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No I didn’t say that at all! I essentially said that a small group of men are enjoying sex with a large group of women and a large group of men are sexless. By now this fact has been talked about even in the mainstream- just google it. This hurts majority of women and men- many women are not getting commitment and lots of men have nothing. This is not something that I gathered anecdotally- it’s statistically proven. Also I certainly don’t have the mindset that I am right and everyone else is wro…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/23 11:59 PM
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It’s their choice but I’m also free to say it’s not a wise choice for most if not all people. Besides most people aren’t even in poly relationships officially. A lot of women are in situationships with men who are spinning plates (the woman is one of many)-whereas a lot of men are left single. The women want to have that man as their own but these men are being given husband privileges before giving husband commitment. How is this effed up new version of polygamy something I should just be like …
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/23 09:07 PM
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It’s not even just about having children to take care of the old it’s that on top of that we will have less people to do important things like repair infrastructure… things will collapse. It may seem like there’s no shortage in babies being born but if you look into the data we’re having way less children these days and most of the world, I believe, is below replacement level. Some countries are catching onto this. China stopped its one child policy because of this. There are ramifications of th…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/23 09:01 PM
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But one of women’s main contributions to the world is bearing and raising children. Does anyone think about how things keep running if the number of babies becomes less than those who are getting old?? That’s not to say everyone has to do this but when more and more women opt out (excluding those who simply can’t- although this is an issue if these numbers rise with a decrease in fertility ) this is detrimental to society. You should check out Stephen Shaw’s work (https://www.birthgap.org/).
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/23 07:57 PM
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A wife could work from home part time or something like that and raise the kids while her husband works a 50k job and they could do fine in a state with reasonable cost of living. What’s the problem with that? It’s not the ideal but when women hold out for the “ideal” what happens is they end up entering menopause single and childless. Do we want to repopulate the earth or not???
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/23 06:46 PM
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That’s why I said socially enforced and not legally enforced. People definitely should have a choice but we have to educate people and not just be like “you do you, as long as it’s consensual”… it’s okay to have a belief and take a stand if you can back it up properly. History proves it would be best if most people were monogamous.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/23 06:35 PM
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Oops 😬 I’ll check it out
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 08:04 PM
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Oops, my bad!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/22 04:01 PM
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Yeah the number could be the same but the effect and experience on the part of each gender are different, that’s what I mean by they’re not the same
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/22 02:40 PM
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The only thing the man may be lacking in his wife is that she is not a novel mate-men are wired for variety. It is very biological- it’s not emotional. I can’t be offended by that. Just like a man can’t be offended by hypergamy. I would never be with a man who had side pieces. I think one night stands are more ethical and work better within a marriage. Women get stds from men who lie to them and cheat behind their back. Women have husbands knock up other women when she thought he was faithful. N…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/22 02:39 PM
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But that’s how women think, not how men think
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 03:29 AM
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Female and male promiscuity aren’t the same
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 03:28 AM
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Sex in and of itself. I should have been clearer. Anything can be made special in a persons mind. If a man sees a woman as special, a conversation, time together, sex could be special. If he doesn’t see her as so then it wouldn’t be special.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 10:02 PM
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*sex lol
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 09:05 PM
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My husband doesn’t cheat on me and has expressed that sexual with me is special because I am special to him🤷‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 09:04 PM
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Hooking up is promiscuous behavior-maybe it’s not something she does as a habit but the fact that she let him enter her mouth or other orifice without any commitment says something about her character, how she views herself. She is not limiting herself to men who will wait for sex with her until they show her they intend to make her their wife. That’s indiscriminate sexual behavior. Promiscuity.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 08:30 PM
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I would have to trust him just like a woman would trust a man who says he doesn’t sleep with other women. No one is in our control ever we just have to have agreements and trust that person to keep them. Also a man could catch feelings for another woman from just connecting via talking
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 07:14 PM
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First of all you’re equating how men and women view and experience sex and it’s just not the same! Also red pill isn’t spiritual or moralizing. It’s just evolutionary psychology. Also Jeffrey Dahmers victims didn’t have consent- and they were killed! Far different from women who willingly fling themselves at men of status and agree of their own free will to have sex without any commitment. That’s ethical. Women just have to stop offering their bodies to men so easily- it’s really upon us- like w…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 04:48 PM
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Firstly, traditionally men were more polyamorous! They weren’t held to strict sexual monogamy until religion changed that and other societal factors!! So what do we mean by traditional? Strict sexual monogamy is in the grand scheme of things fairly novel! Secondly, a man is committed if he only loves one woman and provides for her financially, emotionally, etc. He could have sex with a stranger once in awhile and still not commit any of the aforementioned things to that stranger. A man’s sexual …
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 04:37 PM
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That’s assuming that a man sleeping with other women will cause distress or harm to his S.O. If a woman understands that while this is not the Disney fairytale view of love we’ve been fed, it is still love to want your man to be fulfilled. If he just wants a random hookup now and again to release that pent up desire for variety, why deny him of that? The other woman has to be informed about what she’s getting-just a hookup, no more. She’s not being misled or strung along- she consented to a carn…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 04:30 PM
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Why would he fall in love with a promiscuous woman he slept with for a night when he has a faithful, committed woman at home? Also red pill men understand that if they are prioritizing their success, starting a new relationship and having to find out if that woman will be faithful to him or need to be trained out of bad habits is not something he has time for. Also if a woman is willing to hookup with him that is already a red flag- she’s not relationship material.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 04:19 PM
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Also I would say nearly all men would want to. I don’t know if we as women know the feeling of being a man with a male sex drive? There’s less thought put into it than a woman it’s animalistic instinct
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 04:08 PM
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Why is it not right? And how is it not respecting the woman? He’s not lying, going behind her back, he’s not giving resources or much time to other women, not impregnating them, not giving them love, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 04:06 PM
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I truly think most women would be shocked to know the answer if they asked their man if he would want to sleep with other women if she wouldn’t leave him or be upset. I think most women are with men who don’t sleep around or at least do so openly because they have a scarcity mindset and don’t want to lose their relationship. Yet they still ultimately would want to sleep around if they could. Doesn’t that seem like a recipe for disaster -suppressed desires and fear over losing a long term relatio…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 03:54 PM
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This is a redpill women forum- the truth i.e. the redpill is that men naturally don’t see sex as anything special. Just a biological itch to scratch. Knowing that would a woman be sharing her man if he ate a meal at a restaurant instead of her cooking the meal for him? The whole point of red pill is facts over feelings. It could feel like someone is sharing their man but are they really?? As women we need to be less afraid of male nature and work with it in a way that makes sense so we can susta…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 03:47 PM
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A man is designed to spread his seed- to desire variety. When he has a lot of opportunities throwing themselves at him because of his higher value (not him putting time and effort into pursuing or wooing the woman like a lower value man would have to), and he tells you he wants to enjoy this reward once in awhile (no lying or hiding it from you) it’s a lot different from being a scummy cheater. If you’re his favorite woman- the one who gets his money, energy, attention, and time- why does it mat…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 03:26 AM
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That’s a good idea! I work, it would just be helpful to pay for groceries that way
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/22 06:26 PM
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Why is that? Isn’t that what men have historically done?
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/22 06:24 PM
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Men are the more logical sex- think of them as the lines in a work of art, women are the emotional- think of us as the color
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 02:09 PM
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I would have a convo with him in which vulnerability can be had… ask him why it bothers him? Really give him the space to be open with you so that you can understand him instead of assuming and telling him he’s projecting. Also I would examine yourself- are you internally available to these men- in your mind are you locked down or no? If you’re not, examine why.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/22 08:57 PM
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Read The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy. Joe Dispenza does good work in this area too. A lot of our illnesses and mental health issues and other distresses come from the beliefs we carry in our subconscious about ourselves and the world. It sounds hokey but people make tons of money off of you not believing the answer could be as simple as telling yourself positive, healing, affirming statements and believing them. Just give it a go.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/22 06:09 AM
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The more you fear something, the more your mind implants that in your subconscious which then affects how you operate in life. Please choose love over fear. If you find a man and truly love him and want what’s best for him, you won’t fear him cheating. You’ll give him the space to communicate with you openly and honestly about his desires without you being reactionary to him. I think this is the best way to do things. We can not control our men- even if we are doing all the right things- if a ma…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/22 05:58 AM
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“Evolution of Desire” by David Buss is a great resource, highly recommend. It covers mating strategies of both sexes as well as other topics talked about on here through the lens of evolutionary psychology
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 11:54 PM
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I tend to agree with everything you said- it’s just jealousy is a beast and I think I’d be more jealous in that environment- like the sharing would be in my face. But then again polygamy isn’t something my husband is into(we’ve talked about it). So that’s better for my jealousy but worse for my conscience.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/22 03:25 AM
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Do the women enjoy it? I think when that’s not something you’re used to seeing it’d be really hard for a woman to accept sharing her husband with other wives- that’s way more sharing than just a little time and occasional access to the man sexually and non romantically. Not attacking the idea just saying most women in the west are socially conditioned to oppose that idea
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/22 12:59 AM
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Trust me, it’s still very ick to me. The only thing is it gives me a sense of being informed and I don’t have to worry about him cheating which imo is way worse. I agree- it’s seemingly impossible for men and women to both get what they want- when it comes to sexual monogamy they contradict eachother. Makes me want to stand on mountain top and yell “ladies we have to raise the price of sex”!!
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/22 12:42 AM
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Yeah that’s the hall pass lol. And the thing is he is very redpill and those guys see women traveling without them as a red flag. I even feel guilty for my desire to do so even though I have ZERO bad intent.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/22 11:12 PM
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