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Wrong. This screams of immaturity and low value with the number of mind games that are going on. If the person has a problem with what happened when they were no longer together, it's on that person to not continue in the relationship instead of verbally manipulating them. There's no "spending their life making it up to them." And like OP said, she was broken up with and he blocked her. The relationship was over. She has no obligation to wait around hoping he'll take her back. Blocking someone i…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 03:42 PM
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Thank you for precise steps. 4 & 5 will be especially useful since I don’t want to slide back into past behavior. We already have a cue word he (or I) can use when he needs me to let something go or doesn’t want to talk about that topic anymore. It prevents either of us from getting upset or baited into fights. So this should be something we can easily incorporate.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/21 02:13 PM
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Do you think he needs time to process this new information before discussing it again? It’s not wrong to want to stay home but it’s also good that you both don’t go into it blindly hoping things work out. Depending on the cost of living in your town and how much he makes, sometimes it’s just not tenable. It’s good that he’s worried about you being taken care of should something happen to him. Obviously I’m not privy to your finances so don’t know whether this is feasible, but term life insurance…
/r/RedPillWives15/08/21 02:50 PM
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I think ages 17-18 is a good time to start dating seriously because you have more maturity and confidence than in that awkward middle-school/ early high school stage. You’re also more likely to know what you want in a guy. I started dating at age 18 in college, dated my now husband throughout college, and married after graduation. Still married 15 years later. Had one rough spot but the majority of it has been happy. In high school I didn’t feel the need to date even though there were options. I…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 09:31 PM
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I completely agree with this. Especially the part about take being a wife and mother seriously. It makes me scratch my head about why anyone would want to get married or have kids if they had no intention of taking it seriously. Those aren’t things you can go into half-heartedly and succeed. If it were any other job, you’d be fired. To OP, while many men are the head of the household, the saying goes that women are the neck. Both are equally as important. The point isn’t to get into a partnershi…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/21 08:39 PM
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When I read your reply I thought you had replied to the wrong thread. (Edited to add: this isn’t bad. It just caught me off guard and made me stop and think.) I realize that nuances get lost in text so maybe the way I wrote something is giving off the wrong impression about my relationship. I’m truly confused and it would be helpful if you explained what your perspective is. Maybe I have a glaring blind spot in how I see my relationship? How am I taking “being an obedient housewife to the extrem…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/21 04:03 PM
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Thank you! Luckily, we’re both of the agreement to prioritize our relationship over all other responsibilities. We both believe that being strong and happy together will have a greater positive impact on our child rather than another class at Little Gym, or wherever. So we make it a point to not over schedule the kiddo with activities and give ourselves plenty of “couple time.” It’s definitely easy to fall into the trap of always being on the go as the chauffeur and rarely seeing one another but…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/21 01:19 PM
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