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that's rape
/r/seduction23/09/15 11:03 PM
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ask her about herself, whats going on? is a better question do you know anything about them that you can ask them about? for example if theyre a dancer you can ask whats up with dance the key to conversation is that you must listen!
/r/seduction21/09/15 12:31 AM
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you are in a scarcity mindset. you should have soooo many girls to choose from. don't stress this one. if you get to fuck her then obviously do it, but I say move on
/r/seduction21/09/15 12:30 AM
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oh boy if they aren't texting you back you have not created attraction I don't understand how you ask for their numbers without having a date lined up? for example, "we should get coffee some time, put your number in my phone" then you text her in a couple days saying "hey wanna get coffee". and that is IT you do not want to be her texting buddy. you should be busy with life! youre an alpha
/r/seduction21/09/15 12:28 AM
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kiss on da cheeeeeek
/r/seduction21/09/15 12:26 AM
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everyday of school is a social event. talk to evvvvvvvverrrrryyyyybody. in your classes, in the halls
/r/seduction21/09/15 12:25 AM
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this guy has gameeeeeeee got you asking the seddit community.
/r/seduction21/09/15 12:23 AM
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definitely drop her. its the first date and all this shit goes down??? avoid at all costs, you did the right thing by making sure she was okay. I applaud you my friend
/r/seduction21/09/15 12:21 AM
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just email me sir, I've got you covered
/r/seduction20/09/15 10:11 PM
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look for women with a more masculine essence. meaning she has goals that she wants to pursue and has that male like determination. to be clear I'm not saying go after the manly women! just divide and conquer, you should know how determined she is if she keeps talking about her goals, or if shes always busy
/r/seduction20/09/15 04:57 PM
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what you have to realize is that in the end, you are alone. no one is truly there for you. you need to accept this and be comfortable being alone. you should just enjoy alone time, be comfortable being with yourself. I suggest you read some books. I recommend A New Earth by Eckhart tolle, your life sounds like fun, you can go out and fuck who ever you want without having them around to annoy you
/r/seduction20/09/15 04:55 PM
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girls are wired to find the better mate, its scientifically proven. maybe the guy was more confident in himself which intrigued her
/r/seduction19/09/15 11:51 PM
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listen man don't be coming here making me look bad
/r/seduction19/09/15 11:50 PM
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it is a bad idea. go talk to other girls. you're in a scarcity mindset. you think that just because she liked you before that she still does. learn from your mistake, you admitted you were stupid, think about what you did and avoid that when you find another girl. we move forward in life my friend!!
/r/seduction19/09/15 07:14 PM
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the fact that you didn't make a move makes you mysterious! this is good!
/r/seduction19/09/15 07:12 PM
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you didn't fuck up you are really insecure and haven't accepted yourself. so work on that. do you have her number? text her and ask her to hang out (be specific) keep the texting convo short (you don't wanna be her texting buddy) if she rejects you (says shes busy) ask when she is free to hang out if she still makes excuses she is not interested! to "make a move" its all about the eyes. just make eye contact and kiss her when the time is right
/r/seduction19/09/15 07:11 PM
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that is the way to go! when you work on yourself you raise your value as a man! which will attract girls heres what you do focus on yourself, but when that girl comes ( and she will ) you fuck her and keep going down your path. you will also develop an indifferent attitude which is imperative!! bottom line, girls should never be the priority
/r/seduction19/09/15 07:08 PM
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you walk away 100%. you will be disrespecting yourself if you don't. you as a man are valuable, and deserve respect. just tell her that you want to break up. don't be upset, don't hold grudges. just move on. now it will be hard, it will hurt. but you will get over it. the fact that she cheated shows that she found someone better than you. so this is a sign that you need to change something about yourself start reading self help books (way of superior man, motivation manifesto, 48 laws of power) …
/r/seduction19/09/15 07:06 PM
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they are not competition, they are your brothers, you succeed together. never get jealous, admire and learn. all you can do is work on yourself read work out dress well/ smell nice take care of your business the girls will come. bottom line, you shouldn't even think about other guys
/r/seduction19/09/15 07:02 PM
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you messed up by becoming her texting buddy. you shouldn't text girls, you should only txt to set up dates. you talk in person. as far as the date, do not be nervous. just be yourself. act like you would if you were out with "the guys" I've ruined so many dates by trying to be "cool" you want to be self amused on the date, have fun. you should really check out coldreadingnow.com there are tips on reading your dates body language (to see if shes into you)
/r/seduction19/09/15 07:00 PM
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you should just be getting to know her. just let her speak and listen to what she says (don't think about what she looks like naked) the typical "hey hows it goin" works for me. they usually follow up with what is currently happening in their lives and I just listen and ask questions. don't think too much also, nothing you say will be "sexy" or "laid back" its your body language. sit back in your seat. take up space. spread out. remain calm
/r/seduction19/09/15 06:57 PM
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to be interesting be interested! as far as the group thing you should lead! in a 1 on 1 scenario you should obviously be leading in terms of conversation/direction, remember to do the same thing in a group! it shouldn't hurt you though, develop an indifferent attitude. don't take anything personal
/r/seduction19/09/15 06:55 PM
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please expand. idk what those are
/r/seduction19/09/15 06:52 PM
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to get some pussy? LMAO jk
/r/seduction19/09/15 01:52 AM
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I fear you're coming from a dark place. you be so confident that you become indifferent you shouldn't make becoming the leader of the class a goal of yours, but if you are an alpha it will happen naturally you need to work on yourself before you go chasing all these girls. your day should be organized, you should have morning rituals read 1 hour meditate 30 minutes work/study 3-4 hours then do whatever you want the rest of the day. don't view your contemporaries as "lame faggots" you should neve…
/r/seduction18/09/15 01:50 AM
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are you john? haha definitely don't say "Hey i think its YOUR turn to ask me out now" or "you just love me asking you out right?" you have to text the girl with specific plans and if she is busy you ask her what specific day she will be free and set up plans for that day. I say give her one more chance 3 strikes and shes out
/r/seduction18/09/15 01:45 AM
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I'm allergic to minocycline (commonly used acne medication) -currently covered with hives due to allergic reaction, started treatment two weeks ago- I have an appointment with a dermatologist but they're full, my appointment is in November :/ I just feel like a girl wouldn't want to kiss me on the cheek or something, mostly because I wouldn't want to touch someone elses acne. am I just a dick?
/r/seduction18/09/15 01:40 AM
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dude i swear its like i wrote this a year ago lol. what i did was, i started to read A LOT. i got into the self development genre. for me, just reading the words "you are enough" was like an epiphany for me. go out and buy "the 50th law" and read it. and start to work out and eat right. IMPORTANT form good habits. tell yourself that everyday, you will read for atleast 1 hour, or maybe 30 pages. if you set small goals like this and actually accomplish them, your confidence will start to grow beca…
/r/seduction18/09/15 12:27 AM
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i am a goodlooking guy. i dress well and always smell amazing (I'm obsessed with fragrances) i just have "mild" acne. its mostly the dark scars that stand out. is it just in my head?
/r/seduction18/09/15 12:18 AM
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you aren't wrong dude, you're just dealing with some immature/insecure women. the thing is, you attract what you are. self observation is in order! also try being more direct, let them know that you don't want a serious relationship and you like your harem of women (you don't open with this, but you knew that already ;)"
/r/seduction17/09/15 11:57 PM
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as long as shes attracted to you I don't think it matters. check out coldreadingnow.com for dating tips
/r/seduction17/09/15 06:55 PM
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sorry dude. did you find them useful?
/r/seduction17/09/15 04:29 PM
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ignore her. you can read her body language to find out if she likes you or not. check out coldreadingnow.com for tips on how to do that
/r/seduction16/09/15 03:04 PM
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drop after she rejects you the second time
/r/seduction15/09/15 10:24 PM
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you fucked this up badly from now on YOU make the plans and if she says she cant you ask when shes free. if she says "idk" you move on. never let the girl make plans as for a date, you want to spend as little money as possible, you're just getting to know each other. get coffee, go for a walk something! no bowling
/r/seduction15/09/15 08:45 PM
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you cant force a girl to attract you. shes either into you or shes not. you can make her interested in you by being mysterious and by treating her like a normal human being. hot girls are used to being pampered and having guys go crazy over them. theres a good blog about this called coldreadingnow.com
/r/seduction15/09/15 08:39 PM
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parks, museums, book stores
/r/seduction15/09/15 08:37 PM
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be confident in who you are at ALLLLL times
/r/seduction15/09/15 07:01 PM
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you will lose this girl if you become needy! as a man you should have goals that youre constantly pursuing. therefore making you unavailable. (obviously spend time with her, but not 24/7) give her space listen to her eat her out read way of superior man check out coldreadingnow.com
/r/seduction15/09/15 05:00 PM
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youre too nervous. you need to be completely indifferent. that will attract her. when the convo dies, be self amused, talk about whateverrrrr you want. you think a table looks funny? laugh at it. embrace your inner child. but you should mostly be talking about her. continuing to ask questions about herself bc you like her and are interested. if you keep being nervous and needy you will lose this girl!
/r/seduction15/09/15 04:56 PM
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check out coldreadingnow.com ! perfect for your situation lol shows how to read body language during a date!
/r/seduction15/09/15 04:54 PM
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is she attracted to you? I fear that you may be friendzoned. check out coldreadingnow.com to learn how to read body language. i would say that you should not talk to her for a little while (atleast a week) have her chase you, you're chasing right now. try to make her jealous somehow, girls are really competitive
/r/seduction15/09/15 04:52 PM
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you text her tomorrow night asking her if she would like to go get some coffee the following day. keep the conversation short. if she says shes busy, ask her when shes free. if she says "idk" or anything along those lines, she is not interested. move on
/r/seduction14/09/15 11:04 PM
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no prob! check out my site for more tips! coldreadingnow.com
/r/seduction14/09/15 11:00 PM
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ask her what's new and expand on whatever she says. keep asking questions. "whats new" "nothing really I'm so tired, was up all night" "you were studying weren't you, you're such a nerd" "omg ha ha ha shutup! I was playing with my cat all night" "oh you're a cat person?" "yes I love cats! when I was 5 bla bla bla bla" you see??? and you need to have confidence in yourself. just be self amused and talk about random shit. point out random things around you. you will lose this girl and be heart bro…
/r/seduction14/09/15 09:33 PM
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LMAOOO
/r/seduction14/09/15 09:28 PM
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I don't know what happened but you need to take it easy. youre sending wayyyyy to many texts. don't be needy indifference is key!
/r/seduction14/09/15 12:22 AM
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do you have trouble talking to your guy friends? I doubt it. stop thinking so much.
/r/seduction14/09/15 12:00 AM
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you need to start with your confidence. how can people making fun of you affect you in any way? its called SELF esteem. you decide how you feel at ALL times. its great that you started reading it is imperative that you read these right now unlimited power by tony robbins 50th law By Robert greene meditations by marcus aurelius
/r/seduction13/09/15 08:51 PM
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your looks don't matter, your confidence does. I can already tell your confidence is low. you shouldn't be judging yourself and calling yourself ugly. if you think you are ugly you will be ugly, literally. you will adopt ugly mannerisms which will repel women
/r/seduction13/09/15 08:48 PM
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you should have goals. if you had goals you would be busy, which would take care of you sitting there waiting for a girl to text you back. no offense but right now you are a loser so you aren't attracting women. women want the best, become the best
/r/seduction13/09/15 08:47 PM
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just focus on your breathe. inhale 4 sec hold breathe 8 sec exhale 8 sec try to monitor your thoughts so you are present (absence of thought) do not try to think and don't try not to think. just breathe
/r/seduction13/09/15 08:45 PM
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you've got it all wrong my friend. as a man you should have goals that you are constantly trying to pursue, making you a busy person. (your woman will actually love you for your sense of direction) you shouldn't even be able to text her all day. now when texting you should always respond with less words than she does. you do not want to become a girls text buddy also, it is completely fine if you guys don't see each other everyday. familiarity breeds contempt and absence makes the heart grow fon…
/r/seduction13/09/15 08:43 PM
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if you worked on yourself as much as you made excuses you would have a harem of women
/r/seduction13/09/15 07:07 PM
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dude if you care enough to make a post about it, you care wayyyyy more than you think. ask her out tonight fuck her then block her number
/r/seduction13/09/15 07:06 PM
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to be interesting, be interested. girls don't care about you, they want to talk about themselves, so let them. if you actually listen to what she says and stop thinking about what she looks like naked it would be really easy to have an actual conversation. conversations are only awkward when you wanna have sex
/r/seduction12/09/15 11:48 PM
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why are you waiting for her to make a move if you "really want to sex close" ????? youre the man, you make a move. AND when your indifference should no be faked!!! you should genuinely not care if you ever see any girl again. you obviously care even though youre trying to make it seem like you don't during these periods of no content.
/r/seduction12/09/15 11:46 PM
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youre too insecure and too needy stop saying that you don't have confidence. first you need to get some friends since apparently you don't know a soul. do you have hobbies? join a club or something. just join a gym, youre bound to make friends. second, you do not want to be a girls texting buddy. when you get their number you text them plans for a date and that is it. should be a very short conversation. youre a busy guy and have things to do, you cant be waiting on her to reply and you don't ha…
/r/seduction12/09/15 11:44 PM
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normally I would say who cares, be yourself. but maybe you have to do some self reflection. are you actually funny or are you a bully (who is a really insecure person) and the "guys" that think youre funny are also insecure so they laugh. hope I helped
/r/seduction12/09/15 11:27 PM
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text them only to set up plans. you want to be indifferent! never forget that. have a "whatever" vibe. you don't NEED them text them and say "hey wanna insert plans here tomorrow at insert place and time here?" and if she says yes, there ya go if she says shes busy, ask her when shes free. now if she says "oh idk ill let you know" or something along those lines she is not interested. move on hope I could help! congrats on actually getting their numbers, few guys can do that
/r/seduction12/09/15 11:26 PM
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just focus on your breathe inhale 4 seconds hold 8 seconds exhale 8 seconds really focus on your breathe and monitor your thoughts. you want to have an absence of thought. there should just be silence and darkness
/r/seduction12/09/15 11:22 PM
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1/10 is a good ratio! youre on the right track dude
/r/seduction12/09/15 11:20 PM
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guess I haven't met a girl as confident as you :D
/r/seduction12/09/15 11:16 PM
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"you're cool for a girl, give me your number"
/r/seduction12/09/15 11:16 PM
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well you should be interested in the person, so those questions shouldn't be boring to you because you're curious about her. this helped me, you "don't know what to say" because you are afraid of what the person may think. so yes, you do fear rejection. you should be self amused, point out random things that you see around you. make stupid jokes. don't be afraid to be yourself. you're only awkward around someone when you want to have sex with them. do you have problems talking to your guy friend…
/r/seduction11/09/15 02:21 AM
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this is so true. I never approach women. I meet them through friends and kind of ignore them. they start thinking "why isn't he interested? does he think I'm ugly?" and they throw themselves at me
/r/seduction11/09/15 02:11 AM
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I had this same problem. it started to go away when I started to talk to more women. hard to have 10 different girls on your mind at once......know what I mean? hope that helps
/r/seduction11/09/15 01:58 AM
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