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Check my post history on “why are you here”, have never pretended to be fully redpill and openly define myself as a feminist. Edit: removing attitude.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/19 06:49 AM
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Hmm, interesting. I guess I was thinking about good cooking in a gender neutral way. No baking, not grilling, just that I think a man being able to put together a cohesive and delicious meal is super sexy.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/19 02:11 AM
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I’m going to be making street tacos and bean and cheese tacos :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 09:34 PM
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Ha! That’s great.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 09:17 PM
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I can definitely get on board with that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 08:58 PM
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This. 100% I think people definitely notice who you seem interested in, so a good LTR guy may be looking at you and noticing you seem to be flirty with JustFun guys and thinking that’s what you want. You are in effect telling everyone your dating preferences just by “flirting” with the wrong guy.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 08:52 PM
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Hmm, do you have a friend that will be honest with you who can help? it would probably be ok to stick to what you know you like instead of the whole season palette then. Jewel tones give you a ton of options!
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 08:37 PM
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What would you say are?
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 08:30 PM
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This. Wow this chick is in-your-face to the Max. I agree that the best solution is to remove from social media. If you can’t, set up your privacy settings, if that’s too much work, get really good about feigning your appreciation for her help but telling her to butt out. “OMGosh, thank you so much, you are so sweet, but we already hired X that we just love!”
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 08:28 PM
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Dunno. I’m in a non traditional marriage in terms of masculine/feminine roles (even though I agree with a lot about red pill) and we are very happy. Anecdotally a lot of my peers would say the same. I don’t know about everyone and I can’t tell the future. So maybe you are right, maybe there is no right answer. No idea, honestly.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 08:12 PM
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Yeah fedoras look good to no one. Chads look good to at least some :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 08:08 PM
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Interesting. I guess I don’t know too many people in these relationships that complain about having sex life problems but it may be real, people just may not be public about it. I guess only time will tell if the shift in preference is a positive, neutral, or negative thing.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 07:31 PM
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Not sure I agree with you here. Traditionally masculine traits like insisting on being the leader, breadwinner, handling your problems yourself are definitely out of hotness, again only with certain social circles.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 07:22 PM
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Feminized men are becoming more and more desirable. Lots of women want men who are in touch with their feelings, like social activities, and associated collaboration strengths without the traditional aggressiveness. I’m not saying every woman wants a feminized man and the women in this thread particularly do not, but my social circle definitely highly desires men who look masculine but act with great, traditionally feminine soft skills/child rearing/cooking strengths.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 07:08 PM
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I think we are starting to see a shift in preferences too - feminized men are desirable by a decent chunk of the population and masculine I.e “career women” women are also desirable. Pretty much if you are in good shape, good looking, ok personality somebody will find you dateable.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 07:01 PM
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So I hear that most people are actually not a specific season but between two palettes: you could be a deep autumn and a deep winter but you lean with a preference towards one or the other. The easiest way to tell for me is “How do you look in dusty colors, especially dusty pink and dusty purple?”. Deep autumns look bad in those colors but winters look OK.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 06:41 PM
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Hey, me too! I’m trying to dress more feminine as well! Some things that have worked for me: Finding out your seasonal color palette and sticking to that for your wardrobe. Your seasonal color palette will help you identify which colors look best on you. I’m a deep autumn and I make sure my closet matches the colors that highlight my features best. Silk blouses: Silk is incredibly feminine, sensual, and classy. Silk helps show off my curves without clinging to them; I have a hard time wearing wh…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 05:21 PM
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Thank you so much for this. What frustrates me as a feminist is that even though our culture has made enormous strides there is still a lot of inequality that is legit but there is also so much 3rd wave pseudo-feminism that people roll their eyes at the things that really need to be fixed, too. Moreover, there is so much hate on feminism like OPs true belief that feminism is holding her down from her choice of being a SAHM. While OPs side eyes from her circle may be real, it’s stupid people doin…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/19 06:09 AM
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If your boyfriend and you are seriously considering marriage (at least engaged) I think this predicament should be seriously considered. If you are not yet at that stage, together; there is no reason to reveal to your parents or friends. :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/19 07:46 AM
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Agreed with AgathaMysterie. In your post you seem to reason that your spouse should not be a best friend because a best friend is essentially a downgraded and slightly more flaky version of your partner. Not sure why someone you get along with as a best friend needs to be someone vulnerable to flakiness (best friends don’t need to do this but husbands do). I think you can happily have partner that is a best friend.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 03:52 PM
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Intuition, IMHO, is just being good at pattern recognition. If you have strong intuition, you are probably good at recognizing “I typically like XYZ, and ABC is similar so I will probably like ABC too”. Intuition in dating is really helpful because you don’t have to experience everything individually to know whether it is right for you, so you can make smart decisions quickly even without having to manually drag yourself through all the “logical details”. It’s definitely a huge strength!
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/19 06:03 AM
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It begins with a conversation with him. If you are serious there are a lot of resources on the internet to help you. If you are going to get out, get out ASAP before you have kids, and get out fast enough cause you are peak market right now and it will just get harder and harder to find the right guy to have a family with.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 03:20 AM
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Guy number 2. Small note: I have also dated PhDs and concur with your assessment - while not all guys with PhDs are like that, the ones that I know do have a tendency to put themselves, their time, and their projects first. Money is nice but after a point study after study says that it doesn’t bring additional happiness.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 03:44 AM
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I love talking about perfume! There is a website called Fragrantica that you can post on for perfume advice and read perfume reviews. I frequent there, and I have found that site to be really helpful. Something affordable that I get compliments on is Nirvannah Black by Elizabeth and James. You can find this cheaply at discounters and it’s super sensual without being candy sweet.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 02:05 AM
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I would feel even more betrayed than if it was plain vanilla cheating — this is a real problem. The fact that you tried to address it with him and then he regressed made it worse. You know your situation best but this would be a deal breaker for me.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 02:00 AM
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Honestly, I wish I could give you advice like “prioritize husband more” or something along those lines. Unfortunately that wasn’t realistic for me at that time. I’m on my third trimester with baby number two and maybe this time we will pay for cleaning and baby sitting services now and then and go on a date or something. I think I really needed to take care of baby and myself and instead I wish my husband was more emotionally supportive of me, even though he helped a lot physically around the ho…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/18 06:01 AM
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When my first was born I paid significantly more attention to my daughter than my husband, but we were both so busy raising her I don’t think it became a problem until my first was about a year old. Once a year hit we started to get distant: our fighting styles are both advoidance and not confrontational. Now we both work on our relationship together and help raise our daughter together so we are much more happy.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/18 02:44 PM
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Agreed! Sounds like you are getting a lot from both your marriage and career and are blessed to be high earning. It will make you happier to outsource the stuff you don’t want to do and you will be helping the economy too :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/18 02:28 AM
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Maybe this goes against RPW philosophy but I outearn my husband by 25% and he probably outhandles random household responsibilitys over me by 25%. We both do an equal share of parenting. We are very happy and the money thing has never been a problem. We earn enough so that money is never a reason to argue or have a bad day and I am incredibly grateful for his support in parenting and household responsibilities. I just add that there are a lot of ways to marital happiness.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/18 02:24 AM
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I think letting him take care of you a little bit makes him feel like a super hero, and he wants to show you how much you matter to him and how much he appreciates you. Obviously you must be doing something right :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/18 02:47 AM
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I would recommend that you stop the cycle of him getting sex after he yells at you. Try to calm him down in other ways and then “reconnect” once emotions are stable. I think it’s important to set your boundaries especially when that behavior that you are trying to prevent is so unhealthy. I think you know, deeply, that your previous cheating has not been forgiven which is why you explain the scenario in such depth. I’m not sure what you can do about that, but maintaining a distorted perception o…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/18 02:42 AM
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A lot of educated people respect educated spouses. Is your husband someone who will respect you more if you had a chemical engineering degree? Even if you never work a single day, that marital respect stable over a lifetime may be worth your degree alone.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/18 02:32 AM
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