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drewdles151515/r/ExRedPill16/03/17 04:08 AM
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drewdles151515/r/ExRedPill17/03/17 06:18 PM
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Yes, great advice. Notice how the angry redpillers don’t show their faces. And the bizarre way they even sound like losers, as well as what you mentioned— their pretending to be super villains. It’s really really pathetic. I’m not even on one “team” here or anything, these are just my quick reactions to watching their response videos.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/20 10:27 PM
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I’m glad you feel happy. Would you mind articulating in a clear sentence what you think is the “ultimate truth”? Is it that physical attractiveness is the most important factor in sexuality? If so then I think most people would agree, but I don’t think anyone considers this having achieved “enlightenment,” nor do we need to join a cult of fellow believers.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 01:28 AM
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Even if the black pill worldview contains certain truths backed by science, the community surrounding it is sociologically similar to cults. You are encouraged to “swallow” the black pill, you identify yourself as “black pill,” you disparage other people who don’t accept these things as truth, you reject information that disconfirms the black pill worldview while promoting information that confirms it, etc.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/20 11:07 PM
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PUA got started in late 90s. It was mostly popular 2005-2010 after The Game was a bestseller. The Red Pill popped up as part of the manosphere after PUA was dying down. The earliest inspirations for PUA were Cialdini and EvoPsych.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 06:31 AM
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Agreed. I’ve never understood why it’s a problem that you don’t want to do something recreational. “I have a low drive to play tennis. What should I do???”
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:28 PM
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Feel free to disagree, no worries. OP says his wife experienced psychosis. Psychosis is something where you need loving support to recover, and if you DO get it, you will bounce back better than ever. But if you have a highly critical and selfish life partner, you can easily collapse into severe depression and anxiety and not come out of it. Anyone with a smidgeon of critical thinking skills should be able to read between the lines of OP’s one sided story. Feel free to support his behavior thoug…
/r/MGTOW227/08/20 08:11 PM
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Tradcon would suggest I believe men owe it to society to sign up for high loads of duty and responsibility. I don’t believe that. I think it’s perfectly fine for a man to decide to be MGTOW if he wants. OP clearly found MGTOW after he had already married his wife. He made a mistake by making a commitment he didn’t believe in. He is untrustworthy and dishonorable. I would not want to be his friend or his business partner. He’s also not “high value” I’m sorry. A man who can’t be trusted to stick t…
/r/MGTOW227/08/20 05:02 PM
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If they vowed to stay with them in sickness and in health, then yes they stay. If she were the one leaving you because you developed mental health issues and she didn’t want to deal with it, you’d be saying AWALT and saying how women don’t have loyalty like men do. Again, it’s fine to leave her, you obviously aren’t making the situation better by staying. But you’re not the victim here.
/r/MGTOW227/08/20 02:34 PM
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OP is clearly immature as hell. He sees his wife’s eventual improvement as -only- to get back at him. That’s the emotional maturity of a teenager. But sure treat him as a hero because it fits your ideology.
/r/MGTOW227/08/20 01:48 PM
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Great men don’t abandon their duties and responsibilities because they feel sad that they don’t get to have as much fun as they want.
/r/MGTOW227/08/20 01:46 PM
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Agreed. This post is vile.
/r/MGTOW227/08/20 05:23 AM
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I support the idea of men feeling free to live their lives happily alone, which is why I have been occasionally checking MGTOW stuff for years. But this specific post reeks of intense narcissism, and I am disappointed to see other members here not calling him out on it. I thought the highest value here was freedom, not narcissism. You think your wife’s mental breakdown traumatized YOU? You think YOU are the one who had the traumatic experience? Not her, but YOU? And now that she just got abandon…
/r/MGTOW227/08/20 12:09 AM
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Yeah, make women friends. Women are all extremely different. TRP makes you see all women as identical. Making friends with diverse women will destroy your preconceived notions about them.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/18 10:12 PM
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Nice writeup. They don’t see the irony of their group. The whole point of their philosophy is to stop worrying about women, but all they do is hate on and worry about women.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/18 02:39 PM
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Think of your life narrative like a good movie. Imagine someone will write a biography of you. Those years were a dark period in an otherwise fascinating and good life. It might make you more interesting if you think of it that way.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/18 10:26 PM
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Seeing a therapist is absolutely not a deal breaker. In the middle of the 20th century, seeing a psychoanalyst was a very fashionable, cool thing to do in elite circles. Seeing a therapist absolutely does not mean you’re weak or bad. Think of a therapist like a life coach or accountability person. I used to want to be a therapist, today I see a therapist every week, and all the women in my life know about it and think it’s completely normal.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/18 04:32 PM
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No offense if you’re the person who wrote this, but this whole thing seems quite cliche and I’m not sure what it has to do with ex-RP.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/18 08:41 PM
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If you respect this sub then you should also respect that many people here are trying to “quit” Red Pill thinking, because it damaged their life and mental health. Please don’t recommend Red Pill to these very people.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/18 03:33 AM
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lol you’re right, I forgot about this. “Read the sidebar.” The stuff in the sidebar wasn’t even any good.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 06:31 PM
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This poster is giving you terrible advice and you shouldn’t listen to it. Your relationship is not doomed.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 06:26 PM
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I don’t think that’s a helpful response. Therapists aren’t magical people. He asked a reasonable question and people here could also help.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/18 06:24 PM
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Yup. It’s ridiculous how RP claims that men are capable of loyalty whereas women aren’t, and then they go on to advocate a sexual strategy of spinning plates and never committing.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/18 09:40 PM
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Also dude, if you’re 20... let me just tell you now that being 20 is terrible as a man. You can basically only date women aged 18-20. Women aged 18-20 are being hit on by guys as old as 50. Literally all men are attracted to this age, and those men are going to be better looking and more successful than you. Many girls your age are also still exploring their dating options, so they’re often not looking for a committed relationship with you. I’m a 26 year old guy and it’s only barely starting to …
/r/ExRedPill21/06/18 08:40 PM
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The guy who wrote that article, David Buss, has made his entire career on writing extremely dark things about human nature. He wrote a book called “the murderer next door” about the idea that everyone has secret homicidal impulses all the time. And yet you don’t walk down the street paranoid that you’re going to be murdered. Similarly, he studies the darkest dimensions of mating behavior. I read his book “jealousy: the dangerous passion” when I was like 15 and starting seeing the world as alphas…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/18 08:26 PM
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I agree that the above poster is being rude and criticizing you unnecessarily. Your post is completely legitimate and welcome here. Mate switching is a real thing and it’s reasonable to be concerned about it. What I would say is that mate switching is not a thing that only women do. Men are the ones who are more famous for divorcing their middle aged wives and “trading her in for a younger model.” Women are very worried about mate switching too! I think it’s incorrect to believe that your girlfr…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/18 06:04 PM
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I’m against TRP but I disagree with OP. TRP does not advocate rape. Most of the guys there are super paranoid about being falsely accused with rape, so I think it actually promotes the be opposite. A kind of paranoid approach where you should use secret audio recorders to document a woman’s consent.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/18 06:38 AM
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I’m a straight guy but personally I’d imagine Donald Glover is the sexiest of all the guys you mentioned because he’s a creative, artist, musician type. If I were black I’d go for the Donald Glover look over this “Tyrone” archetype, but you do you. I guess I stopped reading TRP before they came up with Tyrone as “black Chad.” I got a good laugh out of that.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/18 06:13 PM
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You have to trust your intuition and pay attention how she acts and responds to you. My last long-term girlfriend... definitely I could tell that she found my emotions and weakness a turnoff. But more recently I was dating someone who was more of a care-taker, and she seemed to like me more the more I was vulnerable. If she likes you a lot, she will be happy that you're opening up and trusting her.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/18 04:56 PM
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I think Red Pill is abusive and delusional, but I happen to believe that some Men’s Rights issues are legitimate. Check out a movie called “The Red Pill: the documentary.” Mayne watch it with your husband. It’s actually a men’s rights movie, not about red pill (confusing, I know). Anyway, you should try to become an ally for him and make sure he doesn’t go full Red Pill. There’s a good side to men’s rights, which is compassion for men in areas people don’t typically have compassion for them. I t…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/18 03:14 AM
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I still believe that cheating is fairly common and that you should be on guard for it in relationships.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/17 07:27 AM
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This is a very good reply.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/17 02:46 AM
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This is a really hard one to respond to. I think you should treat those subreddits like an addiction and try your best to quit reading them. I'm sorry you've experienced lowered self worth because of their opinions. Not all men hate women. I find the thread your linked to very sad, and I'm trying to cope with it myself right now.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/17 06:28 AM
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I would actually say that Red Pill is dangerous because the logic is internally consistent. It's a complete worldview that makes pretty good sense once you're inside of it. Obviously from the outside looking in, you're mostly right, and it's comical. But internally RP makes good sense and that's why it's so dangerous. It takes an intense life crisis for a RP guy to question his beliefs and consider a group like this one.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/17 03:53 AM
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I agree that this sub might be the most helpful thing for him.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/17 03:31 AM
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I think you'll find that lots of people are very empathetic. You'll run into some bad people occasionally, but there is a lot of compassion and empathy in the world. I think you'll be rewarded when you go looking for it.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/17 02:42 AM
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Therapist. Exercise. Haircut. Hygiene. Clothes. Join social activities, meet friends. Sign up for online dating. Internet forums won't help.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/17 10:52 PM
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What steps are you taking to find a romantic partner? I disagree with the advice to "learn to be alone" because it sounds like you've already done that. You need to start dating. Have you tried online dating?
/r/ExRedPill20/06/17 09:37 PM
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That's good to hear. I'm glad you're seeing a therapist and making progress.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/17 12:32 AM
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I find it odd that your girlfriend says she isn't experiencing your behavior as abusive. Do you have any examples of your controlling behaviors?
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 07:34 PM
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No, I don't think RP guys are bad. In fact I think a lot of them are caring, empathetic guys who accidentally abuse their partners due to the RP ideology. RP ideology is most appealing to men who are paranoid and/or weak.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/17 05:30 AM
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Really good reply
/r/ExRedPill17/04/17 06:06 PM
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Are you doing any online dating? This can help increase your dating pool by a large margin. Also it helps to visit the places where women you'd want to date will be. Personally I've met a lot of women while taking partner dance lessons, as well as on Tinder and Bumble. Also check my post about 4 books to read for Ex-Redpillers. Good luck.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/17 03:32 PM
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Have you caught her lying to you, or are you just worried that she might be lying to you?
/r/ExRedPill31/03/17 06:35 PM
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What bothers you most-- the fact that she has had a decent number of sexual partners, or the feeling that she may be lying about her number of partners? I think the two options are quite different and it would be helpful to figure out the source of your worry. I also give this more weight in my mind than it deserves. Personally I don't care how many partners my girlfriend has had, but I would be upset if I found out she was lying about it. For me, it's very painful to feel that I've been manipul…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/17 04:57 PM
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I used to casually browse RP, and I never consciously believed anything they said. I read it for pure entertainment. But over time, unknown to me, I started to be more paranoid that I would be cheated on. I also started to feel like women would be repulsed by me if I ever revealed that I was upset, emotional, vulnerable, etc. It took me finding this subreddit to realize that I had been reading RP too much and that it had started to influence me. I always thought I was immune to groupthink, but i…
/r/ExRedPill18/03/17 07:19 PM
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A cool woman could be the 60-year-old in your dance class, the married mother of three in your book club, or the single 20-something who plays on your kickball team with you and your wife. Lots of cool women out there to make friends with. The point is to stop seeing women through the false red pill lens, and start seeing them as people.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/17 05:09 AM
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You don't seem like you've left the red pill. You seem to still believe that the red pill is true, but you've decided to live a moral life despite the supposed truth of the red pill. We at exredpill actually believe that the teachings of RP are false. Women aren't fragile creatures who can't handle sexual activity. Women aren't constantly trying to upgrade their mate. Women are capable of having jobs to the same exact degree that men are. Promiscuity is not ruining civilization. My first recomme…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/17 03:44 PM
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I'd be interesting in reading some books about clear communication. That's the next stage I'm working on personally. Any suggestions? I have browsed a few but never read any.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/17 12:31 AM
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