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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 132 | BE ALERT: Men on TikTok are fantasizing about ways to hurt women on imaginary dates.There’s a woman who duets these types of videos with actual events where that sort of thing has happened. It’s very sobering and I applauded her for doing the Lord’s work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 08:40 PM |
| 223 | Is it really worth trying to help PickMes?Someone rescue missioned me and here I am. I wasn’t ready to hear it at the time but I came looking. Beyond thankful for that soul who reached out with her “Nah, sis” attitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 12:41 PM |
| 30 | The male version of “ABCDEFU” is literally domestic violence and people are celebrating it.It unfortunately has 1.9 million likes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 10:07 AM |
| 7 | Not giving men a chance just because they’re nice.Oh, I agree 100%! I just find it appalling that I’ve been conditioned into giving any man a chance simply because he’s nice. I’ve since declined the date and blocked him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 08:51 PM |
| 58 | This is why we don't respond - block and delete!If you don’t want to block him so that you have evidence of his abuse, I’d strongly recommend still not engaging or giving a response to it. On most smartphones you can mute a number, so they can still contact you but you won’t get the notification for it. You’ll only see the notification when you open messages. I’m so sorry to hear that you’re in this position and that you’re scared. If it’s possible for you, seek out self defence classes and if you can’t attend one due to Covid restrictions (o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 10:35 AM |
| 30 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?Oooh, my turn! Said I could be a his last name Said he also doesn’t want children and a future similar to mine we hung out with his family a lot his family made jokes about me not being at a big family event said he wants to be my best friend for the rest of our lives so we can get up to mischief in nursing homes when I said I wanted a relationship, suddenly he wasn’t over his ex but he was ready to be on tinder to talk to other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:52 PM |
| 5 | You Gotta Not - Little Mix.I haven’t listened to many of their songs, just the popular singles. Do you they any other FDS anthem type of songs?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 01:26 AM |
| 6 | You Gotta Not - Little Mix.I found this song in a random gym playlist and I absolutely love it. The first verse is iconic, in my opinion. “Call your momma "mommy" (you gotta not!) Askin' her for money (you gotta not!) Never keep your house clean (you gotta not!) Wearin' dirty laundry (you gotta not!) Is that what you call flirtin'? (you gotta not!) You ain't even workin', boy get a job And baby, when you wanna start growin' up We can boom, boom, boom, baby, fall in love” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 09:05 AM |
| 19 | Watch for their actions not their words.Honestly, I’m thankful I did. It’s taught me how to affirm my boundaries, if I want to devote my energy to a situation, and how to end things that shouldn’t continue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 07:59 AM |
| 29 | Examples of disrespectAbsolutely! A guy I was in a situationship with this year had me convinced that being best friends with his ex from 5 years ago is normal. I expressed my discomfort with the situation and he straight up confessed that that ex held had sometimes held higher value and importance to him that the woman he was with for 4 years. It made me so uncomfortable but he had me convinced it was okay. Never ignore your gut, ladies. Kick him to the curb the second you realise you’re ignoring your own feelings t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 09:53 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020I posted a semi-nude photo of my weight loss journey in a weight loss sub (from my “public” account) and the amount of scrotes that messaged me made me feel absolutely disgusting. Comments like they need to see my nips, that i’m the right level of thicc, and other nasty things just. Ew. Why men gotta be so gross? On the positive, I’ve met some lovely ladies on a similar journey with similar weight loss goals and bodies to encourage each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 10:35 AM |
| 41 | Your mental health > Your feelings for himLegitimately going through this right now and beyond thankful that I’ve found this sub. I’m coming out of a situation that was giving me so much anxiety that I was throwing up and losing weight because of it. Realised I have more worth and he is a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 10:53 AM |
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