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I was extremely Blue when my son (now 13) was young. I have been making the transformation for some years with the biggest changes once I found MMSL and finally MRP. Fortunately the new me was there as my son went through puberty. The biggest thing is just being RP around the whole family. Gaming the wife when he is around teasing, playing (G rated) with her, touching (G rated) her etc. Getting shit done. Expecting the same of him (and all family members) within what they can do at their age. Ev…
/r/RedPillParenting07/03/16 08:20 PM
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Friend = she wants you to play with her that is what gives her tingles. This is not a choreplay. This is gaming your wife. Tease her. Swat her ass. Tell her jokes. Go for walks with her. Literally play games with her (cards, board games, physical games etc). Make half serious half silly bets on anything (sports teams or what the dog does nest) with a silly reward like loser has to wash the toilet or make popcorn or whatever. Play it up and gloat (in a silly over the top way) or lose graciously i…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/16 02:59 PM
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When you are playing, flirting, making out and she says didn't you say no sex for 3 months.... you say yeah but you get me so horny that I can't help it. I don't care what I said having you is more important than that. Are you trying to prove you are not a sex fiend and can't keep your hands off her? If you succeed then you have proven to her that you don't really need sex, and shes not that important to you. If you 'fail' cause you can't make it for 3 months because she is so hot and you get ho…
/r/askMRP15/01/16 09:37 PM
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How to get out of it. Probably best to just play with her physically. When you have her hot just keep going. Strip off her underwear, shirt whatever she has on and if she says "what are you doing?". I can't help it. I've got to have you. With a growl. She might say you just want to get off, answer with you I do. Whatever it is agree amplify till its silly or direct it to how you can't control yourself around her.
/r/askMRP15/01/16 12:43 PM
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Yes NMMNG does say that. I tried it and it was not helpful. Result was 'See I am not a sex fiend I can keep my hands off you!' So there. Now I see that in her eyes this looks like Huh he really doesn't care about sex with me, he is really not attracted to me and just wants to use me to get off. Not helpful. This aspect just led to a prolonging of my shaking off the Blue Pill (Did NMMNG before I know about the Red Pill) Although the rest of NMMNG is good I don't recommend this aspect. If you do i…
/r/askMRP13/01/16 07:03 PM
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The paradigm of Marriage or control of sex comes from the invention of Agriculture(~10,000 years). That was the first point that men had 'property' (land) to inherit to their offspring. So this was the first time that it mattered which males kids a woman bore. Prior to the concept of property for the prior 2M+ years of human evolution women had sex with many men, men had sex with many women (obviously certain men had more than others) but the tribe raised the children so each man had little or n…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 07:12 PM
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The principle here is.... Women hold the sex - men hold the commitment. Women want commitment Men want Sex. Unplug from her and only reward her with your time and attention if you get what you want. Go out have fun ignore her if you aren't getting what you want.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 04:44 PM
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I have a MIL who is crazy also although my wife has distanced herself somewhat and put up barriers from the worst of it. There is still some shit that she/we have to deal with. Have your GF check out http://www.daughtersofnarcissisticmothers.com/
/r/askMRP04/12/15 05:00 PM
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Military Press
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/15 08:02 PM
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That is exactly why the distinction is important. If she is giving you duty sex out of love and caring for the relationship and an understanding that you need it. Response you pound her and as you do she gets into it and enjoys it even if she doesn't come or want to pursue an O. In this case going after her hard for sex shows your desire for her and builds her desire. If she is 'turtled' or 'starfished' and completely hating sex but she is spreading her legs because you have threatened to leave …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 08:44 PM
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There is duty sex where she is starfish and 'actively hating you with her vagina' that is the turtle example. Then there is duty sex where she does not really want to have sex but out of duty (love, because she knows you want/need it), because she feels like she should, whatever etc) she truely wants to do it and even if she is not very actively involved she does get somewhat aroused (this is where you pound her hard for your own satisfaction) and is quite happy not to O. Duty sex is ok. True st…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 07:40 PM
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How about a frontrub? Make boob feeling motions with your hands in the air. Take lots of opportunities to sexualize things with her. Early on you may need to take breaks and spread it out but slowly it becomes the norm. Hence your frame and a sexual relationship.
/r/askMRP06/11/15 02:25 PM
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Initiate or not is up to you. You have a shitload of work to do to right the ship. Having another kid makes that more work not less. Are you ready for it?
/r/askMRP05/11/15 02:56 AM
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Yeah the point is that they are never satisfied by stuff. There is more appreciation from shared experiences than a great house, great car, vacation etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 05:51 PM
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Yes this is a perfect example of going overboard on the Asshole Alpha. Just take the above comments as constructive and keep refining it down. Far better to be where you are than where you were but more work to go. Good job keep it up, keep moving forward and improving. And put the fucking games down except when absolutely everything else is done THEY ARE NOT IMPORTANT!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 04:17 PM
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I would have complimented her on her 'super' ass. Yes you are super! You have a super ass. (-;
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 10:57 PM
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I understand the frame of I respond to the world on my own time. I just realized that my wife ignores our home phone and waits for me to get it. I suppose the answer here is to be so busy with real stuff that it makes sense to ignore it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 01:18 PM
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I have seen exactly the same 'shit tests' coming from my entitled 7yo girl. Sometimes theirs are even better than my wife's. Learn from your kids and this helps them grow up too.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 07:13 PM
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You've got a cute smile too!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 04:44 PM
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I read Passionate Marriage before I was fully understanding of RP but I had already ready NMMNG and had a pretty good understanding what my problem was and started to fix it. This was a couple years ago but I am pretty sure my reaction was wow this is what I want! However it my take on it was that both partners need to buy in. So if you are married to an RP woman who knows about this stuff and wants both of you improve yourselves and your marriage in a RP way then it is a good resource. Not so g…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 03:37 PM
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11/10, emotionally stable, early 20's woman = Unicorn. Does not exist. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vwbKYcBdVyk&feature=youtu.be
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 05:24 PM
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Hypothesis. Assuming LTR or Marriage. In the situation that the woman gets a tubal ligation (or some other permanent non hormonal birth control) but the husband is still firing hot the incentive is on her to keep the man happy because he can go elsewhere and father more offspring. The power to procreate is the one with leverage. Thoughts?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 11:23 PM
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Like Redneck001 says just get to the Gym. You will need to start light anyway to get your muscles used to it so.... Doc can I lift light weights? Waiting for the Doctor is an excuse for not acting.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/15 04:44 PM
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Talk to her if you need to like " I am going out for groceries do we need milk?" Don't make a point to freeze her out but don't talk about the silent treatment or whatever caused it just STFU! Keep doing stuff, get stuff done, and ...... enjoy
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 04:52 PM
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I like to look good. Pretty soon its the normal for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 12:29 PM
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OK I have worked NMMNG and MMSL/MAP for some time but I am new to MRP. I think the standard answer to the second most common "What If" is, Stop still look her in the eye and "I got this" in a firm calm voice then turn and go and ignore her next 'fear'.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 10:24 PM
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