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I've had this account too long. Time to retire it. Lol
/r/askTRP27/08/16 03:14 PM
0

Talk is cheap. It doesn't mean much at all. She could just be curious about life in general.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 03:09 PM
1

Not to mention the child will despise you for not putting up with her shit for nexting the bitch completely out of your life. Add a bit of poisoning the child's mind with her snide comments over a few years and you have no chance of repairing a relationship with your own child. Lose:Lose:Lose situation all around.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 03:08 PM
1

Eh no. I get what you're trying to say, but if she is the one initiating a passive invitation, you're the one that needs to make it real.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:50 AM
2

Long ago bud Why the FUCK would I not? Common damn sense
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:49 AM
1

Manly, in a good way
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:38 PM
3

No but I've been doxxed by an ex.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:36 PM
6

Any other punishment you give should be sexual "fun" punishment. Your attention is all you should weaponize.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:35 PM
1

Lower smv women are invisible. Higher smv have become pieces of meat. (Highest obtainable anyway, not pulling 9's)
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:34 PM
2

Right. This is just silly rationalization for beta behavior. There's nothing special about this boss of his. Until OP sees this woman swallow his seed, he shouldn't be getting this deep into her life.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 06:24 PM
2

Baby, always Babe is much less endearing in my opinion.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 02:28 PM
2

That's a cool idea. I suppose I just take over the living room. That counts in my book.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 02:12 PM
5

How he treated her in the past doesn't matter. His current status is all she's going to care about, and that sounds like it's going to shit. She has to be able to respect him in order for it to work. He's not totally fucked or anything.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 12:51 PM
5

Boys are cute Men are handsome Players are sexy
/r/askTRP26/08/16 06:33 AM
2

Women do this every day and don't get shamed for it. Maybe they don't fuck 3 guys at once, but they do their female version of it. How many romantic interests do you think are in these tinder girls' phones right now? Exclusivity is not implied. The only people who think this are boys raised by their mothers growing up watching Saved by the Bell and other nonsensical garbage that teaches you incorrectly how to date women. Don't have serious conversations. Those are reserved for women you actually…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 06:32 AM
1

That's a better take on the story. "Sounds like I can get away with just buying you coffee then" That would be a second advance, meaning if she wriggles out of that it's pretty likely she's looking elsewhere and you cut your losses.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 06:10 AM
4

Congrats bro. Make sure you don't let her take over the entire house decorating. Let her decorate the kitchen and/or bathroom and/or living room but not all of them. It's your house too. Try to do some side work in finding a buddy that has a couch. You don't want to end up nexting the girl you live with unless you have a plan already in place. An escape plan if you will. Take that to the next level and set aside funds that allow you to quickly move out. Don't stay in the house 24/7 with her. Des…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 05:44 AM
2

Oh she's one of those. That's a broken woman that you should just steer clear of. She's the type that's too socially retarded to understand what feminine behavior entails. If it happens again just say "chill out bro". She needs a reality check and that isn't your responsibility.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 05:38 AM
2

Agh, shitty story. I hate to say it, but you had a wide open chance and you blew it. You don't need to hear about the discouraging stuff like how she probably knows you have oneitus for her, or that she could be making progress elsewhere with someone that's interested in her. What you need to hear is that you need closure. The next time you see her at work, just roll up on her and tell her you feel so bad about the dinner thing (fake sympathetic voice) and you want to repay her over coffee or a …
/r/askTRP26/08/16 05:32 AM
11

Make her pay for the first drink. Ask her how crazy she is. Tell her her butt looks big in those shorts. Call her a bitch when she is actually being bitchy (not as a pet name). Tell her to paint her nails red. Tell her she should be in high heels. Tell her to get you a drink. Basically, tell her to do a bunch of trivial shit. See where her mental complexes are. Most girls will have one. "I never make coffee for anyone because X". Then, break that complex. That's your new goal. "I want coffee, so…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 05:20 AM
1

Why is she able to hit you and get under your skin? Is she physically stronger than you? This might have to be a long term solution. Lift more, and don't let it happen again. When a girl hits you, it should be amusing.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 05:15 AM
9

Be polarizing. "Yeah, when you free this weekend?" or "You free Friday night?"
/r/askTRP26/08/16 05:12 AM
10

You can be RP in a blue world
/r/askTRP25/08/16 10:00 PM
7

I agree with this. Moreso than any physically demanding job, to include sports.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:21 PM
11

"The military is different now." But your dad could say this same thing when he served. It's concerning to think about how it will change after I get out in 9 years. And if you think the pay is good now after 8 years of Obama, wait until Hilary steps into office. She is not capable of leading a military, let alone taking care of it.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:15 PM
2

You're doing the right thing. Keep alcohol in moderation. Vent with buddies. Not being successful with women is par for the course. It's going to take time to be above average again. Keep putting in those gym hours.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:56 PM
2

Record. Fucking. Everything.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:48 PM
5

You didn't give her any commands before you got up or stopped. Lead her. Tell her to sit tight, to move, or to take her shirt off or some shit.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:45 PM
44

Rank structure enforces obedience. You are always supervised. Double standard is enforced. Look into PT requirements by gender. And the recent successes women have had in combat roles. And the latest rejection of the draft mandate for women. The military seems to think female physical performance is optional, and male physical performance is required. Political correctness is absolutely paramount. You can have good intentions, but say the wrong thing to the right person and you can receive paper…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:32 PM
3

More than a male nurse.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:02 PM
2

Doesn't matter what you say here. What only matters is your tone.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 06:27 PM
1

Poetic and accurate. Older women know the game. Especially those that have ridden the CC long enough.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 05:57 PM
1

Sing loudly in your car. Sing loudly in the shower. It exercises your diaphragm and over time allows you to project your voice easier.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 05:45 PM
4

Use your words to tell her your going to cum down her throat. You gotta be vigilant about that shit in the future. Every time you let her not swallow, you're condoning it. To mention later that your preference is different can trigger her because she's understood differently this entire time. "You allowed me to get away with X before, why the sudden change?" She wants to do it anyway, but only for the type of man that will tell her to do it.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 05:35 PM
3

Yup, huge red flag asking that right out the gate. It means this girl may have an identity obsession (slightly possible she just had bad dealings with a recent male feminist, but that's rare).
/r/askTRP25/08/16 05:19 PM
0

Worked on my ex for a time. Never again. Only took a few years for her to start challenging me. But if that's what you say and not do, right on.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 05:16 PM
39

The most blue pill career there is The military
/r/askTRP25/08/16 05:06 PM
2

At least technically, we're all purple pill in behavior so I think that's normal. TRP is a journey, and during tough times it can seem more like an unachievable goal than what it's supposed to be. I like to view TRP as a necessary evil. A counter action of sort to balance a lot of unnatural societal/political restructuring that's been exponentially increasing over the past 5, 20, 50+ years. My realistic goal isn't to become 100% red, but to make sure I'm not 100% blue. Embrace that and you might…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 04:57 PM
3

The bridge thing can work, or you can blur your vision (some can do this on command). I wouldn't recommend that if you're actively trying to improve your game. Look straight into her eyes because you're not a coward.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 05:39 AM
1

Those are shitty provider dates. Take her to places where you can interact with each other like a bar or coffee place. Flirt with her, use kino, and after an hour or so see if she wants to go to your place, her place, or a hotel to watch a movie or talk about politics or whatever you do. You'll both know it's not what you're ACTUALLY planning to do, a smirk implies that unless she's dull. Be forward with your actions, but don't mention sex. She will use body language or flat out tell you a firm …
/r/askTRP24/08/16 05:34 AM
3

The fuck? Do you think she's going to explicitly incriminate herself? Read up on plausible deniability. Go meet with her. Flirt, kino, see where you can lead her.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 04:22 AM
1

That makes sense.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 11:45 PM
2

Np And when you get that retaliation text, "omg why didn't you answer me yesterday?!", just downplay it. It was no big deal, you just had something else going on or got busy. Don't get into details. She loses priority when she thinks your needs lose priority. That's your answer.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 11:26 PM
1

Cardio is for women. Jk
/r/askTRP23/08/16 11:21 PM
1

Chasing an image of an ideal / perfectionism causes real losses. OP has a chick he's fucking. It also creates real expectations and boundaries. Isn't that what most of these newbies are lacking? This encourages him to violate abundance mentality. This ...is a difficult question. Her saying that could mean a lot about OP, or a lot about the chick he's with. Most beginners don't realize that what they think is a "plate" has an uncanny resemblance to... We can agree and disagree at the same time on…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 08:13 PM
7

The comments that involve retaliation are anger phase. Your inclusion of the nuclear comment is the only one worth mentioning. Three times during the best phase of a relationship is a complete smack in the face. A&A is reserved for the first offense in my book. Any more than that and she's just testing my patience or losing respect (too quickly at 6 months nonetheless). Third time, she's gone.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 06:10 PM
6

OP should garnering more respect than that in the first 6 months, but I see what your approach is. She's not a man, therefore her desire isn't to spread her seed but rather find the best mate possible. A lot is missed because none of us were there to see her expression, hear her tone, or basically just figure out where she's coming from. Your argument could apply, but in this "better safe than sorry" cucked environment we live in OP should cut his losses early. He's here whining about it in askt…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 06:03 PM
1

If you're not busting your ass at least 4x a week, you're not going to be impressed with your results.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:51 PM
45

Take her off the payroll without telling her. Implicitly demote to plate. She wasn't yours, it was just your turn.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 02:49 PM
1

You did the right thing given your current tools, but you need to lift more heavy shit. You shouldn't have to extend your hand to shake the hand of a hostile visitor to diffuse the situation, but you did because you are weak. If you were any weaker, you might've apologized. Thank god you didn't. You should be able to cold stare at him until he leaves within a few seconds, or at least tell him to leave. You don't owe him any pleasantries for coming to your place trying to start something. He's de…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 01:25 PM
4

Refusal of sex doesn't require immediate reaction beyond just pulling away for a minute and finding something to do. Some will say you can be cold to her, but my experience says that just reeks of butthurtism which is unattractive as fuck. The real message is conveyed when you don't answer your texts immediately the next day or don't invite her over on that night she normally expects it. It's not so much a soft next as it is increasing dread game. Be more unavailable. Your time and your desires …
/r/askTRP23/08/16 07:37 AM
1

She won't be with that kid for long. Stay away, though. That kid is mentally and emotionally unstable and mateguards hard. Keep lifting heavy shit. Don't stop. Eventually, those types will have to muster up a lot of courage to approach you the way he did.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 07:29 AM
5

..the more attractive* you are.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 07:27 AM
-2

Colleague did a good job. Recognize that. As long as the girl he went to have a drink with isn't a 2, he could be playing her. Attractive girls get jealous of average and even slightly below average girls over stuff like that. Your IDGAF attitude will beat his game pretty easily, so keep on doing you.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 07:20 AM
1

Revisit the thought in 5 years
/r/askTRP22/08/16 05:35 AM
1

Get hot. Once you reach top 20%, you gain access but they're not easier nor harder Club girls are different, though.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 01:43 PM
2

[removed] Fuck y'all
/r/askTRP21/08/16 01:25 PM
7

[removed] Fuck y'all
/r/askTRP21/08/16 01:20 PM
9

[removed] Fuck y'all
/r/askTRP21/08/16 12:55 PM
1

Ehh, plenty of good girls are available or would make themselves available for a man of quality.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 04:17 AM
1

Everyone here has given their portion of the full scope. The two I would highlight is: 1) She doesn't respect you enough to not sit on a rando cock. That was a conscious decision. You're not going to regain respect. That's your fantasy. 2) You're simply training her to be smarter about cheating. The impulse is already there. We train children the best we can because we are responsible for them. We try to do the same with women, but we are not responsible for them to the same extent because women…
/r/askTRP20/08/16 08:51 PM
3

Sounds like the latter. You're one of many sources.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 08:31 PM
1

Because ultimatums work. Get a clue. She's sorry she got caught. Tons of good advice here in this thread, but nothing is going to change your mind because you decided this before you even made your post. You just want to be able to argue your feelings against our logic.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 08:29 PM
0

Half right. Girls will risk it as long as they have girlfriends to go out with.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 08:21 PM
6

It just hasn't hit you yet. It's normal. When it does, you'll be thankful for your bros and family so get with them now.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 08:20 PM
4

She's probably trying to game you the way she gets gamed. Or she craves attention, but sometimes she is already got her fix. It depends on some details you're leaving out like the atmosphere when she ignores you vs when she seeks your validation.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 08:17 PM
1

I think you're viewing this from a severely limited angle. Good girls will play out the same way as the others. What you're supposed to be working on is your own filters, your own boundaries. When a girl doesn't match what you're looking for, you continue plating until she falls. When a girl does, you continue dating. If she gives up the ghost too easily, she isn't worth it. If it takes more than 3 dates (my view), she believes she has too much value to be in my life. Meaning she doesn't feel th…
/r/askTRP20/08/16 04:24 PM
1

Lol ok
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:56 PM
2

Trust a woman to behave like a woman.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 06:26 AM
6

That's some stupid shit I just read. She has the option to leave.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 01:30 AM
0

Make her sit on the floor for 3 minutes next time she acts up. Then 4, then 5, for each instance. You need to put her in her place. If you can't put a plate in her place, you can't put a LTR in her place. Use her to practice. Edit: It's meant to be a playful command.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:23 AM
1

Having snapchat does.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:13 AM
3

I wasn't under the impression OP was using it as an excuse for not getting pussy.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 06:54 PM
3

A failure to recognize the cultural difference is still ignorant. I have dozens of theories on this type of stuff. The strongest being the media has an unhealthy obsession with fear and oppression to the point of overcompensation.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 10:40 AM
3

This sounds like clickbait. Physical features have no bearing on how girls are raised.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:57 AM
1

No, that's fucking stupid. Unless he's dealing around your spawn.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:56 AM
1

That's the age-old debate. In my experience, people don't deserve the benefit of the doubt. You gotta decide that for yourself.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 03:54 PM
3

You can trust women to behave like women. Today, you can even trust some men to behave like women.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:02 AM
2

I think you're on point when you mention OP is too much in his own head. I remember a few years ago being in the same boat. No girls seemed "special" anymore and it killed a lot of my drive, but I still tried to force it (and I'm glad I did). OP will probably do better as time goes on. No one should have to think about their interactions as much as he did here. This should come natural. Let the BP mentality slip out as long as you're still reading and trying to wrap your head around TRP. Eventua…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 04:59 AM
6

Good advice, but you forgot to mention his text response is a prime example of what NOT to do. Guess who's pussy is as dry as the Sahara right now? Responding like this now is a lost cause, as she'll just be confused. Best play from here is go silent for a day or two, and then text "come over tonight". No dinner, no date. She's already standoffish to the point I don't see her going out to any date scenario anytime soon with OP.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 04:48 AM
2

More details needed.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 12:35 AM
2

No
/r/askTRP15/08/16 12:24 AM
3

What do you expect from her? You want her to text you daily? Give her some time to think about you. If she doesn't, no big deal.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 12:04 AM
2

That's a good point. No reason to be cooking dinner at this point.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 11:46 PM
2

I'd say ok, Dunkin Donuts at 8 then.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 11:45 PM
4

You make your BP friends look bad. How often do you think their girls ask about you? I bet from both X and P's angle, it stings every single time it happens. You might be able to overvalidate them and encourage them a little bit more when you're together next time. Like point out some of their accomplishments to one of their main girls of that night. "Did you know X has been working on this project? Dude is a saint." This is hoping they're not fucking retarded and know how to humbly downplay wha…
/r/askTRP14/08/16 11:43 PM
2

Mentally, move on. Start leaving without saying anything. She's not your keeper. Don't be upset. Be busy.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:51 PM
0

You can be dumb as shit as long as you have an ounce of wit at your back. Experience would be overkill.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:50 PM
1

Make money, study financials, figure out how to manage money--not just your own, but other people's money. Be the wolf.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:48 PM
-2

Yes, hop right into that saturated market and don't look back.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:48 PM
7

You're right. She's not going to say "hey buddy, please fuck me."
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:47 PM
2

Male bonding dawg
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:46 PM
0

You need to read enough to be able to internalize it without thinking. If you force yourself to think about those things in depth, you're going to be more awkward in situations.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 09:46 PM
1

Some of these comments are dancing around the right answer. It has to be "good pain". Seduce her mind.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 08:10 PM
7

Being that 75% of all black families are raised without a father (I don't have any other demographic data, but I assume other races are following suit), you're going to get a ton of kickback trying to debate on this topic out in the wild. No one likes to hear about how broken they are, especially when it's out of their control.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 08:07 PM
1

Depends on whether or not you care about getting shot, worst case.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 08:05 PM
1

That sounds somewhat okay. Mention to him that he himself shouldn't be talking about these topics with people like that. It's great to have a logical and deep conversation with someone about it, but people like that will hold your views against you/him.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 07:29 AM
2

First of all, good job. At 17, you're doing things some 40-year-olds I know only dream of. To your dilemma, you fucked up when you overtly mentioned your other plates. That's just downright mean and damaging. This shouldn't be your goal. Leave plates better than you found them, always. As far as keeping her around, you're doing what you can and should. Keep other plates on your mind, keep improving yourself. The one you like the most will come around, or she won't. There are better girls out the…
/r/askTRP14/08/16 06:53 AM
1

Don't initiate conversation about it. If he's pushing you to talk about it, then you should pull the trigger to make sure he's not raging in a fury of misogyny.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 05:41 AM
-5

Lol Lol in case you didn't hear it the first time Your gf wants a female president, so she chooses Hilary who has 3 scandals under her belt before even entering office. Maybe it's just me, but women CAN ABSOLUTELY lead. Hilary is NOT one of those women. I had to get that out of the way. So her political views are wrong. How fucking ignorant is she to say she just wants a woman president so she chooses the first one with a pair of tits that probably smell like cat piss? Next time you two are in t…
/r/askTRP14/08/16 04:23 AM
1

You're missing the large factor. Her perception of you. You can't control other people, so the risk of marriage is still unreasonable. Not saying controlling other people is the answer, but rather 50% of the control is entirely out of your hands.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 09:12 PM
1

This is why there's no hope for people like you until you read the sidebar and internalize everything there. There are certain lines that shouldn't be crossed. Non-negotiables. Remove the word "closure" from your vocabulary and end it without explanation.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 08:44 PM
11

Most women see themselves at a 6+, so you're going to face the same levels of rejection from a 9 as you will a 5. When you got with the "hottest" girl, it's because of how she felt right now. When you got rejected by the lower quality girls, it's because of how they felt right now. It has very little to do with leagues so trash that idea. They all think they deserve the top dawg, so be that with all of them. The deciding factor is always going to be how they feel right now.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 08:35 PM
3

You can choose not to have kids, or run your women through a strong filter and hang onto hope when you get on that knee.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 08:31 PM
1

I should have mentioned this in my post. It helps your image and your mind if you deal with it this way. Nobody in your social circle needs to know why you do what you do.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 03:39 PM
5

Alpha widow that hoe. She wasn't yours, it was just your turn. It's a hard next, because soft next won't fix whorish tendencies. If you have to tell her to stop having rando bros snuggling up on her, you fucked up when you promoted her to LTR.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 08:11 AM
5

It's easy to show you care and will do things for her. The important thing is to make sure you're not acting worried or scared. It's damaging to those dependent on you "Everything is going to be ok"
/r/askTRP07/08/16 12:18 PM
10

This "alpha female" is right, and I believe it is already in the TRP mantra to leave plates better than you found them. We're not here to ruin women for the most part. Some here are doing that because they're fucked in the head Side note, when I see an "alpha female" I immediately think "broken woman". Wonder why that is. Most of the shit that comes out of her mouth is probably garbage, but what she said here is right. Women often take on the form of a man they desire
/r/askTRP07/08/16 11:36 AM
3

Never send a dick pic. There can be legal repercussions if it makes its way into the wrong hands
/r/askTRP07/08/16 11:31 AM
1

Allow? She's only going to make it a big deal if you make it a big deal. If she doesn't like it, let her throw her tantrum and let her calm down to accept it. If it's a strong boundary for her (I.e. You're not good enough to be able to do that in her eyes), let her go
/r/askTRP07/08/16 11:16 AM
1

I set up two dates last night. I didn't plan on showing up for either one. After a while you can sense whether or not they'll flake, and you can continue on with your main plans anyway The two girls (who I scheduled 2 hours apart in the same area) cancelled. One was "too lazy to leave the house", and the other had a "family dinner" Lower your expectations for online dating and never make them your main plan for the night
/r/askTRP07/08/16 11:14 AM
1

Practice banter with male friends. Make yourself laugh, otherwise you're doing it wrong
/r/askTRP07/08/16 11:11 AM
5

you can't do anything but be available when it doesn't work out
/r/askTRP05/08/16 04:07 AM
2

in a professional and non-professional setting: firm, your hand take the underside at least slightly, hold a second or two longer than what's comfortable, eye contact for me, with men it's a 60-80% squeeze. with women it's 40-80%, depending on size
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:39 AM
3

I don't care enough about any of them except Trump--a sociopathic, narcissistic alpha who's in over his head but he's not Crooked Hilary, so he's got my vote
/r/askTRP01/08/16 03:51 AM
1

some men want to leave a legacy behind them and want a first mate aboard their ship to bear their children. you can't achieve this in a financially sound way applying what you believe true RP to be. not all men share the same goals, so there is no single true RP to follow unless you dig to the simple foundation of what TRP is that foundation reaches across all three TRP strategies, as they all share the vague themes of self-improvement and control of self
/r/askTRP01/08/16 03:15 AM
1

"do what you want to do" but also be smart about it. what women say and do are two different things. if you let them do the legwork on escalating the commitment level, it will pay you back two-fold by the logic you use here, it advocates a lot of stupid shit in terms of commitment. do you want to marry a slut? go for it if it's what you want speaking hypothetically, not directly to OP's scenario
/r/askTRP01/08/16 01:28 AM
1

give it time, be selfish
/r/askTRP31/07/16 10:47 PM
2

you'll be fine. just chill. step back and regroup. find a place where you can be happy with yourself, by yourself for a bit
/r/askTRP31/07/16 08:35 PM
1

be selfish
/r/askTRP31/07/16 07:50 PM
3

r/Redpillwomen we shouldn't be seeing any other answers here
/r/askTRP31/07/16 07:47 PM
12

I see a big problem with some of the replies here never push a girl to the next relationship level. she has to want the next level, otherwise you have no leverage (and you never really know if she actually wanted the next level anyway) for now OP, just chill and fuck other girls (in addition to her) to keep your mind and your dick in check. don't get oneitus. until the day she wants to have "the talk", just keep dicking her down as per usual. if she never pushes for exclusivity, you never push f…
/r/askTRP31/07/16 07:43 PM
1

it's a joke. save the speech for someone who's actually offended
/r/askTRP29/07/16 01:57 AM
2

true. I'd cast the net then if she isn't in your social circle. if she was, it's possible she would talk about you and increase your SMV
/r/askTRP28/07/16 11:30 PM
3

she was trying to follow your lead. she might not want to hate him if you like him. it depends on her tone really--and you're the only one who was there to be able to tell. also depends if she knows how you feel about the dude.. if she already knows, then.... it was a shit test. in which case, A&A
/r/askTRP28/07/16 11:15 PM
5

that's called nuclear by way of ultimatum losing play every time you get the same result without the drama by speaking with action
/r/askTRP28/07/16 09:59 PM
3

right pursuing her now will crush the image for her. your best bet to bend that one over is for her to seek you out, and she probably won't
/r/askTRP28/07/16 09:57 PM
1

you can't attack 5 guys using the same shit. like BJJ you gotta roll with the punches and deflect. A&A all the way, nothing phases you
/r/askTRP28/07/16 07:58 PM
1

well, at that point you're just being fucked with because you already acted like a bitch before and they noticed. work on your witty comebacks (A&A style) or they're not going to start respecting you anytime soon. play gay chicken. tell them you'll suck a dick to prove you aren't gay
/r/askTRP28/07/16 07:50 PM
2

you're right, and I can't wait until a sirfuckboysupreme teaches my kids' sports
/r/askTRP28/07/16 07:46 PM
2

let's delve deeper and say civilization in general is destroying families women have significantly more social rights and legal power than men in any setting because "survival of the fittest" is no longer a thing. the idea was to protect the weak from unnecessary abuse, but the pendulum has swung too far left and we have women controlling the standard. they face little to no consequences for their actions because they don't need to think about violent physical reactions the conundrum I am stuck …
/r/askTRP28/07/16 05:27 PM
3

lol
/r/askTRP28/07/16 05:19 PM
1

because nothing makes a girl wet like a boy afraid to K-close
/r/askTRP28/07/16 05:17 AM
2

speech classes sometimes recommend talking with a pen in your mouth to help annunciation
/r/askTRP28/07/16 01:58 AM
3

you're one of about twelve guys she texts sometimes the best way to compete is to not play at all
/r/askTRP28/07/16 01:56 AM
7

if they're interested in meeting up, they're interested in you why are you paying attention to what they say? unless she's saying no to your physical advances, don't pay attention to what she says
/r/askTRP28/07/16 01:54 AM
1

if you're gonna be there, ask your buddy if he can do you a solid and take his potential plate out for coffee/whatever instead and say you're busy if you're not gonna be there, just say you're busy and go do what you want I wouldn't risk my own game for the sake of his game. besides, it helps him to take control of what he does with his plates
/r/askTRP28/07/16 12:06 AM
2

use fake names instead of letters. easier to paint the picture
/r/askTRP28/07/16 12:02 AM
3

PSA reminder: implicitly
/r/askTRP27/07/16 11:59 PM
4

1) find out what makes you confident 2) realize it's lifting 3) lift 4) bang it won't happen overnight
/r/askTRP27/07/16 07:36 PM
1

well the point is we're talking about TRP. yes it's funny, but it condones blue pill behavior. it wasn't normally like Burr to convey the message "it's common to agree to do stupid shit and be miserable about it because you don't know how to say no" it's not his norm, but that one stood out. that's something the sad fuck Louis CK would say you don't get that mixed message from people like Patrice or Rogan
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:31 PM
1

his rant about wanting to kill himself instead of making a pie for Thanksgiving is one of them when he agreed to make it in the first place. maybe that wasn't post-marriage, but it's one that comes to mind funny, but sad
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:21 PM
1

just tell her it's ok, you can't put your dick in her degree anyway then, dock her allowance
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:20 PM
2

where the fuck is Patrice and Joe Rogan?
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:12 PM
2

some of the shit he has said post-marriage is not healthy at all. if anything, check into his older stuff
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:11 PM
1

well, close he's white knighting her friends OP fuck off with that shit
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:09 PM
3

these women are broken and won't act like a typical female. you're going to have to start an entirely new forum for a subject like this though, shit-testing exists in all relationships.. even platonic relationships (pecking order), usually then called bullshitting
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:03 PM
1

that's some valuable pussy to travel that far for
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:58 PM
3

don't whine to your gf. go find some male buddies to do that with if you have to lift
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:54 PM
2

where the fuck was the A&A? you're supposed to use your SO for sex
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:51 PM
1

as long as this is normally how you treat a girl, but it's not so I don't know why I bother
/r/askTRP26/07/16 12:53 AM
4

she could be your typical post-wall, broken girl. being the little bro I imagine is an uphill battle where she never really sees you as a grown man (no matter how old you get), so that doesn't help your perspective as she struggles to show you respect
/r/askTRP25/07/16 01:57 PM
5

ok, I'll start with the obvious. there are no 10's. get that shit out of your head you need to escalate the same way you do with the other girls. you approach this with logic, and have a borderline mathematical equation going for a reason. it's your job to push boundaries and escalate. it's her job to deflect or submit I know you don't think she's you're typical slut, and you're probably right. the problem is when you approach a girl using a coy strategy, she's going to respond in kind. you're n…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 01:28 PM
5

does she have daddy issues? are you the little bro or big bro? what ages?
/r/askTRP25/07/16 01:16 PM
1

she was touchy with you, but were you touchy with her? the point of kino is two-fold. it causes tingles and it displays interest. I am trying to figure out if you properly communicated your intent to these girls. as long as you got your intent across, the ball is in their court soft nexting was the perfect call. hitting her up after a month isn't a bad idea so long as you didn't give off any bad (needy) vibes when you last talked
/r/askTRP25/07/16 12:21 PM
2

this is normal. girls flake. keep aiming high and keep casting the net it's good that you stop to reflect. from the story it seems you're leaving out necessary details for us to accurately judge what's going on. do you use kino? do you use beta game?
/r/askTRP25/07/16 12:21 AM
8

it's probably not your wealth, but your weak physical frame. you stated you just started lifting you're also only 19. not a lot of girls salivate at the thought of 19-year-old males unless... they are jacked. get jacked
/r/askTRP25/07/16 12:14 AM
1

take control of your group when the opportunities present themselves (not forcefully out of nowhere) take up new hobbies that will allow you to team up with better people
/r/askTRP24/07/16 07:05 PM
1

focus on your physical stature, your money, your education, your friends, your weekends. don't worry about where the girls will be. they'll be around. if you're destroying your goals, they'll seek you out individually or through your friends girls know how to pick up on these vibes. all you gotta do is have you have your shit together, and be social/friendly. isolation is not going to be your friend when girls start nudging their way into your life, then you take action. but for now it's going t…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 05:39 PM
4

it makes your problems easier
/r/askTRP24/07/16 05:32 PM
4

people get killed by beta-snapping hubbies don't
/r/askTRP24/07/16 05:31 PM
6

welcome to r/asktrp if you've been around long enough, you should know that this post isn't going to change anything
/r/askTRP24/07/16 05:29 PM
4

lift
/r/askTRP24/07/16 05:28 PM
1

yeah, they tend to graze nearer you when you're at the most selfish point(s) of your life. be selfish, be social
/r/askTRP24/07/16 04:57 PM
4

girls can say what they think they like all day, but when it comes down to it all that matters is physical attraction and mutual desire
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:16 PM
4

it's not unusual but she's full of shit
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:47 PM
3

fuck RSD just lift don't worry about hunting much tail in college. rape culture is strong and overextending yourself will get your dick slapped by the law. let the pussy find you instead
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:45 PM
1

she's got some other dick in her life. you're not her only outlet, so she's seeing just how bitchy she can act and still get attention whoever else she's trying to get with is making her try harder, so she doesn't try with you. this cake is bad, start baking a new cake or two
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:44 PM
2

tried it, loved it, hated the cost, hated the locations here
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:58 PM
1

unless you do cardio regularly. then the odds you're faster than three presumable American thugs are in your favor
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:57 PM
3

90% of the time mgtow is a cop-out for incels. avoid it unless you carry a John Cena or Brad Pitt type of figure, because only then can you say you "choose" to avoid the game. otherwise you need to be out there fighting the good fight. don't avoid the game just because you're bad at it
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:53 PM
2

no need to go straight to ED after one occurance you'll have another opportunity like this again. it happens to everyone at some point in their lives. just the other day I had a buddy tell me he felt like such a moron having this 9 (Brazilian) sucking his limp dick for a half hour. she never called back. I did about everything in the book with an 8 for 2 solid hours to no avail. she never came back around. it happens
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:49 PM
1

in the case of a plate, he doesn't even need to be a more valuable male than you in her eyes. women are capable of learning they sometimes can't get some men to commit. sometimes the other guy just needs to be available and/or obtainable saying another guy is more alpha or whatever just because he's fucking your plate is only sometimes the case. sometimes he's fucking her because he's more beta. it's also likely he's paying the price of commitment. this is more applicable post-wall when a girl i…
/r/askTRP23/07/16 09:22 PM
8

American Beauty also, Training Day has some amazing AMOG and manipulation dynamics
/r/askTRP23/07/16 09:08 PM
3

death grip twice a day for a month
/r/askTRP23/07/16 08:32 AM
1

maybe you don't know what being a leader is
/r/askTRP22/07/16 11:29 PM
1

not in terms of responsibilities, but in terms of figuring out social dynamics and setting yourself up for success if your parents weren't successful, odds are pretty damn good that you're going to be average at best during your high school years. families and schools don't know how to raise boys anymore. you just have to get lucky and grow up close with a friend group who was raised properly, or have a father figure who is worth a damn
/r/askTRP21/07/16 05:55 PM
2

she's not going to listen to your advice. you would need to be around as a stable, moralistic figure that would set boundaries. you wouldn't be able to enforce them since you aren't her father, but being around and being reliable is second best.. like a voice of reason if you care enough, you can check in on her as she grows up. a phone call here and there could go a long way
/r/askTRP20/07/16 10:53 PM
1

this is a silly "rule" that must've popped up within the last year or so since I've been away. not everyone's goal is to spin plates
/r/askTRP20/07/16 03:59 PM
1

depends on other areas of the relationship. accepting gifts from admirers isn't a well-known binary event in my opinion to plate on first offense. also dadding your LTR is acceptable. you're supposed to be leading your girl
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:00 PM
9

I'm over 30 now I'd say 14-18 is the roughest, then 18-22
/r/askTRP20/07/16 01:39 PM
1

then communicate feelings with tones or grunts if you think she's too retarded to get it. it's not so much for her as it is for you. if she fucks it up a second time, it becomes a larger offense and you consider a plate downgrade
/r/askTRP20/07/16 01:38 PM
1

she's being easily manipulated by a wiener with no game. what's she going to do when approached by some guy with at least half a brain? use this as an opportunity to teach her something new about relationships in your most condescending voice: tell her to tell the boy that you said no. then tell her slowly, "this is why you don't accept gifts from boys. they will make you feel bad for rejecting their dates" dominate your relationship and steer your fucking ship
/r/askTRP20/07/16 06:45 AM
2

girls tend to say this when they don't like your personality, but recognize physical attractiveness you prob could have fucked her, but you said some things that sounded downright mean to her that night improve by practicing funny/cocky attitude vs. rude/mean attitude. the latter will cause girls to publicly shame you
/r/askTRP19/07/16 02:25 AM
2

the best way to get her back is to move on and pursue other women. you have to be ok with letting her control her own decisions, and most importantly you have to be ok with the relationship being over completely this is called outcome independence the primary effect of outcome independence is strengthening your own mental health. this is for you. no pussy is so valuable that you should erase your boundaries
/r/askTRP18/07/16 02:31 AM
1

as much as men like commitment, both very generalized statements he can't use sex as a weapon. the relationship will fall apart long before that ever becomes a manipulation tool. it's nothing to be worried about as a father
/r/askTRP17/07/16 11:56 PM
1

it doesn't mean you spend money whilst losing money (assuming your spouse isn't doing her jobs). that's punishing yourself, and rewarding her shit behavior. she has no incentive to raise a finger when the maid walks in the door. yes, it's humiliating to a normal woman. but OP may not be dealing with a normal woman
/r/askTRP17/07/16 07:42 PM
1

this + dread OP needs to go hang with buddies a few nights a week. when a SO gets out of line or gets cocky, you gotta exercise her hamster or she will keep pushing boundaries I hope you're still lifting OP
/r/askTRP17/07/16 03:51 PM
-1

I see what you're trying to do, but it encourages her poor behavior
/r/askTRP17/07/16 03:49 PM
2

this is my mantra. I have a (military) career, which means when I'm at work I don't even have a dick, and I minimize all interactions with women. it's sad that it's come to this. no hate, no love, just ignore them all completely if possible. if not possible, I avoid all eye contact I can and get the job done that involves her as quickly as possible and move on I am a completely different person outside of work
/r/askTRP17/07/16 03:42 PM
1

they're conditioned by their local sluts to say this because they see their buddies getting rewarded with sex this way. the sex validates the local sluts nonsense, and--cut to--you have a nation-wide social condition
/r/askTRP17/07/16 02:22 PM
5

nobody is forcing her to stay with him. she should know where the door is by now
/r/askTRP17/07/16 06:25 AM
3

time to internally start nexting her, get your mind ready for it. disrespect is a big deal hit the gym more, tomorrow morning no excuses. as a side bonus, your next plate will appreciate it you can give your LTR a chance to correct her behavior, but that's unacceptable. does she think she's one of the guys or something?
/r/askTRP17/07/16 06:24 AM
9

she doesn't exist right now. carry no anger or sadness about it. don't talk to her until she gracefully caves in. if she never caves, she never gets to be back in your life. if she tries to be rude to get you to break silence, keep ignoring her. it is important to win these little battles because they set the tone for behavior which you will and won't tolerate. if you apologize or deny it's an issue, you condone it and it will only get worse because she'll feel she did nothing wrong girls don't …
/r/askTRP17/07/16 06:13 AM
21

more important question: is he withholding his commitment? dick has no value that's like your boy asking what to do if a girl won't commit but will fuck. what's the problem here??
/r/askTRP17/07/16 06:08 AM
1

coffee or ice cream I was doing coffee as a 30yo, and would again. it's cheap and noncommittal. you can make her pay just to fuck with her too. it's only $2, so only the catty bitches that aren't worth your time will complain about that. that's like test #2. it's worth $2 to find out a girl should be nexted immediately (test #1 is getting them away from the dinner date idea)
/r/askTRP17/07/16 04:15 AM
2

there are some bad mother fuckers out there with bald heads. stop whining about insecurities that aren't even weak features
/r/askTRP17/07/16 04:12 AM
4

best answer really 21-year-old girls don't just break up with dudes because they want to be single. she's got her eye on a dick that probably isn't giving her the time of day, so she didn't get far (this time)
/r/askTRP17/07/16 04:10 AM
3

actually had a girl approach me after a one-week class. she said bluntly that I was handsome before the class departed, and basically ran away to her car after I said thanks not even buff yet, just not skinny anymore
/r/askTRP16/07/16 03:07 PM
1

after a week? give yourself some time like the other post here said change your mindset well before you change your actions and it will come naturally
/r/askTRP16/07/16 03:05 PM
2

yup there doesn't have to be any drama. if she leaves just remember she's not yours, it's just your turn this is only IF she leaves. words don't really matter, just pay attention to what she does. I would mostly ignore her conversations about leaving. at most give her a "do what you want to do in life" comment here or there. I wouldn't want to hold anyone back, even if she's just a plate. you're supposed to be leaving them better than you found them also you only see your gf 2x a week? that soun…
/r/askTRP16/07/16 03:01 PM
2

maybe your most trusted family member then. don't let a psychologist rope you in for more than just a few sessions, unless you think you really need it. I hate seeing people get conned into bullshit as far as today, like the other comment said--exercise. for me it didn't sink in until I tried to go to work the next Monday. I shouted the loudest I ever have because I couldn't find a parking spot lol and I halfway broke down. I took that week off work you're gonna have to take it one day at a time…
/r/askTRP12/06/16 09:51 PM
3

are you military or DOD??
/r/askTRP12/06/16 09:08 PM
18

get your finances in order ASAP and isolate them from her. lawyer up and start the separation process immediately as far as talking, reach out to any buddies you might have and grab a beer or coffee with them and maybe they'll help you talk through it. your social circle can do so much more than some financially-motivated piece of work if you have the right friends and family lots of men go through this, but it doesn't make your story less significant. there are lots here that you can also talk …
/r/askTRP12/06/16 09:05 PM
3

might sit down later and pick through it. skimming through, I read only three sentences from the most upvoted post: the first one, he admits one of the points we have here are correct the second, he assumes men and women behave exactly the same about sex and n-counts the third, he doesn't understand the differences between the TRP paths as he mentioned the "logic loop" of chasing girls but thinking their sluts for fucking a man this is your typical leftist hivemind ignorant child you find on Red…
/r/askTRP06/06/16 07:02 PM
0

debts, stocks, maybe even an etf if you're gay
/r/askTRP25/05/16 01:09 AM
3

that's the logic of a 16-year-old girl good luck with that
/r/askTRP22/05/16 11:21 PM
3

lol you're right, dwell on the past and let others control you through past actions or be a man and depend on no one but your damn self
/r/askTRP22/05/16 10:42 PM
1

of its a romantic interest I'll hold a gaze for a little longer than what's "comfortable".. on purpose if it's a stranger or interesting convo, I'll more or less apply what you described
/r/askTRP22/05/16 07:10 PM
2

look for IOIs before you pull the trigger if you're not comfortable. you don't have the confidence to hop into this yet, and it seems like you need to observe girls' behavior a bit more you gotta be socially aware, and if you're afraid of being a creep then it's clear you're probably not getting IOIs and may in fact be coming off as a creep focus inward and build yourself up from the inside out. worry about external validation when you gain more confidence when you're a little more sure of yours…
/r/askTRP22/05/16 07:02 PM
1

respect is gone and he now owes her for his weakness/betrayal
/r/askTRP22/05/16 06:51 PM
1

eye contact until they break first, then you can drop the act. the first break is (sometimes) an unrealized act of submission. after that, it's already established also depends on the person. if I don't care to be around them or think their opinion is shit, I wil barely make eye contact
/r/askTRP22/05/16 06:49 PM
3

I believe you want to believe that I don't think you've fully realized that no one is going to swoop in to rescue you. I'll give you this: it's disheartening, but the only rational answer is to keep moving on and keep bettering yourself. you can cry all you want along the way, just don't do it in front of people that need you to be strong
/r/askTRP22/05/16 06:46 PM
1

you have about a 5% chance of this working, so you don't need to waste so much time thinking about it shoot a half-assed text and forget about it
/r/askTRP22/05/16 06:04 PM
2

learn to cope the one you need to rely on is yourself, no excuses your parents didn't do this to you. your cult didn't do this to you. pull yourself up
/r/askTRP22/05/16 06:02 PM
13

diet, stronglifts, core, and cardio for the average joe. any more than this is just broscience planks are pretty rad
/r/askTRP22/05/16 05:59 PM
1

ha some guys prefer hard mode, and that's perfectly fine but don't mistake it for intimidation. time is value, and I'm not wasting that on what I perceive to be a caution sign
/r/askTRP22/05/16 05:40 PM
1

I was married once to an intelligent girl for some years. I can appreciate a smart woman in the workplace, but my cock cannot appreciate one in the bedroom all of that knowledge (power) can turn against you. combine this with a woman's superior social skills, and innate desire to pump out shit tests, and you have yourself a grade A challenger on board your own ship threatening to throw you overboard explaining thought processes isn't always necessary for a leader as long as trust exists tell her…
/r/askTRP22/05/16 05:06 PM
1

err on the side of too alpha. if you're saying your nice, even a little bit, you're most likely seen as a complete pushover you might overshoot as you get used to the idea. don't be afraid of that. be polarizing. they need to love you or hate you check sidebar for shit like kino, ABC, and escalation. stay away from PUA bullshit
/r/askTRP22/05/16 04:56 PM
1

hotel or bust if she doesn't like that idea but also supplies no other ideas from her side, soft next
/r/askTRP22/05/16 04:54 PM
1

right on. the less you think about it, the easier it is worst case scenario is that she makes a scene. and even that isn't bad because it gives you an opportunity to respond maturely, like a man, like a rock
/r/askTRP22/05/16 04:53 PM
1

that's fair. intelligence is a personal preference I can't relate to, but it is common and the other points?
/r/askTRP22/05/16 04:48 PM
2

reply if you want to reward her good behavior, but also only if you see her as a LTR candidate other answers here are good too. just pick the path that you want to take with this one based on how she behaves and what you approve in a relationship
/r/askTRP22/05/16 04:20 PM
3

all good. she's just a girl man. let her feel her feels
/r/askTRP22/05/16 04:18 PM
3

nothing is wrong with you. it's good that you can admit this lots of guys are shamed into the "superficial/shallow" argument by low SMV women
/r/askTRP22/05/16 04:08 PM
2

you just started. if you feel like this in 12 months, only then would I be concerned. don't stop lifting
/r/askTRP22/05/16 03:59 PM
1

sex is your responsibility. train her if you don't like the status quo good mother someday? nothing wrong here so she can't stimulate you at an intelligent level? are you trying to put your dick in her degree? desire is the only hangup I see. you may need to create it yourself by controlling your environment. make her do shit you like it honestly sounds like you'd rather date a dude it's all about beauty, loyalty, and morality for me so maybe I'm biased here
/r/askTRP22/05/16 03:56 PM
2

how long ago did you start working on yourself? normally it's the small things. you get hit with waves after workouts, when you walk into a room and notice some heads turn, or when you say something loudly and your plate gets startled/flustered for a split second
/r/askTRP22/05/16 03:49 PM
1

for "cheating" if you want to call it that I'm not going to argue against male:female instinct. but I also have strong loyalty with my girl as long as she's by my side. she's expressed she doesn't want to know details, which reinforces that girls would rather be lied to than to get their feelings hurt. makes sense to me males have a drive to spread their seed. females have a drive to attach themselves to the most attainable alpha in their reach. monogamy is an idea created by a gynocentric socie…
/r/askTRP22/05/16 03:42 PM
2

definitely an AMOG attempt I wouldn't act cocky toward him though. just keep validating him and he will eventually stop with the AMOGing. point being, he will stop seeing you as a threat to the pecking order, and in the mean time you'll continue improving yourself and attacking his frame as you go (in other words, learn how to bust his balls too--all in good fun) with the conversations he's trying to sabotage, a sly smirk usually fades away whatever he's saying by the time you speak to the girl.…
/r/askTRP22/05/16 03:30 PM
3

it's normal. keep on keepin on with business as usual
/r/askTRP22/05/16 03:25 PM
0

it effectively started by recruiting protection (law enforcement). congrats, women can now fly off the handle without fear of repercussion in day-to-day conversations. as boys, we're taught you can't say whatever the fuck offensive shit you want unless you're the biggest guy in earshot. you get fucked up man-to-man. and men learn from this women never received this lesson, nor were they ever punished for it. take this and multiply it by Facebook to achieve maximum gain. we now have a social move…
/r/askTRP22/05/16 03:14 PM
1

well it's only been 2 months. post-wall girls are aggressive. they are always fast-tracking to the ring and kids because the clock is ticking. you say you care, so cut her loose and she will eventually feel like you saved her time idk how many LTRs you've been in, but it's pretty bad that you're already falling for the time-sink fallacy. that's the one where you feel like it's just easier to stay in the relationship because of how much time you've already spent together. there will probably be l…
/r/askTRP22/05/16 03:05 PM
1

well the fact Trump has so many silent supporters makes me still believe this is on the horizon. he says a lot of shit that the "movement" wishes they had the balls to say the media slanders him mostly on the topic of sexism, and people still vote for him
/r/askTRP22/05/16 05:16 AM
1

you say good LTR, but it doesn't sound good she can have the best of intentions and still represent things you don't like (social media and everything associated with the wall). you can't change her the nice guy stays in a relationship just because he's afraid of hurting someone's feelings
/r/askTRP22/05/16 03:57 AM
2

very possible. she could take it to the grave. that's why you gotta put the focus on yourself in the end. that's the person you control the red flags will be there to help you catch a bad egg before disaster. odds are you'll miss one or two red flags because no one is perfect. however, damage control is your job so do your best if the thought of her sucking some other dude off puts a knot in your stomach, you're not in a healthy place right now. condition yourself to understand it is a possibili…
/r/askTRP22/05/16 02:39 AM
2

you're still young I'm over 30 and was wandering around in my mid-20s with a broken woman with baggage for way too long the bounce back has been amazing and it only gets better from here I've just recently started planning to have kids. never thought I would revisit this idea before also the other commenter here pointed out an important thing. only compare yourself to who you were yesterday, never your peers
/r/askTRP22/05/16 02:32 AM
0

I landed a few without even breaching the phone number. it just proves that phone numbers aren't an IOI. she's either into you or she isn't at the end of the day
/r/askTRP22/05/16 02:24 AM
2

it's probably harder said than done I'm sure. it will likely take some time to get used to moving on without their blessings
/r/askTRP22/05/16 02:22 AM
8

I would keep in mind that she isn't mine and that it was just my turn. I wouldn't shun her when she returns, but I would keep my guard up and watch for red flags to pop up. changes in behavior being the biggest one to watch for. I'd treat her like I'm meeting her all over again I would also keep spinning plates while she's gone, but this is a moral item that a lot of people differ on
/r/askTRP22/05/16 02:20 AM
11

stop qualifying yourself to your parents smile, nod, and keep on your diet
/r/askTRP22/05/16 02:15 AM
1

you're not a performing monkey
/r/askTRP22/05/16 01:16 AM
1

include ages
/r/askTRP22/05/16 01:15 AM
1

two facts are present here: you're not happy you can change this you're in the right place, so you know what to do. it doesn't matter what we say here, just pull the damn trigger and follow your instinct
/r/askTRP22/05/16 01:09 AM
0

el correcto I hope OP got a piss facial
/r/askTRP22/05/16 01:05 AM
18

also the white knight trend is still growing guys everywhere are waiting for excuses to throw themselves on hot coals for self-righteous women. all whilst liking each other's statuses along the way it's not going to stop growing until the trend of boys being raised by men begins. with laws the way they are, we're a long way from that even little 10-year-old boys are going on cooking shows to win it for their mothers who "have it so hard" (his own (mother's) words). it's fucking disgusting to wat…
/r/askTRP21/05/16 11:12 PM
1

that's weak hard next like a god damn man
/r/askTRP18/05/16 03:01 AM
1

very probable
/r/askTRP18/05/16 02:58 AM
11

she's still giving you dome. if it was me, I'd ride that out whilst spinning other plates she's pressing the girlfriend card pretty hard with the homecooked meals bit already. not a red flag, but she's trying to nuzzle right in there without giving up the ghost again. she prob feels slutty for giving into her emotions and fucking on date 2 you may have to withdraw emotionally if you're not getting what you want sexually. don't act butthurt, just don't be available as often
/r/askTRP17/05/16 01:28 PM
11

for a normal guy, you need to use and abuse TRP until it's part of you. let it reinforce the (accidental) correct ways you were raised and filter out the bad/incorrect ways you were raised then gtfo no need to stick around a web forum full of new (angry) guys beyond one or two waves. take what you can, give what you can, then leave. the mods (at least ones from 2014) are the ones who picked me up a few notches, so I believe they're the ones who should be and will always guide the theories here y…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 01:13 PM
2

right it's also an open offer from a position of weakness. it lets her know she can have it if she wants sex is a choice women have, but no need to highlight that under the guise of ultimatum. she knows
/r/askTRP17/05/16 01:07 PM
3

"I just wanna hold hands"
/r/askTRP17/05/16 10:25 AM
1

next time tell her to shut her stupid whore mouth in a playful manner obviously
/r/askTRP17/05/16 10:24 AM
1

hardcore. I remember you here from 2 years ago
/r/askTRP16/05/16 02:58 PM
3

yup overall TRP lingo is a no go in the public world. very cringe-worthy
/r/askTRP16/05/16 08:03 AM
3

wow you're insecure af do you know how many women are out there in this world?
/r/askTRP16/05/16 08:01 AM
8

you also need to find a better balance with how you apply TRP in a gynocentric society (specifically the education system) rape culture is very real and it has absolutely no mercy for the aggressive male. you can get legally fucked up if you press too many buttons with the nearest crazy girl in your circle in other words tone it down with the grabbing/slapping because that's how lawsuits begin and ruin people's entire lives you definitely need to break the barrier of implied consent before doing…
/r/askTRP16/05/16 05:14 AM
3

you're being an emotional bitch. snap out of it never ask for exclusivity. there are no conditions where this is ok
/r/askTRP16/05/16 05:06 AM
1

I read your comment ITT she doesn't ever make it above plate status
/r/askTRP16/05/16 05:05 AM
6

the rule of thumb is ignore the drama unless you have a pair of titties
/r/askTRP16/05/16 05:02 AM
2

ah, it's mostly going to be a social networking opportunity most environments like this I've been involved in, your peers really don't give a fuck about what you have to say unless you grab their interest include some inner dialogue on your cat story, or say some really messed up stuff at an A&A level like "I always wanted a pet that I could completely ignore" or "this is my first of 35 cats I plan to own by next year". whatever type of humor that feels comfortable to you, definitely use
/r/askTRP16/05/16 04:49 AM
1

this. also see about ordering flowers online for her. request her address repeatedly but don't tell her why you need it. just say it's a surprise
/r/askTRP16/05/16 04:36 AM
1

you will get a lot of pushback by changes in behavior. whatever direction you choose to go, you need to be the rock TRP mid-LTR is the true hard mode
/r/askTRP16/05/16 04:34 AM
1

lol what were you thinking in 12 years she'll be 50 it's actually a blow to the ego to get rejected by a 38-year-old woman at your age
/r/askTRP16/05/16 04:30 AM
2

when you start losing adoration for your wife is when you need to reevaluate the marriage. respect isn't something she requires in a healthy relationship, so this is not a bad thing
/r/askTRP16/05/16 04:24 AM
1

texting too little can at times communicate you're not that interested. I believe there are girls out there that can pick up on this vibe and next you based on interest level
/r/askTRP16/05/16 04:22 AM
1

it's ok to fuck down. I argue it can be necessary after so much rejection like other guy said, examine your SMV. keep improving physically, mentally, emotionally, socially, spiritually, etc
/r/askTRP16/05/16 04:10 AM
2

yeah I would have too much fun with that "blah blah ladies man how many girls you gonna blah blah?" gasp "I would never!" /s this is not quite downplaying, but it would be fun as well
/r/askTRP16/05/16 04:05 AM
1

what about a little sister?
/r/askTRP16/05/16 03:58 AM
20

bp can absolutely work I can also win the lottery and hatefuck Meghan Trainor within the next week
/r/askTRP16/05/16 03:57 AM
8

ehh they are just making your girls wetter for you when they hear it downplay with positive tone will work since they're amplifying for you. and if they want to argue against you when you downplay, it's like a jackpot because they'll whip out your accolades in front of girls that's like gold and whether they know it or not, they're helping you a lot
/r/askTRP16/05/16 03:52 AM
7

accurate male-to-male you often get the douchebag vibe because confidence/arrogance don't translate the same way. most of the time if you see a douchebag, you're seeing someone doing it right. you're just calling him a douchebag out of jealousy. it was hard to accept this at first
/r/askTRP16/05/16 03:50 AM
2

bottom line is you can only control yourself. focus on your abundance mentality because that alone is where your security lies. if you start worrying she's your only one and she might leave you, it becomes a downward spiral that hurts all parties involved. she very well could leave you, and you very well could land a girl that's 2x as attractive. it's rarely ever 100% negative outcome look out for unreasonable motions of disrespect. if you feel attacked at any level by a woman, it's because it's…
/r/askTRP16/05/16 03:34 AM
0

these guys are mostly full of shit. you feel this way because it's your gut feeling. trust it this doesn't mean act like a fool and be overt. this means be very fucking vigilant and pay attention to her responses to your cues, as well as overall behavior. take mental notes of any red flags if a better man takes your girl, then he was the better man. you'll find others
/r/askTRP16/05/16 01:53 AM
5

you can only control yourself either don't let them come around, or don't whine. if she acts up anyway, it's not acceptable
/r/askTRP15/05/16 03:36 PM
1

it's my understanding one should start with relatively high risk and slowly move toward low risk as they age. losing all of your money at age 18 is so, so much more acceptable than when your 40 OP is 25, and in my book that means he needs lots of exposure. this doesn't mean penny stocks in the slightest, but it means (for example) dumping some $ into low revenue gas & oil companies while oil has just started it's uptrend. mutual funds are not going to give him bang for his buck like watching a c…
/r/askTRP15/05/16 03:34 PM
1

I use cheap brokers since I'm low income as I was just divorce raped using 3 brokers. TDAmeritrade, Robinhood, and Ustocktrade. TDA has good data, but is $10 per trade. RH is free, but cash only. ustocktrade is $1 per trade but again cash only (almost immediate cash settling, so I can day trade against SEC rules) gonna stop trading on TDA and RH to use UST only I don't bother with the reading as you typically only get one point of view from a book. I've been researching online. check out investo…
/r/askTRP14/05/16 09:55 PM
1

refer to my comment in the thread. this advice was being pushed during a time when things were different
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:58 PM
1

this is fine. it's also call mgtow gaming applies to pickup game. it's putting on a show to impress girls. most here aren't interested in that either you're supposed to be gaming yourself anyway. improve from the inside out
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:26 PM
1

good advice if he was about 10-20 years older
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:19 PM
1

being 25, you need to have a larger amount of your savings in stocks than most people suggest the old adage applied to people who weren't living as long as us, and when the economy wasn't dicking us. a lot of people no longer believe in market growth since you're so young, now is the time for risk exposure. once you cross 30/35/40 etc, then it's time to scale back on individual stocks and increase on bonds, focus on dividend stocks, etc Jim Cramer just talked about this last night, but plenty of…
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:13 PM
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