| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 20 | Girl Went Cold after 4th Date | Fundamentals | drinkmorewater24 | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 09:04 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Girl Went Cold after 4th DateOh brother | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Girl Went Cold after 4th DateGood point lol | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Girl Went Cold after 4th DateYea I’m with you on the majority of that alpha male manosphere internet content being BS. But I get it, most of the time (like my case) when women “act up” you either came across as too needy and unmasculine in the first place which turned her off or you’re not picking up on things you should have noticed or she just has issues you can’t control and you gotta walk out/let her miss you and not make her your entire focus. | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Girl Went Cold after 4th DateYeah I see what you’re saying in the end it’s my fault I got way too comfortable and too passive since I put her on this pedestal in my head cus she had “LTR potential” when the clock was ticking the whole time. In today’s dating market you’re getting ghosted by date 3 or 4 max if you’re not intimate yet especially if she an 8+ attractive wise. I just gotta stop letting my high interest in certain women that check most of the boxes of things I want in a partner change my assertiveness cus I’ve c… | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Girl Went Cold after 4th DateGotcha that makes sense. I wasn’t dating her exclusively and was seeing other girls so I’ll just continue to do that and live my life/focus on myself. If she comes back cool, if not it’s cause I dug my own grave so just gotta learn from that and get better. Game is game. | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Girl Went Cold after 4th DateI said in the last sentence I f’d it up there’s nothing else to rationalize I’m just telling you what happened. But yea I see what you’re saying I lost leverage and texting again made me look weaker so I just gotta move on and learn from it. If she reaches out I’ll just invite her over but yea the damage was done I should’ve closed already and now she got friend vibes which f’d it up. Took an L fr. | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Girl Went Cold after 4th DateSo I’m realizing most of this self inflicted on my part now but on that same topic; if you’re noticing certain behavior or things you don’t like from a woman you are dating (let’s say in this scenario you’re been intimate and past date 3/4), calling them out isn’t the right course of action if you want to see improvement in your opinion? | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Girl Went Cold after 4th DateFor context it was a new apartment she just signed a lease for with no furniture she just wanted to show it to me and take measurements cus the date spot was nearby. So logistically it was difficult. But yea I should’ve been like “let’s go to your place or mine” after the make out sesh and been more assertive since we had time before the friends meetup. Also I corrected the typo; it wasn’t a same night date I scheduled the movie night for 5 days later the following Wed (today) and made the plans… | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 09:45 PM |
| 8 | Girl Went Cold after 4th DateFairs I agree | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Girl Went Cold after 4th DateLogistics got in the way I’ve closed on the first date with several women before lol | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happensOne of the best posts I’ve seen on here. Recently was dating a girl for 3 months things were great and trending towards a relationship (chemistry and compatibility, saw each other multiple times in a week a few times, starting caring less about my other options). We stopped seeing each other for about 6 weeks because she had to study for a high stakes exam. After she took it I started planning another date and we picked up where we left off however she was pulling back slightly since we had to r… | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 02:40 PM |
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