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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | When things don't go as planned | dr_no_love | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 03:02 AM | |
| 2 | Coffee Date or Bar Meetup? (X-post r/relationship_advice) | dr_no_love | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 01:31 PM | |
| 2 | I've been reading a lot about the "right mindset" but where I seem to falter is in the details | dr_no_love | /r/seduction | 30/11/11 07:18 PM | |
| 0 | We all know the importance of kino... | dr_no_love | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 09:27 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | When things don't go as plannedYea i feel ya. I'll try to play it cool in a week or so. Thanks for the advice. | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 03:35 AM |
| 1 | When things don't go as plannedSorry I didn't mean to pose it as if I was questioning the weeks piece of your response. It just seemed to run counterintuitive to what I see in the sub. It's a matter, at least the way I'm understanding, of walking a fine line between desperation and staying fresh in her mind. In regards to your last sentence, it sounds like I may be am acting too "nice" which of course leads to friend zone. I could be reading that the wrong way. | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 08:21 PM |
| 1 | When things don't go as plannedIf I had felt that the date was a huge success then maybe, but considering this was the first time we had met and I thought the date went just ok I don't think I could have swung that | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 06:33 PM |
| 1 | When things don't go as plannedFair. I don't know I guess I'm just doubting what kind of impression I did leave on her. My only question is then why a couple weeks wait? Could whatever spark is there fade by that point or she just forget about me completely? Does it strictly have to be a drinks thing? If anything I would be interested in switching up the situation say lunch during the week or something of that nature. | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Your Guide from the College Daygame Masterthank you for the advice. i guess i just built up this pressure that i have nothing to talk about and now it kind of sits in the back of my mind :/ just gonna have to work through it | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Your Guide from the College Daygame MasterThank you. That speaks volumes as I seem to be in this place where I need to be "The Most Interesting Man in the World" to grab a girls attention. That last bit is powerful (you just need to be able to identify interesting things to talk about.) | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Your Guide from the College Daygame MasterThis is going to sound really noob but then what is that next step? Just thinking about what would happen to me is getting into some boring conversation about who they are, where they come from, what they do blah blah blah. To best honest as far as conversation ago i am pretty low in confidence in terms of skill. The only conversation piece that ever seems engaging that i have to offer is my study abroad experience. Ive been trying to better myself (physically, better job, more money, better alm… | /r/seduction | 22/03/14 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Coffee Date or Bar Meetup? (X-post r/relationship_advice)Right. thank you! | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Coffee Date or Bar Meetup? (X-post r/relationship_advice)Gotcha. Makes sense. I guess part of the problem is I dont know if I want to just get laid or make something more of this, which is probably why I am waffling between these options. Nonetheless, I appreciate the advice. | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Coffee Date or Bar Meetup? (X-post r/relationship_advice)what about grabbing a beer after work? its casual like getting coffee except during happy hour at a bar. where does that fall within these two options | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 05:19 PM |
| 1 | This is what Last Minute Resistance (LMR) Looks Likehaha that's funny | /r/seduction | 02/05/12 07:31 PM |
| 1 | This is what Last Minute Resistance (LMR) Looks Likewhich is... | /r/seduction | 02/05/12 05:57 PM |
| 1 | We all know the importance of kino...Touche, I would like to read whatever the link is however it seems to take me to a non-working page if you could link to what you wanted to share | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 03:00 AM |
| 3 | I am failing so hard.I'm hesitant to take advice from someone with this name | /r/seduction | 06/12/11 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)I see, i see. Thanks for the clarification | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)Thanks, although a little confused on the "i don't want to miss our conversations too much" bit | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)seems pretty logical, yea I should add then based on certain aspects of your answer that she said on the plane she would come up to school to visit and reaffirmed that in a text, just it won't be for another two weeks and it seems foolish to have no back and forth of some kind between now and then but to ask a more generic question that's applicable to the general seddit audience, you actually will initiate conversation via texting if you are interested? I ask just because I feel like I am alway… | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 01:31 AM |
| 4 | Q&A with the ladies of seddit (requested in another post)I got a girls number on the plane two weeks ago, texted back and forth for a bit. Now haven't had any communication for a couple days. Not sure when/if to call her back and what to talk about. I guess my question is when do you want us men to call you and where should the conversation go? | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 12:40 AM |
| 4 | I think I fucked it up but I'd like some advice.Message her first before you friend her, "hey great talking to you the other night, wanna grab coffee sometime soon" and I'd like to think you didn't fuck it up, up to this point | /r/seduction | 04/12/11 05:53 PM |
| 1 | I've been reading a lot about the "right mindset" but where I seem to falter is in the detailsWell as you mentioned we happen to be in the same position (no mutual friends, lives far away, etc.) so certain things I will have to leave up to the other redditors of r/seduction. That being said there are a couple things I can speak on from what I have read from personal experience and around the internet. I'm a big proponent of not worrying about the result being getting with a girl. I have noticed that whenever I just think about having a good time I am more natural and girls seem to notice… | /r/seduction | 01/12/11 05:25 AM |
| 1 | I've been reading a lot about the "right mindset" but where I seem to falter is in the detailsSo call her but wait till calls/texts me first? Just kidding I get what your saying I will stop pestering you with questions now haha | /r/seduction | 01/12/11 04:42 AM |
| 1 | I've been reading a lot about the "right mindset" but where I seem to falter is in the detailsThank you again for answering rather swiftly. Right OK now I can pick up what you are putting down. But I have also read about not making myself seem desperate so when is it appropriate to just call? Do I need to wait till its closer to her visiting? Or can I just call whenever to build a rapport? | /r/seduction | 01/12/11 01:37 AM |
| 2 | I've been reading a lot about the "right mindset" but where I seem to falter is in the detailsUnfortunately your first statement holds some truth. I have been out of the game for a while to put it lightly. To answer your question I can't visit her since finals are coming up for both of us. And when she says she wants to come visit it would be right at the end of finals (I go to school near where she lives). Now to the part of your answer I am most want to ask about being don't text or call her. So what do you suggest instead? As i mentioned in my post we had a nice, playful, informative … | /r/seduction | 30/11/11 11:23 PM |
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