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drase/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 12:55 AM
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I know exactly how you feel. Gym saved my life. And the results will make you more marketable to the opposite sex. Get a gym membership and a therapist, trust me bro…they are both worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/26 12:09 PM
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No, she immediately started having sex with someone else.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/25 02:50 PM
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Nope….mine has no remorse or regret at all.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/25 06:02 PM
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Ya man, sounds like no intention to change. I wish I had left years earlier.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/25 05:28 PM
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Attraction was the main reason I’m divorcing. For the past 5 years, I would explain what I needed…and nothing, fell on deaf ears. She would be naked in front of me and I felt nothing. There was more, but this was the main issue. You will turn into roommates with animosity. I recommend to lay it out for her crystal clear so she knows exactly what you need. If no change, bounce.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/25 04:43 PM
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10+ months here and still shocked of how fast she moved on. Literally started day she moved out with one of the movers half her age. After 16 yrs together. She is such a POS now. Lies and stalls about everything.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/25 12:38 PM
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100% this. The deafening silence of an empty house. Lines are drawn with friends. Family members from her side that are instantly cut off that I liked. The loss of the future together. After 16 years and in my late 40’s it’s so hard.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 01:49 PM
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As I was told…Divorces are expensive because they are worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/25 01:07 AM
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Not in SC….even in separation, cheating is adultery which bars you from alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/25 12:07 PM
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This happened to me but the hoe started cheating with the mover immediately. I had to wait for the Financial Separation to be signed, not sure if your state has this. It took everything I had because she kept stalling but so glad I did. I’m protected now and divorce is brutal enough, even worse if you get hit hard financially. Then I blew up on the bitch and there is nothing she could do, I have a court order enforcing everything. So, think long term and protect your bag first, once that is secu…
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/25 12:05 PM
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Good, you will avoid having go through Deed and mortgage reassignment or refinance.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/25 07:47 PM
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Not unless she agrees to less.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/25 07:46 PM
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Having the house in your name is good, don’t have to do a deed change. Is the mortgage in your name only also?
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/25 06:01 PM
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Becoming a gym rat. Literally life saving. My cats help so much. Gave me a reason to keep living. Family helps. Hobbies.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/25 05:57 PM
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Ya bro, I ignored alot of red flags….never again.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/25 12:20 PM
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Married for 15 yrs, together for 16. Separated, but have a Financial Agreement in place already separating assets. Can file for divorce in 2 months. We were millionaires…had 1.3M to be exact. My NW got knocked down to 800k…but I’m almost back to the 1M Club thanks to the market. No kids. No alimony. She could of taken 50k of my 401k but did not. Instead she immediately started cheating.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/25 12:18 PM
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This 👆
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 12:12 PM
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So true
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 11:38 AM
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So true. My parents are the only ones that care. My brothers haven’t even reached out at all. Same with friends. I will never forget this.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/25 11:05 PM
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I’m 46, she’s 43. Married for 15 yrs. Separated now for 10 months and will divorce in 2 months. She immediately started cheating with one of the movers half her age. He moved in with her within a month. Both unemployed, drink/smoke weed/do coke all day. She is 1 more complaint away from being evicted. He has been charged with a total of 4 felonies on two separate occasions, she bailed him out both times. Assuming she did not commit perjury on her Financial Affidavit she has blown through 100k in…
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/25 05:49 PM
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Ya, it bothers me. Her name is “Cheater” now in my phone.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 01:06 PM
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Doing the same thing I do every weekday. Hit the gym after work. If the gym baddie is there that I’ve been talking to might ask her out.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 06:53 PM
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This 👆
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/25 11:53 PM
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My STBX is having movers pack her stuff up literally right now. I feel relief and excitement to be free again and not constantly living in tension and contempt.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 02:13 PM
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Exactly, if shes missing the new excitement shes already thought or sought it.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 02:17 AM
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If you stay, this is the best it will be and only get worse.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 11:31 PM
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Same here, time to move on and be happy!
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 05:07 PM
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After 15 years, I’ve had enough. They don’t change unless they want to bro. No matter how much you want them to. Sick of her being the most drunk and loud at every occasion. Taking shots when everyone else is has just 1 beer. My advice, sit down when she’s sober and tell her how you feel. How it makes her and you look. If she respects and loves you, she will listen and take action. If not, she values alcohol more than you, time to leave and find a healthy relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 01:25 PM
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This ☝️
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 01:20 PM
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Remember looks will fade and she will get fat. If you don’t love her fat, don’t get married.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/24 01:14 PM
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Alcoholic. Easily offended. Anger issues. Yelling to get her way like her mom.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/24 12:42 AM
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i’m sorry dude
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 12:59 AM
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Good idea, gonna look into that.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/24 01:52 AM
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Exactly! We aren’t gay and like attractive women, just because u age and get married doesn’t mean you can blow up like a hog!!
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/24 01:51 AM
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Sadly, this is true.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/24 01:49 AM
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Nope….about 5-7 yrs now the fucker has come up
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/24 01:48 AM
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Yep. We have no kids, she has a gut that looks 3-4 months pregnant and a double chin. I see other mom’s that are in great shape and I’m like WTF!! She walks the dog everyday thats it. We would take vacations and she would hate her photos cause she looked fat…but changed nothing.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 01:28 PM
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Yes!
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 01:24 PM
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Yes, specifically her gut. She looks 3-4 months pregnant all the time. We have no kids and I see so many moms in such good shape.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 01:24 PM
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Yep, we’ve had a dead bedroom for years now. I’ve told her why as she’s complained and nothing changes!!!
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 01:22 PM
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Avoided having kids
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 12:46 PM
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how would you dealt with it?
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 02:01 AM
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15 yrs here….plus now she’s gotten chunky. Time to bounce!
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 12:29 PM
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Party girl, raging alcoholic, short tempered, anger issues.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 02:22 AM
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Yes
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 02:20 AM
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Yes, exercise. It is physically impossible after a hard exercise to be depressed as the endorphins are raging, a natural high. Self esteem will grow as you get jacked. Join a gym bro.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 01:51 AM
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