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Ask Red Pilldray121212/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 05:53 PM
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Off Topicdray121212/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 08:30 PM
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dray121212/r/askTRP27/03/14 10:59 PM
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dray121212/r/askTRP27/02/14 05:45 AM
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dray121212/r/askTRP17/04/14 04:21 AM
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dray121212/r/askTRP01/03/14 10:27 PM
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If you want advice specific to you you'd prob have to post some pics brah. Could even blur out the eyes, but facial structure, body type, etc all these things call for different and separate approaches.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 06:14 AM
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Discovering RP mid-LTR is tricky. Happened to me and almost ruined my relationship...I removed all beta actions which are necessary for LTRs. Thing is, when i mattered most ie when relationship was on the brink, I recovered and acted the way I should. If it was the opposite ie I removed all alpha and acted only beta, it would have been a point of no return and i couldn't have recovered.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 04:44 AM
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naw she never got caught...guy never found out lol it was the only bf she cheated on, and it was with the eventual new bf
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 03:36 AM
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Lol I heard a woman say, out of all the boyfriends she had had 5+ ''I could have married him''...and that was the one boyfriend she cheated on
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 12:44 AM
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Ok first of all, relationship is done bro...game over. If she found someone better she would dispose of you. You may think there is 'trust' and 'loyalty' but you would be sadly mistaken. Her 'trust' or loyalty to you only goes as far as your ability to provide her excitment/postive-emotions/vagina-tingles or security/provisioning when she needs it.... You don't have to end it right away, but in your mind and heart, you need to check out of this relationship to make it easier on yourself. I'd rec…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 05:00 PM
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u wot m8
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 07:18 AM
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I am delusional it works man
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 04:10 AM
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She is crazy...You have chose a different type of girl. Or have sick game and be able to periodically inject drama into the relationship while still maintaining frame.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 04:10 AM
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Thanks a lot bro! I have some reading to do
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 11:47 PM
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atta boy dougie
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:19 PM
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hmmm I think I see what your saying, just curious where you stand on other things. There are many things which cannot be scientifically proven that we hold as rational beliefs (like logical, mathematical truths etc); but you are suggesting that anything of metaphysical nature is not rational to accept? Like saying there are other minds or the external world is real
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:15 PM
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Thanks for the response. Do you agree that it is rational to hold certain metaphysical truths/principals though?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 09:06 PM
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What do you mean if something is metaphysical is is 'beyond reason'...Depending on the worldview you adapt, certain metaphysical truths have to be abandoned in order for said worldview to be coherent, comparable etc.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 08:17 PM
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Attraction/arousal first , then comfort. In fact the comfort thing is really an illusion, based on how attracted she is.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 05:40 PM
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Females need some type of external morality and ethics placed upon them, because they lack the ability to moderate themselves based on anything but their own emotions. To be fair, most men need this too.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 05:38 PM
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I wouldn't take this too personally man... Classic female solipsism...It cannot be avoided. Even with the most sweet, thoughtful, caring etc women. If they are in any state of emotional distress/unhappiness they literally have zero conception/awareness of your mind, thoughts and emotions. The good ones will at least have some semblance of awareness after the fact and maybe offer an apology.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 05:28 PM
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Knock her off pedestal Pipe other broads Be more unavailable...etc etc
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 04:30 AM
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One can only assume posts like these come from those who have very little experience in life.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 12:40 AM
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Basically bro....I wish I screen shotted some of my convos back in the day... Also you have to email girls who are online because they will likely never even open 75% of their messages girl i met off there told me she only clicked on my message cause i had a cool profile pic, and that she probably didn't read 90% of messages (got 100 a day minimum)
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:37 AM
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Ya I think a lot of dudes on here just assume be rough and dominant throw girl around and fuck her super hard and tada your an alpha..it is far from the truth no homo, but you have to me aggressive yet sensual...kissing is important, not just the technique etc but the emotion and pulling her head back biting lip neck etc w.e also just bending a g over and plowing her full speed from behind...not the best move i personally like positions that, for example, if she tried to escape, she couldn't...i…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 11:56 PM
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Oh btw me and my buddy made a fake profile with some photos off facebook of a girl he smashed, solid 9 (19 yrs old), and no lie, within an hour there was like 400 messages...it was retarded. And no homo, the quality of guys on those sites is pretty high...Id bet a lot of them have girlfriends also and they keep it as a side thing. Infact a couple of my bros who are cheaters often used tinder or POF, and ive herd countless girls break up with there bfs because of seeing them on tinder or POfF Qua…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 11:50 PM
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I hardly go out but I kill da online sites my cyber game is sick b Just write a message unique to that person ie actually read there profile..if the response is positive proceed with whatever RP e-game u see fit i got responses most times, the older ladies were the easiest to woe (35+) as well as the real young ones (18-19) (i had my age as 22 and was 20 when using it i hanv't used it in a year) Had difficulties with ones my age range unless they were the more academic/nerdy types I also went on…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 11:36 PM
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Thats exactly right. If you dont live a life or have an SMV that automatically instills dread, unfortunately you have to use a lot of game in your LTRs....
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 04:49 PM
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Ofcourse...again there is a threshold. There are guys out there with insane athletic ability that dont have to work hard to be pros yet others with decent abilities that work there ass off
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 03:18 AM
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Common brahs... We are past this...
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 03:15 AM
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That's why it's called GAME brah...Tip the odds in our favor via manipulation/techniques and win this shit.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 01:10 AM
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Great advice. I end up laying mad pipe using that strategy.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 06:30 PM
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Cheers my man
/r/askTRP18/04/14 06:23 PM
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Piping hoes is fun for guys...and fulfilling. Riding the cock carousel is fun for woman...not fulfilling though. In fact, quite damaging; at least for MOST.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 06:29 PM
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Thanks again for the responses brother. What I want is for the relationship to remain as it is. I'm happy with the role we play in each others lives and the amount of time we have together. She was happy with it aswell, until recently. Maybe it is a combination of her current circumstances, coupled with anxiety about the future of out relationship, that is giving her issues. Light at the end of the tunnel...that's a good way to put it man. Perhaps I'm not providing that as far as our relationshi…
/r/askTRP17/04/14 05:46 PM
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The distance isn't really the strain tbh. I mean even if we were close we wouldn't be living together...I wont go into detail about her situation but it will probably be another 3-6 months before she gets her life back on track. She isn't exactly in a position to even have 'more' in a relationship. I'd say she has a lot of stuff she has to focus on herself, which is actually what left to us being together in the first place; it worked well with both our lives and what we wanted at the time. Now …
/r/askTRP17/04/14 05:24 AM
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i meant it in an endearing way bro, like that was a good move on your part And I should explain better, I mean emotionally with yourself you have to be patient. I've had those intense fleeting emotions and have learned that you can experiance them while at the same time not act in accordance to them if you know what I mean. Like with this girl you were crazy about her and it obviously effected your actions and general approach to woman, so much so that you overlooked the redflags.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 04:47 AM
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My approach is to be a misogynistic troll...You have to be so outrageous that they are never sure if you are serious or trolling. Laugh shit off, chance subjects, be trolling, show empathy. Basically just be a self-amusing retard man its amazing i love it it works mate.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 04:34 AM
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snap out of it mate
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 04:31 AM
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great move you sick cunt im not as dark triad as you but when it comes to potential LTR situtions I advise patience...you cannot trust your brain in these times. It is nice to experience those positive feelings even if they are just lust, so long as you don't get delusions and start thinking about the future
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 04:30 AM
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Just gotta accept it man...she may have no regrets, blame you for everythign etc etc who gievs a shit
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 04:39 AM
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Exactly bro! I have found this especially crucial in relationships...Early stages girl gets all emotional yada yada I would be calm cool collected and just overall positive and the result would always be favorable...Then as the LTR progresses and this would happen I'd start getting to serious, over introspective and not as positive etc when in reality the same approach should apply.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 06:41 PM
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You have to realize the majority of the male population even ones with decent aesthetics and apparent SMV are absolute clueless sheep etc sauntering their way through life If you have genetic disadvantages, of course work on being the best physical version of yourself
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 06:35 PM
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Think about what most woman do in a situation where they willingly engage in sex with a married man or guy with a gf...Be ABOVE the woman, take the sexual satisfaction THEN expose!
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 10:15 PM
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I agree with that, that by you fucking her isn't a positive or negative moral act.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 10:13 PM
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If you have the power to let the man be aware of his gf whoring, why not exercise it? Yes it is the guys responsibility to be a man, not yours...But seriously, why not? From your appraoch, so long as your not effected who cares right? Lets assume you could let the guy know anonymous, again, why not? If has no effect on you and although you cant control the outcome of what that information will cause, chances are you will have done the guy a big favor in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 10:11 PM
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Hypergamy is about maximizing the tingles with the security/provisioning and finding a balance of both to the highest degree possible.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 09:51 PM
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I would do it, have your fun, then when you are done with them, expose them. Whats wrong with that approach? Most guys will have sex with anything that looks decent...She could be getting 100s of dicks a week and youd still plow her. Thats your prerogative, but i feel a obligation to let the bf/husband find out the truth about his princess.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 09:46 PM
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Ya man I'd say your issue may be you look a little harmless/unimposing Id go get a cool haircut and dress better, shave etc and you should be fine
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 09:38 PM
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Tell him bro. Explain that you were engaged and the same thing happened to you...You could even try to do it anonymously at first. You have her number? Tell him to prove it you will send him screen shots of texts between you two. You cuold be saving this guys life! The lives of potential children this succubus may pop out! Report back bro, want to see how this unfolds!
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:53 PM
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from 3-4 he makes a good point then the rest is down hill... he does kind of bring up some notable shit then takes a wack asss position on it bun this guy
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:11 PM
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This phaggot needs to do some cardio, work on that breath control!
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:07 PM
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I dunno about this dawg...tbh. Is it she purposely sabotaged your plans with your father so you can go help your granny? Did she give you fair warning? You could just resechedule with your dad...I dunno how your family is but id imagien most strong families if granny needs help you just go do it no excuses. I mean you were just shooting pool...Maybe your mom is lazy and had nothing to do and could of done it..then again its your mother lol
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 03:56 PM
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The only way to get a RP viewpoint across to people and have them accept it is through humor!
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 03:51 PM
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Stop it with this rape boogeyman fear mongering....It's a very hard crime to prove and the laws are set up in a dangerous way for innocent people. That is what it is about, proper objective law making and judicial process.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 03:45 PM
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what kind of 2% milk drinking pussy grows a beard but ONLY on his neck? that behavior and decision making is unacceptable IMO
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 03:43 PM
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U wot m8? I'll wreck you kunt all seriousness i wear v necks too, im talking about those guys who wear skinnny jeans with those big ass V necks and have the tattoe on their chest they are closet homos im sure
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 03:42 PM
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They really have to learn for themselves or have some sort of disastrous experience that leads them to RP
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:47 AM
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My approach always been that I want to procreate with a woman that has good genetic material and would make a good mother. I want kids more than I want a spouse/marriage. But, I believe the family unit is important for children especially in their early stages...So it's a catch.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:45 AM
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Anyone man wearing skinny jeans, v necks, with a neckbeard and/or tattoes is getting two-pieced on sight! Any bitch with an attitude and a short haircut + butchy dyke can get it too! Act like a man, ima treat you like a man! Bus driver uppercuts all fuckin day to these lesbos! I'm doing my part to save society, I suggest everyone else starts taking action too.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 01:43 AM
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Bitches love married men even if ur like 22 just tell bithces u married, disqualify them, then start escalating and there brains will combust and ull get em eZ dawg
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 08:33 PM
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Are you planning on keeping this as an ongoing thing? I had a similar situation to you except I'm younger....And I asked myself...I'm so fuckin busy with school and work, I don't go out much..I either spin old plates, do online dating, or keep with this MILF And honestly it is a very enticing package especially when they are so selfless and willing to please...contsatly paying for meals, cooking, unliimited sex and BJs etc Being perfectly honest I didn't think twice about what this womans motiva…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 05:33 PM
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Calm under pressure is huge...never be rattled by anything. Except for the odd outburst of anger at some injustice you face.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 05:25 PM
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Intellectual dominance is also important to have over woman, especially with respect to LTRs...
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 05:25 PM
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Woman are far less visual...Imagine some decent looking celebrity chick...first on the big screen, then working behind a counter in mcdonalds...Us guys would still think shes hot and want to plow her. Now imagine some dude like, lets say Ryan GOsling or some shit...If he was behind a counter at mcdonalds, looking exactly the same as he would on TV (lets say in this instance the show/movie character he is playing is a mcdonalds employyee), he would hardly be appealing, because he is basically an …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 05:22 PM
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I disagree man. Stating he lost respect, no friendship, love will fade etc wasn't exactly necessary but it is the truth/reality which he values hence stating it. Only issue was asking if she loves him IMO
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 03:38 AM
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What about IUDs? Or older woman who are not as fertile anymore? Funny girl I'm with now, when I first met her, she was very touchy/physical and mentioned my jawline. Slept with her a couple days after that and she didn't have her period for like 2-3 weeks after that. That's happened a lot to me when I first dummy a plate then after countless sex sessions I wonder why hasn't this bitch had her period yet, makes sense...I'm convinced it has more to do with physical features than alpha behaviors th…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 03:25 AM
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Yes it is best not to OD on RP or you will miss out on some of the pleasant things life has to offer...I did this and became very angry, at everything! (except dogs, i fux with canines heavy b) Now I just focus on accomplishing my goals, being an overall man of integrity (shout out kurt angle thats my nigga), and living a hard working virtuous life I can be proud of. I don't give a fuck what the result it as far as my relationships with other human beings go. It should be positive if I'm taking …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 05:22 AM
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http://www.returnofkings.com/2090/how-black-america-has-predicted-our-future
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 09:31 PM
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Because black woman are among the worst
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 09:21 PM
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Someone showed me the War Brides piece by Rollo Tomassi and it scared the fuck out of me
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 09:18 PM
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Greetings Brother Rollo, War Brides is what introduced me to TRP, thank you for all your work my man. My shorthand approach to LTRs is to make no compromise as far as my personal goals, and to ensure my partners investment level is always well above mine. It keeps my mind at ease, if the relationship were to implode at anytime. Does this strategy pose potential problems? I rather not proactively/directly game my LTR, so is the alternative approach cultivating a lifestyle that instills dread? War…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 05:12 PM
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Rob Ford solid 8 get outta here beurocrat stop wasting the taxpayers money he saved a billion and shout outs to Doug 'Dougie' Ford too
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 02:45 AM
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Direct approach, no time to waste, plenty out there, not sure why caught up with sons teacher
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 09:17 PM
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No... Alpha males are winners Sociopaths usually self destruct
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 02:57 PM
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You must not go out much
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 02:53 PM
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Did she cry after? If you really are the first guy to do it she will be crazy about you, madly in love...
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 02:23 PM
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Passive vs Active thinker Woman and Beta-males are passive, fit in with status quo etc
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 02:48 AM
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Sorry bro this relationship is dead....you can never view her in a positive light now However, start fuckin around and experimenting with her to see what you can learn..just for kicks, maybe a month or two, before you get rid of her run some dread game, implement to RP tactics, and report back...hit gym extra hard, spend more time with your friends etc...basically emotionally detach yourself from this woman if you have not already
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 02:07 AM
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Brah get on Tinder....Be direct, EASY.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 01:14 AM
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I'd say height is about as important as muscularity Status, Facial Aesthetics and Game are all more important.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 07:32 PM
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This is the problem...It isn't solely about partner count; a number. It's about past behavior overall. She could be in her late 20's, spent a couple years in relationships, had a handful of fuck buddies, and handful of one night stands. Or, she could be in one very unhealthy relationship for 10+ years. Yet, the former is better LTR material than the latter. I'd say that a high number increases the correlation of previous bad behavior and since we can't know all the details of her past it does ho…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 04:00 AM
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The reformed ones are simply not self aware and/or delusional...at least they are happy though, good for them!
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 04:38 PM
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Solid Post brah.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 04:33 PM
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Beast!!! I am early 20s and for now I do enjoy dating older woman (over 35) and am with one, makes my life easier. But my goal is to do what you did and marry someone a bit younger when im in my 20s.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 04:25 PM
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This is a gay guy trolling! PROOF: ''she's a blast and we get along famously.''
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 04:15 PM
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It would be a woman who can secure commitment without giving up sex (versus a male player who can secure sex without giving any commitment)
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 04:00 PM
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sick fuckin hamstrings mate
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 05:04 AM
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People need ACTUAL INTIMACY to be happy....The effects of validation will only do so much and only last so long. I truly do believe that those types of people (both men and woman who seek validation as shown through their behavior/decisions) are the ones that end up miserable/depressed. A cock carousel rider that settles for a beta could be just that, or someone going through lifes journey, learning, and discovering with success what makes them happy. I'd say men have a greater aptitude for this…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 03:43 AM
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This is some black belt level hamstring. The fascinating thing is that this man does NOT love his wife and she is completely unaware of it. No man in love and with options would allow for this. If a woman who lived up to his ideals more came along, she is out of the picture for sure.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 10:12 PM
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Just do not invest to much in this woman and be patient, very patient. If she sustains this positive behavior over a longer period of consider future potential. I have a similar situation man...And TRP stuff makes me second guess things at times but ultimately I get A LOT out of my situation and no reason to jump ship just enjoy the ride and reserve your judgement/feelings until more time passes.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 02:17 PM
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Inspiring attitude brah... Your investment level in her must be low eh? Not together too long, not living together, your both young, not too much $$ spent on her? Just a guess but I always keep things that way it helps me see clearer in times like you are going through now.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 02:09 PM
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8 is huge! I'd say #1 and/or #6 + #8 are the most important and the rest sort of follow. She must respect you. You must have dominance over her 1)physically 2)emotionally 3)intellectually
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 06:50 PM
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Yes it is not so much how you behave or how you treat people it is also how in accordance that beahviour/treatment is to the values you represent and the person you convey yourself as ie congruence, Be the kindest man in the world because you want to or because someone deserves it, but be prepared to stomp your foot down when you witness injustice or something is not right to you.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 06:46 AM
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A lot of guys cant grow their hair out, looks retarded. And it all depends on your face IMO. Go with what suits your face best. I think long hair is tough for guys to pull off, but short buzzed sides with longer on top works for most
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 11:21 PM
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Having a gf around your own age while in your 20s is pointless 95% of the time IMO Times have changed. It really is an uneven playing field at this point for young men. Spin plates, make something of yourself. If you want kids and a family your selection pool / options will be much greater when you hit the 30 mark and have a career etc.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 11:12 PM
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Bit of both brah... I do think male role models are important for the alpha behavior. Especially your father as you get their genetics. I must say though I see ENOUGH dudes who clearly could be alpha but are just big pussies because of their behavior which IMO the environment and/or upbringing has a huge effect on. In today's day and age alphas are much more made then born and while aesthetics are crucial the alpha one should aim to be is someone highly intelligent determined resourceful and who…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 11:07 PM
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Celine Dion Very classy! And Christina Hendricks seems sweet
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 05:39 AM
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thanks dude, just got back from her house... helped her out, talked, had sex, she shed some tears, thanked me, said our good byes
/r/askTRP29/03/14 05:32 AM
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bro do the experiment, take one for the team be bold and do it like you mean it...i want to find out if they have ACTUAL integrity say it was a test after ;) Personally I think they do. Beleive man some do. Its happened to me before and many of my friends even the highest status most boss ones (where no matter what even if they try to initiate a girl with a bf wont sleep with them until they become single again).
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 04:02 AM
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Believe it or not there exists some girls who have the integrity to not actually/physically cheat while they are in a relationship...These are usually the very self aware ones. I'm sure if you promised them a relationship they would leave they're bfs to be with you. Better than having no morals and breaking a contract though IMO. I'd consider these DECENT woman among a society full of indecent ones.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 03:59 AM
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im helping with her problems best i can i figure its best to focus on THAT first then the relationship thx for suggestions friends
/r/askTRP28/03/14 03:01 AM
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As far as relationships go perhaps, but getting laid, naw...
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 04:09 AM
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I resent your writing style and excessive cursing
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 11:58 PM
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Sometimes letting out small RP truths is effective in interactions but only if your previous behavior reinforces it...would not use on girls you first meet or younger girls but perhaps with older ones or in LTRs
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 11:50 PM
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only if they never had children and/or were not married
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 05:27 PM
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Mindset does help... ie if you are already dummying some broad regularly it will be easy to ask another one out, you have nothing to lose
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 05:27 PM
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The girl will def want you more if you don't cum...It's happened to me twice I got a BJ and didn't cum and was surprised when the girl would not stop bothering me to be their fuck buddy another small anecdote..a female friend of mine was telling me about a guy she fucked and said 'it was the first time a guy didn' cum etc etc i was offended' yet she wanted another crack at him badly
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 05:23 PM
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This is a prime example of NEVER letting a woman change us. If they fall in love with you, they do not want to change you, no matter how hard they try. Once they are successful, you lose!
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 05:12 AM
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great advice. do this with EVERYONE who makes these types of comments that slyly communicate disrespect
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 10:49 PM
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TREAT everyone with common courtesy/decency But view each and every individual you come accross as a PIECE OF SHIT until they prove otherwise President, CEO, Millionaire, waiter, gas clerk, homeless person etc...They are all the same in your eyes. Judge people by their character and their actions
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 06:14 PM
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get a puppy
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 06:10 PM
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you're golden then brah ya your buddy already had high test maybe thats why he hasn't seen much added benefit...he could consider a SARM instead of test. I hear mixed things and not tons of safety data but know some who are trying and going to try shortly lol still though test >>>
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 04:18 AM
2

did he have an underlying issue/deficiency? all acounts I've herd of Test have been pretty positive a part from possible acne, gyno, hair loss sucks how expensive it is...when i hit 30 i want test and botox
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 04:13 AM
4

Very good to hear man. I think you are lucky your doctor even put you on that, i hear it is hard to get! (Unless of course you are a transgendered woman who wants to become a man, then you can get as much as you want!)
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 03:57 AM
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I can accept if my girl does not want to have sex. But that does not relinquish her of the duty of getting me off; a BJ and even HJ in some instances will suffice. She should want to please you. She should respect your needs. I would replace COMMAND with DEMAND btw...The distinction is important, we must know how to DEMAND what we want not COMMAND it.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 03:52 AM
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seems like all woman rummage through their bfs phones and messages also
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 11:39 PM
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aahahah i look in the infidelity section first one i see about a married woman cheatin..'met up with guy...it just happened!'
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 11:34 PM
2

I have literally no relevant information to contribute to any conversation that takes place about popular culture, TV shows, current events etc.. Instead I speak for my own amusement and believe me that leaves a greater impression on someone as opposed to being able to add to their current topic of conversation.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 08:38 PM
2

So true; they'll want to hear more! Can be harmful in the long run so euse sparingly I'd say. And you don't have to go in to detail, once you get a certain reaction the job is done.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 08:27 PM
3

Always remember demonstrate don't explicate But sometimes if you can drop little RP gems in a sly way even on woman the reaction will be favorable
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 05:43 PM
7

I think what our mothers generation has over this generation is 1) lack of entitlement 2) not complainers My mom does way more than she should. Could have easily upgraded from my dad (as far as money/status goes)...NEVER complains. My dad is by nature extremely RP, even says to me woman like my mom are 1/10000 and you probably wont find one so just focus on making a lot of money.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 05:32 PM
1

I wouldn't say an automatic deal breaker. If it is a habbit ie he has done it multiple times then yes NEXT that bozo! I think most people cheat once....for some retarded reason they convince themselves it'll be worth it and after it happens the decent human beings can admit they messed up. If they guy mentions cheating and blames someone other than himself, definitely next him. If he's cheated once and seems regretful perhaps give him a chance.
/r/askTRP18/03/14 02:17 AM
1

Be sexual and feminine....You shouldn't have to set boundaries, but if you really believe you are being a good partner and your significant other does not appreciate you, you need to make it clear that you will not tolerate it for much longer. My girl did this to me and it was like being smacked over the head. Seriously even stand up dudes can get complacent and take their SO for granted. It doesn't mean they will end up cheating on you but those are instances where you can communicate boundarie…
/r/askTRP18/03/14 02:13 AM
5

What happens to the woman who have bared a child is they can't enjoy the cock carasouling alpha fucking to the same extent anymore...they may do it, but they no longer get what they used to get out of it. They want security and they'll sacrifice a lot to get it. If you get involved with a single mom do what i did...be a broke college student who offers no financial provisioning whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 01:59 AM
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thanks for the lengthy reply man
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 05:54 PM
1

my girl CLAIMS she rarely rarely has orgasms in her past (But she can give her self them easily)....has had many partners and only one in the past gave her them and she became obsessed. She even told me before we slept together she had trouble. I gave her them and she would often cry in the beginning, which never happened to me before...she no longer cries now when i give them to her though lol
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 05:06 AM
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i dont think its bad just as far as money and longevity goes there is prob better options either way at least your working out as the habit of exercise is most important, and if you want a change you can always try something else
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 06:44 AM
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Dont waste your money....Go join a muay thai / boxing / mma gym. I can never wrap my head around the fact that people don't play sports more for exercise or do martial arts, especially when you join a gym and are paying + investing a lot of time. I'd include bodybuilding/real-lifting in this aswell cause the feeling it gives is incredible but dont me some shmuck who goes to the gym and wastes time
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:51 PM
1

scumbags....at least use your powers for good and donate to sick kids hospital
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:43 PM
3

This makes sense brother...I've seen many rich dweeby lookin guys with stunners for wifes who STILL end up cheating on them. If a man has options (in this case rich married guys entering 30s/40s) and is getting no validation sex from the wife, he'll get it elsewhere. Thing is a lot of these guys are still betas and end up going through a nasty divorce with their current wife, marrying again, rinse repeat...They're especially susceptible to manipulative woman. The smart ones will become self-awar…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 06:44 AM
1

Bro I agree with 'the talk' part...i have a few go-to believable excuses for why i dont respond for so long and the purpose of using them is as you say just for them to 'feel' those feeling, even though i end up saying whoops phone was messed thats why i havn't responded so long
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 03:59 AM
1

Appreciate the response my friend.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 05:59 PM
1

Thanks man good advice.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 04:09 AM
1

Thanks for the reply brother
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 06:02 PM
1

Lol thanks for the response....I am being a lazy bear
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 06:00 PM
1

Thanks for the reasonable response... I think ppl missed what I was asking...ie the best ways to show the required beta traits for LTRS
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 07:30 AM
2

Manners is best regards
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 01:04 AM
1

Solid post minus the use of 'freaking'.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 01:02 AM
-1

I had a good talk with my dad earlier today. Not even specifically about this, just general shit. Always knew he had RP tendencies but discovered he is naturally as RP as they come. Definitely helped get my mind right.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 11:51 PM
3

Hmm I see man I see.... So how does one handle a situation where they are at fault? ie I've actually done things wrong and she was justified in her feelings and reaction? I remember Rollo Tomassi saying that when a woman exhausts all of her covert means of communication she will resort to overt ones. For example, the last couple months when I'd text infrequently I'd get sarcastic remarks like 'did you fall in a snow bank?..must be studing hard...whats your excuse for taking so long to respond th…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 11:22 PM
1

I agree brother. It's fucked up to make these revelations and reflect back on experiences of mine or other peoples and realize how true the concepts taught here are. I'd say its nearly unavoidable to make small slip-ups in that revelation process. I aired on the side of caution a bit too much (ie went full alpha and no beta) when in reality I think I had a solid balance at the time. Cheers bruhv.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 10:44 PM
3

Appreciate the response and think its pretty spot on my bro.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 10:36 PM
4

Shes cried in the past and I've been unphased about it; this time it got to me.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 09:32 PM
4

No troll mate, true story!
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 09:30 PM
3

Thanks for the response man. She does still try hard to please me; even more so as of late it seems. She rarely gets 'bitchy', more-so acts really hurt. Questions how much i care/love her, thinks I dont take the relationship seriously and view her as some temporary gf that I'm with for convenience and perks etc
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 09:29 PM
2

Appreciate the response man. War Brides by Rollo was actually my first introduction into the RP! Read many other posts from TheRationalMale before finding this subreddit. Thanks again brother.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 07:24 PM
-1

What am I supposed to do in that moment? When she's balling her eyes out and I genuinely feel guilty and as if I've made her feel like a piece of meat rather than my gf? After her tears subsided I did snap back into frame...She asked me to pass her a piece of gum from the bedside table and when she forgot to say please I remarked [You think just cause you balled your eyes out and made me feel like a scumbag you still don't have to say please?] and we both laughed...
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 07:14 PM
2

Yes man I've always been honest and faithful. But as of late...I think the best way to explain it is like this. I've treated her like a fuck buddy. Hardly talk/text when I don't see her and when we do spend time it's always HER doing things to accommodate me. We've had moments like this in the past and it never effected me to this extent. I always held frame and she'd end up realizing she over reacted and actually apologize and thank me. This time though a sincere apology was due and saying I wo…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 07:09 PM
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SHE is ultimately responsible and to be held accountable for HER OWN actions...Don't forget this brother.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 05:05 AM
13

She's a lost cause....Will spend her 20s being pumped and dumped by guys exactly like the one she's with now. By the time she realizes it, it'll be too late, and she'll likely settle. Sorry bro. Nothing wrong with caring about her, but move on man. Remove all romantic interests. I honestly wouldn't even bother texting her first or setting up plans, let her do that shit if she wants to be your 'friend'.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 05:03 AM
5

smh...RIP
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 04:44 AM
2

RIP...
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 01:50 AM
2

'Tis true. Face it, virtually all girls especially in this generation will have had multiple FWB if they've been single for any amount of time. To separate the decent ones from the slu's the difference may be FWB'ers vs Slu's that get pumped by a different schlong each weekend.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:33 PM
8

Dread game.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 06:07 AM
8

Find better friends bro. I open up to my homies all the time (PAUSE) I express my feelings to my girl, ie how i feel about her...but vulnerability? Be careful....You gotta be the rock, being vulnerable/weak hurts that. It does build deep rapport, but you have to be careful with it.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 06:06 AM
0

Sure but I'd be more worried if the she was highly attracted to the guy and has never slept with him versus some past FWB Like apackofwankers commented above, no sexual tension between his ex-wife now.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 03:08 AM
2

My pleasure brother. The immediate instinctual response would be that you wanna spend more time with her to avoid the possibility of your girl being free and the guy being free at the same time and perhaps spending time together...I was generally aware of my girls schedule and knew if i cancelled on her or made different plans for certain times we planned to share, it could free her up to spend time with someone else if she so pleased. DONT BE THREATENED BY THAT...dont be afraid to snub her in f…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 01:29 AM
1

hmmmm....my situation is more of a relationship with an expiry date, so i never act like anything she does bothers me. I just tell her what I would do in that situation and say I expect the same. I even asked her 'would u be mad if i spend time with a girl thats a friend'...she said 'id be a bit jelous..but if u never told me and i found out about it id be really hurt'... i communicated to her we have an exclusive commitment and trust each other so ill honor that, if either of us want the terms …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 01:00 AM
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I've been in this situation brother... How much time do you guys spend together? Do you live together? Has she slept with this guy in the past? I actually would prefer my girl spending time with someone she has already slept with because the sexual tension has been resolved (although I wouldn't like that either)...If there is mutual attraction, anything could happen if they are one on one in isolation, and who knows if she'd tell you, break up with you, whatever...I explained this to my girl, if…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 12:45 AM
0

It depends on your own qualities. If your a solid 8 or above I think it could be good to go more for a 6-7 that is intelligent.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 12:34 AM
1

I want a kid more than marriage....the best investment for my love <3 <3 <3
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 06:01 AM
1

I met a 40 yr old school teacher...Pretty hot, fake tits...Been with the same man since 18, married at 25. Kids, big house in the suburbs, the good life. Been cheating on him since day one...I was about to sleep with her, but before we arranged a day for her to come over when no one was home, I straight up asked her why she does what she does. Said her husband treats her amazing and she loves him, gives her everything, great father etc... but she needs the thrill of a new hot sexual partner. Goe…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 06:58 AM
6

Assume all woman are the same, until AFTER you have sex with them. After the deed is done feel free to give them a window into your true self...That is if you are actually looking for a girl to have sex and with while enjoying time together. Once you have sex with them that is when they are actually in YOUR frame. Beforehand you may have tricked them into thinking they are, now it is a reality.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 06:43 AM
4

Definitely keep in touch man...If she is 'special' something may happen down the line you never know. Sometimes due to uncontrollable circumstances things cant make sense logistically don't turn into anything more....Obviously don't get oneitis and go on with improving yourself and what not. But good to keep in touch in case you cross paths down the road.
/r/askTRP02/03/14 06:36 AM
5

You've already won by default...Ignore, don't react.
/r/askTRP01/03/14 10:29 PM
0

If a woman of friend breaks the conditions of my trust/love, they are effectively DEAD to me...No longer can they offer me ANYTHING, I have ZERO use for them If my own offspring did the same thing, I would still have an investment in them turning things around and it would mean something to me
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 06:25 PM
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But the question is WHY love someone unconditionally...what does that even entail? Simply an emotional investment in there well being? eg. Have a friend that breaks all conditions for you companionship and you conclude he is scum...friendship over, no longer care at all about him Family member does the same thing....cast them aside, but still care about them because there family?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 06:23 PM
0

Great idea!
/r/askTRP01/03/14 04:59 AM
1

True. I could keep this up so long as I don't have to commit more time/effort to it and can continue to stay on my path with school/other areas of life.
/r/askTRP01/03/14 02:31 AM
2

Hmmm....She does kind of know that she 'has me'. Why the hell would I want anything else right now? Coincidentally, Earlier today we were having a conversation and she jokingly said 'I'm gonna keep you around atleast another year'...to which I replied, 'so your assuming I'll BE around another year?' She laughed and said 'Where are you gonna find a girl your age who will feed you, blow you, let you borrow her car etc..'' :=0
/r/askTRP01/03/14 02:30 AM
4

My most alpha friend who is a pro athlete, his last girlfriend was a certified 10. They spent EVERY day together for THREE WEEKS before he had sex with her. Never waited anywhere even remotely close to that with any other girl. He ended up cheating on her...Tbh I think he fucked up big time and will regret it. I know RP says all girls are sluts, will cheat, yada yada but I really think the most beautiful quality woman who know their value don't have many sexual partners and are extremely selecti…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 01:30 AM
1

Get the hell out of North America, that's your only chance. Listen being nice and giving your woman attention and respect can work.....if you are a famous celebrity or insanely good looking + masculine.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 06:07 AM
1

Take him out and show him how its done brah...show him how this cold world works. Tell him you saw one of the girls he has oneitis for getting railed by some douche bag...You cant just explain it to him or get him to read it you really need to SHATTER his system brother
/r/askTRP28/02/14 05:56 AM
1

Yes I agree brother this is a bit worrisome/troubling I've never even asked questions about her ex's, past relationships, sexual endeavors etcc..she just volunteers this information. Did find that odd :S I basically have the same inexpressive reaction to all of it As for her kid, honestly I think he is going to have a rough time growing up...and he is a very good boy. I feel a responsibility to stay in his life to some degree.
/r/askTRP28/02/14 03:03 AM
1

Write an essay about how everything can be explained within a social construct and how biology has no objective basis in reality...A++ brah Seriously if you chose to write about anything red pill related try as best you can do provide evidence in the form of scientific research or clinical studies... Maybe focus more on the evolutionary biology/psychology side of things? Lots of studies you can provide related to womans mating strategy and how their menstrual cycle plays a role etc..
/r/askTRP28/02/14 01:22 AM
1

Bro it's very good. My best friend took my advice and found himself a nice 37 year old sinlge mamma and is loving it too. I think the key is 1) Make sure she is well off and financially independent ie does not need a man AND 2) Understands there is an expiry date and does not expect a long term commitment
/r/askTRP27/02/14 10:56 PM
1

MILF = Mother I'd Like to fuck yada yada yada is equivalent to etc... or blah blah blah
/r/askTRP27/02/14 10:40 PM
1

Guys we need a big thread on younger guys dating older woman...It is really wierd when a woman has so much more investment in you than you do in her. But part of me fears that deep down they DO expect a future return on that... Like formyself and OP, think about it...What if we spend a couple years with these hot older woman then its over? We just go back to our lives with the our whole future ahead of us, and their beauty and SMV made a signifigant decline, leaving them in a worse spot then the…
/r/askTRP27/02/14 08:47 PM
1

Hmmm....Can you give a bit of background on her? Some stuff about her marriage, past relationships, what kind of woman she is? I'm also with an older woman but I'm in my early 20s and shes in her early 40s...There is no 'future' for us but it has been going on over a year. To be honest, after this experiance, I would be really open to a real LTR with an older woman / single mom when I'm a bit older myself, but I would need to have a kid with her. Do you not want kids?
/r/askTRP27/02/14 08:37 PM
1

Ya man its a near perfect situation for me. If it ended tomorrow I'd prob want something like this again atleast until I graduate and have more time to dedicate to things outside my studies + working to pay for tuition.
/r/askTRP27/02/14 06:01 PM
1

I'm a broke university student man she definitely spends more on me than I do on her. And she doesn't really need money at least for her kids sake he is well taken care off by the ex (guy makes a lot of money but is a brutal father, away most of the time). And ya like fx-115es says below I have no motivation and if I wanted to do that I would have just stayed her 'boy toy' and done it on the side. My concerns lie in the future...now I'm in University but when I graduate and start makin $$$ will …
/r/askTRP27/02/14 05:52 PM
0

If she's the crazy/emotional type dont txt whatsoever if she is a half-decent human being atleast reply to her texts in a neutral or playful manner
/r/askTRP27/02/14 06:29 AM
1

ahh yess thee indignation...either way bad sign for they're relationships/husbands
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 10:39 PM
1

Purely anecdotal but as my T has raised I've been having more vivid dreams
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 10:05 PM
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