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7

I don’t think it’s better or worse for either. Dating sucks for everyone. The problems are just different
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:11 PM
11

Who the hell fucks 1000 people? Jesus christ. I imagine the 80/20 is based more on opportunities and ability than raw numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:37 AM
5

Lmao this sounds nothing like RP that guys just an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:33 PM
2

Yes I think every person could have their own threshold. Maybe he’s looking for a general rule of thumb? Not sure. Example could be for height: no specific number but most women will say “taller than me” etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 10:32 AM
8

He’s basically asking how good looking “enough” or how rich “enough” one has to be for each category. Like thresholds for each. If I’m understanding correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 09:51 AM
1

I’ve noticed a lot of new attention when I got in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:19 AM
1

What do you believe the % to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:31 PM
1

I know what stealthing is, I just can’t grasp how it’s supposedly done so easy and without notice. What kind of sex are y’all having? I push back because I believe that most people, men and women, are good people. It would kind of be like a man having negative experiences with women and coming to the conclusion “all women are gold digging whores” and have that be an accepted worldview without challenge. I’m not celebrating or encouraging casual sex, I prefer a dedicated partner. Just seems like …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:29 PM
1

I legitimately can’t fathom how I would be able to sneak a condom off without my partner noticing. I understand the fact a lot of women are fearful I am pushing back on the notion that they should be. Lack of enjoyment is not a “risk” in that the word implies danger of some kind. Different opinions I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:36 PM
1

Ok so you are legitimately worried that the average man will become violent with you. If you’ve gone through any SA obviously that’s terrible and I can indeed understand your caution and trauma. But again…the % of men doing this is so extremely small that I feel living in perpetual fear of all men for what they might do sounds like an exaggeration. I was held at knife point by a fling I had in college while she and her friend robbed me and yet it doesn’t give me grounds to believe women are like…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:06 PM
1

Ok well condoms breaking affects both men and women, but with proper use it’s extremely unlikely. Can happen sure but it’s not something I feel like it a legitimately large concern compared to the other potential issues. If you are worried that a guy will become violent or aggressive with you for simply setting personal boundaries then casual sex is definitely not something you should be engaging in. Again, it seems like the average woman is living in perpetual terror of what a man might do to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:00 PM
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If a man refuses to wear one, you don’t sleep with him. If he takes it off mid sex, again stop the sex immediately. Judgment is a part of the human experience, I guess it’s up the individual how much they let judgement of their actions affect their life. Odd one to discuss I suppose. Violence upon women isn’t necessarily uncommon but I have a hard time believing it’s 3 of every 50 men (using your mnm analogy) that are acting violent towards a stranger or someone they know. Again, not trying to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:41 AM
3

But if this is the case, why is casual sex and hookup culture so glorified ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:36 AM
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Ok so half of those are prevented by condoms(for the most part) Unless you are declaring your sex life publicly I’m not sure how you would be judged? Beaten, raped or murdered is a possibility. But Is it something that you legitimately fear is likely to happen? It does happen and I can’t blame women for being cautious. They should be. Seems like the fear is slightly misconstrued though. Like….the problem seems to be that any man could do it, not that it’s likely. Feels like we are teaching women…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:07 AM
1

What is this large amount of risk u speak of
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:41 AM
2

Break down the expected gender norms that men have, like women received.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:51 PM
16

Similar to the “I want a whore but only for me” for guys right? Prude to everyone else? I’ve heard this. Can understand it tbh. In regards to the topic I think the logic is that women will settle for a guy they aren’t really attracted to because he will make a good husband/father etc. Not sure how much I believe this but I can see it happening
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:51 AM
1

Like I said, good luck with the issues 👍 We’re all rooting for ya 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:09 PM
0

MEN = BAD WAHHHHHHHH
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:54 PM
0

I’m not blaming feminism. Feminism is awesome. It has however created some loonies such as yourself. Comical of you to say I was the one to overact lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:49 PM
1

Yoooo I don’t know what kind of nonsensical projection your spouting but yikes. Your entire post is Man = bad Woman = victim The patriarchy! Just having a normal one I see 😂😂 You are the reason feminists get a bad rap I bet. Good luck with the issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:12 AM
1

I’m not red pill (not claiming you said I am) just clarifying. Plenty of it is nonsense. I’ve also been involved in plenty of discussions where women specifically DO want and expect the man to pay. So who’s right? Your dismissing claims of numerous men on the grounds of “lol whiny man babies” for no reason and that’s pretty sexist. Men and women both have valid arguments in this discussion and it will never be solved if one side is extremely uncharitable to the legitimate issues the other side f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:55 AM
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Your implying that all sugar babies are near 21 in age….which also isn’t accurate. I do my best not to generalize. I don’t know if you are being willfully ignorant or haven’t been paying attention but numerous threads (with varying ranges and situations) appear about how men lament the fact they are expected to pay and women feel like the man spending money solidifies his interest. It’s the toxic socialized view that men need to be providers and are looked at as wallets. Im not going to pretend …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:39 AM
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Ok so 21 = auto sugar baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:24 AM
6

And yet topics about men being expected to pay pop up daily
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:49 PM
46

Bypass? I just live with it. I flirt and joke around, as it’s my personality to do as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:03 PM
75

I have a lot of female friends and it’s great. Sexual attraction can sometimes get in the way with some of them however.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:45 AM
2

It’s just normal mate competition
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:08 PM
10

I assume you meant artistic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:17 PM
1

My post is using the charitable examples OP cited in good faith. Or did you respond to the wrong post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:45 PM
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It’s funny cuz I literally asked some coworkers (f 21-23) tonight about what a “dad bod” is. They all agreed Jason Mamoas beach pic was the perfect example. JASON MAMOA. Guy looks legit in shape and healthy and that’s a “dad bod” Basically if you’re off cycle, you’re average lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:16 AM
4

Do whatever you please, at anytime. But I’m tired of hearing the “where all the good men at” type of claptrap. They didn’t go anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:09 AM
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I read the whole thing and lost some brain cells in the process. Any reasonable critic of TRP could at LEAST understand that the charitable interpretation of your options would be 1) someone who treats casual sex as largely something to avoid. Preferring to be intimate with partners or people one has at least formed strong bonds with. Not the moronic repressed, uptight boogeyman doormat version of a woman you dreamed up. 2) someone who views casual sex as empowering and freeing, choosing to part…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:45 AM
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I’m not red pill at all but this is the most absurd bad faith engagement of a premise that any self respecting adult would never even give an answer lmao Try harder bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:41 AM
1

You keep repeating things that I’ve already clarified
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:03 AM
1

I don’t know why your being obtuse on purpose. “Hey wanna have dinner with me?” Is a common way to invite someone while leaving it open to be a date or friendly outing. If your arguing that these sorts of vague engagements don’t happen….then I don’t know what to say. Sounds like your arguing in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:10 AM
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And that’s how it continues to remain in the lexicon of popular speech and continues to do harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:04 AM
5

Probably should stop using the term then. It’s pretty clear how most people use it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:14 PM
1

Agreed. The issue lies in letting the other party know explicitly if it’s a date or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:33 PM
1

In many many cases they aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:19 PM
1

Yes and the point I’m making is that it’s common for women to not be clear with their intentions and lack of interest because they don’t want the benefits to stop. If she is upfront from the beginning then it’s not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:06 PM
1

I don’t know if your being willfully ignorant, but friends paying for friends is not at all what I’m talking about and you know it. The situation I described is perfectly apt. There is absolutely an expectation on men to pay for dates, it’s literally in this sub daily. Not sure why you are trying to deny this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:06 PM
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Unfortunately it’s woefully common. Most men have an example of this happening to either themselves or someone they know. Of course you shouldn’t, but as you and I both know the expectation for men to pay is extremely common and prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:19 PM
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A Prime example would be letting the guy pay for stuff, knowing full well men use monetary gestures as a IOI they’ve been socialized into. You know the expression to have a “soft spot” for someone? That’s a good way to describe it imo. Knowing that a person is more willing to sacrifice things in their own interest that they normally wouldn’t do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:00 PM
5

Knowing someone likes you and using that knowledge for personal gain with no intention of reciprocal attachment. That’s my definition anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:34 AM
2

“600 hp car” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:37 PM
2

Guys just wanna be desired sexually. Lusted after, like we lust after our girl. It ain’t that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:37 AM
1

Of course not. What the fuck kind of question is this? If you are asking this question genuinely then your perception of men is fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:41 PM
1

I feel like it’s less entitlement and more that everyone needs love and affection and it’s frustrating to be refused the most basic of human needs 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:28 PM
2

“Leftover males” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:01 PM
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Was there ever a claim to the contrary? Everyone wants to be desired. Sexually and romantically. This isn’t news it’s just human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:22 PM
1

Challenge/change my view
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:13 PM
2

6’3 @ 177? Bruh that’s scrawny as hell. No hate, I don’t know what you look like. But those numbers sound off ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:56 PM
1

I’m curious to how you define toxic masculinity and the patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:35 AM
1

They are different, unrelated concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:19 AM
1

There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. Most people (men and women) cross it trying to show confidence. It’s really off putting when noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:48 PM
2

All I can say is that I’ve been shocked on numerous occasions hearing women say that a random guy I pointed out was “ugly” to them. My friend also called super man a 5. A FIVE. SUPERMAN. HENRY CAVILL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:58 PM
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A lot of men legitimately care about weight. A lot of women legitimately care about height. It’s not the only factor but it’s an important one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:53 AM
1

I wouldn’t say biggest but they do add to it. Lots of men do as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:51 AM
12

Lol @ being tall = trad But yes, if I was to want a trad wife I would have no problem being a trad man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:49 AM
10

This is an oddly based take.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:02 AM
5

If RP is blatant misogyny than FDS is blatant misandry. Seems pretty equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:43 PM
6

That op-Ed doesn’t even know what a neg is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:38 PM
1

So many people take a cursory look at RP and think they got it all figured out lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:33 PM
0

Actually hope springs eternal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:20 PM
10

Look all this yammering about said topic boils down to men want to be enthusiastically desired sexually. That’s it. End of discussion. If you can’t do that then don’t talk to me. Can we stop making topics about this now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:18 PM
0

So nothing for pionk and spezz will get 3+ is my guess. Meanwhile sandin will be out 1-2 months
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:49 PM
2

Even tho I don’t consider myself red pill in the slightest I do occasionally watch the content. A lot of it is cringe. But it’s funny to see the VAST difference in what a lot of people perceive the core tenets of TRP to be and what it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:25 PM
4

These choices suck ass
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:36 PM
9

Future expansion 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:36 PM
2

Christ, with a laundry list that long no wonder the average man doesn’t cut it. Stay on that grind kings! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:19 PM
1

Pretty sure the average guy doesn’t think that. Delusional RP’ers who genuinely think that aren’t a huge % I’d say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:25 PM
11

So..a unicorn?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:23 PM
5

I think it’s more that women spend a lot more time and energy on up keeping their appearance than most men typically do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:46 AM
5

Finally an answer other than “how DARE you ask me that, scrote!!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:31 PM
9

The whole “wall” concept is massively overblown in TRP spaces and such even though the core tenet is true. A woman will have less options typically as she ages because men again, typically, value youth as one of their primary attractive attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:43 AM
0

Espesh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:03 PM
1

Ok well don’t let a few guys skew your view that drastically lmao. Plenty of people can be conventionally attractive and be 5,6,7 etc. I consider conventionally attractive things like jaw line, broad shoulders, muscles, height etc to be some examples. Plenty of “ugly” people can have these.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:26 PM
1

Ive casually wondered about why it bothers some. And to an extent I can agree it is kinda irksome. Overall tho, I think like who cares? It’s fantasy and entertainment. It doesn’t have to be realistic. And it’s better than having every woman be some brain dead trophy piece who needs saving. Still, I can 100% sympathize with OP’s position. I think if I had to distill it down succinctly I would say it’s because men are viewed as protectors and when push comes to shove it’s them who are doing the ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:23 PM
2

If you are actually a high 6 or low 7, conventionally attractive guys would absolutely want you. Unless you think conventionally attractive guys are only like 8-9+….?? Is that where the number begins?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:46 PM
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Men feeling confident ? How DARE they
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:02 PM
6

BOOBA
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:47 PM
6

Buffy 😍 She’s badass and has a great set of values and morals imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:10 PM
14

Society often puts a shaming lens on men based on their sexual performance and/or frequency. So it kind of makes sense how some men can feel low if they struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:48 PM
0

Look there is a lot of dumbfuck things about TRP and it’s members but this nonstop talk about “Casual sex and the hypocrisy1!1!1!” Is nonsense. All men want is to be desired sexually from the get go. It’s the entire point those guys are trying to make, no matter how sloppy the delivery is. Like christ it’s not that deep lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:52 AM
0

Look there is a lot of dumbfuck things about TRP and it’s members but this nonstop talk about “Casual sex and the hypocrisy1!1!1!” Is nonsense. All men want is to be desired sexually from the get go. It’s the entire point those guys are trying to make, no matter how sloppy the delivery is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:52 AM
2

The sentence is just a relic of its time. As with most things people are offended by
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:04 PM
1

Why they are low is actually everything. If u want it to change, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:21 PM
0

Steroids
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:55 PM
16

The average women typically won’t date down where as the average man would. And it works this way based on how each choose partners. It’s causing all this mess and I don’t think there is a solution other than to try and be the best version of oneself and hope for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:24 PM
3

Woman seems to be more attractive generally. Definitely not every time though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:30 AM
1

I’m torn on this issue. I can empathize with the thought of reducing harm for sex workers and such. And I’m all for making things legal, in the sense that the government shouldn’t meddle in peoples lives unless needed. But like…does this dilute the idea that sex should be about passion and romance and human emotion? Trying to quantify and commodify every facet of life and especially sexual behaviour seems like a cold and boring existence to me. Are we going to latch on to the idea that sex is “w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:37 PM
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Associating partying in college to the marine corps 😂 Not disagreeing it’s just a funny comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:16 PM
5

Shit tests are cringe and reflective of insecurity and immaturity. Dump her ass and be on with your life. Ain’t nobody got time for that shit. I wouldn’t say it relates to domestic violence tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 09:24 AM
1

This is hilarious and ICONIC
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:35 AM
14

Ohhh Lordy lord them WHITES at it again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:02 AM
2

Aside from the cringe you just posted, he was speaking about the post quality on the sub and not the looks of the women Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:26 AM
1

Did you photoshop hair on thurston?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:59 AM
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This thread is wild lmao On topic : I’d say casual misandry is pretty common, at least from my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:39 AM
5

😂 The ridiculousness of this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:48 AM
0

Oh do women not enjoy sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:04 AM
3

Using a recent tragedy about someone to make some cringe Reddit thread? That’s kinda fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:09 AM
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Gottem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:51 AM
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I think this is generally true except with a caveat that women also cheat simply for pleasure. I’m not saying women are worse or anything and the phrase “men are only as loyal as their options” is a thing for a reason but let’s not pretend that women are above cheating simply for lust and lack of character.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:34 AM
5

What does financially abusive mean
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:32 AM
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A lot of men struggle with that and OF is an easy way to get off without all the hassle of trying to pull. Shit ain’t deep
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 05:51 AM
1

Bezos is jacked
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:51 PM
1

Why try and chat up a bird if I can just jerk it to OF content? Try n keep up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:48 PM
0

Guys paying for OF
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:01 PM
1

Who hurt you OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:46 PM
1

If she breathes, she’s a thot!!!!!!!!!!!!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:39 PM
1

Totally understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:31 PM
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To be honest I think if you are that inexperienced with women I don’t think you can accurately give any conclusions about them. No offence of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:23 PM
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Cuz we are in a time period of extremely low accountability imo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:42 AM
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They start from frustrations about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:37 PM
2

Isn’t it just as likely that you leave your partner for someone who is of higher status/wealthier based on supposed hypergamy? Seems like constantly living in fear of a partners actions is a bad time. Not saying you shouldn’t work but shouldn’t you be working because you enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:09 PM
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Ya you’re right. Women can’t be mad when a man leaves them for a younger, hotter version of themselves. It’s just their nature!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 10:32 PM
2

I’m starting to think people have no fucking clue what saying “not all men” actually means
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 09:36 AM
1

I routinely find women attractive who are not generally viewed as conventionally good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:48 PM
6

What did she do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:43 PM
2

It’s the implication that men are frustrated with. The implication isn’t “all men” it’s “most men” which is just as damaging. It should be “some men” but that’s not what’s being sold. You seem incredibly dismissive of men’s feelings as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:53 PM
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A committed monogamous relationship with the goal of a stable family life isn’t a biological imperative for either men or women. It’s a socially constructed system which benefits children and therefore deemed the ideal way to have a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:47 PM
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I disagree. Men who want a family value and prioritize commitment the same way women do. Sounds like you have a narrow view of men as a whole. Men looking for consistent casual sex does not equal commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:06 PM
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Seems to be the same “unattractive” men that are shaming women for their preferences when in reality it’s people just frustrated with being left out in both cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:46 PM
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You are making a lot of generalizations about men which I don’t hold as true as you think. Men’s partner choosing is definitely different and there are several factors at play but it’s not accurate to paint with such a broad brush. Men are people too and need/want love and attachment just as much as women. They have to suppress their biological urge to “spread the seed” if you will more than the average woman but the desires that go along with an LTR are still the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:43 PM
10

It’s true male thirst is definitely a discussion to have, but it doesn’t mean it couldn’t be done. Just needs to be accounted for
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:21 PM
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I don’t even think it’s about indoctrination they just don’t have experience dating as a man. There was a YouTube named Anna Akana who is bisexual I think and after she dated women she said she understood what men go through much more and could emphasize with them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:49 PM
1

That’s what I’m saying, seeing it as a risk is a ridiculous exaggeration imo. I have plenty of women in my life and they don’t seem to have a problem with it. Ya ya I know anecdotal blah blah. It’s an issue that has gotten substantially worse over the decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:30 PM
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Walking alone at night is an entirely different scenario and perfectly reasonable situation to be cautious. But giving a random guy a compliment shouldn’t make you feel wary of the outcome. I fully understand some men can take that as romantic interest, and some can be very pushy with how they try and pursue someone. But that’s part of the problem. Most men are so desperate and starved for attention/affection which is a basic human need that they will latch onto any form of basic human decency. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:25 PM
2

You get no reward for giving compliments? What about feeling good about being nice to someone? You really want to resign yourself to a life where you can’t do that to half the population? Seems like a depressing reality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:16 PM
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Ok you better not drive, to avoid possible bad scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:54 PM
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Didn’t claim to know anything of what it’s like being a woman. They have legitimate issues that I can sympathize with. I just think we are teaching them to be fearful of men to a degree that isn’t helping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:18 PM
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I don’t have to be a woman to understand that there are people much bigger/stronger than me who could easily kill me and yet I’m not paralyzed with fear to interact with them. But sure, keep up w/ the infantilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:06 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s about self respect but male thirst is definitely an issue that needs taking about
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:29 AM
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The fact that the average woman is so fearful of men that complimenting him will make her think she’s at risk to be stalked is the fucking problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:26 AM
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Your first sentence read “I just listen to women” meaning this is a gendered issue with you, and not objective. It’s ok we all have our biases
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:27 PM
1

I caught the edited post
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:18 PM
1

I guess we disagree. Got any stats on it by chance? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:37 PM
1

Ok so you assume all bosses are essentially raping the employees they sleep with ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:28 PM
1

And what red flag did the random Reddit poster that you don’t know display ? And no “he was fucking the person he hired!!!!” Isn’t a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:18 PM
2

What, so you just walk around and assume the worst of people right off the bat? Sounds pretty yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:01 PM
2

Yes…of course. Innocent until proven guilty is Kinda how this has to work
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:37 PM
2

Cuz I don’t assume people are rapists without proof
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:05 PM
1

As a consenting adult she was probably ok with it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:25 PM
3

That’s just blackmail. Also that’s not a “relationship”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:21 PM
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I don’t identify with the manosphere at all but I keep up with their side of things to maintain a balance. Several years now. Half of your list I haven’t even seen once. So I don’t really know what you view to be the “manosphere” exaxctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:42 AM
1

Ok so if guy believe these assertions, what is the overall point you are making?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 03:59 AM
1

It’s definitely important to have clear intentions when going into any romantic relationship. But that’s true for everyone. A fear of being used for sex or not fully appreciated as a person is normal. I dunno it doesn’t seem that we disagree really on anything? Your description of romantic love seems close enough to mine, just without the sexual element. I guess when I worded it earlier it made it seem like you can’t experience love without desire? Which I wouldn’t agree with. Like you said, som…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:30 PM
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Hey no worries, tone is hard to sus out in text form. How do you see love and relationships differently? And what about my view is disturbing? Could you describe romantic love, without sexual desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:30 PM
2

Are you trying to make some kind of statement? You seem to be coming at me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:06 PM
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I think romantic love and sexual attraction are linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:57 PM
3

Of course I have. That’s part of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:52 PM
3

I mean I would consider a friendship, a type of relationship. Support, companionship, trust, mutual enjoyment of each other’s company, respect, etc. Seems very much the same as a romantic relationship…minus the sexual element.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:44 PM
2

Depends how you define “relationships”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:39 PM
5

I mean.. yes? If not the only it’s certainly the biggest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:32 PM
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What exactly are you suggesting with this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:18 PM
5

I suppose it definitely could be the case where the guy pretends he’s earnestly interested and then just ghosts after sex. Have you found the rule to be effective? Just seems very black pill-ish to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:18 AM
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That’s kind of a yikes from me dawg. Couldn’t you just not sleep with him right away to achieve a similar outcome? And this way you don’t reinforce the idea that men can simply buy your affection with money?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:14 AM
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People with no mutual attraction is what I call friends
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:07 AM
5

What’s the FDS dinner rule ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:06 AM
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Any ideology can distort things if you aren’t careful. Blue, Red, Black, Purple, FDS etc. Have to draw out the nuggets of truth and ignore the mountain of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:40 AM
1

Can’t imagine the % of people with genuine psychopathy is very high. “Just be yourself” is such a cringe platitude even though it is 100% true and effective. Doesn’t mean people will like you though. Which is fine. Dating is tough!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:06 PM
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I’ve never of this version of “frame” before. If we are going to use it, I’d say it is more important how one carries themselves than a specific look. But abs do be powerful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:54 PM
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I want to apologize if my comment came off as victim blaming. Obviously there are some awful men out there who prey upon minors and such. It’s disgusting and abhorrent. Wasn’t trying to minimize what you went through. I guess I just pictured some guy walking down the street and shouting “nice rack” at a 10 year old and it seemed ridiculous. Unless you were the oldest 10 year old imaginable it just didn’t seem possible. I was thinking about deleting my comment but you responded to before I could.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:31 AM
3

Kind of like police body cams. I like it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:38 AM
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I’m sorry but no fuckin chance were u being catcalled at age 10
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:37 AM
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Truly shameful. Pretty sure this isn’t something that’s celebrated though. Most people don’t suck this much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:19 PM
9

No more Zelda? Fuck off. I need me some BOTW2
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:25 AM
2

No gold medal for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:30 PM
1

I think it’s plausible that people (men and women) who have high n-count are more likely to be unfaithful or feel less satisfied in a monogamous relationship. Seems pretty logical. But this study isn’t worth much tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:53 PM
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As with any ideology there is a small nugget of truth that exists between the mountain of bullshit surrounding it. The nugget from TRP is this: a woman in her 20’s will have more options sexually than a woman in her 30’s. This is just a fact based on how men choose a partner. It’s the same for men; he will have more options if he’s successful than if he’s a bum. NO ONE should rush one of the biggest decisions of your life (marriage) for any reason. Can you not focus on dating and your career at …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:45 PM
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It’s because the degrees held by men are from much higher paying fields like STEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:25 AM
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This is basically what I came to as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:32 AM
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I agree with your premise. It sounds plausible even though your Shia example is baaaaaad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 08:22 PM
1

I biggest thing I can think of is dating feels exponentially more transactional than it used to
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:37 AM
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I’ve wondered this as well. We all can have our thoughts and opinions on the dating situation for both sides but it’s like….what are the solutions ? I guess just try and be a responsible and respectful adult and hope for the best? I dunno. Seems like dating just sucks in general these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:25 PM
1

Pretty yikes ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:25 AM
1

Firstly, i never claimed to be part of TRP community. So you have 1 limited study and a bunch of other studies of even less usefulness and that’s enough to discredit the chad theory? Guess I’m not convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:23 AM
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You keep mentioning “science” even though none of these sources are scientific. The studies you linked in your OP……which don’t pertain to hookup culture…….which I believe to be the biggest factor in the chad theory……for the third time lol. The tinder study is the best one to use but still a poor example because of the reasons I stated earlier above. People not on tinder, hooking up outside of using tinder, not being fully honest, small sample size etc. Can’t really spell it out any clearer than …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:13 AM
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I know how siting studies works lol but your studies don’t really pertain to the essence of the chad theory imo. The tinder study wasn’t in your OP…and I’ve already stated it’s very limited in its usefulness as well
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:07 AM
1

How do they help it in any substantial way? The biggest factor imo is hookup culture, which none of your studies are based on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:58 AM
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I don’t mean prove in the literal sense, but you are using studies to try and make claims are you not? I’m only stating that the studies you did site, as well as this random tinder study, would not help the claims you are making. Because it is too small of the puzzle. No need to be pedantic :P
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:55 AM
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I’m just saying it’s only a small sliver of specific data. You couldn’t use it to prove or disprove the chad theory one way or the other. There are too many other potential figures to look at. People who don’t use tinder, hookups outside of tinder, false reporting (even though that’s probably not a huge amount imo), small relative sample size, etc to name a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:52 AM
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Ya ok sure but then that study is pretty much irrelevant to the biggest factor of random hookups. Or at least not very conclusive of any theory in either side
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:45 AM
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How would that study even track such data? Because if it only focuses on tinder related hook ups than that’s a huge piece of the puzzle missing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:44 AM
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Ok, but that could be very different metrics entirely. Could easily mean, let’s say, 50% of both men and women do random hook ups on the regular but the 50% of men are hooking up with a much larger % of the female population. Not saying that’s the case, but hookup culture is the biggest factor imo for figuring out all this chad sharing nonsense theory
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:39 AM
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Do any of your studies track single people hooking up at random? Like you wouldn’t classify that as polyamory, would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:33 AM
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Apology accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:43 PM
1

Do….do you…..not know what sarcasm is? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:27 PM
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We didn’t agree on anything hence why I said “I guess we simply disagree” let’s just leave it at that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:24 PM
1

Sounds like a personal problem to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:21 PM
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Dear lord….do you honestly believe that rabble ? I guess we simply disagree. All your points are referring to infidelity which is an entirely different discussion. Guess I don’t gotta care about pleasing my female partner because women don’t like sex! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:03 PM
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Sounds like the partner is the problem. I’ve known lots of women who still have consistently enjoyable sex well through their 40’s. What your describing sounds more like the natural honeymoon stage ending. Sleeping with the same person after a while doesn’t feel new and exciting anymore. But again….that’s a human issue, entirely. Not about women enjoying sex less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:49 PM
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How could you have had amazing sexual experiences if women don’t like sex? And are simply fucking men as a favour ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:10 PM
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How could you have had amazing sexual experiences if women don’t like sex? And are simply fucking men as a favour ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:10 PM
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Yikes. Sound like your projecting all your shit sexual experiences onto others as the norm. See I can make assumptions too!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:20 PM
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I’m sorry but that’s ridiculous. Hasn’t society at large been shouting at us saying “women like sex too!!!!” For decades now? Sounds like your trying to undermine that with making statements such as you did. Even IF those things were true in a general sense, my point still stands: sex isn’t something women ‘provide’ to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:25 PM
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And women want to fuck their husbands too. Your point? Stop trying to make this a “men” thing. Sexual desire is a HUMAN thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:09 AM
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I’m not saying it can’t be important to someone. But to say sex is something women ‘provide’ men is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:44 AM
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Good sex doesn’t have to include orgasms. For men or women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:12 AM
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But sex is a mutually enjoyable experience. So that’s not something women provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:59 AM
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What do they have to provide to be loved ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:25 AM
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So basically men are only valuable and desirable to women if they can offer them something? Sounds pretty depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:39 PM
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Ok so that’s really just your perception of the hobbies that’s holding you back. There is nothing inherently juvenile about games or comics. It’s no different than going to see a movie. What does growing up have to do with it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:27 PM
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What makes it an unattractive hobby though? Or is it that you assume guys with that hobby are boring/shut ins/ not adventurous/ etc? Or is it something to do with the actual hobby?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:34 PM

So basically, being into games/comics is an objectively unattractive quality in a man but if he has other attractive qualities such as looks/ambition than those can make up for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:26 PM
3

I as a man am very happy to 50/50 in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:18 AM
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I don’t think there needs to be solutions. People are free to pick the life they want. Trad life or any such alternative. Both can be fulfilling The biggest complaint about feminism from what I hear is it feels like we have liberated women from their gender role of nurturer and caretaker (which is good) yet men haven’t been liberated from their role as provider and are still expected to be as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:45 PM
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Entirely a coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:01 PM
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And? Is that a problem? OP didn’t bring it up, like I said Also Jason momoa isn’t even white is he ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:43 PM
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Naming famous actors who happen to be white is not at all the same thing as bringing particular attention to race specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:40 PM
2

How so ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:37 PM
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Why u gotta bring race into it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:28 AM

Yea I totally understand that you have to be safe and take your precautions. It just feels like the average woman is absolutely TERRIFIED of men. And like..that’s sad. She shouldn’t be. (Not telling anyone how to feel, just sucks to think about )
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:07 PM
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Are the chances of that really that likely? It can’t be more than 1-2% of guys who would actually do such a thing. I live in a smaller city so maybe it’s different but like….this sounds hyperbolic. Not trying to be confrontational; just trying to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:13 AM
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How likely do you feel something bad is going to happen to you, from a stranger. And be honest! This is something I’ve been thinking about lately. Do you feel it’s honestly that likely?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:31 AM
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Zelda?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:29 AM
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Dear lord 300 people? How on earth could you even communicate with all that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:29 AM
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I’ve often heard that from both sides. Average men are invisible. The same for women. So is the problem that everyone who is average thinks they aren’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:26 AM
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“Oh they definitely float!” Bruh there was an opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:01 AM
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Yup agreed. Everyone can do as they see fit. He seems to have lost interest in the convo anyhow
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:26 AM
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He might have been. I assume he just thinks it’s hypocritical though. Unless you wouldn’t judge a man who only wants to date a submissive woman who takes care of the house and cooks/cleans?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:16 AM
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I think he was implying you are only ok with gender roles for your man but not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:04 AM
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I feel like there are many double standards that exist in life. They suck but it is what it is. Men are less demonized for their sexual debauchery than women are. Not fair but I think it’s kinda true. Men are praised for sexual prowess because it’s hard and difficult to do for the average man (at least that’s the theory) It’s easy for women to get sex (again, that’s the theory but I think it has a kernel of truth to it) Obviously any rape situation should be condemned on both sides though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:28 AM
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I’d like to live in a world where a mans value isn’t placed on how many women he can fuck So I’d consider sugar daddies/babies both losers equally
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:29 PM
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It’s similar in the case of it being awful for both. It’s different tho, I agree. Equally bad. As for the frequency I’m leaning towards women experiencing it more but the underreporting is definitely an issue for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:44 AM
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I could argue it’s worse for men emotionally. As a woman, the threat physically would be worse. Men being stronger generally means your physical safety is of greater risk. But the man has the opposite issue. He is stronger yet even more powerless to defend himself. He’s shamed and called a pussy if he speaks up. Can’t physically defend himself in fear of being labeled a woman abuser. He gets no sympathy or empathy because he is a man and needs to “man up” “Lol lucky guy getting some play” “He pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:31 AM

It’s because we’ve been told that looks mean less to women than they do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:36 AM

Lol I am your perfect man apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:41 PM

Pretty sure no guy is “mystified” that girls don’t want fatties lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:32 PM

The issue is that a lot of men are frustrated with what a women will qualify as “worthy”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:30 PM
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Well everyone should care. We should care about entire groups of people. I don’t want bad things to happen to women any more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:52 AM
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It’ll absolutely hurt women, if it does anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:42 AM
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Aren’t we being told to ask before trying something in the bedroom? That seems the exact opposite of what your suggesting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:15 PM

This thread is depressing af lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 07:03 AM
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Maybe I was misinterpreting the study. Thank you for clarification :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:09 AM
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That’s exactly what I’m saying….this study implies that these reasons mean men are LESS INTERESTED in sex…. And since you posted the study….and seemed to IMPLY that you agreed with the study…..that’s why I commented.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:56 AM
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Yes but in your own post you posited that these reasons were why the discussion of men having sex was related at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:52 AM
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Care…to elaborate or…..?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:45 AM
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I….don’t know what your asking me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:41 AM
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Why would you post a study that you didn’t agree with, but not say so in your post? You also said that this means women aren’t only going for “chads” which further implies you agree with the study
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:35 AM
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You didn’t have to state it, that’s the implication your presenting. Men are choosing to pursue sex less often because they aren’t interested. Which isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:32 PM
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If you think young men are somehow less interested in sex overall I have a bridge to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:05 PM
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Approaching has nothing to do with settling. It’s about confidence Most women don’t approach because they are not confident enough or fear rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:51 PM
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It’s not necessarily a must but it seems to work for a lot of em
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:32 PM
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I think paying activates part of the lizard brain in a women about “provider” which is why they are attracted to it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:23 PM
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It’s the “you do you” mindset that I call it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:08 AM
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Absolutely. If the guy complains about a condom, or isn’t willing to at least discuss options then he isn’t someone worth your time tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:47 PM
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Yes, but carrying the physical risk doesn’t dismiss it entirely. You can very easily put your mind at ease of having children by like 99% with condoms and birth control. Yes I know some women experience problems or don’t like birth control. Totally understandable. I just feel as if dismissing a women’s potential enjoyment of sex isn’t accurate. If condoms and brith control are not enough to put your mind at ease, vasectomies are a non invasive surgery a man can have to remove ALL doubt. If none …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:17 PM
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I wouldn’t say Reproductive rights are going to shit in the US. They literally just passed abortion up until BIRTH (which is kinda fucked imo) in several states including NewYork, in 2019.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:09 PM
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I go off my experiences from women, not studies. Talk is cheap. Obviously dating is difficult and complex. The fact you think the fisherman example means men are comparing women to fish is pretty telling. Every post you make just screams insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:58 PM
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I’ve never heard any guy look down upon virgin women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:24 AM
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The topic is “sex is a mutually enjoyable experience for both parties, let’s stop pretending it isn’t” That DOESN’T mean the other factors that differing genders experience are unimportant but it ISN’T related to the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 04:50 AM
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I didn’t mean to hand wave those things as unimportant, just not relevant to the point imo. Those things are definitely important in their own right. I would say sex, as a general experience should be equally enjoyable for both parties. Obviously there are differences and such but I don’t think that is what this topic is about. Again, important things but not relevant. I guess I’m kinda assuming “all things equal” type of situation. And yes I know “well things aren’t exactly equal, so why say so…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 04:34 AM
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The topic I’m commenting is about sex being used as a reward. I think it shouldn’t be, that’s about it. As ya, when I say it’s an equal responsibility I obviously mean it SHOULD be. Not necessarily that it always is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 04:22 AM
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All of those things aren’t exclusive to women. They aren’t part of this discussion. The only relevant part is pregnancy. Obviously the woman bears more physical risk because she will be carrying the child but pregnancy as a whole is a equal partnership and responsibility of both people involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 04:07 AM
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Pregnancy is the only wrench that can clog the gears. Obviously, the woman bears more physical risk because of bearing the child but pregnancy as a general topic is (or should be) an equal partnership and responsibility. The fact that some men are selfish in the bedroom isn’t relevant. We are discussing the topic of sex as a reward within a relationship, and the dynamics of such. Obviously loving and attentive partners should have their partners pleasure in mind but that isn’t the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 04:04 AM
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These points don’t hold any relevance imo. Obviously, with a partner you trust, risk wouldn’t be relevant. Sex should never be a reward, so that’s not relevant. Equal pleasure? Again, with a loving partner, equal pleasure is obviously on the table. Equal drive? True this may differ but that’s not relevant either. When the sex happens, that’s the part that matters. Selective? Again not relevant because the selection is already made - eg the partner you are with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:47 AM
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Imagine uttering the phrase “should people care about generally ‘low status men’ “ un-ironically...is this what we’ve come to? Is this the world we live in? You are literally asking “should we even give a fuck if they all got tossed aside?” Like men’s sole purpose or value as a person is what they can bring to society. I know you meant it harmlessly but holy fuck does it sound depressing. So yea. I’d say we should absolutely care about probably over 50% of all men as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 09:48 AM
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I think the issue is about desire. Men (women too) want to be viscerally lusted after. If a guy knows that a woman has done so for other guys, but is making him wait he feels that he is not as desirable. Where as a virgin has been able to resist temptation, and the guy can now feel very desirable if this super chaste girl gives it up for him. Big ego boost. We as guys are very proud and have sensitive egos imo. It’s kind of a flaw lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:57 PM
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Absolutely. Stringing someone along is bad in both cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:36 PM
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I think you are conflating ‘friendzone’ to mean any platonic friendship which isn’t accurate. Can happen to girls or guys but this example I am speaking about guys. Friendship can absolutely be enough but it has to be what both parties want. Friendzone is not an example of this. The wants are different from both parties. This has nothing to do with expecting sex or feeling entitled to sex. That comes from the guy hearing “we want a guy like xyz” and him thinking “well if I demonstrate that I am …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:29 PM
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Sure that’s accurate but it doesn’t invalidate the statement about friendzone guys. They are being used as emotional crutches
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:03 PM
1

I agree men should be doing equal work at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:01 PM
4

No they are being used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:00 PM
5

They are absolutely being used as an emotional crutch
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:45 PM
1

Agreed. It’s really shitty. Sucks that it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 07:49 AM
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What do you mean by “right” True? Or good? I’m not saying it’s a good thing, it just happens to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:58 AM
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Wait are u agreeing with me or? I’m saying it’s very common for the same person to not like you when you’re overweight and suddenly like you when you’re fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:16 AM
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This is very very on a case by case basis
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:10 AM
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I feel like guys having money and offering security was desirable back in the days when women weren’t allowed to work. Now that they can, why is it such a requirement ? What if my wife is the breadwinner and I work a standard 9-5 that I enjoy ? If that’s a problem then that’s when I would get annoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:07 PM
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What makes u broken? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 11:07 AM
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What tf did I just read
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