage cage or flip cup. More human interaction. | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 10:56 AM |
| 26 | Handsomeness Hacks: 52 ways to look more attractive fastYeah and what is that clothing section. Saying you can dress like garbage and it'll still be fine? Clothing is seriously one of the easiest upgrades to looks you can possibly find. Style doesn't matter in that you can go for the casual tee and jeans or semi-casual or urban ninja or whatever the fuck people do now, but if your fit is trash, you will look like trash. Well fitting clothes is paramount. Even cheap stuff can fit well and will be a huge upgrade for very little effort or time commitmen… | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 12:39 AM |
| 4 | Any shorter dudes in the house? Looking to step up my game and could use all the advice I can get!As with anything else out of your control, the way to overcome obstacles like height is to be better at what you can control. Attitude, hygiene, fitness, etc. You know, the standard stuff. That's why people keep bringing up humor as their way to overcome height. It's a decently easy upgrade to your personality/attitude that doubly stands out because short guys with napoleon complexes usually have zero chill and they make you look even more fun in comparison. Even if you don't want to go heavy on… | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 08:51 AM |
| 1 | The bouncer is your biggest friend and allyWhat does that even mean? You said that "fake friendliness" is ingrained in western culture, but what is ingrained in western culture is simple things like small talk or smiling when you don't actually mean to be friendly, not "yo yo yo my homie g what is up this fine evening! gimme a fistbump bro-heim! Hook a brotha up with the girlies that are down to par-tay amirite buddy??". They are two separate things. The latter is not at all ingrained in western culture. No one in their right might is no… | /r/seduction | 12/03/16 10:19 AM |
| 5 | The bouncer is your biggest friend and allyNo but there's fake friendly like a "how's it going" when you really just mean "hello" and there's the fake friendly that daddymonsterpoodle mentioned that is just hackneyed and obnoxious. | /r/seduction | 11/03/16 08:58 AM |
| 1 | How getting hobbies help you get women ?I don't think women should even be in the decision making process. Just do what you enjoy, and unpair hobbies with the prospects of meeting girls. Even if you only talk to one girl in 10 board game meetings, so what? You enjoyed those 10 board game meetings, no? If you go rock climbing, do it because you've never tried and think you'll enjoy it, not because there are more girls. I feel like you'd even end up enjoying your time more if you're not tying part of the success or failure of a hobby or… | /r/seduction | 19/09/15 03:46 AM |
| 1 | How getting hobbies help you get women ?So what? What's the alternative? Give up, sit at home and become a hermit? If you're going to complain about a yoga class not giving you enough opportunities to meet girls, then you're definitely not going to find a single hobby anywhere ever that will satisfy your insatiable lust for hot booty. Going to a video game convention where there are, to continue your hyperbole, only 10% women that's still one of your best bets at meeting a girl who actually shares one of your true interests. If you fo… | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 08:00 PM |
| 2 | How getting hobbies help you get women ?Having hobbies makes you more interesting. That helps you interest more women. So that's self improvement. Having hobbies gives you one more potential thing to have in common with women you meet. Going out to do your hobby increases your chances of meeting women who enjoy your hobby. That is a statistical improvement. As for finding hobbies that "get you laid", its going to be the hobby you actually enjoy doing the most. If you join blues dancing simply because you think it'll get you laid but y… | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 08:14 AM |
| 5 | Stop Calling Them Shit Tests: A Real Guide to Passing Any Test a Woman Gives Youthe term does not explain anything, and certainly not what is being tested for. You could say that about literally every phrase in existence, since you give no examples, and forgo any sort of objective reasoning in favor of totally arbitrary parameters like its apparent lack of explaining "anything". | /r/seduction | 30/07/15 09:20 AM |
| 5 | Stop Calling Them Shit Tests: A Real Guide to Passing Any Test a Woman Gives YouIts a test that reveals shit. Its really not that hard of a term to understand dude. | /r/seduction | 29/07/15 02:55 AM |
| 2 | So we need to start dressing better...where do you guys do your shopping?Nordstrom is generally a rip off but they have good sales as well that bring it down from a ripoff to what it is supposed to be, a luxury. They also have nordstrom rack, which has good deals. | /r/seduction | 28/07/15 07:12 AM |
| 2 | So we need to start dressing better...where do you guys do your shopping?There are department stores like H&M and Macys that can get pretty cheap as long as you go at the right times (during sales) while still being pretty stylish. /r/frugalmalefashion is out there always posting pretty good deals on interesting clothes. | /r/seduction | 27/07/15 06:43 AM |
| 1 | A little write up I did on "faking it till you make it".I used to have a terrible time wrapping my head around fake it until you make it until someone once clarified to me that it be "fake being the best version of yourself until you're always the best version of yourself". Its really helped my growth. I've got a long way to go but that was a big step forward. | /r/seduction | 23/07/15 06:43 AM |
| 2 | How important is a decent car?I think its the inside that matters most as long as your car is only cosmetically ugly. If you at least keep the inside tidy it's fine, it'll get you to where you need to go and that's about it. I always saw nice cars as a bonus, but ugly cars aren't necessarily a hindrance. | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 09:03 AM |
| 1 | excuses to touch her hand or hair?I sometimes compare tans/lack thereof. Then I can tease them for being pale later. | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Seddit worked a little too well... (FR)Should just do whatever with Lisa, neither of you are tied down. If Maddie really wants you she'll break up with her bf. But ain't nobody likes a homewrecker. | /r/seduction | 27/01/15 11:06 AM |
| 1 | For the guys: What are the top 3 things that hinder you from being successful with women?I hesitate before closing. I only do interesting things on occasion. I don't like cold approaching girls so I artificially limit my opportunities. | /r/seduction | 30/10/14 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Never cold approached a woman before, and just tried it for the first time...I'm pretty sure "i have to take a phone call I'll be right back" is like the universal sign for abort mission for both sides. | /r/seduction | 30/10/14 10:11 AM |
| 1 | The more I do pickup, the more I find "there are plenty of fish in the sea" is bullshitThey said there were fish in the sea, not that all of them are biting. | /r/seduction | 18/09/14 06:33 AM |
| 1 | I look really young for my age and it's humiliating.Or meth. | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 09:47 AM |
| 1 | I totally messed up. Irreversibly so? You tell me, seddit, please?Okay I have a friend like that. And I have no idea who her friend is but I'm pretty good at first impressions. Alright I'm going to text her tomorrow and Im going to say something short and assertive like "I'll see you at the club on friday" and roll from there with my wingman who she met that first night when we went to the bar. Things are looking up! Thanks so much man, even answering my against the rules post hah. I reposted to askseddit where it belongs now. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 03:00 AM |
| 1 | I totally messed up. Irreversibly so? You tell me, seddit, please?I had no idea that existed. I think I always read it as askreddit subconsciously and just browsed over that link. Thanks! And yeah I've been reading the sidebar things but I like to get more info than I need because it reassures me. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 02:41 AM |
| 1 | I totally messed up. Irreversibly so? You tell me, seddit, please?Oh sorry. It would probably be me, her, and one of her acquaintances that would get us into vip section. I can bring a few of my friends if need to but until my plans solidify I haven't planned anything with them. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 02:01 AM |
| 1 | I totally messed up. Irreversibly so? You tell me, seddit, please?Yeah I've been improving over the years in not letting rejection pull me down. This sub has helped! What are your opinions of trying to go to the club with herthis friday? Right now its a little nebulous on whether we're still going so I can probably push for a yes or no/reschedule if I feel like. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 01:53 AM |
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