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SEEKING ADVICEdr_zoidberg69/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 05:40 PM
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This would sound like a stupid question since I'm new but what's an LVM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:58 PM
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Thank you! I'll try to dive into the books recommended here to give me a new perspective with things. Also I apologize, self-deprecation has been a default for me for as long as I can remember.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:16 AM
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I'm sorry about that, I'm glad you've gotten out of that and is happy right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:14 AM
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The truth is, he's not aware of his actions. Whenever I tell him this (and I always do) he just... denies it? Not really "deny" but, what he shows me is that he's not "conscious" of such behaviors. Or something like that, sorry, translating terms into English is hard. Basically, he's someone that doesn't think of his actions, he just acts. I don't think he's being manipulative but in a sense, he is, just not aware of it. I probably might tell him all of these (plus other points the other comment…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:13 AM
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I really get this but what if he changes? What if he can change? I'm really trying to get myself out of this guy but I can't stop holding onto hope. I want to cut all these strings but I'm having such a rough time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:10 AM
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Sorry, that might be my mistake. I tried to include the most important details but I didn't want to bore the people reading if I wrote out too much. But yeah, even if you ask me now what I consider his good qualities, I'd probably take a day just thinking of one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:09 AM
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Thank you for the tough love commenter. Whenever I'm feeling a bit attached I'll save this comment and read it over and over again. Love really does make us blind- or maybe that's just me. Either way, thank you for this. I'm still at the stage where I still feel like I might take him back if he asks. I'm still feeling like I want to message him again. But I'll force myself not to. I won't even lie, I still really want him and I can't stop it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:06 AM
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Thank you. The thing is, I'm a psychology major (and from time to time I try to be "deep" with him). Whenever I point out such behaviors, I try to find things that might be its roots and so he might be aware of his actions more. But the problem now is that he doesn't even realize his actions. Whenever I tell him that "Your first instinct whenever we fight is get angry to the point that you're telling me that you don't care about me anymore. This just means you never really love me if that's the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:03 AM
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Thank you, I hold onto the hope that things will get better once we mature, (21F and 20M), that once we grow old and have more experiences, he'll let go of such behavior thinking it was stupid or something. I don't know. I guess I have to lay my cards more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 06:59 AM
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Sorry if the TL;DR is still long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 05:41 PM
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This!!! Especially the boner is not a medical condition one. I used to date someone that would often get mad at me if I don’t “bone down” when he gets a hard on as if it was my fault. I’m just lucky that my current SO is very understanding that sometimes I just don’t feel like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 01:48 AM
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