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| 1 | How to not ruminate on what you did wrong?Don't live in the past. Process what could have been done better and use that wisdom to move forward and make better decisions in the future. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:25 AM |
| 2 | What are some more Natural ways to break the ice like this one;I mainly use my surrounding environment to engage others in conversation and test the waters. Example: I was at whole foods for some groceries and I got hungry so I went to the hot bar section for food. There was another woman there also perusing so I thought it was a perfect segway to conversating with her. So I just said "What's good?" to which she replied "Oh, I'm good how are you?"-Very clearly with a smile. I just looked there realizing that what's good could mean two very different things … | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Did I mess up my frame by accommodating to what she wanted instead of going with what I was saying?Precisely | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Did I mess up my frame by accommodating to what she wanted instead of going with what I was saying?Precisely why I suggested the line I suggested with asking her out to dinner. You could show her instead of telling her over a meal. Women like excitement and when you're overtly sexual over text, it kills the thrill. There's words on a screen but nothing to back it up except a bunch of 1's and 0's going through cyberspace. I've been guilty of doing the same and I've learned from my mistakes. Now I purely flirt in person face-to-face. Unless of course she gets into it first, then I'll entertain … | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Did I mess up my frame by accommodating to what she wanted instead of going with what I was saying?I would have gone along with something along the lines of 'Only if you let me take you out to dinner' Every situation is different and I don't have all the context of yours, but that's how I would have responded. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Did I mess up my frame by accommodating to what she wanted instead of going with what I was saying?I think this was a mild-shit test on her end. She was seeing if you'd go along with the bad boy dynamic and then you hit her with the 'I'd grow you flowers'. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Lovesick/depressionGreat reccomendation | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 05:11 AM |
| 11 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?Good on you for standing up for yourself and not being a pushover. You dodged a bullet with that one since she was being this naive and immature. Cut your losses and move on king 👑 | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 07:42 PM |
| 74 | Anyone who got fit and saw huge difference with women?Going to the gym leads to building confidence Building confidence leads to ideal body goals Women can smell confidence from a thousand miles away like a Macy's perfume section Women engage you with conversation because they like what they see. From thereon it's just a process of learning to speak to them, make them laugh, maybe even get them interested on a deeper level. Gotta work out the kinks of the nerves and fear of judgement. Adopt an attitude of abundance and you will find success. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Have Options plain and simple. It Prevents you from clinging onto just one person and idolizing them. Pick up your crown, turn around, and keep walking king 👑 | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 11:34 PM |
| 31 | 21 Rules (Principles not game)"No response is a response" Well said 👏🏼 | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 4 | Need advice boysIt can be hard pulling back from a flirty/intimate friendship and going back to platonic. It's the risk of putting yourself out there. If both people aren't on the same page then things can turn ugly. It's why FWB situations are often complicated with emotions getting mixed up. I've been in this situation a couple times now and the best thing is to create a mental block to remind yourself "We Weren't exclusive, we were having fun and if she wants to keep having fun then she'll let me know." If n… | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 11:30 PM |
| 8 | What to do when hanging out in a girl’s place? Context belowJust go over, follow her flow. If she asks if you want something to drink, take it. It creates a subconscious connection to them. If they insist on taking a seat, take a seat, or don't up to you. Just make escalating decisions to engage her, make her laugh, watch something together. Feel free to take a little control by offering an activity that she may be interested in. Other than that, it can be intimidating being in somebody else's domain, but the feeling will pass with time. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 03:56 PM |
| 4 | A man hit on me in a coffee shop, and although I’m taken, it was really adorable.I feel like location of where you live & safety are big factors here as well. If I lived in a safe & upscale neighborhood with a friendly environment then yeah I do casually engage women in conversation because I know they appreciate it. However if I'm in a sletchy part of town, I understand how space is important and maybe women don't want to be bothered. Not everyone is always going to want to chit-chat and you just read the room. Otherwise a good example of adapting to boundaries on the guys … | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 05:02 PM |
| 6 | 7 things that changed my dating life...One of the Most Useful I've seen in a very long time. Appreciate the effort you put into this post! | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Girl stopped talking to me the moment I revealed that I was dating other girlsAs a wise person once told me, never tell your left hand what you right hand is doing | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 05:38 AM |
| 3 | I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before.Coming fresh out of a 5 year relationship here where I thought she was 'the one'. Speaking from experience of getting my heart broken twice by the same person, I simply wouldn't respond. Ofc my experience will be different from your so take what I say with a grain of salt. How is that in any way an appropriate way to resume communication? Sending a song? Idk about that. At least a text, leading to a phone call where she can speak directly and explain why she reached out. To me it seems like she'… | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 08:43 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Remember: Your biggest enemy is your self-doubt. Women love confidence and compassion. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 03:24 PM |
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