drawmatoman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	If you actually want to understand one aspect of men, then see this.		drawmatoman	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 06:42 AM

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1	as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship. I bet you have done psychological harm to others. To me, this is worse than physical harm. You already lied.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 02:05 AM
1	Everybody needs to relax… we’ve been through a crazy transition in society but I think the metaverse is going to help create new opportunities. Yeah, I figured this was the way things are going. I have been into VR for a few years now and I am surprised VRChat isn't mainstream yet. Once it is, there will be more like it. It just sucks to always feel like we're stuck in some transition period, like the financial crisis, covid, online dating, and now this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 12:52 AM
1	as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship. I disagree. There should be more physical abuse and violence because people have become soft and are scared of their own shadows. Women would finally be grateful for the protection a good man can provide, instead of going for all the narcissists. If every guy is perceived to be a potential abuser, rapist or whatnot, what is the point of being good?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 11:59 PM
1	Dating After 30 - The Dating Flip - Does It Exist? Sort of. The interest from women increases, but the bigger issue is eventually dealing with one's own lack of willingness to date and repeat the process of meeting new people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 07:37 PM
1	A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys. Asking questions about someone's life is barely going to give you an idea about someone's character. People will embellish the good and downplay the negative especially within the first few months of meeting, or just make shit up. Most people are not patient, most people are not intelligent, and most people lie. I don't conduct life based on exceptional situations & people because they are too few. What you just wrote entirely aligns with my point. It seems like you agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 02:14 PM
0	A common response to criticizing the current state of dating is “they want us to just fuck ugly dudes” when literally no one is suggesting that. Suggesting average women date in their league or slightly above is not the same as telling them to fuck fat guys. Not really. A lot of people make involuntary, knee jerk assumptions about a persons' character based on looks first, and it only changes if that person proves otherwise through some sort of repeated, consistent action. One-offs don't factor into that pre-judgement call. For example if a person has kind eyes and a kind smile, they are automatically labelled a kind person unless that person says something to be a total douche. This is not a conscious thought, it is a primal 'feeling' that one has.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 09:00 PM
1	Men should just pay for sex until they decide to get married Paying for sex has psychological and social costs for the man that are just as bad, if not worse, than cold-approaching and getting rejected. The only way it would work if it were legal, didn't cost him his career, and the worker can be an excellent actress and provide an almost identical 'girlfriend experience'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 03:56 AM
1	What is a healthy replacement for the "Manosphere" Manocylinder	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 03:50 AM
3	Men dont deserve a body positivity movement Nice try, Troll harder	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 05:38 AM
2	FDS (female dating scam) and the irony of how women always say the manosphere only exists to scam young men out of money If you're actually a straight guy, I pity you	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:31 PM
4	Attractive men are really rare because Ya'll are a bunch of darwinistic AI automatons with no free will. Biological programming	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 04:26 AM
1	FDS (female dating scam) and the irony of how women always say the manosphere only exists to scam young men out of money Lol she says to watch some polyamorous chad-lite and everything will be better!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 12:30 AM
1	How Long is Too Long to Wait For Sex? she doesn't have to, but she should stay consistent if she doesn't want frustrating experiences with guys in the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 08:17 PM
1	Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BB You missed the part where I said that I don't mention my income, and I don't flaunt how well I'm doing. I drive a 21 year old car. I've had this experience with multiple women, not just one. Other men have had this experience as well, I'm not the only one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 12:26 PM
9	Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BB Well said. The one problem is that some women are aware of this so in the early stages of dating, they pretend that they are ok with equality of effort and resources in the relationship and express desire in the way you expect/want. Over time, they start to reveal that they secretly were expecting you to provide and pay for a luxurious lifestyle for them all along (even when you emphasize that materialism is a low priority throughout the relationship and don't talk about your salary). They start…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 03:09 PM
–	Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively dating Women need to prove to men that they aren't just after attention, money, getting revenge on ex, or finding a step-dad beta bux for their existing kids. The only way to do that is for the woman to treat the man as if he is the hottest guy around and is willing to do anything to be with him. She needs to be worthy of being woo-able otherwise, pump and dump it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 07:31 PM
–	Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively dating Women always expected to be courted or wooed in some way if anything what is expected of men now is less dangerous than even what the average man was expected to do to prove himself worthy of anything never mind a partner. The problem is that those same activities have been made obsolete/illegal/shamed or just plain not available to men in modern times. There are fewer avenues for men to prove themselves. The primary avenue that remains is pure physical appearance and charisma.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 07:21 PM
1	Online dating is where low quality, leftover women (such as very overweight women, single mothers, those with mental issues) go to find prince charming and mr perfect, in an environment where men outnumber women by 3 to 1 You're arguing on PPD as well. By your logic, you're bottom of the barrel! Now prove yourself. Words mean nothing, after all. Why should anyone reveal the deepest part of themselves to you? Everyone puts up an act when they are hiding behind a screen, so don't pretend you don't do the same or don't understand that concept. This forum isn't about any individual person. This just highlights your self-centeredness. No-one cares what you or anyone says what they bring to the table. You've completely…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 07:01 PM
1	As a man, I'm super envious of attractive, healthy women. How common and justified do you think this feeling is? Take the food from the other person's plate seems to be the way to go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 05:21 PM
3	Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta Bux It is bad for society when primal instincts are allowed to run rampant. The guys who would have been savant innovators would turn all their focus to looksmaxing. Society is doomed pretty much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 02:07 PM
9	Guys cannot claim they have low standards if they wont date overweight women. Fat women should be relentlessly shamed and discouraged from participating in society. Revoke their right to vote or participate in anything until they reach an aesthetically pleasing weight. Fat women don't look human. All I see is a parasite when I see a fat woman. At least fat men have a higher degree of skill, logic and intelligence to be useful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 07:05 PM
4	What do men feel emasculated on / double standard? No, what is funny is that you just come off as feigning empathy in one hand and then immediately back-handing with the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/22 12:49 AM
6	Reducing sexual attraction down to only physical appearance and hypergamy is oversimplified and cowardly. All I hear from OP is shaming language. Cowardly this, cowardly that. How about women stop being cowards and lose some fat? After all, blaming factors out of your control is 'cowardly'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 04:15 AM
1	Natural selection is favoring poorer people with little education; people with higher earnings and better education are being selected against Sometime between the stone age and the bronze age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 05:00 AM
3	This sub is toxic for women (as well as men) Women play games and engage in toxicity towards men long before any 'pill' talk became mainstream. Men are starting to catch up and play the same game that most women were already playing since the 70's and 80's. Now you know how it feels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/22 07:55 PM
-3	The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it implies Problem is none of you are worth the effort of 'buying homes and building something' when all you do is cheat, flake, and act like children in relationships. So of course, casual sex is the default, fallback option because so few women are worth it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/22 10:26 PM
4	Women don’t make less hot men wait more - women make men wait to make sure he is interested in a relationship The guy could always sleep with others on the side, even if you make him wait. Your manipulation strategy is both futile and toxic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 08:54 PM
4	There will never be reconciliation between genders, no nature or dating market will not "correct" it If every guy earns 6+ figures and gets in shape, that wont change anything as everyone would still be considered average. Inflation would skyrocket and those 6 figures are no longer anything special. The problem is, women keep moving the goal posts since their expectations are a bottomless pit of dysfunction and excess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 03:17 PM
-1	True or false, women on this sub are more likely NOT representative of the majority of the population but the men on here ARE Agreed. The problem is that women on PPD assume that most BP/RP men here come here to complain about never having a relationship which is FAR from the truth. Many of us have had relationships (like most average men) but from experience, realize the juice is not worth the squeeze. We are here to point out WHY the juice is not worth the squeeze and how to make the juice a little bit sweeter, not to convince women to sleep with who they are not attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 02:39 PM
35	If the theory of 80/20 rule is true (which it seems to show on online dating) what explains the mismatch in attractiveness partnership irl? It's all about local demographics. If the percentage of attractive men and attractive women are equal in a 10-20 mile radius of a city, you will see looks-matched couples. If there are more single men than women, you will see attractive men pair up with plain looking women. If there are more women, then you will see the opposite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 10:26 PM
7	The Average Man is so Pathetic/Low Effort that There are No Excuses Unless You Have AWFUL Genetics and/or are extremely unlucky. This is the most brain-dead OP I have seen in a while. 'JUST TAKE DRUGS AND LIFT BRO!' So every guy should drop what they're doing and focus on becoming elite/advanced body-builders and become an expert in pharmaceuticals, lol. Because that will be so great for society! If we take your idea to its logical conclusion, most guys will be buff and fit, so being fit is no longer special nor unique. Now each guy will have to spend years developing some other skill just to stand out. Furthermore, most …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 07:14 AM
1	Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about Men Well, I wont be surprised to see a new post by you in 5 years time complaining about the 2 or 3 side chicks. Good look with keeping those wrinkles and cellulite off of you for as long as you can ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 05:55 AM
1	If you’re reading this as some who frequents PurplePillDebates, I challenge you to get below 11% body fat just once in your life I have lost 12 lbs over the last month and I'm on track to 12% by mid-August early September. If I feel good there, I'll try 11%. My lifts have been going up at the same time I have been losing weight as well. My testosterone went up by 50ng just with better diet and exercise over the last few weeks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 04:11 AM
1	Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about Men I feel sorry for your simp- I mean man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 04:07 AM
2	Isn't hypergamy a good thing from an evolutionary perspective? Black/Redpillers are growing in number and I posit that the situation will trend towards the op you replied to over time. I have felt myself become pickier over time. Women are getting lazier, fatter, and less healthy than ever before. Not to mention all the hormones in our food masculinize and androgenize them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/22 05:32 AM
2	Do you think a woman’s maintenance level changes depending on the man she’s with? You could have fulfilled all the love languages and she would have broken up for some other ridiculous reason. It is all about attractiveness and the honeymoon phase ending. I know from experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/22 02:46 AM
11	CMV: Bluepillers use red pill talking points when talking to black pillers, and black pill talking points when talking to red pillers Bluepillers and some women will go to the ends of the earth to project the notion that women's attraction and desire is somehow mystical/divine and therefore, cannot be defined in a tangible way. The ultimate intent of their obfuscation is to deflect any criticism of their behavior that results in encouraging traits in men that are contradictory to a civilized society. If you press them further, they will call you names.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/22 10:39 PM
1	So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible? If women can't lower their unreasonable standards and feel 100% attraction towards a looks-matched male, then the women might as well a sign on them that says "I am only good enough for being pumped and dumped by a Chad, so please avoid me otherwise, you are wasting your time".	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/22 03:03 AM
10	Average=invisible Above average is also invisible. The only guys who aren't invisible are the top, exceptional ones. Above average is not enough anymore. While average women still get attention and validation, even above average men can't get a minute fraction of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/22 04:20 PM
1	Men need to stop expecting women to teach them to be good lovers. It is not our poor performance that is the issue, it is your expectations that are. Take responsibility for your expectations and recognize what is compatible vs what isn't. If I can please woman A the normal way, and woman B requires three times the effort on my part, I'm just going to stay with woman A.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 05:17 PM
2	Men need to stop expecting women to teach them to be good lovers. Every woman seems to have different hangups and triggers and it is impossible to satisfy one the same way as a previous partner. Some women need a demolitions expert to intricately disarm their bomb and that is exhausting to do every single time. I'm more likely to stay around a woman who can be satisfied the 'normal' way than one who needs some complex series of theatrics, timing and vocals to get them there. I shouldn't need to be a god in bed for you to be satisfied, since I don't need a gode…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 05:07 PM
1	How do you feel when you see a not so attractive guy with a girlfriend? nah, I see male 6's with female 3's way more often than the other way around. It is prevalent in the midwest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/22 03:36 AM
6	One of the biggest reasons men will continue to struggle with women. Finasteride could make your dick not work for two months, or if you are really unlucky, never again. You will need several hair transplants to make it look like you're not balding, otherwise it will look patchy, and if you don't have enough healthy hair follicles, you will just end up with patchy/balding hair which is worse than bald. Hahahaha George Costanza and the hairpiece. Every single thing that a man needs to do to improve appearance is 100x harder and 100x more expensive than what women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/22 04:14 AM
–	Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ? All of these issues can be solved if humans were genetically engineered to be sterile until they have earned the privilege to be a responsible child-bearer. There must be minimum health, financial and social requirements for person to contribute to the gene pool and raise a child. Once they meet those requirements, they can acquire a license to breed which would be valid for 3-5 years tops. Some sort of gene therapy would be administered to 'unlock' fertility for that period of time until they c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 05:37 PM
–	Is there truth in this - If a woman doesn't give you her body, she isn't interested in you? Better to be alone forever (or just pump and dump these women as long as possible) than not being considered the hottest partner to her. If I can't have the best of her, she doesn't deserve the best of me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/22 09:39 PM
2	Beauty Overstimulation If average/below men are not good enough to procreate, then average/below women shouldn't be either. This trend should be allowed continue and men should increase their standards to match women's standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/22 02:37 AM
3	Women are attracted to winners and the majority of men are losers Looks are a core part of who you are, while jobs are external. Looks DO determine who you are as a person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/22 02:17 AM
1	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. Nope. Guys have lower standards for looks than women, but the remaining single women available have REALLY let themselves go post pandemic. OUR standards for looks cannot go any lower. Despite many of those dudes being two or three times more physically fit and active than the women they are targeting. As a 6/6/6 fit and successful guy, I have been swiping left on 90+% of the legit profiles on dating apps due to the sheer over-abundance of obviously obese women who would otherwise be attractive …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 10:26 PM
3	Do men have overall less life satisfaction?, as in they tend to enjoy life less. True, any health-related help I try to get is met with lax indifference. Calls are not returned for weeks, the receptionists (who are almost always female) either laugh at the reason you want to see the doctor or speak in a condescending tone. I end up just ordering labwork on my own and paying out of pocket because the service is faster.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/22 03:58 PM
1	Do men have overall less life satisfaction?, as in they tend to enjoy life less. Yes, women won't be happy unless they can plop on the couch in front of the TV right after work and binge on icecream while their partner does all the work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/22 03:54 PM
1	Is it that hard to be top 20% anyway? You can't have fully straight teeth with narrow jaws no matter how many braces or invisaligns you wear (you would have to wear them all the time, further deteriorating the bone in your jaw). There is no surgical remedy for a narrow lower jaw. Also, if the teeth do not have a consistent size and shape after maturity, they would need to be contoured, veneered or replaced with implants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/22 03:50 AM
3	Which group of women do short men have the best luck with? Yes, there are risks, just like there are risks with everything in life, like orthodontics and vaccinations. If MULTIPLE doctors say that your male child will never grow beyond 5'4" as an adult, it is a risk worth taking. Being an adult male below a certain height is a crippling social disability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/22 12:27 AM
1	[CMV] "Love isn't everything" This ^	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 04:21 AM
3	Which group of women do short men have the best luck with? Growth hormone given at the appropriate age can alleviate much of that problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/22 02:57 AM
6	will the Gym help his dating life? You're conflating face with personality. If he smiled more, you would probably say his smile looks creepy and forced. Some people aren't born with the right facial bones/muscle/nerves/ soft tissue composition to make a genuinely inviting facial expression.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 07:23 PM
2	Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women? Yes. Most physical pain, even forced sodomy is far less painful than a lifetime of never being secure in the thought you can get into relationship (sexual or otherwise) whenever you feel like it. How do I know? I have had an anal fissure and hemmorhoids at the same time for a period of a whole year and basically felt like I was getting sodomized by a shard of glass everytime I went to do a # 2. My shits were way bigger and harder too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 11:25 PM
2	What are the chances the men in your lives are hiding their “true selves”? I was able to hide my blackpill mentality through the dozen or so relationships I had (well-past the honeymoon phase), and the redpill helped me dodge big bullets as well. But then again, when I am in a happy relationship, all thoughts along ANY colored pill go out the window (if not, a bit purple-pilled) and only come back into the background noise of my mind if a date or relationship has signs of going awry or ends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 06:45 AM
2	how confident are you with your body? does it affect your sex life? I like my body (except for the body hair in certain areas that I want to get zapped) since it has been easy for me to put on muscle and have always been naturally strong. I would say, my body is at least 7.5/10. After I lose these 15 lbs, it should be at 8/10. After I get rid of those hairy trouble spots, 8.5/10. However, I am extremely self-conscious about the lack of facial harmony in my face. Started as a 4/10 and went up to a 5/10 after a rhinoplasty and weight loss. My acute awareness of fa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/22 05:01 PM
1	how confident are you with your body? does it affect your sex life? Palate expanders will not have any impact on forward growth. It will only matter during a smile since you will potentially be showing more teeth width-wise. Also, palate expanders don't work for the lower jaw, so if both the upper and lower jaw are narrow, you are screwed unless you can find that really rare surgeon that does full jaw reconstruction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/22 04:21 PM
2	Lack of relevant social circles is bad, here's the main reason. Now imagine all that effort you put in your whole life yielded no kids, a string of shitty relationships and an ever-churning revolving door of acquaintances that never crystalized to friendships/relationships due to factors out of your control. I bet you can't. Would the financial benefit of all that work been fulfilling enough for you? With all the professional, housing, hobby, and fitness related success I have, it all feels empty. Expressing interest in others and setting up activities was n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/22 09:24 PM
1	No matter the "pill" you take as a man, in the long run it is no match for the nit-picky nature of women True, but we need to be firm enough to manage it and control it. Not just let it run rampant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 06:13 AM
0	No matter the "pill" you take as a man, in the long run it is no match for the nit-picky nature of women I agree with all these points, and has served me well in my experience. We need to demand better of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 06:11 AM
1	What percentage of single men are losers? What makes them losers? What is it with women and obsession with new cars? Why get an auto loan for a depreciating asset if the older car works just fine? It's because women do not have a good sense of financial responsibility. In my experience, they value the external image portrayed to others and gaining some perceived status than living a good life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 06:33 AM
1	What makes women not happy about the current dating market? Most men want long term companionship but have to settle for casual sex since women's standards are so high.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 05:15 AM
1	What makes women not happy about the current dating market? Most men want long term companionship but have to settle for casual sex since women's standards are so high. If a man finds himself always punching lower, he will take whatever spoils he can get.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 05:12 AM
1	What makes women not happy about the current dating market? Most men want long lasting companionship, but resort to settling for casual sex because women's standards are so high.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 05:10 AM
1	What makes women not happy about the current dating market? Guys can get STD's and are liable for child support. Birth control is available in most places so these are shitty excuses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 05:07 AM
1	What makes women not happy about the current dating market? relationship on a silver platter, how convenient	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 05:06 AM
1	What makes women not happy about the current dating market? You've had so much intimacy in the past that it is now meaningless to you. Now you are on your high horse thinking that de-prioritizing intimacy is being 'mature'. I haven't heard something more laughable than that in my life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 05:02 AM
1	What makes women not happy about the current dating market? I had to date a woman who was an alcoholic and snored every night because I had no other options. It was the only way I could get a couple of my needs met for a couple months, which was better than nothing at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 04:57 AM
1	Do you respect someone who has consistently dated out of their supposed league less or more? We're saying you're out of touch and will never understand the issues truly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 05:53 AM
1	Is height preference more than just physical attraction? Yup, I keep seeing taller guys cowering and submitting to shorter guys that manage to crowd them in boxing. Their height gave them enough status in the social aspect such that they never felt the need to train in any martial or sports skill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 07:56 PM
1	The basic grievance that young men have -- especially with the advent of dating apps --is that "single" for a woman of childbearing age is not the same as "single" for her male age peer. The "single woman" is still getting her basic physical needs met in a way the "single" guy cannot. Women are wired and conditioned to obfuscate sexual proclivity more than men. Do you disagree?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 04:34 AM
1	The basic grievance that young men have -- especially with the advent of dating apps --is that "single" for a woman of childbearing age is not the same as "single" for her male age peer. The "single woman" is still getting her basic physical needs met in a way the "single" guy cannot. It's like any semblance of critical thought let alone basic reading comprehension escapes them. All that means is that their retorts come from a position of bad faith. "I got mine so none of your suffering matters"	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 04:30 AM