dragons_fire77 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	What things does your bf/husband do that annoy you? The best suggestion would be to do it in a confined space like the bathroom, exactly for that reason. I trim my nails over the tub and it's easy to throw away after.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 09:12 PM
1	What things does your bf/husband do that annoy you? What action does a rough cloth accomplish? Exfoliating. I think the previous person wasnt aware that both men and women should exfoliate occasionally to help with skin sloughing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 09:10 PM
–	Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit. Yes. I ask men out. I pay for dates, or I default pay for myself. I paid for our wedding. I bought my husband a ring. He bought one for me. I pay for our house. He pays for vacations. I make a good salary, I pay more in the relationship because I earn more. And to add to the "not all women" argument, every single one of my close friends also makes more than their husbands and either outright pays for their house or pays for most of it. They also paid for their weddings. We exist, there are a gro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 04:01 PM
19	Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about. To add to cardio suggestion, sex for myself and my husband got immensely better when I started doing a whole lot more core work, and he started doing more arm work. Certain positions/angles are great if you can hold yourself up for a while.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 03:21 AM
2	Why do single-moms volountarily struggle alone??? We can definitely agree there. It's equally important to understand that most people are going to be good people. It's disingenuous for people to go into every relationship with a mindset of "What are you hiding from me?". That would be awful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 05:38 AM
7	Social media and dating - What exactly did changed? Social media has made us all exceptionally more narcissistic. It created echo chambers that portrayed life in ways that are absolutely not realistic offline. It gave very loud platforms to people with very little knowledge but a whole ton of charisma to peddle 'the truth' (this is across the board for every gender and every political leaning). These people who take advantage of others struggling to figure themselves out. It gave platforms for people with ill-intent to start pushing fractious com…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 05:04 AM
4	Why do single-moms volountarily struggle alone??? The one guy who turned out to be a terrible person was 6'4, extremely handsome, made over 300k a year, was a manager a large software company, was very friendly, seemed like an adoring husband and father. Sounds ideal? Sounds competent? He turned out to be taking porno videos of his 3 year old kid and putting them online. Literally not a single person suspected it. Not everyone in the world is a monster. Not everyone is lying. I never implied that was the case. We would all be miserable if we as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 04:22 AM
4	Why do single-moms volountarily struggle alone??? That's why I said 'people'. I didn't specify it was only men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 04:13 AM
5	Why do single-moms volountarily struggle alone??? I personally know two highly educated (one has a masters in comp sci, one has a BA in chem engineering), high EQ women who found out their husbands were complete liars. It was a shock to every single friend, parent, and sibling. I know, through a friend, a highly educated man who found out after 3 years his wife was a massive liar. It's not an excuse, it's an unfortunate reality. It does happen. It's perfectly fine to assume the best intentions about your partner, and take them at face value. Th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 04:07 AM
10	Why do single-moms volountarily struggle alone??? There's people who will lie through their teeth for years about who they really are. They'll pretend to be a doting partner, someone perfect, and then as soon as the marriage is signed or as soon as a baby is born, the real demon underneath shows up. Are there people who were willfully blind to red flags? Yes. Does that take away from the amount of fake people out there? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 03:51 AM
27	Women who get the ick = porn brained men I think this is in line with my rising concern about things like media literacy and identifying things that are sarcastic/rage-baity/etc. I feel like there needs to be classes/education on how to navigate social media nowadays for everyone's own mental well-being. It used to be easier to immediately identify a troll and know who was bringing positive intentions vs not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 02:44 AM
14	Women who get the ick = porn brained men I will counter with younger people (men and women) are not someone I want to turn to in order to understand the inner workings of men and women as a whole. People over 30 have matured with their likes/dislikes. Their crazy idealisms have come back to earth. Younger people may think, in their heads, they like something, but once they experience it, they realize they don't like it at all. And this isn't to shit on younger people, I was young and I had some pretty sky-high requirements for my futur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 02:17 AM
2	Women who get the ick = porn brained men This argument seems to rely on the core concept of women liking 'masculine' men. That's not true. I feel like a lot of discourse has funneled everything into "this one specific type of man is what women want". The truth is, there's a different set of likes and dislikes for everyone. There's women who want to be doms and like a sub man. There's women who like hyper masculine men, and wants to be the more submissive, gentle partner. There's women who want something in-between. Some women want athl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 01:59 AM
1	Its not that women lack empathy. Too many men conflate coddling with empathy. Ah, so I wonder if my phrasing was one of the bigger sticking points here? "It's not about you" is a pretty shitty phrase, I'll admit, it was a callback to the Black Lives Matter movement where the whole concept was just meant to bring attention to people in black communities that feel unsafe around cops. It wasn't implying that all cops are evil-doers, or that 'only black lives' matter. Just a raise awareness slogan. They started to throw around the phrase "It's not about you" back then when th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 11:56 PM
-1	Its not that women lack empathy. Too many men conflate coddling with empathy. Comedy is a type of 'safe' discourse. The reason court jesters existed was because they were allowed to pick apart the monarchs under the guise of it being a joke. What Bill Burr brings up is an actual perspective that men have, and it was something I wouldn't have considered if I hadn't listened to him and thought about the underlying problems men and women have with communication that he was addressing. The 'no reason' skit was one that was pretty outrageous, but the deeper conversation around…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 11:28 PM
7	When Will Start Recognizing Womens Sexual Abuse They absolutely are. There's just a weird group of people who make comments like "I wish she were my teacher".	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 11:08 PM
1	When Will Start Recognizing Womens Sexual Abuse If anything, I think the increase in views of female predators is showing that there are people, no matter their gender, that are okay with victimizing people under their power. Men, primarily, were in positions of power for many years. Now that more women are in those spots, we see they're capable of it, too. I'm okay with making it less of a gender war topic and pushing that it's not okay to take advantage of someone while you're in a position of authority, period.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 11:06 PM
1	Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men. I'm trying to understand how single mothers, who are considered less attractive options due to having 'baggage', and a man who cheated on his exes are similar. That's pretty insulting to single moms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 10:48 PM
-5	Its not that women lack empathy. Too many men conflate coddling with empathy. I know you probably meant this comment in a generalized sense of lack of empathy for men, but the man vs bear example is one of those 'it isn't about you' situations. It wasn't meant to be taken so literally or about you specifically, it was meant to be shocking and increase discussions about 'Why the hell would women choose a bear?'. I thought it was kind of stupid myself before I saw a huge debate back and forth and it actually made more sense. I absolutely understand why, initially, a man wou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 10:24 PM
3	What according to you is the real issue why so many men can't get dates/sex in this modern era I think this is a pretty good summary. I'd potentially add that there seems to be an increasing nihilistic outlook on the state of the world in general that is leading to fewer romances. A lot of the younger generation feels like there's not much they can do, and I think it's also translating into how they approach/don't approach relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 10:08 PM
2	Pro choice for men No, women shouldn't be forced to get abortions. That's a pretty gross overstepping of bodily autonomy. However if the man wants an abortion and she doesn't then he shouldn't have any financial or legal responsibility for the child.	/r/MensRights	07/10/20 07:59 PM
8	Feminism and some views on the draft. They want rights first and obligatons only after women control everything. This girl needs to rethink her argument. The fact that we are not forced into the draft is because we are considered 'sex objects' by the government. Shouldn't all feminists want to be put into the draft just to spite the government?	/r/MensRights	01/12/10 03:36 PM