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| 3 | We live in a clown world....Unfortunately, I have came across many similar posts. There’s only one person to blame and its the “man”. He needs to take control of his life. You can sit and play the victim by blaming the government, society, genetics etc but ultimately decisions you make are yours | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date, kissed, ghosted. Wtf?broo, sometimes theres just no valid reason. I went out w a girl, gave her pounding and ghosted her bc another girl that week matched my energy | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 04:34 PM |
| 4 | If I delete all my social media, will it make dating significantly harder?i have the apps but don’t use em - doesn’t affect your in real life dating experiences BUT if you are trying to date online, girls would want to verify your authenticity for safety reasons | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Bad sex with women?most women just lie there and do nothing and expect guys to do everything. Girls who are just bad at bjs and use teeth… interrupting sexi time such as asking to go pee in the middle of things when she couldve gone earlier, or make weird noises lol Being insecure - complementing girls but they argue you | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?well, from the example you just gave 1. It isn’t an intellectual discussion 2. It doesn’t it indicate interest in the show rather you’re expressing dislike towards that genre 3.you’re introducing a different topic. an intellectual discussion in this case would be discussing plot, character development etc no bashing the show lol. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 03:54 PM |
| 4 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?Looool mate, you’re just greedy. You talk about topics you enjoy and you specialized in. Ask about their interests and see what you have in common and expand on that instead | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 02:22 PM |
| 0 | Young Man Saving His Virginity Till Marriage (Turn Off?)nonsense, most people don’t settle for “people they don’t like” as you suggest lool. compatibility is multifactorial and a RANGE not an all or nothing experience; meaning your compatibility with someone can improve OR worsen | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 09:50 PM |
| 4 | Young Man Saving His Virginity Till Marriage (Turn Off?)mate, not a turn off my friend M25 getting married to a virgin and he is one himself. Don’t let others here change your values because they don’t agree with you. Find a lady that shares similar views as you, the sexual compatibility can be worked on and most people ARE compatible - so dont let that scare you. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 06:26 PM |
| 2 | I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed.there is plenty if you spend the time searching for it. female selection is multifactorial; 1) health markers (height, symmetry, size etc) 2) social approval 3) intelligence 4) ability to provide. I’d like to add confidence is huge in dating! | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 02:15 AM |
| 1 | I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed.these are the consequences you will have to deal with being insecure lil bitch. Avg height guys get way more girls than guys over 6’1, trust | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.You are depressed because a woman ghosted you hahahahaha. You sound like a loser, what quality woman would want to match with a needy loser? Get up, go out, work out and work on your shit. Sure it takes time but if you want to attract quality you GOT TO BE QUALITY!! | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 02:05 PM |
| 5 | Any clever/witty replies to, "Why would I want to get to know u?"honestly, don’t answer that question. instead redirect it. For example, i might say “i dig the energy u were giving off so i want to get to know u better. if u feel the same way then lets get to know each other. If not, then that’s fine too” and if she says she doesnt feel it then say “no worries, take care” Keep it simple, if she wants to get to know you she wont give you a hard time!!! | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 03:02 PM |
| 3 | I found this post in r/socialskills saying that women don't want to be cold approached, it doesn't work and guys should stop. What does r/seduction think about this?cold approach works, its always how you execute it. consider the example share by a commenter in that post, a guy followed her to her car & tapped her shoulder - not a good idea, in fact the commenter stated she wouldve like it if the guy approached at the store. Consider example 2, you sit beside a hot girl/boy in a bus you notice something unique ie a dope tattoo, you make a genuine compliment and ask about the tattoo and allow convo carry naturally. at the end, if you like the persons vibes y… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | How often should I text a girl?dont text call or facetime | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.Cry less and work more. i just saw a 48 year old bold below average guy pull a dime and married her (she in her 20s). You can sit on your ass and complain and make excuses or take action simple as that | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Date Gets Another Guys Instagram on Datethen wtf are u doing on this thread when u know what u gotta do? | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Date Gets Another Guys Instagram on Datethen it wasnt a date, more of like let see what my friends think of you. if you werent around, she wouldve fked that guy | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Date Gets Another Guys Instagram on Dategoing to a club with a group of friends isnt a date. next time, go on a date where its only you two | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Date Gets Another Guys Instagram on Dateshe’s not your girlfriend, she can pick whoever she likes. why are you butthurt? what you can do is do your thing and if she chooses you then cool, if not, move on | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 07:37 PM |
| 14 | The girl I was seeing stayed at my best friends houseyou are right, the audacity to snap you in his arms IS DISRESPECTFUL and if you accept that girl after that then you need to start reflecting my guy. Treat yourself like a king, move on, there are plenty of beautiful girls with better personalities | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 02:15 PM |
| 6 | I can't take this anymore.women aren’t the problem thats your first problem, stop pointing fingers and blaming others for your inferiority. grow a pair and work on yourself like the rest of us | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | what if a girl refuses to come home with you?emotional one eh 😂 | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | what if a girl refuses to come home with you?he dont fuck? mate u asking the retarded questions here 😂 | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | This Girl I’ve been talking to Posted about me on tik tok.how fo u know its about u? Those are just trending topics to gain followers and start a controversy. People do it all the time, nothing about you mate | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 12:11 AM |
| 3 | 1 year of daily daygame results - This is my success ratio, what is yours?here’s some feedback; its scripted and women can tell. you gotta practice making it organic and flow. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Ghost or agree to reschedule?she requested to reschedule, he didnt earn any respect nor emotionally connected to her at least from little i fo provided | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Ghost or agree to reschedule?bruh, why would she watch a movie w u which obviously means hooking up vs having a good time w her friends. reschedule and spice things up prior to meeting up | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 11:58 PM |
| 5 | Accused of rape last year and haven't been able to recovernot the whole date, just when i escalate things | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 06:51 AM |
| 33 | Accused of rape last year and haven't been able to recovergot accused of rape as well by a completely sober girl the next day. we were together all night she had 1 drink!!! In fact she bought me drinks! She was fully aware and consented. in fact she got on top to ride me. She accused me, i sent her the voice recording. GENTLEMAN, prior to your date, voice recording ON especially if its one night. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 03:24 AM |
| -2 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meYou SHOULD be dating younger girls especially in their 20s, they are prettier, less likely to have problems with fertility, and usually dont come w shit load of baggage and kids | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 08:49 PM |
| 0 | I want to kill myselfyou want to kill yourself because you can’t talk to girls? that’s a wasted potential, weak minded shit. you need to do a lot of self reflection, you are associating your self wth with your success with women. Get therapy | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 01:30 AM |
| 7 | A good Instagram profile helps getting chicks .instagram can be used as a tool to connect with women if you have a solid profile and a good following. in your case, if you’re not comfortable with posting on social media your life then i suggest you don’t do it for the sake of women. Instead, focus on trying new hobbies & meeting people there and approaching. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 03:56 AM |
| 27 | Successfully cured my oneitis, and now instead I can't commit and get bored of people easilyYou went from one extreme to another, not healthy in the long run. Find balance | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 10:44 PM |
| 2 | I can not get laidyou sound desperate and focus on others too much girls pick up on that. learn to be in control of your urges and direct them in productive way. you will see when youre less needy, you give off a more attractive energy | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 04:44 AM |
| 0 | A girl that ghosted me after the first date is now going to the same gym as I am. Should I say anything the next time I see her again?I would recommend; if you see her, say hi but don’t entertain her. No need to waste your time, eventually, if she is attracted to you she will try to start talking. | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 10:32 PM |
| 3 | If i stop posting so much on social media, will she wonder?make the fking move u twat, stop waiting for a girl to reply to u. I can give u my balls, looks like u need them more than me | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 11:53 PM |
| 10 | Female friend sent me [M 22] a nude out of the blueshe wanted to feel wanted and desired, you gave her that. dont fall for the trap of messaging her about it, makes you needy. ignore the fact she ignored and carry on as normal and you’ll get to pound | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 04:41 PM |
| -1 | Ghostedjust hit her up with “dont think too hard” or “hey come back” usually people forget to respond after reading and when they remember days have passed so they dont reply at all. If she ignores you again just move on | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Advice on how to approach a girl at the gym 🙏🏻Dude, just go up and during her break say “hey, whats ur name? my name is ____ i noticed you training on days i am, i find you really cute and wanted to introduce myself” go from there, really doesnt matter what you say she won’t remember after 5 mins and people who say dont approach women at the gym, dont listen. If you are really attracted to her then go for it, i dont see why not. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 03:09 PM |
| 8 | Reminder- Never make her your focuswhen a woman is this honest thats bc you allowed her to step all over you. she fked another guy and just doesn’t want to get caught. this is heartbreaking | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/22 07:41 PM |
| 5 | she wasted my time then laughs in my facego out w a better looking girl, she’ll feel lame | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 05:21 AM |
| 12 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectiveyou come off as lazy, it doesnt even take much effort. you dont have to go out of your way to approach women or dedicate a day for it. You do it whenever and you get good at it faster than you build muscles lol . seems to me you made up your mind, you just want someone to validate your view, im not here to do that. I’ll encourage every guide to work on their approach | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 04:38 AM |
| 7 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectiveanything worth undertaking has its challenges. take working out for instance its ineffective for most bc of lack of experience, lack of knowledge on proper form, lack of knowledge in nutrition etc but its the continues effort and dedication that improves you. you learn as you go and by the time you look back those baby steps turned into miles ahead of others. its all mindset, its ur choice ultimately but i’d recommend every guy to try | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 04:30 AM |
| 67 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectiveCold approach forces one to face uncomfortable situation, think quick on the spot and improves confidence by reducing anxiety, and over time you’ll have no fks given attitude ie care less about rejections. All these will improve other aspects of your life. Cold approach is one of the most challenging things a men can do, if you conquer it, rewards translate into other areas of your life | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Are there any ways to hack the game?the biggest hack is being a major celebrity, chicks just flood to ya | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Ex texted me 3 weeks after NC saying “u over me yet?” Yesterday morning. whydont waste your efforts, efforts are spent elsewhere - trust me bro | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | How does a deformed guy even attempt to date?Mate, you a sad mofo who just hates everything bc a girl doesnt wanna blow ur dick. get ur shit together, stop with the drugs, work on your style, workout and get a better cut and feel good, get involved in group sports and make friends; you gotta work on yourself and love yourself first before you even think of girls, gotta end this cycle of self pity and negativity | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 03:07 AM |
| 43 | Going after college girls at 25?Bro, girls dont care. Ive been going out with girls 20-24 and im 27 | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | friend is cheatingTell em to sit his ass down as he cant claim a girl when is in a relationship. all is fair in the war of love | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 04:45 PM |
| 14 | Am I overthinking this or am I good to shoot my shot?you know the answer to your own question simple as that | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]then dont complain kid | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 07:31 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]girls typically prefer men older than them, stick to your age | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 07:13 PM |
| 11 | Frugal seduction - How to avoid dine and dashers.men generally have less expenses that women & often times dont care much about money; why do you think guys pay for OF lol | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 01:20 AM |
| 139 | Had sex on first date, got blocked immediately afterEmbarrassment after hooking up like that | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Looks are everything. Especially if you are a guy.Dont take this the wrong way (it’ll probably be tough) but you have a loser’s mindset and no fking girl wants a loser. be confident, work on your game and stop worrying about how many times the guy next to ya is banging | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 07:38 PM |
| 4 | Why do we get needy with girls ? And how to fix it ?how did u came to that interpretation? | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 02:18 PM |
| 29 | Why do we get needy with girls ? And how to fix it ?you have too much free time, girls complain how im a bad texter and thats not because i read the message and not reply. Its that i dont see the message bc im busy w shit so get ur ass up and work on shit and find hobbies | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 03:44 AM |
| 1 | What to say when sliding in a girl's dms??go on her profile, find a pic that she looks good with a nice view. send that pic to her and comment something genuine. for example, girl went to a museum in france which i recognized and sent it to her asking if its the museum i had in mind… and thats how i go the convo going from there. Do this, it will work as long as you dont comment stupid shit like “ nice ass or tits or you look hot 🥵 “anything w appearance is a no | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?depends, if you get her emotionally and mentally invested and be the leader in the relationship it wont happen so long as shes not the promiscuous type | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 06:02 AM |
| 3 | Weeding out Entitled women...Ya’ll too focused on not being a simp that u end up making ur dick limp from stupidity | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 04:39 AM |
| 2 | The Loyal PlayerMost girls say they want something serious but not truly want it bc of social expectations snd being labelled a hoe | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out for valentines day and she said she was flattered but would have to "consider..." Move on, right?note: this method can be used over text if you ever asked a girl out to a date and shes like oh im not sure i might be doing something etc | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Asked a girl out for valentines day and she said she was flattered but would have to "consider..." Move on, right?Value yourself if you want to be respected. What i would have done is retract my invitation. something along the lines “sounds like you are not too sure, that’s fine. maybe we’ll get to know each other some other time” | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 09:53 PM |
| 0 | Do you think that abstaining from masturbation does anything useful?My advice: do not consume porn and abstain from masturbating frequently ie more than 1/day. i havent watched porn since my teens frankly bc 1. Its addicting, and anything that can be addicting is harmful 2. Not a realistic indication of real life 3. kills ur desire to be with women when u can bust one out and lie to your brain that you getting action. 4. Supporting digital prostitution Since i stopped watching porn and busting my own nut Ive laid w multiple women. Up to 5 different girls/week (c… | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Should you tell a girl you're a virgin before losing it?Never, fake it till you make it, you’ll thank me later | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 12:19 AM |
| 2 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?You attract what you are, if you want sexy women like every guy then up your value and confidence. Why should a hot girl pick you just because you approached her over a better looking or more successful guy? | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Girl with holding sex?Don’t take this the wrong way but she likely had a one night before meeting you (she might not admit this to you). Do you think she cared then? No, she’s trying to manipulate you into thinking that she isnt “easy” and is relationship/marriage worthy. its up to you how you move from here but dont push for sex in stead i would actually do the opposite and not want sex from her. She will then try to escalate herself. I had a girl who said no sex until 2 months, slept with her the same night. Dont m… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 05:21 PM |
| 28 | [deleted by user]What makes someone attractive? Inner confidence How do i develop inner confidence? 1. Martial arts 2. Lifting weights 3. Acquiring knowledge by reading, studying, practising All these teach you discipline, overcoming problems/failures, dedication, patience, creative thinking and in turn will bolster your confidence Ps: these were 3 BIG things that improved my inner confidence. Other things like fashion etc can add value as well | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 07:22 PM |
| 6 | What are the Mistakes in Seduction/ Approaching?biggest mistake is to forecast an outcome prior to interaction | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Girls get repulsed once they start to know meyour main problem stems from a lack of self respect. You call yourself a loser, do you expect others to respect you when you describe yourself as such? If you see yourself as a loser, others will pick up on this. You may be giving these signals without even knowing you are which is why they ghost etc after getting to know you | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Fear of developing reputation while daygaming at mall?English is my 4th language, my advice would be: 1. be confident, this can be developed through practicing 2. understand that its ok to struggle speaking and being articulate, it takes time and making mistakes is great way to learn 3. Learn from example of other articulate people, for example, watch how someone you find articulate: speak, their tone etc 4. when speaking, take your time to collect your thoughts then speak it, dont rush to say something for the sake of saying something, practice th… | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Fear of developing reputation while daygaming at mall?Great job working over your anxiety and fears. Im going to give you advice, dont take it the wrong way. You shouldnt invest so much of your time cold approaching, invest in developing knowledge and skills that’ll make you a winner in life ie books, finance, fitness, fashion and positive outlook Approach a cute girl when you run errands, ie when going grocery shopping, mall, library etc. You are being that creepy guy hitting on girls, you come off as a loser who has nothing better to do but wants… | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Pick Up Coaches are Bastardsanyone can promote anything online not the point here. u can be a trainer, but can’t call urself a CERTIFIED trainer without having completed the standardize training, its illegal to do so if u get caught there will be legal repercussions | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Pick Up Coaches are Bastardsnot valid points, u make extreme points with many invalid assumptions that are not common. 1. people do not go through the trouble of gaining their fitness certification if they arent dedicated or have some interest 2. individuals appearing overweight may be bulking or engaging in other sports like sumo wrestling or powerlifting so cant judge a book by its cover 3. u can have 5 years if experience training but not necessarily have acquired sufficient knowledge; for example, i spoke to numerous g… | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 01:05 AM |
| 36 | Pick Up Coaches are Bastardsto play the devil’s advocate; fitness trainers are certified according to standards and even amongst them there are specialists with higher qualifications, pick up coaches are not - anyone can claim to be one and i see this quite often nowadays | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 07:58 PM |
| 3 | 6'7", millionaire, NBA player, Zion Williamson gets exposed for msging a nobody female with an onlyfans. How can a regular guy compete when chicks who are AVERAGE can have full blown affair with athletes? She had a BF, who she was cheating on. AF hits her up for booty calls while BB commits to her.dont get me wrong, but there are women of value and thots, the two are not the same. Currently, more thots than value women | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/21 09:56 PM |
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