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Uhhh… obviously. Just because you had one argument with an extremist POV doesn’t mean most of us think like that. Most of us think cheating is inexcusable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:09 AM
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Also, your post 7th May… “very good job that’s going to put me back into the $80k-$100k range with huge advancement opportunities. I’m getting back in shape. Mentally stronger. Rebuilding my life.” And you think you earn more than me? 😂😭 oh buddy. At fucking 50, unmarried no less?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:22 AM
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It has literally happened to me. And a lot of my girlfriends. The very first time, and more, that I mentioned I have a house when dating, so now I don’t mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:20 AM
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lmfao if you’re truly rich you’re not renting… unless you rentvest. just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:17 AM
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lmao that’s such bullshit every man that I and my other girlies who own houses talk to and find out that we OWN and not rent, almost instantly are “attracted” cause they want assets and want to move out of renting/their parents’/their mates’ share house. same with a nice car. same with a good PC. same with genuine wealth. y’all just think 100k is “rich” and obviously nobody’s gonna be attracted to slightly above average income.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:15 AM
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also money and wealth… like, rich men also like rich women. not a hard concept to grasp?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:12 AM
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No? Nobody is entitled to anything. We help the homeless, orphaned, drug/alcohol/gambling affected and victims of abuse already. What would you propose society does to “help such individuals so extreme ones don’t force it to be a problem”? Those extreme ones will not be happy unless they are given a woman without strings attached. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:58 PM
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Yes just like Donald Trump being on Epstein Island and being on a groomer isn’t “wrong”. Doesn’t mean shit. Tf? Such a silly stance. Just because it’s not wrong doesn’t mean it’s RIGHT.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:42 PM
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Being “welcoming and caring” is not a life goal - that is a personality trait. Something you want to achieve/do is - travel, house, job/income/assets. Something material or environmental. Honestly if you don’t like travelling that’s a red flag to any prospective partner. It just means you aren’t outgoing or adventurous imho. Travel. SEE THINGS. GO PLACES. DO SHIT. Stop being a closeted gamer and expecting women to flock to you when you have no, say, world experience!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:39 PM
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It literally is. Morally and ethically. Thats psychopathic behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:37 PM
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Yeah and it’ll destroy you if you can’t thrive by yourself - anxious attachment, codependency, loneliness whenever your partner is away/with his mates/at work…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:26 PM
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That’s fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:25 PM
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Then find an interest… a woman won’t want you if you have no ambition outside of the generic “I want a family and a nice house and stable job”. Having no interest outside of your prospective partner is just plain boring and depressing. Find something that excites/interests you - most men in the dating game do not have anything outside of video games and come to 25 and haven’t even been to say 2 countries…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:18 PM
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Lowkey if you have no hobbies, goals or dreams/ambitions that aren’t targeted towards the sole purpose of finding sex/a partner - that’s a very sad life to live. You should be happy being alone and have dreams outside of them - like getting a good job, travelling to xyz countries, having a nice house/car or having a nice “man cave”, or owning chickens and gardening and such. Only when you are happily and healthily single are you ready to thrive in a relationship with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:55 PM
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How do you help them work through it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:56 PM
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DARVO / gaslight 101
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:55 PM
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Uhh it definitely is a thing. It’s not excusable just because it’s not “intentional”. Set reminders in your phone, do what you’re told the first time you were asked, no fun gaming time til chores are done. It’s 2026 - let’s not enable babies by saying it’s “unintentional” when it is definitely CHANGEABLE.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:54 PM
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ok? you’re already set in your mindset. what are you asking us to debate when you’re already like “it’s true because I said so”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:13 PM
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then keep working 3 jobs? move to a more INEXPENSIVE city / state?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:09 PM
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The only one robbing you of that opportunity is yourself…? Literally only you are to blame for not getting the jobs / location you want. Start smaller, move further away if you have to. It’s a competitive market.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:04 PM
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This is a very ironic post coming from someone who seemingly doesn’t have a job at the moment, and lost their gf and blamed it on their lack of successful job. Also extra ironic is that you post that it’s unfair women want career driven lives and partners… whilst not having that yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:24 PM
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He considers his convos and cope with other kissless virgins on Inkyverse with similarly no experience “deep” conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:19 PM
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Depends. If you’ve known them for years, whilst being single, you have to consider their romantic life. Most people out of respect for their current partners distance themselves from their heterosexual friendships whereby the other person is single, and wants to hang out one on one, and or “has been friends with them for years”. You also don’t really know what’s going on in their life - a lot of girls have their party and fun era young and then settle into granny lifestyle mid 20s (early bed tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:14 PM
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Are you single? Are you single and wanting to hang out with them alone, one on one? Those will answer your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:08 PM
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taking advantage of a woman IS abuse. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:17 PM
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Being taken advantage of / assaulted / abused is giving us sooooo many options you’re so right 🫨
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:15 PM
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LMAO that’s crazy only a comment a guy would make lets be real
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:09 PM
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I have male friends that don’t want to fuck me. Because we have established that. But I don’t seek emotional intimacy from them, that borders cuddles and hugs, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:28 AM
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Cause they don’t wanna fuck me. I literally just said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:27 AM
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It’s… not discrimination. I’m simply not super close and open with my guy friends because why would I be, when I don’t need such from them? And it can change the expectations of our friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:06 AM
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Yeah, that’s fine. As long as they’re actually doing the duty WE married them for - finances and a fair split of emotional, physical and household labour. If my needs aren’t met cause he’s lazy, he sure as hell isn’t getting sex from me because I am not in the mood unless things are done, and done RIGHT.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:01 AM
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…? no. I just don’t want to be “emotionally vulnerable” with male friends who may perceive it wrong and then start (if they don’t already) thinking about fucking me and getting into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:55 PM
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It literally is the basis of consent. You can’t “force” people to “pair up enough” or “have enough kids”. Nobody can. And nobody ever will. You’d have to start holding people at gun point to procreate. It’s a great thing that most women are choosing to be child free or have children much later.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:27 PM
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Because most of the time they just want to fuck us. I don’t want to get emotionally “intimate” nor “vulnerable” with a man, thats how feelings develop moreso on his side as they perceive it as something else. Emotional intimacy is what a partner is for, and if I need that I have my girlfriends and family as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:24 PM
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remembering things about people you’re interested about - the basics. not random “oh I shat myself the other day”. pretty super basic concept
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:19 PM
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Knows how to hold a conversation. Asks me questions and remembers shit about me. Can speak about intelligent things. Doesn’t just go on tangents about what he likes but involves me as well. Can deal with rejection and stress at the bat of an eye without getting heated. Can speak fluently and congruently to me, my friends and family, as in not really fumbling basic English or introductions or trying to land bad out of place jokes that just aren’t suitable. Also. Having friends, going out frequent…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:53 AM
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I literally answered it in the comment above that. OP already answered it in their post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:17 AM
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I literally just said. Women like to read and imagine. Reading a dirty smutty book when you’re a vanilla girl is fun and exciting even if you know you’d never do any of those things, it’s nice to read it and get entranced and engaged with the characters and development of the story. The yearning bro 🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:14 AM
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it still doesn’t make sense explain what? he already explained it started with 50 shades. women just like to read and imagine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:12 AM
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We do enjoy it. What makes you think we don’t? Why would we put in more effort if we are the more valuable gender, in essence?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:53 AM
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what’s your question here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:39 AM
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lmfao how are women meant to defend our nation? we are not as strong as men. I’ve never heard women say that. In fact, women stay back from war and do the shit men refuse to do - female dominated roles like nursing, aged care, disability care, childcare, teaching. The only people who have fixed women’s problems are other women. Hence the feminist movement. Hence uproar about anti abortion propaganda and legislation - and to prove your point, women migrating to other countries or states that allo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:21 AM
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you truly believe women would submit and be like “yeah alright fine” if men decided to do that? No. We’d tie our tubes, get hysterectomies, and get vaginoplasties.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:55 AM
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gang. let’s be realistic. MOST men would still, if given the opportunity in 2026, vote to remove our rights, you realise? back to say, 1940s, where we stayed at home and couldn’t work, and couldn’t vote. It will just never happen as women would commit mass sewerslide and crime in retaliation. But if given the choice, they would mostly vote yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:15 AM
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lmao except wanting is not “having”. how about, do something to make yourself more desirable? bare minimum doesn’t cut it my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:13 AM
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lmao they do not give a fuck about personality, you could have the personality of soggy cardboard and still be appealing to a man if you let him fuck you and pop out his kids
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:11 AM
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You have to be deserving of love. Just because you’re born doesn’t mean you are entitled to love and affection, relationships, sex, job success, children. You have to actually work for that and earn it. Men only love us for our bodies and what we can provide them - sex, labour, children. What do men do that is the equivalent of THAT on such a grand scale, that makes them deserving of love and recognition?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:01 AM
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“Women got what they want”. What, rights? Freedom? Jobs, employment, financial security? The right to their own bodies and autonomy? What do men want? Sex and to own women. Women just want something to empower themselves. Men just want to own women. How fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:11 AM
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??? Last few decades 😭🤣 we couldn’t vote earlier this century. 50% of the population is also men. There are still many countries women cannot vote. Make it make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:09 AM
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Ugh you realise most governments are male dominated, right? These legislations are ALSO VOTED AND AGREED UPON BY MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:08 AM
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bro… if you can’t score with ideal photos of you on dating apps, you won’t score cold approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:27 AM
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It wasn’t even me who mentioned it bro 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:50 AM
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Nobody says you’re bad because you have bipolar. People say you’re bad because you are a raging misogynist. Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:48 AM
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Okay? Scars on your penis, soft and flaccid skin that has heaps of give, don’t form in days. That’s weeks to months of consistent behaviour. Just the stereotype of an incel I guess. It’s a stereotype for a reason and most black pills / red pills that cry about women having rights and not “choosing” them meet it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:41 AM
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Holy shit lmao that’s fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:41 PM
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??? Bare minimum is different for every person. But at the least, being a fully functioning and independent adult that brings benefit without negatives to my life - negatives being emotional immaturity, communication mishaps, financial issues such as debt, addiction (drugs/alcohol/gambling/sex), misogyny, being a shit person, having no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:19 PM
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the reaching and deflection is crazy idk where you get these wild ideas from that a guy cannot both be bold and an amazing partner
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:17 PM
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Yup. Going to work is like a break for me because I love my job (emergency nurse) and love socialising with my colleagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:15 PM
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lol what? what a silly question all of the ideals you listed are a bare minimum for a thriving adult relationship, from both parties
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:13 PM
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So, more bare minimum things. Nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:12 PM
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lol being bold doesn’t also mean they’re a piece of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:11 PM
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what does nepo babies have to do with men pursuing women as a standard and common practice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:59 PM
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why would we need to have the drive when men do it for us? Genuine question
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:48 PM
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The issue you are failing to describe is that women DO notice and feel sexual attraction for men. But, we leave it at that. We aren’t pests, we don’t pursue or demand or whinge and whine. That is the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:42 PM
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Still can’t give me any examples of “other positive traits” that could “outweigh” boldness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:51 AM
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okay, give examples? literally every other male in the animal kingdom gets their partner by acts of boldness - see birds of paradise, penguins with their cute ass pebbles and rocks, and big cats. so, why should women not want acts of boldness? Boldness and confidence is literally one of THE most desirable traits and what drives attraction and interest. If you don’t wanna be bold, that’s okay cause someone else will, and they’ll be the one who wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:18 AM
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So, you’re short, and think women hate you because of your height. I suppose your definition of “hate” is women not choosing you, over other men, right? Because you’re short, not because of well, literally anything else. It’s easy to pinpoint an issue that you perceive as the topic of concern whilst being in denial what the true issue is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:16 AM
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What you mean by the thing “before” is - women were naturally oppressed, and didn’t have rights therefore stayed in relationships and marriages with bum ass men and popped out their kids and did all the household labours without a complaint or else she’d get backhanded. What a joke you are trying to sell
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:14 AM
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“Men as a whole can never get love from women” Uh okay I forgot all women just hate men and we get with them purely out of hatred. I love being a side chick and risking STDs and STIs, and not knowing where my man has stuck his dick, the thrill is in the monthly surprise STI screen I get or whenever I fall pregnant because I hate him so he refused to wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:11 AM
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WHAT LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:04 AM
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such as…?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:03 AM
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Yes this is how it is for a lot of couples these days? Even if I earn less, I refuse to not work at least one or two shifts a week. I love my job and I need to socialise and keep my brain active, being a home body would drive me bonkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:57 AM
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lmfao what, cheating is still cheating, paid service or no at the end of the day, it just comes down to personal beliefs. virginity only really matters in regards to relationship experience. if I am looking to date a man, at my age of 26, I will never look for a virgin and would leave if they told me they were a virgin and or had only had sex with SWers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:37 AM
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it’s not the same as intimate connecting sex tbh, it’s just a paid service, like a subscription or a job
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:30 AM
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lol, it’s fine for you to perceive such. But in the dating realm, you’re basically a loser / virgin if you’ve only had sex with a paid professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:26 AM
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okay, that’s fine. but at the end of the day it’s just sex, and most people want more than paid sex work transactions (children, companionship, physical affection and non sexual intimacy, financial aspects). also you asked me a question and I answered - I’m not talking about your league specifically, I’m talking about in general. but most men who are on here saying sex work is great are in fact, not in a well off league.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:22 PM
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nope because I am attractive, but you date within your league and not above it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:19 PM
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lol that’s not how it works in normal consenting adult relationships I’m afraid “Most men” is actually most men, you’ve just got unrealistic expectations because of BP ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:14 PM
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because paying someone to do a job is just a transaction… it’s all well and good to use them, no shame in that, but if you haven’t had sex with someone else without paying them, in my eyes (and many others’) you’re still a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:10 PM
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we don’t give a shit. just don’t say you’re not a virgin if you’ve only ever had sex with sex workers. it’s not a real loss of virginity and it’s actually a bit sad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:04 PM
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of course you do, coming from an incel perspective. It’s pretty easy to look at all the comments in the inkyverse and natalism subs though. It’s pretty damn funny. I am far from a femcel though, but whatever you would like to believe to help you sleep at night. 💖
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:03 PM
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do you actually have a point to make? cause men wanting a bang maid is incel rhetoric, by your logic. It doesn’t change the fact that the idea is, men want a woman to give them sex, have and care for children, and fulfil household labours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:57 PM
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Do you actually have a debate? Or?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:55 PM
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clearly not, if you look on the natalism sub whereby men simply want women to “procreate” with because of “biological and societal need”, and when asked how to bring up birth rates, they say the solution is removing women’s rights 🤣🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:51 PM
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because they disguise wanting sex/a bang maid as actually wanting kids because somehow that’s less creepy they look at the handmaids tale and think “yep, that is an ideal world”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:38 PM
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lmao except there is plenty of stats for men. y’all just refuse that, and say it’s “not enough” - have you ever thought there’s not enough bc it isn’t PREVALENT enough? denial denial denial. you can’t compare a minimal amount of men being abused by women to women, OR 50% of the POPULATION, being under studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:03 PM
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you ask them about it then. do your own polls there’s a reason it’s not really reported and that’s simply because it’s nowhere near as common, nor as harmful considering men are stronger than women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:23 PM
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if you care so much maybe advocate on your own posts, rather than women’s posts, because it has the opposite effect and actually makes us care less it’s okay to care about men being abused. but saying “we are abused TOO” only when women talk about their issues defeats the point and minimises women’s experience AKA the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:46 AM
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idk why you think most women slap when they’re on their period. women who slap are abusers period. all there is to it but regardless, men still do it far more often, and the statistics say that. arguing about it basically saying women are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:25 AM
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Men do get abused, nobody has ever denied that. But they do not get abused anywhere NEAR the amount that women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:00 AM
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ugh you guys only ever care about male violence when women speak up about the absurd differences in stats for WOMEN’S violence
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:50 AM
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“Male violence statistics are real but significantly overstated relative to actual encounter risk”. Stopped reading. You’re off the plot. We will never know true encounters due to the surge of shame in reporting and being perceived as sluts. Even without these people reporting, the numbers are still absurdly high. So do with that information what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:48 PM
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lmao says who
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:14 AM
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this is just for karma farming atp, or fetish content
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:00 PM
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LMAO yep
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:59 PM
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This isn’t Islam. You might be Islamic, but most people here and in the rest of the world aren’t. If you want a woman like that, go to Afghanistan or Israel and work to provide for a woman that stays at home. You can’t have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:26 AM
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Except that’s not what I’m talking about. So go away. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:25 AM
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Thing is if you told a girl you’d do all the cooking, cleaning and chores cause you’re unemployed af, they still won’t want you - CAUSE YOU’RE UNEMPLOYED. Nobody will ever want that. Just the way it is, sorry not sorry. People are judged on employment, what are you on about. See dole bludgers and homeless people. Animals aren’t humans that have to work, pay tax and vote. 🤣😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:24 AM
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… literally never said anything about being employed and doing most of the chores (but that’s what he expects of a female partner) he is unemployed. yet he does not want to do chores if he gets into a relationship. he just wants to do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:21 AM
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Weaponised incompetence tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:17 AM
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This is exactly why you remain single. You don’t have a job, yet want a girlfriend who will still do things for you and provide for you whilst you do nothing. You already HAVE fallen that steep. You have no job. That’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:15 AM
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“We don’t want to be a slave”, brother, you are a frequent commenter but you don’t even have a job. If you got a gf you’d be doing 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:09 AM
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Hard agree, because they could do 80-90% yet they still would not do it correctly or up to a high standard and would half ass it. So, less work for me overall, cleaning up after their mistakes. I expect more than 50% because I am a shift worker and work 12 hour shifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:08 AM
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It’s almost like women are individuals, and so are men There is no one size fits all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:32 AM
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It’s not always a personal failure. I acknowledge those factors which is why I said “unless there was a valid reason”. I have low income, <90k a year. My mortgage will be $650pw not including bills. I have had bad health and many hospitalisations. I had a study and car debt I both paid off. Cultural norms in Aus are to just enjoy life and not bother with the fucked housing market. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:52 PM
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By the way brother, even if you use a script remove program, it’s still available for everyone’s eyes on a backdoor website. Doesn’t work - the website shows even deleted and edited comments. Just proved that I hurt your feelings so badly. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:47 PM
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA BRO GOT OFFENDED SO BAD HE HAD TO USE A SCRIPT TO EDIT ALL HIS COMMENT HISTORY
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:46 PM
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I live in the 2nd most expensive city in the world. If I can do it alone, anyone else can. A 26+ year old shouldn’t still be living at home “saving” with “plans” to get out unless there was a valid reason they didn’t work for a few years. Most of us start work at 18 at a minimum. No excuse tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:44 PM
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If I can do it in a shitty nursing job, anyone can. It doesn’t have to be owning, you can rent. But men older than me living with their parents with no intent or plan to move very soon is a big no no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:21 PM
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I already answered that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:57 PM
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brah my department has like 5 male nurses out of 300 nurses. I think we will do just fine. Considering I can do several rounds of CPR without getting winded I guess you’re a bit jealous that I am a strong independent waaaman. Guess what? Considering it seems to be your passion, I also have enough money for motorcycles whilst funding my house. Does that ruffle your feathers? 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:57 PM
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HAHAHA it’s literally all my own. I’m a nurse. Worked hard for it. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:52 PM
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I didn’t answer your question cause it’s not spelt correctly and doesn’t make sense. Revisit it and maybe I’ll consider it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:51 PM
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Yeah, that’s the point of commenting under the auto generated mod comment. Making fun of the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:51 PM
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lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:50 PM
5

Men do make generalisations online all the time, look at all the angry men in this forum alone. Men who get no bitches will pick anyone. Let’s be real here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:49 PM
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Spot the black pill!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:48 PM
5

WORD I love straight men that are gay as hell. Love a dad bod, don’t want a gym bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:48 PM
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WHY should I have to lower my standards just cause I’m ugly? It’s not my fault! I deserve a chance. But also I’m not gonna give a chance to women in my league cause I’m not attracted to them! But I’m a nice guy so women should disregard my looks and absolute tool box personality! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:47 PM
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Hell no he must be tall and have a huge dick OR he has heaps of money! Not possible, personality doesn’t matter!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:44 PM
10

Here’s me about to own my own place at 26 on a single income, whilst most men my age are still living with mum and dad. How emasculated I must make them feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:44 PM
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I don’t want to be settled for! But also, women are sluts and sleep around with chads and I am not a chad! I’m a nice guy! But I only want a virgin!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:43 PM
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How dare they not want to settle for less! I am considered less because their standards are too high! Why do they need someone who knows how to communicate and pick up after himself and take after himself and a household environment? I have my mum to do that, and that’s what I want in my partner! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:42 PM
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No, men hate it because the ones that have no success in dating are insanely jealous that women have the option to be single “by choice”. That’s not a choice they have as women don’t want them. They also say it reduces the dating pool. They just want women to be okay with settling less. Because most of them are “less”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:39 PM
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It is. It’s a great thing for us. And men hate it. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:08 PM
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Yes but unattractive men always cry and pout that they can’t even make female friends. It is quite common, actually, for unattractive men to not have any females because of appearance bias. But OP has said he believes he is attractive. So
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:27 PM
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how dare women have preferences, and a big preference does include dating men with social skills of which OP has stated he doesn’t have much of
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:17 PM
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Potentially, but if he was so unattractive he wouldn’t have female friends as he says. He says he thinks he is decently attractive. Pretty high potential they just think he’s not their type, and or they don’t want to date for other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:39 PM
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What? That’s not how it works. People have preferences. You can still be a catch but not that particular person’s preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:11 PM
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Or they’re just in relationships… or they aren’t their type… or they just don’t want to date…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:57 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:35 AM
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I have no issue with it, but it’s the men here that will struggle the second they ask about her body count. Insecure little chronically online tweens lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:37 AM
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lmfao no it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:27 AM
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She needs to be a saintly virgin but he’s allowed to fuck around. Just because… because… because he can’t imagine her fucking other men, and it makes him feel insecure if the other men were better than him. And she’s a slut if she does what he has been doing for ages. 😂😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:52 AM
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Okay? What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:48 AM
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If it’s an insecurity, the attitude shouldn’t be “so what”. You’ll stay single. Deal with that with a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:41 AM
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Crazy logic lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:40 AM
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lmao if a man asks me my body count (very small) he’s instantly blocked, it’s just so insecure and immature. Dating for love, I’m not getting off on that foot, and you’ll never be privy to my past. YALL are grown ass men wanting to know about how many dicks I’ve seen, how many have been inside me, how big and thick they are? Like, you’re 100% closeted gay and forcing yourself to be straight. Go cry about your feelings of inadequacy and gain some confidence back
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:39 AM
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Lmaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:02 AM
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As always, it’s okay for men to sleep around because they need “experience”, but if women do it they’re hoes/sluts. Just say it for what it is. Your future potential partner having partners before you bruises your ego because you’ll never know if she got fucked better by other men. It’s a deeply rooted insecurity red and black pilled society has deemed normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:01 AM
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I agree. So much easier and happier to be single as a woman these days than trying to date potential
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 12:24 AM
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For real girl, imma keep collecting plants and I’ll start collecting crystals if it means I keep these strange types away
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:19 PM
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Aye don’t shit on collecting plants bruh 🫣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:48 PM
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yeah idk anyone who genuinely does that after like 23 bro 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:53 PM
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Did she get her rocks off though? I’m pretty sure women would not feel “used” if they got their rocks off every time like men did. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:48 PM
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“Voluntary heterosexual mate pairings” “equitable underlying transaction of value” “widespread monogamous and sufficiently stable heterosexual pairings” You are just saying a bunch of nothing trying to sound smart here, and to anyone with a lick of common sense, it is incredibly laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:27 AM
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he’s trying to be ironic, okay? B+ for effort
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:56 PM
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Nobody is saying you aren’t allowed to do it. But take the hint and fuck off once we say no or brush you off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:13 AM
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If you know how to take a no, and will leave it at that - sure, why not. If you will ask me questions and harass me after I say no - HELL no. Leave me alone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:11 AM
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because how dare you be happily married with a great husband! you must have done something to him… you must have manipulated him! how does this foid have a husband whilst I am still a kissless virgin? /s if you couldn’t tell
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:26 PM
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Bro really thinks he is spitting logical things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:50 PM
2

lmfao right? it’s ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:01 AM
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sex, and a cheap and legal way to own a slave
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:49 PM
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Obviously they’re not doing that off the bat, but further into the relationship after their true behaviour starts coming out…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 01:26 PM
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No, and if anything, they reap the benefits indirectly. Because the bad guys have lowered the bar across the board for women. Average men can say shit like “at least I don’t do xyz like your ex”, “at least I don’t hit you”, “any other man would’ve put you in your place but not me” to justify their shit behaviour and being shit in the relationship, because hey, at least they aren’t being physical or sexual abusers. I sure do hope you tried to stop the men who you saw trying to assault women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 01:23 PM
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Because they refuse to blame themselves. It is much easier to blame someone else for your own failures, in every situation, than it is to come to terms with the fact that it’s actually you. So the collective typically blame women. Cause everyone else does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:39 AM
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what
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:42 PM
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for them there is no between it’s one or the other lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:08 PM
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If the mods were deleting them, it would say “removed by moderators”. It just says deleted 😂🫣 embarrassing for you. By the way, based on your comment 25/03/2026. ”It can be both. It's easier than ever for Chad to have tons of sex. For the average man it's harder than ever.” Have you ever thought the reason you aren’t getting any action is because you’re a huge misogynist? Maybe you should date a man, considering you utterly despise women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:19 PM
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AWWWW you’re deleting your comments, I feel so happy To quote your words 06/04/2026; “Former feminist ally here. At some point I realized that no matter how much feminism wins, it will never be enough for them. They will keep moving the goalposts so that they keep the status of being oppressed victims. I will always have empathy for individuals. But I have no more empathy to give for a movement that represents the most privileged people in the history of this planet, and yet those people always …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:06 PM
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nawwww babes. I can still see all your comments even if you delete them. 🥺👉🏻👈🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:04 PM
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To quote your words 16/04/26, “Living in the most women-centric society in the history of mankind and it's still not enough. Will be interesting to see what will happen once the local populations are displaced by migrants from countries that actually don't give a fuck about women's rights.” If you hate women so much and want them to suffer, why don’t you date men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:02 PM
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My guy. Your profile is full of WoW, game lore, fanfiction and blatant misogyny. You are crying that women have standards in all of your comments, and that they should just accept men as they are, and if they don’t want to, then somehow they are closeted lesbians that haven’t come to terms with it. If you’re so upset that women have standards, maybe try dating a man? You’ll realise one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:00 PM
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Well yes, but you don’t be a petty child and ignore them, you tell them you aren’t continuing the friendship for your own health and wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:22 AM
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okay gang, you know nothing about me but keep proving women’s point that men are angry creatures
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:18 AM
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Obviously I am talking about the men I have gotten to know, and tried to date. It is most men. So, that is why I have generalisations and reservations. I assure you I have no problem with men avoiding me like the plague though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:15 AM
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personal attacks as always only come from men who are offended 🫣🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:03 AM
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Because physical vs emotional attraction is very different. Hope this helps you, you seem conflicted yourself darling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:48 AM
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No, I definitely won’t. Just because I don’t like that men want to be mothered doesn’t mean I’m gonna turn lesbian. That’s not how it works. What are you on? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:43 AM
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I’m not. I’m sexually attracted to men, not women. But most men aren’t mature and ready for a fair and equal relationship, so I choose to stay single for now. Thanks though. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:40 AM
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We do like men. But most men are pathetic and can’t pull their weight in relationships and parenting. So it becomes a debate on whether or not we want that and want to date potential rather than present actual. The risks outweigh the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:38 AM
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Sexual attraction isn’t a choice for 90% of people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:25 AM
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Marriage is a way that even the poorest man can afford a slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:25 AM
2

Why is it justified?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:53 AM
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How’s that working out for you? God forbid a woman that doesn’t want to have sex on the first few dates exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:50 AM
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why is it toxic to feel peace being single lol if a man is too much work, and I am dating potential and not present actual who the fuck in their right mind would want that over being single lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:07 PM
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lol not all the time, you just don’t realise it’s worse for you with rose tinted glasses til you’re already locked in
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:06 PM
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this is just a bunch of yap none of it actually makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:06 PM
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yeah long term ones. the ones that have done their time and found out it fucking sucks to date aren’t dating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:28 AM
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lol yes they don’t want children now, and want them later.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:27 AM
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Me too 💖
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:27 AM
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that’s not what I’m saying at all. I’m saying if you are damaged you’re just gonna hurt others and yourself and need therapy first.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:27 AM
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If they want to be “left alone to do their own thing” but also want children, that’s just not fair? you can’t have both lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:05 AM
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Yes? everything out there suggests otherwise. men still expect women to do all of the caregiving and give up their jobs and livelihood to take care of children and the house. And once their maternity leave is over, they expect them to do all of that AND work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:57 AM
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men want children like a child wants a puppy. they want to play with it and have fun, but they don’t want any of the hard work associated with it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:26 AM
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men want children like a child wants a puppy. they want to play with it and have fun, but they don’t want any of the hard work associated with it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:26 AM
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young people, particularly skewed towards women in this case, aren’t interested in dating and having kids anymore because we have too much to loose our jobs, our physical bodies, our mental health just for child rearing and childcare male incompetence and laziness is too high to even consider it at this stage unless you find “the one” that will change your mind. personally I am enjoying being single and will probably have a kid by myself in the future because the two relationships I have had as …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:25 AM
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I agree! And if you are so lonely and depressed you aren’t READY for a relationship and you need therapy, or else it’s just gonna end up toxic and traumatic as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:59 AM
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lol no they don’t especially if you are already broken. it just causes a trauma bond and a toxic relationship!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:58 AM
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We already see it… so what are you debating?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:09 PM
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The stigma is dating heaps younger than you. It’s unnatural. Just date your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:30 AM
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You only have success now because you have something they want - money, job security, housing, protection. Also, men at your age are just more mature than when in high school/college - that stage is just for fucking around and finding out. Yes, money matters. Money makes the world. Doesn’t make women a gold digger, we just don’t want to date a bum with no future - there’s nothing in it for us versus dating someone who is already set up financially and physically. I won’t date someone who still l…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:23 AM
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Single by choice here. No interest in any kind of relationship atm and don’t have sex outside of relationships (because I need an emotional connection to have sex). A lot of women I know in the same boat atm, working on ourselves and enjoying not being tied down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:57 PM
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A young virgin man by his logic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:00 AM
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A woman having a body count doesn’t not make her a woman lol. If it’s a mutual exchange of standards/effort/expectations if he wants a young virgin woman then she is right to expect a young virgin man herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:59 AM
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Not referring to you specifically. But you’d be surprised how many men do show up in graphic tees and slides, facial hair and hair ungroomed, teeth unbrushed. Just… nah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:37 AM
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Hell naw if you don’t dress decent for a first impression you’re a slob. Would you wear ugly dirty clothes and not groom yourself for a job interview? Same concept. Doesn’t matter what other assets you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:23 AM
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✨ gross, no thanks guys ✨💖🫶🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:22 AM
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Help what the fuck is PUA
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:22 AM
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It’s no big deal to me. I’m not gonna seek it out. It’s definitely a plus in a relationship but not a deal breaker - I’m currently single by choice and that means I’m not having sex as I don’t have sex outside of relationships. I don’t care or feel like I’m dying, and my life still feels worth living.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:15 AM
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Go get pregnant then. It’s not women’s responsibility. The economy will crash anyways soon as all the children from the baby boom are elderly and frail.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:07 PM
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No 😂 I’m referring to men in general. They shouldn’t cry about it to women nor are they owed solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:34 AM
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But you’re saying it’s a cry for help. Cry about it yourself, not to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:24 AM
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It’s not women’s responsibility to give men a reason to not give up on dating. Find that yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:08 AM
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I don’t know anyone who claims that tbh. But at the end of the day nobody is dying without sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 08:17 PM
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Absolutely not. Random videos only, no specific people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 08:16 PM
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No, I said I’m not okay with it if it fits a specific type that he enjoys watching, such as a stereotypical petite blonde woman - something I am not. If he has a habit of watching only petite / blonde / brunette porn, it’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 11:41 AM
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Smut/erotic fiction/erotica No, as it is all imagination and fantasy. It’s fiction. Whereas porn is visual, vivid, and real life - even if it’s hentai, you aren’t making it up in your head because it’s right in front of you. You cannot form attachments to those ideals, because fae men that are 500 years old, 6’6, 7 inches and also usurpers don’t exist in real life. Therefore it is just fantasy and fun. Hentai No, as long as it’s not with some AI hentai you’ve made up or have formed some sort of …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:04 AM
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the truth of what? why they aren’t getting dates or sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:24 AM
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nah. this is a one or the other scenario. I’d 100% sacrifice sex for true relationship happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:20 AM
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I’m glad at least one man thinks the way you do. I completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:53 AM
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Yes, some have high sex drive. But if you think about it realistically, a lot of us would prefer the situation OP described versus what we currently expect (men who don’t do hardly any of the emotional or physical labour).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:30 AM
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But most women would prefer being 100% happy and all their other needs being met if it came down to that vs sex. Sex isn’t an imperative “need” (lmfao) for women like men make it out to be for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:28 AM
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Yes, I’d take being happy in 100% of other things over sex any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:19 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:15 AM
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What makes you think women don’t also do that exactly? if you are so anxious a woman is going to leave you, then you aren’t ready for a relationship and need a therapist to fix your anxious attachment style
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:28 PM
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Definitely is 😂🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:48 PM
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Damn putting in a simple amount of effort to be a gentleman, nice and respectful and ask her questions is running yourself at 100%? You can’t expect success in dating if you base your approach on “I’ve had bad experiences with women so why should I try something different, why should I try harder” Genuinely try doing the things I said and I guarantee you’ll have success
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:25 PM
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Obviously not but if I say early on in the talking stage or first date “I hate Mexican food” I’d expect them to remember and not want to take me to a Mexican restaurant. Real experience I had.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:23 PM
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… no lmao. It would definitely be a combination. An ugly man can be very attractive if they have other things good about them - but maybe I’m biased as I believe I’m demisexual. idk
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:05 PM
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Light pole?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:04 PM
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Men put women on a pedestal because we are something they inherently desire and feel unfulfilled without, and often go crazy from lacking. So of course we are on a higher pedestal, so therefore why would women not choose a million bucks over $1000 if that’s what it comes down to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:04 PM
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That’s what I’m saying. The commenter said an average short bloke showed up in a shirt off the floor. Like… of course the male in that scenario is then gonna complain he has no success, cause he doesn’t realise the problem is him, and his nonchalance. Simping ≠ nonchalant btw. When women say they don’t want a nonchalant man we just want someone who puts in a little bit of effort and makes us feel special, and is interested in us. Really not that hard to accomplish without boot licking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:02 PM
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What’s an Mgtow?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:00 PM
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So they should put in extra effort… right??? Right??? You guys understand how that works, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:59 PM
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I would’ve walked out. Sorry to them, it just reflects poorly on the kinda person they are. Props to you for sticking up with it for an entire date girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:58 PM
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I don’t know why dating is so hard for a lot of people. It just comes down to being kind and thinking of them and going that tiny bit extra to make them feel they are interested in you, and that you are special. Yet men complain they shouldn’t have to do that bc of feminism… idk
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:57 PM
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I think when women say we don’t want nonchalant men we are referring to effort in dating, not “simping”. Being nice, holding the door open, driving to the date, asking me questions and remembering the little things about me isn’t being a simp. It’s just being a decent human being. So no, if you can’t show those qualities even whilst in a talking stage or on a first date, it’s an absolute no go. Opting to not show those basic things says you aren’t really interested and are kinda over it, hoping …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:56 PM
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oh no a boy obsessed with thinking about how many penises a woman has seen! What are we going to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 08:02 AM
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damn what were you doing wrong for a majority of them to not lead to second dates? or even relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 08:01 AM
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… never did I once say women do that genuinely have no point what you are trying to make here you just don’t make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:15 PM
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That’s not what hypersexual means
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:05 PM
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100%… like if you’ve lived a little outside of long term exclusive relationships it’s pretty standard…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:22 PM
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Compare it to men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:21 PM
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But damn who the fuck has time for that Were they all first dates? Or?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:21 PM
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400 dates is such bullshit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:05 PM
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uh… okay… logic I guess isn’t a thing for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:55 PM
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you’ve been on 400+ dates? lol obviously no woman is pulling out Reddit when she is busy with other people or a partner or on a date. I do it on my night shifts and at work mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:54 PM
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what are you even saying bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:53 PM
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you aren’t even making sense you realise body count doesn’t matter to most people right? 10 is pretty damn average for that age bracket
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:52 PM
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those are still very low numbers though? so what’s the point of your debate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:46 PM
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My bad. I didn’t mean illegal. Poor choice of words whilst I’m on night shifts lol. I meant it’s not governed by the state and regulating bodies and is highly discouraged therefore it is not done in public practice. Only private. Obviously the private doctors would’ve been in deep shit if it was truly illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:33 PM
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Show me where you get your evidence from please. And how is FGM discriminatory? It is genuine butchered mutilation, done in shanty shacks with no proper equipment whilst the girl is awake and held down by others. Circumcision is cutting a bit of skin straightforwardly hence the name, usually under sterile environments and whereby the child is lightly sedated or anaesthetised. They are very different. Fathers also make the decision so show me some statistics saying mostly women sign the consent f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:47 AM
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Nobody is saying that not and you to do anything, so it’s not an inequality. Approaching women and being confident and gentlemanly and romantic, which women like, is not an inequality. It’s just a job application with a cover letter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:50 PM
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Their logic is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:06 PM
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You realise nobody is forcing you right? Red vs blue pill is about rights and freedom between the genders. I can be blue pill in the fact that I won’t be a house wife or pop out kids after kids for a husband who does nothing for me, whilst also wanting a confident and romantic partner who respects me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:06 PM
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Then they can stay single and do us a favour by staying out of the dating market, and leaving more men who will actually put in the effort. ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:53 PM
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Okay? Then those men will stay single. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:52 PM
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I have not witnessed the surgeries in my profession, I have looked after babies with infected circumcision wounds though. They’re done by off the books doctors, privately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:22 PM
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Pretty easy to look up the stats yourself re: male perspectives and choices on FGM… it, like male circumcision, was a tradition created by men, for men. Except one is more brutal and dehumanising a woman to be less “promiscuous”, and wife material in their culture. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4599697/ It’s not assumption that males push male circumcision. Considering the stats for parents being “for” circumcision of their son are largely dominated by the fact that the dad is circumc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:41 PM
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Even still, writing error or no (I don’t think it is, and presume they’re talking about women making the decision to circumcise boys) it is an unsupported statistic with no evidence. My comment applies to FGM also as it is usually the husband/father’s decision pushed onto the mum/mother as “tradition” in those countries. And culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:26 PM
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Where are you getting your stats for your statement “it’s 99% women making decision to circumcise”? Genuinely. Maybe it is just where you live but it is illegal in Australia, and only under the table doctors will do it in specific circumstances, usually cultural, such as islam or Hebrew parents. And most of the time I have witnessed in my career as a nurse it is actually the dad wanting the circumcision.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:20 AM
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No, it means I don’t want to fuck you if you’re actually a loser. I need to get to know you first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:36 PM
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Broken people do not date “just fine”. They end up in toxic and abusive relationships because it’s what is familiar, and they don’t leave. Even if it hurts them or kills them. You need to fix yourself before trying to get a relationship. Else it’s just toxic and harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:10 AM
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Oh how I wish that were possible. Don’t hate men. Just don’t trust them until they can prove I can trust them. 🫶🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:08 AM
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idk where you pulled that random example out of your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:01 AM
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no, I complain that most men are misogynists in some way shape or form false positives in initial dating don’t exist. it’s that people change or put on a facade. hence the phrase “rose tinted glasses”. personally for me I just skip looking through those glasses now and consider everything, and ask my girlfriends for opinions on everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:38 PM
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yeah on Reddit you numpty
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:34 PM
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show me where
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:23 PM
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what sub? I haven’t seen it here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:59 AM
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Nobody says that… lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:46 AM
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as always the men that have nothing to debate stoop so low to insult people they know nothing about yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:40 AM
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They just expect women to want to date the promise of potential rather than present actual, and that’s just… not how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:50 AM
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I agree. I always probe out finances on the apps before agreeing to anything cause fuck no am I getting stuck with someone’s financial problems like I did in a previous relationship. Same with independence and if they live alone or still live with mates/parents. It’s just a deal breaker, I won’t even consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:17 AM
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Unfortunately some aren’t as good at it. And people do change. A lot of men choose to exhibit those behaviours once the relationship has had its honeymoon period cool off, they’ve moved in with each other, got married, or had kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:50 AM
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We are able to see it. Most of those men radiate that energy through non verbal cues when speaking to me or other women, you just have to be an empath and know what to look for. I don’t think men realise it’s very easy to perceive even if it’s not outright said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:48 AM
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bruh this is so incorrect. I don’t have sex with men I am either not exclusive with or dating exclusively
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:24 AM
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I meant that your posts are all edited and copied and pasted straight from chat GPT. not that you are an AI bot. your argument isn’t good enough to be a bot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:03 PM
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It’s not a rule to yearn or do nice things Feminism is about equal human rights, freedom and legalities ya numpty
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:51 PM
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yeah and just genuinely being interested, opening the door for her or pulling out her chair, tying her shoes, calling her nice names. like. its not a hard concept
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:44 PM
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I truly don’t know what OP thinks is so traditional about just pursuing and yearning a lil lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:40 PM
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…huh. that’s a new argument. for me its definitely over effort. would prefer a great relationship even if the sex was bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:35 PM
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not the AI user again
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:34 PM
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okay, men can start dating fat women too or women with no tits and ass then we can stop talking about it please
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:32 PM
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“how do I flex here” ahh (whilst also admitting you have debt - counterproductive) Good for you? But if it’s not the money, you definitely don’t have time for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:18 PM
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Doll myself up, look and smell nice, hold hands, flirt, and a kiss at the end if it was great. Further romance comes later on. It’s a game.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:09 PM
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ah… those are the exact women that want exactly what I’ve commented I’m afraid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:04 PM
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Well, if you have two jobs already you probably can’t afford to be dating anyway, considering you won’t be able to afford a woman’s drink on the first date. Hope it gets better for you my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:02 PM
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you realise all good relationships have romance and pining and love from both parties right? 😭 some fruit is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:58 PM
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Okay 🙂 You all say that women are the advantaged ones, so naturally men have to do more work in dating and attracting others of the opposite sex. If you don’t do it, someone else will, and you’ll stay crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:53 PM
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Nobody deserves anything. Respect is earnt, not owed. But this is dating and attraction we are talking about. I assure you based on your logic, plenty of men are thinking I deserve it currently. Oops! 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:50 PM
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Fuck yes I do in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:49 PM
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I will do the same things??? if I am pulled in and entranced, hence why I said “responsiveness”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:48 PM
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Aye. Except one is actually revoking basic human rights, and one is just romance and pining and love. Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:46 PM
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Nope! Not what I said. Nor implied. But definitely pro men yearning and showing a lot of interest, and pursuing women. Hell yeah. That’s what determines my attraction and responsiveness. Just a preference tho! 🫶🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:38 PM
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Aye. Nobody is gonna force anyone to do anything in the big ole 2026. But as I keep saying, those are the ones succeeding whereas you will stay single. I won’t, cause what determines my attraction to a man is the effort he puts in. Not everyone is like that, but it’s just a preference. Maybe give it a shot, just once, and test your narrative’s effectiveness by doing the opposite of what you want to do. I assure you it will work well with the ladies 🫶🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:35 PM
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Just because women now have rights and can work doesn’t mean chivalry and romance is going to cease to exist. Chivalry existed because men actually respected women and wanted to love them and have families with them, back in the day, hence all the norms of men dedicating themselves to their women through engagement and marriage and working to provide for his wife and children. Yearning isn’t related to modernity. It’s just being a gentleman and how you show true interest without being a sleaze-b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:23 PM
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Just telling it the way it is I’m afraid. And it’s not changing any time soon but in fact getting worse for men, because men refuse to do it, but women also refuse nonchalant low effort. At the end of the day, women are okay being single, men aren’t. So, of course the men have to put in more effort. It’s a simple concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:14 PM
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yet you couldn’t even counter any of it, or explain why its stupid. yawnnnnn 🥱 a win for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:13 PM
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I will if it’s worth my effort. A man that yearns is a man that earns. If you don’t wanna do that, that’s cool, but you’ll be staying single. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:11 PM
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Healthy relationships do both. But in the initial attraction and dating game, yes, a man that yearns is a man that earns. 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:10 PM
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Because it is being treated better. It’s like asking if someone wants a million bucks or a thousand. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:09 PM
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then don’t respond. clearly it ruffled your feathers 🫣🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:07 PM
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Well first of all, if you struggle with erections you need to see a doctor. Feelings of insecurity are normal. I want a more pronounced jawline and wider hips and smaller shoulders. But I don’t get all cut up about it and allow it to overwhelm me to the point that I can’t date people because I’m too insecure. Therapists can help with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:04 PM
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Romance isn’t directly related to traditional values… both parties enjoy romance. You complain a lot about the traditions men created, such as organising the flowers and date on Valentine’s Day, buying the ring and proposing, and so on and so forth, so how is it bad that women want what you created and upheld for centuries? And comparing simple gestures of romance to sex, sexual history and focusing on career… is just comparing apples and oranges. Also nobody is wanting to be serenaded. That shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:01 PM
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To discover why you feel sexually inadequate. To help you look inward. To help you see why you may come across as something women don’t particularly want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:41 PM
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lowkey starting to think I must be demisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:12 PM
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another fine post from one of my fav debaters they ain’t gon like it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:12 PM
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the percentage of permanently single men is nowhere near those numbers though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 12:34 PM
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with the way people (men lmfao) would treat and abuse the dolls and break hardware and engineering, the maintenance and building and repair costs for something that is not necessary to society or given any funding grants by literally anybody would easily outweigh the profits of any sort of sex doll start up for it to thrive you will just have to hope some multi millionaire that also knows about engineering sees it as an obsessive passion project to have any true developments in functioning sex r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 12:21 PM
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yeah and back to the future said we’d have flying cars and self zipping shoes in 2026… which one do you think would be more of a priority to society? sex dolls or actual technological and engineering developments?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 12:13 PM
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Except therapist strategies and practices isn’t a cheat sheet. Nobody says they aren’t listening. Of course they do. But they aren’t gonna just give you a cure all. You actually have to find out what works for you via trial and error for your issues. So largely, it’s on you, with the therapist as a guide. Idk why you men get so defensive and literally just can’t read the words in front of you. They help you indirectly, through guiding you, but it’s up to you to get better and implement that. Jes…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 11:03 AM
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bruh. Therapy does help if you put in the work and take on board their info, guidelines and strategies. It’s indirect help.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:55 AM
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… what have you ever actually been to a therapist. I see one monthly. They don’t directly “help” you, you have to help yourself with the advice and guidance they give you. Which ends up helping, if you implement it. men can be therapists too btw so what are you on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:33 AM
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… no. It’s not emotional labour. They’re not gonna take on any of your issues or burdens or complaints. They just guide you and teach you things and strategies. That’s not labour. The fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:31 AM
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Which woman is randomly going up to men in the street complaining about their problems? I don’t see that happening. But I see it from men on first dates or ranting to women at bars once they’ve had a bit of alcohol. Other people aren’t your punching bag. You’re adults. Put on your fucking big girl pants and fix your problems and use the supports you already have socially and or professionally instead of seeking externally validating praise and attention from women. This also applies to women who…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:30 AM
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No. They guide you. Not help you. A nurse or surgeon will help you, physically, whereas therapists are somatic and emotional and verbal, and guide you through your issues and problems by implementing strategies and having an unbiased perspective. As a guide. It is up to you to use that guidance to change yourself. And I said the sex work from therapists because this sub is fucking crazy and the audacity of some men surprises me every damn day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:28 AM
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Men shut down women who whine too so idk what you’re on about. We are fucking adults. Stop whining and actually go fix your problems. If you genuinely need help tell your friends and family. That’s not what women are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:19 AM
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No, she can give you advice but that won’t fix your sexual problems unless you fix the problems in yourself. Idk why you would think that, and I hope you aren’t implying she helps you sexually cause that’s what sex workers are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:07 AM
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Okay? Whine all you like, nobody is telling you not to. It’s just going to result in rejection from women. Instead of whining, you actually need to figure out the reason you are experiencing issues instead terms of sexual inadequacy and insecurity. Talk to a therapist. Not women. Women are not obligated to help you in any scenario. What do you think making women uncomfortable is going to do to help your case?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:51 AM
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because men complaining about sexual frustration, rejection or “not measuring up” is whining they actually need to figure out what the reason is that they are experiencing such issues instead of just complaining about it to women as if that’s going to fix any of their problems nobody is saying shut up. just stop telling women and expecting sympathy. go tell a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:49 AM
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Yes. The women who are the leading victims in sexual and domestic violence. We are defenceless against men who are physically stronger than us even if we go to the gym. Reported 🙂🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:41 AM
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More hate. Reported again. 🫶🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:40 AM
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typical em dashes and perfect grammar written in 2 minutes AI slop next, come back when you can debate without an editing program
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:55 PM
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missed the point entirely women aren’t protectors because we can’t even protect ourselves against men if men / the violence associated with them didn’t exist there would be no real need for “protectors”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:53 PM
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this screams written by AI slop crazy to say you are providing us a “luxury” of writing critiques as if we are so little we do not deserve free speech… You say we built nothing, when every single man has literally been birthed by a woman, and a century ago women couldn’t work or study or pursue trades to “develop the world”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:50 PM
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eh debatable considering the violence stats speak for themselves whether most men are good or not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:38 PM
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“heh, this will get em” <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:36 PM
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we didn’t vote for shit bruh we certainly don’t want “these men” I’d be cheery if all men disappeared one day, we would not suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:33 PM
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literally said longer than 100 years cbf to actually look when the last war started by women was
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:32 PM
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??? protests count as uniting behaviour you know do you even know female social history in the slightest brah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:31 PM
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because in ancient history women were actually leaders and allowed to make war decisions and sit in on councils, such as in Rome, and in ancient ages in China and Japan no woman who has been elected or served as a leader has caused a war in longer than 100 years, nor have they even gotten close to sparking debate and uprising
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:28 PM
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oh! I read it the wrong way around
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:27 PM
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causing an economic shift from unionism and capitalism isn’t starting a war point proven, you couldn’t find a single woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:26 PM
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what are you on about reaching
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:25 PM
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yeah. two men. two parliaments full of men. armies full of men. men being conscripted. the last century is not limited to the UK’s reign btw. the rest of the world exists. China, Taiwan, Korea, Japan, Americas, Australia, so on and so forth. name a single war in the past century not started by men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:24 PM
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okay? leader of a party. doesn’t mean she’s started a war. not my question. modern. last century, say. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:22 PM
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lucky we aren’t fucking animals, then, and actually humans capable of thought and free will? “male humans hate cheating” is crazy lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:19 PM
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but who would beat me in a dark street? cause its definitely not women coming to beat me 🙂 next
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:17 PM
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pls show your stats saying organ donation recipients are somehow skewed towards women (lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:16 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:15 PM
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half the posts on this sub cite nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:14 PM
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there is none considering it’s not studied because that is a law enforcement job at present not specifically men, or women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:13 PM
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name one modern war started by women pls
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:10 PM
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the only thing you actually listed that men need “protection” for is rape everything else is a social or court matter and not determined by the protection of men whatsoever next
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:09 PM
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easy for other women to take women down 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:07 PM
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because if men didn’t exist we wouldn’t really “need” protection my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:05 PM
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what would women protect men from? other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:02 PM
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yeah like… protect us from who? men? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:54 PM
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this one is gonna spark the angry men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:52 PM
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you definitely need to either be married or have good long term relationship experience that didn’t end in fire and explosions to know what true relationships are like and what works and what does not and your comment is stupid. unless you know how to study, you aren’t going to just get good grades. same applies to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:55 AM
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NOT YOU AGAIN WE HAD SOME PEACE FOR A FEW DAYS WITHOUT YOUR POSTS LOOK EVERYONE ITS THE GUY WHO SAYS TO PUNISH HIS CHILDREN IF HIS WIFE HIS BAD AND THAT CHEATING IS FINE AS LONG AS SHE KNOWS ABOUT IT AND SHE CANT SAY NO OR STOP YOU CAUSE ITS NOT CHEATING IF SHE KNOWS
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:51 AM
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So you’re currently single and all your supposed long terms haven’t worked out. You have no idea what a good marriage looks like considering you have no success with a normal relationship. You have also never been married and only see from the outside looking in. Simple concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:41 AM
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when did I say I flirted with other men the fuuuuuck lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:36 AM
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What personal experience do you have though? Have you even been in a long term relationship? Jesus Christ this is conceited as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:35 AM
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You know what a good marriage is like? Through whom, or what? Considering you are clearly unmarried? He’s an ex for a reason that we both agreed upon. We are still friends. Just at different times in our lives. We always talk about maybe later down the track. So don’t attempt to insult me or my relationship with him considering he was amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:31 AM
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It’s the titties and the assssss. Plus hips and more lower abdominal fat. And thicker thighs. All for child rearing. Obviously I’m not talking about dressing like a stripper when you’re happily settled. But most men these days complain about some cleavage and thighs showing or form fitting clothes that show off the curves. Yes, find someone compatible if you truly complain about those clothes. So the confident men come forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:30 AM
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Girl rock what you got if you got it. Wear whatever the fuck you want. The right man won’t care and will froth it. The losers will stay crying and single. My ex loved me dressing a bit sexy, and would fuck me harder at the end of a night out in said outfit because he was confident in both me and himself as a MAN.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:14 AM
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Bro who are you to tell every woman they should be 58kg? Are you daft? What about considering height, tits, ass? If they have a healthy BMI (or slightly over healthy to consider the extra fat deposits in breasts, abdomen, hips and buttocks women naturally have for child rearing) and hip to waist ratio they are doing perfect. You aren’t even married by the sounds of it so how tf can you comment on what’s good for marriage. My ex partner loved me wearing promiscuous things, he would just fuck me h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:13 AM
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bro all I see is posts about men hating on women, their standards and the way the dating game works for women vs men, what posts are you even referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:18 AM
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Look at my comments further down in this same comment chain
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:57 AM
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But I experience the opposite. Especially with the girls. Most women are great to me. Maybe it’s just a dating thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:47 AM
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Idk what your criteria on boring is. I’m great. I have met other great people. I guess everyone has different preferences and standards of what they seek in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:37 AM
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Haven’t met a fellow Aussie on here yet. Idk I am out a bit rural, out of CBDs in south west Sydney. The guys I have been with might have done sports in the past but don’t have the energy, time or money to do it anymore, usually. They also start off going to the gym but then quickly become lazy in my experience once the relationship honeymoon period cools off. I thought us Aussies were all social and sporty too. Til I started asking these questions before I went on a date with someone. Instant n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:31 AM
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That’s not a hobby gang. Pls read my other comments about what “hobbies” I actually do and why I consider people who adopt multiple hobbies, NOT just games, better, more entertaining people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:15 AM
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Wut. Socialising/gossiping, social media scrolling and especially exercising aren’t hobbies (re exercising unless you’re in specific clubs like Pilates or CrossFit or HIIT or running). I run, and do Pilates, used to do CrossFit. I go on hikes or beach walks. I read, many genres. I crochet. I do random art like fluid art. I like flower pressing too. I ALSO play games. I’m also currently learning how to ride a motorcycle. Gaming is just not the only thing I do that is a “hobby” like a majority of …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:13 AM
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Not referring to warhammer but rather MTG. It might just be extremely common in my area in Australia? Almost all men either play LOL, +/- DND, +/- magic the gathering or some other form of card game OR warhammer. Rare few of them have hobbies like sports or reading or shit like puzzles n crafts n wood working niches when they have the games. Which is what I do not like. Games cannot be your entire personality. TikTok and social media scrolling isn’t a fucking hobby what are you on 😭😭😭 that’s jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:10 AM
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First sentence of the second paragraph… lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:49 AM
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No. I make fun of men who only have gaming as a hobby. Big difference 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:46 AM
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keywords “hobbies that aren’t just for nerds”, “every day” btw a lot of people do believe there are no true female nerds especially on here, and that women suck at games. so!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:24 AM
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I never said women put a high distance between nerdy hobbies, you’re just pulling that out of your ass. I game. Just not fucking every day and for hours. I have other hobbies and interests, like a normal person, and don’t require a game for entertainment and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:18 AM
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I’m not a party animal whatsoever. That’s not what I was referring to. I was just referring to going outside, being active, having fun with friends at a restaurant or bar, going to shows and movies and having hobbies. But I also don’t have my only hobbies as MTG/DND/games. It’s important to have a balance. And a lot of men don’t get that most women aren’t into it if those are your only hobbies. You can have deep conversations about things that aren’t TikTok about basically anything, but you guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:11 AM
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do you mean misandry??? Loool how is it misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:08 AM
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except women actually have hobbies that aren’t just for nerds… and actually tend to go out and socialise more and have fun… sorry that women don’t like dnd and mtg and board games or fps games every day I guess? I wouldn’t call that “entertaining” tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:03 AM
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lol the closeted nerds ain’t gonna like this one OP. you’re so right it hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:33 AM
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I literally didn’t even say porn affects men’s mental health. I actually said it negatively impacts a lot of things, the focus being on sexual health, sexual performance, how men view sex and women and relationships with women. Where tf did you pull mental health out of your ass? 😂🥴 Can you at least read my comments instead of skewing over them before you reply to my reply to your online debate about women having standards from fiction = very bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:57 PM
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Because my above comment was debating your comment, and you truly didn’t go in depth as to the effects of porn on men, sex and sexual health, relationships, and how they view women in your original post. And are instead getting in a tizzy that women have unrealistic standards because of pure fiction - that they want to dig gold that MOST men don’t have whatsoever ??? just because they like dramas where a poor girl dates a millionaire and he is overly protective of her, so on and so forth. How da…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:50 PM
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You literally just flipped my words and consider that a reasonable argument. How embarrassing. Show me studies on the effects of romantasy / romance / smut books / shows / movies on the effects of sexual health and relationships. Because there’s zilch compared to those on the effects of porn to men. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:47 PM
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Sure I did. But those are extremely rare and unrealistic scenarios for most women. We know that, but it’s nice to have fantasies and develop standards that are realistic for you as an individual. To counter your point, you could also say porn and pornographic content targeted to men are harmful to society. Plenty of studies on that and the detriments on male’s sexual performance and relationship happiness. They also develop unrealistic standards for sex, pleasing women, and relationships as a wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:30 PM
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where are you getting this information to base your claims. if men were truly like men in movies, shows and books we’d truly have no issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:25 PM
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Unrealistic expectations… Pining, buying gifts and flowers and surprising your woman with nice elaborate dates. Protectiveness, confidence and intelligence. Sooooo unrealistic lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:23 PM
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Okay? It’s fiction. Not real life. Women are also allowed to like pining and romance and just gestures of appreciation out of the blue without having to “give” anything in return, apart from respect and also being a good partner. It’s called love. You do nice things for the people you love even if they don’t always deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:20 PM
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lol don’t forget communication doesn’t matter in relationships apparently. cause we should just date toddlers who have no problem solving and conflict resolution skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 11:53 AM
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Because they don’t fix your problems… they tell you how to navigate them, or give you skills to address them. Mine saved my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 10:02 AM
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this post is genuinely just a bunch of word vomit that makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:46 AM
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lol. have you been in a relationship? have you ever tried to discuss relationship issues with someone who has no idea how to communicate, plays victim and or gaslights? If it even got to that point with a lack of communication skills. Women don’t enjoy dates where the man can’t communicate or even show an interest through words and questions. tell any therapist “communication doesn’t matter in dating” and they’ll laugh in your face
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:41 AM
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Let’s be real… if anyone as a person can’t even make friends in person (OP), they definitely don’t have the communication skills and emotional regulation capabilities to be in a relationship that is healthy and fulfilling for both parties. So perhaps a shift of focus on what a therapist explores with them is necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:15 AM
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They’re clearly saying to see a psychologist/therapist to fix your other problems… no psychologist/therapist is going to automatically give you a girlfriend. That’s not how it works even if they figuratively “increase your confidence and self esteem”. They’re for your mental/emotional/social issues, finding a partner is all you. And if you can’t do that after fixing internal issues, then you’re… probably not meant to be in a relationship, as sad as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:53 AM
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yeah, but these posts are referring to the fully functioning ones. and the cost of the doll itself is not the problem. It’s the maintenance, cleaning, engineering, updates. it will likely be a subscription product as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:43 PM
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Except based on your comments nobody wants you now. So who is going to want kids with you when you are older? It’s all well and good to say that but you’re currently in your “prime” yet it seems you haven’t even missed a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:20 PM
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He needs to be banned. He’s been doing it for days now. Pretty sure it’s just a teenager trolling atp cause his post history is all about Fortnite and all he has for rebuttals is comics and memes that hate on women and shit pure misogyny and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:17 PM
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Can we just ban this bloke? Every day he’s posting shit posts, and comments in memes and comics that don’t actually “debate” anything but just shit on and disrespect women. Every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:14 PM
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Thank god for that. Win win as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:13 PM
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Yup my posts can’t be approved even though I write about dating in your attractiveness level and not pursuing higher than that because it’s based on “personal feelings” rather than facts, but this bullshit can be approved. Starting to think the mods are mostly red pill and favour the posts of the red pill men over the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:13 PM
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Nobody wants to take away what you want. Please, for the love of god, DO pursue sex robots. It means you won’t be in the dating pool which is a win win for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:11 PM
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You guys struggle so much to see that even if the tech is coming, unless you’re filthy rich you’re not gonna be able to afford it. Also - artificial wombs and “lab made eggs” are not coming. Not in our generation, or our kids’ generation. Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:08 PM
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No… that’s why you get to know them… lol. You just completely ignored what I said. By one date you’ll be able to tell if that’s their approach with everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:01 AM
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By getting to know them. loool
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:55 AM
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Of course. Nobody is stopping them. But they certainly won’t have much success as a lot of women share the same idea as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:48 AM
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And neither are women. Hence negating OP’s point, and yours. Only the individual in those situations can change their situation. Not the other gender. The points OP made have nothing to do with “men suffering more”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:55 AM
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No thank you. It’s just personally not for me. I like a man who has the confidence to take that step and surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:52 AM
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…what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:42 AM
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It’s just preference. No need to get so defensive. I have had bi people approach me as well so idk why it turned into a personal attack. It’s just not my thing. Kisses and hugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:39 AM
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No. I make it clear it’s not my thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:38 AM
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Nope. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:36 AM
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They can. I’m just not, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:36 AM
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God no that’s not what I meant at all. In my straight relationships I am also anxious about my male partner being very close to female friends. I feel like it’s just an anxious attachment thing I work very hard to counteract but it still happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:35 PM
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What do you mean perpetuating it, and making it go further than me, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:32 PM
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wot when did I say that 😭😭😭 I think you’re referring to a different commenter
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:31 PM
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It’s both 🙂 I just wouldn’t be comfortable with it. And that’s okay. Because it’s my sexuality. And it doesn’t mean I have anything against them personally 🫶🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:29 PM
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why did you just make this about yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:28 PM
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I don’t like anal sex in general so I would be turned off. But it is different when it is two men, considering that or oral is the only route they can take.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:27 PM
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lol think what you want. It’s just my sexual preferences. You don’t have to agree with everyone 🫶🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:27 PM
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“Long as that cycle ends with you”. Shouldn’t and doesn’t have to. It’s also not “false beliefs”. It’s very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:25 PM
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Because I don’t like to think about my male partner being with other men. I am personally not comfortable with that, because I don’t like the idea of anal sex personally. For instance I would never be comfortable doing pegging etc. or other things that he may find really pleasurable from his experience with other men. I also know I would find myself anxious if he is super close to “guy” friends like most guys are. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:24 PM
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People are allowed to have preferences? I would not date or be attracted to a bi person as I am straight. Doesn’t matter if they are a male, which is what I am attracted to. And it’s not homophobic. I just have preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:19 PM
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There… definitely is, lol. Look at economic classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:16 PM
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Yes… but how does that apply to women? How is that in any way saying women are more advantaged than men? It is not women’s fault men are homeless. Yeah. From other men. And your numbers are only so marginally different, which forgets the fact that most female victims don’t actually report their assaults. Yeah. Because society determined war and armies/navies/air force is a male dominated workforce, and only in the last few decades have women been allowed to join. In some countries they still are…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:14 PM
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“Challenge” over chores and cleanliness? Are you dating a woman you feel you need to compete with, or be dominant with? The hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:06 PM
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I’m obviously talking about continuously needing to be told. Voicing preferences, needs and wants is important and a necessity in any relationship. Failing to uphold them is the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:22 AM
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It does if you love your partner and would do anything to make their life even marginally easier and them a tiny bit happier. Especially considering a lot of women suffer with OCD and are particular about cleanliness whereas men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:20 AM
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lol girl dw he’s having flight of ideas right now. Sign of psychosis
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:08 AM
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lmaoooo as if you see it as dictating when it’s just a preference typical
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:59 AM
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You “care too much about your body and health” but also said in your comments you think elaborate meals that fill up a dishwasher are unnecessary. What do you consider healthy, frozen pies and chicken nuggets? Also not sure why it turned into an attack about my cooking abilities? Shows how much your ego is bruised right now. You are also talking about women as a group… and it’s not “filtered through a lens”. Believe it or not it’s a very common lived experience. Not being anti male by pointing o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:58 AM
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Even if it’s in 20-25 years, it’s still not gonna be affordable unless you have a million or a few hanging around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:49 AM
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just admit you’re lazy. you’re on the defensive about HOUSE CHORES. do it instead of your partner telling you what to do 24/7 if you believe your ways are superior. If men’s ways were truly superior women wouldn’t have a problem and we wouldn’t be suffering an epidemic of lazy, incompetent men who want their partners to be like their mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:48 AM
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But your female partner shouldn’t need to tell you what to do. It shouldn’t be a problem in the first place. You guys should just do it and stop being slobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:17 AM
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Yes of course it does. I won’t date a man who isn’t fair and is lazy and equips weaponised incompetence, or thinks that he doesn’t have to do his fair share of labour cause he’s a “man” or he earns more than me. Not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:50 AM
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no… he didn’t… the commenter was just gross and creepy to even think of that… absolutely disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:48 AM
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what u said just makes zero sense men needing women isn’t a good thing, never implied it was and yes it is sexist and entitled, but they sure like to fight that fact by getting pissy they aren’t getting any action
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:26 AM
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the key difference is women don’t need men for pleasure as most don’t orgasm from PIV anyway, whereas (most) men need women for their warm/tight/moist holes, something men won’t be able to have even with robots or toys. many men I know say toys don’t compare to the real thing. It’s all just cope
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:10 AM
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Now post some about all the infinite posts of men who get none and the male loneliness epidemic pls. I love that you just have these saved it’s so hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:51 AM
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Oh no, a few articles about a small percentage of women?! Shocker! They’re still getting more action than you ever will though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:50 AM
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get back on Fortnite broski instead of participating in social debates you know nothing about
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:48 AM
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Imagine sharing some boomer comic 😂 I assure you most women aren’t done for
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:47 AM
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Yes! My first point. It’s not gonna happen in our lifetimes. Just because they can animate a face doesn’t mean they can animate everything else such as the body and reproductive organs and automation of movement and functioning will. Even if they somehow manage to, it will cost upwards of a million. Money people don’t have. Especially not the men on here. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:45 AM
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What price have men paid exactly? When they were (and still are) the very ones restricting women’s freedom and bodily autonomy even now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:15 AM
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No, it really doesn’t. Why should everyone care and feel empathy about the male loneliness epidemic vs actual physical issues like domestic violence, assault, and the harms of pregnancy/childbirth? Tell us your reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:15 AM
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Yup. Thats exactly what they want us to do. Go after the unattractive ones, introverts, etc. that bring nothing to the table. It’s just not how it works, not only for humans but also animals who mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:12 AM
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I love that you try and use big words that just don’t make sense in this context and just make you seem silly like “intersection” “net negative” “persuasive counter forecast”. You’re trying so hard! It’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:03 AM
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lol it most definitely will not be cheaper I guarantee you that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:04 AM
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never said it’s not also a bare minimum for women btw moreso referring to great sexual compatibility. bare minimum for any relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:47 PM
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those are all bare minimum btw
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:45 PM
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because we are talking about relationships, big brains mcgee
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:22 AM
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Artificial wombs lmaoooo yeah maybe in 3036 not 2026 bud!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:21 AM
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Decent or even great qualities isn’t bringing things to the table, it’s just being a respectable adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:20 AM
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Yep and that’s why it is easier to be single now and marriage/relationship rates are dropping, as well as birth rates. They bring nothing to the table that we don’t already have. Nothing. And women already in shit relationships or marriages are leaving/divorcing in hordes because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:48 AM
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…what? What point are you trying to make here? It is unsafer for women, ESPECIALLY autistic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:51 AM
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yeah but they ain’t a relationship or companionship, they’re just doing their job. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:50 AM
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but that’s just sad..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:50 AM
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because there are other better things you can be doing with your time? Hobbies, learning new skills, going to see movies or shows or concerts, going on adventures or holidays? Is masturbating really all you see yourself doing on your free time/time off for the rest of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:11 AM
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I’m a woman but even I know it is not normal, it is however “normal” for incels and gooners but keep in mind these people are a very small percentage of the population. Seems you need another outlet and something to do with your life to vent your sexual energy and frustration. Pick up some more hobbies that encourage you to go outside, if you’re at home writing or doing nothing it’ll just encourage it cause “why not”. Join a CrossFit gym (it’s a different level than regular gym and is more inten…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:51 AM
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But no woman is openly gonna admit she did that anyways to prospective partners. And why should she?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:04 AM
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you realise fully functioning AI robots as companions for both a partner that have the capacity to have sex with you (or you with it) is not something you will see in your lifetime, right? and if it somehow is, you would never be able to afford it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:03 AM
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Why does being with a virgin matter SO much to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:02 AM
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for good reason, men in university… oh boy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:58 PM
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because the “mansplaining” you describe is not welcome, its usually out of the blue and uncalled for OP on the other hand described a conversation about dating, of which women play a part in women don’t need men to tell them to check their engine if the light is on, we aren’t daft creatures that need everything spelt out for us
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:57 PM
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…okay? what are you debating here? nobody has said women don’t do it too but men definitely do it more which is the point of the term. because (most, not “all) men think women are inferior to them therefore feel the need to correct and guide.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:34 PM
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THANK GOD LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:15 PM
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idk atp you’re just her sugar daddy and she knows that I wouldn’t call that a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 11:47 PM
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What’s cold approach
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:10 AM
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Yes because if you join solely for that purpose, women can sniff that out straight away and realise you are only there for dating opportunities Have seen it happen myself multiple times
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:41 PM
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you realise even skinny people have endo/PCOS right including many women I know 😂 please cite some studies showing as such because I am 99% certain they are linked as cause and effect… they are closely correlated for good reason… weight gain can (and DOES) also be caused by medications - whether indirect through increasing appetite and metabolism or direct through metabolism and basal metabolic changes and hormonal fluctuating but pop off ig
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:29 PM
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definitely not if you’re very likeable and easy to get along with in the group
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:20 PM
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because you said “we already know we have one big thing in common, why not try to build upon it?” nobody has to. they can just be unattracted to you or not wanting to shit where they eat (dating at work, in friend/family and hobby groups, etc. never usually ends well). many other reasons. most women try not to date in their circles and find a man outside of them or through connections made in their circles (e.g. friend in Pilates in a relationship but her boyfriend has a single best friend your …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:19 PM
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you realise women are predisposed to so many issues that men are not, that cause these issues, right? endometriosis. PCOS. constantly taking birth control as well as higher numbers of depression/anxiety requiring medications that cause weight gain. the most women will have a go at for is height, maybe dick size. but plenty of women are shorter than the average male.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:15 PM
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…because they don’t have to?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:13 PM
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Typically you make friends in the club/community, and those friends let you know about say, other friends, that they think you might get along with, that also happen to be single… Usually dating IN a club/community isn’t recommended. It’s important to have your own personal hobbies, friends/groups and circles :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:12 PM
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correction, dating for both unattractive/unappealing men and women = “looking for water in a desert” dating for both attractive/appealing men and women = similar to “looking to healthy food in a supermarket”, but also, eating fun and unhealthy food in moderation because nobody wants to eat purely unhealthy it goes both ways. you guys refuse to acknowledge that unattractive, acne covered, fat/chubby women also struggle as much if not more than the “average male”, more as they are constantly ridic…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:00 PM
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yup, we only wanna pass along good genes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:03 AM
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😂 somehow it’s true for women though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 01:59 PM
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men amirite
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:24 PM
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Minority… minorities are people who are less advantaged, abused, or have suffered more than the general populous. Men are not a minority. Women, black people, people of other cultures are because they suffer the most. If a man is lonely, he can make friends or hang out with family. Just because you were born into this world, as either a man or woman, doesn’t mean you are entitled to companionship, a relationship, sex, children. If you kill yourself because you’re oh so lonely, that’s in no way w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:14 PM
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You realise every single one of your points, you can replace “women” with “men” right? And it still applies and makes sense? The issues you described aren’t limited to women. MEN would get happier results if they socialised with less physically attractive girls, instead of desperately seeking the most attractive ones. MEN can be unattractive but it doesn’t stop women from wanting to have sex with them (it still happens - people date in their league and usually have success) Good looks pretty muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:08 PM
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Do you want to know why men don’t get programs or campaigns? Because guess what, men aren’t a MINORITY. That’s what they’re for. If certain men fail, other men will replace them because we don’t lack any. Women on the other hand having programs/campaigns is a NECESSITY in an increasing and ageing population, especially for female dominated careers that MEN DONT WANT TO DO e.g. nursing, hospice, cleaning, childcare, teaching Male suicide has nothing to do with women tbh so I don’t know why that’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:01 PM
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oh god I misunderstood you HAHA I respect your clarification
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:19 AM
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Edgelord ™️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:17 AM
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So, you believe women aren’t people? chat are we serious rn
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:16 AM
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please tell us what advantages women get from this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:15 AM
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because you literally spoke for her when that’s not what she fucking said ya donkey mansplaining 101
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:14 AM
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Are you being serious? Or sarcastic? I genuinely can’t tell
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:13 AM
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how on earth did you draw to this conclusion by someone saying dating isn’t meant to be fair? why is it only the women’s fault? what about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:11 AM
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“your gender” Lmao What’s that reason? Do tell
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:45 AM
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You’re always replying to people with comments about chads being more attractive… idk what your obsession is, I swear this is the 5th similar reply I’ve received from you on different posts just complaining chads are always more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:05 PM
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Why does it feel terrible to you? If she can’t / no longer wants to do them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:03 PM
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Yup. I don’t entertain these discussions. I say what I like and don’t like, not what I’ve done and with who.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:00 PM
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Because men want sexual actions or favours. Women just want… you know, a decent man with good values and integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:59 PM
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Okay? Nobody is saying that men owe women that. But don’t be surprised if you end up alone if that’s how you think and act. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:57 PM
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Sex between different people is not able to be equated to financial value or transactions. Weird analogy. People change, including their preferences, standards, and values. Having a one night stand the night you meet someone versus waiting for someone you intend to date is very reasonable. One is fun for a night, the other is for life - and if you aren’t hooking up anymore with random people and being exclusive in the hopes of eventually having a successful relationship with said person, it’s 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:57 PM
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a completely unrelated example but yeah sure go off king
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:11 PM
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Oh yes but they end up with charges at least and losing their jobs 🤣 you say that as if rapists don’t deserve to go to jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:46 PM
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the rights to claim women physically, emotionally and sexually. Because as men they believe they are simply owed women and believe it’s not fair if they’re less attractive. No sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:45 PM
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🤦‍♀️ the point flew over your head that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:42 PM
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What’s that got to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:32 PM
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Why not? What’s gonna happen within a decade?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:17 PM
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“Here (OP’s friend), come defend me on reddit because I am losing an argument against people that know nothing about me and I look like a loser” Is that what OP asked you to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:17 PM
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bro do you English? This is a post about feminism. Go read his other posts on this sub to see what I’m talking about. None of his previous posts mention having children with his “wife” that aren’t his. None. Unless you are some friend that he has sent to come and defend him. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:13 PM
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What random shit are you pulling out of your ass and from where? Maybe go look at his previous posts first? Also you’re clearly from the Middle East with your other comments. People, especially women in the rest of world actually operate normally and with rights just fyi, maybe you should brush up on western culture before commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:08 PM
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Oh shut up. They are. This isn’t sharia law
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:03 PM
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Bro I said blacks, referring to people who have black skin as a general cohort instead of being super formal and saying “the black populous”. Unlike you I have a life off of reddit and type my comment quickly and exit the app. Not racist. 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:57 PM
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Don’t be a misogynist? How about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:55 PM
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But men are the stronger gender? As you all say? Do something about it (please, and end up in jail) 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:50 PM
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Neither does anything you write to me. You need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:49 PM
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HUH? They literally DID have it worse?! All of them did. Conscription. Slavery. Racism and segregation laws for separate bathrooms, seats, restaurants, shops. Not being able to vote. What are you on? Are you trying to say they didn’t have it worse? 😂😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:47 PM
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That’s crazy coming from you, a renowned (and for some reason PROUD, disgusting) cheater and someone who would abuse/neglect your children because of the actions of your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:45 PM
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It’s the truth to you my guy. You say to punish children for the actions of your wife, and only treat the children good if it’s you and your “good” wife’s children. Then you post saying that it isn’t cheating if you tell your partner about it and they have no power to stop you or change your mind and have to deal with it. Now this. Get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:43 PM
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HUH blacks did not have the right to vote they were conscripted my guy 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:41 PM
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Not you again 😂 you’ve posted every day with this deluded bullshit that nobody agrees with for 3 days in a row now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:38 PM
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da fuck you on about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 10:34 AM
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Projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:40 AM
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because you don’t find out those things until you move in with a man… or see his house for the first time… or see his clothes on the floor after yall got naked… it’s such a simple concept
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:25 AM
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According to who? You? Who doesn’t have experience? Then you are lacking either of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:29 AM
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Be logical and wipe your own ass and do your laundry, and not need a woman to tell you what to do in a home environment. Goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:12 PM
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where are you getting this info loooool
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:12 PM
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lmfao how are uni frats surviving when they literally can’t even wash up their own dishes and just leave things to pile in the sink dust and mess is unhygienic and unhealthy so I don’t know why you think women should settle for that It’s not micromanaging, it’s just basic ass cleanliness I’m never gonna prioritise hygiene over looks, they have to have both 😂 you say attractive men aren’t hygienic but usually it’s the chads who actually wash their balls/dick, trim their hair, workout, and have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:11 PM
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Men who don’t get women for their own fault are the only ones saying that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:09 PM
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I wouldn’t call weaponised incompetence elegant 😭 it’s disgusting. And genuinely some of them ARE too dumb because their mummy fed them with a silver spoon until the day they moved out so now they have no idea how to do anything as an adult. Who teaches them? Probably other men that act like that. Their dads, uncles, brothers, coworkers. It’s just an easy way out but they don’t realise women aren’t taking it anymore lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:40 PM
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Yup, as they say, marriage is how even the poorest man manages to have a slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:39 PM
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Not about who you are as a person, your personality and your likes and dislikes. People lie about their mental health, communication skills, and emotional regulation skills. Not basics of human uniqueness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:38 PM
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😂🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:36 PM
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Men are book smart but not street smart. You know you can be intelligent in different areas but completely daft in others, right? If men are so much smarter than women, why can’t they manage a household, or look after kids, or do chores without being told? Why can’t they not wipe their ass or clean their shit stains off their boxers? Hm. Big difference. They can be smart in theory, just not in real life scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:27 PM
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You’re deluded mate, truly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:07 PM
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LMFAO so you’re saying anyone in a relationship can just decide one day THEY want to open it for themselves only? And it’s just meant to be okay? Doesn’t need to be agreed upon? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:01 PM
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It literally does if you enter a relationship that is exclusive and monogamous and never had a discussion about changing it. Are you daft? Consent is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:58 AM
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Having tits, ass, a nice face and a nice figure. When do you ever see men, even ugly fat slobs, gaming for fat, ugly, acne filled females? Or females with a beak nose, or no tits or ass, that look like a surfboard? Those are their standards. If they don’t have more, that’s on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:55 AM
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lmfao so true about the laundry, let’s also add to that because personally I want men that can clean a house and pick up after themselves, and wipe their ass! Mans really wants us to just accept “okay” or “good enough” for a life partner who you may marry, have kids with, and or go through illness with. They can’t just be okay - they need to be beyond exceptional, and a perfect fit to your puzzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:52 AM
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You’re disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:40 AM
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CHEATING IS WHEN ANY PARTNER IN A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP SLEEPS WITH SOMEONE ELSE. Doesn’t matter if you’re not lying. SHE has not agreed to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:39 AM
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lmfao no it makes them scum to society the women who homewreck with you won’t actually want to date you. It’s just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:38 AM
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This is the same bloke that posted yesterday saying it’s okay to punish your children if your wife is being bad. That you can put in effort for your new children that you have with your ”good” wife. Man. You need therapy. Nobody agreed with you there, nobody agrees with you here either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:37 AM
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Cheating. Because she didn’t change her mind. Just you. It was never agreed upon. Just fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:35 AM
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Lmfao if you and your wife have NOT agreed to a non monogamous relationship, and it upsets her; it’s still cheating, even if she knows about it. I hope she divorces you and takes everything. She deserves it for your mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:35 AM
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So sex is more important than having a relationship and not dying a loner. You can be attracted to your partner in other ways, such as her personality, her laugh, the noises she makes during sex. Such a shallow POV. Ugly men won’t get attractive women unless they have something else women want, like a house, or money to be a provider. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:33 AM
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So… lie to your potential partners about who you are. They’ll find out in the end. And break up because you lied, because it’s such a fucking stupid thing to lie about. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:31 AM
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Or you can just do what every other normal person does and say “my partner/fiance/husband/wife”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:29 AM
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damn that’s sad…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:27 AM
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No, the reason the man usually pays (not has to, nobody is forcing them with a gun to the head btw) is because he is interested in courting her and wants to appear generous, as a gentleman. Usually men organise the date, so usually they would pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:46 AM
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Because some guys actually enjoy it, and want to court women on the first date and want to come across as being a gentleman in 2026. You can’t shame other people for doing what they want and having different opinions to yours. There’s nothing wrong with paying, or not paying. Nobody is forcing you but if you are so inclined to tell women before or on the first date that you refuse to pay because of such and such, don’t be expected to get as many people who agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:45 AM
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Because chivalry isn’t dead as much as you want it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:41 AM
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I feel bad for his partner. Why is she being referred to as “miss moral” as well. Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:35 AM
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Tf is black pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:32 AM
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Well why are you a muscular ogre? Are you on roids or some shit? Most women don’t like the look of that, they just think that you’re gonna be a very angry horny male with no interpersonal and emotional management skills because of “roid rage”. Is there a chance you can just workout less/less intensive, like do cardio instead? Maybe go to normal bars instead of nerd bars… I never see many women at nerd bars. You sound like you also need some respite from caring for your mum and grandmother. Belie…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:17 AM
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Uh… ‘twas a joke… But attractiveness and having fun doesn’t determine if someone is a good person, or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:08 AM
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Cool I look forward to it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:19 PM
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Yes believe it or not you do have to have more going for you to be a partner, not just being nice, or respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:14 PM
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God forbid we have free will and want to have fun and fuck, I guess? Cause it doesn’t give you guys a chance? Go have fun and fuck, nobody is stopping you, you’re just on the outside looking in and getting in a tizzy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:08 PM
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I don’t want someone who is “greatful” (grateful btw) in a relationship, I want someone who is a good partner. Saying attractive people “likely” won’t end up good is so bigoted. Attractiveness/looks doesn’t dictate who is bad or good. If you have nothing else going for you AND you are unattractive. Of course we are going to say no? Please, if you say you are unattractive, inform me what you’re doing to improve other aspects of your life to make you attractive in other areas. I’d be curious to kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:06 PM
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Look at your profile history. Give us as a collective as women a reason to not feel misandry every single day when people like you exist literally everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:59 PM
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Do you know what manipulation is? Abuse? It’s not easy to see the signs of a master manipulator, narcissist or someone with a personality disorder that enjoys toying with you. They are experts at it and you don’t see until later on. Doesn’t mean the woman CHOSE BAD because initially she chose well until the mask was taken off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:57 PM
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Isn’t there? You realise you can be dating someone and through the rose tinted glasses not actually initially realise they’re a shit person, right? Do you even know what manipulation is…?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:55 PM
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It’s just a perpetual cycle. Of course they’re going to get rejected if they are unattractive and ALSO have nothing going on for them… like what?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:54 PM
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literally where are you getting your info from
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:52 PM
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lmfao as if them being fun and attractive MUST mean they are all actually wife beaters behind the scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:51 PM
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100% they show their true misogynistic selves as soon as you reject their advances or friend zone them. But then claim nobody will give them a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:50 PM
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But why would we give a chance to a man who doesn’t approach women over those that are available to us? Do you ever see any animals out in the wild going and approaching other animals that are isolated for mating purposes? No? Attraction ≠ a good person. Much like unattractiveness ≠ a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:49 PM
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What stats say less attractive men are much more likely to be solid relationship partners? Please reference a legitimate study, because otherwise this is your feelings over actual facts. Generally it’s the guys that scream they’re “nice guys” and beg for a chance with women if they are less appealing that AREN’T the good partners. Never heard of the sub nice guys? Plenty of guys that are less appealing that initially come across as nice, but as soon as rejected they show their true selves and mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:48 PM
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Please show me said documentation. From a reliable source, not chat gpt articles or news articles. I want a study. Who on earth is Jeremy Meeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 11:42 AM
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Huh? Are you living in fantasy land? No woman is knowingly pursuing serial killers. Don’t know what other things you consider immoralities if the first thing you say is serial killers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 11:36 AM
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What traits do you think are immoral?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 11:28 AM
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Yes it is 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:51 AM
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And valuable men don’t leave any of their children simply to spite their female. Just saying!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:44 AM
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HAHAHAHA how am I being a narc/gaslighter/abuser. What country do you live in? Cause paternity in most countries can be determined with a very quick DNA sample test. Once you have the result that the kid ain’t yours, you don’t pay. It’s so simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:32 AM
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Because some less westernised countries still believe that men are the only ones who can go to war. Unfortunately unless you go and change their conscription laws to include women, why are you complaining that women are sitting there relaxing? Without the conscription, men would be relaxing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:31 AM
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No man is forced to either unless you live in the Middle East, which is again, because yall removed female rights 😂😭 so what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:27 AM
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Huh? Obviously that’s denounced by a simple gene test. That’s not a thing in developed countries my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:24 AM
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You realise there was also women fighting in Ukraine as well? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:24 AM
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Yes. After all it takes two to become pregnant. If you don’t wear condoms AND/OR don’t pull out, that’s a risk you take every time you have sex. A woman doesn’t have to have an abortion, and if she chooses not to because of her values as a person, it’s not paternity fraud considering it’s still your kid that you took a risk when you decided to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:22 AM
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Basic biology… they’re your children too lmao. You completely avoided my point though. What if the man is bad? Do the kids deserve punishment or is it just a free card?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:21 AM
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Yes because women are just as capable to go to war as men are… as well as work jobs, own property, vote, make decisions… ya know… who says killallmen what are you on rn little man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:20 AM
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Women are sent to die in wars too? Women also pay child support if the man takes custody? Paternity fraud isn’t a thing, it’s just something men say exists. Basic biology lesson, it takes two to tango. If you fucked around without protection and got a girl pregnant that’s just as much on you as it is on her. Of course you should pay child support if you didn’t wear condoms or pull out. Of course if you leave a relationship or your partner you share kids with flees because of any reason, you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:19 AM
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Genuinely have no idea what point you’re trying to make here. Sharia law isn’t a thing in America or any other country apart from those in the Middle East because women actually are in government, healthcare, etc and have rights. You know, something you don’t want them to have, based off your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:17 AM
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ugh here we go the men that blame women for no woman wanting them are rolling in. That’s not the point…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:16 AM
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Unfortunately the women over there don’t have a choice. So there will always be procreation. It won’t die out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:42 AM
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It’s their height man, or the fact that they’re fat. Or their dick size. Or that they’re a virgin at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:21 AM
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Lmfao I agree to disagree here with their new updates that a man can now “legally” beat his wife as long as it doesn’t puncture skin or break a bone, and if his wife contests in court (which she needs to go with him as she isn’t allowed in public without her husband/a male family escort), he “may” face 15 days in prison. But then this new update didn’t make mention of the fact that a woman’s voice in court in a country with Sharia Law is half that of the man’s. So if the man simply says “I didn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:19 AM
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They just don’t care about women. “Men” (if you can call people like this men) like this want wives so even they, as the poorest man can have a slave. They want token children like a kid wants puppies but never do any of the work for them and return the puppy to a shelter if it’s defective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:08 AM
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lmfao nobody would choose anybody like this even if they were a chad. Bro really thinks he’s living in the Middle East under Sharia Law
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:04 AM
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What if the man is being a bad husband though? What happens then? This isn’t the Middle East. You don’t punish the children (YOUR children too btw) for the actions of your partner. The male partner can also be bad, or both, or neither. It’s not the children’s fault for whatever happens between you two so stop acting as if it is and as if any woman would blatantly accept this massive narcissistic manipulation tactic. This is deluded thinking. You will never find anyone with a mentality like this …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:03 AM
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lmao this is so good they aren’t gonna like it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:56 PM
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obviously… when did I ever say that women cannot also be shit? but what i said about men prioritising lust and sex over actually making improvements and being a good partner in a relationship is a typical male thing, thats because it is. it’s the equivalent of (most) women being gold diggers according to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:51 PM
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except most men that have negative experiences are the small percent of unattractive or unappealing ones that cannot speak for the general populous
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:20 PM
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lmfao it’s literally from my and all of my girlfriends’ experience. Not just my own. I work in a female dominated field too, so I have plenty of experience to speak from.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:18 PM
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Usually it’s the men claiming they are all these good things who aren’t the good ones. You don’t need to tell someone you’re good, you just need to prove it. Actions speak louder than words. It’s such a simple concept. After enough times of the same shit you begin being able to see the little characteristics or quirks of them that will end up being bad the day you start talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 10:35 AM
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No woman wants a man who is “willing” to change for the right person though. It’s not hard to be a mature adult and go to therapy or get medicated for your conditions if any. It’s also not hard to pick up your slack. No woman will wait for you to start getting your shit together after x amount of times, you, as adult men, should actually know how to do that already. Dating a person with BPD is a recipe for disaster speaking as someone who deals with BPD patients in hospital. Never works out unle…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 10:32 AM
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lmfao what are you on? you’re so angry and for what. You realise repeating my words but changing “men” to “women” isn’t making you seem smart, but actually stupid? Everyone knows both sexes do both of these things. It’s just the large statistical difference between the two, that makes it much more common to experience as a female than as a male. As a matter of fact, how many women do you think YOUVE interacted with? I’ve probably closely interacted with on a personal level about 100-200, outside…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 10:23 AM
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Umm… life experience? Are you young or something? All you have to do is look around to see that a majority of men sexualise women, hell, even female children. Songs, movies, TV shows sexualising women? Cat calling in the street, groping that goes unpunished? Family members saying “wow you’ve grown/matured/look like an adult!” as a CHILD, referring to your tits and ass? School peers commenting on your tits and ass in primary and highschool and laughing at women having periods? Pornography and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 09:37 AM
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Another generalised statement just from your own personal experience… Why would someone wanting a relationship want an autistic man (most of whom don’t know how to manage their emotions or life in general unless diagnosed young and in therapy/medicated) or a party man? They want to settle down and don’t need that drama if they are mature. That’s why we don’t want them. Nobody expects “no flaws” when going into relationships. But when it’s the same flaws in every man… that speaks volumes that it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 09:33 AM
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No it’s sad for us as women that a lot of men are like this now due to manosphere/red pill content and podcaster men who preach about how to attract women as an “alpha male”. It’s not sad for you. Nobody is giving you guys sympathy. Honestly you do it to yourselves by treating women as objects/property of your sexual desire rather than people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 09:28 AM
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Still a competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 09:14 AM
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”But I’m a nice guy! It’s just no girl will give me a chance!” Attractiveness ≠ nice. Just like unattractiveness ≠ nice. Every person is different. In my experience men who claim they don’t get the opportunity to be with women and that they would be good if they were given a chance are the ones who end up not being good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 09:04 AM
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We literally weren’t allowed to go to war in WW1/WW2 so wtf is he on 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:57 AM
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yes men are more likely to be victims of violent crime, FROM OTHER MEN Idk why you guys keep saying that as if females are the ones leading the stats in both domestic and non domestic related violence and assault. It’s men. Men vs women, and men vs men lead the numbers. And it’s because of the way men view women. They just want companionship and sex. They don’t want the hard parts of any relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:00 AM
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idk what chat gpt or male targeted website bullshit you are getting your stats from but 63% are not single. Pretty sure it’s the other way around that approx. 60% of people worldwide are coupled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:57 AM
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lol they very much do. If you are a 1-3/10 then you date women you aren’t necessarily automatically attracted to, who are similar in being 1-3/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:32 AM
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The fact that you’re emotionally dependent on anyone at your “old age” of 25 is really telling
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:13 AM
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No but women do need to be protected from deluded incels like you, so stick to AI please.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:12 AM
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bro go to therapy. You don’t need to hear positive things from other people. You just need to change your mindset to not be dependent on what others think feel and want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:10 AM
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He’s psychotic and delusional ofc he’s not making sense. He has permitted this thinking and now lives in a world where he believes he is owed women, and it is their fault he is alone and nothing to do with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:08 AM
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Just Incel relationships. He thinks he is owed women and it is women’s fault he is lonely and has to resort to AI. But the only one to blame is him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:07 AM
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No it’s not it’s a fucking partnership where you both add benefits to being together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:04 AM
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Bruh this bloke really thinks he is owed women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:03 AM
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This is genuinely a form of psychosis
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:02 AM
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… but you’re not dating AI “women”. They’re not real, bro. No matter how deluded you are to think they might be real. It’s all programming. Also you say “be an emotionless asexual eunuch and die alone” - but you can’t have sex with AI? Also, you don’t have to die alone - make friends, adopt a child or find a surrogate?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:01 AM
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I literally read his post history. He never goes outside, he masturbates “3 times a day” to deal with his feelings and loneliness to photos of women on his socials. He’s an incel. Through and through. At this point he’s just karma farming because he’s made so many posts of the same bullshit, that indicate he is a slob who doesn’t actually do anything for women to want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:38 AM
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Yup men don’t realise that women don’t want lusting eyes and multiple options. Men just see us as golden tickets for sex, not relationships. Most men are toxic as hell and you realise that very quickly after talking to them. It’s so much easier to be single than to be with, live together and be forced to take care of a man child that is only with you for sex and companionship whilst not actually benefitting the relationship whatsoever. Whoever began telling all these men that they don’t have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:22 AM
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lol so you are admitting you’re an unattractive slob that stays inside all day? No wonder women don’t want you. The solution is so simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:12 AM
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Then make yourself attractive, in other ways. Date in your league. You refuse to acknowledge this and think you are owed a model that looks like Kylie Jenner even though you are unattractive both physically and mentally/emotionally based on all your posts and comments. You don’t want a relationship. You just want an ego boost with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:11 AM
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Who is most men to you. Lmfao. This is your experience and a very small percent of the very unattractive populous that develop this type of brainwashed incel thinking. Not “most” men. Most men are doing fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:09 AM
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YOU received your sentence through YOUR actions. It is not WOMENS fault you are undesirable, it is only ever your fault for not bettering yourself. YOU ARE NOT OWED WOMEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:08 AM
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What the fuck are you on You’re never gonna get a gf unless you change this psychotic mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:07 AM
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I swear you are delusional and borderline psychotic with this way of thinking. What are you on about saying your love life project was killed/aborted? It’s you who killed it, not anybody else if anything 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:06 AM
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lol women aren’t sentencing you. We aren’t responsible for your loneliness. You are not owed time, affection, love and sex just because you are a man. You have to work for those things and pursue in your league rather than thinking you have a chance with women that look like models.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:05 AM
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Then stop pursuing women with celebrity like attraction levels. It’s so simple. If you are unattractive your only shot is with likewise unattractive women in YOUR league.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:03 AM
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lol only unattractive women just like unattractive men are dating AI. We aren’t as desperate for companionship and sexual relationships as you guys are so of course there’s always going to be a divide.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:02 AM
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You mean lust? Lust and eyes on you is not “men circling” us. They just see us as objects of their sexual desire. Especially so if you have nice tits and or a nice ass. That is not opportunities for genuine relationships, it’s just men that are lusting after us and want to fuck whether we want to or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:02 AM
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100%. Men don’t care that women don’t want sex on the first date because they see dating apps and dates as a golden ticket to sex. They don’t care that women genuinely have to scope out safety risks and maintain boundaries should things go the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:00 AM
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How is it EASIER for women to go on a date than it is for men. Men see it as an opportunity for sex, women see it as probing out safety risks - as in is this guy gonna spike my drink, is he gonna assault me, is he safe to be around, or is he abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:59 AM
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But at least you can have physical contact instead of a screen? Find a way to MAKE yourself special. It’s very possible, just not if you keep dating AI and swallowing your problems and feelings instead of seeing a therapist or bettering yourself at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:58 AM
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lmfao what are you on, in no world is this true except an incel’s world world. Plenty of people have relationships or kids late. Look inwards mate, maybe it’s time to hit the gym and a therapist instead of masturbating over your AI girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:57 AM
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By saying a normal woman has everything I assume you’re just referring to their sexual features. If you are unattractive, the answer is simply you date in your league of attractiveness or under it, and don’t even bother going for those miles out of your reach. This includes if you’re fat, dating someone who is also fat. You’re never gonna get what YOU don’t already have - in terms of physical build, fitness and being healthy and well groomed. You act as if women also don’t have to care for their…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:52 AM
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Ugh is this just a continuation from the AI girlfriend post the other day? Listen at the end of the day... If you are less attractive than the standard, then date in your attractiveness range instead of seeking out 10/10s when you yourself are a 1-3/10. You have to stay in your league. MAKE yourself attractive in other ways, such as by being fit and healthy, well kept/groomed, dress and smell well, and have a good job and your finances in order to appear as a provider. Complain all you want abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:18 AM
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lmfao or you can just you know, try, and date on your level of self attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:07 AM
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Make themselves have those features. It’s not just about physical attraction but that is a big part of it but a fit, nice body is a lot more important than a face. Plus personality, respect, confidence, hobbies. Being healthy, well kept and groomed, going to the gym, wearing nice clothes and colognes and shaving your face if you are unable to grow a beard but think you can and should cause you’re a man but it’s still patchy as fuck. It’s the little things that are big to women. We don’t want slo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:10 AM
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Or it’s the fact that you actually have to have features women want. Simple biology
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:06 AM
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Bro I was single at 25. I had just got out of being in a long term abusive relationship, and it was better to be single. I wasn’t doomed. Nobody ever is. It’s about it the effort you put into yourself and who you are as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:48 AM
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no, because those kinds of people still have to actively participate in society through work or going to the shops or going and having their medical needs addressed. Going out in public after dating AI that praises you as a handsome king that women should be drooling over isn’t very safe for either party
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:57 AM
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because it just enables their delusional thinking and behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:18 AM
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imho if you have to resort to dating an AI bot you have failed in life… at least in a dating context an AI bot is not a person, it will never bicker with you or disagree from your values so of course it’s going to be perfect. it goes off of your thoughts and inputs. nothing else. it is not real, and solidifies bad/toxic thinking, behaviour and mentalities by just giving you positivity and reinforcement no matter what weird shit you say. AI won’t give you sex or warmth or children either. It won’…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:25 AM
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Mate you can’t even reply in proper English with decent grammar and you’re trying to say you wrote this post? Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:35 PM
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Okay give us the sources then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:18 PM
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okay, and I am the same when I’m doing formal projects/essays/assignments. But if you also write in this style then you’d know that you can’t claim numbers without references. 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:13 PM
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bro you must be daft to not think this is Chat GPT. It’s not even particularly well written, it’s just classic AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:02 PM
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I’m well aware as someone who uses em dashes frequently and did before AI was ever around. But those accompanied with the randomly sprinkled in numbers and percentages with no reference to any studies or research, just plain matter of fact “studies say this”, it’s 100% chatGPT.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:58 PM
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Oh yes says the post with a million em dashes and a bunch of random numbers and percentages with no actual studies to back it up…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:53 PM
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Listen I agree with your points but this was very obviously written by Chat GPT… please also site your research and studies if you wanna make such confident claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:45 PM
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100%. Tone, attitude, confidence, respect… I feel like a lot of men’s problems with themselves could be resolved if they worked on themselves to be better people and focus on themselves over women, or their crux issues… Only the finest subreddits for me. Got any other trash subreddits I can peruse, sir? 🍷
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:50 PM
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Then, be a chad. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:34 PM
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lmfao only men care about body count. it must really make yall so insecure to think about all the other penises she has seen and touched only boys, not men, care about body count. A person’s body count/past is not who they ARE now. Caring about body count is just a manipulation tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:30 PM
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yeah, the second guy usually has to jump through more hoops and impress her more… because she’s now looking for a long term relationship. lols
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:28 PM
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lol but there’s different criteria and requirements why would a woman care if a hot root for a one night stand is nice or not, or about his morals and values? it’s just sex. Dating is completely different, you actually have to take time to observe the person they are, without sex, to know what they’re like and if they’re a pretty good person you’d be interested in taking it further with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:25 PM
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😂😂😂 I don’t work out, I live with my parents, I have a dead end job that pays just above minimum wage. But I want to start a family with a young girl! But she has to have a N count less than 1. Because I won’t accept a slut and disgusts me. Even though I’ve slept with 10 girls. I don’t want that for marriage, she has to be tight! /s my guy you need to check out the smalldickproblems reddit… the amount of men that we have been joking about that ACTUALLY think like this is insane “I have a small d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:19 PM
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I’m a fat 2/10 with a shit job but I don’t look in my league cause I don’t find them attractive and I only find skinny Pilates girls with a big ass and big tits attractive. Women should look past my looks, it’s misandry if they don’t /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:59 AM
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“Getting an attractive one or one who treats you well” lmfao what are we, things at the supermarket? To get those things you also have to be attractive and treat her well. Just FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 06:40 AM
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yall men love to say it’s misandry as soon as any of us make a valid point 🥴 It’s not misandrist to say if you don’t want to propose to your woman, then make it known. Take on a feminine role considering proposing to your woman as a man is a very old masculine tradition. Or date a man and decide who takes on that role between the two of you. It’s just simple facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:56 AM
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lol if I had noticed your flair that you were a woman I probably would’ve got the sarcasm 🤣 yep I understand now and I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:56 PM
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???????????
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:47 PM
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Elaborate lol what barriers are you talking about that women remove
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:42 PM
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lol where the fuck did you get these stats, Chat GPT? If you want to be proposed to instead of proposing to your woman (a tradition as old as time) just say so princess. Or date a man. Or take on the feminine side of the relationship as a man. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:00 AM
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I’ve never heard anyone say we as women are a romantic gender. I think you are misinterpreting it as women always say they want a romantic man - maybe you misheard things and went with that? “The selfish gender who always disappoint men” - bro just say you hate women. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:58 AM
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Honestly it’s more common now in 2026 that women do 50/50 on the first date now unless the guy insistently asked her out multiple times and she finally said yes. Thats because a lot of women now feel uncomfortable because some believe paying for the first date = entitled for sex, so we shut that down in a less open way. I do the same as the commenter. It just sounds like this person doesn’t like you very much? For anniversaries it’s 50/50 or you go one year I go the other. You both get each othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:56 AM
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Obviously I’m talking about social in the context of society here. Never mentioned “social trust”. Not sure what government is taking over family roles so please enlighten me on that. Not sure what you’re saying on your second point either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:55 PM
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Oh yes and western men are angels, are they? Or the leading statistics in abusers, assaulters and cheaters? mmk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:40 PM
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If anything social conditions are better. Break up and divorce rates are up because women don’t take men’s shit anymore. Because we now have rights. So I suppose you are correct that it’s different. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:36 PM
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Oh yeah because only the women are to blame right lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:36 PM
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Plenty of our parents and grandparents did it. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:20 PM
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You don’t need “a lot of women” in your youth. Just the right one. God forbid wanting to get married, have kids and grow old together. Obviously I was referring to older men with the money and assets trying to attract younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:10 PM
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Not really if you marry for love at a young age and manage to have a healthy, thriving relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:57 PM
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Okay? Doesn’t mean a lot of women want an older man to father their children. Unless yall have money, or a nice house, and can support them in all ways. That’s usually how it works. I wouldn’t call that winning if when you’re older you have to work harder to be attractive to younger masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:46 PM
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Required by who? lmao This is a debate. We are still allowed to disagree about other people’s extremes. Just proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:56 PM
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lol idk where you are getting such information for your generalised comments “Women on here” isn’t the real world, this is a purplepill forum where you see the most extremes from one end of the stick to another Men OR women do not need to adopt traditional roles. Men will always be “stronger” though so your point is naught
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:48 PM
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It’s both Believe it or not the children will outlast any partners, and if you marry multiple wives the children won’t exactly be happy with that, will they?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:47 PM
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what are the two different demographics lmao it’s one and the same men die alone because eventually their wives will all leave them because they’re a POS, and the kids want nothing to do with them. So you don’t have a partner OR children/grandchildren.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:15 PM
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what are you trying to say lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:04 PM
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What are the downsides of modern responsibilities for women, do tell lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:40 PM
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Typically women leave because their needs aren’t being met, for promises of greener pastures. Not because they’re lustful. Women prefer physical and emotional needs being met whereas men prefer sex and attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:39 PM
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Please elaborate how women “destroyed” that when it’s actually men who are the largest percentile of cheaters and lust after other women, which destroys families.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:32 PM
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what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:26 PM
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“Should” depends on the person. Nobody has to do that anymore. It’s okay to want it, as long as your partner also wants that and you don’t also expect them to work and pay bills on top of childcare and household duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:24 PM
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Fucking ridiculous. Then men wonder why they die alone or their kids hate them and want nothing to do with them once they’re on their second or third wife. Just use, abuse, and discard, I suppose?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:17 PM
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What happened to actually loving your partner and wanting to spend the rest of your lives with them and your kids. Jesus Christ this is messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:15 PM
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lol traditional roles aren’t a thing anymore. Life is too expensive. Women are allowed to work and live their lives as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:15 PM
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Genuinely. What the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:13 PM
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What the fuck? Genuinely this is such a fucked POV
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:13 PM
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God no it’s not natural. What happened to marrying, growing old and dying together. Where is the love? It’s now just lust. There’s shame in it cause you should love your partner, and see a future with them and only them should circumstances be in both of your favours. If you marry them you are vowing to stay with them in sickness and health and not lust after other women. Society has destroyed marriage, a majority being because of dead bedrooms and lust/cheating and because men “just can”. Ridic…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:13 PM
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alright you’re just being obnoxious at this point you specifically replied after I said DATING not a date then asked about unfair division of labour DATING
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:22 PM
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oh boy do you understand basic English? Anything that is considered labour is labour. Chores, cleaning, house work, garden/yard work, taking care of the kids, dropping the kids off, cooking, laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:06 PM
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we are talking about DATING not a date
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:55 PM
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they just refuse to acknowledge that yes, not all, but most men are misogynists in some way shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:53 PM
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it’s about a trust in the male species, thing. Nobody would hire a male babysitter, because the assault statistics for men are too high to trust them in such an intimate role.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:52 PM
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from assault statistics yes also ignored my other point. Would you hire a male babysitter? Cause I don’t know a single person who would. Just fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:34 PM
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Not all but most. As we know by statistics. You say not all men but would you ever hire a male babysitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:30 PM
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Sex (usually one sided pleasure where the man doesn’t fulfill the woman’s needs), unfair division of labour and finances, a “traditional woman” but they still expect her to work a job whilst looking after the house and kids, wanting to be nurtured/babied and do no wrong, having basically a slave that gives you sex… to name a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:29 PM
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Therapy to change your mindset will though. Which in turn equals attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:02 PM
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It’s 100% your attitude. Confidence, respect and integrity are key.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:05 PM
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But it’s nobody’s fault, genuinely. Blaming and hating one or the other is unacceptable when it just comes down to individuality, uniqueness and attractiveness. Nobody is wrong for having standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:59 PM
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You literally just did
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:57 PM
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It’s very obvious what is the issue lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:56 PM
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How is hatred of anyone okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:55 PM
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