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6 inches long is bigger than average. You obviously have some serious mental issues if you can not enjoy life because of this issue. I've been with plenty of girls who have had much bigger dicks inside them and they tend to say bigger hurts more, and limits how often sex happens. But I've also been told I'm a great lay because of how much effort I put into being good at it. If you had a genuinely small penis I would advise you to try to date petite women, but you don't. You're fine. You might ne…
/r/MenSupportMen02/07/24 10:51 AM
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I don't mean to harp on the Indian thing. You are who you are, but people do see things through stereotypes a lot. I'm a tall, dorky white guy, and I'm not going to try to act like a gangsta or something that isn't me. The fact that other guys see you as confident is a huge plus. It's likely that you are more attractive than you perceive. Women are often very subtle and think they're being obvious. I've had girls actually avoid me, and if a friend did not tell me they like me, I would never know…
/r/MenSupportMen01/07/24 01:25 PM
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And you're Indian correct? Do you try to hit on Indian girls or just white ones? I ask because unfortunately, Indian guys have a terrible reputation in the US as socially retarded nerds or worse as sexual predators. It sucks but that's how it is right now. Desi girls might be willing to give you more of a chance. Ok, that being said, if I were you, I would look for the coolest, most attractive guys you know and imitate what they do. Copy cool Indian guys like Aziz Ansari. Dress like them, listen…
/r/MenSupportMen01/07/24 12:00 PM
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Do you live in the US or South Asia?
/r/MenSupportMen01/07/24 11:45 AM
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Why are dating apps not an option for you?
/r/MenSupportMen01/07/24 11:30 AM
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I get it. I lived in Portland, Oregon, for five years, and despite making more money and having a higher standard of living than ever before, I was completely lonely. It sucked. The important thing is to make space to allow yourself to feel what feelings come to you. There are no invalid feelings. If it were me, and take this with a grain of salt, please, I would be honest with your lady friend. Realistically, there will be many women in your life, and she is only one of them. If you tell her ho…
/r/MenSupportMen09/04/24 07:51 AM
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You say you are taking new steps into commitment with a good job and home ownership. It could be that the feeling of possibly committing to a relationship is just too much for you right now. You're making so much progress that you might not even see it clearly for yourself. Have your friends and family visited? Are you all alone in the new city? Have they told you they are proud of you?
/r/MenSupportMen09/04/24 07:28 AM
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How's your relationship with your mother?
/r/MenSupportMen09/04/24 07:05 AM
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I know it's not an SSRI, but I didn't realize you had tried going off of it. Idk what to tell you, then I think you are going to have to go to a therapist to sort this all out. Maybe death grip isn't real, but you definitely sound like you have an addiction to porn / masturbating that could be an issue. Vaginas don't feel good because they are super tight. In fact, that feels unpleasant usually. You kind of avoided my question about enjoying sex by saying your gf is attractive and you love her. …
/r/MenSupportMen01/10/23 09:14 AM
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2 things stand out to me. It's difficult to go 2 days without masturbating and the antidepressant drug. If it's really difficult to go so long without masturbating, you may actually have an issue. Figure out some way to go as long as possible without it. Personally, I drink myself to sleep, but that's not a great plan. You can try exercising when you would normally jerk off. Or maybe video games or hanging with a friend, whatever distracts you. Don't get me wrong, after 4-5 days, I'm backed up s…
/r/MenSupportMen01/10/23 08:34 AM
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Do you like having sex with her? You said it doesn't feel that good, which makes it sound like you don't really enjoy it. Are you using condoms? They're great and all, but they take like 90% of sensation out of the act for me. I also have trouble reaching climax sometimes, especially because of my antidepressant I take. They can make it harder to climax in general. Most of the time, I finish some other way. But I can say confidently the worst thing is anxiety. If I'm in my head about it, it just…
/r/MenSupportMen30/09/23 10:17 AM
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And what does a clitoris mean? That all females are secretly dudes? Lol wtf are you still yammering on about? You're not even citing any research and as far as I can tell they stopped believing what you say in the 90s. It's false. I downvoted it for its falseness
/r/MenSupportMen12/08/23 06:42 PM
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I'm not angry. You're just regurgitating pseudo-science. You don't seem to have ever actually studied biology. Sex is determined at fertilization, not during development. There's something called phenotypic expression, which is what you're describing. It's based on observable traits, not chromosomes. The absence of an external penis does not a female (or "woman") make. You're quoting old shit, while I'm telling you science currently says you're just wrong. It's fine to be wrong but as we grow up…
/r/MenSupportMen12/08/23 04:18 PM
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Embryos aren't women or men. No one is "part woman" because of cellular differentiation at the second trimester. There are intersex people, but they're rare, and I'm not one. None of the rest of what you had to say was coherent in any way. If there is no definiton of a man, how can we all have masculine or feminine traits? Which traits are those exactly? How can we all be part woman if there is no definition of what a woman or man is?
/r/MenSupportMen12/08/23 02:29 AM
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You can definitely wear henna and necklaces as a man, but I suspect there's a deeper concern. You said men are expected to stand up for themselves, and this is something society is still unfair about in regards to men. It's not a delusion to think that women will not find a passive man attractive. They will tell you that to your face in my experience. There is something to be said about doing your own thing and also seeking out an accepting community of friends who value uniqueness. However, thi…
/r/MenSupportMen11/08/23 06:00 PM
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I am 100% a man. Nipples aren't a part of being a woman. That's like saying women's testosterone makes them part man. Also, dismissing someone's very real concerns is a problem when it's hard enough to speak up in the first place. As men, we are expected to 'shut up and deal.' How is what you're saying any different, except with a veneer of positivity?
/r/MenSupportMen11/08/23 05:51 PM
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OP, you are the first person I've heard admit something I've suspected for a while now. Gender dysphoria can be a symptom of transgender identity, but clearly, a ton of those transitioning are simply ashamed of their male-ness. I grew up around a strong-willed older sister who still says horrible things like "men are trash." She wants to be a mother, too. I asked her, "What day in a little boy's life does he become trash?" This stumps her, but there's no self reflection. This current wave of "fe…
/r/MenSupportMen11/08/23 05:48 PM
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Can you stop doubting other people's experiences? He said it happened. I absolutely believe it. Have you ever had a job in a gender mixed environment? Did you notice that the men are expected to do the heavy lifting and hard tasks? It's been my experience every single time. Not to mention the bullying from women coworkers. I was reprimanded for raising my voice to two women who were ignoring safety standards and putting me at risk. When I calmly approached them they just ignored me until I shout…
/r/MenSupportMen11/08/23 05:38 PM
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Source? I'm not sure why being from Nevada is some dirty secret, but I live in a coastal state. Edit: This commenter got me banned. Good job at winning the victim Olympics. Bravo, you win by appeal to authority.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/23 08:52 PM
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Yes it can do. Maybe it's not a formal order but it can be done. What's your problem here man? I'm giving evidence and you're just going 'nu-uhhhh!' Fuck off.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/23 08:51 PM
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Termination of parental rights is a court order that permanently ends the legal parent-child relationship. This type of order terminates rights such as inheritance, custody, and visitation, as well as responsibilities regarding child support and liability for the child’s misconduct. Parental right can be terminated voluntarily by the parent(s) or involuntarily by the court to typically allow an agency, independent, or stepparent adoption to take place. If the other parent does not consent or the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/23 05:23 PM
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I've met people who have done it. That's my source. I believe it's jurisdictional but like I said regardless I will literally kill myself before being a parent slave or soldier. It's not safe for anyone. They can do what they will because even the law presents a choice. Pariah criminal or dead I will not parent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/23 05:17 PM
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No that's not exactly true. I'm not sure what rights the mother has in this context but once the forfeiture of custody takes place homeboy is legally and financially a stranger to mother and child. Edit: FASCIST MOD ALERT: banned for an opinion with zero counter arguments. Red Pill much?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/23 05:09 PM
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Hey why are you stalking me through subs? It's one thing to look but this feels excessive and invasive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/23 04:43 PM
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US
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/23 04:39 PM
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That's actually not a thing in my country. If a woman decides to carry my inseminated zygote to term i can file paper work to abdicate custody entirely. Personally I let all my sex partners know that is precisely what I will do if they make that choice. I will never ever ever raise a child. You can take me to court all day long, I'd rather flee or be homeless than imprisoned to some people I don't care for. It's all a choice. We make our choices in this world. A shotgun wedding is still a choice…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/23 04:02 PM
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Boy, am I glad that I grew up in a home built on mutual respect between my parents. They both busted their asses to get us what we needed. My mom is really good at things like reading teaching mending and compassion. My dad cooked dinner every night after working, repaired our home, and coached us in sports. All these resentful parents need to realize *no one, not even their partner, is forcing them to be a parent. You don't get to resent your partner for the choices you make as a couple. I shud…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/23 02:01 PM
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Well well well, if it isn't the subject I was banned from r/MensLib for broaching. It's so awesome to get labeled both a cuck and an incel for thinking thoughts. With my mind brain.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/23 01:21 AM
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Not at all. I like casual sex quite a bit actually. The one kind of relationship I had was decidedly monogamous.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/23 06:16 AM
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It attracts those people. It's seen as a place to escape reality, without consequences etc. Dream of the 90s etc. It's cliche but for a reason. I doubt it's true blue oregon girls doing it more than average. It's those chick's who would date black guys just to piss off their Christian parents but are way to scared of black people themselves to actually live in Atlanta or Oakland. So bearded loser white guys ( ahem) become their bread and butter.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/23 05:58 AM
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New face for old hatred. Christianity and all the dogmatic religions teach hatred. Full stop. I don't care how much affection you have for your ancestors their religion was a sham and led them to the slaughter. End it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/23 04:08 AM
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Right. I mean believe reasonable accounts I guess was my thing. I can't imagine any of my female friends or family doing this to another person. So I'd believe them because I understand what it feels like to be treated like garbage. And I trust them. But some woman on the internet? Trust but verify as the old proverb goes. There's a reason these women take to the court of Public opinion and it's that there are few if any actual safeguards.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/23 03:32 AM
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Changing? In ... Christianity? What are you smoking dog because I want 3.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/23 03:24 AM
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Yes mostly I can see the dilemma between compassion for their friend /son /brother and a commitment to "believe women". And 99% of the time I think belive women is the best method, its important to note that at least 1% of humans are psychotic and more or less evil. For that % "believe women" = golden ticket to lie with impunity. Its hard to deal with because of the social taboos around discussions of female bullying. We are conditioned to explain away girls and women's bullshit as something tha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/23 03:22 AM
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There's a root of Christian body shame to all of it. One one hand these women grew up hearing that all men only want one thing and to save it for marriage. Then they go out into secular America and the only way to gain prestige is to be effortless and unattached towards sex. I think like so many people they force them selves into an uncomfortable situation without considering long term emotional consequences and when bad feelings arise they search for an explanation. The two readily available ar…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/23 08:12 PM
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Oh nutcase would be the exact word to use for this woman. Pm me for her name, any portland Oregon dudes looking to avoid a literal nightmare. She's a local public defender in Multnomah Co. We went out a few times and had a lot of fun together, then one night an argument started during sex. Like during during. And I had an anxiety attack, and I tried to leave. She started berating me and shoving me as I gathered my things and kept it up the whole way out the house. Finally I shoved her back and w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/23 02:17 PM
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I got banned from Tinder and Bumble for an accusation on a page called We Keep Us Safe. A woman attacked me and then took to the internet to reverse the story, and she put my full name, picture, and place of work. Some other chick I dated took to the post to say how she and I had a disagreement, as though that is some kind of damning evidence. It's cyberbullying. Through and through. They are sad people who want to drag others into their pit of misery. They hate their lives and their bodies and …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/23 01:15 PM
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You make an excellent point there. Doing things is not necessarily going to make you friends directly, but it will put you into the orbit of people you have something in common with and who are achieving goals as well. Compared to going to parties, it's quality over quantity. Those relationships will be so valuable when they do occur. Currently, my neighbor is probably the best friend I have in my city. I made him a nice wood sign with his family name to show my appreciation of our relationship.…
/r/MenSupportMen01/05/23 08:09 PM
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Do it. Abandon all social media and parasocial relationships you have with content creators. I know it sounds exteme and easy for me to say but I'm doing it myself and it's hard af but so much better. I went through some stuff and podcasts were my outlet. I actually thought they were my friends and would immediately like me and hang out with me if we met. Then I was on my favorite podcast. And I emoted to the host how much it meant to me. And he reasonably became extremely uncomfortable. It shat…
/r/MenSupportMen01/05/23 03:59 PM
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Guys this user is pro life and posts regularly to troll gender subjects. Asking bad faith questions and using "basic science" as their source exclusively. They aren't here to engage meaningfully despite their one sincere seeming post ever. Troll. Ignore.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/23 07:58 PM
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Troll
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/23 05:48 PM
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You're being a dumbass. 'Basic biology' has exceptions that's why its basic. You're obviously a troll so I'm not gonna try to help you. You don't understand anything beyond the most basic talking points. Just repeating them like a moron.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/23 05:38 PM
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Hmm id be more inclined to think he's finding forms of violence that hold a mirror up to society. If you think midsommar was a revenge fantasy, you're a sick puppy. I found comedy in that scene where the Old person gets smashed with a giant hammer. Artists really aren't beholden to the audience and they especially aren't beholden to the views of the MPAA. Ratings boards are run by pathetic Christian parents, not artists. They're the ones we should be incensed at.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/23 05:35 PM
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That's just not true. Look up how common chromosomal disorders are, and you will find an insanely high rate of people with XXY, XXYY, and even people who are ostensibly female with XY. Do a bit of research before rattling off your truisms. They won't win you any friends here. We're not here to deny others' existence. You seem like you stopped learning biology in high school.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/23 05:31 PM
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Yeah that's what comes up for news when I searched the term. It's a bummer because I always liked him; specifically that he invests in things like investigating the Titanic crash. Apparently he's not such an easy guy to work for. But not to worry because it wasn't his fault! He just has to deal with all that pesky Testosterone! It's like poop, you gotta get it out. /s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 11:43 PM
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Fair. So is the US in a lot of ways. We're debating child marriage right now for God's sake. Like, 10 years old can get married here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 11:28 AM
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You're right. We don't get any real news about India here. Just stuff that makes them seem backward to Western audiences. Most of my peers don't even know who Modi is, which is pathetic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 11:17 AM
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Wow this makes those roving gangs of women with canes in India seem a lot less heroic. They're just enacting the same treatment you guys got your whole lives.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 11:02 AM
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I'm glad it could help!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 02:26 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Testosterone_poisoning?wprov=sfla1 It has a Wikipedia page.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 01:47 AM
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I gotcha. Like how someone might say "calm yourself, woman!" But I can't help but read it like Terence and Philip arguing with the prime minister of Canada. I hope they replied " I'm not your guy, friend!"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/23 10:41 PM
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What? You gotta give an example of how.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/23 10:33 PM
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Thank you. It's something that really helps me through tough times. I came to it by myself. It's not something I've read anywhere. What I'm saying is, I don't have any proof that it's true. But the more I apply the logic, the more things it helps to explain. I'm open to anyone who refutes it or has an alternative explanation, seriously. I'm not a psychologist, and I respect their perspective. Please steal it and repurpose as needed!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/23 08:40 PM
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Dax Shepard on his podcast once said something like "we need to teach boys they are full of what is basically poison." In reference to testosterone. I believed it for a while until I realized it made me feel terrible about my self and any 'manly' behaviors. After all it took me years to learn to be a leader, to speak up, to do what I know is right no matter what. And now I come to find I'm both harming others and it's a sickness?? Recently I was downvoted for asking for a reminder about a scene …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/23 07:39 PM
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Totally. Hunting could easily be a waste of calories and leave the hunter worse than before. But if they succeed, that's instant prestige by having lots of iron rich meat for his mates.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/23 12:14 AM
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Right, I mean the only thing I can come up with, and it's still cultural, is that men can leave home more and longer. From an evolutionary biological perspective, women were mostly occupied with child rearing and nursing. So where hunting was the economy, men hunted. Where it was fishing, they fished. Where it was going to battle, they went. Men were the "leavers." And where leaving afforded prestige, men monopolized that. Mining, migratory labor, missionaries and crusaders, etc. Today, we aweso…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 09:00 PM
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Right, that's what I want to know as well. I'm fascinated by the idea of 'intrinsic masculinity' or traits that all men have. But the thing is, culture has such a huge effect on us, and our environment can even affect how our genes are expressed. So it seems like we may never know. It's tempting to make a race comparison, but I'm of the opinion that race is completely make believe where as sex differences are very much real, albeit fluid. But there are haplogroups in human DNA, and those are som…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 08:46 PM
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Oh cool it looks interesting. The preview makes an interesting point, feminism and biology have mutual suspicion. It makes sense that due to the historical enmity by doctors etc towards women that they simply no longer trust the science. Black people are still dealing with mutual suspicion from the eugenics era. It even affected vaccine uptake during covid. These things cast long shadows.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 08:01 PM
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Oh I'm not familiar. What are their books called? Either way I'd be interested in seeing more objective research investigating the difference between social and biological sex/ gender. I'm very curious about that subject.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 07:39 PM
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That's a good visual. I heard an LGBTQ advocate describe sex as a bi-modal spectrum. I have been using the erroneous term 'binary spectrum,' which I realize is incorrect. Of course, everyone doesn't perfectly fit into "male" or "female," but the majority of people are closer to one end or the other, not the middle. One thing I've realized about sex and gender differences is that there's very little science available. It's just not a realm that a ton of research has been historically devoted to. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 06:17 PM
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In the my state in the US, we only get 6 paid sick days per year. No guaranteed vacation. So, maybe realize it's not so bad? We make our choices every single day. You can swim with the stream or go against. You have been making the easiest choice thus far. It's time to shake it up.
/r/MenSupportMen17/04/23 09:29 PM
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If your job pays well, take some time off. Shoot I make less than $20k/ year and I'm about to pack up and live in the woods for 3 months. It's easy to give it all up when you don't have much. But the truth is, we both only have our time here on earth. So enjoy it! Do the things that terrify you and make a fool of yourself. Safety is fantastic, but so is adventure. We need an adventure in our lives.
/r/MenSupportMen17/04/23 05:42 AM
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He lost me when he said truck drivers are considered low in our society (I agree) and then justified that with how disgusting they are for tossing piss out the window. Truck drivers have used the Texas catheter for decades. It's amateurs that obey the 'way of the road'. No mention of the disgusting bosses forcing drivers to work themselves literally to death. As though its their fault and intrinsic to them (thusly all men.) Truck drivers are heroic. This video came out in 2020 and we were dealin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/23 07:47 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paulo_Freire?wprov=sfla1 He founded critical pedagogy, which, if I were to paraphrase, seeks to understand the relationship between social consciousness and education. He wrote this book called Pedagogy of the Oppressed in the 60s, and it revolutionized the world of education. He has this quote "The oppressed, instead of striving for liberation, tend themselves to become oppressors.” He also had this idea that every single person knows what it feels like to be oppre…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/23 08:18 AM
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Wow, Alys is a garbage person.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/23 04:28 AM
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It's shocking to women sometimes to see us vulnerable. They don't have the space to understand this is even a possibility. I have also abandoned friends because their feelings made me uncomfortable. I regret that so intensely that I vowed not to ever do it again. What's ironic is that sometimes people get uncomfortable at their own vulnerability and abandon the friendship anyway after I was there for them. I've come to find my own friendship with myself is the most valuable and stable thing that…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/23 04:26 AM
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My mom and sister boast their confidence in using the men's room as though its some accomplishment. The last time she did it, I asked my mom, "Do you realize I can't do that?" And she visibly hadn't realized.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/23 04:19 AM
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And its legal in every state for private schools. I don't want to start any thing but the answer is glaringly obvious to any one with an objective perspective. The christian lobby are the ones keeping these horrific laws in practice.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/23 03:50 AM
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He's exactly right. It's fucking sick that Texas teachers can beat children. I've said it for a long time now. Children are the most oppressed minority in the world, as well as in every single individual society. And it sticks with us our whole lives. Tinman, are you familiar with Paulo Freire? He's the one who opened my eyes to the cyclical nature of violence and its intrinsic connection to the education of children.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/23 01:18 AM
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I have 3 male friends who were raised by two moms. All are decent and normal people. But I have made an observation about them that I've heard elsewhere. I believe children need male and female and even non binary role models simply because they will one day be expected to socialize with those people. But those don't have to be your parents. Traditionally we lived in extended family groups. How many of us have an 'uncle' or 'aunt' that was important to our upbringing? Being raised by moms who ac…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/23 06:52 PM
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Not tangential at all. I recently heard a left wing feminist talking about how "No actually isnt a whole sentence. Consent is a conversation." Which I found refreshing. The two of you tried something and you came away not wanting to go back to it. That's consent. It sounds like she was wracked with shame at the thought of violating you and turned it into an attack. That's exactly how shame works. I was raised to believe rape is the worst thing you can do to another person. Throwing accusations o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/23 06:10 PM
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I had a woman walk out on a date that was going pretty well because I asked her not to smack me when I was being cheeky. I had asked politely, and then she told me that "most guys aren't so sensitive!" And I was too embarrassed to clearly reply, so I mumbled something like 'most guys don't say anything'. Apparently, that was 'tapping her sense of shame'. Never spoke again. Creepily, I have noticed a pattern of women attacking me after I've told them about my abusive ex.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/23 06:45 AM
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Lol, I read this right as a woman threw a drink at a man and then attacked him in a movie I'm watching. Weird. My ex frequently threw ceramic mugs and also did the ever-so-humiliating dumping water on my head. She usually pretended it either didn't happen or that i had provoked it. I sometimes watch a video of her attacking me while I filmed to remind me how much happier I am now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/23 10:10 PM
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It's likely I've seen reference to it before and just forgot. Still it's pretty telling.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/23 08:18 AM
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That's terrifying. Reminds me of how the police dealt with substance violations where I grew up, US. My first gf got taken home drunk by the police or had her folks called to pick them up 3 or 4 times as a teen with no charges. The first time I got caught with booze (not a DUI, just minor in possession) it wrecked my fuckin life. Lost my license for a year paid fines the whole nine yards. School was informed. My friends got sent away to reformatory institutions or desert work camps. It felt like…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/23 07:34 AM
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This just blew my mind. I was literally just reading about Objectification in the Marxist and feminist sense and applying it to the discrete experience of men in modern society.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/23 06:45 AM
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Hahaha my sister. She has terrible road rage but once told me she would not shout at a black person. In her mind I'm sure it's because she wants to see herself as a decent person. But I know it's because she's frightened of them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/23 06:16 AM
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Wednesday burns a kids camp with people trapped inside in one of the Burton films. The 'joke' is that she even burns the kid she had a romance with. Wednesday torturing puglsey always made me super duper uncomfortable in the Burton films. Creepy bdsm vibe while in my home my sister was torturing me and got inappropriate at times and it was not funny to me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/22 04:41 AM
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All good. I didn't mean to be rude but like, I felt you and I agree and you just misread me. Which does happen and is probably why people who are capable of expressing their thoughts well, like you, are extremely clear with what you're saying. Being a bit redundant is helpful with a charged topic. Any ways no shame necessary.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/22 03:05 AM
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You realize I said men aren't intrinsically more violent, right? I'm not sure why you're rattling off a bunch of words that no one is gonna read. No offense intended.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/22 02:59 AM
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Yeah I just mean I'm not opening up with people until I'm very confident they are kind. I have found a couple people who can hear me and still want to be my friend. Also I talk to my mom, she's great. I'm fine but I get disappointed when instead of bringing me together with other people it seems to alienate us.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/22 02:09 AM
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It almost certainly was influenced indirectly by hooks, but I have not read them. It has been my anecdotal experience that most of my abused friends were abused by their mothers, if not both parents. I still think when talking about murder, the numbers don't lie. Men aren't intrinsically more violent but we are socially conditioned to be able to turn our emotions on and off at will as well as to believe in things like honor and possessiveness towards their partners. Put together with a society r…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/22 10:00 PM
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I think you're just getting hung up on semantics. I'm not even sure what you're saying I'm wrong about. I'd like to see these studies if you can find them. Sometimes I feel like there is an effort in this group to search for information that confirms beliefs but I'm open to being corrected. I'm a victim of domestic violence from my last partner, she did pick up a weapon too. But murder was never something either of us was afraid of, to my knowledge. I defended myself but I wasn't violent. To her…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/22 09:18 PM
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So you brought it back to violence whereas the post was specifically about homicide, only. OP made that clear. I was not talking about DV but specifically spousal /partner murder. Murder is a form of abuse but it has its own set of realities.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/22 08:38 PM
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That's a really mind blowing thought. I wonder if it really does work that way. If women stopped killing their husband's because they now had somewhere to flee, that is great. But most of the men who kill their wives I have read about aren't doing it out of fear for their own life so much as chronic rage. Maybe I'm wrong, obviously those cases are high-profile because they're grizzly. What I've also heard and surmised is that women are much more likely to abuse and injure their children than the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/22 07:36 PM
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That's been my experience in the dating world. Women are attracted to what they imagine in me and then I can see the disappointment as they find out how open with my feelings I am. They become cold and start to treat me different. I cried in front of one woman and she looked just disgusted. The same woman eventually threatened to kill herself when I broke it off. I've also had caring women in my life and they are incredibly special to me. I never realized how rare they are until recently. Caring…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/22 07:02 PM
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